this has been bothering me so much. i like this guy and apparently he asked my closest friend if i've ever had my first kiss before. and she told him she doesn't know , and he was like, "oh, cause she tells you everything," and it's like why does he want to know? am i too ugly to be kissed or something? he likes this really pretty girl who attends my school. so there is no way he would like me. i honestly don't even know anymore.

It's been almost 2 years since I dated this guy. I loved him very much, but we parted ways because he got deployed. He's got a girlfriend, but still emails me every couple of months. I finally asked him what does he want from me. He never answered me. I've let it go. He broke my heart and so much has happened since then. I don;t hate, though most people say I should. I just want him to stop popping up and let me go. I changed my number. I don't know what to do with this...

My boyfriend is currently in the Army. I spoke with him last two weeks ago. When I spoke with him we had a good conversation and he told me that he loved me. He told me that he was sad because he was going through hard times and asked if I could assist him. I told him that I would if I could, but I was unable to. I called him a week later and he did not answer. Soon after he turned off his phone. The next few days I called but he didn't answer. I texted him but he didn't reply. I don't know what is going on. His best friend is on my facebook page. I was tempted to write to him to see if I could get any info but I decided against it.

I m 16 and me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. I know so much about him and I m with him almost all day every day. I m super comfortable with him. But sometimes I get the tiny spark of feeling where he s just some guy I met and I know nothing about him, technically a stranger. It makes me feel sad and lonely and I don t know why I sometimes feel that way.

So I started dating this guy from school 4 months ago we are both 17 well when we were only dating for about a week my mom thought it was a good idea to invite him over.. Well my brother was bouncing around yelling doing what little 10 year old do ..well he told my brother to go smoke weed in a joking way and now my mom won't let him explain himself and she doesn't want me to be around him or be his gf I've tryed talking to my mom. He has been trying to come over to talk to my parents and see if he can get a second chance but my mom is being hard headed and my dad does whatever my mom tells him to do.. How should I go about getting this situation fixed??

My mom thinks its wrong, but my Aunt (15 years old, like a sister to me) doesnt think it is. Is it right or wrong?

I just don't get it. I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend, but he was there and he seemed interested, so I started talking to him after class, and he was shy but indicated that he was interested. But just when I thought things were going well, he suddenly acted distant. He was polite but no longer as responsive, and I have no idea what I did that was so wrong. I think the worst part is he's friendly to everyone else, so it just feels like there must be something wrong with me that he can't stand me.

I'm desperate enough to compliment fat chicks and ugly black bitches while they respond with a 1 word text ******* ridiculous I know but I want to experiment what having sex is like so I'll be ordering a prostitute for around $50 I guess if the girl accepts payment I'm not the only desperate one around huh so yeah help please i have a problem I'm enabling n/iggers I want no part in someone's own delusion these n/iggers take **** up the *** when they are lied to. N/iggers are surely unattractive. One will actually think we're on the same level just because I mistakenly said something nice to someone ugly. No, ***** I'll even put my picture here so people can understand I'm I suffer from nice guy syndrome myself so bad that I'm resorting to prostitutes. Anyways my picture http://i65.tinypic.com/20gin1e.jpg

Whenever I see an attractive girl I immediately get insecure and depressed about myself because I'm not good looking enough for them to be with me I'm fat ugly short poor and I'm white and attractive girls these days only like black dudes or Hispanic guys or mixed race guys and I look young for my age I'm 22 but look like I'm only 17 and I never had a girlfriend or been kissed and literally every attractive girl I see makes me hate myself cause I'm not good enough here's what I look like Instagram.com/steven_benner

This girl, whenever we see other she most of the time compliments me by saying either I like your shirt or your hair looks great or you should be a model, etc. Sometimes she touches my face and nose and kinda .......pets me. Maybe these are sign that she likes me but She has a "Boyfriend". I can t help myself , probably gonna kiss her if next time she tries to get close.

