Friends: Question: I feel like I'm not meant to have friends? |
- Question: I feel like I'm not meant to have friends?
- Question: Why he got mad and hit door?
- Question: All grown up?
- Question: All my friends have abandoned me..?
- Question: I want to have sex with him again? (10 points for best answer)?
- Question: How do I get this kid to stop treating me like trash?
- Question: I am scared for my life.?
- Question: Wife called out her best friends name inn her sleep last night? What does it mean?
- Question: How to make friends with people you upset before?
- Question: I need more black friend!!! Haha I m African and I don t have a lot of black friends, looking for friends I can connect with. Hmu pleasere?
- Question: People call me backwards and it bothers me?
- Question: My parents fight with me alot?
- Question: My best friend is still friends with the person that really hurt me and my family?
- Question: Snapchat question?
- Question: Is this normal? Bullying?
- Question: Should I stop going to group?
- Question: How to take my molestor out of my life?
- Question: Should I stay friends with her?
- Question: Is it weird to feel betrayed by this?
- Question: My best friend has been being a jerk lately?
- Question: Why does a girl blow me off even though she cares about me?
- Question: How can I be myself in front of others?
- Question: Advise please?
- Question: Does this sound like a remorseful ex-friend?
- Question: How do i make friends :(?
- Question: What's up?
- Question: Everybody in school hates me and cant even get a girlfriend?
- Question: I need help with a graduation present?
- Question: Was I wrong? Did I deserve it? Were they wrong?
- Question: Would you want to date a WWE diva???
- Question: My friends have forgotten about me?
- Question: My "best friend" called me flat chested in front of my crush?
- Question: I have no friends other than in school?
- Question: What is this man doing?
- Question: Care free attitude?
- Question: I am fed up after moving to another city and losing all of my friends.?
- Question: Have you ever made friends with complete strangers?
- Question: Which of these would be funniest to do to every person I see at school?
- Question: Am I unsocial?
- Question: How do I hurt someone?
- Question: Why can't my school compromise just a bit?
- Question: What should I do if non of my friends are going on a school trip?
- Question: A guy friend just randomly texted me this. What the hell is he talking about? : s?
- Question: Will I ever find 'the one'?
- Question: Why don't I like anyone? And everyone just annoys me?
- Question: Person wont stop telling lies about me?
- Question: My friend found out that I'm depressed?
- Question: Even tho she's a manager, should I still tell her how I feel?
- Question: Should I go back or no?.?
- Question: Why is it in real life I always make friends and on the Internet I always make enemies?
- Question: Friend talked to a girl about something only between us.?
- Question: HEY GIRLS! HELP?!?
- Question: What can I do?
- Question: Why do people treat me like this???
- Question: Is it inappropriate for a girl and a guy to sleep next to each other if they're friends?
- Question: My life is boring and I have no friends? I NEED A FRESH START BUT HOW?!?
- Question: Why does he act differently when we are alone vs when we are around friends?
- Question: Hi my husband and friend have been texting is that ok?
- Question: What do the items in the gift boxes mean on the Kendall and Kylie game?
- Question: Help?! Got caught going to McDonalds during lunch at highschool , principle about to call me up what should I say?!?
| Question: I feel like I'm not meant to have friends? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 05:07 PM PST Im 18 and for my whole life I've been an outcast in some way, I've had friends but they seemed to be very temporary, none of them are my friends now and I have none, I've also always been a victim of teasing. I don't think I'm a horrible person I try to have as much integrity as I can and do nothing to hurt anyone, but obviously I'm not good enough. I now have anxiety and depression because of this and I'm reluctant to befriend anyone because I feel like it won't last, everyone else got bored of me. I'm skeptical of destiny but I'm starting to believe in it, I believe in that I was made to not have friends...can someone, possibly who was once in my position, reassure me that this is not true? Maybe who had been where I was but things changed for the better? Because I feel like nothing would change for me.. |
| Question: Why he got mad and hit door? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 05:02 PM PST I was at my guy friends place,then when I went toilet I overheard his flatmate asking him to ask me if I had any other friends "female",then he asked my friend what was wrong .then I came Out bathroom and went downstairs with my friend but he didn't say anything to me.then later before I went home his flat mate came downstairs ,then asked me in front of him if I had any other female friends ,I said yes but I don't want.then my friend yanked and punched the door.whyd he get angry ? |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:57 PM PST What does it mean when someone says your all grown up now? Some of my brother's classmates/ football friends and some people I know say to me your all grown up now. It's been years since I've seen them& I see them every once in a while. Of course I've gotten bigger and taller from back in the day. But I'm a short grown up though 5'2 whith hips, a big butt, big breasts, ect. So yeah what does it mean when people say your all grown up now? |
| Question: All my friends have abandoned me..? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:56 PM PST It goes to show that my friends have up and left me in the midst of me leaving school for homeschooling, due to auditory hallucinations and major social anxiety. I admit crawling out of the woodwork isn't going to make me friends but I've known these people ever since I was a child. My best friend was in a psychiatric hospital just as I was twice but the probability of her going to a residential treatment facility are high. None of them show the ehre of being loyal. They hate me, for what ingurity? Maybe it's paranoia but I have been hurt not victimnizing myself just too many times I don't know what to do with myself. They'll never understand how I think I'm a freak unworthy of friendship and companionship, I see myself as trash everyday. |
