in real life, I would get a plea deal and I asked them if I say I did it, would I get off easier. They said no, so I plead the 5th for all the questions they asked

If my parents never met each other and your parents never met each other, but met someone else and had children, would we still partly exist somehow?

Don't get me wrong, I love the photos, but I don't like looking at them. If that makes sense.. I don't know if it's nostalgia or what. But whenever I look at them, it makes me feel weird. Kind of strange in a way that makes me uncomfortable. Sort of a sad feeling. Maybe it is just nostalgia, but I'd think that would make me want to look at old photos. Anyone else like this?

We dated for about 4 months. She dumped me out of the blue to be with her ex. Not sure if they are still together. She deleted me off all social media after three weeks except Instagram. I made a Instagram post yesterday and she deleted me. I think she forgot to delete me back then and saw I was using it and decided to delete me... But apparently she also deleted all of our photos on Facebook today too. We broke up on good terms and haven't spoke to each other in 2 months (she called me drunk wanting to catch up). Why the sudden purge? She still has pictures of her other exes but erased every memory of me.

So, i've had a crush on someone for a VERY long time, and indeed, they are famous. I've never met them, let alone talked to them, but their apperance, originality, and personality is driving me crazy. Crazy in two forms. The first one being, I am MADLY in love with her. I like being in love. Though the second one is knowing, I probably won't ever meet this person, and even if I did, she's like alot older than me, and way out of my league. How do I get rid of this stupid crush. It's unrealistic, it's hurtful, and I just hate knowing I won't ever meet her. Seriously, if there are any tips on getting rid of crushes, I would love any answers.

I kind of have a crush on my dad for a year now, because some my friends were at my house one night watching youtube videos of cheesy 1980s songs & said my dad looks exactly like daryl Hall (hall & oates). It was the song "make my dreams come true" & saying my dad looks exactly like daryl hall. They are always crushing on my dad anyway so I think that's what triggered it. A couple times I touched him in a place where I shouldn't. I tried to make it look like it was an accident. The 2nd time it happened he stared at me & looked sad, then walked away. Since I turned 10, I started being mean to my parents. I would tell my dad I wish he was dead. Sometimes for no reason other than I couldn't have my own way. The first time I said it to my dad, they told me never say it again, like what if it comes true and I get my wish. But I kept saying it almost every other day til my dad became depressed. Then, after I started having this kind of crush on my dad, they (my parents) read something I accidentally left laying around. They weren't home when I wrote it, I meant to put it away or shred it before they got home, but I got distracted, I left it there on the dining room table & forgot it. It said I had a crush on my dad and wanted to do things to him. I lied & I told them it was a fiction story I wrote for class, but they were mortified & my dad went outside and cried. He left and didn't come home for 2 days. My mom told me that his heart was broken. I was so deluded that I didn't care. I'm starting to be worried, like my dad was target practicing with his friends & he turned the gun on himself, his friend pushed it away before my dad pulled the trigger just in time before the bullet went in my dad's stomach. His friend told my mom he was afraid my dad was trying to hurt himself & he's afraid he might do it again. I feel weird, like I caused the whole thing. I feel dirty, like I molested my dad. Starting to get scared cause he is my dad, but I feel like I am under some kind of spell & can't really love him like I am supposed to. Please help.

i saw a recent clip of them on a little talk show where they tell a story about how Kanye first bought a smartphone just because he saw on the news that Kim was going to marry Kris Humphries and he had to call her to tell her it was a mistake. Also Kim&Kanye's body language as they tell this story is weird. They don't seem like a normal, affectionate, in love couple...

If your a stay at home mom for over two years and had a catering company that did great! Involved with fabulous food shows, festivals, even cooked him gormet meals for breakfast and dinner everyday. Now she s finally ready to open a small resturant that doesn t require a lot of money. He have well beyond the means to help, but refuse to support her financially with the Resturant. What should do? Should she stay? How should she feel? When her boyfriend don t want help her live out her dreams/goals?? Thanks,

My boyfriend is manipulative and I was so blind-sided by his charm and adoration up until recently. He gave three (at least) very elaborate lies at the beginning, one of which was that he wasnt talking to an ex(he was, and telling her he was single none the less). When i find out he says he had to in order to figure out who he really loved. Other lies consisted of telling me he was off doing some heroic things (helping aunt w/ back problem) (Staying after work late to help others), apparently neither were true and he just did not want to hangout. He used to white lie often and occasionally still will although he has less often and will admit it more now when he does. Aside from this he can be incredibly critical about my personality and appearance, demeaning, which he will try to pull of as jokes or turn it around so its my fault, EX: *all girlfriends should dress up for their boyfriends, you know* or *i didnt make you feel like that, sorry you think i made u feel that way*.. He can then switch back on his romantic, charming side and be very apologetic. He knows i am pulling away and has been acting like the perfect boyfriend since then. It is incredibly hard because in the beginning everything seemed PERFECT, and i truly thought we could make this work. Anyone been in similar situations??? I am easily guilted and know I am going to feel horrible after the fact and i think that is what is holding me back

