I was obviously the third wheel and we sat in my car. And they ended up making out in the back in the back of my car. They made out for 10+ minutes. And she sent me a text after "U didn t tell us to stop so we didn t"

If you have ever dated a younger woman before (i.e I am 25 and the man I'm interested in and who I think likes me is 40), how did you let her know you were interestedin dating rather than just being nice? He was a teaching fellow of mine at my law school and now has been promoted at another university, and I work at a firm so we dont have that student-teacher conflict anymore (and havent for 1.5 years now!) He asked a mutual friend of ours once to ask me if i had a boyfriend, and another time, this same friend asked me how old I am and when I answered (I was 24 at the time), he said "See, she's 24" to the guy. When I was looking for housing over the summer, he connected me with one of his female colleagues who needed a roommate. This other time, I was meeting his same colleague for dinner & he just showed up on the way &when I was surprised she saud "oh I hope u dont mind I invited (guy) bc he REALLY likes u." He's asked me about my plans for the future, where i want to live and do in my career, and we've been out for dinner and coffee twice. Would you do those things with a girl youre just platonic with? Does it sound like he likes me or just being nice?

I'm giving someone a ******* tomorrow night help me what do I do?? I'm giving someone a bj tomorrow night,help me what do I do???

So i met this guy through Instagram (i know) but we both found each other attractive, he gave me his number and we started talking. we began talking last Wednesday. he is 21 i am 17. he said he didn't have an issue with the age difference as long as i'm not trying to get him in trouble. we hit it off really well - he was super sweet and seemed more interested in me than i was in him. we talked about our interests and i told him we should go go kart racing sometime and we made plans to go last saturday. however i had plans to go to the movies last thursday night and i invited him but he had to work early in the am so he politely declined but he asked if i could stop by his house on the way to the theater so we could meet and talk. i did so and we talked for about 2 1/2 hours on his living room couch and things went great, we even kissed before i left. we texted all day friday and the morning of saturday. however when it got to about 3pm he wouldnt respond to my texts at all. around 7pm i saw he was tagged in some photos on facebook (not sure if he was with family or friends). i immediately got hurt because i spent 2 1/2 hours getting ready and he could've at least called to cancel our plans. it is now monday and i haven't heard from him since and he has been inactive on all social media. i am just so confused but i don't want to come off as an obsessive or crazy person. what should i do? i was really into him and he seemed really into me..

Okay, so there is this guy who I really like and he is one of my best friends. He has a girlfriend but he has told me and many of his other friends that he doesn't like her. Along with that, his girlfriend likes someone else. He has told me he has a crush on me but I don't understand whats holding him back from dating me and I need advice

Hi I'm dating this guy (well a few but this is the one I LIKED the most, we are not exclusive). Anyway tonight we had plans to go to the park with our dogs, we were both ALREADY there and he was trying to find parking and was kinda mad I didn't mention it was parallel prking (not all of the spots, like where I was you just pull right in). So he told me he's looking and then 10 min later he calls and says "ok I'm just gonna go home, bye" so I was like ....ok bye. But was pretty angry because I came all that way too and could've done something else with my night!!! He could've asked to go someplace else since we were both there already. This would've been the second date. I Unfriended him on FB and he sent me a Whatsapp message angry because he saw that and then pretty much blamed it on me because I "didn't mention it was parallel parking" he has been single for a while and I see why. We had an argument after and I think he turned his phone off. Or am I being dramatic? What's up with that?

