I was trying to send myself pictures from our spring break trip together by getting them from his phone and came across them. Should i be concerned? The videos had descritions underneath each link that he typed up himself like..."Big booty blonde bi** takes it in the p***y" and some other stuff...also, im a brunette so this makes me insecure for that reason too...most of it was blondes..

So yesterday i was going to meet a friend whom i hadn't seen for long time at a nice cool bar. Unfortunately he was late, so i ordered a drink and a snack and sat at a table alone. As I waiting I noticed that a well-dressed guy from a nearby table looked at me and said sth to his friends. I pretended texting on my phone but after I stopped texting, the guy approached me and say hello but i did not reply so he went back to his friends. What was that? Isn't talking to strangers a bit weird when you're at a bar/restaurant/coffee shop? @Agnostic: I'm sorry I didn't understand this. I'm not a native speaker of English

Dear person who ruined my life, On January 4th at 12 pm-January 5th at 3am, My life changed forever. As my uncle laid upon me taking every little piece of dignity I had, all I could do is cry, or at least try to as I had your hand that I once took in seek for your help, around my throat… You had that smirk of "I've won" on your face as you climbed off of me, As I just laid there trying to figure out how to collect myself, I had the nerve to work up "Are you done.." The way you shook your head and smiled made me want to throw up, I walked out of your room with my head down in shame as if what just happened was my fault, it wasn t. I barely reached the stairs before I fell and sobbed quietly until I heard you rustling through what ever, I ran as fast as I could up the stairs to grams room, locked the door and laid on the floor making sure you didn t come in… Every creek I heard I cringed because I thought it was you. My uncle who I called my best friend, who I looked up to, who I LOVED, betrayed be in the worst way an uncle could, and for some reason I still love you.. And I shouldn t for how much you screwed up my life, in many ways that you will ever know.. Signed, Your niece/Your victim...

un vecino estuvo en el tutelar de menores, salió y estuvo después en el rec norte por robo, salió con libertad condicional y lo metieron de nuevo por robo, portación de arma y agredir a la autoridad. Le dieron 37 años, lleva 7, es posible que salga antes?

There is this guy that I used to talk to that I never really actually liked cut me off.,he was kind of a bother you would of thought I would of been relieved but I kind of missed him.,there is this really hot girl on skout i think she's really pretty..One day I wasn't really thinking I spontaneously decied to message the guy I used to talk to on instragam using my fake account at first I was being silly leaving him nice comments under his pictures then he dm me.,He said he wanted a picture so I send him the picture of the girl I have a silly crush on skout.,so I've been talking to him for 2 weeks on instragam pretending to be her.. I lied and told him I live in Florida and I want him to come visit me for spring break..when I'm bored I do this.,but I'm starting to realize this is weird and makes me somewhat evil.,how to stop? Btw I know he's never gonna come for spring break its just fun messing with him

Imagine a tightly-knit group of friends who've known each other since their diaper days. Twins Sammy and Roxanne, siblings Lance, Louis, and Allison, and their one mutual friend Veronica. It's Sammy and Roxanne's 16th birthday and some idiots decide to ruin it and bring beer to the party (which the twins and their parents hadn't planned on). Allie, who has been Sammy's girlfriend for awhile now, gets drunk and she is caught kissing another guy from their class, all while moaning Sammy's name. He is so hurt he decides to leave town and never look back, never come back. The twins leave with their parents--their dad had been offered a new job in another state. A month passes and Allie's guilt-induced depression gets worse--she's a nothing more than a zombie now--and her parents decide to take her away to forget everything. Which would mean Louis would have to leave Veronica, whom he has been dating for a whole month now. Put yourself in each character's shoes. What would you do? If you were Sammy? Or Louis? Or Lance? or Allison? Or Veronica? Or Roxanne (who is Lance's girlfriend)?

I ve been in a relationship with him for two years and things turned sour about a year ago when he moved in with me. He breaks things when mad... Computers, doors, walls, phones, plates to name a few. He snatches and throws my phone when we fight so I can t call anyone. He grabs me, shakes me, throws me, and screams at the top of his lungs in my ear like I m deaf. He starts fights at 2 and 5 am where he screams at the top of his lungs (I m sure my neighbors hate us). In several fights he has involved knives either throwing them or using them to cut at his wrists. One time during a fight he screamed "Do I need to go get the knife Jill?!" He claims I turned him into a monster. Anytime I try to break up with him he tells me "f*** no. You ruined me now no one else will want me. You re stuck with me and if you try to leave I ll kill myself." And when I m adamant about it he runs and grabs the knife and starts cutting at his wrists. I m constantly worrying about him and it s to the point where I m flunking classes. I m literally supposed to be applying to medical school in June. Idk what to do anymore, but he s seriously ruining my life.