My nephew is 26 and I am his aunt. There is a family holiday for a wedding coming up and my nephew is one of the only ones not coming, most couldn't but my nephew says "he didn't have the money at first" he lost his job and I told him to use his welfare money but he refused, he looked for a job, got one and saved money but he is now too late as bookings are finished, the holiday is in August 24th and the close of date was April 1st. He is annoyed because first the close off date was August 1st but it changed and now he feels he is going to miss out on a family holiday since this is a rare once in a life time thing, I volunteered to go on holiday with him, just me and him but he says he doesn't want people feeling sorry for him, he doesn't have any close friends and could never afford to go on holiday as a child but I think this is all his fault, if he just stayed on welfare and used that he could be going but he is too stubborn and proud and just had to use his "own" money. We live in the UK and the holiday is in Italy, the date changed because if the UK leaves the EU in June it could bump up the price and even if the UK stays it is impossible to change anything now. He is avoiding all family gatherings, he never answers his phone, has blocked chat on his Facebook and whenever we run into him in person and try and organize a little party to show how sorry we feel he says no. Is this justified When he lost his job he had to pack up and move back in with his parents

Should I feel betrayed/angry? Respectful comments please :)? So me and my girlfriend have been together for a year. 4 months into the relationship we broke it off for about a month b/c of personal issues. We were still talking trying to fix things but when we got back together again she told me she had sex with another guy when we were broken up. She was regretful and I forgave her This is the kicker. Just last week she told me that she wanted to get tested for STDs and she eventually told me that she had sex with a random guy twice when we were broken up. She said she was heartbrokwn, lost, and vulnerable. First time with protection second time without. I feel betrayed though. I got angry at her b/c we ve had unprotected sex a few times during 9 months. She lied to me and put my health at risk. She didn t tell me until months later. Now I have to get tested She was sobbing and told me she was sorry yhat she didn t tell me everything and that she was embarrased. Our relationship is incredible and she Loves me and is doing everything in her power to show me that. I don t understand why she didn t tell me everything. Should I feel betrayed? What are your guys thoughts

I met this guy online and he made up some story so I would let him come over to my house for the night. We ended up having sex but I regret it now. He tried contacting me many times before. Once he text me and I text him back saying stop texting me and he text back saying "Shut up sl*t" and then asked how my day was.... Should I change my number because he keeps trying to contact me once in a while.

Hi, so my boyfriend has attempted suicide 2 times already. One on Saturday and one last night. I catch him every time he starts but I stop him Immedietly and he cries saying he doesn't want to be here and I try my best to tell him it'll be ok and we can get him help but I just don't know what to do I don't know where to go or how to help him see that he has loved ones here. He thinks his friends hate him and he thinks people think he's awkward. He even think I don't care about him! I try and try to get him to see that I love him so much and will be there for him all the time and we started our future already I'm pregnant (he knows) he's happy about it but he forgets he's going to have a son or a daughter and he says "it's the only thing that's stopping me" but he forgets and he tries to attempt again. I don't know what to do I feel helpless and can't do anything. Please help what do we do? What does he do? Thank you

Just a little background, I am currently 21 about to graduate college in May. I have a huge final project to finish up, but I have one person that is giving me problems. Her and I met back in the Fall semester, and we became pretty good friends (nothing sexual). At one point, her car broke down and I offered her rides since I didn't want her to take the train at night in a dangerous area. When it came to school assignments, we helped each-other out in a timely manner and everything was all good... ...until she got a new car. Once this happened, she severely started to distance herself from me. When I would ask when we should meet up to work on our project, she would text me very late. I texted her yesterday if she was free to meet up tomorrow (which is now today), and she didn't get back to me until today. She is always on her phone, and she literally told me that she didn't see it until now (when I literally saw her yesterday in my class and she flat out ignored me). Long story short, we have a presentation due next Wednesday and I want to go out this year with a bang. Everyone has been contributing (group of four), but she's been dragging the team down honestly. Simply put, how should I deal with this situation? P.S. Normally, I would confront, but lately we live in this world where people deny everything and make you seem like the bad guy. It's ridiculous.

