Family: Question: My Dad Is Going Mad?

Question: My Dad Is Going Mad?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 01:10 PM PDT

So Recently He has been Very Paranoid. This happened three years ago but it only lasted a day, But These passed few Weeks He has Been saying Spies are out to get him...He went to the hospital and he got medicine and Stuff And they said he had PTSD...He came home a week ago and he seemed fine. Time skip to today He was Almost going to Rip the cabels out saying spies are watching him and That Our Cat Nala Has a Chip In Her. Hes already taken his medicine; My mom watched him take it; But hes accusing us now... He usually gets hostile and yells and such and then locks himself Up in His bedroom.... What do I Do? What CAN I do? He refuses to go back to the hospital, And Honestly Im afraid He will snap and actually do something. Calling the cops Is not..A Good Idea because He thinks Cops Are working with the spies and He'd attack them... What Is Wrong with him?

Question: Is it bad that I miss my dad?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 01:04 PM PDT

Years ago, my dad was very abusive. We didn't really have a father daughter connection. He was more abusive to my mother and sister. But now he's currently in prison. He's sentence is 30 years...its been 5 years since he's in prison. Now I miss him but only the GOOD side of him(he did had his good days). I also wish that I had a real father daughter connection. I sometimes speak to him over the phone and he seems he changed. He's a preacher at the prison now. But is is bad/abnormal that I forgave him and wanting him back so I can have that father and daughter moments?

Question: 16 year old seeking to live permanently with father with no contact from biological mother? (Has been living with father for past year)?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 12:58 PM PDT

I am a 16 year old girl who has been living with my dad and step-mom (who I consider my real mom) for the past year and a half. I no longer want to see my biological mother anymore and she has threatened multiple times to take my father and I to court over this. The decision to move to my fathers was based on the fact that my biological mother was going through a divorce and abusing alcohol. Once I moved out she started drinking a lot more and accusing me of abandoning her and her son (who I raised from the age of 12 unit I was 14 and moved out.) She is now a recovered alcoholic, although a compulsive liar and continues to explode at me for leaving her house, when I brought up not wanting to see her anymore she claimed that if she took my father and I to court she would win costudy of me. I want to know if this is true. They both have joint custody although I don't know if she had residential prior to agreeing to me moving. It was never settled through court. Since moving my GPA has gone up, I finally have a family, my mom (step-mom) and dad just had another baby, I have a social life and I have never been happier in my life. This is my home now and I'm so scared that when I tell her this weekend that I will not be visiting her anymore she's going to take me away and take me to court. (Please help, serious answers only) I'm graduating next year too...

Question: How do I cut ties with my parents?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 12:51 PM PDT

My parents have been physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive to me since I was about six years old. I am now about to turn 19 years old, and I m finishing my freshman year at a university. I live on campus, and at the beginning of last semester I went home whenever we had a break (about once a month), but now I only leave when campus closes. In other words, I leave when there is no other choice, because every time I go home, it results in my parents screaming at me, telling me that they hate me and never want to see me again, and treating me in a way that no parent should ever treat their child. When I left after Spring Break, they told me never to come back. They said they would finish helping me pay for the rest of the semester, but they wouldn t pay for next year. They said they would come and pick up my car Easter weekend and sell it. My birthday is the day after Easter, and I had asked them if we could meet somewhere between home and school and maybe eat dinner together that day, but they said I won t hear from them on my birthday because they don t want to see or speak to me again. I have decided that I can t take this anymore. I want to cut ties from them completely, but I don t know how. They pay for part of my college, and I pay for the other part with money I have saved. The car I drive is theirs, but they said they would be selling that anyway. I don't have enough money to pay for the rest of my tuition for the next three years, but they said they won't be paying for it anyway. I have a job on campus, but it pays very little. My checking account is a joint account between my mom and me, although all the money in it is money I have earned. They also control my savings account, and they pay my insurance. They constantly use the control they have over my finances to threaten me and control me. My question is, how do I gain control of my own finances and anything else I might not be aware of, and is it possible for me to take out a loan to cover the rest of my college?

Question: Dad going crazy, need help.?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 12:45 PM PDT

I m a 17 year old boy living with my parents it s gotten so bad to where I can t even use the bathroom at night without my dad getting up and start yelling about the light from under the bathroom door keeping him up. Thats not possible because the amount of light visible from under the door is so small. but Even when I put something under the door to where he cant see it he ll get up and go around to the other door to see if I m in there and then complain that I m keeping him up, he has to make an effort to see it so I know for a fact it s not keeping up but he just doesn t want me using the bathroom, he ll get up and start yelling about me masturbating and stuff (he s a radical Christian so he s against masturbation) He s turned off all the circuit breakers in our apartment while I m in the bathroom so I couldn t see anything. He locks the bathroom door so I can t go in. It s connected to his room so there s two doors. He locks the one on the outside so only the can access it, I have to wake up my mom to go into the room and then open it up at like 1:00 am. He s threatening to kick me out when I m 18 because "he knows what I m doing in there". My mom and him are separating and she says she won t let him kick me out but considering the fact that she lets him do whatever else he wants without doing anything to avoid " confusion" I highly doubt that, what can I do short of leaving the bathroom door open, this is so degrading.

