He messages once in a while to ask about how their life is going and to say that they are dating the wrong guy and can do better, all this is messaged from his anonymous account so they don't know who send it. I don't get it, why do this ?

she called me those things while she was married, and cheating on her husband. but now both of those relationships have fallen apart. should i go for it?

That's kinda too early. That woman brought up marriage straight off the bat on our third date! Then she talked about kids! I was happy she didn't plan divorce too. Honestly, that made me so nervous, i blew everything. I'm not the kind of guy who has anything planned. If you ask me what i'm doing tomorrow, i wouldn't know. Plus, i thought the third date is when you get to ''hit the home run'' not talk about marriage and kids and future and all those boring stuff.

So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years. We were supposed to get married yesterday, the 26th, our anniversary; just a small justice of the peace ceremony with 25 people (close friends and family) and a small reception (cake, dress, dancing). But his dad died on the 23rd and the funeral was held yesterday; the day we were supposed to get married. I feel terrible for him and his family. But I feel awkward now because he and his dad didn t exactly get along. Now he holds a huge grudge, he is grieving, and after the funeral he was trying so hard to celebrate our anniversary since we couldn t get married. It felt weird and it didn t feel right what he was doing. We just finished a funeral and he s painfully trying to make me feel good. I went along with his pace because I saw how hard he was trying. I felt like if I turned down his offer to make me feel loved and comforted, that he would feel alone and unloved. The day we heard the news, I cried for him and his mother s sake and lent as much support as I could. I m still here wanting to give more support. I spending today, easter sunday, with his mom instead of my family, keeping her company and just looking out for her as she carries her husband s ashes. I am torn for the years to come. It just doesn t feel right to celebrate our anniversary anymore because it will forever be the mark of the death of someone he had issues with. Am I overthinking things? I want to offer better support but don t know how.

So I have been feeling kind of different lately ... I am not as happy like I used to since my grandma passed away I was really attached to her . And then I had a miscarriage which made me super sad and I was just lost ... Today I talked to my be and I told him did this happen to you when your grandma passed away ... All he said was well you are finally growing up not everything is a ******* fairy tale ... Idk why you been dramatic ...am I been the overly sensitive or he is a asshole

I know its you . On marriage and divorce someone keeps abusing the level 7 power and trolls on this section. I am not posting health related questions on marriage and divorce. Someone here keeps moving health related questions to marriage and divorce. We are ALL tired of this level 7 users's immaturity.

But then she asked me if I still like sex. And then said its been a while. I told her I stopped making moves due to getting shot down everytime. Women are very confusing. Anyone out there experience this?

This woman that used to fight for my husband's attention and made it very clear before marriage she used to like him refers to me as "your wife" when she speaks to my husband. She knows me very well so I don't know why that bothers me. I just always saw "your wife" as something used for if a person doesn't know you well enough to use your name.

My husband of 8 yrs. 3 kids. Has been acting so different the past few months but its just gotten worse. He used to be everything I wanted in a man and was so lucky to have him. He is now always cocky. Distant. Doesn't ever flirt or be loving towards me. Doesn't ask for time with me. Completely interrupts me when I talk. Never listens to anything I talk about but pretends too. Always says has going to change when I mention it. But nothing changes. Says he loves me to death doesn't need or want anyone else. But if he loves me like he says why does he not try to make me feel loved. Hes very aware of how unhappy I am because of him. I am close to out the door and he knows. Why is he being this way towards me? He will never tell me why so that's out of the question. I either have to guess. Or just leave or he has to change. He ignores me. Always too busy doing stuff around the house to even watch a show with me. I feel Hes cheating

My husband is in the military. He's been in overseas since this past February. It's not the first time he's been deployed. Since he's been there, He's taken his anger out on me, as well as putting me down for little things. I haven't talked to him since last Sunday. I decided not to contact him because he can be a butthole sometimes but I still love him, He's suppose to come back in October this year. We don't have kids and we've been friends since we were kids. Our family's know each other and etc. We got married last year in June while I was in Texas with him. He's mentioned to me before that he thinks I or we should change my clothing appearance and that he doesn't want me to lose too much weight and etc...Could there be a reason why he's being this way. Does he sound controlling ? He's mentioned to me before about him possibly having ptsd. But I don't know what else to do because he won't let me in....Please help, Thanks in advance 😇

So yesterday a lot happend. I am 7 months pregnant with my first child by him and recently I found out him and his co worker are smoking pot together. This infuriates me because it's not like we have the money to be putting down on pot. He could be using those 10-20 dollars to save up for our baby. Any who, I found out by going through his messages about 4 weeks ago. He said he would stop - but yesterday as I got into his car because we were going to dinner, it reeked weed. I told him to tell me the truth and he denied it 3x until he finally admitted and said yes he did that he has been very stressed out and is planning on stopping soon. ( Whatever, that's what they all say.) secondly, as I went to grab his phone I found a text saying : Hurray! You have been matched with Jennifer. Say "hello" to start chatting. I looked the number up on google nothing showered up. I looked up the text and a couple of things showed up as spam. I'm having a hard time. I called the number and it went straight to voicemail "Hey it's me! I can't come to the phone right now so leave a message -thanks!" Didn't even give a name. Now I'm just worried about him being on some dating site and he isn't being honest with me We have been living together (Unmarried) for 6 Months and we recently got married. Never once have I suspected anything of him. But I am just nervousness since in the very beginning of our relationship we were both beinunfaithful to our exes. Advise on how to investigate further?

i stay with him cause i love him an he loves me an what if its true that i really am an he's just being honest but it hurts.

