Friends: Question: How can i make friends easier? |
- Question: How can i make friends easier?
- Question: How can I start being social?
- Question: Should I get Revenge on an A**Hole High School-9th Grade Any Advice because I really want him to get his?
- Question: Facebook Friend case blown way out of proportion.?
- Question: She never texts first, but I don't want to bother her...What do I do?
- Question: How do I say I don't want to text you because you're annoying.?
- Question: Do you think I was looking at her a lot & got creeped out or no?
- Question: How do I make new friends at a new highschool? Where do I find a group of friends to eat at lunch with. Also how do I create close friends?
- Question: How can i make friends when I do not go to college?
- Question: Panic/anxiety attack from smoking weed?
- Question: Is it confusing?
- Question: I pretended to be making good grades but the truth came out?
- Question: Should I try to make amends with my friends or let them move on?
- Question: How to become confident?
- Question: How would a butler react if I did my own chores and did everything he was supposed to do only to have a friend?
- Question: Toxic work environment: How to deal with co workers ?
- Question: Who did wrong if I m mad at my friends who said bad stuff about me when I went through one of their phones? Are we both wrong?
- Question: Hola quisiera que me aconsejen a cerca del siguiente caso Cuando yo tenía 7 años conocí a un niña que tenía 8 nos volvimos amigos?
- Question: Should people be able to save seats for people who aren't even at the theater yet?
- Question: Deadpool, what did Ryan Reynolds say?
- Question: What can a 14 year old getting to?
- Question: An American exchange student at my university in Shanghai slapped me across the face for swearing at him. Do you think he should apologise?
- Question: I have no male friends and I am a guy ?
- Question: Need best friend help please?
- Question: Does my friend treat me differently from her other friends?
- Question: Any advice for my friend? I don t know what to do with her! :(?
- Question: Can my parents see my texts?
- Question: Hey guys i have a question?
- Question: Is it bad that I don t want to friends with this guy who keeps threatening suicide when I can t talk to him?
- Question: My annoying needy "friend"?
- Question: How do I win her over and obtain her forgiveness?
- Question: How do I help my friend who is mad at the world?
- Question: One of my friends is making our group of friends choose between her or me. What would you do?
- Question: What's the point anymore?
- Question: BOYS and GIRLS: If this French boy likes rap that has sexual references, does that mean that he has no respect for girls?
- Question: One of my friends is making our group of friends choose between her or me. What would you do?
- Question: I don't trust him?
- Question: Please help why did he do this?
- Question: Why is my friend is being really rude to me?
- Question: Why everyone leaves ?
- Question: Why do i need friends, if i want to only focus on my goals?
- Question: My friend's brother sexually assaulted me. In this situation should I report him?
- Question: My "best friend" always flakes on me. What should I do?
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- Question: I feel awkward and insecure around my friends please read description?
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- Question: Am I a snob, narcissistic, stuck up, full of myself, sadity, etc?
- Question: My friends all hate me now and have turned their backs on me because I rarely will go out to the bars with them.?
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| Question: How can i make friends easier? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 04:48 PM PDT Basically i'm shy, very shy and insecure. I am a really fun and outgoing person when talking to close friends that i've been knowing for a while, but when it's time to initiate a conversation with somebody i barely even know, it's hard. It's not social anxiety, it's shyness and i can't get over it. I feel like every single phrase i say it's gonna turn out to be lame and i'm gonna get laughed at because i said something stupid. I really don't know how to complete the "first step" in making friends. I even tried making online friends too, same deal. Too shy to talk to anybody in the game. That goes on for socializing sites and much more. I feel like i will never be able to make more friends again. The last friend i've made was back in 6th grade. How can i get over my shyness and actually make a friend? |
| Question: How can I start being social? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 04:30 PM PDT This is a bit of a long one, but I feel the need to explain a bit of backstory here. I am 15 (I'll be 16 in May) and I've been homeschooled my entire life. I did paper curriculum homeschooling up until 9th grade (which I'm finishing now), and at the beginning of 2015 I began doing Florida Virtual School. A month before I was born my parents moved themselves and my brother (who is 18) to the boonies because my mom hates urban areas. My parents never quite interacted like a happy couple usually would and they got divorced in January 2014. I stay with my dad primarily (who kept the middle of nowhere house) and I go over to my mom's every other weekend from Thursday afternoon to Monday afternoon. My brother is a narcissistic, worthless person believes he is always correct. I used to be a total mama's boy until the divorce happened and, upon spending less time with my mom, I began to realize she, too, was a narcissist and a bad influence. My dad is the only person who I don't feel bad around and is the only person in my immediate family I really want to still want to be around once I'm an adult. Anyway, I've never been in any social clubs or done anything to be social and I only leave the house once a week. I've never had any friends. I want to salvage what's left of my teenhood rather than throwing it out, considering my childhood is already gone and I have no fond memories of it. How can I start being social? I can provide more details in updates if anyone wants. I'd prefer to be social without going to a school if possible. Also it takes about 20-30 minutes to get to any sort of suburbs from where we live and driving is the only way. I do at least have my learner's permit so I've been driving once a week. I felt the need to reach out for help today because my brother was making annoying comments about my driving which got me feeling unconfident today. |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 04:26 PM PDT This asshole always a jerk to certain people in my class including me myself. I mean he tries to be funny by being a dick to certain people but that only makes them feel like crap. He made one student in my class leave and switch periods because of him making fun of his dark skin and big forehead. He always says you can't beat my a** every time someone tries to say something back or does something back. Every time Someone gets a haircut if it's not what he likes. For example I'm Mix and I have a fade now there's this boy in my class he has a fade his hairline is messed up. He always gives him a hard time. He wants to Join The NBA. |
