This is the problem, I'm 23 and I stay with my mother all day every day while my sister who is 19 is attending college or going to work, now I don't really mind staying with my mom but every day ? This is ridiculous most people who I know is same age as me and they are always having fun or traveling and I think I'm starting to show the symptoms of cabin fever because I'm always crying I'm irritable at work and I'm always doing the same crap everyday I'm a gamer and I like playing my PlayStation 3 but I can't do this anymore playing it all day everyday, what should I do ?

Doc said "he long no wear glasses that make headache & sight problem.mom said "no, it's not related,he long time ago no prob,just last 2 days ago happen" Doctor said again & My mom keep say that again and again like "but it's last 2days ago". doc so mad say"YOU WANT TO LISTEN TO THE DOCTOR?" It's driving me mad,she always like this. I always listen to doctors.He asked why my mom's hand why shaking,(Mental Problem people had it, she recovered long time ago, but she didn't know, we never confess with her at all, It's a secret.) she some1 pushed her get head injured, no the truth at all.she beside all the time.planned to tell truth after done checking, Doc ask to get out,i ask mom out 1st. She keep ask why.FInally she out,i got the chance tell truth, BUT it went all wrong. i say"Do u know why her hand is shaking?"doctor angrily" I KNOW,I KNOW, I ASK YOU 2 TO GET OUT" I cont. "but".HE shout "GET OUT NOW"I straight get out & holding my tears, I was lost. I think a lot.(Is my mom faults?he hate me at all ?or simply doesn't wanna care just wanna finish & continue check the next patient,why he ask at the first then?. I was very confused & emotional. I'm always a emotional & quiet person,which it's unusual to bravely speak out. was thinking how would I move on. Blame my mom?Thanks God that the Truth(secret) haven't revealed,can't control my emotional , Fine, had it your way, Secret belongs to Secret, thanks God for it" I really don't know how to move on, I still feel not moving on.

My little brother 17 and I (27, I'm male) have been the closest, as ever since our mom passed away a year ago. Before that, he's always been close to her but now he's close to me. Of course it's not like 'that', he's very independent and is all ready to be on his own while in college. After mom passed, I became his guardian, we've been doing everything together, supported each other, never got into any serious fight. It's become like an unspoken rule to be there for each other... I never asked him to do all this. I always knew that he was special, that's why I love him more than anything in this world, but I never wanted him to give up his teenhood for me. I was never really involved with him when we were kids, as our parents split, dad was out of our lives (only to show up years later at her funeral) before that I was emotionally distant from my mom and brother. Things actually got better between me and mom as I graduated college and began work, but after her death, I've regreted all those wasted years of bottled up feelings. I keep telling him over again to just go out and have fun, but it's just that he puts me first. It's not like I don't enjoy it, in fact it is the best thing that could have ever happen, but is it good for him ? I keep asking myself whether did I now do something wrong as to the reason he has turned this way. He's very mature and responsible and there's nothing wrong with that, but I still feel very guilty. Or am I just over thinking the whole thing ?

I've been trying to get on my feet for some time now. Thing is everything time I have money I have to give it to my father and step mom for rent. My mother has recently been trying to get me to live with her and she said rent free because I'm family. I honestly don't know what to do because up till now I've gotten along with my father and ik my mother usually tries to buy my love. Yet rent free means I'll be able to achieve more faster.

So i have an older sister that's 16 then theirs me i'm 13 then i have a brother who's 10 then i have another sister who is 5 and i don't get treated the same as the rest of them i'm not the oldest I'm not the youngest and i'm not the only boy and they all get special treatment all the time and i feel like i just get ignored and nobody pays attention to me

I'm a 15yo girl, which means that, yes, I am probably more addicted to technology than is healthy, but my mom is WORSE. I actually like sitting down and having conversations with my parents, without the distraction of technology. When I drive (with my permit), I like talking to them. My dad also will just sit down and talk with me. However, my mom is addicted! Every day when I get from school, without fail, she is on the computer emailing. In the car, as soon as I start driving, she pulls out her phone and ignores me. When I ask her if she can get off the computer/phone and talk (politely), she gets defensive and tells me she has "things to do." (She is a retired, stay-at-home mom. Just fyi.) She watches TV every day. When I actually get her to talk to me, she inevitably will pull her phone out later in the conversation. She also uses her phone every night during dinner. The worst part is that she is CONSTANTLY criticizing me for technology. I never get on my phone while talking to either of them. I close my laptop/turn off my phone if they start talking to me. And yet if my mom walks into my room (where I am alone) and sees me on my phone, she tells me I spend more time on social media than in real life. What the heck. It's so annoying

