I am a high school girl and just starting to date. My older brothers pleaded with me to not have sex until I am 18 and I can then decide for myself. They are getting me a cell phone and they want me to call them ANYTIME some guy puts pressure on me to have sex. They will come and get me no matter what the hour no questions asked. They also want me to call them if I am someplace where alcohol is being given to teenagers and they will come get me. They also gave me a condom and showed me how it is used just in case I did not listen to them. Are they being too protective of their little sister. I am afraid they will ruin my social life.

I can't believe she's trying to pin this child on me, she slept with every white man on my street, in fact I've never seen her with a mexican man or any man of any other race apart from white, she's even bought the thing round to my door step and I wouldn't let her in my house, she's now texting me court dates and sending me letters from the court, I've blocked her number and she keeps getting new numbers and I just keep blocking them, the amount of money she spends on changing her number could be spent on clothes for her child, she's on welfare and she's just trash because she's always been on welfare, I worked for 6 months before I starting living off welfare, you're going to dislike this, but even if the child was mine which I highly doubt I wouldn't want nothing to do with it because his mother is a mexican whore, she's ruining my life and comfort, what should I do?

I forgot to lock the door to the bathroom and my teenage son walked in just as I was getting out of the shower. I was very embarrassed and grabbed a towel and covered up. My son was not embarrassed at all. In fact he said "Wow mom, you have a beautiful body" and walked out of the bathroom. It apparently was no big deal to him as he has not said another word about it. Should I just forget about it or tell him that is not an appropriate thing to say about his mother?

I am a guy in High School. I sometimes have my buddies hang out at my house. However when they do they are causing me a problem. They all say the same thing when they meet my mom. They tell me "Your mom is beautiful and sexy"? I get mad at them and tell them MY MOM IS NOT SEXY". She is the best mom in the world and I love her. I am very proud of her. I would like to find a way to tell them I don't ever want to hear that my mom is sexy. Anyone have an idea how I can make then stop saying that?

i am visiting my family from a different state. they are trying to get me to move here because they are so controlling. they have made the vacation so miserable for me. i dont like my mom's side because they treat me horribly and they kept trying to force me to see them, it's like its was their only goal. it got bad yesterday when i got into a argument with brother and then he hit me so hard with a remote control. my dad just sat their and watched. why are they doing this to me? i was crying up all night and i havnt spoke to anyone. i just cant wait to go back home to where i live.

My above question may have no good answer, but I'm curious what you think about this boy, who lives near me. I ask ladies for good reason too! Recently I was discussing a news story on a local forum. It was about a 17 year old boy, from my county, who was trying to make a female goat (he specifically wanted a female goat) "go down" on him. He undressed, & went into the goat's pen on a neighbor's farm. He forced his wiener into the goat's mouth, hoping it would suck him. Well instead she bit it off (his entire manhood)! And it couldn't be reattached, because the goat ate it! Apparently the boy had a history of doing perverted things to girls too (a lot)! But now he lost his favorite part. And there's nothing left of it, so it wouldn't be possible to even attach a fake one. Some boys got offended at people who laughed at him. But I couldn't help but laugh. I mean, should I have condemned the goat instead, or what? PLEASE ANSWER *ALL* THESE QUESTIONS: ==================================== 1. IS IT FUNNY TO YOU, WHAT HAPPENED? (& did you laugh)? 2. ARE YOU PLEASED OR SAD, THAT HE LOST HIS MAN PART (& why)? 3. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT HIM GETTING NO MANLY FEELINGS & "RELEASE" NOW? 4. COULD HE STILL PEE LIKE A MAN? 5. HOW WILL GIRLS REACT TO SEEING HIS "LACK"?..... (since he can't fully please them)? 6. MY COUSIN ACTUALLY GOT THE BOY'S EMAIL, & WANTS TO SEND HIM AN ANONYMOUS MESSAGE.... what should she SAY to him?.... (& what picture, etc could she send him too)? .

We just got married and are having a baby so it makes things complicated. Since the beginning of our relationship his dad has barely acknowledged me or spoken to me & has also insulted my mother and I. I let it go but now he's blaming me for the fact that y husband and his little sister aren't as close anymore and saying I don't reallyl ove my husband. His little sister has also been making things up and telling his family I won't allow him to talk to her which is so not true. She blames me for their falling out. At this point I'm sick of his family . I don't want them involved in my life anymore. Is that so terrible of me? I'm 7 months pregnant & they have me so stressed out.

