My husband and I have agreed to do a dissolution of our marriage. He has asked me to have full custody of our son he does not want to do shared parenting because his work schedule will not permit him to do so. He already has a new girlfriend he does not live in the same county or city as we do right now my concern was that on the weekends that he is scheduled to have our son for visitation I do not want him to take our son to This Woman's house because I do not know her and to be honest as a mother I don't want my child with someone else and he agreed to this so how do I type this up in our dissolution agreement? How do I put it that my husband agrees to not take our child to This Woman's house or much less out of the county without my permission because I will be the custodial parent? Will a judge even agree to this? My husband is the one who wanted to dissolution he is also the one he wants me to have full custody I didn't ask for it so will the judge see this and understand why I don't want my son another woman's house but I don't even know? I meant to say that she does not live in the same city or county as we do.

I believe I help my wife whenever I can. I always clean bathroom, throw trash and vacuum. Whenever I see dishes, I do them if my wife is not home. Usually, I clean stuff as needed. I feel I should help my wife but one thing makes me super mad when my wife does not cook. We work same hrs, two jobs and no kid. We are in late 20's. I go to college too. I have no reason to believe that my wife does not work as hard as me but still I feel the moment she comes home, all she does is sleep. Cuddling with me like a cat and going to sleep is all what she does at home and then she wakes up and get ready for work. She even wants me to drop her at work. Why is she so lazy and on top of that she rarely cooks. I am super mad at her and when I get mad at her I tend to yell and she starts crying. wtf! I married a little kid or what!

So hubby the kids and my mom are relocating to Texas we live in Florida right now. So when we go to Texas we will be living with my mom for a year untill hUsband is able to settle down with a job. His a paramedic so 5he will be able to get a job and then move put on our own. The reason were going to Texas is because my mom got a job offer and she didnt want to move without us and the grandkids and offered us basically to move in with her and she will pay all the Bill's save money for a year. Me and hubby said yess were excited to move to another state big city. And I made it clear to him that I don't mind my mom moving and me staying here that were a fam and we really don't have to follow her and that if we go is because we both decided and want to go. But oh God I don't see these 2 living together peacefully at all and I'm going to be in between them. And its going to stress me out. And deep down I know his moving just for me even tho he wants to at the same time. And I feel bad my mom moving over there all by herself even tho i know its her deccision. My husband is the lay back goes with the flow kinda guy and my mom is the OCD wants everything perfect her way her time w.e makes her happy and I'm the one in between trying to keep the peace and satify my husband and mom. So yeah should I just call the shots and say were staying here to not cause any more problems. We don't have any family here my in-laws live in miami and its just me and my mom. What should I do????

My husband and I have been separated for a year and a half. He has his own apartment, but comes over 5 times a week to see our kids. When it's his weekend he invites me along to go with them. We spend all holidays and birthdays together. We're still intimate from time to time. We call each other throughout the day. He still buys me elaborate gifts. I desperately want to put our family back together and he says he does not want to reconcile. He said he's not seeing anyone and neither am I, nor do I want to. When I try to get him to open up he gets upset. He said he still loves me, but doesn't want to be with me. I told him, I'm taking a stand for our marriage and will not be filing for divorce, but if he files I will not be difficult and I will sign the papers. I told him we can work it out. There was no cheating or abuse. We both checked out and drifted apart, but our time apart has made me realize where I failed as a wife, and I know I can and would do better if he came home. He has changed a lot too. When I speak of divorce he gets upset, and says nobody is talking about a divorce, but he basically refuses to come home. I don't know what to think...he doesn't want to talk about it, and he says he's done with the marriage, but his actions say otherwise. What do you guys think? I'm tired of being in relationship limbo, but I don't want us to end. Has anybody else been in this place? How did it turn out for you? What did you do?

