Ok so I messed up. My girlfriend is from a pretty be family but I've come to terms with that and I love her very much. She doesn't have a phone at the moment so she borrowed mine to call her dad for Easter and when I set it up for her I turned on the caller ID block because I always do that when I lend out my phone. It was a force of habit and I didn't think about it, let alone mean anything by it, so when the call wasn't answered I told her it might be because my caller ID was off and she flipped out and now she hates me. I guess she thinks that I don't want to be associated with her family but that's not it at ALL. I just do it any time I'm not personally making the call. She used to be made fun of as a kid for her bad family and shitty house, so I get why she would be upset but I didn't realize this would make her mad and bring up those memories like it did...I feel like an asshole and don't know what to do to make her know I'm not like that and that I love her and accept every part of her.

But then she asked me if I still like sex. And then said its been a while. I told her I stopped making moves due to getting shot down everytime. Women are very confusing. Anyone out there experience this?

I'm on a coed team which involves my boyfriend and a lot of his friends - followed by a few women (most who only play when they feel like it). Every week we are short on women to play in our games, and I've recently become pretty outspoken about this, but without being completely rude. I used to be quieter, but now it's becoming a weekly annoyance for me. I find that the team captain (male) never seems to realize the 2 consistent women on our team (me + one other) need at *least* one sub (but ideally 2 or 3) so I end up nudging them every week to ensure there's at least 1 female sub. While it's good I'm doing this and making them aware of their own issue, I can't help but assume I'm developing a reputation amongst my boyfriend's friends. How can I balance this to ensure I don't get this reputation behind my back? Or is this something I'm just going to have to deal with if I decide to stick up for me and the women on our team?

hello i am fernando 24 years old of age, i am a student at CPUT Cape peninsula of technology in capetown . What brings me here is that recently i have been struggling with my carreer or my studies , i love Information technology but i am slacking in everything! how come a person that is doing what he or she wishes to do still not willing to pursuit . I have got a child , and everytime i look at her it pains me a lot just knowing that i am a lazy person , i am not dedicated , i am not focused in what i have to accomplish . please i am stuck in a route , it is like everytime i wana do what is correct or beneficial to me i cant it is like something is holding me back what can i do? Sorry , my language barrier is abit tricky

My husband's uncle is young just a few years older than we are. We were at a party together and one thing led to another. We ended up a threesome with him, my husband and me. OMG It was so fantastic. Every opening was taken care of and their size was big and felt so good. I want to do this again. Should I tell my husband.. I love him but really liked the threesome with his uncle.

So my friend introduced this girl who was really into me, and she had even said it over text a few days after we started talking. I had seen her looking at me in the hallways a few times during the year. We texted for about two weeks and walked together in the hallways, she would always give me hugs, and she flirted a lot, texting things like "I miss you" or "come cuddle with me", just flirty things. A few days ago, we met in the hallway, she gave me a hug, we confirmed a date, and then later that night I get a few texts saying she's not ready for a relationship right now, she has a lot going on (she does), and that she wants to be friends. Typical stuff. We haven't texted since, other than me asking and her insisting that it was not something that I did. I really want to text her and ask her something like " alright so are we done for good" or something, because I have no idea if she wants to just not start a relationship right now or for good. Her break up text said something like "you're a nice guy, but...". I have no idea what to do. Just a few days prior she was really, really into me. What do I do?

This woman that used to fight for my husband's attention and made it very clear before marriage she used to like him refers to me as "your wife" when she speaks to my husband. She knows me very well so I don't know why that bothers me. I just always saw "your wife" as something used for if a person doesn't know you well enough to use your name.

