There is no love like self-love, no?

So last friday at school I was walking at the hallway & the girl I like was there & I was looking at her but then I looked away then later when we walk past each other again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her but then I looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stopped. But then later I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me. But then later she left class early.

Me and a person that knows me enters in a crowded room of people. I am being myself to all of the people in there. The people on the other hand starts to look at me weird, and some of them abruptly gets angry and punches the wall and some of them makes fun of how I talk and some of them starts to bully me. The person that knows me goes up to them and says "He's different! That's just the way he talk! He is just this way!" They whisper things to her and she says "No he's not like that he's just different that you guys" "This is just the way he is!" I look at all of them very confused now. I talk to the girl who know me, and she won't tell me what they said but tells me "Don't worry about it". what is going on? Why are they like this?

I m 21 & so is my boyfriend, 3 yrs We moved in me him & his mom I know that his mom is very close to him, but we never get to be alone & sometime I feel like it s the 3 of us in a relationship, When we have a disagreement shes in the middle voicing her opinion, if I say something joking around to him shetell me don t say that but if he says something to me she laugh, So I always feel like it s 2 on 1She doesn t have a boyfriend, dont want one she doesn t feel like she needs a man, but she has way to much time on her hands... A couple weeks ago she was drunk, (she s a drinker, maybe 6 or 7 cups a day) she & my boyfriend were having a discussion not a bad one, just about how she feels how she raised him good, I was just minding my own& she veers towards me & "says the problem I have w/you, is that you give to many ppl ur trust, ex. My mom, my bestfriends mom because she doesn t like them, & said she feels like I don t trust her" I cut her off because when she drinks she says this but I don t wanna be the one to say everytime you drink u do this & talk down on me & it doesn t even have to be that subject & my boyfriend doesn t stick up for me, he ll come & hang out w/ me instead of her because he knows she wrong but he wont say none she gets upset w/ him if he leaves with me or is in our room because I guess she feels like he s taking my side I told him its not that I dont trust his mother its jus when she drinks she s a diff person & I don t kno how to take her.... Am I wrong?

So my girlfriend (23) and I (22) have been together for over 4 out of the 10 years we've known each other. I want to make her feel special by taking her to disney world. Since she loves disney and has never been there before I know she will love it. My question is how much money would I need for a 7 day stay over there? Please help me out :)

My boyfriend of 2 years has a very sexual past with multiple people that we both know. At first the jealousy was too much for me, but we decided to work it out and so I tried to focus on the present and our future together. Now, the problem is he loves talking about his past. It's almost like he brags about how he has had sex with all these people. & yesterday he told me his first time "going down on a girl" was when he was 9 years old! With another 9 year old. He said he was curious and had fooled with all the little girls in his class. It really bothered me. I told him it grossed me out and felt that he should stop telling me all these stories. He got mad and told me I needed to look past this and accept it not ignore it. But I don't understand his need for telling me these things. It not only disgusts me that he speaks so proudly of his past sex and mentioning this story of him as a kid, but I also feel like I'm not good enough. I'm not sure what he is trying to convey with these stories. I've asked him upfront if he thinks our sex life sucks, but he always says it doesn't. I don't know how to handle this. Do I ignore it? Do I accept the fact that he loves bragging about his past sex life?

I m 18 my boyfriend is 19 and we ve been dating for almost a year. It all started 2 months ago when his mom approached him saying I was trying to get knocked up on purpose, that I wanted to tie him down, and that she didn t like me. Well me being me I wanted to approach the situation head on. I wanted to confront her and ask her what is that I did to deserve that kind of rude behavior. So that s exactly what I did. I confronted her and asked her why she had said the things she did... Ect. She continued to call me a *****, told my boyfriend "get your ***** out of here", got in my face and threatened to get physical. She continued to call me fat, told me no one cares about me, and told me she going to "******* murder my family. In return I called her a *****. Well deserved right? Well since that incident she has blocked me on all social media as well as talked horribly about me to her entire family. Keep in mind prior to the incident she was so accepting of me and was always texting me. It just so happens I have a car meanwhile her son is in the process of purchasing one. (His mother does not have one). Since the incident she continues to ask my bf if he can go to the store. As if it s not my car we ll be using, as if it s not using the gas I paid for. he tells her no and she throws a tantrum and exits the room and closes the door & continues to stand by the door to see if anyone will talk badly about her. Keep in mind she hasn t apologized.

I don't have anything against homosexuality but damn we're going to run out of straight females soon lol...then what are us guys going to do?!