OLast night I had an argument with my sweet husband.i know it was my mistake because I started first and suddenly the argument turn into huge fight my husband called me ******* *****.i get angry and I kick him in his nuts then he fell down.without thinking I grab him in my legs and use triangle choke on him.he was begging to leave him instead of let my sweeter go I keep on tighting the grap after few seconds he was out and I didn't heard his voice I feel that he is sweating when I look at his face he was gone unconscious. He was not breathing,I call at 1122 and immediately ambulance came I went with him to hospital.Now doctors are saying that may be his brain is damage.next 24 hours are very dangerous for him.if something happened to him I will kill myself I love him so much.please tell me what to do. Love you honey God please forgive me and return my husband to me I will love him more then before and i will never put hands on him again

My wife and myself had quarrel a few weeks back. Since then she has become so unpredictable she is dominating me emotionally.. I need her but she seems to ignore me by not calling me when I am away from home.she was a good homemaker untill that quarrel happened ..she doesn t cook me good and also not same as usual..I asked her to sort out the issues for our family but she has now moved to her parents making an excuse of her mother s illness..I am trying to call her cell but she has kept it switch off ..I talked her but she did not respond as I expect her to be..I noticed she has taken good amount of cash with her ...I am just wondering if she has an affair and she is trying to flee keeping me mentally emotionally drained..she has done this in past she never listen to me when she is at her parents place ...we are middle age couple with two kids..

Of your partner? Would a lot of money or alcohol be involved? Would the date end in sex, cuddeling, or exhaustion? The date you crave, lots of details please. Men can answer too of course.

I thought it was my page at first. I didn't notice because sometime our computer still has us logged in. I clicked on the messages & saw his page up. I saw funny videos & pictures he sent her so I clicked on them just to look. We also have each phone passwords & look through each other facebook. I saw pictures with writing & videos about sex plus comments mostly all from him. I was so hurt. We pray to god almost every night together. My husband has anger issues things have gotten better. Lately we argue more over stupid stuff. I'm wondering how to bring this up. I'm hurt I just want their friendship to stop. Lately he been distant wish is why we started praying & reading the bible more. I will admit our sex life was great we went from having sex 3-4 times a week to 1-2 because he tells me tired from work. Lately sex hurts & I feel empathy when I have sex with him now because we don't connect. Please help I want my husband back! Were a newlyweds still a year in & close to our mid 20s in age. I'm not an ugly wife, but I will admit I stopped putting on makeup as much, excerise, & I still do dress nice. Any advice is apprenticed.

My daughter is 19 and her fiancé is 26. They had been dating for eight months before he popped the question. Now, if this was in different circumstances, I'd feel different. He is a lovely kind man, comes from a great family, and is financially stable (he's very well off, in fact). I just want my daughter to keep her options open. She's already making wedding plans and plans to get married this November. I feel it's all too soon. Marriage is a big commitment. I think she needs to wait till she's older, has dated around more, experienced life... Should I share how I feel with her? Or just stay out?

So my husband is 23 and I am 22 he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his dad. He is a really sweet guy who would do anything for anyone but he started to drink very very very heavily. He has nightmares and tremors and says the alcohol and pot help him cope with the stresses of life and the past. I really care about him but when he comes home he brings whatever vodka or whiskey is cheap and just goes to town on it. His work and grades have suffered but its heart breaking to see him drink himself till he passes out. It is heart breaking to see a the man I love harm himself like this. The worst episode we had was after he fell and injured himself and broke his ankle and had a minor injury he was drinking and took some pain pills and had to be rushed to the emergency room. I love him but I need to know how to deal with this he has virtually no family support except mine...I talked to our Bishop and he said that rehab is what he needs. How do I go about this to get him into rehab?

I'm starting to resent my husband so much. He's so rude to my family and for no reason. I'm really starting to hate him even when he's nice to me I still carry resentment for him. I don't think I can stay with him for long. We have a kid and I have to think of my baby. I need to hold on go back to school. Start my career I plan to be a medical assistance to start then maybe move on to nursing. Before I leave I wanna be stable I don't wanna depend on him or leave and depend on my mom. What would my readers do if you was in my shoes

About 6 months ago my wife found a good paying job, since then I noticed she gradually became aloof and separated herself from rest of the family I mean me and our kids. At first three months I didn't pay attention. But because she was keep telling me that her boss has crash on her I started being suspicious, beside she isolates herself in a room after work and watches same songs everyday on YouTube. I put spy sound recorder a day when she was off and I found out that she was taking about 2 hours with somebody but I couldn't hear anybody voice except her. She told I love you sweetie and bye . I spy on her on the car and recorded her conversation, she keeps repeating her name and hysterically laughing all the time when she is in the car non stop. And like children saying nice things about her and laghing out loud. But when she is around us she is emotionless even with kids. I heard one night she was sleeping another room she closed the door and start laughing. Or recently taking bath everyday not shower and I heard she is talking to herself. She sleep sometime at 7 till next morning . Can anybody tell md what is wrong with her?

Ok so me and my husband been married for a year now and ever since i got pregnant he has been acting weird he is in the army and he wanted me to be a stay at home mom then when i got pregnant he wanted me to get a job i tried to get a job but then he says he is not putting our two year old in day care but i really want a job because he gives us no money he say if we need anything ask him which is fine except he always says no im 8 month pregnant and we only have 5 outfit for our child also he doesnt soend anytime with me or my child the army had family day at the beach and he went alone without inviting me and my daughter and he was talking junk and telling lies about me to a sgt and also his friend i tried to contact his smoke to see what i should do to get help and he told me to not call him anymore but he calls me 24/7 about my husband i am stuck in hawaii on this island alone and feel lost