Question: Cant find it in my heart to forgive my mom (or not be angry with her)?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 12:41 PM PDT

Hi all, a little background. I am 19 and havent spoken to my mom in two years. I hope its not too dramatic to say that I feel that she absolutely broke my heart. My mom was a serial cheater, drove our family to bankruptcy etc. She also broke up someone's family(one of the men she had an affair with) in addition to hers. She stole over 13K from my dad by forging checks and got away with it bc my dad loved her & wanted to make things work. Long stort short, she reconciled w/ him, made promises to stay faithful and gave our family false hope. Then out of the blue, she packed up her bags and left without leaving word. Just like that. I later found out she ran off with another man. I found out where she was staying and confronted her. She tried to apologize and I told her I hated her and never wanted to see her again. That was the last time I spoke to her and she has sent me numerous messages online asking for forgiveness recently, but I just cant. I am still so hurt and angry. I know its not my life, but the thing that hurts the most is how seriously depressed my dad became when she left. He did not sleep & eat properly for some time, became extremely emotional and clingy,etc. It just breaks my heart knowing she has hurt not only our family but others too(she slept w/ several married men) How do I forgive her for everything(if I even should)? I am a deeply religous person and I feel terrible that I cant find it in my heart to stop holding a grudge. Any advice will be helpful.

Question: Do you sometimes TOUCH YOUR GENITAL AREAS OR BUTT. or play with yourself?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 12:41 PM PDT

Question: Im gonna kill myself my parents refuse to listen to me i want to move out this summer and my mom said I'm not allowed to so i spit in her?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 12:36 PM PDT

face because she is a ***** and I'm every thing i do is wrong im 24 years old and I'm too shy to get a job i can't help it i can't talk to people I'm really afraid to talk to strangers, i can't even go to a job interview or apply for one i hate my mom she jerk so is my dad

Question: How to find out who my father is?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 12:02 PM PDT

Im turning 16 rhis year and i grew up with my mom and half brother. I never met my father. He was never in the picture. My mother pretty much just had a one night stand with him and she doesnt know much about him. Not even his last name. I want to find him but i dont know how i could go about doing that since i know so little about him. I do know his first name. But that's about it. Help?

Question: Am I considered spoiled?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 11:43 AM PDT

My parents give me whatever I ask for..I got an iPhone 5s for my first phone but I said I didn't want a phone at all so they got me an iPhone 6s just like that...makes no sense My dad gives me $20 a week for no reason at all I could ask to take a day off from school because I'm tired/my stomach hurts/I don't feel like going etc...and they'd let me take off My friends always tell me how jealous they are of all the stuff I have..but I have never showed off about anything and I never would

Question: How do I get through an in-law family wedding?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 11:27 AM PDT

In a few months, my wife, our two children under the age of three, and I will be attending a wedding of one of the many cousins of my wife. It is being billed as the "last of the big cousin weddings" with the reverential tone of a royal wedding along with the same mandatory attendance requirement for all of the family. I may or may not have met the cousin already, I don't know because my wife's family's numbers are legion. Let's also just say that my wife's family is not high on the list of people that I want to spend time with. Sometimes that shows in how I conduct myself at other gatherings with them. It has caused my wife some consternation. This wedding will be in the summer and an eight hour drive from our home. It's a Saturday wedding, but we will be arriving Friday and leaving Monday. It is an entire weekend with her family, from her parents to her cousins 8 times removed, and all of them drive me crazy. Not attending is not an option because my wife would have to take care of both of our kids. What I am looking for are strategies to successfully navigate this weekend so that I deal with my own stress of being tired, taking care of our kids and my wife's family ticking me off while not upsetting my wife so that we do not have to endure a long angry ride home because of something I did or said. How do I get through this wedding and weekend?

Question: Disabled siblings?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 11:25 AM PDT

I'm just asking what your life was like having a disabled sibling. I'm doing research for my story. I need your feelings, what it was like, etc. more info, the better! Thanks for your help! :)

Question: How do I celebrate the holidays now that my parents have passed away?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 11:09 AM PDT

I am coming up on the one year anniversary of my last remaining parent passing away. I have no brothers or sisters. I am married and I have two toddlers. I "got through" the first set of holidays ok, and that is all I can ask for. When my last parent was alive, my wife and I would spend part of the day with my parent and then go to my wife's parents. Now that my parent has passed, we obviously now just go to my wife's parents. While my relationship with my wife's family, who is much larger than my family, is cordial, I am not really comfortable around them and frankly, I do not like them. Our personalities don't mesh. These holiday gatherings are usually very loud with siblings battling for control of the seemingly never ending "celebration." All I can think of is that here I am with a bunch of people I do not particularly care for and that I will never celebrate these holidays on earth with my parents again. That thought just depresses me. I also tend to get a bit grouchy while I am there until the event ends because of it. How do I deal with this?