I really like this guy. This is my first time dating at all, and I m 17. My mom doesn t really want me dating right now, but I want to be with him. She knows that he is my friend but that s it. I don t know how to tell her that I really like him and want to be with him.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months, when we first meant I knew that he had a baby on the way and I was okay with the idea of it. But, now it seems to bother me, because I know how most of these relationships end out. I am scared to lose him, but I feel like once the child comes I am going to be a obstacle in the way of them getting back together. Me and my boyfriend always get into it because I am constantly thinking about it, and he says that he loves me and that there is no chance he would ever get back with her and he told me what happened with them that they apparently were arguing for months before they officially broke up and that she kind of tricked him into getting her pregnant because she got taken off of birth control and didn t tell him. I am just worried like crazy and can t seem to get over it. Any advice? It is eating me alive.

I had an interview a few weeks ago. But because the manger was not a store manager, he couldn't hire me so, we had to have a meeting with a store manger from the other restaurant to come and get us hired. They called Sunday and told me my records came back clean and that they can get me hired. So, the next day Monday, I had to be up there at 9:00 am. Me and the other woman that got hired as well. After the hiring process the store manager said that she'd make sure that the manger gets me my schedule. It has been a complete week! (7 whole days) And it's almost Monday again. I don't know what the hold up could be because, everything was already sent off before they even hired us and came back clear. Everyone I know was hired at a job and given their start date. The employer is suppose to give you a start date/schedule. Not send you home and have you call and ask. They're the employer, they're hiring you. I already started putting in applications for other places. I just find it messed up that they hired me, told me they'll give me a schedule and I'm still waiting.

I've been like this for 5 years now..

(?I have a 17 yo sister who's 6 years older than me and she has this boyfriend, John that she's been dating for over a year. This older kid at school is bullying me. Since he beats me up about a block away from the school building, the teachers say that there's nothing they can do since he isn't doing it on school property. My parents say that: "I need to learn how to handle these things myself" So, I'm just trying to ignore him hoping he'll get bored and stop. I just wish it wasn't so painful, some of these bruises REALLY HURT! John won't stop bugging me: What happened? Who did that to you? Where did you get that? Etc. He just won't quit . What's it to him? What does he want? Why does he care? John interrogates me every time he sees a single mark! I try hiding them but John's not dumb and he knows where he hits me (my back) he's really sneaky and sneaks up on me and lifts back of my shirt real quick to find the bruises. And for some reason when he finds something he seems angry! Why does he get like that? Why is he doing this? Why won't he just stop? What do I do?

Hello everyone, i believe we all have inner struggles some time in ours lives and id like to ask for your opinion... Does anyone have the feeling that they have a bit of both genders in them ? (I can abbreviate if needed) Also at random i suddenly stop what im doing and start breathing deeply. Like a relaxed stare of recovery. the rest of the time i feel like i am in a battle physically and mentally.I feel extremely tired and have no energy..my body feels strained but i always try and think positive. My lifestyle is living alone in a small flat. I'm 18 Male. My parents provide for me while i pursue figure skating. i have gaming hobbies and a YouTube channel...i have a a time job. Me and me parents don't have a good relationship because of religion issues, Still.....doesn't seem like a bad start at life does it ? Why do i still feel this way ? Thank you for taking the time ;)

i fell in love with this beautiful women who is already married and so am i,i know thats terrible but i am extremely unhappy, i put my heart and soul on paper and gave it to her, i could see that she was blown away, we got really close and though i felt guilty i want nothing more than to be the one she says i love you to and means it, she eventually asked me if i was sincere and i told her i was, I've never been so in love in my life, she wrote me this beautiful poem, i have written her poems and songs on my guitar and drew her really beautiful picture of a roses as well, the poem she wrote was so very beautiful but all got out of it was that she was saying how good of a person i was and asking me what it was about her that made her so special to me, if she was saying something else i couldn't see it because i wasn't hearing what i wanted to hear, just before she let me read the poem that she written, i had given her a letter telling her how much i love her i had no way of knowing what she was about to let me read other wise i may not have said those things about being in love w/ her ,anyway the poem was beautiful but it cut deep at the same time and i was so heart broken that it made me really upset ,not mad just really depressed because i was sorta blind sided and caught off guard, she sent me an email later saying that if she knew the poem would have made me feel degraded that she would never have had me read it and that she was sorry, i told her in my reply that i was sorry as well and that it was my fault, i tried to explain that i had some abandonment issues and could she send me a copy of the poem to reread, but she never wrote back since then,now she hasn't even spoken to me since then and it's been almost a week and I'm afraid too to approach her because I'm scared to death of what she will say, now that i have thought about what the poem really said i realize that she was telling me that she was just uncertain and not sure of what she should do,all she wanted was reassurance, i really screwed things up and that was last Thursday, ill see her again this coming Thursday because she works where i live, i dread that Thursday coming, i know I'm going to be really sad and confused and now i feel like no one wants me, i hurt so bad, i really feel like I'm dying,i can't even hold back the tears as i write this, and I've no one that i can talk to, please someone help me or just be nice i don't feel like i can make it, Will Cole I'm miserable.