| Question: Facebook Friend case blown way out of proportion.? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 04:25 PM PDT Alright, so I recently got a Facebook account, and I had relatives & close friends adding me left and right. But then there was a girl from my church ward that sent me a friend request. In retrospect, I wish I hadn't said anything. But I did. I messaged her asking her why she added me as a friend. (Keep in mind, we have like never had a conversation.) she said "Because we go to the same church". Now I should have kept it at that, but I didn't I googled the definition of "Friend", copied and pasted it, and then added that we never talk, including a friendly little "xD" at the end. HERE is where I got screwed over. That girl's mom sent this huge message about how we are all sons and daughters of God, thus making her my "Sister" and that she wanted to talk to my parents, and that in a nutshell I am a terrible person. In her message she asked if I was the boy who passed sacrament to her on Sunday's. I am not, so she has confused me with someone else. Now, my question is, should I cut my losses, vent to my parents about this, or wait for her to make the first move, and then come in to defend myself. I don't/didn't think it was a big deal. That is, until she came along and wrote a novel about how horrible I was. Perhaps she didn't understand the "xD" at the end of the message, thus making the message passive. I wouldn't have made such a big deal about her adding me, but before I joined fb I made a pact with myself that I would only add close friends/relatives. HELP. |
| Question: She never texts first, but I don't want to bother her...What do I do? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 04:19 PM PDT This girl and I have texted back and forth 4 times now. I've started it all four times. She almost always keeps the conversation going, so I don't think she minds talking to me... We made plans to watch a movie together after spring break, but I don't want to seem needy by texting her to set up a date...but I don't think she'll ever text me first... She doesn't use social media much judging by her profiles, and she usually takes a while to respond to texts so I assume she doesn't do that much either...but still... |
| Question: How do I say I don't want to text you because you're annoying.? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 04:08 PM PDT My friend just got a phone and all he wants to do is text me. He has nothing else to do so he constantly texts me. He has become a douche this year but he's still needy for attention. How do I say "I don't want to text you, leave me alone"? |
| Question: Do you think I was looking at her a lot & got creeped out or no? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:59 PM PDT Today at school I was walking with my friend to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her friend I was looking at her but then I stopped. But later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early? |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:41 PM PDT I'm going to be moving to a new highschool and I gotta make some new friends that I can do stuff with. |
| Question: How can i make friends when I do not go to college? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:36 PM PDT I have recently graduated from high school and work in construction. None of my coworkers are anywhere near my age. I did not have a whole lot of friends in highschool and the ones i do have are very boring and never want to go out anywhere. It is also very hard to meet any girls when you do not go to college. It just seems that I am doomed to never be able to make friends or meet girls since i do not have any opportunities. Is there any thing i could do that I would LIKELY be able to make friends. I am also very poor so i cannot afford to join any clubs or recreational sports were i could meet people. |
| Question: Panic/anxiety attack from smoking weed? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:30 PM PDT Last night I went with my friend to this kids house who I barely knew, to smoke. We got there and he invited two guys friends of his that I didn t know. usually I took 2 or 3 bong rips and didn t feel anything so this time he handed me a huge bong and I took one rip and got really high. all of a sudden I got supper paranoid cuz I couldn t move very well and my mouth was extremely dry and I was scared because I was thinking okay I barely know this kid and he always seemed nice bit I ve never hung out with him without mutual friends. my friend who I brought never got high so I was afraid they had drugged us and felt like they were waiting for us to crash. I literally felt like I was playing sims cuz I felt like I was watching the scene and not in it. I could barely function to text. I was thinking k was texting but my body wasn t doing it. finally I was able to stand up and tried to ask where the bathroom was. we left the house and walked to the park but I was so out of it we sat on a bench and I felt like I was swimming. I just wanted to go home and go to bed. my friend was trying to talk to me but j couldn t see her well and felt like I was "layers" away from her. I started crying and even my crying didn t sound normal, it sounded robotic. I started to throw up and it looked like I was throwing up in a star shape it was all so weird and surreal. what happened?? |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:28 PM PDT My nickname kind of turned into my first name and now im going to a new school. And all my friends call me by my nickname but i want to go by my ACTUAL first name now. I am also going to camp this summer with alot of my friends, but i want the new friends i make to call me by my actual first name. Will this confuse everyone? |
