Its causing some stress and tension into our relationship because I am concerned for his safety and health as long as he's around his negative family. The negativity of his family is all we talk about and its draining because it leaves no room for us and me. I expressed my concerns to him and I know we are talking later today.

Lately shes been hitting me she says she hates me so much and tells me i need to go with my dad because i am "disrespectful" when she really just gets offended by little things. My dads weird he doesnt love me and hes selfie hes so dirty and i dont want to live with him. He works all after school hours meaning he cant take home from sports games or take me to work. Im 16 i can get my license in august hopefully. But for 3 months i wouldnt be able to leave the house because i wouldnt have transportation. I feel uncomfortable with my dad but also my mom doesnt even want to deal with me anymore. What should i do. Please dont saY im looking for attention bc im not im really not. My mom thinks im against her and i just want my family how it used to be

I feel like I don't have a mom that's there for me.... I do have one but she doesn't care about me.. she doesn't support me in anything I want to do... I want a mom that I could talk to about anything not a mom that's so into herself and tells the whole Facebook and people about me.. She's not my mom. I feel adopted at times. I don't really have a romodel that I could look up to as a women.. She's never there for me.. Very bipolar.. She always thinks about my brother and cares for him instead of me.. it's so sad... I wish I could have a mom to talk about anything.. instead I talk to my boyfriend but it's the not same .. How can I find a mother

She's 18, her parents bought her a brand Toyota corolla, nothing extravagant but a decent first car. Apparently when her dad was teaching her how to drive, he yelled at her constantly if she took a wrong turn or didn't signal and she thinks it caused her to have bad anxiety/fear of driving. I seriously feel bad for her because the first thing she says when she has to drive someplace that isn't her work or the store, she says "I don't know how to drive there", doesn't know how to read a map and doesn't use gps. She literally doesn't know directions, but has been living in the same place for four years! She also bad at driving, even has trouble parking. Her brother, who is 17, does not have driving anxiety and said when his dad (same dad as 18 year old sister) taught him how to drive, he never got yelled at, he just drove. He genuinely knows how to drive to places, doesn't use gps, knows the main streets/general directions, and knows how to park properly from what I've seen. I admit I kind of stopped hanging out with her lately just because the driving thing is such a hassle, she doesn't know how to drive to my house because I live "too far" and she will get lost.... I live 25 minutes away. That's not that far. Is something generally wrong with her? Why is her brother able to do things she can't? They were raised by the same parent who taught them how to drive. Did her dad cause this? Either way, it doesn't explain how her brother knows directions and she doesn't.

I made a pie last weekend and left it out to cool it down. I was making pies for a party that night but I ran out of flour for my apple pie. I told my son I would be back and was going to the store. I came home and my blueberry pie was messed up. I asked my son what happened and he said he couldn't resist and poked his pecker into it. He said he saw a movie that influenced him to do it. What should I do to him?

I planned to take a few days off between college and work to spend time with my mom on a hiking trip. She accidentally forwarded me on an email to my brother saying how she is dreading spending time with me. And said don't tell her i sent you this because it will only make it worse. On a side note in 4 years of college she never once called me even on my birthday, yet actually visits (as well as calls) my brother regularly. I'm crushed. I'm absolutely devastated. I don't know what I did wrong. And right after she sent an email saying "opps now you know!" without even an apology. I'm skipping my college graduation and an honor ceremony to take this trip with her. How do I respond? I work my tail off in school, work, etc and really do try to be a good daughter. when I tell her I feel hurt by things like this she just says quit being so sensitive or denies it. Am I wrong? How do I fix this and how do I respond to her email? I want to have a good relationship with my mom but every time we interact I just end up feeling broken and like a failure.

When I was 7 years old lighting hit a tree next to my house and it fell in my bedroom. It took the fire department 2 hours to get me out from under that tree branch. I spent several days in the hospital recovering from my wounds. Ever since then I have been terrified of lighting and thunder. When I heard thunder, I would go to my much older brother's bedroom and crawl in bed with him where I felt safe and secure. When the thunder stopped, I would go back to my own bed. My brother told me that since I am now developed (what ever that means) I can not get in bed with him anymore. He says we could get in big trouble if I got in bed with him now. He will set up a cot in his bedroom that I can use when I want to from now on. I will do as he wishes as he is the greatest brother any girl could have. Please tell me that what I have been doing all these years was not wrong. The VERY LAST thing I want to do is cause my brother a problem.