She has been posting several pictures of us together on her Facebook timeline, as well as tagging me in all of them. I didn't "like" any of them nor write any comments in response. But suppose I were to write something like, "What do you see in a complete loser like me? I am a total waste of time."

Also. Something a little more interesting then 'cause your life situations coincide' which is kind of obvious

I'm thinking ahead for mothers day, my boyfriend was raised by both his mother and grandmother and they live in the same house. Should I send 2 seperate bouques or would 1 with both names be alright? We've been dating for 10 months, and we're close with eachothers families so it isnt odd I'd be doing something like this.

a girl by the name of sazon rozon, or dayhana rozon, posted a youtube video about me, demeaning me and completely degrading my good character since 2013. I've been highly affected by her evil rumor, because she thinks she's really pretty, but because she thinks I'm ugly, she decided to call me out on my relationship status. (so I am not entitled to date a handsome guy just because you're ******* insecure)? she said some choice words that now, people who look up to this bully repeats the same garbage she said about me. that *****! WARNING! If you are a fan of hers, don't post mean comments, or risk being a subject of my wrath. but if you are just tell me what I should do to put the brakes of her abuse because it has lasted for too damn long!

I was flying to Honolulu when I met a lady there. She was flying with her husband & kids. She looked in her late 30's but still attractive. I noticed her kind of unhappy she was sitting alone meanwhile her husband was with her kids two rows behind. I also had a row all by myself & was sitting across from her row. I felt a little out of place everybody in the plane were white people from the age of 30 above imagine me, a Mexican in my 20's in fact I think I was the darkest one in the plane. She notice me gave me an awkward smile so I smiled back. This women look like she was French her family look so Nordic. When we landed I went to a car rental. She was also there with her family. When the shuttle came she was forced to sepetrate herself from her family because the shuttle didn't had enough room. She rode with me & we had small talk. We left it like that the next day I saw her at the pool she was alone. We spoke again there she told me the husband was with the kids. She told me she's always watching the kids, that her husband was caught harassing a secretary before, that her husband is always putting her down & that he's a workaholic. I told her I always fall for the wrong girls. We took a couple of shots then I walk to my room to get more alcohol. That's where everything happen, I mean she told me how messed up her husband is but I still feel Terrible I screwed a women in her family's vacation.

So a little back story is needed here. About three months ago I started dating this girl , we fell hard for each other & everything was great. We dated for around two months. After the first month she told me about the mental issues her doctor diagnosed her with. She said she did not agree with the diagnosis and she stopped taking her meds. She ended up going into a maniac state and dumped me for no appernt reason whatsoever, except for the fact she wasn't thinking well at the time of her decision. A few weeks after the break up she told me how big of a mistake it was to break up with me. And how her feelings hadn't changed. She also said she needs to work on herself and getting healthy again. So I backed off her for the past four weeks neither of us has had any communication with each other. So around four days ago or so she likes one of my Facebook posts. I thought to myself "weird she wanted space and I haven't had ANY contact from her in a month now this?" Since that day she has liked one of my statuses at around the same time every evening. Tonight she liked two of my statuses. Now she is the kind of girl that would want me to reach out and talk to her. It has been a month. Is this her way of showing me she wants me to talk to her? I know its just a like but I fell theirs more their especially because she hadn't liked anything of mine for such a long time. My buddy believes shes trying to catch my attention, what do you think? Is she trying to catch my attention

He criticizes me but is trying to help me get a job. Or is it just friends? I am constantly bouncing back and forth between thinking he likes me and hates me

Well she's 18 and a senior in high school. She's always coming to my house with bruises and/or an injury. Last month she had a broken jaw but never really told me how it happened. On Thursday she came with a puffy black eye and said she accidentally hit herself. She's had broken ribs before. I always ask if somethings happening and she says no. Every time I move or raise my hand (Not at her) she flinches as if I'm gonna hit her. I don't really know what to do..?

She's 18 and 5'9". She has had eating disorders in the past (anorexia & bulimia). She told me she recovered but lately she's been avoiding meals and trying to work out a lot. When she does eat she'll go to the bathroom for a half an hour. She weighted herself the other night and she's 92lbs now (maybe even less). She lost 5 pounds in 1 week and says she's not happy with her body. I'm not willing to leave her because I know she needs me but I don't know what to do. - She does also have other mental illnesses. I don't know if that could be a problem too.