| Question: I want to have sex with him again? (10 points for best answer)? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:46 PM PST I'm 29 and I had sex with a 42 year old almost year ago he and I live in different states. I was in his state last week but we couldn't meet up. I really want to see him again but I'm starting a new full time job and I won't be able to go back and see him until September or October. He and I aren't in a relationship but I do enjoy spending time with him I don't know what to do. |
| Question: How do I get this kid to stop treating me like trash? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:38 PM PST There's this kid in my neighborhood that's like 2 and a half years younger than me that thinks he's all that and decided to treat me and only me like I'm a week piece of garbage. He used to be super compassionate but he started hanging out with this kid and he started calling me poor and weak and gay behind my back and now we'll be playing basketball and it's his mission to piss me off by punching, shoving, kicking, and nailing me in the nuts! I need to show him up and will probably do it this week. Is this the right way to get him to stop? I turn 15 this summer and he's, like, maybe 12? I wouldn't go to hard on him just let him kick me then grab his foot and pull then pop him in the face and the gut a few times. In my experience with bullies (not saying I'm being bullied by a 12 year old) is that the best way is to show them they're not the superior in a fight. |
| Question: I am scared for my life.? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:34 PM PST I used to be friends with this chick and she was a huge bit** and would always call me offensive names and stuff "Jokingly". I got tired of it and just started ignoring her. In class one say she asked me why I hate her and I ignored her. I went to talk to my friends about an essay I was working on and she was like "stop talking about me!" And I continued to ignore her. After class I got a message from her calling me names and saying that I'm afraid to say stuff to her face and other stuff. I was fed up with all her crap so I texted some harsh stuff back. She ended up showing her parents the conversation (This is not elementary school...) Anyway, she started the fight by calling me out. Her friend told me that her dad said if he ever sees my again he's going to beat the shi* out of me and kill me and that he will find me. I don't know what to do! I'm no a nark and don't want this to turn into somthing big. Thanks for reading, hoping for some good input.. |
| Question: Wife called out her best friends name inn her sleep last night? What does it mean? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:28 PM PST We're lesbians, and her best friend is a chick who's straight. Last night I woke up to pee, and that's when I heard my wife call out her best friends name in her sleep. Her name isn't a common one, so there's VERY LITTLE chance she was dreaming about someone else. What does this mean? |
| Question: How to make friends with people you upset before? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:27 PM PST There's a person's who lies and manipulates a lot. I've seen right through it, and she disliked it. The problem is, I was very harsh when confronting her. I want to say sorry, but at the same not say it to her face. Just.. slowly become friends. How do I do that? |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:07 PM PST Add me on social media and let s talk!! I m super friendly and just looking for some new peeps!! Snapchat - Tasha7 Instagram - xn_tashx Tumblr - real-listic |
| Question: People call me backwards and it bothers me? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:07 PM PST ive always been on the shy side, i dont usually handle social situations very well unless its one on one. i try my best and no matter what i do i always come off a little strange. lately everyone has just been referring to me as backwards to other people when they comment on my being quiet right in front of me. i dont know how to take it. |
| Question: My parents fight with me alot? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 04:00 PM PST They say I NEED friends and it's my fault and my attitude which makes me incapable of keeping friends or making friends. (Which is not true) They tell me I need to make friends and I WILL. They're always angry with me and blaming everything on me when it's not my fault sometimes. Tell me I DO NOT need friends. I enjoy solitude. It's not abnormal. I'm happier alone. Tell me they are wrong. It is my life anyway and I WILL do what I want. And relationships are not a NEED. |
| Question: My best friend is still friends with the person that really hurt me and my family? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:56 PM PST My best friend is still friends with the person that put my family's life in jeopardy just to save her own skin. CPS, the police, and other authorities were involved as a result. My best friend knows this, but still continues to hangout with her? My bff knows how much this girl hurt me. She said she feels horrible about what the girl did to my family and me, but she's still friends with her... What do I do? |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:56 PM PST If someone is my best friend on snapchat but I am not their best friend, what emoji do they see by my name? |