I'm 23 & I got married at 19 & had a child at 20, my husband's in the military and I took a break from school to be a stay at home parent but now I'm in school full time and I'll be graduating with my BSN next spring, My issue is my grandma has always been a negative person and she's never been warm & caring, growing up I was overweight until I started doing sports in middle school and she would make fun of my weight and call me fat and stupid even though I always got good grades. My problem is my sister who is 31 recently eloped and my grandma called my mother and stated that she should have stopped the marriage and my sister should have gotten married in a church and she hopes my youngest sister who is 15 doesn't turn out like myself and my oldest sister, I was very upset when I heard that because My grandma has 3 kids that are in their 50's that still live with her and are very disrespectful to her and my grandmother got pregnant at 15 and had 7 kids with 6 different men and only got married 2 years ago but my husband and I although we're young we have our priorities straight and my sister may have decided to elope but she's an adult with her own home and a full time job so now I'm thinking about cutting off all communication with her, I live out of state now but I used to call her once a week but I'm thinking off cutting off all communication and not going to any family functions at her house, is it too extreme to do that? She's my dads mother and he's literally a mamas boy and makes a big deal about respecting her even though she's a very disrespectful person which is why only himself and one of my aunts talks to her, I've never asked her for a single thing and the only time she calls me is when she has a new get rich quick she me she's trying get me to join or buy whatever it is she's selling. I honestly don't want anything to do with her now but I don't want to mess up my relationship with my dad

Ok so I caught my stepmom making out with another guy at my house. I quickly took a picture right before she quickly shooed him out and she sat me down to talk. She told me not to tell my dad and I told her she had to do whatever I wanted for and hour when I got home. When I get home, I'm all alone, so nobody else is there for an hour until the rest of the family gets there. She was hesitant but she agreed to do it. I got home off the bus and she was waiting for me on the couch. I took her to her and my dad's room and told her to lay face down on her bed. She did and I took out my handcuffs and handcuffed each of her limbs to the bed. I tickled her for 45 minutes and by the end she was crying from all of the tickling. I then worshipped her feet as she screamed in agony from all of it. She started yelling "STOP STOP!" So I started tickling one foot while licking the other. She was crying by the time the hour was done so I took off the handcuffs and told her that she did well. I left the room and the rest of my family got there soon later. I don't know what to do, but I still have the upper hand, so I can do whatever I want, really. What should I do?

My mom has been verbally, physically and emotionally abusing me ever since my little sister was born. It got worse when i was 12, and im 15 now. I love her, i could never bring myself to report it since i dont want to hurt her but its getting worse. I try so hard at school and I have good grades, Im a dancer in the school's team, I have the top classes in my school. Nothing I do pleases her. We fought right now and she slapped me (my lip busted a little but i dont mind, what she said hurts me most), and said everytime she looked at me I reminded her of how she failed as a mother. That im a bad example for my sisters and she wishes she had never had me. I disappoint her and she wont do anything for me anymore, Ill have to raise myself on my own. My dad isn't around, and we're not close with family. She was abused worse than me as a child so I try to understand her situation but Im so tired. We need help, but she doesnt want to get it. Im the oldest and she only treats me like this. A while back, she was really upset and she grabbed some scissors (I was crying) and she said that if I really wanted to cry why dont we just end our lives right now. That all I do is cry and never solve my problems. There's a lot more but I dont want to go into detail. Im so tired, I really am. In a few years I can move out, but i dont know if i can support myself just then. I've tried to reach for my dad, but he left right when my little sister was born and we haven't heard from him since. I have no idea where he could be or his family. Thanks for your advice, it feels good to know it won't always be like this, and I know people out there have it worse. But im just so damaged im not sure i can take anymore. I dont want my mom to get in trouble, she has issues too. But if i stay here then I will just develop them as well. I dont want to be like her.

my brother is very verbally abusive and violent towards my mom. He makes her feel like sh*t about herself. it breaks my heart. I feel like he's a lost case and will never realize but i really want to somehow get through to him. But he says that parents have no right to ever disrespect him or touch him. What are some reasons I can give to him about respecting your mother to make him see how much of a horrible person he is? He's already in his 20's. we all want him to leave but he refuses to get his own place

I'm a white girl in Detroit. My mom died four years ago, and my dad doesn't have a job. The only reason I'm able to be on Yahoo Answers is my dad has an old computer from my grandma that she didn't need. She died, too. I'm actually in an alley right now, and I have to hide the computer so I don't get shot. I don't get much to eat. I have to sniff paint I found so I forget I'm hungry. But I can't go much longer. Is there any place I can get food for free? Also, are there any jobs I could get or my dad could get? He dropped out in tenth, I dropped out in ninth Also, I'm 14 if that helps

My mom blames me for my sister being single because she thinks that my sister sees me as a prime example of what men are like. And so she believes it's because "I'm lazy" and since "I don't listen to her" (which is the opposite by the way but I just argue back at her) and it makes my mom so angry that she says my sister must think that other guys are just like me.