I was playing super smash bros and I made the mistake of versing a level 9 charizard (I won) this is besides the point I got so mad I there my phone at the wall (my phone is okay) my dog was sitting around the area where I threw my phone at the wall it didn't hit her but she walked away looking scared and I went to pet her and she walked away but I called her and she came towards me acting like nothing happened and I apologized dog course and now she is acting fine

The other day my parents went to Frieendly's. I thought it was just going to be them. Then later after my parents get back Dad tells me that he met up with my brother and kids. Then at dinner the other night I hear that they are going to Disney on Ice with my sister in law and her kid. Did anyone ask me if I would like to go? No! I'm an introvert and would rather spend the day watching Netflix than be in large crowds. I just want to feel included but they never make me feel included. They make me feel excluded! My older brother is always asking my parents out to dinner but forgetting me. :( I'm just done with my family. It makes me so frustrated and angry. I had a hard night sleep last night cause of this.

He has been a good dad to me but knowing he wanted to have my existence destroyed makes me feel horrible. and extremely angry and confused. Im going to be really messed up from this!

I was home by myself and I came up with the brilliant idea of looking through my parents stuff. Now, it's visibly messed with. Should I deny it? Blame it on the cat?

My cousin was kicked out of her place and my mother offered her a temporary home for her to get back on her feet. A year later she is still here and freeloading. She is a bad influence on my brother. My brother is failing his courses and disrespecting my mom. She takes up too much space and finished way too much food. She interrupts conversations I have with my mom. She is a lazy and stupid mf that will not do anything in the house. She is wearing out her welcome. I want her banished from my life.

Is it wrong for me to tell my son not to tell my fiancé (not his father) things he does with his father. My sons father has legal issues and also is not the best father to him which is why we divorced. He also should not be around my son alone. My fiancé gets mad at me because he thinks I have bad judgment around his father so I have told my son not to talk about when he sees his father and when he comes over etc. Is it bad that I told my son not to talk about things with my fiancé? He is soon to be his step dad.

My cousin and I both love in Alabama and we are really close. We are both boys and yesterday he told me that he was gay. My grandpa that it is legal to rape a gay guy as they are technically not humans. I've been pondering the situation and every time I'm around him my pee peer raises and my cheeks get rosy. I'm going to rape him no matter what, should the deed be done while he's sleeping or should I overdose him with NyQuil Guys its just a social experiment

They don t trust me because I had ONE wild night with my friends on my 16th birthday. My mum called it the worst night of her life and now, every time she has to leave me on my own, even to go to the supermarket, she has a hard time leaving me on my own. I ve never, apart from that one time, been a crazy teenager and now I make ONE MISTAKE (4 MONTHS AGO) she suddenly thinks all I want to do the second she is gone is drugs and drink. By the way, I m a straight A s and A* s student who has a job and earns all my own money. I m basically an adult because I cook all my own meals as well (I m vegan, they re not). I ve tried telling this to my parents but I don t think they ll be satisfied until I m locked in a police cell like the crazy criminal I am

My older brother and I are 18 months apart. My brothers birthday is in May. So probably mid may he will have to go get driving lessons and get his permit. In February, my parent got about $6,000 after taxes. My dad is wanting to put down that money on a used car (One that is like $15,000) and then get a car payment. All for a kid who doesn't have his license yet. I extremely disagree with this. We could probably use that money God forbid something terrible happened. We are middle class, but by no means are we rich. My mother has at Honda Odysee 2004 (or something like that) and my dad has a little car from like 2004 too. Both work just fine. I tried talking to my mom about it and she said that i should be beyond grateful that i am getting a car for the both of us. AND I AM. But i just don't see why we need a car when I'm not driving for another year or so, and he's only getting his permit. My friend thinks that i could be jealous but thats not the case AT ALL. And I know that there are so many kids my age whose parents aren't getting them a car . I just don't see why we need to spend that much money on a car in these circumstances How can i talk to my dad about this with out seeming bratty or ungrateful? FYI, its going to be a family car, so my brother and i will use it, and if anything happens to the other car , we can use that one. But it will be mostly for us.

Mine saw me nude and I'm not sure how to react. I am embarrassed.

Im a 17 year old boy with strict parents who are duper close to me. I don't have any interest. I don't have an identity or a voice. My parents kept making decisions they picked out my hs but i don't like the ppl there. I have no self confidence or self esteem. The only thing I have is my gpa in hs. I want to go away to college but I can't even score 20 on my ACT. I have no dreams, but i feel that if I move out of my parents house I would find my self. Ive never had a job before cuz my mom doesn't want me to have one until after college. So my only option to move out is college where I live on campus or the military. Ive never had a girlfriend or had feelings or affection toward anybody before but I don't even love myself, I hate myself cuz im not good at anything, I have no dreams or goals or hobbies or interests. I have to move out of my parents home in order to find myself, I need to be on my own, I need to develop character and a sense of self. Being out in the world on my own without my parents is nessicary in order to grow. I can't go to community college cuz i have no money so im stuck in my parents house. Collehe admissions needs to understand that I can't stay in my hometown and live with my parents past high school. My mom doesn't want me risking my life in the military but when I turn 18 I might have to make that decision on my own. How do I find my identity, confidence and self esteem.