My husband of 8 yrs. 3 kids. Has been acting so different the past few months but its just gotten worse. He used to be everything I wanted in a man and was so lucky to have him. He is now always cocky. Distant. Doesn't ever flirt or be loving towards me. Doesn't ask for time with me. Completely interrupts me when I talk. Never listens to anything I talk about but pretends too. Always says has going to change when I mention it. But nothing changes. Says he loves me to death doesn't need or want anyone else. But if he loves me like he says why does he not try to make me feel loved. Hes very aware of how unhappy I am because of him. I am close to out the door and he knows. Why is he being this way towards me? He will never tell me why so that's out of the question. I either have to guess. Or just leave or he has to change. He ignores me. Always too busy doing stuff around the house to even watch a show with me. I feel Hes cheating

My neighbor is 21, and she hates bluegrass music. I'm a few years older, and I love bluegrass! And so does her father, who she lives with. So he is going to assist me with it, but here's the prank: I'm going to make a bluegrass CD with a few songs on it, then plant it in her car radio. I'll need her dad to help me because he can get the keys to her car. I'll set it up so that when she starts her car the next time, it will start blaring bluegrass music! :)

hey, I'm 23, just broke up with my bf after 5 years..my very important youthful age was lost for nothing at the end..plus, I'm facing a problem: guys are not interested in me and no one is asking me out..I do appreciate your help because I like to settle and have a partner, so here's some information about me and I wish you tell me why you won't be interested in such personality: 1- I am not fat nor skinny my body is fine. My height is average. I am not ugly, of course I'm not a beauty queen but I'm fine. 2- I am political sciences graduate, I am discuss and speak out wherever, I am described as mature person, but I am serious and somehow shy, not social enough.. 3- I suffered a lot and I have responsibilities which explains why I am seen often as sad person but I'm working on it to be more cheering up, but what can I do if I live in hard circumstances? 4- I have a very good heart, I love caring and I am tender, very honest and supportive.. 5- I am polite. 6- I can be tough when I need to and I can take care of myself. 7- Described as a very smart person in life. 8- Not social unemployed and spend too much time at home. 9- My clothing style is not weird, I dress well and try to take care of my look and always keep it simple.( should I not?) So do you think the 5 years probably effected me? and Don't you think I have inside feature more than the outside and that's why guys find nothing attractive to approach? Thank you in advance..

So I want to call out (fix some stuff with my bank, and phone company but I have to do this in person not through the phone as I have to get money out from my bank and recently lost my card thinking it got lost) both places close early or right when I get out. I'm at work an 8 hour shift today..and since I bus it, it will be my whole day or most of it being there or trying to get to work. If I say family emergency, does that sound fine? I don't want them thinking someone died either...or If I can just say personal...and it be ok?

This guy I haven t been talking to for years knew each other since age 7. I have no special attachment to him just like bro and little sister. His mom and mine r besties that why I even know him we used to fight all the time over remote controls normal things brother and sister fight over now we re like Complete strangers. So weird why does he suddenly show up in my mind???so annoyed he s everywhere

I'm 19 and a girl. When I was 5 my old neighbor ( about 16yr old female) forced me to lay down while she raped me and told me not to tell anyone. Some days later that girls brother (around 14) touched me inside my vagina and I don't remember much else of that day just that he did that everything else is blank. Some years later the same guy touched me again, but I didn't say anything. Today my mom was telling me something random about the guy that molested me (she doesn't know) and I felt like telling her, but couldn't .. This was years ago and I've told no one. Does it even matter anymore or should I tell her ?

I m 16 I ve started to notice things about my step mom that s seems like she is sexually attracted to me. I have started to notice when she showers she always leaves the door open, the door to her room and the bathroom. Not as if it is cracked it is wide open. A couple time now I have accidentally walked in on her after she got out of the shower. She sometimes says "stop trying to see me naked" but in a laughing and joking way... Also about 1/2 year ago she would sometimes walk in on me after I got out of the shower and I m still naked, but she wouldn t act like she was startled, she would just say "I don t see what the big deal is, I ve seen you naked before" Sometimes I feel attracted to her too. But not like I day dream about her or anything, when I m masturbating she is the first person to pop in my mind. I don t want to have a sexual relationship with her, yet at least my non horny side doesn t. I don t want to ruin my fathers marriage or do that type of thing to my father. So should I try to talk to her about it, or let it pass?