| Question: I pretended to be making good grades but the truth came out? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:24 PM PDT Okay so I go to a different school than the kids I grew up with, and I was doing just okay in school (I'm really smart but i'm not very hard working, not trying to brag, this is what everyone tells me, if i put in the effort i can make good grades but it's hard for me to) i used to be all A's in middle school but when i went to high school i started getting A's B's and yes, a few C's anyways, my friends are all very hard working and thus to avoid shame from them, i told them i was doing really well (my school is less competitive than theirs) and i lied about having a high class rank this year, three friends of those friends switched to my school and they keep in contact with those friends about everything but now there's this club where you only get in based on your grades and i was .1 shy of getting in and i didn't get in, and i stopped talking to my friends completely because of this, i don't want them to ask my questions about my grades i made a new best friend so i'm fine, but we can't hang out everyday and i really miss my squad but the thing is, they will be mad at me for not working hard if i tell them the truth, and i don't want to deal with the stigma, especially because i was always seen as the lazy one in middle school, even though then, i had all A's i feel sad because i was friends with them for 13-15 years and i'm not sure if it's worth losing it sorry for grammar lol i'm kinda sad rn and i dont wanna deal with correcting this what should i do? |
| Question: Should I try to make amends with my friends or let them move on? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:22 PM PDT The past couple years was really rough for me. I lost the home I grew up in to forecloser, I started having problems with college and work, and found out somebody who we treated like family for 5 years was a con-man and wanted to frame me so they could get away with stealing 20k. I had moved away from my friends but was keeping contact over the internet. I started having some issues with anger and paranoia and because of a slip-up with the platform we used, my account had gotten deleted. I hadn't been speaking too much to them so when that happened I just let it stay deleted because of the issues I had been experiencing. I was angry almost all the time for no real reason and I had a short fuse. I was also feeling paranoid thinking things like "They are only being your friends because they feel bad for you and are too nice to say otherwise", "they don't like and will robb you the moment they can", or even "they are learning everything about you so they can humiliate you later". Everytime I'd go to talk to them I'd either get very depressed or angry, then I'd just not even bother. It's been about 6-7 months since I've spoken to them and about 5 months since my account was deleted. I'm feeling better about life but I'm not fully recovered and still have problems every now and then. Should I try to make amends, wait till I'm better. or just let them be. I feel like I should cut my losses and let them move on. We were talking less and less and I was feeling more like a burden. I don't feel like randomly popping back into there lives saying "Sorry had life problems" would really go over very well. I also think that me even trying would cause them more headache then improve anything. |
| Question: How to become confident? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:18 PM PDT I come from a good family but was bullied for most of my childhood at school & became very shy. Whenever I made close friends they would ditch me for popular kids who bullied me for being nerdy & chubby, though I'm prettier now. I haven't had a close friend in 3 yrs now & I'm quite lonely. I think my self esteem is the problem. I always assume others hate me & nobody will ever want to be my friend. Part of me wonders why anyone would want to be my friend as I think I'm weird/boring. I fear I bother others with my presence & I don't really try. How can I fix this? I'm 17 btw x |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:17 PM PDT I am a very responsible person who does their chores, and if I had a butler I probably still do everything he is supposed to do. However if I hired a butler, and he complained about me doing his job, and I replied by saying I hired him because I really just needed a friend, what would be his reactions? |
| Question: Toxic work environment: How to deal with co workers ? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:12 PM PDT I work as a housekeeper at an office building. There is a total of five housekeepers including me. I'm 21 however the other ladies are 45,48,54 and 65. Although there are differences we had managed to get along. However there are two housekeepers that have befriended each other extra close, and they are really vulgar and they make comments about peoples appearance or other really negative ugly things and they laugh about it. One of those two housekeepers used to talk bad about the 65 year old housekeeper. She said all sorts of mean things. Then she suggested that she make up with her just to eat some of the 65 year old housekeepers food. So one day I miss work, and I come back to the lunch break and she has befriended the 65 year old housekeeper. The 65 year old housekeeper was desperate to be liked by those two ladies regardless of humiliation. So now the three bad housekeepers have formed a clique. The other nice housekeeper in the picture was excluded by the one of the two bad housekeepers, and now eats by herself because she feels at peace that way. I excluded myself, but still must hear uncomfortable comments, and obscene language while waiting to clock in or out. I work this job to pay for rent, and college. This drama is taking it's toll |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 03:02 PM PDT So I was at my friends house and I was on her phone and I went to thru the convo of her and one of my other bestfriends. They were trash talking me and I didn t say anything about it until I got home and currently I have them muted on text and blocked them on social media for now. So my question is who did wrong? I m only mad is because I m not the most selfless/nice person but I am direct. And I ask them sometimes if I m being rude because I try to control it but I m a teen and moodswings and stuff and I get a bit angry & mean sometimes. And they say No youre being so sweet and then they trash talk me in text? I want to drop them I'm not exactly angry but I feel betrayed. And for those who say snooping!!!