I am LITERALLY so torn. I'm in eighth grade, and so I will be attending high school next year. I am so torn between the two schools. Okay, the all-girls, Catholic/private school has about 300 kids, but around 35 new ninth graders/incoming students like me. A lot of people I know are going, and while I was there, I felt like I could meet a lot of new people, but then again at the same time I couldn't, because either I already know them or like I just wouldn't make friends with them. Since a lot of peers from my school are going, like I'd know lots of people. My older sister also graduated from there, so she obviously told me to go there. This school costs $16,800 annually, but it might be around $10,000 for me with scholarships. My mother is also in a tough financial situation, and I don't want to put so much of a burden on her to pay for my sister's college AND $10,000 for me. This school also has diversity, which is important, but it lacks in like vocational electives, like fashion, culinary arts, etc. which is what the public school has. The public school is a brand new facility with over 1,300 students. I mean, coming from a small Catholic schools all my life, that idea is a bit nervewracking, but it doesn't really bother me. This public school is obviously $0, so it wouldn't put so much pressure on my mom and would allow my sister to stay in college and me to get extra stuff like clothes for public school and maybe a car. The school has a lot of people, and a few girls...

Not as important as having good relatives? I mean, we all need aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, grandparents, etc. They make up who we are and a spouse comes second. It's nice to have a good spouse, but it's harder to find one and spouses come and go in this day and age so aren't relatives more important than a good spouse?

I'm 15 and my mom has wen touching me since I was 10!!! She grabs it all the ******* time! My family knows but it just seems normal now because of how long this has been going on! I feel uncomfortable and she won't stop!

My wife and I are newly weds. I'm 24 she's 22. We just moved across the country to Philly for work and my new brother in law came with us. We graduated high school together and went to college together but we weren't ever friends. Well it's been about three months and she wants me to kick him out. He is only working part time and can't really afford what we asked of him for rent. She is also getting annoyed that we have no private time. Our apartment is small so we are kind of on top of each other. He has also walked in on us getting intimate twice. She wants him out immediately and I would like him gone too but he has nowhere to go. He has no family or friends here. She want me to kick him out now but I just can't do that. I really don't know what to do. I'm in a tight spot right now.

I'm 18 I I live next door to a couple with 2 young children. A couple of years ago, they divorced and the wife moved out. Yesterday, I babysat the kids and we swam in their pool. After,I was showering butI realized that I forgot my bra from the bedroom. I didn't want to walk out topless in case the husband was there so I called out his name to see if he was near by. When I didn't hear anything, I walked out completely topless and then as I was rounding the corner, I ran into him. I shrieked and tried to cover up but it was too late. He shouted and repeatedly saidsorry..it was an honest mistake as it turns out he had his earphones in with loud music on and hadnt heard me.I realized then the atmosphere had changed-it was the first time I ever saw him in "that" way. I could tell he was aroused seeing me topless although I could tell he was trying hard not to stare. Instead of backing away, I lifted his hands to my breasts. He fondled and squeezed them and we kissed. It was the first time a man has ever made me feel like that but suddenly it was like reality hit us, and we instantly stopped and backed away. I ran to my room andgot dressed, and was on my way out. He left my money on the table near the door. Basically, we never saw each other after that and now it's SUPER awkward. I guess my question is, how do I fix this?! I am usually not inappropriate, Ive always been known as a "good girl." I can't believe what I did-please help me fix this situation! Thanks! Btw, he's 36 if that helps. I also hate what I did because I hate my small boobs since I'm self conscious about my body :(

I kind of have a crush on him, and I've made a few unnecessary comments about him to fellow employees, and I'm just afraid word might get out or at the least he hears my name, what I've said. I don't have reason to believe anyone would tell him or care enough to talk about it. I know plenty of other people do, but I don't want him thinking badly of me saying some of the stuff I said and make a bad impression like I gossip, especially since I didn't mean most of it. Should I confront him about this or just wait it out and hope for the best? I really don't even know how to contact him or pull him aside and say something if I wanted to.

My (former) best friend got engaged to be married at a very young age and I was surprised by her decision. When I asked her why she chose him she said "I don't know, I just...I just think that he's cool...you know...he's okay, good I mean" What??? Seriously? And that's just one person, there are others I know who give retarded answers like that! Don't they realize that is is a HUGE step? No wonder there are a lot of failed marriages and dysfunctional families.

Eso me pasa... Les ha pasado, es posible superarlo si siempre ha sido así?