My mother sent me to the Mental Hospital because i tried to beat up my to death because he yelled at me and threaten me to hurt me because I yelled at my mom because she droped the chicken nuggot and my said its just food and i told him to shut up then he threaten to hurt me and i pick up a knife to scare then he was acting tough then my mom stop me then i hit my brother and i got in a fight with him both my parents stop me and got sent to my room the next morning my mother sent me to a mental hospital for week.

Hello. I'm 15. I just got suspended from school today for a week. I'm with my mom at work today cause she picked me up from school. I'm scared out of my mind to go home, because my dad will beat the **** out of me. He mentally ***** me up as well for days and days whenever I do something I'm not supposed to do. I have a ride. I have somebody to stay with. Any tips?

I still live at home with my mom, I don't have a job, I'm going to school in the evenings and getting out at night because I'm trying to get a good job to help my family. However, my mom still criticizes me for everything I do. She makes me feel bad and hate myself. When we didn't have any money and were at the point of eviction and she was pregnant, as soon as she had the baby I was 18 and couldn't go to college because she had to work 16 hours a day as a nurse and she had no one to help with my baby brother. I did that for three years and during that time she along with my dad would ask me, "when are you going to get a job? When are you going to school? Why aren't you doing anything for yourself?" Knowing very well they had closed off all windows to that because I was raising my baby brother. She's disgusted of me, I can tell because when I eat she just stares at me. I'm overweight and I hate my body and when I make a mistake she tells me, "Look at you, you're disgusting, you're so f*ing fat and you don't do sh*t around here." When I'm doing my home work or anything not related to the house or I'm busy doing something else in general she just tells me, "Can't you see I need help with this kid? You're 21 years old you need to get married and get out of my house." Or she tells me "you need to get laid and have a kid so you know what it feels like to have to struggle." I don't know what to do, she makes me hate myself but I don't know where to go.

My friend was sleeping over my house and said she needed to poop and wanted to go home to do it! I asked her why she couldnt use my bathroom (and offered to go on another floor or even outside, and my parents wernt even home!) but she said she had to go home and she actually left! She just told my mom she didnt feel good and her mom picked her up. Why couldnt she poop at my house, ive known her for many years and were like sisters!

His father threatened him with a belt so he picked up a tennis racket. Then he has pulled his mom hair and twisted her neck. He also comes and goes from the house as he pleases and has pushed his father. Personally I hate his parents. He also calls dyfus on his parents and threatens them with it. It's when his dad said he doesn't care about Dyfus that he picked up the racket to "defend himself" as he says.

She is turning 19 in a few weeks, and I asked her what she wants and I got the typical "I don't know" response. She already has a new car, a camera, a phone, she isn't big on computers or ipads, she basically already has everything she needs.. and she has a well paying job so she buys a lot of what she wants... I'm just lost at what to get her. She is big on fashion, she loves animals, she loves the beach and she works out a lot..she is more down to earth then outgoing so having a party is out.. I don't want to give her money or a gift card because that is just too easy and I would rather go pick something out for her. A puppy I know she would love, but that is completely out of the question.. So do any of you have any ideas?

Without getting into trouble. He is now in hell for the hurt he caused my mother when he left her and my sister and I. I don't know if my sister feels exactly the same measure of joy as my mother and I do but we want to celebrate that he is now in eternal hell but I want to make sure I am doing it in a way where I won't get in trouble (like I don't want to actually say "I am glad he is in hell now" at the funeral because I might meet someone I like there and want to stay in touch with who'd be offended). So how can I privately celebrate that he is now in hell without losing a possible future friend? He has no surviving family from his childhood besides maybe cousins (his only sibling already died). He does have a wife and some step-kids. I only met him on three occasions and now relish in the knowledge he is forever in hell for abandoning us. I WILL ASK ONE MORE TIME TOMORROW AND THEN WON'T BRING IT UP ANYMORE. THANKS FOR THE TIPS THIS WAS THE EARLIER QUESTION BEFORE I KNEW HE WAS IN HELL AS I HADN'T GOTTEN THE EMAIL YET OF HIS DEATH LAST NIGHT----https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160331071614AAFmmrd