1. i hate small talks which makes people believe that im snobbish which is actually the opposite . is it okay for me to hate small talk? 2. HAH this one's serious i've this amazing best friend. we're both girls btw but the problem is im not communicative enough w/ her i usually bond w/ her by doing fun activities (im not lesbian btw HAHA) both of us are total opposite with her being the dramatic one and im the other way around. i know she really loves me BUT sometimes i feel anxious that she'll leave me bcs of how uncommunicative i am. maybe it's just me. actually though, is it just me? 3. i also tend to bottle up my feelings. not that i held grudges or anything. i let things go which means im not a passive-aggressive person. is it bad to bottle up feelings ? i cant even open up with my closest family 4. i also dont like responding to texts or anything through the phone. does that make me a bad person? overall i think i am a walking contradiction. do i fit to be called a "outgoing introvert"? im also confused with my questions HAHAHA but still understandable though

HELP OUT YOUR LOCAL CRAZY TYPE OF GIRLFRIEND WILL YA

Aside from drugs, what are some things that you do and it works to control your emotions? I don't have anyone, and I get pretty blue, and lonely sometimes, where I just want to give up. I would never really kill myself, but I'll cry for a straight hour when I get sad like this. It's not good.

I am not really looking for a logical answer if that is OK, I want more of an intuitive understanding of what it is like and feel likes to love someone, something... Despite all the reasoning and logic, science and mathematics, there lies something more important I think in us all... and that is LOVE, the ability to defy or not take into account but act on how we feel, I tried to understand love from a logical perspective like how things with mass attract gravity, or laws of attraction etc... but it doesn't seem or feel right... It would be helpful and I would be great-full if you could give me an understanding of what it means to you and how LOVE has affected your life... some people say we cannot define love, but only define the properties of it, something like gravity I suppose...

acctully my hb is so less so i m taking injections for dr to incress blood, an i also have urine infection so treatment is going on, an today i have sex with my boyfrnd without precautions, an sudenly aftr having meal i start vometing

It s a feeling I get in my stomach when I don t like the way a guy looks. It s like I don t know whether to cry or throw up. Anyone else get that?

I am 22 years old, and due to circumstances I am still living with my Mom and Stepdad. At 21 I was physically abused by my ex fiance, I did go to police and I am still going to court for the case. It was awful, traumatizing and has required therapy and strength on my part. Unfortunately after that happened I did something stupid.... I turned to alcohol to numb the pain. I got a DUI 2 weeks after the incident, and have now been without a job for 14 months. I still work small jobs/gigs to make some money but not enough to live off. Recently my ex posted screenshots of my conversation with a guy that I hooked up with recently on Facebook, as me... My entire family saw it. We talked about sex positions and everything inappropriate you can imagine. Yes I know, I was a slut for hooking up with him, but did I think an ex was going to hack my account and post that conversation on Facebook, no! My Mom told me my life is a wreck, she is disgusted with me and wants me to move out within the next 2 days. I have no where to go. Please help me, I have no where to go and I am very scared. Thank you.

My ex-fence that I have known and been in love with for 16 years has broken my heart and I'm not getting any better. Like I said I've known her for 16 years we finally got together in 2013, and were engaged for two years. The first couple of months were great, even though she drank A LOT. Things started to get bad after that she would drink and either be verbally abusive, and on several occasions she would even hit me face, head, neck. I spent everything I had on her even got us a nice house. She would get drunk almost every night, and then started taking my prescription medications (and the sex was almost non-existent once a month if I was lucky) and scream at me or even at the neighbors, the cop's came by on several occasions. I lived in fear constantly of her drinking and starting a fight with me. On top of that I was the only one working e.i I paid for everything, she didn't get a job until about 6 moths before our break up, and still she didn't help me with any of the bills until pretty much the last month she was here. She has been gone for 2 months now and I still cry on a daily basis, I've tried almost everything to keep her off my mind, I've joined a church that I now also volunteer at, I go to the gym regularly, I got two new jobs (I had to quit mine because she got a DUI in Oct and I felt like I had to protect her job, if they found out she would have been fired). I want to get over this it's just that I've known her for so long now and am still in love.

