I have sex fantasies about this woman that is a few years older than me and she is married and has children. Most of the fantasies are fantasies about raping her. What would she think if she knew what I thought about her?

In that case, should I go ahead and eat without him?

My parents have been divorced ever since 4th grade and I am turning 17 in a month. My mom says I legally cannot choose what days to see my dad and his family. I read somewhere that when I turn 16, I am able to make choices on which parent I stay with and when... Which is true in the state of California? Am I actually able to choose when I see who and when?

I have posted several times so you may know who I am. I posted months ago about the man who lied to me about being divorced and ended up getting back with his wife while basically ghosting on me. I have talked to several people about this and while I am told that I was lied to by a piece of **** man and that I deserve better, nothing has come. Everyday I still feel ashamed and embrassed. I feel like I'm being punished for this. I completely trusted this person and sent him pictures and said stuff that his wife ended up seeing. Why would he give her his phone knowing that was on there? I also don't understand why he didn't just tell me, why did he have to lie and then disappear? He knows that's the worst anyone can do to me and he knew about my depression and how people have taken advantage of me in the past, he promised he wouldn't. I just can't believe this happened and the **** I dealt with because his wife stated that I was not allowed to talk to him at all, even though I just wanted an apology and the truth. Nobody understands my position. This woman he claimed was abusive and he had a restraining order out against, and I nearly lost it when she told me they were still ******* despite that. She talked about how sneaky he was and though I can't understand why she would continue to be with him like that I also don't understand why wanting answers pissed her off so much? Why did he do this? Does he even care that he left me feeling this way?

to have babies and a family with so i can be a housewife and stay at home mom. dont worry im young now but i plan on doing my career first and getting my college degree so i can stand on my own 2 feet. but after that, when i meet a good man whi has money i will be a home-mom. thanks

I'm looking for really interesting and out of the box scenarios. Not just falling in love standard stuff.

My husband's best friend since middle school was killed in a head on collision. When my husband found out he lost it and has been crying over his friend ever since. He's emotional and won't stop crying about his friend. I'm starting to think my husband was gay for his friend. I mean what grown man cries over another man?

Really briefly, my husband is going through a midlife crisis of sorts, and is looking to fix some things he doesn t like in his life, including trying to get more friends. So he s inviting workmates to do stuff together. Unfortunately, he mostly works with single women. I should be worried, or nah? He's not hiding it from me, but he's not being completely open. He is unhappy with our relationship, and he says he wants to have someone whom he can get the female perspective on what he should do about me. One coworker in particular he is talking to a lot and considers her a close friend. I suggested that he invite her over and I can get to know her to, and he said that that girl probably would suggest that he go to her house so he can get away from me. He says I shouldn't be worried....

My husband whines about seriously stupid stuff. He whines that he wasn t a guest at my bridal shower, he whines that I don t tell him I love him enough, stuff like that. And he STILL points out that the cards we received from the bridal shower were made out to both of us. I m talking about greeting cards, not gift cards. And he will tell me that he loves me ten times in one minute (seriously he s not playing around, it s like he has to have constant reassurance) but he ll get butthurt if I don t respond every time. What can I do with a super sensitive person??

Probably after i start my little career or whatever, once I have proven to myself that I can work in a field of my interest for however long it takes until i find a mature guy then my end goal is to get to be a mother full time. How cool is that, to be a mom? Being a mom and houseiwfe isnt "little work", jackass.

I know this must seem like a odd question, but does anything actually change in the dynamic of the relationship after the wedding? What is different (if anything)?

Okay wives question for you. There is a man at the gym that I am attracted to and to say that I have noticed him checking me out on a number of a occasions would be an understatement. I believe he is in a relationship as well, there is a girl that normally comes with him. Neither of us have ever spoken to each other just glances. To add I have been married for almost 5 years but I have been with my husband for 10 and we have beautiful 7 month old twin boys. I would never act on it, I love my husband very much, he is sexy, caring, smart but best of all a wonderful father to our boys. My question is, is this normal, have other wives felt this way before? Thanks Ladies Please only serious answers!

So my Girlfriend of 4 years is bugging me about wanting to get married and i don't want to because she has a kid (she had a kid by some stupid dude which we don't get along), i don't want to loose half of what i own (i have my own house, money and motorcycle. mom died and left me the house) and i'm, not stupid (with or without a prenup you can loose half to her), but i love her and want to be with her, but i can't marry women with kids and i don't want to loose my house. How do i make her stop asking me to get married without us breaking up?