So my best friend is in a relationship with a girl and lately things have started to worry me. We don't hang out as much as we used to. Obviously, he has a girlfriend but it still is a lot less than we used to. I have met his girlfriend and she is nice but she can also be a bit controlling sometimes. Sometimes she makes decisions for him. I think it is bad if my best friend can't do things that he enjoys and makes him happy. I have also noticed that he is sometimes not as happy as he used to be. I think it is possible that she is controlling and deciding when he gets to hang out with me. I wonder if there is something I can do, I don't have many friends and I certainly don't want to loose my best friend.

So a few nights ago i was at this kickback and one of my close friends got drunk. I don t drink i only smoke weed , but she was very out of it and all over the place. I didnt want another guy to take advatage of her situation so i asked her how she was feeling, and the next thing i know shes hugging me. She starts talking about sexual things ( i just turned 18 so keep in mind that im not used to girls being horny and drunk and this is my first experience). Eventually she says "do you want to touch my boobs?" And i say "i feel like ill be taking advantage of you if i do." She grabs my hands puts them on her boobs and then lifts her shirt up puts my hand on her bra and then lifts up her bra to show me her boobs. I look at them and then she puts them away. This is the first time ive been flashed. Anyways about 10 minutes later she started vomitting and i made sure she got to the bathroom in time because we were at a friends house and i eventually left because someone needed to talk to me. I don t really know how to feel after something like this. I told her the day after what happened and she said im her gardian angel when shes drunk but i just feel wrong and awkward and unclosed about the whole situation..... What do ??

His parents are separated and he previously lived with his mom (I ve met that whole side of the family), but hes been living with his dad the past few years because of construction at his moms. His mom previously mentioned to him (in front of me) to not let his dad know that he was dating because his dad is "nosey" years ago, but now almost 8 years into dating (heck some people are married with kids at this point) I still haven t met his dad, I try not to let it bother me & I never pushed him into doing so but seriously if we are going to have a future together isn t it just normal for me to meet his dad, what, are we waiting til wedding day for introductions? It really bothered me today because we were supposed to have dinner with my friends (then dinner with his tomorrow) to celebrate his & my bff s birthday, but instead he went to dinner with his dad & siblings (which I understand and was ok with) til he took a picture... every.single.one.of.his.friends.was there... even ones he hasn t been close with lately. And I wasn t even invited. I just felt really left out & heart broken... like I m not important even for a bday dinner, if it was just his family I get but all his friends & I wasn t even mentioned.. I told him I felt kinda left out & he just brushed it off and went to bed after calling me good night. HOW can I even go about this?!

There's this girl in my class. She's so annoying. She always talks about how "ugly" I am. We are both 18. She's an adult technically and still acts like a child. It does piss me off to be honest. She calls me "fat" and plays with my hair when I'm not noticing. She also throws erasers and pencils at me. She tells everyone that "I'm the ugliest girl in the class". The reason I'm being nice is because I'm not that type of person that likes to start trouble and drama. I just ignore her but she gets on my nerves waaaay too much. She's not even pretty herself. Yeah, she has a nice body, but her face is gross looking. I don't understand how she calls me "ugly" when her face is very very ugly. I'm just overweight, that's all. But my face isn't as ugly as hers. I'm just really angry but I don't want to go too far.

My mom met a younger guy on a date site. She really liked him. In the beginning, she asked if he still wanted to go to coffee because she is older; he is younger and he said it was fine because he had bad experiences with younger women. He was very persistent. They ended up going to coffee and having a really nice time and they connected and had great conversation. Although they had a nice time, there was no physical affection which my mom found odd. He asked her to go out again; they ended up going out two weeks later. He had mentioned seeing her a third time so my mom mentioned about a date in a message and he said he would have to let her know; that he was busy for any upcoming weekends. When my mother asked him why he was acting like that, he said he wasn't looking for anything long-term at this time, he said he could only offer friendship; he said they can meet as only friends. This upset my mom because their dates were positive and they got along. Then, he threw in that he was not comfortable with the age difference. My mom (even though she didn't want to) agreed to go out with him as friends. He messaged back and said he was no longer interested in getting together. He told her good luck in her search. Does this sound like he was married? What could have happened?