@!!!11!. I asked my friend if I could go thru her phone because I was bored. |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:59 PM PDT y nada yo no sentía nada por ella pero creo que ella si sentía mucho por mí un día casi me besa solo que yo me eche para atrás luego de eso ella se fue a otra ciudad pero no sentí nada se me dio en ese entonces igual. Luego en mi colegio cuando tenía 14 años la volví a ver ella tenía 15 pero pasaron 2 años y nunca fui capaz de hablarle ya ese era el último año de ella ya que ese año se graduaba y salía del colegio pero nunca nos hablamos yo por pena ya que en ese entonces era muy linda y no sé por qué pero no era capaz de hablarle por otra parte el orgullo ya que yo decía si ella no me hablo yo tampoco le hablo y por eso estoy sufriendo por mk. Pero en esos 2 años lo que si sucedía mucho era que cada rato nos encontrábamos en los pacillos nos mirábamos mucho directamente a la cara sin parpadear yo la miraba con algo de seriedad pero ella me miraba muy fría mente como con rabia o rencor y muchas veces me sorprendió mirándola y otras veces yo la sorprendí observándome y apenas la veía volteaba la mirada porque creen que me miraba como fríamente y creen que deba buscarla para hablar con ella se dónde vive pero no me animo no sé qué hacer no la veo hace 8 meses desde que se graduó ella tiene ahora 17 años |
| Question: Should people be able to save seats for people who aren't even at the theater yet? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:53 PM PDT Went to see Batman v Superman with a friend and there were two seats open near the end on top and I was about to sit, then someone said they were taken. Usually I put a jacket or something to signify that the seat is saved. There are two possibilities. #1 Their friends are in the bathroom or getting snacks. #2 They aren't even at the theater and their pals are just there to make sure that they do have seats when they get there. I was SO tempted to ask "well, are they actually here, or they're on their way?" I would have sat my *** right down if they weren't even there yet. Saving for someone who's in the restroom? Okay. Not there yet? Naw, bruh they have no ticket and are not entitled to a seat. I know that it's a jerk move BUT it's survival of the fittest when it makes the difference between me sitting in a great spot, and sitting at the very end of the front row (which really hurt my eyes) |
| Question: Deadpool, what did Ryan Reynolds say? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:47 PM PDT I for the life of me can not figure out what Ryan Reynolds says in this scene. He s just threatened the pizza delivery boy, he goes to confront Meghan(the girl the pizza boy was stalking) and her friend asks him to f*** up her stepdad. What is his response? "Something something cause he s earned it"? This has been driving me crazy. |
| Question: What can a 14 year old getting to? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:40 PM PDT My name is Christopher, and I'm from Jamaica and I now live in Las Vegas. I literally have no friends in 8th grade. I mean I have friends who are here and there but no actual friends. I had many good friends when I was young, but now it seems so hard. I use to have people who would beg me to come outside, and I would happily come.Now I'm in 8th grade from 3 years in home school and nobody likes me. I wasn't popular, but I was fun to hang around with simply because of you wanted to do something I'm down to do it. I just want to have fun I have lost in touch with all of my good friends, and I can't find anyone where I live.This whole spring break. What have I done ? Played my PlayStation 3 online all day. When I say all day, I mean ALL DAY. From 11:32@m to 11:45pm - 3:20am yes all day. Literally I sleep, eat, play games, and repeat. I feel bored and the only thing to excit me is jerking off, and playing the game ONLINE with REAL PEOPLE. My mom always ask me do I have friends and I have to lie and say yes . Though I really don't :( maybe a sport, or some team can help. I don't know. I have been alone from people so long I don't even know how to spark or keep a conversation going. And I'm not concede that enough to show my talents. |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:35 PM PDT I'm 18-year old Chinese boy. There's an American exchange boy at our university in Shanghai. We got into a couple of arguments over the past week and we basically don't get along with each other. Yesterday we were playing basketball and he fouled me and got away with it, and afterwards I was hanging out with two friends and he passed by and I called him a 'son of a who*e' in Chinese. I didn't know he understood that, and he walked up to where we were standing and in front of my friends, gave me such a hard smack across my face I almost lost my senses for a moment. And said, 'Why don't you repeat that and see what happens?' And I was silent, and he said, 'You're not so mouthy after a quick slap in the face, are you?. I felt totally humiliated in front of my friends, I did not expect to be insulted like that. Now every time I see him he gives me a look that says I got owned by him, and that makes me even more embarrassed. Should he say sorry? |
| Question: I have no male friends and I am a guy ? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:32 PM PDT It makes me feel sooo different from the others and I am very different from the other boys, I have a lot of girl friends but I feel the need to have a friend of my gender. I am from Romania btw |
| Question: Need best friend help please? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:27 PM PDT Im 15 and I m a girl and I have self harmed and I have anxiety and depression. Two days ago, my two best friends decided to team up and send my mother a text saying I needed help and they have been extremely blunt ever since. They always hang out together and call and FaceTime but whenever I ask to do anything like that, they are always busy or not allowed to. I have no other people to go to and when they pay attention to me, they are the bestest friends anybody could ever have. They both have started in me tonight because I asked them what I did wrong and I don t know what to do at all. I have felt extremely sick for the past two days and I have barely eaten. Should I leave things with them completely or tone back a bit? Or something else? I feel like I m trying too hard. |