Bueno, lo que pasa es que a veces me baño con mi hermano de 12 años y como es en una tina de baño y la regadera no sirve, sólo tira un chorro de agua como si fuera una llave de agua, así que cuando nos enjuagamos normalmente nos turnamos el chorrito, pero ultimamente él se acerca cuando es mi turno y hace como que juega tratando de que le toque agua también porque "tiene prisa" con el agua y yo siento su pene parado, y me lo pega en las nalgas, o sea... la verdad sí se siente rico eso, pero no sé, como somos ehrmanos es extraño, y la última vez se me acercó por adelante y me pegó su pene con el mío, como si no le importara que me diera cuenta que lo tiene parado y se pego fuerte según él tratando de tener agua también y bueno, a mí se me paró también y simplemente miré hacia arriba y seguí parado en el chorro en vez de hacerme hacia atrás, porque me estaba gustando, y creo que él se vino, pero aún no saca semen, sólo se vino y salio algo de líquido seminal porque estaba caliente... y bueno yo me quedé enjuagándome con el pene parado y bastante apenado, porque sé que me debí mover, se supone que el sexo entre hermanos está mal (¿?), pero no me moví porque se sentía demasiado biieeenn. No sé ¿qué deba hacer? ¿me sigo bañando con él? ¿está mal el incesto si ambos somos hombres? ¿podría el sexo hacer que el amor real que hay entre nosotros disminuya debido al hecho de vernos UN POCO sólo como objetos de sexo? Yo amo a mí hermano... no sé qué hacer. (Y bueno me refiero específicamente a este incesto, ya que como somos practicamente de la misma edad, realmente no es pederastia.)

I met a woman, im 31 she is 52. I didn't know her age at first, although I knew she was older. We ended up falling in love. Her age didn't bother me. After three years of being committed, I find myself thinking and looking at woman my age. I guess I get worried about the future. I notice we are really different too. I like to stay active all the time, and she just wants to chill, eat, and watch tv after work. We never seen to be on the same page. I think it's because I'm young and unsettled, and she's older lookingg to settle. Problem is she is awesome, and I can't picture a better woman to be with as she has many great qualities. If she was my age, not divorced with kids, I would marry her. But she had alot of baggage. I don't want to lose her, but my feelings are scaring me, and I don't want to share them with her yet because I have moree figuring out to do.

She says I will turn into an alcoholic like my father did, but I am trying to tell her it is not heroin, one drink does not make you addicted.

My father is a very very strict man he's called the police on me a total of 6 times for catching me dipping tobacco, not wanting to go to church, and for arguments we get in none of which was serious, he threatens me every day that he will send me to boot camp and he has a lace of care or compassion for me, I know I sound like a typical teenager but I mean he's told me as soon as I'm 18 I'm out of the house and he doesn't give 2 shits if I'm on the streets I'll be left to fend for myself, all I ever want is to make him proud but I never do I just need advice on how to talk with him and handle situations when it gets out of hand like the ones i mentioned earlier, thank you for your help!

I don't own a car apparently i just got my permit couple weeks ago. I working with my mom illegally without the license. Since she own the store therefore she snug me in. I own a college debt which is 4k and right now I'm working to pay it off. If it not because of it I would never want to work with my mom by there no way I could do anything since I don't drive. I focusing on learning how to drive as well as getting a car but car is expensive. I living in a family of 2 siblings I'm a middle ones for some reason my little brother and older sister doesn't have any thing against the way my mom do thing. I have problem with the way my mom do things so I speak she getting angry and yell at me. She doesn't like it when i have my own opinion and she alway called me stupid and arrogance. I'm a good student at school and well socialise with other people in the community but not in my family. My sister and brother doesn't care how I feel and they think that I'm at fault. My mom said "living under her roof I have to do everything she wanted me to do no question to ask" I asked to leave me be but she said if i wanted her to leave me be then I should leave the house, and she doesn't care if I eat my own poo to live or what so ever. I thinking a plan to move away from home. Sometime my thought went to extreme thinking that I would become a prostitute and working like that. And sometime I just don't want to live any longer and deal with this family it hurt so much. She doesn't understand english so she have to do this. She treat me like american at 18 she doesn't have any responsible with me, but she still want me to follow the asian way do whatever she asked me to do... I wish she could just kill me I die off this world is horrific. I have good friends in life and people who made me feel much better but the pain keep adding up over time. I think it getting harder I don't know what to do.

why would they do that? Why did they lie to me likely that? It s not that I m angry towards him not being my father, in just mad that they kept it a lie from me for 13 years.