Question: Can I be successful?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 10:50 AM PDT

My brother always yells at my mom and my mom yells at him. I wish my brother wasn't noisy like this. Can I still study and be successful at school?

Question: Strict parents won't let me go to a wedding with my boyfriend of 3-years family?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 10:38 AM PDT

My parents have always been strict, in fact in the 3 years me and my boyfriend have been dating they've said "no" to every trip that is longer than a couple hours, only until we'd been dating for 2 years I convinced them to let me go on a day trip with his family to go hiking. But my parents were still being weird, they said they dont like me spending all day with him, i was 19 years old. Now I'm 20, and I'm a successful junior in college, living on my own, with a great job on campus, a student teacher at a ms, a student ambassador at the University, and I never truly need my parents for anything. And they STILL treat me like I am five years old when I come home. My boyfriend is in the air force so i only see him every few months, and they still make me limit time with him, and text them 50 times a day. I am getting sick of it. It's like when I go home i'm back in middle school. My parents have never complimented me, but I know they care. So the wedding, basically in June my boyfriends cousin is getting married, and they asked me to come since I'm like part of the family now, and given our situation I haven't met many of his family members. The wedding is 4 hours away, we'd be gone for 2 days. My parents said no. I am getting fed up with this but their opinion means more to me than anything. Please help. any similar experiences?

Question: Im really young and depressed and kicked out I have no friends I have no one to go to because no one understands me?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 10:22 AM PDT

Lately my mom has been threatening me and calling me names. I'm 12 years old ... She has chocked me before she has banged my head against walls and I've cut myself and she blames it on me . I try to prevent the arguments but she yells at me even more. Today March 16, 2016 she told me to get out of her house until my dad gets me (my dad lives in Hawaii because the military ) . Can someone help me please.

Question: My mom has been threatening to hurt me and calling me names this past months. I'm 12 years old is this normal? Today she kicked me out help?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 10:12 AM PDT

Question: Who is your daddy?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 10:02 AM PDT

And what does he do?

Question: Please give me some advice on how to talk to my husband about this?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:42 AM PDT

I have heard a lot of stories about mother in law problems from my married friends but mine is just the opposite. My husbands mother Mary is my best friend. I just adore her. I recently had surgery and could not stay by myself for a week. She came and stayed with me for a week and took care of me so my husband did not have to take a week off work which we could not afford. She cooked and cleaned and took care of everything. I am now fully recovered thanks a lot to her great care. Her meals were to die for. We go shopping/looking about once a week and it is something we both greatly enjoy. She recently told me that she would like to start dating again and hopefully get married. Her problem is she did not think her son, my husband would approve. She is a very young looking 40+ woman. When some people see us together they think we are sisters. A great compliment for her. I told her the truth which is she is a beautiful woman and would make any guy a trophy wife. She will not have any trouble finding a guy that would want to marry her. She has a gorgeous figure. I wish mine was that good. I told her if male companionship would make her happy, she should do it NOW. She ask me to talk to my husband to see how he would feel if she remarried. Someone please give me some advice on how approach this subject with my husband.

Question: What happens once you turn 18?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:40 AM PDT

I guess I'm just curious as far as what your parents can and cannot enforce on you anymore. For example, my parents are wanting me to end things with my 21 year old boyfriend because they're afraid I'll elope or whatever. I have absolutely zero intention of doing so, but they're convinced and have told me that if I don't end things with him, that they will talk to him themselves and tell him to leave me be. I'll be 18 in 2 weeks and at that point can they still really dictate that aspect of my life?

Question: Should I be mad a someone about this?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:36 AM PDT

I usually stand by our front door and my husband gives me a kiss as he leaves for work. This morning my mom was standing there with me as my husband was going to work. He gave me a kiss and mom said laughingly "My turn next" so my husband gave her a kiss on the cheek also. I was slightly embarrassed, Mom was surprised and though it was the funniest thing ever. Should I be mad at Mom, my husband, both of them or nobody? Wives, please give me your opinion.

