What is a reason to hate your children ? (Im a 16 year old boy, and i think that my dad hates me but i dont know why. He treats me way different than my other siblings, yells at me , calls me names and he hits me sometimes. He has told me that he hates me when he was drunk.)

My sister and I share a father by the name of Jerald Fuller her mother s name was Brigitte Nikolai my sister s name is Tanya Marie Nikolai the only information that I know on her is her name, that she is around 35 or 36, she has brown eyes, possibly brown hair and that she is from Germany. I don t know if she s married I know nothing about her. So my question is, I ve looked on Facebook, nothing, what other ways can I search for her? I don t have 100s of dollars to have someone search for her for me. I m not even sure is she even wants to know who I am, but I d like to try. Nor do I have the money for a back ground check. Not asking for hand outs just asking what other options can I exhaust in finding her.

My daughter has lived with me the father for 10 yrs she is now 18 some how her mother said she wants her back to live with her again she is one of those live off the goverment people can she take me to child support in ca my daughter works part time only and goes to college full time mother knows i make a descent living i feel she wants our daughter back for a check

A few days ago, my sister came out to me as a communist. I'm very worried, because that sort of thing isn't accepted in Canada. Help?!

so my parents bought a brand new house in october 2015 and there was a choice to include a screen porch or not but the builder recommended us to jsut get someone else to do it for cheaper so we did, but we are regretting it sooo much.. at first we were happy bc it turned out well and cheap but when we looked closer, it was not done very well. i feel like the workers didnt put effort in it and maybe they were tired of their jobs of somthing bc the door doesnt even shut or open, we literally have to use our stregnth to break open the door so we cant keep it closed bc then its soo hard to open, so theres not point of having a screen porch if the bugs can get in anyway, and you can see thorugh between the wood cracks, so bugs get in all the time. and the door sometimes closes by itself with a loud bang in the middle of the night which scares us while we sleep. anyway, my dad called the dude so many times and in one of the calls the dude actually shut my dad up. like my dad was complaining about the porch and the guy says "mmmrmrrahhmrhamrahmrah" and then waits for my dad to stop talking and then hangs up. and in 4 months he finally comes to fix it today bc i think he got annoyed and he was waiting for my dad for 40 minutes and tells him "i cant do anything about the door man, dont talk about the door" and just leaves.. like he waited 40 min to say that? and then my dad tried to say something but that dude just runs away with his stuff to is car and my dad had to chase him and my dad told him about the quiality and he comes and sees and says he can fix it for extra $100 but not the door . like seriously, he didnt even build it right so why is he asking for more money? like we should get a refund so we can call someone else to do it rightly. and then my dad got mad so he asked him who his boss was and that dude says "my boss?? is GOD" and like. my dad was so frustrated that he laughed and he got pissed so he jsut told him to go. like ugggghhhhhh i feel so bad like im also very mad. my dad is very stressed right now with everything and he is also very ill. i cant watch him get stressed and i want that dudes buisness to shut down so the guy can go homeless or something for scamming people. what should we do to get our money back and redo the screen porch? bc theres no way we can live in that crappy screen porch with a broken door. he ruined our brand new house. im so mad i think its a private buisness where he just hires his own workers

So about three years ago shortly after my husband and I got married, we were hit with a hard winter and the roof of our home collapsed. We didin't have insurance (Yes, I know it was dumb) But we had to move in with my aunt. At the time, she was disabled but still fairly independent. Over the course of the first year, her mobility and willingness to do anything severely declined. She got sick, and needed help. We were ready to move out by then, but she needed help and had helped us when we were in need, so we stayed. Now 2 years later, she has given up on doing anything and honestly her hygiene is gross to live with. I am a "stay at home wife" do to my own medical issues. (I do work from home). But I can't take it anymore. I do everything, all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. We do all the shopping, driving etc. I take her to all her doctors appointments. Even though we tried to set some things up that she can do at home, she just flat out doesn't do them. To explain her disability, she is extremely overweight, and has terrible knees. Along with some other health complications. But i can't even get her to fold towels anymore? Her room is disgusting. I am now fighting with her to shower...today i woke up to a poop on the floor. She needs to go to a nursing home (she is 55) She has sores she picks then touches everything...I don't know what to do. If i send her to a nursing home, the rest of my family will disown me for "abandoning" her. But none of them are willing to help. As far as her weight, losing some would significantly help. but she won't do anything to try to lose it. I have taken her to a nutritionist. I also make all the food and portion it. She has lost some weight since i have been here, but her friends continue to constantly bring candy, pop and donuts. She recently ordered a ton of candy online. I can't stop her from doing that...I refuse to pick that stuff up at the store.