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Okay dudes I'm a 22 year old man. I recently attended Alabama University. When I came home from college I saw my mother nude for the first time in a while and got rather erect. I know it is not right but good lord she's a dime. Ever since I was 16 I've been resisting the urge to pounce on her *** in a vigorous fashion. Please help ASAP. I would sometimes watch my mother and father have intercourse and touch my weiner to it. I've started to have vivid dreams of me raw dogging my mother. One time when she was sleeping I put the tip in (but just barely) just to feel what it was like and my oh my it was the best feeling I've ever had. One time I was a tad tipsy and asked my mother if we could have hot steamy anal on the couch. She replied with a stern NO and hasn't talked to me since. I do miss her so especially her big jiggly titties more than ever before. Please help... should I rape her or continue living as such? BTW my father is also my mother's brother

Basically I told my mom beforehand that I'd be changing to get ready for the party. I heard her walking by my door and told her not to come in. With me being a teenager of course I'm embarrassed about my body. So she comes in anyways, being startled by the fact I scream at her to get out. She grounded me, and took my phone away. I mean did I react appropriately?? I apologized for yelling, and tried to explain but nothing. Situation was finally resolved after I showed her the responses of others

whenever my sister and dad are in the same room my dad takes out his phone, and 'secretly' records her. at first i was like "hes a pastor, why would be he doing this, i must be wrong" but now ive seen the camera open and at her, and anytime someone moves in front of the camera he moves around them and whenever she moves he kind of subtly moves and keeps recording. shes 17 and its so so weird. idk what to do. should i tell my mom? should i confront my dad? hes such a creep for this and i hate it. please help me he will cross his arms, having his phone up and camera pointing at her

My brother is 7 yo. He's a nice boy, never naughty, not out going , quite a nerd , not quiet but peaceful, never fight, he's so neat . As he's fat and all personality above, his friends like to tease him, sometimes quite a bully way. I knew it and feel nothing towards it as I was there and learned BUT... What different is, there's a naughty girl hit him quite hard he didn't like it so he told her to stop but she still repeat her action and as he's young or maybe try to protect himself, he pushed her away just to stopped her and the teacher blamed him for pushing her!!! I know it is bad for a boy to fight a girl, but I could think of nothing to tell him. I was much like him when I was his age, but I'm a girl so there was no 'gender expectation issue' for me but I felt so worthless when I was't the one to start, just want to stay at my peace but got teased and no one listened or take action. I felt like no one is on my side and I don't want him to feel it. He's so down that he got blamed ( my parents taught us that got blamed=bad) that he didn't even dare to tell me or my parents!( I've known this from his baby sitter who he enjoy playing with and I've asked him to confirm it) my questions are 1. What should I do for this case? 2. How/what should I tell my bro to do if it happen again? 3. How to know if his feelings? Ps. I blamed neither the girl nor the teacher as it could happen but it is hard for the teacher to accept the truth from his mouth.

I'm a senior in high school and an all-state swimmer. I have multiple D-1 athletic scholarships, including some to some great schools I couldn't otherwise get into (I'm a good student, but these schools are even better). One of those schools is my first choice. I like the academics, the location, the coach, and the atomosphere of the swim team there. It's a great fit for me. The best fit. But when I took my on-campus visit I realized that they all shower together before and after practice, and that the showers are completely wide open (poles in the middle of the room). I don't have any sisters, have never really been nude around anyone, and my high school team had shower stalls with curtains. I know this "shouldn't" be a big deal, but it is freaking me out and making me consider other schools I have offers from. Some of them I noticed had private showers, others had open ones but the team went to great lengths for privacy. But it also feels like a silly thing to make a decision on. If the team is comfortable, its all girls, why shouldn't I be comfortable too? But I'm not comfortable, I'm really nervous. What do I do? And if you do think I should go, what can I do ahead of time to get more comfortable with the idea?

It was getting really cloudy outside and I told my brother to be careful going inside in case of a storm (we're at school) and I just don't want something happening to him :( He's my younger brother and I've had a close relationship with my brother since we were little because my mom was never around and she passed three years ago so I've taken care of him and my other brother that has autism so I feel like I have a mother-son bond with him and I want him to be careful :'( Why did she laugh at me :'(

I'm 43 and have 3 teenagers. I share custody with their father, we mostly do the every other weekend thing, but he takes them for a full week every summer. My fiance and I always take a vacation when they're gone that week. We try to do a few little weekend getaways throughout the year, but our week long summer vacation is our "big vacation." This year I suggested Key Largo. He asked if we could invite his dad along because his dad had mentioned wanting to go to Key West. a little side info: this man is married and has the means to travel, it's not like he's elderly and needs us to take him on a trip. I told him if he'd like to do a vacation with his dad we could do a weekend trip, or he could do a "guys trip" with him, but that I really look forward to our week alone together. He said if we don't invite his dad then we can't go to Key Largo, we'll have to pick somewhere else because it would be rude for us to go there when his dad wants to go. (I hope you're scratching your head like I am) Am I wrong for wanting this vacation to just be the two of us? I think it would be awkward having a 3rd person along for a week. His Dad and stepmom went to Florida for a week last summer and didn't invite him/us, they obviously understand wanting to get away ALONE for a vacation.

