I am attending a wedding in May, it's an evening wedding and the invite says it's formal attire. I'm 21 and want to wear something appropriate and also be comforable. What are some styles, prints, colors etc. that are appropriate? Also, is a black dress a no no?

So, our wedding is Emerald green, black and white stripes, and gold. The bridesmaids are wearing Emerald green dresses, the groomsmen are wearing black suits and striped ties. My fiancé are wanting it to have a classy elegant feeling. We want the music to kinda match the style. We like Jazz ,Michael Buble, Frank Sinatra, that style of music. However we are having a hard time finding song we really like. We want You and I, Michael Buble Other than that we have no songs. Any suggestion people? :) Oh also, need an upbeat happy song to walk out to. Thank you bunches Everyone! Xoxo

My BF has been dropping hints like crab-walking, separating the paper and plastic on garbage days, drooling and talking about my best friend all the time. I think he's going to propose. What should I tell him? My family? I want to be a June bride.

So, I am in a wedding in June. This will be my first wedding as an adult. I was in some weddings as a little girl. Flower girl, miniature bride and stuff. Now I am a bridesmaid. I am really excited I love the bride and groom to death. They are like siblings to me. However, I am super nervous. There are 7 bridesmaid and 7 groomsmen and there will be over 200 people attending. There won't be any drinking so that will be fine. Nobody acting stupid because they are drunk. But I'm really nervous there will be a lot of people I don't know. I just don't know what I'm going to do with myself. And what is bridesmaid protocol. I'm really feeling lost and nervous. Oh and I am the youngest in the wedding I'm 19 and everyone else will be 24 and up. And they dude I'm walking with is nice but I think it's going to be very awkward. Any suggestions?

To make my moms life easier with her husband, I invited his three daughters to my wedding. I do not have a friendly relationship with them and honestly, I hate having to see them. But I knew my moms husband would not be happy if they were excluded, especially since my siblings were included AND we did technically grow up with them Two of them RSVP'd no, thankfully. But the third, who is my age, RSVP'd yes. I was disappointed, to say the least. However, my mom came to me last weekend and said she was telling everyone at one of her husbands family gatherings that she only RSVP'd yes so I would have to pay for her meal and she never intended to come. This has annoyed me, but now I'm wondering what I should do. My mom was upset, but she's asking me to pretend she's coming, on the off chance she decides to come and so her husband will be happy. What would you do if you were me? My fiance and I are paying for all of this and he's very angry about this whole thing. It's not weird that we don't get along at all. They're not our sisters and they made that perfectly clear. And this is the type of thing she would do, so I really don't have any reason to doubt it. My fiance is already happier since reading some of these answers. He's seeing the positive in the fact we won't have to see her there.

I've recently became engaged. This is the second time I'll be married, but first ceremony (I married my ex-husband through the justice of the peace which my ex-mother-in-law paid for it) . Only two people were there when I was first married, and neither of my parents were (my father was 3 hours out of town with no car) and no reception. My father is back in town, and me and my fiance think we may be inviting around 40 people. I owe my dad some money, but he's now retired getting over a grand a month. My fiance and father get along great. My dad may offer after we find out when are ceremony will take place (waiting to hear back from my church) and find out where our reception can be. Should I ask him if he doesn't offer?

I heard a lot of people say that it's a lot easier because you already already they will match perfectly because it's a set. But I was wondering if it's also easier on the wallet as well?

Example: I have friends who live in another state. Some of them I expect to come in groups and others might not necessarily fit a group to ride with. If I specify that the plus one is primarily a provision for road trip buddies, would that be considered rude? Another question: Is a "Plus one" a date by default? Just wondering because I didn't say "date", but that seems to be where most of y'all are going. Not meaning to sound contentious or anything, I just don't go to many weddings.

If you don't want it recorded, can she hire one anyways and have it recorded because it is a public place? Or if you just set up your own camera discretely is there anything legally the bride can do to? Can she later demand its erased? How could she even enforce that?