So there's this girl I met at work. Long story short we talked/went out and I ended up breaking it off.. 3 times. First 2 was because I just wasn't into her so out of respect I broke it off. She kept coming back so I ended up dating her again then the 3rd time when I actually started to like her.. I heard rumors about her messing with other co workers. Because of a past experience and me ignoring the warnings and getting screwed over bad by a girl, my idiot self just ended it with her. I call myself an idiot because after found out that everything was false and she's an angel and she was crying over me and what not. I felt terrible so I apologized as much as I could in person and admitted being wrong and took responsibility. She said she wanted to be friends then the next day over text I asked her again and she said she wanted space. I sent her pink roses to show her I was sorry but she still hasn't spoken to me at all since that text message. I was told that she's upset and wants to make me suffer a little for the breaking up with her thing and believing rumors over her. I don't know if I should wait for her and let her come back when she wants or just move on to someone else though. Her friend said she's afraid I'll leave her again if she just takes me back again and we end up getting in a relationship so she wants to just do friends and that she's having doubts of rejecting me cause she apparently likes me too much but she hasn't talked to me in days. Please help? People are telling me to just leave her alone and let her contact me when she wants

Have a girlfriend that was pretty and a whore, meaning she liked a lot of guys and could probably get any one she wanted , or a girl that was pretty, but nothing to drool over and she was very commited to you . What would you rather have , honestly ?

I like this guy and we've been talking for a while. I wouldn't exactly say we are in a relationship but we practically are. When it comes to nudes he doesn't ask if he can have some. He'll ask if I would like to send/receive any. And if I say no he would be alright with it . He's not like all the others I've said no to who would get mad at me. He would move on and continue being the best thing ever in my life. Again he's not my boyfriend but my last boyfriend would ask me to send something to him and if I said no he would get mad and argue that sending nudes shows that I appreciate him. I guess I'm just really confused. Like does he genuinely feel for me?

I am really interested in finding out why people do not shake with the left hand?

I had just finished showering a few hours ago. I forgot to close the window and I was drying off, and I saw a teenage boy staring at me with binoculars. Should I do anything about it...?

This guy is mad at me and not talking to me because I ditched and lied to him so many times when we were supposed to hookup. He hasn't talked to me in 4 weeks because the last time I did that to him, he text me "All you did was ditch and lie you f-ing stupid b-tch" and then stopped texting me and didn't respond to any of my texts after that. I haven't tried texting him in 4 weeks. Will he talk to me again if I wait a little longer and try texting him again?

She is 5'4 with dark brown roots and blonde ombre starting at the very top, she has a perfect body, and her boobs, ohhh, she has white skin, like maybe 1-2 shades darker than "White" . Does she sound hot ?

what does this mean " dream outing " ?? thanks reply

I'm 26 female and I come to realize that I love my mom so damn much and I think it's becoming unhealthy I have anxiety and most of it is to losing her I'm so afraid to lose my mom if she's not home and I call her and she doesn't answer I begin to freak the fk out I feel the guys she date isn't good enough for her I just love her and a never want her to be unhappy is this bad ?

Its annoying i just go there to have fun dancing with all my friends

He s been to my place several times but only briefly. Maybe he ll sleep over but he soon leaves. It s true that my place is less private than his and it s also much smaller (plus parking sucks) but those aren t really the reasons. Those are just minor excuses. I have been to his place nearly every day for over a year now. And I love being with him. I have trouble getting rid of things. I m not a hoarder by any means but I am always wishing to empty out my life of things I never use or wear or things that carry old memories. Occasionally I will give a bag of things away but it s never soon enough for me. I guess part of me worries that if he every looks into my things, he will find something I don t want him to find. Some ancient memory that even I have forgotten and that I don t want to remember or that might upset him. What is my problem? I ant to move on and accumulate new experiences and things. Not be weighed down by this fear of him rejecting me due to my piles of old memories. I don t really know what I am asking. Well, I do. I want to know why it s so hard for me to invite him over when he is so happy to have me at his place. In the past I have always spent more time at boyfriends homes than mine too. It s like my place is my cave and I pile up a ton of crap to hide in and then if anyone comes close to it, I freak out inwardly. How can I get over this???? Any tips? Thank you. For the record, I'm 25, so it's not a case of me living at home as a teen bound by parents' rules.