| Question: Is this normal? Bullying? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:37 PM PST When I was a sophomore in hs I was bullied by my childhood best friend growing up she was fine and always a good friend but then one day she just went really rouge on me out of no where telling me I looked anorexic, that I should ride the short bus, she would make me cry then laugh, but then other times she was extremely nice and supportive and then would go back to bullying me ? Like recently even though it's been years she's like still plotting against me telling ppl I was a Junkie, and then telling a girl with a baby I called her a bad mom, then she wrote a Facebook status about me like I was begging to be her friend or some **** and talking about how I'm lazy and live off my parents when I have a full time job and am paying for my college? Like I understand she's probably jealous but she's like s pretty girl and I'm not a jealous person nor am I really anyone to be jealous of (my life is mundane and I don't have much confidence) but I understand that she was and is s very jealous person (she would get jealous of her sister in a malicious way) like I'm just wondering if this person is Normal or if she is just crazy? |
| Question: Should I stop going to group? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:23 PM PST I've been in this group for a little while now, and am starting to think that I should quit. At first I was very grateful to be there, and couldn't be happier. But now I'm starting to feel a bit different about it. The past couple of meetings I've felt like an outsider, like I didn't really fit in like I once did. Then there's the people. About half of them I really like, and I'm glad to be seeing them. But there's another half or so that I'm not too fond of. Being around them, I have seen that the people in that second half are fake and arrogant. They pretend to be everyone's friend, but don't really like you. I can sense that in them, and it just makes me feel unwanted I'm not sure if I should quit this group or not. I like that good half of the group, and just wish it was me and them. That would make things completely different, but will never happen. I want to keep seeing the people I like, and if I quit I won't be able to be around them anymore. So should I quit? |
| Question: How to take my molestor out of my life? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:22 PM PST In late August, my friend molested me. He 's also my boyfriend's best friend. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and we met this guy at the same time when I moved in with 3 guys. (Quick note: I didn't live with him anymore when he molested me.) After months of being angry at him, I finally decided to forgive him. If it weren't my boyfriend's best friend, I would have silently gotten over it and then never talked to him again. But he IS my boyfriend's best friend now so I forgave him and decided that he was allowed back in my life because my boyfriend missed him. I think I'm still angry at him because every time we hang out with him, I remember what he did. Whenever I see his name, I remember and I get in a negative mood while it's fresh in my brain again. My boyfriend cares about this guy so much but I finally decided, it's either my feelings or his friendship. He chose me. Obviously, he's upset and ironically enough, I feel bad just dropping the guy without an explanation. My question is should I discuss with him why I don't want him in my life or should I just drop him cold turkey, no explanation? I prefer the second but I feel bad...should I feel bad? |
| Question: Should I stay friends with her? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:19 PM PST so last year me and this girl became friends. I'm 17 and I thought she was 15-16. I than find out that she's 13. I still like her as a friend and wouldn't mind hanging out with her in pubic but how do I convince her that I only like her as a friend. |
| Question: Is it weird to feel betrayed by this? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:10 PM PST So I've been in this school program that's going to help me graduate on time, but it requires a certain amount of hours of working or volunteering. I met this girl in my class and we started to talk. She had just been fired from her job so she wasn't getting enough hours. She could only volunteer and if she didn't she would be kicked out of the program, so I took her to places so she could. I didn't want her to be kicked out. We started to talk more and more and sometimes we went out to places after volunteering. Usually I had to pay for her when we went out. I just had so many troubles with friends in the past and no one else was talking to me, I didn't care. I thought she was my friend. We told each other so much. So many things I had never admit to anyone one I told her. And I told her about how I struggled with socializing and I didn't want her to leave the class because if she did I would have no one. Last week, she apparently dropped out of school. Not kicked out of the program, she decided she didn't want to come back. She didn't say goodbye or thank you and hasn't messaged me since then. I feel so alone and betrayed. Honestly a part of me is just fuming with anger because of her. I wasted so much time, effort and money because I didn't want her to not graduate. Because I thought she cared. I thought we were friends. What's worse is she hasn't made any effort to talk with me. I haven't messaged her because I'm afraid of what I'll say. Should I message her? How do I get over this? I just feel so upset and so worthless. I tried so hard because I didn't want to lose her, but she didn't even care. I wasn't enough in the end. |
| Question: My best friend has been being a jerk lately? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:06 PM PST Me and my best friend have been best friends since about 7th grade. We are freshman now, and lately she's just been being so mean. She gets mad at a lot of things I do, and all of those things I do have nothing to do with her and weren't even directly to her. She's always in a negative mood and I'll try to say something funny to cheer her up but she just continues to act negative. Well, today, I confronted her about how she's been. She got mad and left. I don't know what to do. This has been going on for a couple months and I've kind of just been tagging along with it and dealing with it but at this point I honestly cannot take it. My other friends that are also friends with her have noticed it too but they said they just go with it. What do I do? ); |