He drinks a lot he always leaves the house and the family for weeks and comes back And leaves again. He gets motels because he says he can't live in his truck and not shower so that's why he gets one. No one kicked him out in the first place so there's no reason why he can't shower here or stay here. He texts my mom says she's in love with her ex husband and it's bullshit he tries to use that as an excuse why he leaves and it makes no sense. He also says the reason why he leaves is because my mom "picks on him" and she really doesn't. She used to ***** at him about drinking but she doesn't anymore and she lets him drink as much as he wants at home and then he just left again for no logical reason except what I just wrote. Can anyone give me their opinions about what you think is really going on knowing all this info ?

So I smoke weed, drink, go to parties, like a lot of teenagers in United States. My parents obviously don't let me and now they're really strict. I used to live with my mom and she kicked me out so I live with my dad now. He told the school to not let me go out if he doesn't pick me up. I live kinda far from all my friends (1 hour walking) if I keep breaking the rules and get expelled from all the schools I go to, at some point will my dad not care so much anymore and let go out with my friends? I'm not even a bad kid I have good grades, I'm nice to eveyone, it's just that I like to have fun in ways my parents disapprove. How can I make him be fine with it?

When I met him when I was 15 back in 2003, we kinda got along, had little conflicts but now since 2008 when we moved together, we always go at at each others throats, always telling me what to do, always criticizing me, and trying to run my life, now since last year it's gotten worse, since he cares about me so much and tries to be my real father which he's not, he making stop drinking, helping my mom control my money and now I've been verbily attacking him calling him racial names cause he's Mexican, and threatening him, I have thoughts about doing violent things towards him, wish he was dead, last night we almost got into a physical fight, I hit him then later when I wanted to speak to my mom I shoved my way through my soon to be step father cause he wouldn't let me speak to her than got the dogs fighting than he puts his hands on me, that's it I don't want to live with him, I have autism and some mental issues but he treats me like a mental retarded kid and it's making me worse, I can't live with him any longer

My brother is 17 and I m 15. He doesn t respect me or my personal space and I m sick of it. He annoys me all the time, doing things like telling me I ve been in the bathroom for three hours even though it s only been a couple of minutes, or coming into my room when I m studying to make a reference to some anime I ve never watched, or tell on me if I m taking a break. When my parents ask me to do something like tell him to wake up he either completely ignores me or makes fart noises at me. He has been doing this for my entire life, and when I try to tell my mom she s sick of it as well and just tells me to keep her out of it. My brother also accuses me of stealing his stuff when he can t find it. He steals stuff from me, which is probably why he thinks I do. He ll take most of my Halloween/Easter/Christmas candy even though he has his own, or take a drawing I did to school and tell people he did it. He also looks through my stuff and takes my makeup because somehow he got the idea that I m not allowed to use it. My mom also doesn t let him do laundry anymore because he s really immature about it. He ll do something like hold up my underwear and laugh at me or throw socks at me. Basically, he spends his entire time around me trying to annoy me. Everything I do seems to just encourage him. Is anyone in a similar situation? If not, does anyone at least have any tips on what I should do to get him to stop? Thanks.

I ve never asked a question on Yahoo before but, I ve had it with my daughter. Ever since she graduated from highschool her attitude just changed, she went to community college for two months;then stop going, she s been staying out late a lot, then sleeps all day. she had a job, but she recently just quit. I figured out some time ago that she was sleeping with some boy, and now he won t leave her alone. She constantly gets in fights with her 18 yr old sister and 16 yr old brother, she constantly spends money that she barely has. She was going to go to her grandparents house next week to get her life back in order and start fresh, but her grandparents live in Texas and I live in Virginia, I didn t trust her going there alone, so her grandfather was supposed to come down and drive with her back to their house. But we got in a fight about how she needed to get a train or plane ticket for her grandfather, and things were said. Now she left the house with some girl I never even met and she said she s never coming back and she ll figure out a way to get to her grandparents house herself. I ve had many talks with her over the years about her behavior and actions and I even tried to get help from professionals over the years, but none of it helped. I don t know what to do with her anymore, please help. P.s. I m a single mom on my wits end.

