I love my wife. Let me say that first, she and I have been married for a year and a half. So we live in Provo Utah but I have been dealing with some stuff and so I took up very heavy drinking. When I was drinking I would pass out drunk and wake up hung over the next day, shower brush my teeth use mouth wash and go to classes/work. One night when drinking I fell and hit my head and broke both my legs, I fell down the stairs. Anyway I was given some pain medicine and started taking it with alcohol and was rushed to the ER. I guess the final straw was when my wife tried to take my vodka away and I pushed her....I hate to admit that that happened. I do not like to think about what that does to her. I am experiencing night terrors from being abused as a child, was homeless for four years until a family from my church took me in. I am a damaged man wanting to get help but I don't want to deal with these feelings alone how do I get her back? I need her to be there with me when I go to counseling and I need her to be there when I get back. As you can tell from the question my wife left me and went to stay with her sister at her place. She said I need to think about us. How do I apologize and show I want to get better.

Long story short. I married my long - time college girlfriend because I got her pregnant. The school is more than a thousand miles from my wife's home so I didn't meet my MIL until after we were married. Suffice to say, I was shocked when we met. She looks nothing like my wife. She has scaly skin which she claims is eczema. I might be able to buy this but here eyes are not any shade I have ever seen - and kind of red / green and her pupils are not entirely round - the are oval. Her teeth are really weird. They are more like baleen. But my question is, is the kid going to look anything like her? My wife doesn't. Do you think it might skip a generation?

My husband and I have been married for awhile now but recently had some problems. I found out he was thinking of cheating. He also did something stupid and got arrested he has been in jail for a few months. He says he wants to fight to come home and change be a better man now. And he just lost his mind when he did all this and he felt scared and was ashamed. He lost his job when he got sick and stole money for his family I guess that s what they claim. He never told us. He told me he would understand if I cheated but wanted me to always come back to him. Well an ex that I haven t seen in years contacted me asking if I wanted to talk about things and maybe grab a drink. He is married and says he won t cheat but this seems fishy to me. What should I do?

My 3 year old son caught me and my husband. We need help please!!

Each other and faithful and take care to help each other in housework

He raped his wife she even tried to file charges you can tell she hates him whenever they are together

My ex has been married for a year. He called me last month "just to say hi" and see how I was doing. Wtf? Why? Its not like we're friends and we didn't even end on good terms, he was heartbroken, it was a mess. Why would he call just to say hi and see how I've been after all this time? Seems really suspicious to me. If I was his wife I'd be pissed.

I've been dating this guy for almost two years, originally when he and I met he was upfront with me he told me that he was still married had been since 1979. He retired from the army in 2005 and upon retirement his wife told him that she wanted to start seeing other people and told him to move on with his life. Through all of that they still choose to live together he pays for everything including her car expenses etc.. They have three children together ages 24,19&18. I've been to his house once but NEVER have I spoke with his wife in regards to their marital status. He's taken me to meet his family and everything I have noticed that during SPECIFIC family functions(such as his nephews wedding) they attended it as a family. He doesn't have an issue calling me when he's at home. He stays with me about 4 days out of each week and during his stays he is never rushed nor does he receive any calls from his wife. Everything that I have seen seems to be accurate but I am just wondering should I CONTINUE WAITING AND HOPING THAT HE GETS A DIVORCE CONSIDERING IT HAS BEEN 10YRS SINCE HIS WIFE PROPOSED THAT THEY START SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND THEY ARE STILL LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF ETC... HE KEEPS SAYING THAT I HAVE TO BE PATIENT AND WAIT ON HIS 18Y.O TO GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL. SHOULD I WAIT AROUND UNTIL THEN AND IF NOTHING HAPPENS JUST MOVE ON? I'M CONFUSED DEFINITELY NEED YOUR OPINIONS!

This weekend i went to my mothers to stay with my 4 year old. My mom lives out of town. My husband calls me Saturday evening saying his friend got him a ticket to go to the moose. Well he first said, his friend mike called and said ralph, who is another friend that was going to the moose was sick and couldnt go, and asked my husband if he wanted to take ralphs ticket. So my husband is going and all his friends are there with their wives. I immediately got quiet cause it did bother me. I wonder if he had this planned. We hardly ever go out. Im a stay at home mom and hardly ever go out by myself. I should be happy for him i guess but im jealous that hes going out. He doesnt go out a great deal without me but when he does i get upset. How do i stop this?