So Saturday night my husband and I got together with our two best friends that we hang out with regularly. They are both a couple as well so we have always done things the four of us together (Never sexually) Well we all got really drunk, pretty much blackout drunk. My husband and the other guy went to bed while me and the other woman stayed up. Well one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I feel so bad. I love my husband with all my heart and would never do anything to hurt him intentionally. The next morning I talked to my friend about it and we both agreed that it was something that happened because of alcohol. In no way shape or form are we lesbians! We have good sex lives that both of us know about. and we are all such close friends that if I told my husband it would make things so awkward. My question is would you guys tell your husband? I mean my friend and I know that this will never EVER happen again. If I tell the four of us will probably never speak again and my husband looks at this woman as a sister. Side note: My husband has often wanted me to talk dirty in bed about having sex with woman but I knew this was always just fantasy. In fact I am a very jealous person when it comes to him being too flirty or whatnot with other females. Please someone give me some good, honest feedback.

My wife has a friend and they are really close. They grew up together since middle school. Her friend is getting a divorce and is staying with us until its finalized. I never really liked her friend i just tolerated her because she was my wifes friend. From time to time she makes comments about being envious of how perfect my wifes body is but i dont think she is envious i think she wants a piece of her. I came home and my wife was in the bed napping but she was completely naked. My wife sleeps naked sometimes but i didnt think she would do that with her friend there and what made me even more suspicions was that her friend was in the shower upstairs. I tap my wife and her eyes were red as if she was really sleep and i asked her why was she naked with Denise here and she said it was hot in the house. Also when me and my wife have sex she immediately falls asleep. Does that sound right to yall?

Okay wives I have a question for you. There is a man at the gym that I work out at that I am attracted to and I have coaught him a number of times checking me out as well and to add I believe he is in a relationship as well, there is a girl that normally comes with him. I don't know the guy, neither of us have ever spoken to each other, so it is just physical. To state I would never act on it, not only do I love my husband dearly, he is sexy, loving, kind and an amazing father to our twin 7 month old boys. I just wanted to know if this is something normal? Thanks ladies!

So Saturday night my husband and I got together with our two best friends that we hang out with regularly. They are both a couple as well so we have always done things the four of us together (Never sexually) Well we all got really drunk, pretty much blackout drunk. My husband and the other guy went to bed while me and the other woman stayed up. Well one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I feel so bad. I love my husband with all my heart and would never do anything to hurt him intentionally. The next morning I talked to my friend about it and we both agreed that it was something that happened because of alcohol. In no way shape or form are we lesbians! We have good sex lives that both of us know about. and we are all such close friends that if I told my husband it would make things so awkward. My question is would you guys tell your husband? I mean my friend and I know that this will never EVER happen again. If I tell the four of us will probably never speak again and my husband looks at this woman as a sister. Side note: My husband has often wanted me to talk dirty in bed about having sex with woman but I knew this was always just fantasy. In fact I am a very jealous person when it comes to him being too flirty or whatnot with other females. Please someone give me some good, honest feedback.

So when I started with my husband we had a far away thing me in the US and him in Dom Rep. We did for years and in 2013 we got married. I have never get alone with his only sister shes a miss perfect and she used to critize me because Im fat. But she started acting like she changed in 2012 so we were getting along more. My husband came here in Dic 2014 and I started finding out things with proof( lots of pictures on social media on other peoples profiles) he used to go night clubing on my back with his sister, brother inlaw and acouple of friends all the time. And worst of alllllllllllll He was ******* his sister' BEST friend and she knew all about it, because one day I cought them talking about the *****. He was telling his sister to tell the ***** to dont hit him up now cuz im always checking him out. And that he was going to **** the hell out of her when he goes back to DR. Plus there were pics of my man and her nightclubbing I sended a message to his sister and told her she was a fake as ***** with me. And ever since that problem after Feb 2015 i havent talk to her, nor I allow talking about her here. He talks to her ofcource. But just basic family conv. Would you forgive ur sisterinlaw? I know is his brother, but she knows im an AMAZING woman to his brother and to all of his family, i think she should have given him a better advice, instead of covering **** up for him.

My sister-in-law is staying in town for a week, but she is staying at her friend's (I offered if she wanted to stay at our place and she said no). Suddenly she invited herself overnight on Saturday. I had planned to work from home on Sunday, but I couldn't with her on the couch, so I went out early in the morning and worked from my office. Now, I have an eating disorder that is known by my husband, so I do not eat when I am alone.I worked for 9 horus without eating. Meanwhile he was out shopping with her sister, they had breakfast and lunch together. I called two hours before dinner to say I was home. Two hours later he (they) were still not coming home (it is usually me who makes dinner). To my horror, I found out they were having dinner without me. They did not even invite me.... I felt as if that was his way of "punishing" me for being unhappy with his sister staying all of a sudden, and for my leaving early in the morning. Was this a normal reaction? I worked like crazy every day, and I do not even deserve to have dinner with a fellow human being :-(

My wife and I had gotten into a fight and I decided to take a break from things to clear my head. During that time I was talking to a girl for advice my wife found out and was jealous/upset she filed for divorce assuming that I had something with this girl. After 2.5 weeks I called her and told her how much I loved her. We have a child together. She took me back and called off the divorce but confessed to me that she slept with someone who I thought was my friend actually he was there when I asked her to marry me and he was in my wedding we even went on a short vacation together. We are back together now and have been doing really well things are actually looking great for us but knowing that she did that and so fast with someone who was supposed to be close really hurts/bothers me. She said she thought I was sleeping with the other girl and she did it to get back at me. Iv tried to talk it out with her but she said she doesn't want to talk about it and what happened. "Ever" she said we just need to drop it and move on she said she doesn't feel bad Because we Where legally separated and that she would never cheat on me. I play it cool around her like it's not a problem and I don't talk about it at all but it's killing me on the inside. Advise??

