He cheated on my mom like 3 times. He made my cousin and her parents move near our neighborhood cause the middle school I used to go to, people say it's the best in the county. He made my cousin cry when my dad ask her how is school and everything. He accused me of making her cry because I'm not "playing" with her. It's like he is blind. He obviously made her cry. And he thinks she is like 3 or something and want me to "play" with her. She is almost 13 so da fuq. When I was in the hospital, my dad gave my bunny away to my cousin. He didn't know it breaks my heart for real. It's like he don't care about me. My cousin now thinks I gave my bunny to her. Everytime she mentions it... It makes me wanna internally cry or just get mad. My dad broke our promise of going to Hawaii some day after I go though surgery and fully recovered from it. And it was 2 years ago. We haven't do anything fun as a family in forever cause my dad is too busy with dating girlfriend #3 behind our backs. My dad is also very unsupportive. He wants me and probably force me into becoming a doctor. But I don't want to be anything involve in the medical field. Because I'm super weak in the knees. Even if it's the diagram of the human body, I'm not looking at it. And everytime I'm having a crisis, my dad is avoiding me and never confort me like a father would do. I felt like he care less about me and more for my cousin. I'm about to cry after submitting this question. Please answer

My grandmother has a real habit of putting her hands on me when something doesn't go her way, she keeps trying to control my life and I'm not letting her. I'm nineteen years old now, if she hits me first do I have the right to hit her back without getting in trouble with the police?

Here's a quick rundown of what's been happening. 6 months ago my mom was texting another guy and my dad found out about it. My dad's been acting like a freak ever since then, even though he has no excuse because he was texting another woman a few years ago, and my mom just dropped it after a few weeks. The guy my mom was texting lives 4 hours away, but the woman my dad was texting lives just across town, so he has even less of an excuse to be acting like he has been. He stares at us like a weirdo, he's installed keylogger on our computers (I screamed at him for this and he took them off), he constantly sneaks around and does stuff like bugs rooms we go into by pretending he's "charging his phone" when he's really using a voice recording app, he asks for my phone because he "wants to see what my apps are like" but he's really just snooping through my texts and social media. I've had to install two passwords on my phone because of this. He's just annoying and it's been going on for half a year and I really can't take much more of this. I love my dad but this is really getting old, and at this point it just seems like he's acting out for attention. It's just too much. How do I firmly but politely tell him he needs to f--k off for a while? (Sorry if my examples of him aren't satisfactory, those are just a couple in a long list of things he's been doing)

I want to boss her around and do to her what she did to me. I also want to bark at her when she says something inappropriate like she did to me.

Rite now I'm 11 years old. It all started when I was 8-9 and we stopped doing it about a year ago. Whenever I went over his house (only a few times a month), I wanted to play his video games and he said that he would have to dry hump meh. I feel rlly dirty about it but I was just experimenting because I watched porn so I wanted to try it out but I totally regret it now. btw I'm a girl.

Hi! well right now I'm a freshman in HS and i know it's silly to be thinking of this all ready but I'm very ambitious for my future!. I know that I don't want to stay at my parents house for along time when I'm a adult like my older siblings. They all go to a school in our state and stay at home even tho there in their 20's. I like being more independent tho, haha. well this is what I'm planning for in the future and was wondering if anyone with experience and good advice could help me: I am trying my hardest to get good grades so I can get a scholar ship so I don't have to worry about paying for school and go to a really good one (I am thinking about being a psychologist) Once I graduate and (hopefully) have a scholar ship i would like to live out of state, California most likely. Do you know the living requirments and how much rent would cost if i lived in a decent small apartment by myself? I know it's pretty expensive. And do you think California is a good place to go to college and live?. Since I want to use this with all my money and work I am thinking I should get a job soon. If I get a job while in HS do you think I would have enough saved? and if i give myself a budget (Spending some of my money I make and saving half) will this be enough?. Or should I just stay where I currently live (Florida)? thank you so much :)

. My mother ignores her responsibilities as a parent. She hasn't bought me or my siblings food, clothing or anything in over a year, and if she does it is with her ex boyfriends money. Which brings me to another point, my mom had her ex boyfriend(mike) moved in to my families house. Mike gets the master bedroom, well my brother and dad(pays for the house)had to sleep on the couch. They have been broken up for a year and he still hasn't moved out of the house because my mom uses him for his money. A few years ago my mom quit her reliable job to start her own business, a coffee shop(which no one wanted except her and mike). And since she quit her job she didn't make any money, so my dad had to basically raise me and by siblings by himself. And since I have an amazing relationship with my dad, seeing him living pay check to paycheck, barely having enough money to feed us, well my mom went out to lunch using mikes money, made me hate her more. About a year ago my mom opened up her coffee shop, and it is sucking all the money away again. She still isn't making any money. she forces me and my sister to work there once a week and we have to base our social life around working at the coffee shop, and she gave us chores to do at the coffee shop. It just makes me so mad and angry at her for forcing her children to basically be her slaves. She doesn't treat us like her children, she treats us like employees that she can boss around and treat like dirt.

We have to to to a party tonight. And she is making me wear this fugly hang me down dress from my sister in 2010. It very ugly and the color is discusting aswell. Ik im being a spoiled b*tch right now but im really not. She called me a ***** and a whore when i would not want to wear it. I hate it when my mom swears at me like that. And she always compares me and my "smart" friends. Today she told me to eat their *** because im not smart. Its not my fault i am dumb. I always try my best to get good gardes but i dont. She always does this she thew the ugly clothes on the floor and she always tells me to pick it up. Jjat saying I am 14 and Im I know what to wear now. Ive realised my typos...sorry i was typing fast

I met a redhead who is quite a bit older than me (20 - 36) but we chatted, got on well and things took off from there. We enjoyed each others company for months but that changed after she became pregnant. Things are much more distant now and I still haven't come to terms that I'm going to be a dad. My family doesn't know. I've kind of buried my head in the sand for a while. I've seen pictures of her scans and been updated with latest developments. She's expecting a girl. I had plans of starting uni, going on a gap year and just travelling. I don't know where to begin with all of this. My family are strict and won't be too happy.