I'll try to keep it short and I'm probably overthinking it. I have a class where we have a team project so I'm in a team and there's this guy who asked me questions about myself - where I'm from, where do I live, what do I plan to do now since I am graduating. We had a team meeting and when we were about to go our separate ways he asked me what I'm going to do next. Next he teased me about giving me more parts in the project when I clearly said I am not a good public speaker. Today, we had to work in teams in class and we had to do a small presentation on Walt Disney and he said that they are gonna open a new theme park in Shanghai and said to our team we should take a group trip and the other members said like yes (like I'm sure they are all joking) and he said to me we should go Tiff and I said yeah but I don't know if that meant we should go just the two of us or as a team (in a joking manner) Okay thanks

OK so I have this friend who goes to my church and one day she brings her friend and start talking. This happens everyday and she is smiling a lot and she laughs a lot. Thanks

is this a parallel universe we live in? back in the 50's men CHASED the beautiful women- hot women were liked and men had an interest in them. These days, men CHASE the fat/ugly creepy women- in fact if a woman is repulsive looking she'll always be taken.. beautiful women basically are being treated the same way the ugly women should be treated but aren't, and the ugly women are fawned over and catered to by crazy men. eg: im a drop dead gorgeous woman- Look like a famous actress, beautiful and SUPER down to earth im not tall or intimidating- im petite and cute- kind of like britney spears or selena gomez. im sexy and hot- and sweet. Most men HAUL *** when they see me- i mean, men RUN away or they get mean or aggressive or abusive towards me. Most try to get in my space or try to even run over me like push me out of the way. Men are aggressive and mean to me. then they run to their 300lb GF who looks like an ugly version of jabba the hut and are ready to lick the toe fungus in between her nails-- what is going on in this whacked out parallel universe here? If I offer sex soon we're in a bedroom where he's trying to hurt me or abuse me not give me any pleasure- heck once a guy began lightly hitting me. If i ask them to lick my pussy they act as if im asking for a million dollars, refuse then ask me to suck their d*ck then run off to some hideous troll looking female who's 250lbs, has massive amounts of cellulite, butter oozin then run off to some hideous troll looking female who's 250lbs, has massive amounts of cellulite, butter oozing from her sweat glands and BEG to eat her out to 10 orgasms, while she's saying NAH, NOT TONIGHT- MAYBE? and they're ready to lick her entire body, while theyre rejecting the super hot gorgeous female and trying to screw her over..wtf?? most men look at me as if GRRRR I HATE YOU?!!! I WISH YOU DIDN"T EXIST?!!! they enjoy pissing me off, hurting me, doing anything ot be offensive or mean to me. most are trying to play me if they ever get a chance, get rude psycho, put me down, if i give one opinion about something they call me crazy and want to run off. they try to hurt destroy or dominate me. if i say "the sky is nice" they get offended...if im happy they get offended and angry..they'll do something mean to upset me

So I messaged my ex for the first time in 2 years,and actually got a response, things were going good, he was flirting some an d talking about how I crossed his mind the other day and he wondered how I was and asking me questions about my life and telling me about his...then he brought up the past and how much fun he had making out with me, etc and how sex would have been great if we had done it 2 years ago when we were together.. and then suggested if I wanted to we could now...well I happily declined...we continued to talk and catch up...idk if he just wants me for sex or he still cares. Idk what to do, just don t wanna get hurt again...i still care for him and I mean he was my first love...

Ok so me and this kid in my school are both 13 I followed him on Instagram and followed me then I messaged him and he asked me for nudes I said I would only do it if he did it so he said I had to go first but apparently the photo I sent wasnt good so I said him another one then he sent me one and we did it on snapchat 6 times but the whole time we did it I dint know he was taking

ok, so I'm super good friends with this kid and w shave a TON in common! even more then this other girl. so every once in a while we FaceTime. today was the last straw. I said "hey! we should FaceTime tonight" and he goes "o" and I'm like "what" and he says "idk I mean sure if Maria falls asleep or some ****" and I'm like "k thanks" and he's like "what" and I just say "you'd talk to me if Maria falls asleep" and he's goes "yeah" so I just said "k" and I know there not dating, and I have no clue if he likes her. I feel akward asking him if he does though. advice?