My daughter, Amanda is 16 and a junior in high school and she is super cool. I was known as "Wild Wyan" back in 1992 when I was 17. Now I'm 41 years old and I'm jealous of my 16 year old. Here's why: -shes hot and shes a total slut -shes dating the most popular kid in school -she has straight Bs, and I had a C+ average. -shes overall the most popular girl at school On Saturday, she was going to prom and she had a red dress on and she was stunning. I was so mad that I called her a "slutty *****" and she said "whatever you old *** piece of ****" like she doesn't care. Tonight I wouldn't let her into our house and shes in the Starbucks down the street waiting for me to "grow up" I can't take her. I have made an honest decision of disowning her and divorcing my husband, Brent Wood. Hes 33, im 41 and I feel like a total loser. My husbands the younger one! I hate my life. Im gonna move out of our little house near Metuchen, NJ and i'm moving to Pasadena, CA. My mom says its a midlife crisis that has become extreme but I think im depressed. Today I skipped work, and had the locksmith change the locks so my whole family is locked out, my husband, daughter, and 8 year old son. I don't know how I ended like a total loser. Can someone tell me whats going on? Im drinking vodka at 8AM, beating the family, and I am just such a loser, the whole house is a ****** pig stuy but I don't give a ****. What the hell do I do???

Today this guy I like and I talked a little. He is married and has a crush on me. We talked about little things. Now I have seen his wife and let's just say he's not getting any at home. She does not take care of her self. Today I started talking about my dress. I told him it was a little big and cost $3 dollars. He started giggling and I said it fit sort of and for $3 you make it work. He goes "no not on a b..." And then just stopped and said I'm not gonna finish that. My friend thought it had to do with the fact that it was t tight and form fitting but just loose enough. I don't know what he meant but from what I see his wife wears "bigger" clothes than her body type and she's not Tiny. What do you think he meant or was thinking

My ex husband and I separated since I was a month pregnant. He had a affair with a married women for months until I found out two weeks after we got married. I asked him many times if he wanted to be involve and go to my appointments and ultrasounds he said he didn't want anything to do with me.I file on my divorce papers for full physical and legal custody and he didn't bother to respond to the paperwork. I can't get divorce until I have my baby since I need his social security and name to file for custody and child support. Anyways I'm having my baby in two months and I'm wondering how custody will work out? He has two kids from his previous ex wife already and has them weekends. How does it workout when he has multiple kids? If he ever decides to be a father to my baby I only want him to have supervise visitation rights. I just don't want my newborn back and forth. I think it's really sad that my ex husband has not bother to ask about his son at all. He doesn't even know when I'm having him or that he is a boy. I don't plan of using his last name my son will have mine.

I'm 14 and I want to make sure that I keep my self in check til marriage.

I don't known anything at all about algeria, I'm completely ignorant on the subject people or culture. My cousin about 2years ago converted into Muslim and about a year ago (at the most) met a man on the Internet and things gother serious. So serious that in September (2015) she went to visit him for 10 days (he paid for her trip) in Tunisia and they got married. She came back home safe and yesterday she got a visa and she moved to Algeria to be with him. Now this all seems very fishy to me. It doesn't sit well with me. Again Im pretty ignorant and I only know from what I've read online and people's experiences.. she is 24 and not a virgin aND he is 28-29 maybe 30? And he claims to be a virgin never married. I know they can't have sex before marriage and I know they cannot date. But 28-30years no marriage or sex? He's not bad looking and he has light skin and from what I've been told is that it's very desirable.. I just wonder why talk online to someone in a different country? Does it seem like a scam is he just trying to get a green card to the u.s. if so why would he want her to move there (she says it's only for a year or so) I don't know if race matters but we are black, I've alsonly read that the people can be very racist towards blacks but then again I don't know I'm going by what I read. If anyone can please give me their perspective, it's not much I can do since she's already there but I'm worried since she hadn't contacted us yet..

My husband and I are going through a divorce. I gave my soon-to-be-ex-husband $20 for his birthday just to be generous. I'll always love and hare about him. My parents are going off on me about this.

my dad told me that he married his cousin. (I am fifteen, a guy, and a HUGE fan of him). did he actually marry his cousin?