My nephew is 26 and I am his aunt. There is a family holiday for a wedding coming up and my nephew is one of the only ones not coming, most couldn't but my nephew says "he didn't have the money at first" he lost his job and I told him to use his welfare money but he refused, he looked for a job, got one and saved money but he is now too late as bookings are finished, the holiday is in August 24th and the close of date was April 1st. He is annoyed because first the close off date was August 1st but it changed and now he feels he is going to miss out on a family holiday since this is a rare once in a life time thing, I volunteered to go on holiday with him, just me and him but he says he doesn't want people feeling sorry for him, he doesn't have any close friends and could never afford to go on holiday as a child but I think this is all his fault, if he just stayed on welfare and used that he could be going but he is too stubborn and proud and just had to use his "own" money. We live in the UK and the holiday is in Italy, the date changed because if the UK leaves the EU in June it could bump up the price and even if the UK stays it is impossible to change anything now. He is avoiding all family gatherings, he never answers his phone, has blocked chat on his Facebook and whenever we run into him in person and try and organize a little party to show how sorry we feel he says no. Is this justified When he lost his job he had to pack up and move back in with his parents

My friends pregnant, been pregnant but finally decides to take a test. Last night she was acting all upset as usual at her boyfriend. I asked her what was up an she sadly said how he was so emotionally closed off about stuff. I told her from experience that s how guys are, she then tried to tell me I didn t know anything in an attacking way. I then replied that she shouldn t dare say that to me when I was in an abusive relationship in which I was completely ignored half the time while sitting right in front of the guy.he never spoke of anything with me, unless to undermine me. and never provided for me as her boyfriend goes out of his way to for her. She s now not talking to me. Is this normal? What do I do? I started off just trying to get her to see she s just trippen an that everything s ok, but turned when she got angry.

We both rent in the same house. He lives below me and every time I come home he is on the porch waiting. I have to walk past his porch to get to my entrance. He is always making comments about my appearance, asking me to come in, and will comment on how we would make a nice couple. We have a small door inside separating us and I feel like if I tell him I am not interested he will become irate. He is very pushy always asking to come up. I live entirely alone and he gets drunk a lot. I always hear him late at night partying. I can break my lease but will lose an 800 dollar deposit. How can I send a message that I am not interested without making him really mad?

This question still hasn't been answered right and I need help. Me and my current boyfriend broke up for about 3 weeks. During that time ( he broke up with me and said we were never getting back together ) I went out and got drunk. I Ussually don't drink and I don't even drink to that point. One of his friends went up to me and we were flirting. The next morning I remeber the thought of kissing him and I was so confused because to this day I cannot distinguish reality from my thoughts and imagination. So that day I mentioned it to the people I was with. One of them asked the guy and he said no. When I asked him he said he couldn't remeber he didn't think so but he really just didn't know. Now my boyfriend ( it's been 3 months) keeps asking me if anything happened. I tell him nothing happened. 1 ) because I don't even know 2) if I tell him NOW he will end things because I "lied" 3) I don't see the point how it's his business if we were broken up. The thing is I don't lie so when he asks me I'm obviously lying when I say I didn't kiss anyone even though it's possible to not be true. I know this is over reacting. I just want opinions on what I should do. Keep in mind if I tell him now it's all over, it's been 3 months he hasn't found out anything and the guy even says nothing happened that he knows of and he's pretty sure nothing happened, his friend told someone that all we did was flirt, so the possibility something did happen are low, I just have the repeated thought it did And the thought is just the thought of kissing. Please help me relieve my guilty conscience and tell me if I'm doing something wrong because I look at him and feel so bad thanks Please help me

women are devoid of any personality. Their entire existence revolves around being part of the group and doing just barely enough to stand out. If they stand out too much, the other women will either bring her in line with the rest of them or the group will adopt her new way as the standard. Snapchat filters are thus a way for a female to say: "notice me", using preapproved methods. Of course men have their flaws to, obviously.