My sister in law lives 3000 miles away so we don t see each other often thankfully but when we do speak over the phone she tries to be bossy and or take jabs at me. For instance:she and I are the same height and she says "your daughter gets her height from her dad because you re short" ..my husband is 5 9" & I m 5 5". Her mother and sister are 5 8". Or she ll say "your daughter gets her straight hair from her auntie (her)" meanwhile I m the one with straight hair and hers is naturally spiral. Or how my son looks exactly like his father not like me even though our baby pictures side by side look almost identical and everyone but her agrees. When we bought our house the first thing she said is "its nice you just need to paint it" it had already been painted. Recently she said regarding our toddler son once to my husband and once to me "it s time for you to baby proof your house" because she saw a picture of him climbing into a low kitchen cabinet where there s nothing dangerous. We let him pull things out and also let him pull out DVD s from a shelf. I told her that we let him and she insisted that we d get tired of putting everything back. I told her that it doesn t bother us but she wanted to keep insisting that it would eventually. These are basically what our entire conversations are about, oh and how we should fly out to visit them because they don t have money to fly out here. This is the sister my husband likes so I m not sure if I should mention her behavior.

My wife is from a large family with both of her parents still alive. I am an only child whose parents have passed away recently. My wife's family gets together a lot between holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, graduations from pre-school and kindergarten, and openings of the mail to say nothing of their insistent " we must come to your house to do household projects that we think you need and to see our grandchildren and nephews." There are a few of them who I will diplomatically say that I do not care to see. Adding to this all is that this summer, her oldest brother is coming out with his family for three weeks and we will also be attending a wedding of one of my wife's many cousins that is an 8 hour drive from our home where we will all be in the same hotel together for the entire four days. This is way too much of her family time for me. If she wants to spend time with them, go for it. But how do I convince my wife now and in the future that I want to work out a compromise where I don't have to spend all of that time with her family?

my husband and i been together 5 years it isnt always easy but i love him so much about a year ago we had an issue and he cheated on me we worked threw it n me n him are still going strong so i thought so i have this ex boyfriend i dated when i was 13 -____ for a week that my older sister sucked his penis after me n hi broke up never did anything with this guy i was just a kid but my family has him around all the time and when they have an issue with him they call me now my husband is upset he says that i talk about my ex to much he does not beleive me when say i cant stand this guy but i honestly cant he threatened my family a bunch of times why would i still want him in my life ? but my husband doesnt listen when i say it i get where he is coming from i understand he is n ex n shouldnt be around i have asked my family to keep me out the buisness with this kid i even stoped talking to my family because they would not listen lately my husband doesnt cal me on brake no more he doesnt say imu he doesnt say i love like he use to idk if this is causen him to see me diffrent or if i should be worried i truly do love my husband but i feel like im losen him helpp

My much older cousin pretend to spank me in the butt when we were playing but he was motioning towards to my vagina area from back. I remember it strangely felt good but somehow I knew it was wrong...

Apa yg akan kamu lakukan bila bertemu ato melihat org yg kamu sayank jalan ato jadian dengan org lain..!! 😢

I had a friend which now disappeared on me .to start off i cosigned for a kawisaki 300 for him that went fine then he wanted something bigger so we went back the next year and got a kawisaki 636 i couldn't cosign for that so i put it in my name everything else was in his name ins reg etc . The bike got stolen a month later come to find out the kid changed the insurance a few times . So the insurance company didnt pay out due to fraudulent activity so now im stuck with the balence from the trade in and new bike .i need advice . Help

My ex husband and I divorced many moons ago after he cheated and now is married to the girl he cheated with. A few yrs ago, she tried to add me on Facebook for some reason and it bothered me. I blocked her. Now that I am not angry with them anymore, my husband (yes I am happily remarried) told me that the mature thing to do would be to unblock her. My ex was abusive to me and he feels that she was trying to reach out to me for information, I am not sure. I think she wanted to rub in my face that she has him (which I do not care about). Should I unblock her or what? My ex's sister feels that she and I could be "friends" and we are very similar. I have never talked to her, I don't know. We have a child together that he refuses to see and she has not met.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over three years now. We both wish to have a baby. We re both 18, and have jobs. I work a part-time job while he works as a full time electrician's apprentice, making about $18 an hour. (He does wish to go up in the ranks, of course). He has an almost three-year-old daughter already, but he wants for us to start a family of our own (and see my step daughter when we can, which sadly, is not that often). I ve already moved in with him and we re managing a very healthy and happy relationship. We also have good financial stability. Because we re young, I m afraid that we will be faced with problems. Of course my college schooling will make things difficult; though, I ve *almost* achieved all of my first year s credits through high school AP classes. My mindset is that college will essentially be the equivalent of my work life once I have an actual job - time-consuming. As well as those issues, I have medical problems. So here is where I get to my issues: I have both PCOS and endometriosis. Do these ailments typically lead to infertility in a woman s earlier or later years? OR, does age not matter? My doctors very rarely feel the need to explain to me the details, which can be annoying. I m very fearful that my attempts at becoming pregnant could be futile. Will I inevitably be faced with miscarriages and infertility as my mother had, or will my age make things better (or even worse)?