| Question: Does my friend treat me differently from her other friends? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:21 PM PDT So I have this friend and I really feel like she treats me differently from her other friends. I know relationships are different but we've know eacother for almost three years and she calls one of her other friend "best friend" which made me feel bad because she hangs out with him a lot and not with me as much. We say hi in the hallway and everything but its like there relationship is stronger. She even shout outs to her friends on Instagram except me. Also she broke up with her boyfriend but their still friends and I felt like I was in the middle of the relationship. She goes on and on about him and so do I but I just don't pay any attention to my problems like I do with her. Should I just avoid her? |
| Question: Any advice for my friend? I don t know what to do with her! :(? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:21 PM PDT (I am out of the state and can t be of much help) Person A is doing a medical abortion, but person A s husband can t get out of work. It is a weekend and they couldn t find a last minute babysitter so Person A is home alone taking care of a 1 year old from 8 a.m until 9 p.m while going through the termination by herself. She s been calling people since the day before to see if a friend could help her out since she is nervous about the abortion (it s her first time). She has called a nurse because the medication has caused her mouth, throat and tongue pain and light swelling, but the nurse says she should be fine. She has told me that she is in pain, and that she is dizzy from time to time but she has no other choice but to stick it out as long as possible. I don t know how to help her! Any advice? |
| Question: Can my parents see my texts? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:19 PM PDT Ok so I'm 14. I'm with Verizon. My dad is in control of the account ( he owns his business so we have a business account ) I overheard him and my mom talking last nite. they said. yes we will go and read Jacks texts online and then we will talk seriously with him if we catch him doing anything bad. I'm really worried cuz my friend and I cuss all the time in texts.. Please help ASAP |
| Question: Hey guys i have a question? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 02:16 PM PDT I just got accepted into a highschool and i wasnt really popular in my currebt schooll. I wish to change and become one of the most popular kids in my new high school so any tips and what do on the first week of school?? |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:55 PM PDT I had this friend, who not too long ago forced me to talk him out of suicide. An hour into that I told him we should talk to a school counselor, he then said he d kill me if I did so I avoided him for awhile only to eventually talk to him again, I was at a family dinner and wasn t supposed to message him so he got upset with me for not replying.. When we spoke again later, he asked me to be his girlfriend (he already knew I have a boyfriend so this got awkward ) The next day I was out with my family and was replying late to his texts. He then started saying he was suicidal cause I dont want to talk to him We argued for awhile and I told him I can t be his friend if he is going to emotionally blackmail me like this. I feel like I acted like an asshole. Am I in the wrong? |
| Question: My annoying needy "friend"? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:52 PM PDT So i go to college and I have this annoying friend (I am not really close with him)who ALWAYS needs rides to school because his car breaks down so at first I was cool with it but then he started to abuse that privilege.He smokes in my car and and he always leaves the backseat dirty theres like mud and ash on the carpets and I hate having to vacuum the back, then i didnt feel like driving him to school so I told him no and he said "fine I guess I will drive my dads truck" and that really pissed me off, then over spring break I was at a college party at my friends dorm at another university which is about 30 minutes away from my house to be exact and he saw my snapchats and asked" if i could come and pick him up to go to the party" when I was already at the party and plus he doesnt know any of my friends so it would be awkward also it would be very stupid to leave pick someone up and then go back to the party its the dumbest thing I ever heard. what should I do hes really pissing me off.Anyways i stopped giving him rides to school because of this nonsense and i think hes just plain selfish am i doing the right thing here or am i a bit harsh |
| Question: How do I win her over and obtain her forgiveness? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:37 PM PDT A new girl named Susan arrived at my school. She has really earned my interest, but people mock her for being eccentric. I began flirting with her and struck up a friendship, but lied about who I am. She discovered I had lied and began ignoring me, but was willing to give me hugs. A girl named Hillari has been tormenting her recently, so I took a pair of scissors and secretly messed up her back pack and made holes in her cheerleading outfit. I spread rumors that Hillari's boyfriend is using anabolic steroids, causing the school employees to investigate him. After seeing Susan strike up a relationship with a guy named Leo, I initially sent him an anonymous note telling him to stay away. When he overstepped his boundaries, I started a fight with him, giving myself bruises making him look like the aggressor. After Susan dumped him for me, she discovered the truth and told me my compulsive lying and childish attitude was pushing her away, and that I am insane to become enemies with Hillari. Hillari's bullying towards Susan only grew. Leo is the worst boyfriend for Susan anyways. Regardless, how do I earn her forgiveness and stop Hillari? Do I need to step up my game or? |
| Question: How do I help my friend who is mad at the world? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:19 PM PDT He talks about how the world sucks He talks about torture He talks about he feels bad for not doing anything about the bad things, but it is not his job to fix the whole world |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:08 PM PDT I basically see what the others don't and call her out on her BS along with not doing what my others friends do which is cater every outing towards her instead of it being about everyone it's merely about her instead always. So now she said its me or her. :( |