Question: Should I be upset with my mom for doing this?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:34 AM PDT

My mom lost her job and got behind on her mortgage payments and was in danger of losing her home of 30 years. Of all the people she could of asked for help, she asked my ex husband Bill. She really liked Bill when we were married and he really liked her. I guess that friendship did not stop with our friendly divorce like I thought it would. Bill immediately paid the back mortgage payments and also he paid 1 years mortgage payments in advance. He also used his business contacts to get her a new job. That is totally in character with Bill. As long as I have known him, if he finds out someone needs help, he helps them. Mom went from VERY DEPRESSED to VERY HAPPY in one day. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I and my siblings agree that mom should of asked us first for help but we all admit we could not have helped her like Bill did. We just do not have that kind of money. I told Bill we would somehow repay him. He told me he would not accept any repayment. He said mom was great to us when we were married and this was his repayment to her. Am I off base to think mom should of asked us first before going outside the family for help. Is it possible that it would be too embarrassing for mom to ask her family for help?

Question: My mother fears her mother when her mother is actually very sweet, how can I get my mother to get over this?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:33 AM PDT

When my mother was a kid her father had a temper and though he died back in the 1990's my mother has remained terrified of her mother because her father apparently got real mad and hit if one of the kids displeased their mother. So now my mother gets angry at me if there is any risk I may displease her mother (like if I am 5 minutes late for Thanksgiving) when actually her mother is fine and not scary. My mother's life is devoted to impressing her mother to earn her love (my mother feels she must earn her mother's love). How do I get my mother to have a reality check here? I know it is rooted in my mother's father but how can I get her to see he has been dead for almost 20 years and it is safe now? Sorry the word mother is used so much

Question: My sister made my mom cry?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:31 AM PDT

This has been going on for months I'm crying while writing this please help me (I'm 12 years old) I'm feeling suicidal

Question: I am mad at my mother for years of alienating me from family including my father, how do I forgive her for this as I want to?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:29 AM PDT

Question: Trapped please help me?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:25 AM PDT

Really need advice? Long story short I hope every since I was 15 til 20 my parents have been very strict with me here & there I went out 18-20 I have to seek around stupid huh they don't let me DO ANYTHING for awhile I was forced to sit in my room they're not normal caring parents at all I've gotten super bad depression that NEVER goes away other thoughts feeling hopeless & worthless no matter what I've tried saying or doing they don't care no support no help no nothing but judging put down yelled at etc I have never really been able to live my life BC of this couldn't be or do what I want it's ridiculous I'm old enough very. Aware of the world been with guys before etc I'll be getting my driver's license hopefully in two months they barley help with that over the years I've gained unneeded weight stress issues sadness etc very long story I've tried talking to them texting put my issue's over Facebook NOTHING makes them notice what they have done I have no where else to go either

Question: Am I just being too sensitive or is there some favoritism?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:20 AM PDT

When I was 18, my parents "let me go" if you will. I had just moved home, by their prompting, from an abusive relationship. I was there for maybe 2 weeks without a job, found one in the next few weeks, and walked myself to work everyday. I did not rely on them for transportation. (I did not have a car at the time because of some sad circumstances). I paid 200$ every month to my parents for a place to stay, I excelled at my job, and even got a second offer and took it! I still didn't have a car - because of lack of time (due to working crazy retail hours) and money - but now I had to get to 2 jobs. My parents offered to sell me one of their cars for full price. I agreed and we made the decision I would be able to have it by the next week since I started my second (full time) job. They had chores I had to complete each week to pitch in for living there and I needed to keep the room I was in clean. This was a difficult task because I had a bunch of **** from moving! I didn't know what to do. They wanted me to unpack it all, but if I was going to move again would I not just appreciate having it here? So everything else was picked up, clean, but there were my boxes. Night before I go to my new job, I make sure the car thing is still working out. They sit me down and tell me if I don't shape up, stay home more, and clean my room they were kicking me out that evening - and no, of course you can't pay us for the car because you can't have it. I moved out that night... cont in details So I didn't have space for this: My drug abusing and alcoholic, 28 year old brother who had broken multiple rules, and had moved in and out of jail for 2 years for probation violations and DUI's, AS WELL AS getting kicked out of their house more than once, was living there - Rent free - and still abusing. Yet they kicked me out? Now, I've been out for 3 years and am supporting myself well... but they say I don't spend enough time with them. Didn't they push me away? And they think they're fair!

Question: Is this a normal reaction for a teenager or am I a really sick guy?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:19 AM PDT

I am a high school guy with a stepmother that is 10 years older than I am. My dad remarried a much younger woman. She is the greatest mom any guy can have and I adore her. She is also gorgeous. She has a figure to die for. My guess is she is a 36G. In the morning she likes to run around the house with a loose fitting robe on. Those 36Gs are there for me to see. I am afraid I am going to see her one morning and get a b0ner. Would that be totally wrong? It would embarrass me to no end. Is that a normal reaction for a teenager? Guys, any tips on how I keep from getting a b0ner in a situation like this would be greatly appreciated?