Ok so Adults obviously have more experience since they have lived longer. But they think that they always have the right answer. I want more equality between adults and teenagers in terms of views like morals and values. I don't know if it is just me or if there are other teenagers out there that feel the same way. I don't think this applies to everyone out there because sometimes kids and teens are still developing their decision making in their brain. That doesn't mean that adults should go around implementing ideas in their head, they get influenced really quick. Kids should be taught to take those ideas and freely decide what is right and wrong. I think that we each have our own values and just because they don't match with our parents doesn't mean ours are wrong. Im 15 and im typing this because i just had a fight and argument with my mom over something that i don't understand why we would fight about it. but she is basically telling me that her advice is better and that she was once a teenager and knew how much of "rebels" we are. i know what i am doing and what she told me i thought about, but i didn't fully take it in. she is expecting an apology. btw i didn't put in detail because i'm not looking for help. i just want you guys to tell me what you think in a general view on all of the people.

I am 13 now, my parents divorced when i was 2, and because we were living in a rent apartment, we were forced to move to live with my mom, and two of my grandparents, and now one of my grandfathers is about to pass away any moment now, the thing is, i never really grew attached to him, and neither did my mom, and now i kinda feel bad for not feeling bad that he passes away, so my question is up there

She and my mother are the queens of gossip. For example, she told my step-mother's daughter something negative about my step-mother I said when I was 12 (I am now 28).

He always puts off seeing me like he doesn't really care. He has a new wife, new family, etc... He sees me at get togethers and is always nice but never asks me over to his stuff (it is my grandparent's get togethers he sees me at as well as weddings or funerals). Like I offered to go by recently for Easter and he said he and my step-mother were going out for the day with their kids (he could have asked me to come along but he didn't). How can I get him to be a father to a 22 year old son? He has been like this always some but especially since he remarried 14 years ago. My mother says he doesn't love me, is this true also?

I have spent countless hours upon hours and saving every dime to put into my business. I have worked so hard building it's brand and growing in all areas. I am very close to my family or so i thought. My family has always helped me and never wanted anything in return except for my sister. She always looked at helping me out by what she could get out of the deal which I really didn't mind because i appreciated the help. I have recently been informed by my mother, that my sister who lives in the same city, has decided to do the same thing and start the same business on her own. Her husband is funding her because she does not work. My mother has been placed in a tough situation and does not want to choose between her kids so she is also supporting my sister. My sister never came to me to tell me any of this and had to hear from my mom. I recently told my mom that this is a slap in my face after i have offered my sister a job and have asked her over and over to help me because i knew she didn't work and wanted to see her more active. I was upset with my mom for supporting her in this action. I might have been too vocal because now my mom does not want to talk to me and says that i made her feel bad and owe her an apology. Just to be the bigger person, i told my mom i was sorry for making her feel bad and wanted to move on but she still won't speak to me. my dad says that he is ashamed of my behavior. I am really confused and now sure why i should apologize. Any advice would help.

I am so happy because I learned from someone who knows him (I've only met him twice after age 2 and am now 33) that he has pancreatic cancer stage IV. I hear pancreatic cancer is one of the more painful kinds. So am I wrong to be grateful he is suffering and am I wrong to look forward to him entering hell when he does die?

My Dad died in 2008, I was 8. Now, I am 15 years old & I can't remember the last time my family & I visited his grave or even mentioned him. I'm saying this because after his death, my family & I continued to deal with the situation & it was fine to talk about & stuff. From like 2013 till now, I feel like he never existed for anyone but me. My family doesn't talk about him & we barely have his things left. I feel like I'm the only one who continues to think about him & remeber things. I barely knew my Dad since I was young at the time & I would love (for a while now) to ask my family, especially my Mom about him but I'm scared. Just now, today, my Grandma was cleaning the basment & started going through my Dad's things & she said some of it should be given away. I'm not okay with that, why am I the only one who seems to still care? Why isn't anyone talking about him anymore & insisting to let go of his things? I understand it's nice that my family got through it, but I'm not okay with everyone acting like he never existed. & if that's how they chose to deal with it, I still want to know about my Dad & have him be a part of my life spirit wise.

He lives in the south and I live in NY . He was kicked out of my mom's house after he got upset and pushed her down in the front yard. My mom and little brother dont get along anyway. he never finished his passed the 10 grade and didn't get a ged. He just didn't care After that he was with my older brother for about a month. My older brother has 4 kids. My little brother messed up the carpet in the guestroom he was staying in, and would leave in the middle of the night to smoke pot and hang out. My brother didn't like how lazy and greedy he was and kicked him out. Now he is living in his car.im so worried about him but I don't have a place of my own or a lot of money . I don't want to find out grim news about him on the local news or something.