| Question: What's the point anymore? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:07 PM PDT I honestly don't see any point in my living anymore. I have a disease to begin with, which is slowly killing me. I have an awful relationship with my family. Most of my friends ignore me when i want to hangout, or avoid doing so, The girl i'm in love with won't talk to me. I don't want to do anything. I honestly don't see the point anymore. I don't want to die, but living is so hard for me right now. i don't know why i'm writing this, i guess part of me just wants someone to comfort me. I spend most of my days alone, looking for my dads gun, to debate whether or not i can keep doing this. What is the point |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:05 PM PDT I found something from my pen pal and he actually might have something on Sound Cloud. I want to be safe because he is in France and I don't know if he is a safe person to pen pal with. One song that I heard had words like ***** and cock in it. I just want to be safe. How do I also look out for myself if he doesn't respect girls? |
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| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:03 PM PDT This guy is trying to steal my best friend away from me and I can't let him do that. My friend always talks about that guy and I just have this gut feeling that he's bad news. He hangs out with fuckboys and he's a ******* hinself but my friend keeps on telling me that he's nice. I'm pretty sure that he's hiding something and I just don't like it. He's way too shady and he always throws shade at me around my friend. Once he followed me and called out my name but I kept on walking cause he's just bad news. How can I convince my friend to stay away from him? |
| Question: Please help why did he do this? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:02 PM PDT I liked a guy and he told me hes seeing someone but still talked to me ........ Then i said im in a relationship and he added me and told me i keep messaging him and he already has a girlfriend and he told me this before and its inappropriate... Then he blocked me after a while. Whats his issue? |
| Question: Why is my friend is being really rude to me? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 01:01 PM PDT I have this friend and we're pretty close, but he is rude to me occasionally. He seems to always mention the positive things about other people but always mentions the negative things about me. He puts me down for my hairstyle, the way I dress, talk, etc, and he claims he is just "looking out for me." Sometimes he appears arrogant (even though he may not be) because he boasts about how great he is and how he knows "a lot about everything," and talks about how only the smart people in this world can change things and yadayada. He is so awkward about everything. He complains about me and says "I geek him out," and I am so nice to everyone and reach out to everyone as much as possible. He says he needs to find "cool people," and it makes me feel so uncool and it hurts. It's distracting my studies cause I feel too stupid. At parties he seems better with grabbing people's attention than I am. I am a very social outgoing person, but I lost all my confidence. Please help, Idk what to do. I know this is stupid but I'm sad. |
| Question: Why everyone leaves ? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 12:27 PM PDT It's no question that almost everyone leaves me, eevrytime i let people break down mu walls , trust them and then they just leave, I don't know why and it hurts me, it hurts me a lot, every time someone leaves they take a piece of me, a piece of my heart with them - yeah, dramatic I know- but really, all I want to know why do they leave ? Why I always end up hurting ? Why I'm being bullied ? Why and why and why ! It's just so confusing, I don't think I'm that much of a bad person. I just wish things weren't like that |
| Question: Why do i need friends, if i want to only focus on my goals? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 12:16 PM PDT I don t understand the benefits of friends, they don t give you anything you don t need them, you don t need their companion and they only take your time. Im a 14 yr old so why should i need anybody? |
| Question: My friend's brother sexually assaulted me. In this situation should I report him? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 12:15 PM PDT I was at my friends house party. I had a huge headache. He told me I should go and lie down in the guest room. I heard which door wrong and after falling asleep my friend's brother came in shouting at me for being in his room. I said I thought it was the guest room. He recognised me and told me I could stay. He asked me if I wanted anything. I asked for painkiller. He was obviously very drunk and told me sex is a great painkiller. I laughed and asked him if he was volunteering. I didn't think anything of it. I've known him since he was 10, he has always been a funny guy. I shouldn't of encourage him. He undressed himself. I said stop and I won't tell anyone. I didn't scream. When he finished he gestured for me to leave. The party was ended, I found my friend and told him. He freaked out. He came back with his brother, obviously had hit him. He was crying and apologising, not to me but his older brother. He made him say sorry to me. My friend told me I should report him but he asked me not to. We talked. I decided I wouldn't. When I got home it got real. I am having panic attacks all the time. I can't sleep and when I do I have nightmares. My friend tells me his brother asks how I am and is terrified that I will report him. I don't want to lose my friend and I don't want to ruin anyone's life. I am also worried he might deny it in court. He was actually a few weeks younger than 16 when it happened. I am 20. I am worried he could imply I was willing to sleep with a minor. |
| Question: My "best friend" always flakes on me. What should I do? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 12:02 PM PDT My supposed bff, always flakes on me. I initiate a plan and she totally agrees with it and says yes and I check up on her on the days leading up to the event to make sure she s still coming through, she says yes but when it comes to the night before or the day of, she ALWAYS FLAKES. Then I see her go out with her friends or even sometimes mutual friends to the exact same place we were suppose to go to! I stop my life for my friend, and plan around stuff that we re suppose to do together but then she always flakes and leaves me irritated with nothing to do. I always considered her my best friend but I just don t know now. Maybe I just wanted to be able to label as my best friend because I ve never really had one. What should I do? |