Question: Should I tell my sister to stop doing this?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:16 AM PDT

I am a high school senior guy with a 14 year old sister Lisa that I really like. My high school buddies like to hang out at my house and they also like Lisa a lot. Lisa has a lot of homework and she often ask my buddies to help her with her homework. They are happy to help as they enjoy helping her. Since they have started helping her, her grades are much better. Lisa is a very affectionate person so after her homework is finished she thanks the guys for their help, hugs them and gives them a kiss. THEY LOVE IT. It is not a romantic thing with her. It is just her way of saying thank you. My buddies just like being kissed by a beautiful girl. They act like they are just helping their little sister. I have told my buddies over and over that Lisa is NOT FLIRTING WITH THEM. Even so, I am afraid my buddies will get the wrong idea of Lisa's intentions. Do you think they will? Should I tell her to stop the hugging and kissing?

Question: Does she owe an apology? This is my 18 year old. She been on spring break and all I had her doing was one chore a day.?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:03 AM PDT

She has been doing what I asked so no drama. Except last night she on the phone I told her I needed her off by 1 a.m. small house. She says stop yelling at me because that all I do to her all day. Not true. She sleeps til 1:00 gets up eats does chore. I told her she owed me an apology because of trying to sound like victim to who she was talking to. She says I owe an apology for yelling. I said its my house I'm the adult. Who's right?

Question: My dad added me more grounding because i was masturbating?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 09:02 AM PDT

So.. 4 weeks ago my dad ground me for 2 weeks for bad grades and my grounding terms was Not allowed to.leave my room Not seeing my girlfriend No electronics this first 2 weeks was so boring so i start masturbating....while my dad caught mr he added me 2 more weeks of grounding??...isnt that fair right?? I mean i am 13 pliz help

Question: My grandfather has terminal cancer, if he is still alive at the holidays next year how can I get my mother to still let me see both families?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 08:54 AM PDT

By both families it is her father (he has stage III colon cancer) but I will want to see my Dad's side of the family also. Both families live 10 minutes apart but she will say :this is your grandfather's last Christmas, spend 15 hours with him and not 13". Meanwhile all my cousins that are my age are on the other side of the family. So how can I see both sides. I can drive but I will be a senior in high school so still subject to home rules. Family relationships is the only thing we argue about as after my Dad died when I was in 6th grade my mother has worked to shut my Dad;s side of the family out more and more. My cousins on my mother's side are all like 10 years younger and little kids, Dad's side they are largely my age.

Question: Parent think my hobbies are useless?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 08:34 AM PDT

I've always wanted to learn piano, but my parent think it's a waste of money. But it's something fun and a good outlet.. The only thing they want me to do is study and complains when I stayed home doing nothing.. Since I can't have a hobby what is there to do?! I am tired of my parent expecting me to follow their orders..

Question: Do you think what I did what was right?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 08:23 AM PDT

My step father is laid off, and does nothing but play on his phone commanding me to do stuff for him. I do the stuff for him, but it began to build up until this morning I had to vent out to my mom about how he won t let me have a break (he s asking me to do chores constant) I was telling her that it s spring break for me, and I want a break from school...he also tells me to do stuff for him after I get home from school. And how he s been at home for almost 4 months doing nothing, not making any money. I just said "whatever" and proceeded to do the chore. As I went back upstairs, my step dad apparently heard all this and asked me why I told her. I just responded "it s just getting on my nerves." He then proceeds to get up and start cussing at me to tell it to his face. At this point I was getting angrier, so I tell him that "You just need to get a job." I know this is very disrespectful, but I m only saying what I see from my point of view. He then gets up and chases me...(he s bipolar, and has had a pretty violent history...I have a scar on my head due to him.) so at this point I m scared and run out the house...did I do what was right, or should go and apologize to him?

Question: My sister and brother-in-law are going to have a baby and I have been encouraging them to use the Geo-med tracking chip in their baby.?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 08:21 AM PDT

The model 2144 v.2 tracking chip an excellent. They are against it because they say a chip implanted in the navel can cause health issues. Our daughter has had one since the v.1 chip and it's never been a problem. Is it possible to get it more accurate than the 200 yards that we see?

Question: My mom is a manipulator? What should I do?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 08:20 AM PDT

I am 21 years old. I still live with my mother due to various reasons. Well, I make $950 a month, and due to that I don't work. My mother makes $0 and doesn't have a job. We recently moved to a nicer place, and she made me put all the utilities in my name due to her not paying the ones in her name (I thought that was unfair; but if we're living together, okay) She somehow expects me to pay the rent, make my car payment and insurance, pay for utilities, Internet, and TV with what I make a month. I told her the other day I didn't appreciate her using me, and that she needed to start looking for a job. She started crying, and I felt bad, so I apologized and told her it was fine. She later came up to me and said she was sorry that I felt like she was using me. I feel like she's manipulating me to feel bad, so I continue to live with her, and won't move out. What should I do?