This question still hasn't been answered right and I need help. Me and my current boyfriend broke up for about 3 weeks. During that time ( he broke up with me and said we were never getting back together ) I went out and got drunk. I Ussually don't drink and I don't even drink to that point. One of his friends went up to me and we were flirting. The next morning I remeber the thought of kissing him and I was so confused because to this day I cannot distinguish reality from my thoughts and imagination. So that day I mentioned it to the people I was with. One of them asked the guy and he said no. When I asked him he said he couldn't remeber he didn't think so but he really just didn't know. Now my boyfriend ( it's been 3 months) keeps asking me if anything happened. I tell him nothing happened. 1 ) because I don't even know 2) if I tell him NOW he will end things because I "lied" 3) I don't see the point how it's his business if we were broken up. The thing is I don't lie so when he asks me I'm obviously lying when I say I didn't kiss anyone even though it's possible to not be true. I know this is over reacting. I just want opinions on what I should do. Keep in mind if I tell him now it's all over, it's been 3 months he hasn't found out anything and the guy even says nothing happened that he knows of and he's pretty sure nothing happened, his friend told someone that all we did was flirt, so the possibility something did happen are low, I just have the repeated thought it did And the thought is just the thought of kissing. Please help me relieve my guilty conscience and tell me if I'm doing something wrong because I look at him and feel so bad thanks Please help I just need help

I said one of the reasons I went to the program is bc it was fewer credits. Why did he? Was he making fun of me? What's going on? Serious answers Only. I hate this guy to bits but he doesn't know that...he also takes the time to break everything down to me

...your partner, of life is still the same that you've met? It is OK if you do not have a relationship

My friend met a guy on a date site recently. The guy has already asked my friend to meet up but he always just wants to kiss and hug for short periods (he says he only has around 30 minutes to see her each time). She asked if he is looking for a dating relationship and he said he wants to go with the flow. He recently asked my friend if she could meet him at a hotel because his house was being fumigated but she barely knows him. She said she might consider if she gets to know him. He always is pushing her to kiss and hug in his car. She wants to give him a chance. Is this guy safe?

Because you were really tired from work that day, and you never imagined they were going to die, you believed there was always omorrow and you were looking forward to spending two weeks holiday with them? But you knew they were ill, and you said 'we'll do that next week' instead of doing it today, and although you loved them completely you worry that in that day, they didn't feel your love?

So this is kind of a long story but basically I m living with my husband and his family, including her brother who has a girlfriend who we both can t stand, she is the rudest most arrogant person ever and from day one she has been nothing but rude to me and I m always nice to her... Me and my husband both hate her, so today she was being extra rude to me and I was stood my the door chatting with my husband, then suddenly she wanted to leave so she gets up and before I have chance to move she says "omg you re always in the way! You re so rude I hate you " just out of the blue and I didn t have a reply for her, but she left her handbag on the table and while she was gone I dumped some milk in it so it goes sour.. I was so mad, but even afterwards I felt so guilty, I told my husband and he told me he was proud of me.. Lol but why should I feel guilty? She was rude.. And I ve never done anything to deserve it :/ thoughts? Has anyone been in a similar situation? btw I'm 19 and she's 35, I'm not the one who's acting immature here, shes always acting like a child and I'm done with it, and you know what? I don't feel guilty, I am pleased with myself :) thanks for the answers

We went to a movie together and during that I told him I was feeling cold, so he pulled both of my arms and hold my hands to make me feel warmer, in the meanwhile his elbow was touching my boobs /: it was so obvious there s no way he couldn t feel it coz it was summer and I was wearing tshirt and bra underneath /: i just kept telling myself that he didn t realize that and tried to slide my hands out but he seemed to grab me even tighter then finally I pulled my hands out casually. I know it sounds like it s not a big deal but it just crosses my mind sometimes and bothers me...So please tell me do you think this is normal?!! Am I overreacting? Hope I am (he s 8 years older than me and I was 20 if it helps)

Hey so I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop then later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early do you think I was looking at her too much?

She casually introduced herself to me and would often try to get my attention. I ignored her several times because obviously, she's married. I think she wanted me to be her friend but I might have taken her cues wrong. We eventually talked but I think I blew her off by putting my guard up. I think she's really a nice person and very down to earth. It seems she genuinely cared about me. But I might have made her feel that I don't trust her. She still says Hi to me but that's about it. How to get her back?

I have a stepbrother and it makes me sick. Every single day I come home to this stomachache and one day I'm just going to lose it. He's in my face and inn my face like stink on **** and I just can't take him anymore. He sucks the life out of me. No, I'm not planning a murder. I just wish he had never been born. I never get the delicious, delicious alone time I crave and I'm going to lose it one day soon. Only children are SO lucky, as kid I LONGED to be an only child. I still long to be an only child.