I'm 20 and I just found out my parents will be moving to Hawaii for two years since my dad is in the military. I'm in a healthy long distance relationship I've known my BF for 8 years and he lives in Maryland while I live in Virginia. We see each other from time to time. Me and him want to get a place together but My aunt also lives here and she said when they move that she doesn't want me to move somehwere and pay money when I have a place I can stay. I told my parents I wanted to get a place of my own and they were so against it saying that it was either going with them to Hawaii or staying here with my aunt. My aunt also told me she will let me do whatever I want and I can visit my BF whenever or he can come and visit. I want to be happy with my BF were both saving up to get a place in Virginia and he has family here too.

Hello everyone, my name is Geo and im a 14 year old male. but my characters name is Tini. Tini is a witch. Like I pretend to do magical spells and stuff. All for fun. Me and my friends all have characters. Some are fairies, wizards, mermaids and witches. We always go to the park and dress up in costumes and do magical battles. Its pretty fun. Now the problem is that my mom thinks im some wiccan weirdo now who does witch craft. Since shes a religious christian (im christian too) she wont talk to me. Shes saying she wants jesus christ to save me.. How can I convince to her im not a real witch? Whos right me or her what are your opinions?

I'm almost 16, for the past year they've forced me to give the password to my phone to them when I get it taken away. Please don't comment the " your parents love you, they are trying to protect you" " It is their phone not yours and you aren't mature enough etc." I need actual advice because this is really getting on my nerves. Also, I have nothing to hide on my phone, I just like to have a sense of privacy. They look through every single text, app, anything I have on my phone. I feel violated. To make things worse I don't go to public school, do school at home. So my phone basically has my thoughts on it etc., because I have not a lot of friends. They also, want me to give up my computer password, but they just checked it and I don't have anything wrong on there. I might have made mistakes before on my phone and computer to make them not trust me, but I just want to regain their trust. So they can stop being controlling and making everything difficult. It's sorta frustrating how they look through everything, and somehow they find something bad even though I don't watch anything like porn etc. It's giving me anxiety because I just want to use my phone freely without worrying that they'll look through every single thing on it. They know my password to my phone, and will probably look through it :/. But I still have my computer password and even though they asked for it, I don't get why they need it. They already have all these restrictions on it. I paid for my phone with my allowance, by doing chores. Since I don't have a job. Yes I get that they love me and are trying to protect me, but I think this is a little extreme. Everyone deserves a right to privacy. They already put time limits, parental controls etc. on my computer. They take my phone away at night, but they still want to check it even more. Yeah, I'm still a kid but this is really a lot for me to handle.

My parents don't trust me at all. I have good grades (in my country grading system is from 1 to 10, and I usually get 8s or 9s), I don't talk back that much. I'm 15 and it's going to be my friend's 16th birthday party in a few weeks and she invited me. I asked my parents if I could go and I was a little taken aback by the negative reaction, it was something like "oh NO, you'll get DRUNK, you'll get RAPED, you'll get STONED, there's NO WAY we're letting you go to a party". I tried telling them that it's going to be all-girls party (which it is, Im not making this up), but they told me that I couldn't go. They treat me as if I want to get drunk or high all the time, and I've never went home drunk or stoned, hell, I never even got drunk or stoned. I have friends that are constantly rolling joints and I had plenty of opportunities to do the same, but I never did and my parents can't wrap their head about the fact that I can't have fun without being sh*t faced drunk or high and it upsets me

My younger brother is getting married soon and I won't be going to the wedding. He's never tried to reach out or get to know my kids, he doesn't return calls, etc. We never fought about anything specific and when I tried to ask him about it he denied anything was wrong. My family thinks I'm being petty by not attending his wedding but I don't see why I should go when I have had no c NYCT for years now. What do u think about it?

Ok so lets go deeper into the conversation. So my brothers and sisters keep making fun of me because I get really mad like this or I cry and sometimes I hide under my covers in bed and I don't get out until I stop crying. My mum never does anything, she only tells them to stop. But they don't stop, the next day they start making fun of me. My mum thinks I could have autism, because my brother has it and she thinks it could have been passed on in my family's genes. I have 5 sisters and 4 brothers by the way. 2 live on their own. Who should I tell to stop this verbal (and sometimes physical) bullying. Should I tell my friends? Could they tell their parents and they could tell my parents. But I'm scared they'd make fun of me.

ok, so i am 16 yrs old. my mom and a man way older than her he was 38 and she was 14. (no this never was reported my mom kept it from my grandparents that it was his until she gave birth.) anyways. my dad left when i was born they never married. well my mom married another man soon after. when i was 11 i was taken from my mom and step dad for child abuse and drugs. my grandparents (my moms parents) had took me in. well they had to get my real dad to say he didnt want me. he didnt want me so he signed saying they could have me. my grandparents never asked for child support. well today in class we were talking about a back child support (my real dad is extremly wealthy) would it be possible for me to apply for that in 2 more years? or will i have to wait until he passes to inherit some money (yes, i want it to get into the college i wanna goto) so is any of this possible? ive asked my teacher and my grandparents that. they didnt know for sure. so can someone please tell me. i also just figured out he was really wealthy. so i really need the money to get to the college i want and settle down somewhere until i get the job i want. i dont want a whole lot, just enough for college and a home food and car.