Question: Why won't my new father's wife leave me alone?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 08:11 AM PDT

My parents just got divorced a month a go because my father was cheating. He already married the new lady. I'm in my 20s and on my own on the other hand my sister is only 14, his new wife completely hates us and wont leave us alone. I have to block BOTH of her Facebook's. Our father hasn't spoken to us since his new marriage, since he has "new" children. BUT his wife wont stop finding ways to contact me and she keeps asking me to stop stalking her and to stop trying to have sexual relations with my FATHER. EW. On top of that they are FOUR states away. I don't want to write my father off but I don't know what to do at this point.

Question: My mom's knowledge about certain things makes us fight?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 07:51 AM PDT

So today, she pulled out the power cable to my PC (Alienware) Which most of you may know that they don't have batteries in them.. She punished me for getting upset, as I had lost work because of her actions... (She was getting back at me for something i did which she wont tell me, that was weeks ago.) So, she said that i turned it off, and that it was my fault for not charging the battery or whatever.. She always gets my sister so they can both gang up on me and tell me all my mental issues. She also takes me to centers and tells them to test me for mental issues, which they come back within 30 minutes and tell me i have absolutely nothing wrong with me. My only issue is frustration. Whenever I tell her to just research a bit on how computers work, so she could understand that pulling out the power to a computer turns it off? She always is rude, and yells at me for things like dropping a damn glue stick, or falling and hurting myself. She never allows me to explain to her. She repeats her only point at me, which is "E-mail them for the work back" or "I could not have turned off the computer by pulling out this cable" Its very annoying. She always pretends she knows more than me about EVERYTHING, she will even argue to me about video games, and how I could go to the creator and kindly ask for some free things from them. It is very frustrating for me. How can I get my point through a brick wall? She refuses, no matter if i bring up the topic calmly a month or two later... HELP? I am 14 years old.

Question: A mature question?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 06:44 AM PDT

Say you knew a place where they sold cheap used car parts by the bulk. A black trashbag filled with parts for $500. You then met a guy who is willing to pay $1500 for each bulk black trash bag. So you made $1000 profit instantly for each trash bag filled with used parts. So if one day he gets 10 bags by the bulk you instantly made $10,000 in one day. A year later your still doing business with him never problems. However you just found out he's making 5x the price he paid you. He pays you $1500 and he resells for $5000. Would you talk to him and try raising the prices or continue doing business with him at this rate? keep in mind if you do decide to up the prices he can loose interest or find someone else who has the parts for cheaper. You already have his promise business forever. With that being said you already have a promised income weekly. You can buy a new car or house etc.

Question: What do I do about my boss?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 06:30 AM PDT

I work for a lawyer because it's the only job I could get where I could take my daughter with a limited education. He is a friend of the family but now I am starting to have issues with his wife. She is over the ESL cases, not even over me. She is completely rude to me out of nowhere, she will say my desk is a mess even if there is nothing on it then she lets her stepson throw food everywhere and wants me to vacuum the office saying it's my baby doing it. If my baby has a toy out she will say I need to clean up but I came in this morning and her son had gotten all my daughters toys out last night and had them all over the office along with his toys and they left it that way. She will throw food in my trash then tell me my trash stinks and I need to take it out. She tells me how to parent saying when my baby needs to eat, sleep, etc. and has even gone as far to try to make my daughter lay down herself after I said she doesn't need to be put down and has told me I need to put down my daughter now so I can make a call when I wasn't even on the clock. Even tried to feed my baby whole nuts without me knowing. Quitting isn't a good option because it's very hard for me to find a job but this lady is crossing the line with my child. I don't know how to bring it up because her husband is like family to my family. She just got pregnant herself as well so I hope when she has it she will realize what she is doing but I need advice on how to get her to back off of me.

Question: Whats wrong with my dad?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 06:11 AM PDT

He acts like everything about me is wrong.. everything I do is wrong and not good enough or not impressive or the wrong thing and if I am doing something with myself its the wrong thing or the wrong way. I am ostracized by the whole family. Then he goes and says weird things sometimes like if I ever died he would probably kill himself. WTF he just like criticizing me non-stop? He never stops criticizing me. even little things... like when I was in middle school I made everyone duct tape roses for valentines day. They were awesome roses that looked like the real thing and he made a sideways comment "Oh yea that's something you could support yourself with." Stuff like that. And then when I started college I wanted to take auto tech. And he said that was for losers and I should do airframe maintenance. and then another time a few years later I had a financial crisis and called my grandma for a loan to get my car out of the impound and he called me and left me a voicemail telling me everything about me and what I do is wrong. he said "wrong" about 50 times. HE criticizes everything like nothing I do is ever good enough!! Then acts like he would care if I was gone. the criticism never stops. If I have my car fixed by someone else, he criticizes me for hiring someone to do it and criticizes the way tey did it. (yet he never have time to help me do it.. yet get this he did a whole motor swap and other major repairs after it was totaled by a vandal, in my sisters LINCOLN truck which took him about 5 hours a day for 30 days to finish just because she cried). they brag about everything about my sister but she finances it all with prostituting. I have an honest job and they criticize me for not having things or doing things. I don't have the kind of big balling money she does.