He is 28 she is 18. She is a nice girl, but she is too young for him in my opinion! How can I accept this? The wedding is in June and not even sure if they will invite me because of my disproval so far.

after they ate a sausage sandwich, a whole apple pie and a sundae ice crème with nuts? The smell is so strong everywhere he goes the Oder lingers.

what would you do-if you married a "stranger"-but don't remember...?

If he left I would still like to be able to pay the utilities, cable, and internet bill without worrying about funds right now. I have no income currently. Isn't there supposed to be alimony or something to let me be able to have a home?

The women you are Ina relationship with has children with her ex husband. The ex husband is a pedophile and can't be alone with his kids yet when she talks about her kids and people ask about the child's father she brags about him having a great career and people say it's great she allows him to be active and a part in their lives yet she neglects to mention he's a pedophile and that her current bf has been more emotionally and financially supportive to her kids than that jerk? Would it bother you if she acted this way and acted proud of their father and you get pushed aside and not mentioned?

I have a very light period for about 5 days, its day 3, so its even more light. I heard if you use a tampon during the day, rather than a pad, it makes it less messy when you're ready to have sex and you take it out? Is this true? Or will it be just as messy given how light my period is?

My 4+ year old fancy goldfish has swim bladder disorder and is floating on his back. The last time this has happened to one of my fish was with a betta and I just euthanized him (humanely) because it wouldnt eat the pea after fasting and was getting bad. However, my goldfish is still so young and it's already been nearly over four years, so I don't want to kill it yet. It normally lives in a 55 gallon aquarium with another goldfish. As of 30 minutes ago I have it in the water change 1 gal bucket so I can contain him better. He's struggling to stay up and will float to the top belly up. Will he live for a few days of fasting? I feel like that would put a lot of stress on him. My betta could stay on it's side when it had it. I wasn't aware that you should soak flakes so they'll sink so I'm sure that's part of why this happened. Anyways, will he live like this or should I euthanize him? Can he be propped up somehow?

I just rode a new bike, about 12 miles... my butt or vagina didn't hurt at all during the ride, but when i got home and went to the bathroom, my labia stung terribly and one side looks a little swollen and is tender to the touch. Is this normal? Is it from my bike seat? Should I be concerned? Thank you!!

If your man kept his unit in his pants there would be no cheating? TRUE or False? Explain please. All your man has to say is I HAVE A WIFE at HOME?? TRUE OR FALSE?? If he does not keep his UNIT in pants some WOMAN will use it for a night a day a year or maybe snatch it. IF you can't make your husbands UNIT happy don't get mad if someone else can.. IF a woman denies him their will be one who does not. SO STOP BLAMING OTHERS for your husbands roaming UNIT. Your husband is a horn dog and is the problem! Go wipe that milk off stain on your upper lip. .

Does he see what he has created that now the world is excepting soon? *the world is accepting this soon?

if you're just going to say I'm slut then don't even bother, I know I am lol and I'm just curious. in a few days, I'm going back to my home state to visit my friends. I am supposed to start my period around the day I leave for the trip, and I really REALLY REALLY do not want to be on period while I'm there, I haven't had sex in months and I would like to indulge while I'm home with my favorite **** buddies lol. I'm only there for a week so how much would that suck to be bleeding and emotional the whole time!? Is there anyway to delay a period, or make it come sooner? or at least just lighter so I'm not gushing?? I know taking plan b really ***** up your cycle, but if you take it right before your start your period will it at least delay it? (not saying I'm going to go that just asking) thanks for the ho advice(;

I had sex feburary 27 , my period is always from the 7th-11th,Well in march ,my period came late started on 15th-19th.i bled regularly just later than i exspevted.Now were in april and i missed my period all together.I cant stop urinating, im tired as well.i had cramps on the 15th nd 16th,but no period. I was cramping a week before my period but no blood came with it...im 18 so im not sure if its even possible for a female to get pregnant yet have a period a month before her next one stops.

By asking when are you gonna ask me to marry? Why are women so needy? That's supposed to be a special day in the man and woman's life but she just wants to constantly pressure the man. What if the man gives in? Does this not mean he just gave in rather than actually wanting to get married? Does this not man she has control issues? He may wanted to get married a little but she pressured him so it wouldn't mean as much. Also, every girl I bang, she has wedding and bridal magazines lol. She also has bookmarks on her computer lolol. Do you think because you have sex with a man they will be more likely to marry you? Why are women so completely stupid when it comes to marriage? Like it becomes such giganormous part of life and thinking that all logic or rational thinking goes poof. Not that there was much to begin with. XD Neil: you misunderstand the question. Males have always been the ones to ask for their girls hand in marriage. That IS what I'm saying. There's no discrepancy on how marriage is usually naturally initiated. My question was only why do women try to force their man into marriage before they are ready.