Please before you jump to judgments or assumptions, hear me out. I have this coworker that I'm beginning to fall in love with: She is kind, pretty, talkative and just a beautiful soul, I'm thankful for her, she single handedly made me love going into a job that I used to hate before she joined. But at Las, she's already in a relationship, and a good one. I would NEVER do anything to ruin her relationship, but I can't just stop thinking about her. We're already great friends, she even told me once that I treat her better than her other friends and even sometimes her own boyfriend. Like I said I won't make a move until.. or if she's ever single again, but until then I want to improve my chances just in case. What can I say or do that will make me appear to her as a potential boyfriend later in life?

biological children specifically....**

like what signs do you show when you like someone

how do people break a finger its so hard for that little thing to break so im curious how people do that

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 years now. and he is on a wheelchair. He is not able to walk but he has can do many things so his condition is not that bad. My family treats me like if I committed a crime being with him, but I feel like he is the best thing that's ever happen to me. So my question is why should my family be so sensitive to my relationship? Why can't they see that he makes me happy? any advice?

There's this girl that has been my best friend pretty much since I met her in october. Our normal consisted of talking regulary, holding hands on walks and in public, sleeping in the same bed whenever I slept over and just basicaly being completly, normal around each other. In december she asked if I liked anyone, like a crush and it took a couple of hours for her to convince me to finaly tell her, that it was her. We made out and did some other stuff, but nothing too major. Then, the 4 energy drinks kicked decided not to agree with my heart condition and I had arythmia. We decided to go to sleep after that(We called my parents first though to make sure if I could stay)The next morning **** hit the fan.At first it wasn't that bad but the next time we saw each other it was like we didn't exist. At first I tried talking to her, asking about what happened, but as the days grew by I gave up hope. In Febuary I went on a trip to a completly diffrent continent for a whole month. I didn't reach out and neither did she. Then, a couple weeks after I came back, completly randomly, she started talking to me again. We went on a walk and she apologised for that night and for being a complete *** afterwards. I accepted, happy that we put this behind us and that I finnaly could just have her around me. We never got back to the same level of intimacy as before this whole thing. Not because I still had feelings for her (althought im not denying I did not) but because I just couldn't feel completly comfortable again.But all that couldn't last that long of course. I ****** up again. I have been self harming for about a year before I even met her, and then I started with the energy drinks and just not caring about myself. She didn't like either of those things, but she let them pass whilst still keeping an eye on me. But then my stupid *** had to start smoking. My cousin somehow got her snapchat and sent her pictures of me smoking and thats how she found out. 'Cos I sure as hell wasn't gonna tell her. She got really mad and sent me the pictures on messenger, but because I was out with another friend at the movies I didn't see untill I got a text from her telling me to go on messenger. I told her I couldn't. We talked a bit by text with her swearing me out and then finaly telling me what was wrong. I was surprised to say the least. Then when I got home and had a look at the photos I called her. She told me that she was really mad at me at first, but now after nearly 10 hours, she see's that she souldn't have been. That she shouldn't have cared. And I agreed because isn't it better for someone you really care about to hate you and move on, then to have them close and keep hurting them? Anyway, tommrow school is starting again and I don't know what I should do. Should I talk to her about it? It's only been a few days (4) or should I just let it be for the next couple of days, just so that we both can get our minds around things? Also, I have decided that either way, I want to earn her friendship back. I have decided to quit smoking, self harming, to be more open about myself and my feelings and to stop shutting people out. What do you guys think? Thanks for thaking the time to read all of this. A best anwser will be awarded!! I just need some advise...

So im a sophmore in highschool. My group of friends are all super attractive girls. Im attractive but I'm sure every guy would choose one of my friends over me. I used to really like this guy, but my friend had a thing for him, so i backed off.Then another friend just goes and hooks up with him. I was so annoyed. I always let my friends have the guys, which i mean if a guy is into me and my friend likes him, i let my friend pursue him. I think friendships are more important than guys, thats why i do this. At a party on saturday I met this super nice and attractive guy. We were hitting it off, he had his arm on me and stuff. I go and talk on the phone for literally 2 minutes and my best friend is literally laying on the floor cuddling with him. I keep getting screwed over. I have awful look when it comes to guys. It makes me sad that i dont get any good karma or anything for being a good friend. Should I just start being selfish?