Question: If the parents request their child to move to live with himself, does the child need to move to live with himself?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 06:07 AM PDT

Question: Please help what does this mean?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 06:01 AM PDT

Im 24 and my dad doesnt let me sleep alone. He makes my mom and himself sleep with me. And he doesnt even let me stay at home alone. Please help what do i do

Question: I've gotn attached to a little boy while at work exper. he to me too how can I keep catching up he's like a little brother I stop nextwk ��?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 05:10 AM PDT

Question: Is it true that there is always a bond between family members and they always have love for each other even in times of great conflict?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 04:43 AM PDT

Question: When I was between ages of 20 and 22 I was intrusive with family sometimes, now at 30 some still don't like me, how do I get them to change?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 04:37 AM PDT

I have anxiety issues and it increased after my parents divorce and feuds my mother and her siblings had. When I was 20 and back in the area from living with my Dad for 6 years (my Dad had moved back to the area) I started reaching out more to my mother's family. I would do things like go by without calling, ask "can I come for Thanksgiving for a bit" or ask multiple times the same thing almost like stalking. I didn't realize I was being inappropriate and at age 22 I stopped when I noted one uncle and his wife being curt. Now years later, 8 years later, that uncle and his wife and kids still seem awkward around me. It may just be their personalities but I fear they may hold a grudge. In the family no one talks about the past or is open about that kind of stuff so my mother says not to bring it up unless they bring it up. What do I do to get them to like me? How can I tell if it is me or just their personalities? They have a severely autistic son so some may just be stress from that. ASKED YESTERDAY AND THOUGHT I'D ASK ONE MORE TIME, Last time I will

Question: Do you think she is being fair ?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 04:22 AM PDT

My girlfriend and I have a baby together and we broke up and she only lets me see him whenever SHE chooses. and he is OUR son but she always refers to him as her son. I am his father so I feel like he should be spending time with me, his dad. I have an apartment in the same city and all I asked for was either every weekend with him or every week. I even offered every other week and she still refused. I have my place baby proofed and ready for him. She only lets me see him if 1,) She's out on a date or 2.) I go over to her house to see him. I don't want to hurt her and take her to court, but I will if I have to. I care about her, but I care about my son more, and I want to do everything I can to be able to see him, so I can at least say that I tried for my son. I do have an abusive past so I think she's scared that I will abuse him, but I would never think about doing that in a million years. I'm scared that if I take her to court, the court will say no because of my abusive past. My father got raped, and I got raped, but I would never do that to my son. I broke that cycle and I love my son so much. I've already talked to her but she always avoids the conversation. I told her that if she doesn't compromise with me, I would take her to court, but I'm personally scared to go to court. What do I do ? I love my son and I want to do everything I can to be able to see him. I'm a good dad. I'm working hard to provide for him. I am trying. What do I do ?

Question: Fighting with mother?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 04:15 AM PDT

Okay, so my mom just screamed at me for not letting her use my phone. She called me selfish. I just don t want her to drop it and crack it again like she did before. She doesn t even pay for the bill or the phone. Should I just tell her no if she asks again?

Question: Feel bad about not eating dinnner, help?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 04:11 AM PDT

I'm about 16, and I live with my parents, everyday when I get home, I clean the entirety of the house, save their room and go to doing my daily ritual, YouTube etc and eventually a bikeride, but almost all the time, I'm either not too hungry or I fall asleep, any way to fix this? Thank you!

Question: How can I convince my parents to go to a school of my choice?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 03:20 AM PDT

Question: How can I start a new life in Joondalup, Western Australia and replace my family 2017?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 02:59 AM PDT

I m from Bunbury, WA. I m moving into the metro area because of university reasons. I had a hard time living in the regional area, i want to start a new life, change my real name so my family cant find me. Its been tough being in and out of care. Dad has disowned me. Sister is forced to have nothing to do with me. Mum wants to spend her life with her boyfriend without the daughter hassles. I m trying to avoid men because i cant trust them in my life and the nature purposes of reproduction. Its all they care about, not love, not empathy, just to keep the human race going. I ve never had unconditional love from anyone. I was abused as a young child, had severe behavioural problems due to the abuse. I was bullied in high school. I never had friends. I was a troubled angry kid. I had been raped by my step cousin and my ex boyfriend. Most of my boyfriends never treated me right at all and saw me as a piece of meat.One thing I know about my sister is she never gave up on me and wanted to see me and mum, but dad is going against her human rights forcing her not to see me. I feel like I need to leave my family so I can start a new life. I don t want them to find me because there s too many horrible memories. I want to succeed on my own to get my bachelor and master degree in psychology at ECU. Can anyone give me tips how to live life independently without family because this is one of my main goals? I don t want them finding me. I want to be far away as far as I can be