| Question: Why does a girl blow me off even though she cares about me? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 03:06 PM PST Like, she'll stop talking to me for no reason yet she states how I'm one of her best friends. Why is that? I think she's just busy. |
| Question: How can I be myself in front of others? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 02:48 PM PST I am very introverted and I really do enjoy being on my own a lot of the time. However I'm on my own a lot because I have trouble making friends. Around my family I'm able to be myself and hold a proper conversation and all that good stuff. When I'm with other people I just freeze up and it's like I have no personality and I'm boring. But I'm not a boring person, I just don't know why I have so much trouble being myself in front of people. I'm a freshman in college and it's about to be spring break and after all this time I can honestly say that I've only made one friend and we don't talk that often outside of class either. So can someone help me out so I'm not forever alone? Thanks |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 02:46 PM PST So recently I have became single and so has my friend. I have had a thing for my friend for about two years now but like really big but always just been something there, anyway he was single before me so asked me to help set him up so I did so with one of my best friends, however now I'm really really starting to regret it. My feelings for him are becoming stronger and we are going to a party this weekend and I'm scared something will happen because I don't want to lose my friend or my best friend😔 Please help me know what to do.. |
| Question: Does this sound like a remorseful ex-friend? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 02:35 PM PST Let's say for all intentive purpose you had a friend right, but for some reason the friendship ended, and they say "sorry but we can't be friends" Now it doesn't excuse what they do, mind you, but I can't find it to be so hateful of people like that. I don't like that they did that, but I find it easier to forgive that. Kaykoura Not to be arrogant, but this plays into the whole "denial is evil" thing. No it ain't. That's like saying racists in America aren't openly racist. PFFT Evil would have be an outright hateful exit of friendship, like "You suck. You're not my friend." |
| Question: How do i make friends :(? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 02:31 PM PST i recenty moved away from where i grew up, well ive lived here for 6 months now and spend everyday in my room i swear ive even gaigned weight, ive been depressed, suicidal, sad, lonely, and too top it off i have social anxiety and im awkward. well im home schooled, so i do my work in my room and my parents work during the day so im home alone. my life is miserable, its been this way for 6 MONTHS! I dont text my old friends cause they dont talk to me. the only time i leave anywhere is when my parents leave to the store and my house is in the middle of no where there is only a few houses near mine but theyre soread out and i have no clue who lives in them. i usually go on runs cause its a nice area. so how do i make friends and start over my new life here, i wanna male memories have fun do reckless things with a group of feiends, stay up late have fun. im a girl btw and 17. ive been to the mall but i could never approach people cause 1. thats weird and 2. im awkward... what do i do :( |
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| Question: Everybody in school hates me and cant even get a girlfriend? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 02:30 PM PST I am a senior in highschool and everybody seems to hate me. I think i am a funny guy and a really cool guy to hang out with but everbody just hates me. I asked several girls to date and they all reject me. I dont know what to do :( I do feel like everybody there are jerks they always tell me they dont like me or watever :( |
| Question: I need help with a graduation present? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 02:15 PM PST Alright so the story is I'm graduating from High school in two months with my best friend. We met when we were around 13/14 and have pretty much been glued at the hip since then.After we graduate we will be heading off to different colleges and while I am certain that we'll still stay close I'd like to get her a present. I found a website where you can buy a necklace/bracelet with your own personal word engraved on it and I would love to get one for her. However I can't for the life of me think of what to put on it. I'd like to have something meaningful without sounding pretentious. Originally I thought to just put down "sibling also thought about changing it into a different language like Chinese (She's Chinese) but that doesn't seem quite right either. Any suggestions? The website: http://www.myintent.org/products/bead-necklace?variant=7160351425 |
| Question: Was I wrong? Did I deserve it? Were they wrong? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 02:08 PM PST So, I attend this well know high school in my city and I was having a pretty good day until my last class. We decided not to do any work and watch our girls basketball team play on TV. So in the second and third quarters, we were losing. Our team rarely scored and the other team was killing us from three point range. One of our players eventually scored and the lead went from 10 to 7 and I said there is no reason to clap as we are still losing. So the teachers assistant says I am giving her a negative vibe and she says that I am against the school I go to ( no i wasn't ). The teacher had the audacity to insult me by saying I have no cross country skill. The entire class then proceeded to insult me and then when I came back to get help with a problem, the same ta says she doesn't want me in here and that I have to get out even though another student and the ta ( the ta is a student too ) were still in there. Did I deserve any of the treatment that I got? BTW I clapped when our team got the lead during the bball game. |