| Question: How can I return insults against a group? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 11:46 AM PDT Here I am, a 15 year old boy verbally fighting with "your mom" jokes with my friend as a 'joke' and my other 2 friends are watching. Each time I make a good joke either they say it's offensive and mean or say it sucks and it's lame. By now we are just fighting to see who can make the other give up first. I know this sounds childish but each time my other friends either protect the person I'm fighting against or insult me. I don't know maybe I am too nice or what should I say no one asked you to talk or should I just stand there looking like an idiot with no supporters. Please help :( |
| Question: I feel awkward and insecure around my friends please read description? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 11:41 AM PDT So im a 28 year old woman, with 4 close friends, 2 girls(lets call them jane and mary), and their boyfriends. We have been friends for 4 years and do everything together, and im also very close to their boyfriends, in a platonic way. 4 years ago I came to the US for med school from India. I tutored these 2 undergrad girls(who were 20 at the time), and we became close friends. They introduced me to their boyfriends(who were in the army at the time) and I got along with their group, and they made me feel welcome. Since then we became good friends.For starters i feel awkward as a fifth wheel, around them and I am still a virgin(not by choice). I am also 4 years older than mary, jane and both their boyfriends. On top of that, They all are born and raised in the US and I am from India and have a thick Indian accent. The final reason is that physically stand out, from the group and feel like the ugly single one in group. I am 6'4 chubby weighing 250 pounds, dark skinned indian(think minday kaling but a foot taller.) Jane is 5'8 white, with dark hair, tanned skin, medium build(not skinny but not thick or chubby). Mary is Asian 5'8 with similar build to jane(both with volleyball player type bodies). Janes boyfriend is light blonde, and Mary's boyfriend is a redhead(not ginger)boyfriends are both 5'6 each, lean(slimmer than their girlfriends), but ripped with defined muscles and a both have six pacs. Weve had many great memories together, and i enjoy spending time with them. Dont tell me to make new friends I have other friends. Of all my friend groups I feel closest to this one, and they feel that way about me. They made me feel at home when I first came to this country and have always been there for me Even though I love them, I feel awkward being the giant chubby woman, who 5th wheels 2 attractive couples. |
| Question: Why am I in Annies room? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 11:09 AM PDT |
| Question: Do men get any protection in these type of situation? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 10:48 AM PDT My teacher was telling me a story about what happened to his friend and i was wondering do men have a say so in these mested up situations (Im going to give my example of summary so i dont have write a long story of happened) So this girl liked my teachers friend but he did not really have those feeling for her. So she decide to have her friend get close to him so they could have sex and she could get the used condom from her friend so she could impregnat her self which surpriselying worked. Short story she served him child support papers and he has to pay 700$ for kid he did not attentionly have as stated before do men have any rights in the situations and yes for the people who say the kid shouldnt suffer because what the parent did but should the man have to suffer to |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 10:29 AM PDT Assuming you arent attracted to them. How would you react when you woke up |
| Question: Birthday Gift Advice? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 10:14 AM PDT So, my best friend's b-day is coming up and I wasn't sure what to get her. She always goes on about her favorite shows and introduced me to the vampire diaries, which is her absolute favorite. She always tells me how much she loves Damon and the actor who plays as him(Ian Somerhalder). I decided to buy her a portrait of him that was actually autographed by Ian. I also bought us some cool birthstone friendship bracelets, but that's not really impuortant. I just don't know if she'll like the portrait or not. Maybe some Vampire Diaries fans could give me their input. |
| Question: How do you know your pen pal is a nice guy to girls? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 10:09 AM PDT I have this French pen pal who seems to be nice in his reply to my request to be pen pals. And I searched his Sound Cloud and picked up rude French words. Does that make him a person you have to be wary of? What are hints later in my correspondence with him that I have to watch out for? |
| Question: Did bullying ruin my views on people? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 10:06 AM PDT I'm currently 17 now (A guy) and I HATE people with a firery passion. If I don't know you, basically I hate you. Back in middle school, I was actually bullied pretty badly. People would verbally insult me to death calling me ugly, weak, annoying, worthless, etc. (words really do hurt) and sometimes I would be thrown at lockers and once when I was walking home, a group of kids threw rocks at me. I was always a very friendly kid and I tried to be friends with everyone. At one point during middle school my "friends" kicked me out of their group for no reason then started rumors about me which led me to have no friends for months. In 8th grade, I finally made three good friends and I've been friends since but since that one incident where I was kicked out, I can't talk to people anymore. In High School, I haven't been picked on nearly as much, but from all the bullying I went from very talkative to an anti social person. Basically now people just annoy me and I wish they would all disappear. I can't talk to girls or get a girlfriend, I don't know how to make new friends, etc. I really feel like bullying ruined my opinion towards people. I always think negative in people before I think positive. Even if I don't know them. |