(Sorry about the long question, I talk a lot when I'm confused. Please help though, I don't know what to do about meeting my birth mum and dad.) I was adopted when I was still a newborn baby, adopted by my mum and dad when I was six and a half weeks old. I've just turned eighteen, mum and dad are both forty-seven, I was born when they were twenty-nine. They married when they were twenty-three years old and had me six years later. My dad is a doctor and mum is a housewife/stay at home mum, she was a nurse though until I was born. I have one sibling, when I was two years old mum managed to fall pregnant, at age thirty-one she gave birth to my little sister, who is nearly sixteen years old. Even though there is a two and a bit year age gap between my sister and I we are really, really close. Best friends and no one in the family cares at all that she's biological and I'm not, we are both loved the same. Mum and dad told me I was adopted when I was ten, and told me I could be the one to tell my little sister if I wanted to. I waited a while and told her when I was eleven and she was nearly nine, she didn't care, it didn't change anything between my sister and I. I LOVE my mum and dad so much. My family have done so much for me. I went to an amazing all girls private school, have been on so many amazing family holidays over-seas, mum and dad paid for all my dance lessons, my piano lessons, extra drama classes, my netball fees, my swimming lessons, my soccer team fees and basically did everything possible to make sure I had every opportunity I could ever want. They are even paying my university fees, I am in my first year of a double major in environmental science and chemistry. I have never really thought much about my birth parents. I mean I'm really grateful that they gave birth to me, very thankful for that and really happy that I was given to such a loving family. But I never planned to meet them or anything, it was a closed adoption from another state and I never really thought about it that much. Plus I thought it would be unfair to my mum, dad and sister if I acted like I wanted to meet my birth parents. So I decided not to contact them, I just thought it would be too hard and too weird. Plus I guess I thought they would not want contact either, as they were the ones who decided to give me up, I was a baby, it wasn't like I chose the separation. But a few weeks ago, only a month after I turned eighteen I got a Facebook message from my biological dad. Saying that he and my birth mum loved me very much and wished I was raised by them. It turns out that I was born when they were both seventeen and still in high school and they were pressured by their parents to give me up. According to him they were told they couldn't afford me and told I would have a better chance with an older, married couple. They gave me up for adoption but stayed together, going on to have a baby boy only a year after I was born, both moving out of their parents houses after I was adopted. Then they had two more babies after my brother was born, another boy and a girl. I have three full biological siblings, a seventeen year old boy and a fifteen year old girl and a thirteen year old boy. My birth parents are still together. She works as a cleaner and he works in a bakery. They said they want to meet me very much and searched for me after I was adopted and painfully waited until I was eighteen to contact me. All five of them want to travel to my state to meet me. He sounded upset in the letter and made it seem like they really did care about me after giving me up. Is it a lie? Did they just hate the look of me as a baby? But kept my two brothers and sister? I'm scared and unsure about why. I thought it was bull that they were 'forced' to give me up by their parents. They were seventeen, they could have just said no. I still haven't replied to the message. I'm slightly interested in meeting them, more so my three bio siblings than 'our' parents but it might be interesting. Not sure though. I don't know if the three kids will even like me. We had different upbringings and I'm worried they will think I'm too different. I haven't told my real family (my adopted family) about the message and I don't know how to respond. What should I say? Will mum and dad be upset if I contact my birth parents? I'm so grateful to them and I don't want to upset my family. I feel slightly angry that my birth parents contacted me and told me this, I don't know if I believe them about being pressured to get rid of me. I'm angry and confused by the message and don' t know what to do. What should I do? How should I respond? Should I meet them? How should I act? Adoptees : What is it like meeting your birth parents? Should I? I'm not mean or bitter. I'm just confused and this is really scary for me. I didn't think this would happen.

I hate my MIL so much. She likes to belittle me and she treats me like garbage while she acts her 2 other daughter-in-laws like gold! My MIL knew me my whole life and I get treat like garbage. I only like my FIL because he treats me good.

I'm putting together an amateur family tree and my wife has a ton of uncles and aunts on her side of the family. I don't feel right calling them my "aunt" and "uncle" but it got me thinking, I never hear anybody say "my aunt in law" or "my uncle in law." Do classifications for aunt as uncles only related to you through marriage actually exist or do you simply call them "aunt" or "uncle" and it's understood their only related through marriage? Same for cousins and other family members only related through marriage.

I cant stand my sister in law. I have never met a more selfish, nasty, patronising,mole in my entire life and a big argument broke out yesterday when I just snapped after putting up with her b!tching for too long. His family is trying to make me apologise and patch things up but I really cant be bothered. My partner is supportive and totally agrees with me but now isnt talking to his brother as a result. Anyone else in this situation? how did u deal with it? im at my wits end

I have a dad, but he hits me, and I'm scared it's gonna get worse now that she's gone... I don't have anyone else to go to, and I'm desperate. I'm dealing with a lot in my life, so an answer that could actually help me would be better. Thanks for the sympathy

She moved to the Uk last year and now has decided to come home, her and her partner were not getting along, he is very controlling of her and so she has now come back to Ireland with no money and no house. Is there anything she can do since she is from Ireland, please don t say it is her fault, her partner was very aggresive and he was always brain washing her. She was currently on benefits back home but now they have obviously stopped. The only bit of information she got was when she was speaking to somebody 2 days ago and they said that they are trying to get her into a hostel, I just want her to have a home again.. she is so broken right now.I m asking this because I m curious is there anything else that can be done for her, I feel so sorry for her right now and I am her daughter nobody wants to know her and she is currently staying in a relatives house but they do not want her there for long, and there ment to be her family. Since, I m not 18 if I was any older I would do anything in my will power to help her.