He is 28 she is 18. She is a nice girl, but she is too young for him in my opinion! How can I accept this? The wedding is in June and not even sure if they will invite me because of my disproval so far.

My mom been sleeping alot .... And eating things like big mac's and ice cream 🍨 late at night 🌃 she's been talking about baby names and she's not been feeling well and I going to the doctor today

I've been dating my boyfriend for a little under 8 months. He was married for 8 years and has two kids for whom he is the primary caregiver. We are in love, serious, and we have met each others families. However, his ex wife has many mental health issues and threatens suicide or abandonment of her children if he doesn't downplay the importance of our relationship. One on hand, we've only been dating 8 months and he's a good dad and realizes the importance of the mother of his children being alive and present in their lives. On the other hand, because he downplays me so much she thinks they still have a shot being together. I find myself getting upset when I hear him minimize me, but I also understand that any bad news could send his ex-wife over the edge. Am I justified for being upset? Should I be more understanding? Any advice helps.

I rubbed the tip of my penis to my girlfriends vagina but I never inserted it, she was still dry that time. then I performed oral sex on her. We have enough self control not to have penetration. Now she still hasn't gotten her period. She's been 1 week delayed now,. is it possible?

Okay, this might sound really bad, maybe it is really bad, but I needed some answers because my mind is going a million miles an hour. Me and my husband just got married a few months ago and we've been together about 4 years total now. We really are in love and there really isn't anything wrong in our relationship to speak of, but he has his cousin visiting for a few days at our house and all of a sudden I can't stop thinking about him. It's almost like a crush! I don't know what to do! Do I tell my husband? Do I ignore the feelings? HELP!

My husband thinks his idea is a good one. He wants us to continue on like he is at work all day, Me doing whatever I do at home he he will do "whatever" and we will see each other around dinner. !!! Really, I thought retirement was going to be more free time together traveling and doing things together some days. He reminded me of this today. I have decided that this doesn't work for me but saying anything will do nothing. Well , I think I'll not even bother to invites him on any outings I think of doing and just go. If you think that makes me in the giving mood to be loveiedovie, Oh, think again... He has been retired for a year.

I started dating this guy 4 months ago. He is an international student from Kuwait and is about to graduate from college. We met in school and have gotten super close in these few months. We travel together, have many mutual friends, tell each other everything. We have just about everything in common and I am positive that I have fallen in love with him, and he has said the same things to me. The problem is: he is due to leave in mid-May, and because of this he is becoming more distant and his reason is because he has fallen for me and needs to avoid getting too attached because his feelings will otherwise continue to become stronger. We tell each other all the time how much we want to be together but this expiration date is really taking a toll on the relationship. Would it be strange for me to bring up the possibility of marriage? That way, he could stay in the U. S. and we could continue our relationship. He hates it back home. If things don't work out, I would still stay married to him so he can lead a life here. Guys: how would you feel if your girlfriend brought up marriage this soon, but given the situation? Girls: How would you approach the situation? Info about us: He's 24, I'm 21. We are both atheist, so religion is not an issue either. TLDR; Would it be strange to bring up the possibility of marriage to my foreign boyfriend after 4 months so that he could stay in the US and we can continue out relationship? Clarification: He has not brought up marriage at all or using me to stay. However, I want to bring it up because he is the first guy that I have been able to see a future with.

I am Muslim, and this girl I used to like as a kid before I moved is a Muslim, and I was thinking of having an arranged marriage with her when I get a career (but remember, I arranged marriages the youth have a final say, its not forced).....I wrote 2 1/2 pages worth of memories from what I remember of our interactions....if I showed that to her, would it be creepy?