I'm 24 and now starting my career. I am the youngest child and still live at home with my mom. I am at the point where I am ready to move on and start my own life, but mom always said I should not be in a rush and should stay home until I'm married then move out. On one hand, at 24 many of my peers are already on their own starting families or on their way to start families and I would love to do that, but on the other hand, it does make sense to save up money and by the time I'm marriedmarried, I can afford to buy a house then move out with my spouse. I am torn and do not know what to do. Please help with some suggestions. Thanks.

Hello all I am trying to explore options me and my son s father have a child custody agreement. I m getting married on April 10. I originally chose this day because it s was my day my week we have joint custody every other week (week in week off dinner days 2 a weeks during other parents week) it will be this way until he hits the age of five. Anyway my son is in my wedding and all of a sudden my sons father decided that he isn t going to let me have my son for the wedding i m trying to explore some options on what I can do or who to talk to you about making sure I can have him at my wedding. My sons father works a lot and when I m business and I had to switch a week with him because he was not going to be around and it messed up the count of weeks for the wedding day.

I'm an adult and I don't live with her. The trouble is if I do something, and she doesn't like it, she lectures me. And it's all the time when I talk to her - she lectures me about my clothes, about religion, about how I should handle work, everything. And she gets really mad at me if I interrupt and says she raised me better than that and I need to stop being so controlling and telling her what to talk about. I want to have a positive relationship with her but I'm not willing to be lectured like a kid caught out after curfew. I'm an adult and I can make my own decisions without a big lecture on how I'm doing it wrong. But how do I tell her she's being inappropriate without her getting upset and telling me I'm being controlling? I want a relationship with her, and I feel like if I just walk out on her when she starts it just makes her feel upset and like I don't care about her or want to hear from her and doesn't get anywhere towards actually having a good relationship. The problem isn't really the topics. It's that once she gets started she'll go on for 10, 15, 20 minutes nonstop. And if I say anything or try to change the subject she gets mad at me and says I'm being rude for interrupting her. I'm happy to talk with her about my decisions but I want it to be a conversation, not a one-sided lecture where she expects me to sit and listen to her go on and on.

My dad is 5'4 and mom is about 5'1-5'2 and my sister is about 5'3-5'4 and I'm 5'9. Where did my height come from?? My moms father was 5'11 and so are some of her brothers but I doubt i got my height from them since I'm 19 and only 5'9

my grandmother passed away this morning from a heart attack and everyone in my family is bawling and im like the only one who isnt. I think its cause i was kind of expecting it to happen and i know thats a bad thing to say. i loved her, no doubt, but i wouldnt consider myself close with her like my mother was or my dad. and my mom wanted me to take the day off work but i told her no, idk why i just dont feel the need to take off work today, like i feel fine. i cried a little bit but nothing like my mom dad brother or sister. when my pawpaw passed away a couple years ago i bawled because i was closer to him then my great grandmother. i am upset that shes gone but not to the point of crying etc.

I mean, I am smart, I get good test scores, but my dad calls me an idiot and a *** because I play video games and the only friends I have are on the internet. I don't have any friends in real life, I have been bullied ever since I started school. I mean when my dad and mom were in school they were the popular ones who got everyone to kiss their asses, the kind of people I hate in high school. I play games with my friends really late at night but my dad tells me to get off, If I did have friends and I was going out late to parties my dad wouldn't care, but what am I doing different. Sure the only people I play with are my friends on the internet but there are kids about my age that do worse, go to parties, do drugs, smoke, drink, etc. My dad also bullies me because my name on steam is "TheDetenator" my dad calls me the detonator thats never going to bang. Why does my dad hate the fact that I play video games, I have no friends in the real world, I hate going to parties and drinking. Is it because my dad is a sport junkie who always wanted the athlete son, did he want an Alpha Male? My dad makes a big deal about me playing games all weekends and I argue about me staying up late, If I were going to a party that night he would not care. My dad has even tried to fight me to get me off the computer. So what if i'm a nerd in life? So what if no one likes me in the real world? I'm happy with who I am and my hobbies.