I've liked this guy for most of the school year on and off. He's friends with a few of my friends (I'm friends with him just not that close) and my best friend sends me screenshots of him calling me hot in their group chat but he never actually tries to talk to me irl. Also on the group chat my friends are in he talks about a bunch of girls and acts like he's not interested in a relationship (implying he's interested in sexual stuff i guess), but a few days ago he said he tries to snapchat me but the conversation never lasts so he's going to start texting me. He snapchats me pretty often but it's usually the same stuff that ends up on his story so I kinda assume I'm not supposed to respond and start a conversation idk. Over text i feel like the conversations are kinda formal and weird and I can't tell if that's because I'm not interesting enough to keep the convo going or if he just wants sex from me and doesn't care about what I say. We're both sophomores in high school, I'm a little bit sexually experienced but I'm pretty sure he's not at all. But I'm usually not that romantically attracted to the guys I like, but I am romantically attracted to him, so that whole comment about him not wanting a relationship and only wanting sexual stuff kinda hurt. Obviously he didn't intend for me to hear about it but still. I mean he could just be a nervous dumb boy who acts super confident, but i don't know. We talk over snapchat a little but he doesnt try to talk to me irl

ok so me and this girl have been talking a lot mainly through msgs and text after exchanging numbers. We seem to have a lot in common, she seems to like helping people in need (works with the elderly and is a nurse) i definitely respect those qualities about her and we like a lot of the same music and sports. She said this sunday she'd be free and now im trying to think where should i take her. Coffee and movies sound nice to me but maybe something more active? i can't make my mind up. Any suggestions? she told me she is up for anything really

Why cant i get a girlfriend or any friend? I have 5 brothers. all of my brothers have had girls approach them and 4 of my brothers have a lot of friends and are very socialable.. Me and my closest brother have social anxiety and ptsd. So we both are not very socialable. But my brother made friends becaise he didnt talk and everybody thought he was really cool.. I hang out with him everyday and hes had a total of 14 girls approach him all through middle school and high school and college.. I have never had a girl approach me and i have asked out 3 different girls in high school.. One of them lied to me and said they couldnt go to prom with me because their grandma died after she already accepted my invitation to prom. And it turned out that she went with someone else instead. Another girl laughed at my face and said " hahaha No WAY, your just a cool friend" and the last girl was honest with me and said. "Your a cool person to hang with, and you help me with a lot of my problems :). I also have a crush on this one guy and i want to try to make it work with him".. I liked her honesty the most of all 3. I am a good looking guy, im fit, well groomed, and have good hygene. But i could never understand why i failed and all of my brothers succeeded.. All of them have been approached by girls including my brother who has the exact same mental disorder as me. Im just confused as to why i have no luck and all of my brothers have no problem with it..

When homecoming was around I asked her to homecoming and she said no because she didn't know me... Now she wants to get to know me. What should I do to get to know her?

these girls seems to be paying attention to me? like for an example i smile, and then the girl tells the girl "my name" is smiling, i don't think they hate me and they aren't mad at me either. (ithey both have classes with me) and i am a female what do you think this means

Theyre still together

*Please read all of it* I don t like this because when I AM interested in someone I become obsessed. It s horrible. But I won t even see certain guys UNTIL they notice me. Then bam I m stuck on them. I literally can see a guy everyday and not pay any attention until i think he s starting to watch/look at me.

I was supposed to meet up with this guy to have sex with him, but each time we were supposed to I would either lie to him about the time that I was supposed to show up at or ditch him the night of. He gave me a total of 12 chances altogether but I did that to him each time. The last time I did that to him he text me "All you did was ditch and lie you f-ing stupid bïtch" and then after that he stopped responding to all of my texts. It's been 4 weeks since I tried texting him. Do you think he's still mad?

so there's his guy I've seen around school a lot and we make eye contact with each other a lot and so I followed him on Instagram last night(wow I know we are practically married) and he followed me back in about two minutes and later stalked me and liked a picture a while later. I see him around a lot and was just wondering how to get him to initiate conversation so I can't actually talk to him?? like I just really suck at that kind of thing so I need to figure out how to get him to approach me?? thanks xox

So i just asked someone out for the first time ever and unfortunately it was a rejection. I asked a girl who's in my school who i've been wanting to ask out for a while but unforunately i never see her around campus so i just decided to do it over text. i know that's pathetic and all but i still really really wanted to go out with her and ive been wanting to do this for many many months. I am very disappointed because i liked her a lot and for a long time too. Im now screwed cuz im a senior in high school, proms in a month and i have pretty much no options. How long will this disappointment last and how do i go about this prom thing now??