Question: Can u please rate them?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 02:45 AM PDT

can you please rate them from 1-10 (starting with the black and white pic, then the curly blonde, and then the last girl with the pony tail) Also, if you give any of them a low rating can you please explain why so that they can know what to try and change about themself. Please dont give a low rating without an explanation if you leave a link I will answer yours as well to show my appreciation. I will also choose a best answer. thanks http://s1082.photobucket.com/user/kfccruelty/library/my%20pics

Question: Is this "middle child syndrome " or NOT ? HELP !?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 02:34 AM PDT

Although am an adult now but I still feel this ..my mother can't even scold my younger brother nor my older sister properly if they are wrong , yet she can proudly scold me over little things :( Am always helping her ..do home chores and clean even when she never asks me ..treat her so good and love her so much .. She also loves me and I don't think she hates me but still whenever I do little thing or get her a bit annoyed she can really scold me and make me feel bad SO perfectly ! I mean sometimes I feel am a pushover ..am I ? Last time she exploded in me cuz I shouted quarrelling with her and even told me that if it was my younger brother she would have did it even more badly but that shes always going soft on me ..I MEAN WHAT ? My brother shout back and actually manage to even make HER apologize:( shout at her like hes the father :/ She always think hes the victim and so she stop talking to me for a day or two and treat him like a king to "MAKE UP" for the bad treatment she THINKS shes doing with him :/ what the hell is going on ? Am really going crazy ..what did I do wrong ?

Question: I'm not close with my sibling - will we ever be close?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 02:30 AM PDT

Ever since I was a preteen my relationship with my older brother has been awkward. We rarely find things to talk about - partly because of different interests, he doesn't take me seriously, he jokes around too much, gender and age difference. We are not very close, although we do have our sibling moments where we have inside jokes and stuff but otherwise it's pretty awkward. We're very different personality and value-wise. I guess that could be a reason but the thing is, shouldn't the sibling bond overpower all of that? I don't understand. I can tell that he also still sees me as a child (he treats me like one too sometimes) even though I'm practically in the same age group as him (18-25). Have you guys ever experienced a relationship like this with your sibling/s? Will a relationship like this ever 'blossom' leading us to become close? Note: we are full siblings by blood.

Question: My mom found out I'm watching porn?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 02:11 AM PDT

She checked my history now she is angry with me I feel guilty and bad what should I do? Could you please answer it properly and stop making fun of it

Question: What is you youngest child's nickname?

Posted: 16 Mar 2016 01:27 AM PDT

Question: Okay I want to know if this is a unfair situation? so I'm a full time college student and that means my hands are full as well as my time.?

Posted: 15 Mar 2016 11:56 PM PDT

I go to a community college so that means I'm still at home p.s(I graduated in 2015). okay so my mom gets kind of irritated when the dishes aren't washed sometimes. so there 5 people in the house my little sister, step dad, mom, and 16 year old brother. so I do wash the dishes sometimes when I'm not to wrapped in my homework. so when dishes aren't washed its either me or her that has to wash them. however, my brother like literally just runs the streets with his friends and go to school, sleep and eat. she never stress him about washing the dishes or help out. I asked her why she don't get him to do it and she says I don't want him to touch my dishes. so to me its like really you get on me about not washing the dishes all the time and I do what I'm suppose to do which is taking care of my lil sister and balance my college work and you just let him do nothing. but I do get where she is coming from with working all day. but my brother literally does noting all he do is take the trash out 2days a week.

Question: How to get away from abusive father at 16?

Posted: 15 Mar 2016 11:48 PM PDT

It's not physical so it's not like I can just report him and get taken away. It's hard to explain to anyone how bad it is, with it being verbal. At this point I honestly would rather not be alive than live like this. Is there anything I can do? My mom doesn't have a job and probably couldn't mentally handle one, so we can't move away together

Question: Why do I feel bad? The mother of my on and off again lover for the last 30 years became my caregiver today?

Posted: 15 Mar 2016 11:37 PM PDT

When she was taking me home we drove by her house and she asked if I wanted to go see him and say "Happy birthday". I cut him out of my life in December. He ripped me off for the last time (after thousands of dollars and almost as many broken promises). I'm closer to his family than my own. It was a split second decision, we were right by her street and I said "No". He's done me wrong so many times, and she knows it. But I still feel bad. Probably more for her than him.

Question: Is a 20 year old female usually mature enough to take care of a sick family member? Is it easier when one is 30 or older?

Posted: 15 Mar 2016 11:35 PM PDT

Do most 20 year old's usually stay all night and day in the hospital for days and nights with a sick family member. Is this person a rarity? Thank you for giving me your honest opinion. Much appreciated.