I swear everytime I try to express my opinion/views on something my parents keep saying what they know,everytime I try to do something the way I want to they just think I m doing it wrong since they re not used to accepting something different.I ve told them this a million times and now since they don t listen I just avoid talking to them as much since they re so heard headed and don t actually listen.I this way they ll never really get to know the true me and because they don t let me be myself...

Hi there! So this year my family is going on a big trip that we've been saving for FOREVER. And not just like a vacation like my sweet 16, beginning of my senior year of high school, my dad's 50th birthday, AND, to top it all off, my parent's 20th wedding anniversary. So it's a big deal for us. My dad is allowing me to make a big decision; to stay on Disney property for a full immersion experience OR to stay in a normal hotel and get to go to both DisneyWorld and Universal's Harry Potter theme park. It's a lot of pressure on me because we are taking to trip in the fall and have to book things now. Some factors; -Last year, over spring break, I went to Disneyland in California for about 3 days. It was pretty cool, but it was just me and my dad and this trip will be with my mom too. -We are staying (no matter what, plane tickets already bought) for a little over a week. Basically 7 days of fun and 1 of airport hassle. -I'm a major nerd. Half my brain is filled with random facts about anime and cult TV and movies. So yeah; love Harry Potter. On the flip side I'm a pagan witch and HP is kind of a buzzkill in comparison to actual magic. Also I would adore the chance to cosplay in any form while I'm down there. -I LOVE underground stuff about Disney. Like the secrets, Easter eggs, accidental deaths, abandoned areas, hidden mickeys, you name it. So yeah... Big decisions to make. As much advice as possible would be fantastic. I just want to make the most of this trip c: OH btw: I dig coasters and thrill rides, BUT my mom has a heart condition that limits the kind of stuff she can do.

my siblings treat me really bad not like the usual fights with your brothers and sisters my sister she's older than me 12 years anyway she always make me feel awful she always say i'm ugly and i'm so white no one like white girls and men like silky hair not wavy {my hair is wavy} and always say i'm loser in school and she was straight a student and popular and my mom told me don't believe her you're smarter than her she's lying and she always make me feel jealous even though i don't want to , there's my other brother we used to be close and i trust him so much but she ruined everything for me now the two of them are against me in everything they always sit together in her room and i'm alone and sad in my room with no one i told my mom she said it's okay she's just like this these days she must be mad but it's been a while a long while and not only that she control me in everything in what i should wear and do even and if i didn't like what she chooses she says i'm such a boy and not girl and no one will like me and she always make me feel low self esteem and i write novels and pretty good at it and when my mom said i'm good at writing and complaint me she said 'anyone could do it it's nothing i could do it if i want to' my mom said then prove it my mom defend me but i'm afraid she won't be with me since she turned everyone against me i'm strong everyone say that but i don't want to ruin my relationship with my siblings help please and notice i tried a lot of times.

I got kicked to the streets my step mom was very disrespectful, i made 40 grand grinding hard last year after she made me stop going to college. Now i live with two girls and have a girlfriend and many other friends. They are all really nice to me. I ski, i go on trips i buy tvs, cars and ****. I have been far from homeless, what will my step mom think with me living with two girls and having a girlfriemd? Lol they all are attractive. Should i have my step mom stop by lol?

my sons birthday is in a few days . I resent his dad and his family for not being there for him ... yet they recently found out his dad has another child and is raising her but they cant call my son.the father doesn't help at all i work full-time and caregiver and handle of all expenses they all hate me should i keep trying to keep these people involved with my son or cut them off completely?

So my mother gave me permission to go to an event and then forgot about it. So now I'm grounded for going out "without permission" and have to miss my friend's birthday party, even though I didn't actually do anything wrong - she just forgot that she told me I could go out with my friends one night. How do I get out of trouble and get to where I can go? I've never gone out without permission so it's not like I'm in the habit of doing things. I'm a good kid and I do well in school and don't drink or anything or hang out with people who do. We were just at the mall. I tried to talk to my mother too and she said I'd better stop talking or I'd be in trouble for backtalk and lying as well, because I was trying to tell her that she really did give me permission.