Things happened and well he started to lose feelings for me. He said he needed time, so we broke up. Time passed, and supposely we fixed everything and in my house he told me he was in love with me. The next day at school he treated me like sh*t, he didnt wanted to be with me in lunch, he said that he didnt like to be in the cafeteria , and things werent going so well, so i broke up wt him for good. Time passed again, and he blocked me for a week ssince we would argue I did this book " expressing my feelings towards him" and i gave it to him in school. I found out he was chasing another girl :(. The funny thing is that she is uglier than me but oh well. A week passed, then he came back, he said he missed me, then he came up to me . He said he " thought" he was moving on since he would say that. He told me he used her to forget me but regrets it :(. Why did he came back though?:( he said he wanted me back, he was changing a little bit but didnt fought for me like i did since i made mistakes too. I never cheated on him either. That girl that catched feelings for, she erased him from fb because she saw us together walking this past few days. I got tired of him saying that he loves me and still need me in his life, that he cant let me go.. i blocked him and i found out he has the girl again in fb. He said he didnt care about her. I miss him, agh, how can i move on :(,what do u guys think?? HELP ME!!! I unblock him yesterday and we told each other to go into seperate ways

I sent a letter out friday morning before mail pickup. The letter is going to a city in the same state as me about an hour and a half away. Should it have been delivered by now?

My sister-in-law is good friends with my husbands ex. No big deal however I found out that they talk frequently about what their life would have been like together (hubby and his ex) and also about our relationship. This bothers me but I feel like I have no right to say anything to her about it. what would you do? I should clarify my husband isn't the one in contact with her. I'm not so much insecure it's just I don't need his ex knowing our personal life. It's not her business, and I don't want to feel like I am being compared to his ex by his siter for the rest of my life. Those are my real issues.

I remember this one time, when I was a high school senior, during my Marine Biology class, my class and I were disecting mini sharks. So this blonde girl and I were disceting the mini sharks together and she accidentally splashed some of the shark water on me. So at the very end of class, after I helped clean the tables, I told her to come and she came and then I hit her on the back with my fist. Then I replied "That was for splashing me", but I said it was okay. She told me I was strong, but I disagreed. So did I punch her on the back???

I have a huge nose on top of that it is croocked like hell. I got couple of comments in elementary and in Middle school it got way worse when ever i would say something someone one would say shut up big nose. Now im a senior and i still get comments i feel like ****. So i want to fix i ask my parents but i keep getting denied because they tell me to wait and i cant wait longer. Im thinking of fixing it myself ik the size wont change but atleast i can fix the croocked part. I want to fix it by punching it straight i can endure the pain do you think this is a good idea?

This guy that I used to like is always stalking me. I can't go anywhere without him being there..it's like I have no privacy or nothing to myself..not even when I'm at home since sometimes he parading out side my house ether waiting for me or being nosy..before I had no problem with him but every since he started dating I just couldn't stand him..like there this girl online who constantly claims him and I don't want someone in my life that's a player or have crazy ex girlfriends thats in love and can get there way with them anytime they want to..I really don't like him and just want him to go away he's so misleading..sorry but I don't wanna talk to while you have a girlfriend no thank you..how to get him to leave me alone?

So I met this girl on tinder and we've been talking for about 5 days straight. We agreed on a place and time for the first date. The date is tomorrow. However we didn't speak for the first time and it was today, the day before the date. I want to text her a confirmation text in the morning while she's at work. She's a teacher. I want to say something like this, any advice will help! "Hey I hope the kids aren't draining you. I'll see you tonight at 6." She was complaining about her kids draining her energy a few days ago.

Me and a couple coworkers were bored and sitting in the break room during lunch, when one of them mentions I look like the Latina version of mila kunis. He googles a picture of her, whips his phone out to compare me and her side by side, then he says "guys, guys, which version looks better? ..The white version!!!!" I just sat there and smiled without saying nothing while the other people laughed and said "oooohh burn" Is my coworker implying I don't look as good as she does because I'm not white? (***the person who said this to me is also hispanic but has stated many times he likes white girls with blonde hair..)

My husbands parents are very controlling. His Dad is telling my husband he needs both of them there for support after the babies born. Their plan is to wait the whole time in the waiting room while I'm in labor and be in our room the whole time we're in the hospital after that. I'm 22, and my husband is 24. We've told them the day our baby is born we're not having any visitors, and his Dad says, "We will be there the whole time and that is final!" What can we do? We've made it very clear we don't want visitors right after the baby is born. Clearly, people don't think things through when they give stupid answers. We told them not expecting them to not respect our decision and react this way.

I have a fantasy about raping a friend of mine. She is married and has a couple of children. I found out were she lives. I've been researching about drugs that I can use to sedate the family so they can't rescue her. I've been acting out the fantasy on a nightly basis. Now is it possible that I may carry out my fantasy? I know it is at the all in the head stage. I also know I would feel very awful if I did do it. Does anyone think that I may need help. I think the only thing that is stopping me is that I don't drive.

