We had planned our perfect wedding for September, but unfortunately her divorce process from her ex-husband (they've been separated for 5 years, she just never filled out the divorce papers until we got engaged) took longer than she had expected, so she will not legally be divorced until October. Can we still have the wedding ceremony that we had planned, and then make it official in October?

i know it's kind of a faux pas to wear white to a wedding, since white is supposed to be only for the bride. but what about wearing white to the bridal shower? is it better with a colorful cardigan?

I proposed to my long time girlfriend (7.5 yrs) last week. we planned a wedding for October 2018. We purchased a house last month also. we both currently work full time. shes looking to go from 45hrs to 25 a wk to pursue her MBA. my concern is saving enough for the wedding. est wedding cost is 35-40k, we both have huge families and dont want to settle for a wedding. i proposed that she wait til we get married and she wasn't too happy. my current income is 95k and hers is 55k. im 24 shes 23.

So I wanna have sex with my sister.. Sounds weird I know but I just find her so hot! I want to know how to set it up? Like how do I make my move? I wanna go down the road of something to do with my underwear so like she has to see it then I will get a *****.. The ideal situation would be for us to be talking about my underwear then for me to ask a question that will make her have to look, when she looks I will get a ***** and then hopefully she will touch it and I will say do it again and then it will pan out from there? Anyone got any ideas that could help set this up?

I'm having people RSVP through my wedding website, and the way it works is when you put in your name, your whole family that is invited pops up (Provided I put them there) and for each member you select whether or not you are coming and what dish you want. I know that when people specifically don't want children at their wedding they address the invitations to "Mr. John Smith and Mrs. Sally Smith" as opposed to "The Smith Family." I don't want to go with the latter because I do want to be specific about who I invite. Some toddlers might be old enough to eat the food but some of the younger babies won't be old enough for more than a couple bites. So how do I do this? Do I just let the babies have a meal selection and hope the parents are super hungry? Or do I take them off the invitations and tell the parents themselves that the children are invited?

So I found the ring box in a small bag in our room while I was looking for a charger I thought he may have forgotten in there after a trip he took. I saw a little black box briefly, then I put it back without looking inside because I felt guilty enough for accidently finding the box itself. I'm pretty sure it's for an engagement ring since we've talked about it a lot and he doesn't give me expensive jewelry often (just a necklace once), I just wasn't sure how soon it would be. My issue now is that I see that bag everyday and it's like torture. I keep imagining what the ring looks like, and thinking I should at least look at the box again, then imagine myself quickly opening it and each time it's a struggle to say no. I'm worried that it'll take him months to pop the question and I'm not sure if I have the will power to not look for that long. I wish I never found the box, or that somehow he knew to hide it better so that I won't be tempted. What should I do? Or how do I keep strong? Or should I just cave? I can't even hide the bag from myself because then he'd know and I don't want to pressure him or disappoint him by telling him (although that's the other hard thing to keep to myself). Thank you!

It's a few months away, but I'm not looking forward to it. My 19 year old brother won't be there, so my mom is overcompensating and wanting me to be her bridesmiad + give her away + make a whole thing out of us becoming a "family" and she wants me to do special dances with her, her fiance and his kids who'll be there. It's making me wish I could break my leg or something so I won't have to do most of it. Anyway, the reason I'm looking for advice is because my mom and I have a s***** relationship. She was never really there for us and then she left us with our grandparents for a couple of years while she and her fiance (who was her boyfriend at the time) moved around the place and had fun. When they did come back, we were pretty much told we were there to help with his youngest kids (his adult kids cut him out years ago apparently). My brother moved out and my mom started hell because he refused to drop everything and drive her whenever she wanted, which she made him do when he was still living with us. I didn't have my license at the time, so I couldn't drive her either. She loses her temper a lot and even when she told me she was marrying him, she got so angry because I didn't seem happy. Things took an even bigger turn for the worst when my mom said my grandparents weren't going to be there and she told me I would have to make up for it. I wish I could. I'm 16 and could probably get to stay with them if they had the money to fight in court.

I'm planning my wedding and would like one book or source I could go to to help me with all my preparations. Any suggestions?

Sorry, people. This was intended as a test to see why somebody ELSE's question, of the same wording, was in the category it showed up in. And this is an even more ridiculous category for it!

my fiance and i are getting married, we were wondering instead of doing a gift registry, should we make a gofundme page for people to give money to our honeymoon instead, since we live together already, and have things you would ask for on a gift registry.

I've been asked to be a bridesmaid in my brother's wedding. I've never been in a wedding before. In fact I've only been to six weddings or so my entire live and have never brought a date to a wedding. Anyways, I'll have been with my boyfriend over one year by the time the wedding roles around. The formal invitations are supposed to be out sometime in the next few weeks. I don't know if I'm authorized to bring a guest or not. The wedding is out of town three hours away. The rehearsal dinner is on a Friday. So we'd have to take Friday off of work and then get back into town late Sunday night. I'm not sure how interesting the wedding would be for my boyfriend. He's only knows the bride and groom, my parents and a few aunts and uncles. I'll be with the bridal party most of the time. The wedding is going to be huge as in 300+ guests. She has a large family. I know that the amount of people has caused some stress between my brother and fiancée. What do you think is proper? It would be nice to have him there but it depends if he's invited. I also don't want it to be too boring of a weekend for him since we won't be together much. Thanks for your advice.

Me and my GF wanna get married but don't know who should walk her down the aisle. My GF's father left when she was a little girl. My GF's mom was never really there for her since she was always on drugs. Me and GF's mom don't talk anymore. I got in an argument with my GF's sister because she got too involved in our relationship. Her sister is one of those fat ugly girls with no BF so she gets involved in others relationship. And then the mother wanted to get involved and started saying i was no good for her daughter. How come she didn't say i was "no good for her daughter" when she needed a favor from me? Anyway, my GF's mother treats her other daughters way better than she treats my GF. I kinda don't think she would even go to our wedding. My parents first child was a girl but she died a baby. After she died all my parents had was 3 boys. They never got to have another girl. They really love my GF and would love to walk her down the aisle. Could they do it?