Im a 12 year old boy and yesterday it was family game night. My family and i were playing monopoly and my stepdad made an idea that every time i go to jail i have to take an article clothing off. we all thought it would be fun. After a few "go to jail cards" the next thing i know im naked, My family and i live in Alabama so its pretty normal to walk around the house naked. After i picked up the last go to jail card i got really mad and threw my game peice. my step dad told me to pick it up and the next thing i know he is knuckle deep in my private part (butthole) What should i do about this?!

what if my child is living with the mother and the mothers brother has raped the mother and her sister when they were younger but never reported it is that okay for my children to be living in the same house hold as the my children mothers brother? Also they live in a three bedroom. The childrens mothers mothers house. 1 room is the grandmothers. @nd is the brother(the guy that raped the mother and sister) 3rd im guessing for the mother of my children ( I have two kids by her) she has one total of 3 children she has.. also her and her boyfriend are staying in that room. ? is that okay? What should i do? When my kids come to my house. the little boy is always hitting his sister and choking.? What is that a sign of. We always put him in time out. Also went to a friends house and he was hitting this little girl and as also put into time out.. ???

Today I found out that after 20 years of marriage, my dad cheated on my mom while he was away in a different city. My family was trying to move since my dad got a job in a new city and while he was down there alone and my mom was here packing everything up, he cheated on her with several different women and some strippers. He has been smoking and popping pills and screwing around. I'm 20 years old and I never thought my dad would scoop this low. My mom has MS and she's been a bit much to handle lately but I never thought he'd betray her and his family like this. I'm so extremely disappointed and angry and depressed. I don't know how to handle it. I want to cut him out of my life completely but I don't want to lose our relationship either. I feel that if he can't be a father or a man though he has no business being in my life anymore. I can't handle this....any advice on what I should do.

Ok so my father side of the family wants me to hang out with them more all of a sudden.My other grandmother on my dad aside wants me to get to know them better,but why.I meet my dad once when I was 5 and than he disappeared.I TRYED calling him,the phone was disconnected,than one day he said he would show up and I spent all dad waiting for him to come...and he didn't....I stayed out on the porch waiting for him when I was 5,excited.Now all of a sudden they want me...Like wtf do they want...than the grandmother sends me pictures of my dad...why

My sister is 23 years older than me. My mom's not married and when I was a kid, she was like my second mom and helped raise me, always telling me what to do and what not to do, making sure I didn't get hurt, etc. I'm 14 now, but she still acts like she's my mom and not my sister. She picks me up from school, tells me to do my homework when we hang out, gives me chores, makes me meals, tells me "don't talk back", disciplines me...it's really annoying. I even have to stay at her house most nights when my mom is working. My mom always tells me that I have to listen to her. I wish she acted like my sister and not like my mom. She can be fun sometimes, but it's not like she's actually my big sis. She doesn't have any kids, but I wish she did so that she would leave me alone. Sometimes I hate her. Does anyone else have this problem? What can I do?

So, this morning, we had to go to a lunch. My mom clearly remembered that, and made the dessert she was supposed to. We went there, and after the lunch we brought some leftovers. While we were driving back, she made a wrong turn, and said 'oh crap! I made a wrong turn!" and then she found a way to get us home. When we reached home, the second she opened the door, my mom realised she had left the leftovers in the car. She went to go get them. The day was normal. Later in the day, after dinner, my mom said 'oh crap, I had to do the dishes earlier!" And then, when we were talking, my mom asked my dad 'hey, what was the name of the movie we watched last night, again?" Is this normal??? I'm scared she might have dementia... Edit: We plan to go to a movie tomorrow. To test her memory, I asked: What is happening at 11:15 tomorrow? My mom said: Are you talking about the movie? I think it is at 11:40. And then, when I checked the movie showtime again, it was 11:15. That means she forgot the time!

My moms ex husband is an alcoholic, But besides that, he used to be in the army (never went to war) got all the training and stuff so he's pretty strong. I just found out that he used to hit my mom when they were first married, he's been to jail countless times for beating men and women up and for DUI's. So, knowing all of that here's what I need advice about. Before I start, I do now live in a whole different state because my anxiety was terrible back home. So when I was younger like from 6-15 he would randomly come home in the middle of the night and stand just outside my bedroom door and just look at me, sometimes he would stand there turning a flashlight on and off pointing it at my face. After a while I started to lock my door. When I was about 17, he came home randomly again but this time in the morning like around 10am (I was at home sick that day so I was home alone) and he was already drunk. I thought he would get some of his things and then leave. He did get some stuff but before he left he came in my room and just started talking (wasn't paying much attention) but then he said he's had dreams about killing me my mom and brothers. I stayed quiet. After that he started laughed and left. I made sure to lock EVERYTHING! I never told my mom or brothers, I don't know how. Even in another state I feel like he'll pop up one day nd kill me. What should I do? How should I tell her? Or should I tell my older brothers first? My mom still lives back home cuz her job is there.