Its nothing Special i mean. no crazy designs. Its just for a day at my brother and cousin first soccer game. Well second, be all had to work that day. So we didn't get to see them play. Will it be safe for us adults and a year old. If not what are some good, but reasonable priced face paint

I had a baby only two weeks ago and we have visitors ALL the time. Every time I see another visitor,which never mind they are mostly friends of my moms in law and practically people I've only seen a couple of times before,I turn red and feel like kicking them out or start crying. Its so ******* annoying and no one even let's me know about them coming over. I feel like my in laws see me as a witchy ***** or Smith at this point bcs I don't want anyone at all. Its fine if they come once and see him but they're coming over all the time and pick him upand touch him and stuff and iI'm losing it. A couple of days ago my hubbys niece put her finger in my baby's mouth and I completely lost it and told her not to and my mom in law was looking at me like I'm a ***** or whatever. So tired of this situation!!!

I will be going to the funeral next week for my father who died. I don't know my step-mother (never met the woman) so I am not contacting her. I will be going to the funeral though to celebrate that my father finally died and went to hell. So because I am there is my name suddenly going to appear in his death notice that the newspaper publishes or do they just post the names of the children he raised? I only met him three times so he isn't my Dad but technically was my father.

He's in debt hundreds of thousands of dollars he owes me quite a bit but whatever. The dudes almost 60 but he doesn't want to go to work last year he spent 7 months unemployed just watching tv & eating junk. He eats everything like there's never any food cause he ate everything. He says it's cause food makes you strong. He acts like a 4 year old & it's always been like that since I can remember. It's ridiculous. I can't keep spoon feeding him like he's a baby, I got my own family. I don't want therapy but he needs to get his act together. He criticizes everyone yet burps & talks with his mouth open. He doesn't clean up his messes he left my kitchen smelling like curry & dank. He also needs to stop yelling at me & calling me a sinner. He needs to stop cursin too. My mom acts alright they both love with us but he's like a child. No I don't want counseling I just want him to realize it has to stop

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I'm a 17 year old girl and my parents are constantly rummaging around in my room even though I've never been a troublemaker. It makes me furious because it seems like they're always moving things around or taking things out for my 3 year old brother to play with, and what's even worse is they don't even have the balls to do it when I'm around, so they do it when I'm at school (I know this because I'm always finding my brother's toys in my room when I come home from school). Occasionally I'll catch one of them in the act and yell at them for it, but when I do they don't even feel compelled to leave, they just say something along the lines of "It's my room in my house; I just let you stay in it." and carry on doing whatever it was they were doing. Why do they not respect my privacy? Teens, do your parents do this too? Do they respect YOUR privacy? Is this normal or are my parents out of line? Parents, why are my parents doing this to me even though I've never had a boyfriend and I've never done drugs or even acted remotely suspicious? I've tried talking to them and giving calm, reasonable arguments, but they just blow me off like what I have to say doesn't matter because I'm a teenager. It absolutely infuriates me that they seem to have no respect for me. Please help!

My parents are forcing me to pay rent now that i have had a job for about 6 months...i am currently seventeen and have about nine months until i turn 18 ...financially my income is not necessary to the home for survival..my parents are rather well off and tell me that they expect me to pay rent for all of the trouble i have caused over the years....(no criminal record or anything close to that) I need help finding a legal precedent ...if one exist ...to show my parents that since i am still a minor and a high school student that they do not have a right to force rent out of me. Please help. I find it necessary to add more details...so as to not get bashed on anymore....My dad makes $150k a year and we have a $2000 rent every month...utilities as well as phone bill and cable come out to about another $1200 ....with barely paying health insurance due to my moms job at a hospital...and car insurance a cuple of hundred with no new cars to pay for..and no mortgage to pay for that leave a good $8000 each month in excess give or take a couple of hundred of dollar.....i know my parents financial situation very well due to the fact that my father left for the army in october of last year for a six month training....in which i realized that the limited financial help from the army wouldnt be enough..so i got a job to help out my mother with bills...i am only high school educated but am very bright and plan to major in business and law when i go to college...but while my father was away i gave roughly $5000 to my mom to help out in the six month period...i know its not alot but it was the best that i could do for a fulltime high school student working at partime minimum wage....during this time i stepped up and did balance check books and deal with the household finances due to my mothers lack of mathematical abilities to do these things right...i understand the responsiilities that come with money and esp. with living by yyourself....so i need a legal reason to tell my parents that i do not/ will not put forth money when it is not imperative to our survival...i am currently trying to save for college which i know will be expensive. so please if anyone can help me out with what i ask and not bash on me with the bullshit that i deserve to learn a lesson(which i did six months ago) i would greatly appreciate it