I just need some ideas on what to tell her to ease her mind , because I know it s not that bad.

Im asking because my parents are wanting me to get on with my life when I turn 18. I'm 15 now and my sister has been staying with us and she's almost 21 and she hasn't tried getting a job at all and she never paid for her car my dad bought her or for her cell phone and she hasn't done anything. They don't want me to end up like her sitting on the couch all day long and sleeping all day so I've been trying to get a job and stuff to save up for a house and my dad said hell buy me a car when im 16 (like he did for my sister) and he said if I keep my job I can keep the car. So im trying to get a job but I don't know how bills work as im only 15 about to turn 16 and I don't know anything about it and im wanting to learn how to pay bills so when I know how to when I get out of the house with a new house. I don't know how it really works and we haven't learned it in middle school so what do you have to pay like a month? Water, electric, food, gas stuff for your car cell phone mortgage I looked up what a mortgage is but I don't know really how that works either so can someone tell me how I can do that stuff and what to pay?

I do, what about you? a) yes b) no When you answer, can you give me an explanation?

I'm in the north jersey area. It's not for me, it's for my mother and my sister. They love eachother but get into fights all the time. And I'm not talking about disagreement fights, I'm talking full out screaming, throwing things fights. I'm tired of hearing it and trying to stop them with no avail and they're both tired of being in them. The thing is that my sister is even more stubborn than a bull and she views herself as the innocent in every situation and she has no problem with screaming at my mom and disrespecting her, today she drove my mom to tears which has NEVER happened before. With my mom, well my mom isn't exactly the most patient person, and her voice is even louder than my sisters and their fights get BAD. My mom is convinced her youngest daughter hates her and my sister is convinced her mother hates her. Does anyone know of any good (and cheap, we can't really afford much) family therapists or psychologists. They need help pronto, I'm afraid that these fights will become permanent.

My teacher gave us an assignment for us to talk about a subject of our choosing ( huge mistake for him lol ) but what is the word that you have sex or date your sister or brother cousin please help lol ad if your wondering if ill get in trouble nope I've done something like this before lol but please help

Alan, my ex husband and I are on friendly terms. We did not have any children. Two times in the last 3 years I ran into financial difficulty. I could not pay my rent or car payments. I called Alan and told him my problem and he gave/loaned (I am not sure which) me the money to solve my problems no questions asked. He never ask for the money back. Another time my computer died and I ask Alan how I would get it fixed. He sent a repair tech out to fix the computer and when I tried to pay the tech, he said Alan had prepaid him for the service call. My friends tell me I have to stop asking Alan for help if I ever expect to live on my on. I think that is probably true especially if he gets married again. However it is hard to get a loan from a commercial source and so easy to just call Alan and he will solve my problem no matter what the problem is. How do I stop my self from taking the easy way out and calling Alan when I have a financial problem? ALL ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

Mom divorced my dad 10 years ago but they lived together until now. My dad is an asshole, he abused my mom and my sister too. Now mom left for good but dad doesn't stop pursuing her he even says that he will kill her. Any advices? I'm afraid for my mom Yeah well the police knows he is insane and all but there's not much they can do

My little brother 17 and I (27, I'm male) have been the closest thing there as ever since our mom passed away a year ago. Before that, he's always been close to her but now he's close to me. Of course it's not like 'that', he's a very independent and is all ready to be on his own while in college. Ever since mom passed, we've been doing everything together, we supported each other, never got into any serious fight. It's become like an unspoken rule to be there for each other... I never asked him to do all this. I always knew that he was special and that's why I love him more than anything in this world but I never wanted him to give up his teenhood for me. I was never really involved with him earlier when we were kids, as our parents split, dad was out of our lives (only years later to show up at her funeral) before that I was emotionally distant from my mom and brother. Things actually got better between me and mom as I graduated college and began work, but after her death, I've regreted all those wasted years of bottled up feelings. I keep telling him over again to just go out and have fun, but it's just that he puts me first. It's not like I don't enjoy it, in fact it is the best thing that could have ever happen, but is it good for him ? I keep asking myself whether did I now do something wrong as to the reason he has turned this way. He's very mature and responsible and there's nothing wrong with that, but I still feel very guilty. Or am I over thinking the whole thing ?