My mom got divorced two years ago. Since then, she's been an absolute nightmare to live with. I know it isn't her fault that she's stressed out, but regardless of fault she takes it out on me and it isn't fun. I honestly dread her coming home. I've kept my anger and resentment to myself to the best of my ability the whole time. Today we got in an argument and I finally snapped and said I hated her. I know this isn't terribly uncommon for kids to say, but I didn't yell it, I said it in a very "matter of fact" sort of way. That would have been bad enough, but I followed it up with "I don't hate hate what you're doing, I hate you. I despise you as a person". I feel absolutely awful, but I honestly don't know how to apologize for something that big. I tried apologizing, but she said "it's already out there, you've said it" and walked away Please no "back in my day we respected our elders" or "you're an awful son". I know I screwed up and am a jerk, but all I want to do now is make it better and find a way to release my anger "constructively"

Where I live everybody likes to start stuff, they would try to get to know you and have a friendly presentation towards you, then overthink everything you say, and then turn around everything that you say, and magically everyone knows about it, and drama is magically created. Where I live people would talk about you even if you don't know them, and I don't know how they do this but drama is magically created. I've met a handful of people that didn't know each other from my area and their attitudes are the same, they would die if they cannot start stuff, they try to get back at you, they do things I consider malicious such as covert bullying, or relational aggression, ostracizing, starting nasty rumors. I have become like a zombie where I live to dodge 'most of it' but still I don't know how they do it but drama creeps up onto you. What can I do? Seems like it gets worse when I go to the county next to mine, and it is pretty bad in which where I live.

My father yelled at me for no reason. The reason was that I was talking to my mom and he interrupted our conversation and I thought he was done talking so I piped back in and he yelled, "SHUT UP WHEN I'M TALKING TO YOUR MOTHER!" My best friend came in the house and started yelling at my dad like DON'T YOU EVER YELL AT HER LIKE THAT AGAIN. SHE DID NOTHING WRONG AND THOUGHT YOU WERE DONE SPEAKING. He looked at me and said "Lets go to your room and make a bag for the night, you don't deserve to be in this house with that much disrespect. When we got over to his house, he said I don't like that and I never have. He is such a disrespectful father for yelling at you for no f***ing reason. I told him not to worry about it, then I started to cry. He grabbed me and pulled me into his arms. He whispered, He's a lame excuse for a father for being that hateful when you did nothing wrong. F***ing emotional abusive asshole is what he is. That's the most evilest person I've ever seen. I wiped my tears away and said He's been like that for a while now and his target is me or my mom, but mostly me. He rubbed my eyes with his sleeve and patted my leg and said I want you to instantly call me if you don't feel safe around him and I will come get you and bring you over here. I will always treat you right now matter what. I love you and care about you a lot. Something happened to you, I wouldn't want to live because I like being with you and spending time with you. You don't deserve to be emotional abused like that for something you didn't do. He went to the hardware store and said he was going to pick up pizza for dinner. I just feel like I'm not good for nothing when I'm around my own father, but when I'm around my best friend, I'm scared to get close to a man because of the way I've been treated in the past by my father. My best friend is like the only man besides my brother that I can go to, but he can see the way I've been acting lately. I don't know what it is, but his place always feels safe to me for some reason. He asked me if I needed anything and I said No. He looked at me and said Are you sure? I just said Yea I'm fine. He walked over and kissed me on my forehead before he left and said, You're safe with me, just know that. I won't hurt you ever. You can talk to me about anything, don't hold back anything.

You see these great people take themselves down all because one person wronged them. They then are so hurt by whatever the person did to them that they waste their whole life trying to make that person suffer an even worse fate.

There is this girl that I regretted not telling her I like her. When we were in high school she and I would passionately stare at each other for several seconds almost everyday for 3 years but never talked. There are other things that indicate she liked me but won't get into it. The fact is that I was extremely shy. I thought it would be easier to tell her when we were at the same college, but turned out to be harder because I barely saw her. When I would encounter her at the college she had her head down, looking sad. Again I couldn't tell her I liked her and blew my shot. Now I haven't seen her for 2 years. Fastward in the future I am much more Confident now. I have been lifting weights, running, and about to graduate nursing school. Everything is going right in my life. But I feel that there is some loose ends that I have to take care of if I am going to move on. So my question is if you were in her place how would you react. Thank you!

Sometimes I act awkward around people for no reason. And there's this one guy in two of my classes that I acted weird around once just because I have some social anxiety. But now he acts awkward around me all the time and now he makes me feel weird when I'm around him. Also, we're in the same group for this project that I have to do in class. And just to add I was only awkward around him one time but after that he was always uncomfortable around me... I don't know how I'll work with him because it's an uncomfortable situation...