Anon because i hate talking about this but... My parents are both into really rough discipline. Like they'll use the belt on mr but hit 20-30 times. And I've been slapped and hit with fists before. Sometimes they throw stuff. It's pretty normal for my culture so I just put up with it. But one of my friends said that they'd beat their parents *** if they ever hit them and some other ppl agreed. I had never thought about doing thst before. So I've been trying to decide if I should just go for it and hit them back and throw stuff too. I DON'T want to go to foster or anything. And I'm a girl and small so if I do hit back it won't be easy to fight. But I want to deal with this. Should I ask my friends if they could help if things get bad? Or my boyfriend maybe?

my parent are really stict and they always hit me and my sister. one my dad hit me with a coat hanger *sharp end* on my back and legs and i was bleeding horribly...wanna know why? because during the night i was making this HUGE lego this and then i accidently swatted a piece under the couch. so when i went to grab it my dad accidently broke the lego and hitted me because ishould hae been more careful. also once my mom hit me in the head with a shoe and when i got hit it hit the eye and i was bleding.. but my mom didnt care. she just slapped me for being a crybaby. i love my parents the pieces but i cant stand this. tomarrow are the parents teacher meetings and my mom is goin to kill me because i missed some mathh homework without telling here and that i forgot some frnch homewrk... so my question is it legal to hit kids srry for spelling

My mom has been through a lot of emotional struggles espically from my dad. I always make sure to listen to her problems when she comes back from work because she says all the time that she needs emotional support since she doesn't get any support from my dad and has no family. In the past I used to talk back to her when she made me mad or was doing something unfair. But know I don't do that and when I even make a little mistake she will not even ask me she will just pinch me in the ear, slap me in the face, hit me with a shoe, kick me,or hit me with a wooden spoon. She has a very big temper problem and she always brags about how she is such a wonderful person and how she is not as selfish as other woman and how she always puts her kids first. Also she brags about how she basically raises us by herself because she doesn't have a supporting husband and then I tell her all about single moms and then she says at least they have family close by. She used to be a loving mother when I was little but not anymore. Now I basically stay everyday including weekends by myself I take care of my little brother and sister. She also hits my siblings too. And we basically cry everyday because she hits us and we are not allowed to get out of the house so we have no social lives so we just play on our computer,tablet,iPods for 8 hours until she comes home. And we don't play any sports because no one will pick us up. And my dad basically just works everyday and he doesn't love me and my mom and has financially and emotionally abuses everyone espically my mom. We are also planning to divorce him but my mom will still be the same. I have also asked my mom if everyone in my family could go see therapist and she says it will not fix anything and that if I was actually depressed I would back talk to my teachers. I think going to family therapist will make us a happy family. If I call child protective services they will just arrest my parents and we will be put in foster homes.

So, I'm 16, and i just lost my dad monday night...im struggling more than anything its a battle to not cry its a battle to keep pushing its just one huge nightmare. I know it hasnt fully hit me yet...how do i make it through this whole thing....how do i cope with the funeral and saying my final goodbye to the one who meant the most to me along with my mom. yes they were divorced but she still cared. my parents mean the most to me and how do you let one go...i just need advice so that i can make it through this tough time.....daddy i know your reading this and you know i love you so much and you know joey does too....we both love and miss you with everything we have daddy

Without getting into trouble. He is now in hell for the hurt he caused my mother when he left her and my sister and I. I don't know if my sister feels exactly the same measure of joy as my mother and I do but we want to celebrate that he is now in eternal hell but I want to make sure I am doing it in a way where I won't get in trouble (like I don't want to actually say "I am glad he is in hell now" at the funeral because I might meet someone I like there and want to stay in touch with who'd be offended). So how can I privately celebrate that he is now in hell without losing a possible future friend? He has no surviving family from his childhood besides maybe cousins (his only sibling already died). He does have a wife and some step-kids. I only met him on three occasions and now relish in the knowledge he is forever in hell for abandoning us.