Im asking this because i just turned 16 and im now allowed to date and i just wanna know what guys like because i lift and i have short hair PLEASE ANSWER

We're both 17. I found out I'm pregnant 4 day ago. I told my boyfriend and ever since he's been ignoring me. I tried to talk to him in school but he straight up told me to get away from him and then ignored me and kept walking. He also has been talking and spending a lot of time with other girls. He won't answer any of my texts or calls. Im scared and i can't stop crying. I still have to tell my parents. I can't do this alone. How can I tell my parents and why is my boyfriend acting like this and how do I get him back?

I am a guy, everytime I am around a girl or a group of girls who proclaims to be 'cool with the dudes' they normally end up hating me Some of them said that I was a ' male beotch' and some of them got violent with me over them thinking that I was attracted to them. Most of them gets nasty with me up front. They say that I am a little boy or a baby. Normal girls that I am around are okay with me, and talks to me normal. People looks at me weird as I cannot get along with the girls that are suppose to be 'cool with the dudes'. Am I normal?

We were texting and she texted me about how she was gonna hang out my friend. She knows I like her and wants " to get to know me better" before she decides if we could date in the future. Do you think she was trying to make me mad or jealous?

I met this girl last November since we were in the same class and we ended up becoming really close friends over the past few months. At first I only really liked her as a friend but once we got to know each other, i realized what a great connection we had and i started to develop really strong feelings for her to the point that it started to affect me at school and work, since i could think of anything but her. I got a lot of positive signs from her end and i was certain she felt the same way which is why i confessed my feelings to her a month back and she seemed really surprised and said that she only saw me as a friend and wanted to keep it that way, to which i agreed. So I have kind of moved on a little, not fully since we have classes together until mid May and we pretty much still see each other. I know how much she values my friendship since she doesnt have that many friends/ or even someone she is as close to as me but I don't knoe how to tell her we cant keep being friends. I should have told her a month back but i was super nervous and didnt know how to respond. Its just that she always wants to hang out with me at lunch or after classes and I have tried avoiding her but she follows me wherever I go and i am finding it harder to get over her because of that. I have stopped texting her and such and I keep our convos to a minimum when we do hang out, instead doing my assignments or studying but I know that i have to stop beimg friends with her to move on

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I haven't seen this guy in about a year, and he saw my sister at the store and asked her about me. He asked her how was I doing, what grade was I in and what school do I attend. I don't really know him. I just saw him around a lot and he would always speak to me whenever he saw me. But it was never more than small talk. He would only say things like , hi how are you, good morning/afternoon etc. sometimes he would just stare at me. Maybe I'm over thinking this, but I'm pretty sure a guy wouldn't stare at a girl the way he did if he was just being "polite".

Ok so me and my buds where out after school we are in the 10th grade. We where walking around the field and i placed my hoodie on the bench while we walked around. One of my friends she vanishes from the group. She comes back later with my hoodie wrapped around her waist. I dont have a problem with her doing it but why did she do it? It wasnt that cold outside the sun was out i usually bring my hoodie for my bio class.

I am currently in high school, and the school offered a class that focused on researching. There s only two classes currently, and students have close bonds. The first time that I presented my group research topic as a mock, this girl really paid attention to what I was saying, and would constantly nodded her head in approval, which gave me encouragements, and she later told me I did really good, and not my other teammates. I should mention we ve never talk or seen each other before, so it was quiet a surprise. As a courtesy, I gave her a thumbs-up and complimented her research, and found her talking really charming. After that, we never communicates again, but occasionally she would walk by me and smile, but not to other people in my class. If I m with a group of friends she will paid no attention. I also find she s cute and charming, so are these signs for the future?

I'm with a genuinely good guy and I don't feel like I deserve him because I have so much baggage and he has none. I feel like I'm cheating him out of something special by staying with him. Should I end it so he can find someone that doesn't have any baggage?