Okay guys let me lay the scene for you. Me and my family were attending a fury convention and we were staying at a hotel across from where the convention would be hosted. We were staying in two separate rooms and My father was adamant that bed time would be 8:40! I was surprised about this as he's usually pretty laid back but he would not budge! Angrily, I went to sleep and at about 10:30 I heard a sharp knock at my door. I crept forward and to my suprise when I opened the door I saw a lion! I knew this was my father so I let him in but I knew something was off when he whispered in my ear to be quiet and accept my forthcoming punishment. He slowly unbuttoned my trousers and began to remove my undergarments (bear in mind he was still in a lion costume) I yelped for my brother but much to my demise he was sound asleep. My father then proceeded to take off the lion mask and told me to sit on his face. After complying, He took a big sniff and told me "Howard you have a very nice anus"! WTF!!! This was very odd so I tried to pull away but he grabbed me by my foreskin (I call it my little hoodie) and started viciously massaging my testes. OK THIS WAS WEIRD. I said "UNHAND ME YOU FOUL BEAST" (I admit it... I lost my marbles) and struck him with my fist and was able to get away but not before he told me that I could expect more of this "bonding" experience. I'm currently hiding in the closet of my hotel panting with fear. Please answer this ASAP!

I just got my tonsils taken out 2 days and I won't get better till 2 weeks. My mom wanted me to go to church with her last night and I told her I could because my throat and the meds they put me on made feel even worse. She blew everything out of proportion and started cussing me out, trying to drag me off the bed and slapped my face. I couldn't stop her cause I was too weak and I can't talk clearly. She then called the cops and they came to our house she told them I was being unruly and abusing her when I didn't even touch her and I couldn't even stand up for myself. she tried to press charges but the cop wouldn't let her, and he told her to leave me alone. After they left she told me to get out and live somewhere else, she threw my stuff down the steps and told me to pack my bag. after that I called my dad and he picked me up. Now shes calling my phone and told the cops I'm a runaway child, and trying to say my dad kidnapped me when he really didn't. (im 15) when she's the one that locked me out and won't let me have my medicine for my throat or anymore personal belongings. She said she gonna send me to court and have me locked up for this, but I did nothing wrong. Is this even legal, what should I do???

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Please read. I cant do this anymore. all my life my brother and father were very manupluative evil liars. My mother divorced my father a long time ago. We've always had a dysfunctional family because my brother verbally abuses my mom. Calls her a prostitute, slut, b*tch, hooker, and degrades her and her family. I've seen it way to many times. My brother is in his 20's yet he still lives us. My dad doesnt care abt it because he hates my mom. Last night, My dad and brother made up some lie about my mom (not gonna say what) and turned my sister and i against my mom. We yelled and cried on the phone to her about it. My brother and father were obviously happy because they hate her so much. When my mom came back my brother yelled to my mom "Hey ugly B*tch" and my mom wanted to call 911. He grabbed her phone from her and started to beat her up in front of me and my sister. Her ribs and arm seem broken. My brother quickly left the house. We dont want to call the police on him because we dont want to put him in jail. The whole scene of my brother calling my mom that and beating her up has been in my mind and seeing my mom crying because she couldnt believe what just happened is scarred into my brain. I feel like im loosing my mind. I just want to die. Ive seen to much. I didnt even go to details at what else happened. Im only a teenager! I dont deserve this. I know its not over because he's gonna come back to our house again. I'm scared for my life. ive never felt so much sadness.

I am so happy because I learned from someone who knows him (I've only met him twice after age 2 and am now 33) that he has pancreatic cancer stage IV. I hear pancreatic cancer is one of the more painful kinds. So am I wrong to be grateful he is suffering and am I wrong to look forward to him entering hell when he does die? I'll go to his funeral but I can't wait to be I am so happy because I learned from someone who knows him (I've only met him twice after age 2 and am now 33) that he has pancreatic cancer stage IV. I hear pancreatic cancer is one of the more painful kinds. So am I wrong to be grateful he is suffering and am I wrong to look forward to him entering hell when he does die?I will know to the funeral when he does die but I can't wait to be knowing he is in the eternal flames of hell wailing in pain regardless of what people will say about him being in eternal rest (I will know it is eternal pain).

Ok so my mom and dad have been divorced for a long time... My moms in custody of me now I wouldn't say she's the best mother but she's not the worst. But occasionally my mom would call my dad and ask him for money and he rejects and she gets mad and yells on the phone. For like an hour now, I'm at my grandmas and she can hear her and my cousin too. She says she'll put him on childcare but then she doesn't. Like wtf why does she do this I need advice or help

I'm a 13 year old girl, and my parents divorced when I was 3, and I don't remember my mom at all, I have never since I was 3. Ok so I'm a swimmer, and I have 2 practices a day(morning practice and evening practice). I never want to miss a practice(I usually don't) So I have a trip for 2 days from my school, we are staying in a hotel!(a lot of people are going) so do all of my friends! But I don't want to go so I won't miss practice! This 2 days I won't be I will miss 4 practices! My dad is making me go! I tried talking to him but he says that all I do is swimming and some rest won't hurt me, but I don't like resting I want to keep going and not stopping until nationals! He doesn't get it!