When I was in high school one of my classmates didn't have a lot of money. I was immature & bullied him. Nothing overtly physical, but verbal abuse Once I said something like, "My dad paid for that free lunch you're eating because your dad cant get a real job." Anyway, when we graduated he joined the Army. At the post-grad party I told him I hoped he stayed safe. He told me what I could do to myself. I had at least that much coming. The last I heard he was in the Army, but today I went to buy a car and he was the salesman. He was very professional. Asked all the right questions. About halfway through I tried to apologize for being so cruel to him. But he stopped me and said "water under the bridge." And it might be. He might not want to rip my head off. I know I couldn't be so forgiving if our places were reversed. It also might be that he really wanted to sell a car. So once we agreed on a price, I had to get it covered and finance it through my bank. So tomorrow after work I go get the keys and sign the paperwork. Should I try to apologize again? Or did him waving it off take care of that? Water under the bridge or not I don't think it's time to ask him if he wants to go out for drinks..

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over three years now. We both wish to have a baby. We re both 18, and have jobs. I work a part-time job while he works as an electrician s apprentice, making ~$30,000 a year. (He does wish to go up in the ranks, of course). He has an almost three-year-old daughter already, but he wants for us to start a family of our own (and see my step daughter when we can, which sadly, is not that often). I ve already moved in with him and we re managing a very healthy and happy relationship. We also have good financial stability. Because we re young, I m afraid that we will be faced with problems. Of course my college schooling will make things difficult; though, I ve *almost* achieved all of my first year s credits through high school AP classes. My mindset is that college will essentially be the equivalent of my work life once I have an actual job - time-consuming. As well as those issues, I have medical problems. So here is where I get to my issues: I have both PCOS and endometriosis. Do these ailments typically lead to infertility in a woman s earlier or later years? OR, does age not matter? My doctors very rarely feel the need to explain to me the details, which can be annoying. I m very fearful that my attempts at becoming pregnant could be futile. Will I inevitably be faced with miscarriages and infertility as my mother had, or will my age make things better (or even worse)?

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Can someone please tell me how to add a review button to my fb page? ive already tried changing the category and it still did not appear. i currently have 30,000 page likes dont know if this effects it? https://www.facebook.com/Ladyberryshop/photos

My mother and I had a recent SERIOUS falling out. I can't stand her, she can't stand me. I was never her favorite. She has 5 sons and I am the only daughter. Sad but true. Anyway, when we were on good terms we planned a cruise vacation, total cost $3600 divided between the 2 of us. She chose the upgrades that made the trip cost about $1000 more than it needed to be, but she wanted to be comfortable. I could have had a great vacation with cheap plain tickets and a basic cruise ship cabin. After our falling out, we she decided she still wants to go on this trip. It is a big ship, we can do our own thing while there...but she is YET to pay her part of the trip cost. When I asked her about it...she acted shocked that I was asking her to pay her half. Even though we discussed and agreed to pay half each. She is acting like she is doing me a favor going. I told her she should go because, even though I can't stand her, she is still my mother and I love her despite how she treats me. She has worked hard all her life to support my brothers and her extended family...everyone but ME. But I am an independent woman so...it is what it is. I told her firmly that she needs to pay her half. Then she tells me she is ONLY going to pay the BASE price for the cruise and the plane tickets, she wont pay for the upgrades SHE insisted on, because it is too expensive. The cruise is in 2 weeks, she has not paid me one cent This p*sses me off because this entire vacation was made based on HER preferences...now she does not want to pay for her half and I am stuck with the bill. I feel like a jerk, wanting to leave her at home...idea of giving her a free vacation on my hard earned money ticks me off big time. If she was at least a decent mother...I might cut her some slack...but to me...she is not.

I'm incapable of verbally expressing the way I feel, but I can say how I feel through a messenger service... For example I've been talking to this girl I know online for a while now, I tell her that she's beautiful etc, but when it comes to face to face, I'm unable to say how I feel about her. Also my mum has raised me and my elder brother basically on her own, dad was in the picture but barely, she's done everything she can and more for us when she's got so little and I can't tell her I love her, of course I do, but I can't say it to her. It's basically killing me inside that I can't say that I care about these two examples and a few others. Can anyone help in any way? Any suggestions? Anything that could help me say how I feel to the people I care greatly about will be massively appreciated.

