My fiance and I have been thinking about eloping. We aren't 'center of attention' people, and just want something small, beautiful and not the court house. His great Uncle will be marrying us, (he is a pastor), and because of his health it has to be in the US. Any ideas?? Please don't say Vegas!

They are all very special and wonderful girls, and I want to do something creative but inexpensive. They all reside in a few different states; Minnesota, Illinois, Texas, and Florida, so they have to be able to fit into a box to ship. Please help me out! Thank you!

My wedding is in a few months and I am not sure whether it is better to make a seating arrangement (For the reception) or a choose-your-own seat. We will have approximately 50 people attending. Some are family from both sides, some are friends from work, some are friends from school, etc. People have told me totally opposite opinions "no don't have assigned seating, it's too restrictive!" and "Assigned seating is best because then you can make sure everyone is sitting with the right people". If I made a seating arrangement, I would make sure everyone is sitting next to a few people they already know, as well as new people that I feel they would get along with. But I don't want to do it if people think seating arrangements are too restricting. I am pretty laid back as far as brides go… I just want to make sure everyone enjoys themselves 

No I m not some 18 year old kid. We already live together, have kids and so on. I just REALLY don t want a big wedding and already talked to both of our parents. They understand we want it to be just us, our special moment, uncomplicated by guests or rude people. Now the hard part finding somewhere in Valdosta,Ga to do it on a weekend or after 5pm on a weekday. Any ideas?

i want to have the biggest wedding with the most people possible!!!!! but my friend said shes now coming unless i give her money should i include money in the invitation if so should i include money in all the invitations just in case???

Ok I am getting divorced and have a ring question. My ring was given to me by my grandmother. It was her wedding ring. Can I ever use the same ring from her on a future marriage? I love the ring so much but don t know if that would be appropriate

I have 4 bridesmaids including fiances only sister, my suggestion. Now we made tailor-made dresses. From the onset sister in law did not like the design everyone else loves the dress. Now her bro went and spoke to the other girls and sold the idea of a second "surprise dress" for me on the day which he has already bought, changing everything entirely including the groomsmen suits color without telling me and initially we were sharing everything. Feel really hurt and disappointed what would you do in this scenario?? Accept it as is, fight it I am feeling really snubbed!! We had agreed there will be no one changing outfits/dresses or suits as is the norm these days into a second attire what is the meaning of all this?