What hair color did she have when you met her and married ?

I am planning on proposing to my girlfriend of 4 years this summer. She found a ring she really likes but only with the wedding band. She says the ring look unfinished without the band. If I get the ring she really likes, is it bad to use the wedding band with the engagement when I propose to her?

My fiance and I have been together for 2 years, and we became engaged in April. I'm a widow, and he's a widower, and neither of us have kids. We're in our early 40's, and we went through the big wedding experience with our first spouses. Our parents are deceased, but our siblings are still alive. Our extended families want us to have a big wedding. Neither of us have the time, finances or patience to plan a big wedding. We've been thinking about going down to the courthouse or eloping this summer. Someone said that doing either of things is tacky, and hurtful. I don't understand why it would be tacky or hurtful. We just want to be married, without a lot of fuss or hassle. What do you think?

I am going to go with my mother to her nephew's wedding since I don't get to see my mother's side of the family as often. How do I explain this to my Dad's family and how do I make it up? My other three siblings are going to the wedding on my Dad's side.

I'm making a bachelorette jeopardy game but not sure how its played or if the bride plays along or not

The RSVP deadline is April 30th. We are still waiting on about 20 people to respond. I have asked numerous times through facebook status updates for people to please reply. I also gave them an online option and paid for postage for an rsvp envelope to return and already wrote their address. I am getting really frustrated with lack of replys. When is an appropriate time to contact these people and ask for an rsvp Let's not get our panties in a bunch. I was simply asking what an appropriate time would be for me to remind people to please send them out because the deadline is the end of the week. We need these for a reason. The stuff I have posted on facebook is also a general reminder such as, "15 days to respond" . And I have heard plenty of wedding stories where guests don't respond and then just show up so that it what we are trying to avoid. I'm sure if you were in the situation you would understand.

I put the ring I bought my girl inside a quesadilla. She accidentally bit into the ring and broke a tooth. She got upset and doesn't want to marry. We broke up but I want to propose again. What can I do? Can I put the ring inside a cake? There's less problem that she'll it's into it. But she's mad though...

My wedding if coming up in a few months, and the guy I asked to be my best man won't be able to name it now due to being in the Military. My problem now is that there is no one else I can have be my best man. And it sucks he won't be next to me when I get married. We have been through everything together. How would I go about not having a best man? Would that be weird? Or do you have any other suggestions?

Both our fiances and brother and we are mother and daughter? If they get married first can i marry my daughters husbands brother? Thanks Marie

I don't know what to give, so i am thinking about gift card.

okay so next weekend im going to a wedding which i dont want to go to. I dont even know whos getting married and i dont even think we are close family but we have to go. Also its in London which is a 3 hour drive from where i live. Plus you may think oh the actual wedding bit is only 30 minutes but no this is an indian wedding so its gonna be like 9 hours. AND to make matters worse its on a weekend so im wasting half of my weekend just to go to a wedding where its not even close family. Theres probably not even gonna be internet and the food is gonna be all vegitarian (sigh). And im gonna have boatloads of homework which i have to do in 1 day. Any tips to get out of this would be greatly appreciated.

I want to start off by saying we're paying for our own wedding. I know that it matters, so I feel it would be better to say it while I remember. Anyway. On to the reason I'm asking this. My dad and I had a good relationship when I was a kid. He and my mom divorced and I saw him on weekends and for several weeks during the summer (not Christmas because he used to work Christmas shifts and would be away a lot, especially after he married). I even got along with his wife when I was younger. And then my mom died when I was 17. It was a very rough time in my life because I was already struggling with depression and anxiety. But then my dads wife started insulting my mom, telling me she was the worst mother and person she had ever met, spread lies about things my mother was supposed to have done to me, things I know aren't true, and doing everything she could to tarnish a dead woman's memory. Then she turned around one day, after I told them I was moving out, and said I was throwing away my only good mother. I haven't spoken to her in years, but have kept some contact with my dad, because he tries. I find it hard to accept that he would sit and let her insult my mom the way she did, knowing it killed me inside. Our relationship is hard and not something that means much anymore. Which is why I'm conflicted. He does try, he is my dad, and he was there and good for a lot of years. But I couldn't stand having her there. I know this probably sounds childish, but the hate she spews about my mom is not something I can or will tolerate. And I'm not the only person bothered by it. Several of my dads family members have cut them out of family events because even to this day, she still talks about it and still makes things up that are untrue and downright hurtful to more than just me. The ones who still have her included are ones who won't cut her out because of my dad and the kids they have together. I included it because I've heard people say well if parents are paying or contributing toward a wedding, etc, then they should get a say in certain aspects.