Seriously. I am always very concerned with other people, and I oftentimes put their needs before my own. I know this is nice, and people appreciate it, but am I doing too much? Is it possible to be too nice for my own good?

Not the cute as in "I want to date her" kind of way but a cute that you might refer to a kitten as. As in how should I react.

My husband and I live with his brother and his wife and their kids because we lost our own apartment after being evicted, it started off fine but now she's being really annoying. She gets mad at me for taking long showers, saying something about their water bill and then gets mad cause I use a different towel everyday, which I think is stupid since I've always used a different towel everyday and taken long showers. Then she tells me that I needed to help her clean up when I'm not even the one who makes a mess and that I shouldn't play makeover with her five year old daughter, which is what her daughter calls it when I give her a play makeover by curling her hair and putting make up on her but its not like she goes in public with it on. She also hates it when my friends come over and says that we are too loud even though it's early when they come over, like 7 in the evening. But anyway she's getting on my nerves and I'm not sure what to do since like I said we have no where else to go but I feel that she has a problem with everything I do. I tried to talk to my husband about it but he won't do anything. What else can I do though?

When you're talking to someone, a certain guy keeps coming back at your answers and talking towards you in a violent, abusive tone of voice, and smart aleck. saying things to invoke a heated fight. Everytime when you talk he answers you like that, and people just stares at you and that guy, and he is trying his best to get something started. is this a form of bullying?

I literally just did and I can honestly say getting my eyes stapled would be less painful and traumatising

I want to change my name but, I'm not sure which one I definitely want. what are some good ways to pick a name? I want to change my name because I don't like my name. Im embarrassed to even introduce myself with it. my name is Anais. (AH-na-eese)

I live in PA we both live at home. I work, she barely works part time but is a dependent in her house. Gets wic, food stamps through her mom and grandma who claim her. my son is also on welfare through them since he lives there. Would she have to use their income to since they receive benefits for supporting her ? I make 1800 net a month and she makes about 500-600 net

We had 6 players and were exhausted. Let's call one of my teammates,"Player X". Player X showed up halfway through the game.Even though she showed up late,my coach immediately subbed her in.Soon I sub in for x. Later I say I need a sub and I sit next to X on the bench.. She says "I just heard Coach cussing!"Without even thinking it through I say the rumor to my teammate, Player Y. I didn't say that X told me when I told Y. And the chain continued till Coach heard. On Wednesday we had practice.My Coach thinks that I had started a rumor and wanted me to meet after practice. I didn't know why he needed to meet up.I forgot what happen. He told my mom to come too. After practice my coach says to my mom,"I called you hear because your child has been starting and spreading rumors to the team that I've been using profanity."I ask when did I do that and he yells at me.I apologized too him after a week of "self-suspension", AKA a break. He didn't seem to forgive me,even though he said so. I went through a painful season of barely any playing time and lots of silent criticism. He didn't even care to listen that I didn't start it. I am a mere link in the chain, not the forger. And even if he would listen to me, I bet X would not get in trouble, because she is the favorite and daughter of our assistant coach. Even though I got selected onto a different team that treats me much better, I still feel really upset every time I think about my former team. How do I come on terms of how I feel?

I have always loved my dog but ever since I got my first period I've been touching Peanuts nuts.... it became a regular thing everytime my parents left the house but now he just sleeps in my room. The other day I licked his penis and gave him a blowj*b and now I cant stop. He seems to like it and i do too. I think I might be in love. Am I the only one that does this? Will my parents accept me? Is it possible to have sex with a dog? Please help xox

I told my boyfriend that maybe we want different things & I feel like he doesn't want a serious relationship. This is what he said - It feels like we're not getting anywhere. We never say the "L" word. - He loves being with me, so it's weird. - What do I want to do? - He's sorry for being like this. What can he do. He doesn't know what to do - He cares about me too. - When I said maybe he should have a break from everything (meaning me), not just work (he's sick at the moment), he said maybe we can meet up the weekend to clear the air. The next day he text me like normal. Today he said he's still in bed, really hopes I'm ok. He's been so ill & he's useless. He's really sorry

FYI I was the one he cheated with not cheated on. As soon as I found out he had been Lieing to be about being single he said its best we don t speak again and cut me off. I really miss him but I am not going to reach out to him at all. It s been 1 year. He has a quote up for months about how he is greedy and lustful. Other than that he has me blocked. Is he completed the over me?? The girl he is with whom he cheated on is his wife/cousin whom he married in an arranged marriage