I think I might have one of the worse mothers in the world. She gets angry pretty much every time something doesn't go her way (which is a lot) and when she does get angry things go crazy. I still remember she use to kick me out of the house when I was around 8 and leave me outside at night for a while. She gets angry at the stupidest things, she full on threw an apple at me when I was 4 because I forgot to eat some fruit for the day. She is also very annoying, she has to know EVERYTHING I still remember a few years back she asked me about my pubes (da fuq?). One example of her angry was when I said something to her as a joke and she ******* went crazy, smashing plates,punching, kicking and even threatening me with a knife!?!?! She loves to see me pissed off and as well as embarrassing me. If not for my dad who is quite the opposite I might of went insane by now. My mother is also very religious and literally spends almost all of her day everyday reading christian books and listening to sermons (which for the past 5ish years haven't made her any better, maybe worse...) and all so she pretty much judges me for everything I do. She also never seems to be satisfied with me, I get good grades and I'm one of the fittest if the not the fittest guy in my whole area and yet she never seems satisfied. She is also a lazyass who even I do more work around the house than her and says I'm the useless one. She pisses me off so much. Its only a matter of time before I can FINALLY move out but I need tips on how to stay calm as I've been spewing with hatred for her for quite a few years and I'm scared I might kill her one day.

My grown and married Son never calls me,or returns my call. But he asked me to send him childhood photos via FB,not even addressing me as Mother and saying please. I just said I would, but I feel like the only time he speaks to me is when he wants something from me and then is not polite enough. How would you handle this ,Mothers? I wasn't that bad a mother,trust me.

My 24 year old brother has caused lots of trouble from coming home drunk,to bring home women,groups of druggie friends and now he even got together with some dumb bimbo who is 27 and with a 7 year old kid,they argue constantly,throw dishes at each other,the cops even came to our house and put everyone in handcuffs once ,both him or here don't talk to anyone they don't pay a dime for rent and they aren't on the lease everyone in the house knows my mom has complete authority in the house and she knows it also but she refuses to do anything because she is scared because he has made threats like braking car window,slashing tires and even jumping out of a car to jump someone,were desperate and don't know what to do or who to get help from we told him to leave since December but instead of leaving he continues to move stuff in,he makes 14 an hour which is sadly more then my mom and still refuses to help with bills we are now suffering and and have ran out of ideas.

I have been staying with this girl for over 3 years. We have not let the public know about us, to everyone, we are just good friends. What has really been happening though, she wanted me to be her bf and obviously a daddy to her kids which is something I was never prepared to do/be. I told her this and made some sacrifices, left my job and dedicated my life to making her happy. I'm 25 n she is 10 years older. Now, I'm staying at this woman's house jobless and she has tried kicking me out several times. I asked to just give me a chance to get another job so that I can rent out my own place, she agreed to it but one of her kids is home. Preventing me from going for interviews n such. It is a very long story of just how much we don't like each other now and my stupidity in sacrificing to try n make her happy. Now her sister has had Kind of the same roll with men and recently I have been talking to her secretly to a point where I realized just how close I've become to her. This woman has showed me she'd feed me to the wolves if I cross the line or she wouldn't care that much if anything would happen to me. Meanwhile her sister has left me to believe that with her, sky is the limit. I want to leave for the sister now but I don't want them to fight. I know she's gonna hate me but she won't be able to attack the sister because to people we are just friends. She hurt already and my move is really to just be happy it's nothing against her. Is it advisable that I proceed.

Every time my mom and I have an argument, my husband and I have an argument (and she sees it), I get onto my kids about something (and she sees it), or anything else she dreams up to say-- my mom insists on running to her mother (my grandma) and reporting it. My grandma in turn chews me out about it even though she is told it doesn't concern her (she says it IS her business and if 2 strangers argue, that is her business also). How can I get my elderly mother to realize that telling her mom everything is not acceptable? As stated before- she fussed at me THIS week about my house keeping and something between my mom and I that she was told THEY DO NOT LIVE WITH US. THEY LIVE ACROSS TOWN.

One of my friend's mother is in hospital because she has some fatal disease anyways he started crying in the middle of the class and after the class bullies were making fun of him so I just grabbed the neck of one of the guys and basically shoved him into a wall and he started bleeding his buddy punched me really hard but I got a hold of his shirt and it got torn. After that I threw his bag down the window our class is on 2nd floor anyways. He got beast mode and was about to almost kill me when teachers arrived. The school suspended me and my parents scolded me so badly they grounded me for two weeks I get to keep the computer though since I need it for homework. How is it fair I was just standing up for my friend? I called my sister to speak on my behalf but they didn't even listen to her or my brother even though my siblings agreed I did the right thing. I'm 13 and the guys I beat were actually 14 so I did a nice job but no I end up getting punished for it.