Got drunk and got naked in a brothel. Told the women only a massage and laid down on my stomach. Passed out and got woken up by the prostitute about 2 hours later, still laying in the same position i originally laid down in. Did i get raped while i passed out. Did the women do anything to be. Only honest answers, i'm traumatized

I am a female freshman in high school and last semester I noticed this junior in PE. She's really pretty, smart, loves basketball and so do I. I don't know why I noticed her but I did. I didn't really go up and talk to her or anything. Anyways, the semester ended shortly after and I was mad at myself for not talking to her. She's a junior, Im a freshman and she's way out of my league. I am not a lesbian... or Bi... I don't think. But then I realized she was in my 6th period for foods and nutrition for the next semester. I get really really red and nervous when I have to speak in front of the class because I know she can definitely see me. I got so weird that I started skipping class just to see her walking to her next class and hope she'd notice me as well. I once thought about it and I was like, WOW! If I was her, I'd find that super duper creepy and stalkery and just disturbing. I never meant for this to happen, she makes me do stupid things and I can't help it. Please help me get my mind straight, I hate the way this all played out. I am only typing this because I haven't told anyone and it's eating me inside out. Please tell me anything, at this point I already know it's creepy but please confirm it if you think its super super super super creepy. Also, I do sometimes notice her staring back at me in the hallways or in my 6th period but it's not a "WTF are you staring at me for" type of stare. What is that supposed to mean? I left the category as it is because I have absolutely no idea what category this would fall under.

Does that mean he loves me, or he thinks I don't love him? He said this when we were talking about our relationship. He said it after he said it feels like we don't get anywhere. We've been together 8 1/2 months.

I am getting frustrated with myself. My boyfriend and i both college graduates from the same school, which is how we met. He got a job in this city where our college was. This is the city where I grew up and I desire to stay in my small city. But I keep applying, interview and getting rejected for jobs I m realizing hat I should move to a larger city that s two hours away. As time goes on, I m thinking down on myself. I love him and all he have is me here but I m also scared to move away, since this is where I grew up. I m just wondering what I should do?

Sorry it's a long story. We got our income tax and since we have a kid it was a lot. But we currently don't have jobs so my mother in law has a bank account linked to ours (I know) and she asked my boyfriend if she could have 200 my boyfriend told her no 150 so she took it to "pay bills" a few days later I'm looking at the account and see this and ask wtf was that for? And so my boyfriend tells me and I am not ok with it because she goes shopping every weekend has lots of doonie and burk purses and really expensive things and yet she takes money from us. And then if that wasn't bad enough I keep checking the account and see another 50 taken out a few days later on a Monday. Even my boyfriend didn't know anything about this one so I ask her she said it was to order pizza on the weekend and the payment doesn't show up until the next business day -_- So she missed another week of work so stay home with her spoils brat daughter and went out shopping everyday and now today after 1 day of back at work is going out to buy new couches to go with her new carpet she's getting tomorrow. I have had enough.

I m 15 years old and I ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we literally have everything in common. We go to school together and we do sports together every day so we see eachother a lot. Over school holidays we don t see eachother that much because he s busy and we live far away from eachother. But I find myself thinking about him a lot and I can t stop thinking about him. We don t text that much because he s really bad at texting In general and he s also really shy and awkward but he s not that bad with me But soon it will be summer holidays and I feel 3 months away will be a long time. What should I do

I am forced to be a hooker. When my daughters school found out what i do they told me i am not allowed to volunteer in my daughters class?My daughters teacher got upset because he knows i am forced to do what i do. He always sees my black eye and bruises and confronted me about it and i told him that my husband makes me do what i do. He is mad that i am nit allowed to go on the school campus and i respect that but i want to write him a letter. Please tell me if this is a good letter or not: Mr. Jim I know I am not allowed to contact you but I had to for the last time. Please forgive me because I wasnt honest with you. Before i volunteered in your class I should have told you that I am a hooker. I want u to know that i do that stuff because i have to not beacuse I want to. That is not my charactor. when i volunteered in your class i never had any bad intentions towards you and I considered the students my own children. If somethibg happened to me i want to make sure you forgave me because i cant rest in peace knowing you are mad at me Please discard this letter because I dont want to cause any problems for you. I am blessed that you are Jannas teacher, hopefully she will finish the year with you. I dont know if u know this but you are Janna and my role model, you touched our lives and youproved to us that there are good men out there. I know you will continue to touch many lives because you are a amzing teacher. Have a good life Fatima

So my friend who is like a sister to me had been getting beaten by her husband, I went to her hotel room and one thing led to another when two adults are alone in a room together. Anyway the back story is that I attend Brigham Young university, her husband called my college and told them what was going on then he showed up on campus and beat me up with a baseball bat which consisted of a broken leg, broken ribs concussion and punctured lungs ...Anyway my university now is holding a hearing to decide what will happen to me for breaking the honor code several times. Rules I broke: staying in a hotel room with member of the opposite sex, sneaking out of the dorm after hours, disgracing my university's good name. I pressed charges against the guy who beat me up