Hi! I want to have privacy but it seems that he doesn't just let me be in my safe space! Whenever that I do something he just keeps watching what I am doing and if I ask him to stop it he starts to act so childish that he stays there and I can't do anything to get him out of my ... private life! And you know why this bothers me? It hurts my concentration so much that I am off the whole day! I tell him that he's hurting me by acting like this but he does what ... you know the silly parent stuff... I hate his behavior so much that I don't even let him set foot in my room because since I was a kid he gives me a real bad feeling that I can't do anything right! He is not stopping even now that I am 19 years old and ... I am smart enough to live by myself... he knows that himself as I do things better than he does and I know more than he does and ... the core thing imo is that my IQ is higher than many people around me ( I know 119 isn't that much but with my dad being about 90...) thus even my family are kinda jealous of me! Look I am not the one who thinks that knows all! I ask when I have to, about anything! But when I know things and never ask them or don't want help from them (especially my dad) they just start bothering me! I owe them my well being but come on! You can't just treat my like sheep here, Hello?! I don't know if I am right ... so again I am asking a community! WHAT DO YOU THINK? I am here to answer anything you ask... my day's ruined :( Thanks to the limit and me going away for a time... let us continue... He is almost asleep the whole time but when he's up he needs to do something (it seems) and who's better than me? The main question is " How can I stop my father (and others in lower levels) from having their heads up my butt!...?"

I'm 19 yrs old my bf is 20 I'm pregnant and the baby will be here May My boyfriend has been staying with me since February. His sister is 16 His mom and sister stopped talking cus he moved in with me they didnt make effort to contact him his sister tried telling me that the baby has to sleep at their house Me & my bf agreed that we would live at my house when the baby is born for several reasons I want our bby in a STABLE environment, so that way she can sleep calmly All of her stuff is here at my house his sister said we have to get 2 sets Me and my bf also agreed that We would visit his parents with the bby everyday when its time for her to sleep she comes back 2 my house 2 sleep in her crib. I just want my baby to be stable his mom told him that Im turning him against them cus he doesnt live with them anymore i explained to her that we are having a baby he is a grown man shes saying he doesnt have to live with me cus I dnt pay rent I get paid $285 every 2 weeks my bf is getting a job this summer so we will save up his mom doesn't want to let go of him reasons why I do not want 2 b there is cus Roaches Marijuana selling ,Theres already a baby there My boyfriend Agreed with me but his mom is making him feel bad now he feels like we have to go back and forth She putting things in his head that aren't true and she's telling me that he isn't a man he needs to live at home until he has money to get an apartment for us but his mom and his sister are both telling him not to leave

And my dad is also my uncle?

She told me she was out getting f*cked and that she doesn't give a f*ck what I have to say about it.

my mom and dad both have younger siblings and both my uncle (dads younger brother) and my aunt (moms younger sister) REALLY resemble my parents!!!!!! My uncle resembles completely like my dad does and also has the same mindset like he does. And my aunt she also resembles completely like my mom does and has the same mindset like she does. So why do brothers and sisters have the same mindset?

My story is long but im going to make it short. My mother values my brother more than me. No matter how much I help her with buying groceries, house chores, go out with my friends once or none a month when my brother goes out every week, being a good student in school and babysitting a little brother that many people told me its not my resposibility yet I takes care of him like a father *because I dont have a father*. She praide my older brother everytime. She scolds me everytime and whenever I see she scold my brother lightly, he talks back so rude. I dont know if my mother is just blind by his words or just hates me for being born. All I want is, not money or stuff to buy or watever. Just a mother's love and a smile on her face. Im doing most of the chores to please her and ease her burden. I guess im not enough as a child. She value her furniture or items more than me. I cry alone at times thinking of this. Councellors or therapy or friends doesnt solve my problem, they just help to make me not think about it. Is there any easy way to suicide? Im sure that will please her considering she never smile at me but always laugh with my brother.

This might be long. So sorry in advance Lets start; Im 13 years old(almost 14). when i was 6, my father passed away from a blood clot in his heart. Ever since then, ive kind of been the second mother to my two little sisters since im the oldest. My mom is a perfectionist and likes everything planned while i like to go with the flow. My mom never really got along with my dad since he was abusive(which i dont remember) and would watch pornography and stuff like that. Mind wise, im like my father. I dont watch porn or anything, but im a smart alec, have more book smarts rather than street smarts, and a bunch of "qualities" that my father had. Because of these qualities, my mother and i rarely get along. Anyways our fight today was because my room wasnt clean enough for her. I cleaned my room the night before and i had a laundry basket full of dirty clothes and a laundry basket for things to sort though to see if i REALLY needed it or if i could trash it. I also had my laptop rested againt the wall with the long charger it came with. she threw my macbook (luckily it wasn't damaged) and dumped out both laundry baskets and said "now its really dirty. Maybe this time you'll do it right" Im just sick and tired of everything never being good enough and its gotten to the point where i want to kill myself over it. In my religion (Mormon) we believe that we go to hell when taking our own lives, along with other consequences, but im just done. its hard dealing with bullies in school, and a bully at home. I need help please.