I just had a baby last month and have 2 other kids. I was kind enough to invite my grandma (mid 90s) and mom (late 60s) into our home for Easter. Between taking care of my kids and cooking, I did clean my home. My husband helped me very little because he had to work Sunday evening. My grandma told me via phone last night that I should "be ashamed of myself" at how "nasty of a home I keep" and that I "need to hire a maid who can teach me the basics of house keeping". My home actually looked quite tidy and I usually keep a moderately clean home, even with 2 hyperactive children and pets. I explained this to her and I am also disabled with arthritis and walk with a cane. She said these things are no excuse for perfection in a home. Her age has nothing to do with this, she has always been mean. What can I do and why does she always think that I have to be perfect? My mom also started cursing at/yelling @ me when she walked into our home but stopped.

I am a grown woman with 3 children (one of which is a newborn). My mom and grandma are co dependent and yesterday- my mom and I got into an argument because I felt that she said something to a family friend, which she didn't but I jumped to conclusions. Instead of forgetting it after I apologized, she did her family act and reported what I said to my grandma (who is a known 90 year old troublemaker and who thrives on negativity). My grandma started chewing me out on the phone saying that what I said to my mother was wrong and she better never hear about me doing that again. I told her that it does not concern her and she said "u got me into it!" ( I never once called her or told her anything, my mom did!). She has done this for 30 years (taking others problems into her hands and punishing them) though, she has told us that "you take care of your business, I'll take care of mine!"- she never follows her own advice 1) why does she always get the nerve to call others up after hearing something and chewing them out? She also did this to her older cousin after hearing she and her daughter got into an argument. Her cousin told her off and told her to butt out (her age has nothing to do with this, she has been a troublemaker since day 1) 2)Talking calmly to her or getting nasty verbally does nothing, she CAN NOT LEARN to butt out! what can I do about this? Nothing stops her from insulting me when she gets into her little moods, she thinks it is genuinely HER responsibility to PUNISH me. My 66 hear old mother thrives on drama, just as her mother does. She CANT AND WONT keep our business our business. She has to run and tell her mother if the wind blows wrong.

Okay so here's the deal: I'm 14. There are things going on that are hard to deal with, and I'm wondering if I should move in with my dad. It's my first year in high school. It supposed to be a fresh start for me but I share the school with relatives and kids I had class with before. But they tend to call me by names Like ****** and greasy (I shower every day with Axe) and probably think I'm restarted. And literally nobody will befriend you unless you make money (I'm not the only one that observed this.) At my house, I live with my mother, stepfather, and siblings. Both my younger brother and older sister like to say I'm an idiot for some reason, and sometimes I get into arguments with my parents, some for stupid reasons, some go to the extreme. I share a room with my younger brother, and the room is almost never clean. I get to see my dad when I get holidays off school. It's nice because it's like a vacation. It's inconvenient, because it's a 3.5-hour drive to Toronto. But at his place, things are within walking distance, even school. And during the summer, I work with my dad and make a man's paycheque. And my dad probably doesn't make enough money to support me. I'm not trying to say that life sucks. I'm saying I think I'll be happier with my dad. I can get a job, go places without a car, go to the mall, and have a little bit of a break. With the kids coming up here every break it probably won't be a lot better. So should I stay or go? My dad makes more than enough money to support me. He lives in a really nice neighbourhood.

PLEASE HELP! MY PARENTS LOKCEKD ME IN THE BASMENT WITH NO WIFI PLS HELP ME! HOW DO I GET OUT!?!!!?!?!?! you all suck lmao

Me and my dad aren't really close. I mean when I was younger all he did was put me on punishment when I did something wrong. He does a lot for our family but I can't stand him at all, its like he has a problem with it. I'm not a big fan of when he raises his voice at my mom most of the time and he kind of treats her like his daughter sometimes. So today I was doing my hygiene and all he does is say "your 14 now you should know how to comb your hair, then he just cuts my hair and he cuts it how he likes it not how I like it. He questions everything I do and its just so annoying. I also get pains that kind of feel like i'm itching but it feels way worse so I always get stressed when im around my dad so if I get stressed I start to itch like crazy all over so it makes me even more mad. How can I avoid this?

He may not have been the best husband on earth but it hurts me how much she still dumps on him 9 years after their divorce and how upset she gets when I do things with him (I am in high school).

Does anyone know who is really good at finding someone? I'm trying to find my Dad. I not only have his social security number; but I confirmed with Soc Sec Admin that he's collecting Social Security. I have all his personal info, e.g., soc sec #, date of birth, full name, etc... I paid a private investigator, but they couldn't locate him. If anyone knows how to find my Dad's address, with all this info, it would be appreciated.