I have sole physical and legal custody of my son, who is 7 years old. My custody papers say that I can't move out of my current county without permission from the noncustodial parent, or unless a judge gives me permission. I plan on going to court to ask the judge's permission. Our son is 7 years old. We have been divorced for 6 years. At the beginning of our separation I had a restraining order against my children's father (we have 3 sons together, ages 22, 18, and 7). He physically abused me at the end of our marriage when he started drinking after he lost his job. He started hanging our with meth users and having sex with prostitutes and meth using women. He had visits with our children, and I was not aware until recently that he was bringing our kids around meth users. He claims he never used meth, but his erratic and violent behavior makes me think otherwise. I have never used any kind of drug, so I was not aware of the symptoms. I just though he was mentally and emotionally unstable. Our 18 year old son lives with him and my son told me that he uses pot and drinks alcohol. His father has done nothing to stop this, and when I tried to talk to him about it, he screamed at me and told me I had no right to tell him how to parent his son. Our son is still in high school and was not allowed to go to a school dance because he tested positive for alcohol use when given a breathalizer test. I don't want my younger son being exposed to this. My niece, who was 15 at the time, also told me that my ex tried to molest her and would call her and talk to her about sex. My ex told me that this is true and that he really wanted to have sex with our niece. He did all of this while he was drinking, but no longer drinks. Now he wants to try to get physical custody of our 7 year old son. He took me to court once, but the judge denied him joint or sole custody. At the end of our court day, he argued with the judge about wanting to claim my son on his tax return. I do think he loves our son, but he is fighting really hard to get money and he lives on welfare, so if my youngest son lived with him, he would get more cash aid. I work and am about to finish getting my bachelor's degree, and can get a great paying job where I'm moving. My fiance also manages a restaurant where he lives, and we could provide a good life for my child, away from the yelling and crazy behavior of his father, but I'm not sure how the judge will see things. His father sees my son every other weekend. I would like to talk to my ex about an alternative visitation schedule, something that we could hopefully both agree on, and would give him an equal amount of days with him, if not more that he gets now. I realize that I cannot and should not keep him away from his father. My hope is that my son's father will better his life, get off of welfare, and get a stable job, and finally be a good example for our sons.

Today will make 3 days of my period being late if it doesn t come on by the en of the day. I am on birth control (the Mini-pill, progestin only) I had unprotected sex Friday and Saturday. I take my birth control pills normally at the same time everyday. I took them Friday & Saturday morning on time, but on Sunday I took it 3 hours late than the scheduled time. Could I be pregnant? And is it too early for me to take a pregnancy test or should I go ahead and take one? Also, my periods have been fading since I started taking the mini-pill back in January. But last month it was on I had a medium to light flow and it came on 2 days later than it was scheduled to. Please help !!!!

and why don't men ever marry women who have bangs? men loving women is a myth.

So I've been on the pill for 10 days now. I've been taking it at night each night and I haven't missed a day. (I've taken it anywhere between 5pm and 9pm). yesterday I had unprotected sex since I've read you can after 7 days of being on the pill. today I woke up with sore nipples so I was wondering if there's a chance I could be pregnant? Is it just the birth control that's making me sore? my period isn't due for another two weeks but I tired the pill back in November and it made my period come within two weeks of starting the pill.

yesterday i was REALLY HUNGRY which usually dosn't happen so i decided to eat 2 bowls of cereal i felt kind of sick after thinking i had diarhea i ran to the bathroom and i didn't have diarhea i apparently felt much better so i went to school felt fine all day then at 4th period math the period before lunch i felt that diarhea pain again but i just assumed it was that 2 minute pain again and it would go away shortly but then i felt the pain get even worse i tried running to the door the teacher shouted WHERE ARE YOU GOING i just reached the door but all of a sudden i felt the diarhea come out of my bottom and landed in my pants and underwater some of it even started running down my legs all of a sudden because of the weight of the diarhea my pants and underwear SNAPPED open and all the diarhea covered all over the entrance to the classroom then i felt even more diarhea coming out of the my bottom the diarhea had at least covered the whole entrance so no one could leave everyone started screaming like i was some kind of killer was in the school started gathering all their belongings and moved to the corner of the room like it was a lockdown yet again more diarhea came rocketing out of my bottom people were screaming even more than the teacher ran to phone to call the nurse to come get me all of a sudden the class screaming turned to them laughing at me my face was bright red i was crying even the teacher started laughing at me once again more diarhea came out of my bottom

My period starts on the 25 of March and ends 6 days, I started ovulating on the 7 of April but we started having sex from the 6 till the 9 but we use the pull out method. Then we had sexs on the 15 of April we use the pull out method of course but he came on my viagina but he took his hand and run my clit while his sperm was done there and stuck his hand in. My period comes on the 22nd of April can I be pregnant

I'll use my Mom as an example because she divorced my abusive Dad when I was 15 and she's thriving on her own and she hangs out with a group of friends who celebrate being divorced. Women can do whatever the hell they want but I've also seen a lot of it other places especially on social media I see many pages of women celebrating the single life and my question is that is there something wrong with men nowadays that drive them away?