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| Question: My friends have forgotten about me? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:51 PM PST well i moved to a new state aeround 6 months ago, and they just forgotten about me.... i dont have friends out gere because im home schooled with no job or anything. well i sit home and feel lonely everyday and while my parents work im so lonely with no one its became a cycle of depression now and i see all my friebds posting about them together and they dont talk to me... i grew up with them for so long, we all were just best friends for years. we didnt let any other people in our group cause we all didnt trust anyone else we were soo close. we knew everything about eachother we lived with eachother practically. well yeah i dont have them anymore they havent talked to me in 5 months, ill text them and they usually dont reply or say hey back and then dont text back after and i see them all having all this fun and it hurts so ******* much we were sisters they were the only friends ive had and trusted and we were like family. now im discluded just because i ******* moved and everyday i cry cause i wont meet people like them, it feels like a part of me is missing i dont know what to do with myself and it doesnt help when i dont know anyone iut here because the only time i go out is to the store with my family. most of everyday is spent in my room on my bed either eatching movies or on my phone or reading. i need a friend i pray and pray and never get one. i dont know where to meet anyone if im home schooled im also not social i have social anxiety. im so alone help :( |
| Question: My "best friend" called me flat chested in front of my crush? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:42 PM PST To be honest i kinda find it funny and im kinda really offended at the same time i dont know shes always different in front of boys and it angers me so much |
| Question: I have no friends other than in school? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:40 PM PST Yea so I'm a 15 year old freshman guy and realised I have no friends. I wouldn't even call them friends in school either. I'm always the one to start a conversation and am always left out in groups. The last time I hung out with someone was in 5th grade. So every single day I just go home and play videogames and sleep. In summer just sit on the computer allll day for the 3 months. And no I'm not addicted I only do this because I have nothing to do. And yes I tried joining school sports and activities. But the people there just become my sports and activities friends. I'm not shy either. I'm very happy silly and open. The only time people ever text me is when they need homework. I'm starting to get depressed when I realised this. |
| Question: What is this man doing? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:39 PM PST This guy Tom is married, and he has been my husband's friend from 15 years and they are also coworkers. Well 11 years ago Tom and I had attraction for one another, and Tom and I kissed for 5 minutes. Tom said few weeks later when I saw him that it was not going to happen again as he is married and I am, and he is friends with my husband. so we agreed. Then 2 years later when his wife and him were at my house, she went and kissed him. I remembered tom and I kissing and immediately lost it as I breathed hard with mouth open. Tom looked down but in my direction as he breathed hard too. He always takes a lot of pleasure in watching me talk to other people, and tom likes to hear what I am saying and everytime I catch him mirroring me and empathizing with me. Why he does this? I have a habit of emailing him from 10 years and it can be about any where I went, who I spoke with, work activity, and tom would reply to most of my emails too and then when I see him, he gets used to looking at me and seeing my expressions and words. here was a time when we were hugging and he rubbed his chest against my chest and then breathed hard. I then breathed hard and when I looked at tom, his eyes were closed the whole time. Tom cheated on his wife 2 years later and got divorced, and tom married the affair girl! But He has been using Linkedin as a way to copy my idea and thoughts. I log on and basically am reminded of what I said or did or liked. Why, or what's it mean? |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:29 PM PST I just want to have a care free attitude where I don't have to constantly worry about what others are saying about me, I want to be able to have in attitude to be able to say whatever I want to anyone I want to kind of like those popular kids in class, were they just don't really care about stuff. I'm so sensitive that it's some what embarrassing like if someone says something shady towards me I assume they hate me or are making fun of me. Can someone just tell me how to have a care free attitude and not care what others say don't give me that creepy 'oh don't care what others think' like I obviously do care what people think of me so get over it |
| Question: I am fed up after moving to another city and losing all of my friends.? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:22 PM PST I am really not sure what to do with my life. I'm 10th grade and recently moved into another city, with that I've moved into another school too after the first half of the year, I've lost all of my old friends and I don't know how to do new ones, the only thing I like in the new city is Muay thai and that's the only reason I haven't killed myself. During the school I'm silent, nobody talks with me, I miss all of my friends from my previous city, everyone in the class is ignoring me and I have nothing to say. I literally live just to wake up, go to school, get back in home, play some video games and then go to the muay thai just to get back in home, tired and then in bed. I've no social life and I am really lonely, I've no idea what to do and this is my last hope for an answer. Almost everyone in my new school is smoking, I've never touched a cigarette and have no intentions to do so just so I have something to speak about with my new classmates. |