Note: Were long distance and have met once. Pros: -HE always initiates conversation -HE takes blame upon himself in a confident way, and not in a victim way when i express something that bothers me -He is definitely not clingy. If anything I wish he would be more commutative -We share the same faith -Same future goals -Handsome -Funny Things that make me think he is: -I sent him my blog nearly a month ago cause he told me he'd was interested in reading it. I was excited and a week later sent him the link. I've asked him if he's read it numerous times and he still hasn't. -He doesn't ask me many questions and therefor doesn't know the personal things that i've attempted in asking him and know about him -Late last night I said I was having a rough day, and instead of making a priority to be like, "oh whats wrong?" he took ages to respond, and when i mentioned I went to a friends funeral (in which he had no clue about) he had fallen asleep, read it in the morning, but then NEVER made any sort of comment about it. No sort of, "hey, i saw your message this morning, i'm here for you and sorry for your loss." instead, he just texted me "hey" like normal and then sent me some pictures of him catching a huge fish. -We talk about him a lot, and i love talking about him. But there's times when I need some of the comfort that I give him. And I feel like it's about him more than it is equal. -He never compliments me. But yet again, were long distance so maybe thats why too thoughts? I meant things that make me think i should let it go for the second thing.

In person I can talk and it's all fine but on text or snapchat, something like that, I can't hold a conversation and I don't want the girl I'm talking to to lose interest. Want can i do to make conversations more interesting and keep them? Thanks.

I am 60lbs overweight so I definately need to lose weight....he doesnt ever say anything but be stares at my body parts (specifically my stomach and makes grossed out or shocked faces) ...its kind of hard to explain - its not like I am just misjudging signals - he makes it known that he is looking at me negatively. Everytime I make an effort to lose the weight he sabatoges l me with take out food. He is definitely not a "chubby chasers" he has made it clear to me with his little comments and looks that he disapproves of my weight but then when I try to do something about it he is totally non supportive and actually sabatoges me (sometimes I feel on purpose) what the heck?

Iv been seeing this girl . We have been on 2 dates ,We have kissed . We're both 16. And she's a great friend but I'm just not interested in her anymore. I don't even want a girlfriend right now . School is ******* my *** hole

I´ve had so many men tell me that if they get cheated on with a woman, it´s ok, but if it´s with an other man, it´s an issue. When I asked them why, they just said "it´s a guy thing". I can´t begin to understand that. Can anyone explain it to me? Btw, I´m sorry if my English is not perfect. I´m not a native speaker.

So I've known this girl for three years now. Been in love with her for that long too. Kind of a "love at first conversation" thing. Sexuality isn't an issue because we both like everyone. Issue #1 is that she's 16 and I'll be 19 soon, although she'll be 17 later this year. It's not that she thinks I'm too old/I think she's too young, I'm just worried about what our parents might think. Issue #2 is that she lives on the opposite side of the US. Issue #3 is that I'm paranoid and co-dependent, so I'm scared that if I confess, she'll not want to talk to me anymore, and I don't know if I can handle life without her. How do I tell her how I feel about her? Should I tell her?

You try not to be shallow and meet a loser, be shallow like them and meet a loser. If they are single, they care about the women who are taken, if you re single they want you when they are with someone. Wtf? They are always working in reverse or being the opposite of what they know you deserve. I have met many "nice" guys who were not so nice....I guess they hate upfront women who are on their level or higher. I ve never treated anyone like crap and that scares them away, I guess. I am not perfect but I know how to treat people and if I were in a relationship I would not treat someone like that. I know how to cater, be respectful, I m spontaneous, etc. When I go on a date I keep my eyes on myself or the guy I m with...I don t look at other people, for what?! I don t understand, why is it so hard to conduct their selves accordingly? Don t worry, just don t date anyone like I am. It is better to just be friends with them anyway and love your alone time!!!!!!!

How much belly is too much? How important is how a guys shirt fits on him?

I've known this guy since the third grade and I want to prank him good tomorrow. we are both fifteen, guys, a freshman in high school. I have confetti eggs, should I use one on him? what should I do to prank him tomorrow?

My boyfriend sister doesn't like me because things my boyfriend have told her about me and his problems in the past and today she said something disrespectful to me and I ignored it and acted like it didn't bother me. My bf was standing right there and didn't say anything. This wouldn't be the first time she said something disrespectful or petty she's 26 and he's 22. He said I should learn how to not take things she say to heart because we know she's petty but I still feel some type of way about the situation. He got mad at me today because I was all quiet today and I let whatever she say to me get to me but you can only take so much from a person. And he said well maybe I shouldn't come to his house because he doesn't want things to escalate because if things do escalate he would have to choose between us and he would choose his sister but I feel like he only tell her bad things about me and we're all adults why tell her everything we go through why can't we fix our own problems.