I have told her I don't like the store brand cheese she buys, but she just says, "Oh well, that's what I get, sorry." I think it's disgusting and she won't let me buy the kind I like. She also puts the cheese on nearly everything and I can't eat it and it ticks her off. She tells me I need to eat because it's healthy, but it's gross to me. I don't like milk of any kind, but love cheese. What do I do?

My dad is the most ignorant, selfish, and the biggest control freak, sober or not. He drinks when he can. and thats most of the time. We only have 2 cars and my sister and mom use it. But he tells my mom he has to do things so he can have the car yet "do things" means get alcohol. my mom knows bc one day he went insane to the point i called 911 because he was beating our shed with a ******* crowbar and threatening the neighbors and i was talking to her about it. HES INSANE! I was so happy today bc im on break and i was shocked he didnt go out anf buy wine yet. Until he randomly left the house and texted me what i wanted from our local deli. and thats where he gets his alcohol. Im really sad now knowing my night is probably gonna be pure ****. Honestly the fact the police have come to our house and he just doesnt stop?!? I honestly dont even know what to do. Im used to it but i still cry almost every night when hes drinking. I wish someone can just tell him but were all too scared. My life would be better without him. No negativity. No hatred. No yelling. Write when i was typing this he JUST came home with his brown bag with the box of wine. He just ran in the basement with the bag. and i just heard that glass of wine clink onto the table (: Honestly all wish me luck tonight. I just dont know what to even think anymore. I cant live with him anymore. Does anyone have tips on how to stay relaxed and cop with an alcohol father. and sorry this is so long

So I m 23. When I was around 10 my grandpa passed away. My aunt told me we were all supposed to get a large inheritance but prior to him passing my uncle had him sign the money over to him. When I was a kid I was mad, and looking back kind of brainwashed against him my my moms (and his) sisters. Now that I m older and found out that the "large" inheritance would have been 37k for me. I ve started reconnecting with my uncle. My mom doesn t care but the rest old her family is having a fit. He s not a bad guy he was in the military for over 20 years and kept me from enlisting and just taking whatever they offered, when I was a kid he took my mom and I to Disney world for a week and we didn t have to pay for anything, and he s invited me to come out by him (different state) and said he d even get me a plane ticket. Well due to me talking to him my moms other 2 sisters have stopped talking to me. They do it in a very passive aggressive way too, like if I answer the phone they will ask for her by her first name, or send Christmas cards just addressed to her, but then they talk crap about me to her and pretty much trying to get her to talk me into cutting him out of my life. She says she "ignores them".And tells them that I m 23 and can make my own decisions. The way I see it 1) I don t even know if the story is true, 2) my aunts are very self centered and use people. So am I wrong for picking him over them? And is there a way to get them to leave my mom out of it?

We know it s my brother. For some reason he takes all of the towels, rags, and silver eating utensils. Not all at once but over a period of time. Every two months we have to replace all of our towels rags and silverware. It s just weird. He wont tell us why he is taking them or where they are the items just go missing. Especially the spoons. It makes no sense how much we keep replacing these things. Has anyone else had this problem where someone in their home has been taking towels, rags, and spoons its just so weird like what the heck he is 17 years old and does so many weird things. his room is filthy and stinks. My mom went in his room to clean it up and found 15 2 LITER BOTTLES FILLED WITH PISS!!! he does weird things

I m a very depressed and suicidal 13 year old boy. My parents got divorced when I was young. I hate it at my moms and dads house. I HAVE ATTEMPTED SUICIDE BECAUSE OF THEM. I told them all my triggers and everything that makes me suicicdal and/or depressed. That was a sole ago and they have had enough time to change but there getting worse. I want to be put up for adoption but 13 don t really get adopted

My sister is 15 years old and she has been super argumentative lately. She doesn't take no for an answer and if she doesn't get what she wants she pouts. She's a smart girl who has all A's in her classes but she can be super selfish. Growing up Mom was a single parent and it was just my older sister and I. We had to bust our buts off if we wanted something. I wouldn't want her to understand what it's like to grow up the way my older sister and I did. But she doesn't appreciate what she has. Is this normal teenage behavior or is she being bratty? I meant to also say that mom remarried to my step dad. Thanks in advance

So my mom has been friends with this lady for about 10 months (I think they used to work with each other or something). And when I'm home alone she just opens the garage door walks in and comes to my room and asks me a bunch of questions. Like where my mom is. And she should of been here, etc. And she's also asked my personal questions that really make me angry. I'm 17. Do I have the right/ authority to kick her out of our house? She's mental. Everybody in my family thinks she's mental except my mom. She just says she's different. But she went to my grandpas funeral. Not to say hello. Not to see my grandfather. To sit there and hand out tissues and act like she's part of our family because of it. She is an obsessive person and I need her out of my problems

He always puts off seeing me like he doesn't really care. He has a new wife, new family, etc... He sees me at get togethers and is always nice but never asks me over to his stuff (it is my grandparent's get togethers he sees me at as well as weddings or funerals). Like I offered to go by recently for Easter and he said he and my step-mother were going out for the day with their kids (he could have asked me to come along but he didn't). How can I get him to be a father to a 22 year old son? He has been like this always some but especially since he remarried 14 years ago. My mother says he doesn't love me, is this true also?