| Question: Have you ever made friends with complete strangers? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:21 PM PST My friends live far from me. And I don't wanna hang in the house every night. I want to have a bigger and better social life. Have you ever made friends with complete random strangers? Or is that just utopic? I sometimes hear people talking about things I have a common interest in and I wanna jump in their conversations and maybe create a friendship? LOL is that too stupid? |
| Question: Which of these would be funniest to do to every person I see at school? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:18 PM PST Would it be funniest to hug everyone, take a selfie with everyone, ask everyone for their number, or something else? Or all of them? |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:18 PM PST My whole life I ve had a lot of friends. Those friends ask me to stay the night. I get panic attacks. At first i thought it was anxiety and homesickness....no.... because one day i told my friend i got these panic attacks, and he said i could come over to his house and leave at night, but even then i still had a mini panic attack and when freinds ask to hang out after school for awhile, i still get these anxiety strikes that make feel like i dont want to hang out with anyone. But i like going to school and socializing with friends, but it s like once school is over, i want nothing to do with them. I hate being this way. I hate being able to make any friend in the world but not wanting to hang out with them. I mean i freakin love my friends but i just don t want to hang out with them. It makes me feel like a loser because everyones hanging out, having fun, staying the night, but im too much of a pussy to stay at someone elses house. I feel like a weirdo because i ve never seen, read, or even herd of someone like me. I ve been like this since i was in 4th grade and someone asked me to come over and skate. Im now almost done with 9th grade. I don t want to be alone when im older with no friends because i wasnt social in highschool. I just dont know if im unsocial, or if i have bad anxiety... please help. I would do anything to figure out why im a little whusy. |
| Question: How do I hurt someone? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 01:03 PM PST Mentally, physically, I don't care. |
| Question: Why can't my school compromise just a bit? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:42 PM PST I'm a freshman in high school in Texas. I'm like NEVER in trouble at school at all (I'm actually an honors student) but Friday I let my friends peer pressure me into joining them in bullying a girl in the locker room during PE class, and we totally got caught. I felt bad about it as soon as I did it and I HAVE apologized. The saddest, worst part is that this is a girl that I usually go out of my way to be nice to because of how others treat her. I know it was horribly wrong and I make no excuses for my behavior I also realize I DESERVE to be in trouble. But the school isn't cutting me ANY slack even though I have a great track record. I got sent home with a form informing my mom what I did (totally fair) and that I will be getting swats tomorrow. I just think this is a gross overreaction. I've never even had detention but once! I haven't given my mom the letter yet, though I know I need to when she gets off work today. I just don't know why I can't get a little slack? I deserve to be in trouble but swats just seem soooo extreme, and I'm a total wimp about pain. Any other penalty would be fair and deserved, but they won't compromise at all! |
| Question: What should I do if non of my friends are going on a school trip? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:40 PM PST My school is having a trip to Costa Rica, but I don't think any of my friends are going, but I am. What do I do if I non of my friends come on the trip? I'm really anti-social and don't like starting conversations with new people... What do I do? |
| Question: A guy friend just randomly texted me this. What the hell is he talking about? : s? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:38 PM PST I waw be a dyeaweeyah mastor bu i can say it wight!. DYEAWEEYAH!!!!!!! Just to be clear he is just a friend and that is all he will ever be. |
| Question: Will I ever find 'the one'? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:25 PM PST I'm a girl. I'm to smart for the pretty girls, and to pretty for the smart girls, so i'm left with the guys. No joke, the majority of my friends are guys, and I don't even have that many friends. Anyway, they all friend-zone me, i'm the little sister, or their therapist. I AM EVERYONE'S THERAPIST ! Will I ever find the one? |
| Question: Why don't I like anyone? And everyone just annoys me? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:22 PM PST I'm a 16 year old male and over the past few months people just annoy me, everyone, even my family. I dislike school because it's so boring and everyone there is just so annoying. I used to play Xbox with my friends but now even that bores me and my friends who I play with can be so annoying sometimes. When I workout I workout alone at my house even though I have some friends who workout but I enjoy working out by myself a lot more. I would rather play Xbox my self, and I like to just be alone. I have more fun doing it and I don't annoy myself. I hate it too because my friends think I'm rude because I would rather get high and play Xbox by myself than with them or just not be in the same party with them. My parents are annoying tbh and I really just can't wait until I have a car and a license so I can be dependent for myself. I've never really had a relationship, the last one I was in she was basically using me because she missed the attention from her ex and I eventually cut it off when she told me it was my fault for getting attached. Now I think back of how annoying she could be and how I was just stupid for playing in to her game. When schools in session I get depressed because I know I have to go and sit there for 6 hours and be bored out of my mind and listen to all these annoying *** people. Lately I have been skipping because of it. I don't even try to talk to girls anymore because I just haven't felt like it and would rather be by myself. Why? |