Hi. I am researching ways that children/young adults have coped with having a parent in jail. This is for a research project and is a topic that I find very interesting and important since it is such a big problem today. Please feel free to answer me and can also do it via email. I will keep your name anonymous if it is your wish. Thanks you, JM

My dad was given up for adoption the day he was born in Alaska. Where should I start and what steps should I take to try and find out who his real parents are?

The other day I was at driving school. My parents just came home from out of town so we had no food to eat. I asked her if she could bring me to lunch but she said no because she had work, but the other day when my sister asked if she could bring her to lunch during work, she said yes... Is that fair? I AM 14 I CANT DRIVE AND SHE IS 14 AS WELL AND CANT DRIVE... HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO GET STUFF INTO THE HOUSE IF WE CANT GO ANYWHERE?

My in laws who are very old (mom is 74 dad is 84) watch our baby while we're at work, she's 8 months old now. We have a payment arranged with them of $100/mo as we're not wealthy right now and still are paying the birth bills. Not to mention the grandparents love watching her. We buy all the food and supplies for our baby. My brother in law called my wife last night and said he felt like we may not be paying them at all or not enough, that they're old and that he's concerned. He didn't seem mad, but he was concerned enough to call which is unusual. How should we handle this situation?

Is it older for girls than boys?

my parents are really emotionally abusive and semi neglectant and i hate them i want to go anywhere else theyve driven me to suicide attempts multiple times and i cant live in this house i need to get out but im so scared that if i call theyll decide im not being abused becaus my parents are good liars and then itll jsut get so much worse and im so scared

So i leave with my mum,elder brother and young sis. I am currently working and so is my young sis who has a part time job, I am having difficulties with my elder brother who comes home late at night and usually drunk. He doesn t help out at home which is frustrating because the economy is bad and handling all the bills alone is something i cant do at the moment. I talked to my other older brother to talk to him but that pissed him off and my mum is upset because i asked my older brother to intervene. Was i wrong to ask my older brother for help.

First off to start I do not want to sound like a irresponsible parent, I am just wondering what your opinion is. I have a 15 year old daughter (Melissa) who has been going out with this boy (Jake) who is 16, they have been going out for a year and a half now. Jake comes over to my house all the time and Melissa and him just hang out in her room with the door open, if they are not in her room they are downstairs or outside. I trust her with her boyfriend because my daughter is not interested in sex , only kissing and cuddling. They kiss and make out with each other but nothing beyond that. Melissa tells me everything they do together . Jake is very sweet to my whole family and gets along with my husband and 18 year old son, he even sometimes helps around the house. But the question is that my daughter asked a couple of days ago if Jake can stay the night. My immediate response was "I will have to think about it..". Yesterday I asked her what she would do with him and where he would stay and she replied with "With me if you are comfortable with that or on the couch downstairs, my door would be open..". I honestly trust her and since her brother is right across the hallways he can see them. When they were at school I meant up with Jakes parents and they didn't have a problem with it, they trust him not to have sex. They are like best friends. Please do not say that they will take the opportunity to have sex, her room is right above mine I can hear every quiet or loud sound.

Budget:$8(living in SA, I actually have R120) What I really want: Foundation My age: turned 16, today! Gender: Female

I just got back from Fiji and it was absolutely amazing. I was offered a job at the resort as activity guide. I am 16 years old and it would be such an amazing job to have. I know working there won't be like staying there so please don't lecture me on that. My parents don't really want me to go for quite a few reasons. First of all I am young I understand that completely but Fiji has basically no crime at all and it is very safe. The big thing is that back in December I did try to take my life. I never really had an interest in something and I still don't now. This job would be the thing I grasp onto. I do still have anxiety but it has gotten much better. My parents want me to see a counselor before they even think about it. I don't want to see one because last time my counselor took advantage of the stuff I was telling her and making me think of the stuff in a different mindset that was worse than what I thought of it in. I don't want to see another counselor for that reason. Is there any way that you guys think would help convince them? Please I am very desperate I really want this. Btw I have already told them what I told you guys in here

My mum died when I was three from cancer, my oldest brother doesn't really talk to my family (dad and I). My dad was everything I had left, he was my best friend and the person I trusted the most. Dad died early this morning in a car accident, because some person was being an idiot on the road. My Aunty is taking care of me now, but I haven't left the room I've been told to sleep in all day. I also don't want to communicate with anyone who tried to talk to me face to face, and I can't stop crying about him. What am I supposed to do? I'm not in the mood to eat or drink, speak or think. What do I do?