We've been exclusive for 2 months. He's been really affectionate lately. He told me I'm the only girl he's ever comfortably held hands with, and that I'm the best cuddle buddy ever. He boops my nose, kisses me on the cheek, he kissed me on the forehead and hugged me for a really long time after sex, he told me he likes it when I sleep over. He lets me wear his t-shirts to bed and spoons me until I go to sleep. I don't know, do you do things like these for girls you don't love? He's only been doing all of this for the past week, before then he acted "cool" but now it's like he's so romantic. What's going on?

Do women get turned on by a man who reaches their hand out and kisses their front hand? Is that a sign of romance and being confident? Whether any beautiful women you meet and even if that woman you meet has a bf or is married, will it still be appropriate and a turn on to kiss a woman's hand like that with reaching out and just gently kissing it as introducing yourself including a date? Because I see some men who are formal and if they are at a nightclub, bar, or at a restaurant, they will lay out the girls hand and reach for a kiss on the hand but nowhere else and the women seem to love that!

So I have a crush that won't go away, we used to talk a little but haven't talked for ages because of changes in our lives but I still can't stop thinking about her. I just want an answer, will just ask her for a number and a coffee, if it's a yes then great cause she's the only girl I've ever liked to this degree, if it's a no then I get relief. It's just when I'm around her she's normally with a few friends and I always get a feeling in my stomach that makes me nervous and I can't act normally lmao. How do I get past this feeling, and in that moment get the courage to just ask her out in private confidently?

I wrote a description in the answers below. My fault but its important.

it usually goes away, but sometimes it last like an hour and i want to know if there is a way to stop it faster.

I'm 18. I'm everything I should in my life. I go to college ,work,etc. don't say I'm too young or anything blah blah I want to have someone in my life that can b my best friend, make me laugh hug me kiss me. I have no one and it sucks. Guys I like reject me but recently more guys have shown interest in me but there the wrong type of guys for me :( people always ask me y I don't have one. I like a guy at a place I worked at last month but we don't know each other :( I'm going to see him this week n speak to him but u doubt he likes me at all n if I ask for his number it will creep him out since we don't know each other. I will prob never have a chance with any guy ever. I really wanna get to know this guy I like rn but it's stupid for me to believe we will b together. That doesn't exist with me. I gave bad luck

This girl told me to text her on kik. I texted her , she told me to meet up with her cause we were from the same city. I was assuming it was a hook up , so i sent her a fake nude. She then said she was the FBI and they are coming to get me. I told her it was a fake nude , but she wouldn't believe me. It's been an hour. Is this legit?

I still like my ex gf, its been a month since the breakup. But for now, I want to at least break the no contact, but everytime I try to say hi or talk to her, or even SEE her, its like a fire starts to burn inside me and i get angry and emotional inside. I really need help.

I don't feel good enough. I'm so self conscious and unhappy with my body and appearance. He never hesitates to tell me I'm beautiful and so on and he tries so hard to get me in the mood but it just doesn't work. How do I fix this?!

This has been pondering me all year now. I ve had experienced similar but not as deep. So, let s begin: 9th grade, I ve been friends with colin and he introduced me to Nick, who apparently was in my gym class. Ever since we started playing together with colin and others. I slowly began to grow affection to him, not sexually but more emotionally. Like I crave to see him. Every time I talk to him I m in love, and I just love him for him. I ve been having dreams about him and they just make me so emotional. The problem is he s an average guy so he wouldn t take this as normal most likely. I don t know what to do. I doubt he thinks the same but I really wanna express myself to him, although many times he s said he s Christian and he doesn t believe in being gay. Please help, I ll give more detail if needed.

like once a month, does this mean I dont love her??????????? because I do, so whats this mean

I started a new job as a hostess 2 weeks ago, I was in the kitchen waiting for my food when one of the line cooks, Mike, asked if i wanted to pull a joke on someone with him, he said go up to jake and say " So thats how you feel" I felt awkward so i said no lol.. then Jake walked back in the kitchen and said , "Mike which hostess are you trying to talk to i will help you out", cuz I guess he found out about the joke.. then mike said " I wanted you to say that to him because jake thinks your cute"... So i was confused lol what do you think?