| Question: Transferring to new school district in 7th or 8th grade? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 10:06 AM PDT So my parents recently bought a house that's about 20 minutes away from mine right now. That means a new school. We have to move in by April 15th. I have a choice to transfer as soon as we move, or in the beginning of 8th grade(next year). The only people I know are my ex-boyfriend(we are still good friends) he hangs out with a kind-of bad crowd. But he is really nice when he isn't around his friends (like boys do). Some of his friends know me and follow me on Instagram, but I really don't hang out with them at all. they aren't really fond of me though. I also know this girl and she is my friend, but we have yet to hang out. She is really nice. I also know this boy that transferred from my old school last year, but he dosen't get along with my ex and his friends. We aren't really friends though. Any tips? Or when I should transfer? How I make friends? Anything is appretiated. |
| Question: How long does it take to get established and feel at home in a new city? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:52 AM PDT I've been here for almost a year exactly and, though I've made some acquaintences, I don't really feel like I've found "my people" or have a community. I moved here for a job which was a great opportunity I wouldn't have had if I had stayed where I was, but I don't like the people I work with so I don't really have any friends at work. I am really feeling isolated from not having family or long terms friendships around. Wondering if I should have all that by now or if it will get easier. |
| Question: Am I a snob, narcissistic, stuck up, full of myself, sadity, etc? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:51 AM PDT i think im extremelyyyyyy hot, beautiful, gorgeous, etc. Like i walk a certain way, as if i own the place, i dress really fancy, and everyone thinks im always "over dressed", but i feel like you can NEVER be OVER dressed,i have to look good EVERYWHERE I GO. i won't do certain things because i think im too good, my vocab is up to par i have about 3-4 friends and a boyfriend, and all of them even strangers consider me a snob, stuck up, prima donna etc. the list goes on, i just want the finer things in life. it takes me about 2 hours to get ready, i'm literally always in the mirror its my BFF, a mirror isn't even bigger than my ego. everytime i pass by one its a must that i stop and look at myself. i can honestly walk into any public place and feel negative energy from girls that dont even know me, most of these females idk ENVY ME & want to be me (even my own "bff"). i can TOTALLY say that, when it comes to me, i can honestly see NO competition with ANYONE. i won't talk to certain people because of the way they dress and act. like if someone thats not on my level talks to me i say things like "why are you talking to me?" or just completely ignore them. on a daily basis i say things like "who's hotter than me?, none of you females have **** on me, im always on my ****, get out of my face, you're not on my level and never will be, im that b*tch" etc, i also flip my hair a lot, my hair is always done. i won't argue with ANYONE thats not on MY level. I think EVERY highly of myself. i take selfies/full body pictures of myself EVERYDAY to remind everyone who that b*tch is and so they can hate.like if i can get paid for taking pictures of myself id be a BILLIONAIRE ! i literally get compliments everywhere i go and i loveee it. staring at myself is my favorite thing to do LOL. |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:50 AM PDT I feel like they're in the wrong because they're trying to control me. They hate me because I won't go out to the bars with them. I'm kind of a homebody, they hate me for it. Who is in the right here? I feel like they hate me because they're trying to control me and it's not working. They started off by all talking crap about me all the time behind my back, and now have cut off our relationship all together. Who is in the right here? |
| Question: Will someone please explain to me jealousy over exes? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:41 AM PDT Again and again I run across people newly single who resent the hell out of a friend who's taken their place in the affections of former loved ones. This is true even when the separation was mutual. Why are people so petty? Can't they grow up and accept things? |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:34 AM PDT I asked it wrongly! I meant to ask how can I survive if something like that happens someday |
| Question: What does eigal means? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:15 AM PDT i encountered few germany last month for work purpose. when i was explaining things, he disagree and say something which sound like 'eigal'. i ask his romanian friend what does that mean.he said it mean **** off.but when i googled it i couldnt find the word. can somebody please tell what does it mean. im just way too curious to let this slip away. |
| Question: Do you think it is possible that I could have a chance with him? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:06 AM PDT We have been friends for a few months. In the beginning I would often catch him looking at me and quickly looking away. Now since we are becoming closer when I catch him staring he will hold his stare. When we are together I see him looking at me from the corner of my eye if I am reading or something. We have conversations about anything and everything even personal things. He is always making jokes and full of smiles. I notice him always touching his face and fixing his shirt. Even though this is not much to go by do you think I can possibly have a chance with him? If so, what really gives it away? |
| Question: How can I get over my teacher ? Posted: 26 Mar 2016 09:02 AM PDT He's 37 and married with a kid and I'm 16. He honestly usually innocently flirts with me a lot, somebody else in my class even said he flirts. And this isn't in a cocky way but I'd consider myself pretty and guys like me. But anyways he usually always calls me a nickname he gave me, smiles so big when I ask him a question, asking if I was texting a boyfriend, always looking and walking by me, etc.. But this past like three weeks we haven't talked a lot at all. Like I have a huge crush on him and it sucks knowing that obviously nothing could ever happen. I don't know how but I developed the big crush on him and I've just been super hurt over it. We haven't talked to each other lately but whenever he makes jokes with other people or to the class he always looks at me. Little things like that make my day and I just don't get why I even like him or how to get over him, I've had this since November and now it's almost April |
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