Before we got married we had a great sex life. As soon as we got married he NEVER asks for sex first. I always have to ask......and he almost always says no. Today we were having a good day, went to town and had lunch together. When we got home he was sitting on the couch and I came and straddled him and tried to kiss him. He said "were not doing anything, get off."........now that doesn't sound the least bit normal to me, what could be causing a man to act like this? We have a good marriage other than the sex problems

I'm married never thought I was into girls. I am bored with my sex life. My husband hired his friends daughter to babysit the kids a couple weeks ago. I'm 42 about 4'10 95lbs. She was close to 6'0 and 170. I fantasizes about what it would be like to have her take complete control over my body. It turns me on so much. At the mercy of another woman who can crush me in half but knowing she wouldn't is such a turn on. Any other petite women ever have this fetish?

I ve had nightmares before...but I ve never woken up from them like this. Last night, about an hour after I had fallen asleep, I m not even sure what I was dreaming about...it felt so real. But I was laying in bed, and I saw someone standing there, almost over the bed...then they started coming down towards me. At first I thought it was my husband, trying to wake me up seductively...but then I realized that the build was all wrong (it was night time, so it was dark), and that it wasn t him. I guess I started freaking out. I don t think I really screamed or anything, but until I talk to my husband later, I can t be sure. I just started freaking out a bit...which caused my husband to stir and freak out. I even heard my dog run into our room. Anyways, afterwards, my husband was all like, "what happened?" but I wasn t sure. I ve never experienced anything quite like that. It all felt so real. Has anyone ever had an experience like that?

I married my husband knowing he was a alcoholic. I, ignorantly, thought I could handle it. We have been through SO much because of his addiction (fighting, adultery (him), I even had to call the police on him once), but I have still held on and hoped for the best. His drinking has slowed down considerably, so the issues with it have minimized. But, his hours at his job have been cut and we are now struggling financially. When budgeting, I have to be sure he has his alcohol money, and that takes away from grocery money. I have a daughter to take care of, otherwise it wouldn't be such a huge deal. But, I completely resent him for having to take cut the grocery funds so that he can have his $6 a day for alcohol. Every week I get angrier and angrier, and I just feel like I cannot live this way much longer. I know I shouldn't have married him, but I thought everything would be okay. He will not go to counseling or AA meetings, he refuses to stop drinking......I am at a loss. Should I keep holding on in hopes his hours pick back up and things are less stressful before making a definite decision? Guess I should have mentioned, we haven't been married 2 years, yet. And Happy-2, if he's not willing to get help, why should I keep trying? Wouldn't be hanging in and going to Al-Anon meetings, while he's at home drinking, be enabling him, also? Wouldn't it teach him that I will still stay with him even if he continues to drink? I don't want to cope better, I have learned to cope just fine. I'm sick of coping. I would also like to add, that yes, I married him knowing he was an alcoholic, but I did not know he was a RAGING alcoholic. That part, he hid from me very well until after the wedding. The ONLY reason I budget in money for his alcohol is because he will get SICK if he doesn't drink I only allow him enough for a 6-pack per day. You people know they can't just stop drinking. He puts his entire paycheck in our account, and I budget out everything. @Ryde, no, I don't want more money. He puts everything in our checking account, anyways. I want him to better prioritize his life, but alcohol is #1. This is not about the money, or lack thereof. @Ryde, you are misinterpreting. Instead of being able to spend that $42 on FOOD to FEED my daughter and myself, we have to set it aside so that he can have his 6 pack every day. When I say we are broke, we are broke and barely making ends meet. This week for food we have hotdogs and ham sandwiches. For....the....whole....week. That's it. Period. So yes, if I could take that $42 and spend it on food, we might have some more nutritious options. I had $20 to spend on groceries this week. To feed him, too* Because expects me to cook dinner. And I work full-time, so don't tell me to get a job.

Been reading and it seems this is somewhat normal. My question is how to restore this while we have young kids?