Her abusive ways and constant bad moods are too much to handle. Getting a lawyer and filing for divorce is too expensive. Is there a way I can get her to make arrangements and leave to go and be on her own?

I am 19 he is 29 and they really don't like me! I have no idea why , maybe because of age difference? However at the same time I met him when I was 16 he was 26, I had a huge crush on him and nothing ever happened until I was 18 and I was the one who pursued him! We married after a year of dating, anyway he is not rich or anything like that. He has a decent job as in oil field, and I also have a decent job as a nurse assistant . We both make around the same amount of money and he knows I am mature and we both have our heads on straight... What is their problem then ??? I would understand if I was some gold digger or some negative influence in his life. Ever since we have been together he has completely stopped partying and has straightened up! So what gives ??? Help

This guy told me I look like Kendell Jenner. But knowing that the kardashians are mainly trash, waste of TV space, I took it to mean he is calling me trash. Is that his way of subtly telling me am trash or have I misunderstood ? He also makes fun of my boobs being small, yet he is always looking at my chest area...

A woman was dating a man with depression and decided to end it. She told them that his severe depression didn't phase her and that she can handle a lot but one thing she can't handle is a man whose feelings about her are constantly changing. One day he loves her and wants her there, the next day he may shut her out of his life completely. She said she's not strong enough to handle that. Valid reason to end a dating relationship? Do you think she offended him? Or should she have stayed by his side? Things could be going really well for several weeks and then all of sudden he may go into a dark place for a days, weeks or months and during that time shuts everyone out.

between 4:30 and 5pm. I usually get off at 6pm. I come in at 11am. I make $300 per week. Her husband was at work. He works 10am to 10pm. Her cell phone was not working. She called me after 6pm from a Target store telling me she was lost, and very sorry for being late. I called her husband at work several times asking if he had spoken to her or heard from her. She finally got home after 10pm. She then said her husband ran out of gas up the road and needed her to go back with gas for him. I offered to do it so she didn't have to wake the baby up and take him out at 10pm. So after working 4 extra hours, I took the gas tank to the gas station and took it to her husband where he was broken down. There was another day I stayed 2 extra hours and was not compensated for my time. What should I say? They only gave me $300 and I worked 6 extra hours this past week. (when she called me she used their phone at Target).

I have two girls and a baby boy. I live in a different state than the rest of my family, I live with my husband. And the only support system here is his family.. which seems like very little support for me. My husband goes to work, but that seems to be the only redeeming quality.. I constantly catch him in lies, he has been doing drugs, and I always find new "chat" apps on his phone. bottom line there is I have no trust for him.. I know hes a liar but what is better for the kids? Should I stay here and try to fight though my depression? To keep my family together. Or should I go home and start over?

I will always see her some but should I avoid her sometimes as I can't stand when she insults my Dad (I am 22 and she did this to me when I was a kid all the time). She has been divorced for eleven years now. @ Kelly and Carrie---She has been told many times not to say these things and she stops for a time and then relapses. It is just like an addict. But she has always justified it and then added, "But I guess he is your father so you want to like him" and other time "I guess you want to think he is a good person because he is your Dad"

why would he do that to me? we did not end on good terms.

Are texan woman loyal to their husbands after marriage? do they get along or do they fight and break up?? how are texan girls like?

She knows that I am married. registrations, my status is Married.Is there any possible way to get marry here, because she wants to register her marriage, but the problem is that we cant register it. In all of my documents and city. , She knows that I am married. In my Docs and city registrations, my status is Married.Is there any possible way to get marry here, because she wants to register her marriage, but the problem is that we can`t register it.

His son who's 10 years old living with him!

She drives my car from time to time buys me things she moved to a different state and I moved as well, could we be made for each other? Can I move in with her?

I need to ask her money for a night out with my friends (She gives me an allowance every month, which is the bare minimum) I feel indignant and humiliated - why should I ask someone for my own money Also she spends way too much on herself - she spends average $300 a month on clothes, but refused to give me $1000 for a set of formal wear (that's like the first time I bought any clothes in 6 months, and it's for work) I could ask my employer to stop putting my salary in a joint account, but put it in my personal account instead, but this would totally piss her off)