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so why is this?? I love her (lesbians) we've been dating 10 months, its long distance for now. Wondering why it annoys me? and if I dont reply back right away to she gets made which pisses me off. texting that much cant be good but telling her any of this would make her think I dont love her. What should I do? I have school, work , AND her, I really would lilke some free time, shes amazing but I dont like her getting mad when I dont reply fast

I'm a girl from California & I hate that Mexican men look at me and hit on me. Mexican men are so unnattractive.

Ex told me on snapchat that he already has a girlfriend and he cant talk anymore. Then when i viewed his snapchat story he blocked me. And then after a few days unblocked me. Why? Please help? I really hate him

im an 18 year old guy, and lately ive been hanging out with a 23 year old girl. she said she enjoys hanging out with me because im very mature for my age. and before we started talking she said she judged me because she thought id be very immature. What does she mean. by saying im mature for my age??????

I just forgot, is all.

I met a guy I'm interested in 6 months ago at a Church I was visiting. He asked for my number, but never asked me to hang out. I saw him a couple times after at that church but then joined a different church and haven't seen him since. We catch up a little on text about once a month but usually I initiate. A couple months ago I mentioned something about setting him with my friend (bc he didn't seem too interested in me) but he never got back with me about it. A couple days ago he kept continuing the text conversation- so I decided to ask him to let me know if he wants to catch up sometime in person. He said yeah suggested hanging out this weekend and he offered to drive to my town (45 mins away). Do you think there is a good chance he is potetially interested in me? I just don't know why he wouldn't have been more forward initially..don't want to get my hopes up..

I went on a date with a guy who is interested in me, he told me he is very attracted to me after the first date. He always keeps in touch via text message. He also took me out on a date to go eat out and we made out too, it was romantic; by the beach. The next morning he told me how much he enjoys my company. Its been two days since that night, and he has just disappeared on me. Hasnt texted me in two days. he is 26 years old and he told me he was moving very soon, and he also works and goes to the gym. However, before he was still great at keeping in touch. Ive been losing my mind recently i know guys dont play hard to get, but does anyone think he might be? or is he just busy? Hes a Gemini...

I don't have any classes with her but I did last year and we were kinda friends but never talked outside of school. We have similar interests with and she's extremely pretty but for some reason there aren't guys swarming around her. Her birthday is in a couple of weeks and since she actually snap chatted me a month ago I was gonna snap chat her happy bithtday. For some reason she doesn't really hold a conversation and basically stopped answering after my snapchat. So how can I carry out a conversation with that will continue later on so I can build a friendship

Do you ask the girl/woman can you kiss her hand or you just kiss it?

I have a gap in my teeth I think its big. My boyfriend tells me he doesnt see one and my parents say its small. But would guys find a gap attractive?

I like a guy at a warehouse I work in some Saturdays from an agency but there hasn't been work in a month. He spoke to me once n smiled n last time I worked he was staring at me a few times. I am going to stop by the place to speak to him for a few minutes n start the friendship from there. However should I: 1. Have a short convo with him n be like ok bye/ see u later 2.have short convo then ask for his number 3. Have short convo then stop by the place a few other times once a week then ask ask for his number I don't wanna ask him out right away cuz we don't know each other , also would it be wierd to stop by the place when I'm not working, even tho the security won't mind if I saw I'm stopping by to talk to someone. I can't talk to him for a few times cuz I don't work there for now .. The only thing I could do is stop by the place every week but I don't think it will b ok cuz I don't work there right now. U can't ask someone for thier number if u have never met either , so I'm stuck but I really wanna talk to this guy :(