I m now 18 years and I talked to my bf and my mom,some close friends know to. I want to we re girl clothes. I m not a girl but I find my self crying sometimes. I can t stop feeling that I want to we re skirts and my favorite time of clothes dresses. I remember knowing for the first time I wanted to be just like a girl. It was when I was in 6th grade and now I m in 12th grade. I have hold myself from telling for so long I feel I m getting myself eat by it. I m sad.I wish I could buy myself clothes and be girly. But when I tried to tell mom she rejected me. I feel devastated I m always mad now it s not her failure it myself who didn t told her. Just like be liking guys or girls equal but seems for her it s harder to pictures me in a dress. I m not even to big.I m skyny and strong but don t have super big body I m 120lbs and I m 5 feat with 5 to 7 inches. My feat are 9 to 10 and a 1/2 depending on the shoe. My hips are like 28 men again I m skyny . I tried a few times to ask my mom again but no luck . Yes I have tried on school uniform and I love it. When ever my girl friends have a crazy idea for making me grily they do really good work and I love to be in girls clothes but I don t know how to do it at home and sometimes out I fear my mom saying now to me and I just feel sad that s she s not understanding me. Pls good advice.

your kid is mad at you for smashing his xbox

so you cant do anything to the xbox and your boyfrien d installs cameras your boyfriend installs security on the xbox and the house if anything happens to the xbox you get punched

He's 37 and married with a kid and I'm 16. He honestly usually innocently flirts with me a lot, somebody else in my class even said he flirts. And this isn't in a cocky way but I'd consider myself pretty and guys like me. But anyways he usually always calls me a nickname he gave me, smiles so big when I ask him a question, asking if I was texting a boyfriend, always looking and walking by me, etc.. But this past like three weeks we haven't talked a lot at all. Like I have a huge crush on him and it sucks knowing that obviously nothing could ever happen. I don't know how but I developed the big crush on him and I've just been super hurt over it. We haven't talked to each other lately but whenever he makes jokes with other people or to the class he always looks at me. Little things like that make my day and I just don't get why I even like him or how to get over him, I've had this since November and now it's March

Like I could live without it, just jerking off often.

consider two persons, one strong one beautiful, both intelligent, both trying to compete to seize the opportunity, are they allowed to use their indivisual powers to accomplish this goal?beauty against power, or only intelligence is allowed, if only intelligence is allowed, is not it a compromise? can men use physical power to achieve sth, as their counterparts use beauty, or everyone is permitted to use their intelligence. it looks cheap and a complete compromise so that no one can go too far, don't you think?(this issue is not sexist, since its not lowering one gender against another and is just a philosophical question that can be addressed.

I know there is grammar typo, i will fix it, I am just wondering if i should change something in the letter? Please dont tell me to to stop because i can, my husband makes me have sex for $. Thank you! Mr. Jim, I know I am not allowed to contact you but I had to for the last time. Please forgive me because I wasnt honest with you. Before i volunteered in your class I should have told you that I am a hooker. I want u to know that i do that stuff because i have to not beacuse I want to. That is not my charactor. when i volunteered in your class i never had any bad intentions towards you and I considered the students my own children. If somethibg happened to me i want to make sure you gorgave me because i cant rest in peace knowing that you are mad at me Ps.No need to write back. Please discard this letter because I dont want to cause any problems for you. I already caused lots of problems for other innocent people in achool. You are the last perosn I want to see getting effected. I want to tell you that I am blessed that you are Jannas teacher, hopefully she will finish the year with you....... I dont want to sound unapporpiate but i have to tell you that you are a role model to me and to Janna......, we both look up to you.You touched our lives and you proved to us that there are good men out there. I know you will continue to touch many lives because you are a amzing teacher. I wish you the best in school and I wish yiu the best at home because you deserve it.