| Question: Person wont stop telling lies about me? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:22 PM PST How do i stop this girl who i use to be friends with to stop lying and ruining my friendships? We are both in colorguard and she is telling everyone in guard lies about me. First she lied about cancer... her mom says she doesnt and she was grounded for a week. Now its that Im spreading rumers which is false... shes spreading rumers and telling me them. Now its just every detail of my life is apparently fake and according to her i hate everyone in guard but i dont! I dont understand what i did to her. Its not only me but its also to the one person who has stayed my friend in guard. Shes spreading stuff about her too. Before practice yesterday she got everyone to hid from me and i was all by myself sitting in the bathroom for 2 and a half hours while they were in a classroom talking about me and then whenever i left the bathroom they followed me. She has ruined all my friendships except 2 ... idk what to do anymore, its been going on for 2 months now |
| Question: My friend found out that I'm depressed? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:15 PM PST So it turns out that I'm not very good at pretending to be happy. My guy friend figured out that I was depressed and now that he has confronted me about it, he acts like I'm extremely delicate and he pities me. Now, he asks me how I am every single time he sees me and my response is always "Okay" and whenever I say that I'm okay he says that he's sorry that my day is just okay and he hopes it'll get better. He's a sweet guy don't get me wrong but I can tell that he pities me and I don't want his or anyone's pity which is why I have never told anyone that I have depression. And back to the "he treats me like I'm extremely delicate" one time, he was talking about horror movies with me, and I said that I cannot last 2 minutes watching a horror movie and he joking responded "Don't be such a baby" I knew he was joking and I didn't take any offense to it at all but like 5 seconds after he said that he hugged me and said he was sorry. When I asked for what, he said "Because I called you a baby, I didn't mean to hurt you" How can I tell him to stop feeling bad for me without coming off as a complete ungrateful jerk? |
| Question: Even tho she's a manager, should I still tell her how I feel? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:12 PM PST It seems one day she'll come up to me and start talking to me. And then the next when I go and try to say hey (to be respectful) it seems like she tries to walk away or something .. me and this person are actually friends. She's a little more than twice my age. I'm 21 and she's 49 and she even said she looks at me like a daughter figure (step daughter)..this job is just a grocery store btw. .. like the other day I walked over to her and it seems like she was like trying to walk away quickly or something. I mean it could be in my head. But its like one day shell talk to me then the next day shell be knda distant...and itll keep happening. We both transferred the same store with a couple other people and we would always talk at the last store.im kinda freaking out cause I told her things and I don't want it getting spreaded around or anything. She told me personal things as well.. I know she's my manage but I feel you can be friends with whoever the hell you want regardless. Should I tell her how I feel or no? |
| Question: Should I go back or no?.? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:04 PM PST To sum it up... I've worked for this place for some years and my boss I guess grew some type of attachment to me. He got really possessive of me and we never dated nor slept together. It never occurred to me that he might be interested in me in that way. Anyway once I got pregnant I left cause his behavior was just getting worse. To the point he was giving me specialized rules to follow. But now it's been two years since I left and he did tell me my job is available if I wanted to come back. Do you think if I go back he'll not be the same jealous, possessive, breathing down my neck maniac. Or maybe he'll change since I haven't been there in years?. |
| Question: Why is it in real life I always make friends and on the Internet I always make enemies? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:02 PM PST In real life I get along well with most of the people I meet and my friendships with them last. Most people seem to like me but on the Internet, especially on Facebook, with people I have never met before, mainly, I end up on bad, non-speaking terms with them all the time resulting in unfriending and/or blocking them. I wonder why this is. |
| Question: Friend talked to a girl about something only between us.? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:01 PM PST I was talking to a friend about this girl in our classes who always stares at me in my American history, so I was asking what should I say. The next day in our active physics my friend showed her the texts (I heard this from a best friend that the girl was informed by my other friend) and I don't know what she thinks? What should I do? |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 12:00 PM PST I dated my ex-boyfriend for about a year. I broke up with him because he cheated on me with 3 other girls and verbally abused me. Anyway, I saw him at a party a while back and he confronted me in a hallway. We were alone and he said we "had to get back together." I said no so he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls! I was able to catch both of his babymakers and drive those suckers hard with my pointed boots. After I rocked his ballsack, he fell down and puked. The look on his face was priceless. Anyway, I guess I got him so good his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad but I've also heard he has been telling people he will never mess with a girl again and says he is glad I did not rupture his other nut. He now wears an athletic cup protector all the time to save his remaining jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" underneath them. Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power of male weakness. Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? Most creative response gets best answer. Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over :) |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:56 AM PST My friend is ignoring me and I don't know why. I have no idea what I did. I tried to tell her that a character in a musical I am in reminds me of her because of how the character helps mine through hard situations and is there for her. I said I was going to put her in the thank you part of my biography in the program. That was last Thursday and she never said anything. She watched my snapchat story on Monday, so I sent a snap that said "Did you get my message on Thursday? Did I say something wrong?" She opened it and didn't reply. I know I can't try anymore without being really annoying, but I just want to know why. I want to know what I did wrong. She has helped me through so many hard things, and she surprised me in the fall by coming to see my school musical and I hadn't seen her in months. I don't know what I can do. It's making me really sad and I can't stop thinking about it. |
| Question: Why do people treat me like this??? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:54 AM PST So I was in class today..I was absent yesterday and whatever so I don't know what we are doing..so yesterday we had to pick partners for a project (i have no friends in school so you can kinda see where this is going.) (I have plenty of friends outside of school but that doesn't help this situation) So there was this one boy who didn't have a partner(he's popular and he always hangs out with the girls and some of his close friends) and my teacher tried to assign me with him..but he literally started begging and pleading for him not to assign me with him..then all his friends are like "aww don't make her feel bad" they stated laughing and eventually the teacher assigned me to some other girl .. So what is it that everyone dislikes me for..I personally think I'm pretty, I'm kinda quiet..but I speak when I'm spoken to it just when I have something to say... something to say.. I'm really nice to others of they're nice to me.. So please. Tell me what's wrong with me?.. |
| Question: Is it inappropriate for a girl and a guy to sleep next to each other if they're friends? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:50 AM PST my friend and I have been friends for about two years. We are close and we are just friends. Sometimes if we were all out late, as a group, we will stay over his house and his bed is big. So I slept in bed next to him. nothing ever happened. My mom says it is inappropriate for a girl to sleep next to a guy. we are in our 20's. what do you think? |
| Question: My life is boring and I have no friends? I NEED A FRESH START BUT HOW?!? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:46 AM PST I'm a freshman and next year I will be going to an online school because I have a hard time at school and I slack off and never do anything.....ANYTHING! I have bad grades and my mom doesn't know because I always burn my report card when it comes in the mail. I want a fresh start at this new school BUT I'm the most shy and awkward person you will ever meet. I can't make friends because I feel like I'm not good enough and I'll be too awkward to talk to anyone. I really want to hav friends and go hang out at the beach or have sleepovers and stuff. Even though I will be going to online school, I want to do sports. I've never done sports before and I'm nervous as hell about it, I'm so nervous I kind of just want to forget about it. But I also want friends, so I'll have to do sports BUT IM SCARED I DONT KNOW!! I just want to make my mom proud. She makes me feel like shït and like I'm worthless. She wants me to have lots of nice friends and go hang out with them, she wants me to do good in school and dress really nice. I sort of dress like a hobo, I buy good quality clothes, but then I pair them terribly and it makes me look poor. She wants me to take care of myself and have good hygiene and always have a clean room. And you know what? I want TO BE LIKE THAT TOO! Why my mom wants is what I want, and until I learn to get along with people, not be so shy, not be so scared to soak to new people and try new things, neither me or my mom will be happy about myself. I just thought maybe someone out there has some advice on how to get over this fear of making new friends and trying new things. How can I get in the habit of keeping a clean room and having good hygiene. What can I do to stop slacking off in school and actually have good grades? |
| Question: Why does he act differently when we are alone vs when we are around friends? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:29 AM PST When we are alone he is so nice and always smiling. He tells me things he claims he doesn't usually tell anyone and we maintain eye contact. I even catch him staring at me while in class. When others are around he does not try to talk to me, but I do see him look at me every now and then. It is as if I am not really there to him at times with others. Why am I dealing with two different personalities here? |
| Question: Hi my husband and friend have been texting is that ok? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:24 AM PST he never told me that they text with each other. recently i went to my friend s house and i was talking to her about something and she told me she already knew because my husband had told her i didn t know they spoke like also while she was showing me the messaging in one of them it saying come over and bring beer and food when i confront him he say he was joking because he knew she wasn t gonna come. he say im taking stuff out of proportion and that she knew her before even me so i couldn t get mad please am i over reacting |
| Question: What do the items in the gift boxes mean on the Kendall and Kylie game? Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:21 AM PST |
| Posted: 09 Mar 2016 11:14 AM PST Me and my friends went to mc for lunch and the principle saw us walking in , and she said who drove and I did and she asked for our last names and she said she would talk to us later what should I say?? |
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