Hi, I was looking for any advice to help me understand my husbands infidelity, I just recently found out he has been texting and talking on the phone with a woman. They were sexting for about 3 months. He claims he was lost in a fantasy world through technology. I have proof that the relationship never got physical but I still feel he was emotionally involved with her. I think the worst thing about all the texting was the text that he sent saying "I love u". He said it didn't mean anything and he just sent it because she said it to him first. He told me he feels remorseful and feels ashamed and embarrassed. He cut off all communication with her since. We have been married for 15 plus years and have 3 children. Not sure how to feel since they never got physical???

My husband and I have been dating for almost 4 years. We have a daughter that's 8 months old, we are both 22 years old. My dad got him a job at a restaurant, he has been working there for 6 months. We don see each other much cause he works too many hrs. He also goes and hangs out with his friends after work, at night. He recently confess to me that he goes to Bars with them. He's change, he's being drinking more, and doesn't care about how that makes me feel. Three Days ago he told me he didn't love me anymore. Of course I'm heartbroken, he also told me he met this girl. I don't want him to get fired out of revenge. I want to get him fire because I don't want him to become an alcoholic like my dad. I don't care if he lives me, I just want him to stop working there. I knew it was a bad job because the same happened to my dad. Everyone there drinks and I feel partly responsible. I just want my daughter to have an awesome dad. Please I really need advise here

One of my friend her husband often argue with her without resaonable reasons and now even use force on her. He thought she cheat him something. But I knew her. she is an honest and kind person. She take care of her son and parents in law everyday. To such a good woman, her husband should not treat her like that. What's more, he had divorced once for he always has entertainment in evening and even use use force on his ex-wife. He is now in the same situation as he had divorced with my friend again. EVEN THOUGH they make it up， they did not remarry. I tried to persuade her leave her husband. But she can not make a dicesion for she can not leave her son and she is afraid of her husband. How can I persuade her. I am worried about her. Will you leave your husband if he hit you, have doubts on you, do not share family responsibility with you?

Hi there, So let me give you a bit of back story. My husband and I got together at 12, ended up loosing our verginity together at 14, i know, sounds kinda gross now that im older.. Anyways, I got pregnant with our first kid at 16, As soon as we turned 18 we got married and he joined the military. We had our second kid soon after that, moved out on our own and have been happy ever since. We are almost so perfect. We have computers that are right beside eacbother and we game together, When I cook he sits in the kitchen with me and talks. we snuggle when he gets home from work. shower together a few times a week. watch TV every night. some days we just snuggle and watch movies a lot. Now hes on shore duty so no deployments, but back when he did deploy sex was not an issue as you can probably guess. but now, hes never interested. maybe once a week or every 2 weeks. and since he waits that long to have sex with me sometimes he cant even get it in without getting off. It has gone on for months now and not only is it driving me nuts but my self esteem is hitting rock bottom. I am the queen of spicing things up too. I take him to gentlemens clubs, we role play, toys, i get all sexy. I have no clue what to do anymore. :( Any help would be apriciated.

I have an issue. Ever since I met my wife she had been the type to turn everything I say as an attack on her. As an example we just had an argument. We are looking to buy a house but the loan officer won t approve us for enough to buy one livable. She told me to promise her we d get one this fall. I told her we would and as of now we can t do anything but wait. She took it as me saying it s her fault because she s not working or some bull. Anyway. I ve noticed this about her for years. I honestly debated going to the wedding ceremony because I thought maybe I should t. But I did. We have been married for about 5 years. And also have a 1 year old girl. The only problem is I m starting to feel like I should just shut my mouth and agree with her on everything so there is no arguments. Every time I say anything she s so insecure about herself that it becomes an attack against her. I grew up with my mother being that way. My father rarely or did anything. He took a lot of abuse. I m wondering. Is my role as the man of the house supposed to be a yes man position? Should I just stop having opinions at the sake of my marriage. I m starting to feel like an empty husk I ve considered ending the marriage but various factors are to be taken into account. Such as she is the type to financially ruin me. She d take my child and never let me see her. She d just be horrible. It s easier to stay and shut up I think? Any opinions?