first of all, I am 17. live with parents, go to college. have little siblings, nothing special. And by the way, I am not a selfish teen who thinks only about self comfort and things like that. I am different, but that doesn't make me bad or anything. I never cause trouble and I am nice if others are nice to me. SO, couple of days ago, I was at lagoon, it was getting cold and my fam decided to go in the car and get jackets. I wanted to wear my jacket but didn't know that my mom wanted to wear it as well(seriously). and when she reached to get it I said: wait, I wanted to wear the jacket. She got so angry, she started screaming, swearing and at it's final she slammed the car door and angrily walked away. My dad was pissed, he gave me the jacket and said: GO RUN AFTER HER AND SAY SORRY! Well, I couldnt really...I was changing at the moment and had my pants half off(ha-ha) and definitely couldn't run after her. And also, what the heck did I do that was so bad? I didn't know she wanted my jacket and I never said no to her as well. So we had to leave the amusing park after that(because of her being 'upset') and they yelled at me for awhile, then the next day they went and did huge shopping for summer and of course didnt buy me a thing. after that we went out to have a dinner and my mom kicked me out of the restaurant because I asked my sister not to stare at my phone screen and read my messages. And when I was finally like, screw that, and I said sorry to her..she said: WHAT FOR? and I didn't know what to answer because, seriously, what did I DO?? please tell me what to say to her, I REALLY NEED her not to be angry at me, I have a photo shoot tomorrow and I need her to sign the release or I can't go! and she won't until I tell her why I am sorry! PLEASE HELP!

I work really hard. At home. At school. At singing. At everything I do. But it seems like no matter how hard I try, its never good enough. For example even when I do the dishes, the laundry, my homework, clean my room, sweep, etc. my mom STILL finds away to act like I'm such a terrible child. Nothing is ever good enough. I really want a close relationship with my mom, but she just pushes me away. And I love singing more than anything. But it feels so hopeless sometimes. Theres so many people who are better than me, prettier than me, and skinnier than me. Which is sadly what most people in the music industry are looking for. What should I do?

Hello. My name is Jonathan. I am a twenty-two year old male, homosexual, I have a boyfriend who is twenty, and we have been together for a total of four years. Recently sex has come up a lot in our relationship and is something we have yet to do, due to my issues that he is not aware of. I have had multiple heart surgeries and spinal surgeries since the age of seven that has caused a lot of scarring on my body, and it has made me pretty self conscious. My boyfriend has a beautiful body, isn't afraid to undress in front of me, but the ideas of me undressing in front of him, let alone allowing him to be that close to see all those scars terrifies me. He has a love for perfection and I am far from that. He's beautiful, flawless in every way and the thought of getting that intimate with him is difficult. I just feel like my body is disgusting. Sure I want to have sex with him, but it's not something I think I will be willing to face. What if he comes to hate me because of it? Thinks I am disgusting or leaves me because I am not good enough? What if he sees them and suddenly doesn't want to have close contact with me? He's getting frustrated over the fact I keep changing the subject when sex pops up and he is trying everything in bed to get it to happen, but I keep denying him and I know it is wrong, but I'm afraid of what he will think. Last night he asked if I didn't want him anymore. How do I talk to him or stop being afraid? How do I get over my fears of all these issues?

I don't want to live with my mom anymore. She does nothing for her kids but ask them for money and ask to pay her bills. She's always doing things with this guy when she knows im not sleep. She tells me to stop listening when im trying not to.She even once said that I wanted him and wanted to do things with him that's disgusting. She says im going to be easy when I get older because i barely wear clothes in the house when it's just me and my sister, and how im going to get pregant at a early age. My mom always calls me names and it hurts my feelings she calls me a *****, ************ and fatass etc. I told her and she just calls me a ***** and says she's going to give me up. We have to move before may because she did drugs and she's still selling them we're probably going to be on the streets. I can't take it anymore, but I dont know what would happen if i go to cps. Im 15

She is 37 and has 1 kid which is 10.I'm 16. Anyways, lately I've been going after school every time she has after hours and I just chill and use her iPad. By the way, I'm probably the only student she allows to use her iPad whenever I want for non-school related stuff. One time afterschool when we were both packing up to leave I told her about my mom who always comes home super late and I rarely get to see her. She said "Awee so you're all by yourself?" and asked if I was a only child and I said yea. She said "just like my son and that she should adopt me jokingly. And I always go to her if I have issues and she knows about my family issues. Today afterschool I got sad that she couldn't go to our basketball game so I cried a little because she promised me for the longest time and this was our last. Even though she was busy because nobody watches her son she agreed to come for a while then she had to leave. She said that she didn't like when I make her feel guilty about not coming to my game. And that she tries to be there for me as much as possible but she also has a 10yr son outside of school. I email her everyday as if we were texting and I usually title it "hi mom" and she is fine with it. I always get her gifts when I can. Once in a while I ask her to bring me a little treat that she has from home. And this one time where she brought it to me I asked her if I could put my lunchbox on her desk to hold it and she said "yes son" lol Update: I always email her during holidays to wish her the best! And she always replies back.