I'm 27 and my husband is 30. We have 4 young kids and I'm 7 months pregnant with my 5th. I'm biracial and my husband is a typical white man. He's an only child and very close to his parents. His mom who I don't like comes at least 2 times a week sometimes without calling. She's rude and I try to avoid her as much as I can. I would rather my husband take the kids and visit them. I tell my husband that I don't want her in my house and he says he will talk to her but nothing comes of it. He's messy and always leaves out the milk and bread crumbs which I talk about every day! I'm tired of him not being serious. I'm not in love with him and I'm just tired of my life with him. We are moving because of his job and I'm not happy leaving my relatives and friends. I've been thinking about leaving him for a while but then I got pregnant, what do I do?

I get so confused it's like I like everyone, I feel some type of way for more than one boy I my school especially for the cute people and I feel like I love them and they're my crush for the whole year and I get hurt when they end up going out with someone, but sometimes I don't even know the person, and they're ugly and rude and stuff. Is it because I'm intimidated and don't understand my feelings or try to act cool around them or something and don't even know it, I'm confused.

My wife and I have finally decided that due to our enormous debt, we can no longer provide for our 1 year old. The state denies us aid because the debt comes from auto loans and college loans and credit cards, all incurred before he was conceived, and now medical debt from his care is mounting as well. Her parents wish to take custody, but I think it would be better if he goes to a family through an agency, because with her family having him, there may be issues down the road.

After frequently being "******" and "gay" throughout middle school, it somehow continued into high school. I had a really unusual haircut back in 7th grade which resulted in numerous rumors of me being homosexual, but I'm not at all gay. My voice is not different from the average teenager and my hair no longer stands out as being "gay", but occasionally i get questioned about my sexuality. I'm not into things that are considered "masculine" like football or being cocky. I'm more interested in computer science and track as well as being kind to others and polite. I'm not at all against homosexuality, but I want people to know who I actually am instead of automatically assuming what I'm like. Girls don't bother flirting with me, but remind me about the rumors that every unanimously approved of about me. They ask me, "Are you really gay?" or "Someone told me you were gay, are you?". My main question is this, how do you appear "straight"?

I was messing around with this guy for all most 8 years. To make a long story short is I came up pregnant. I told him and I was gonna get an abortion then the other part of me wanted to keep. He let me know how how he felt. He basically don't want no more kids and he wanted me to get an abortion. I'm keeping my baby. I let him know. Every chance he get even if I send a text saying I miss him he says something bout how he doesn't want anymore babies and I need to get rid of it so we continue to work on our relationship. In a nut shell he left me because I decided to keep my baby. I told him that he can sign over his rights ect.. but part me hopes eventually he would come around but I know it's not happening. I feel bad just because I'm just emotional and never really been in this type of situation. He is older then me...smh

Ok so I'm in college. Got a buddy. He's a guy. Same age as me and well...we're not too close but the"teasing-each-other-kind -of-friends. He's not Christian. I am. Well,we get along well. He's an open guy but basically likes to "flirt" with many girls. Not "flirt" but like always sitting by different girls chit chatting,etc. He does it to everyone lol. Well okay,here comes the WTF moment....Today was a school club gathering. We're in the same club. Before the club period,he was trying to play with me. Like the usual poking kinda thing but this time he was literally pushing me aside with his hip pushing my ***. Like woahhh. I gave him a long stare.During the club period i was sitting with some other guy buddy of mine.The other guy(the one who pushed me by his hip )sat behind me. He was tickling me and others out of boredom 😂😂 But here comes the weirdest moment. He began to lean his head on the back of my chair and with his thumb was rubbing my side. Like below my armpit where my bra could be felt. I gave him a warning. Even shifted slightly further away. But then this moment comes. He began to rock my chair back and forth and like i was literally sliding up and down the chair...was he tryna stimulate me or what? Like wtf?? I told him to stop but he did it more till my other friends noticed and were in awe staring at him and me and asking what's going on with him. I kinda burst out laughing but i don't have a crush on the guy. How do i get the lustful thoughts out of my mind?

My mother alienated me from family as a kid. I am an adult now and close to everyone but still carry the effects and hurts of being alienated as a kid. She has a pattern of expecting me to be mad at whoever she is mad at (she often feuded with her brothers and with her father and step-mother. So as a kid I only saw my grandmother and aunt on my mother's side. Now as an adult I have regrets and sometimes we are overlooked at gatherings because the family knows my mother won't come. I want to forgive my mother but have been unable to as the anger at her keeps resurfacing when something triggers the hurt. So my question is how do I forgive her? I want to but am unable to. She otherwise was a good mother, she was just bitter at her family of origin. When I talk to her about it she just defends it and says she did the right thing by alienating me. I have two sisters but they are not affected by it, maybe I am since I was a boy. @Ken Rex----What must I forgive myself for? I did nothing wrong in this. I have made mistakes but not in this area.