I am a high school guy with a 14 year old sister that I really like and care for. She as developed into a VERY beautiful girl. I try to protect her as much as possible. When I have my buddies over for a visit they really like her also. Probably because she tells them how great they are. To her this is NOT flirting. It is just having fun with my buddies. She told one of my buddies "You are a great looking guy". "You never have trouble getting a date do you"? That really stroked his ego. She told another one of my buddies he was such a great guy, that he should not get married until she was 18 so she could propose marriage to him. That made him feel great for weeks. I told her she should probably stop doing this as these guys will think she is flirting. She said if what she is doing makes my buddies feel great about themselves, it is a good thing she is doing. Is it?

me and my wife are open minded,we have two twins,one girl and the other is a boy,they are 4 years old,i let them move around the house wearing underwear,but i have read that is good to be nude,is it right or not?me and my wife aren't really the religouse type and we are open minded so pls religouse people i appreciate your help but don't tell me that am going to hell!! and if nudisim isn't good,but is letting them mlve around wearing underwear good or not? what will this affect them in the future because am full aware that i will let them for the future to be nude or in underwear

I was upstairs in my bedroom watching TV when my step mother yelled "Lets go so we will not be late". Trying to stall for time, I said "I'm coming". She said "Don't get it on the sheets. That makes them sticky. Oh My God, she thought I was j - -king off. I did not know she knew I did that. She has a wonderful sense of humor so I hope she was joking. I love and adore her. She is the best mom any guy can have. Does that mean she is OK with it and I don't have to hide from her when I do it in the future? Do I have a cool mom or what? I did not know women knew guys did this. Do all women know about it?

He's left many times before. She always begs him back and after lengthy verbal abuse and tears on her part he comes back and claims that he loves her. He asked her today to start calling his mom.. Weird I know. We'll like she always does she asked if they could start dating each other to maybe reconcile. He proceeds to tell her that getting back with her is creepy and he's not interested. That he's not ruling it out, but he's not interested right now. I pray she does not go back to him. What advice should I give her and do your think he's wanting to reconcile? I pray not for her sake! Thanks

Both my parents are really strict. I hate it. We don't even have broadband in our house. Both my dads make me revise constantly or do chores. I'm not allowed on the Internet and I can only watch 'Christian' television for 30 minutes on a Friday. My phone is a brick one from like the 1990s and I have hardly any access to the Internet. My friends don't know, but they often wonder about me, not having any social media, not playing video games, not watching any shows they watch or having internet access. Even now, I'm typing this in on a computer at school, I know I'm not supposed to, but it's the only way I can reach out to people. I'm 14 and they've done this all my life. I'm so sick of it, but if I complain, they'll just lock me in the cellar :( . What should I do?

I'm 13 years old and have never been spanked. Not even once. I honestly think it would help me. Lately I have been taking off my clothes and running around in the apartment complex parking lot where I live. It's in the garage and so far nobody has caught me or that I know has even seen me. I guess I do it because I wonder if somebody catches me well they threaten give me a spanking. I know people are going to say that my question is not real. But it really really is. I have a single mother raising me. And my father is not in my life. I tend to be alone a lot. High School grades are just average and nothing great. I know I could do better. But I honestly don't try that hard. So do you think I'm too old to receive a spanking?

I've tried everything to make a good potato salad for this weekend but its not good enough. I put salt, pepper, mayo, and mustard but it still doesn't taste like I want it to. What do you put in your potato salad to give it a great flavor?

I asked something like this yesterday but i have a different question now: my uncle had said it was good my abusive/alcoholic dad stayed with us. I guess because his income let's us have a house and food. but my question now, is what good is that when you're being abused? like what if i get an abusive bf in the future, or get into drugs or something? why does no one in my family see that abuse can hurt you a lot? can adult people really not see what happens in the future? i don't understand how that's possible when everyone is so old. lastly i decided if my dad ever comes home drunk again i'm calling the police. i refuse to live like that. but...it hit me. why did NO ONE ever just say to do that before? why did my uncle and everyone else just let us be abused, and then told us we should be grateful our dad stayed? if he'd been arrested, that maybe would've stopped him from drinking and our suffering! or he'd have gone to rehab... why did no one just say to do that? like...if they think it's moralistic our dad is with us, then why don't they care about other morals like the law and safety? why are they separate to them? yeah, it's unreal to me people can be so self centered. i guess there's no sympathy if you're not just like they are. couldn't we just live with our mom? or she could even call a friend over to help pay rent...but you're right, people only do what's best for them. it's true our dad stayed, but he and my mom have debt issues, so as far as i understand, he kind of can't leave. but reputation....yeah, that actually makes a lot of sense!

Long story short, we were forced to break up due to us messing around behind her back, and I was crushed. It's been two months, and although we haven't really been on her good side, I want us to get back together and really be supervised (our messages on Facebook being monitored, someone in the room with us when he's over, monitoring at school,etc). I think this is fair, and it gives us the chance to be together. Unfortunately, my mother is really angry/disgusted at us for what we did, and she doesn't want me to talk to him at all. If his mother talks to mine (boyfriend said she really supported us and she's only a little mad about what happened), could that help? I'm 16, and so is he. Thank you!!

My cousin Heather is having a baby. She's my first cousin. Does that mean the baby is my second cousin?

I am going to tell the story in detail here. I am originally from India and came to the US for my education about a couple of years ago. My uncle lives here with his family and he is quite rich. I used to stay at his house for many days during vacations and I had a lot of fun. They took me out for dinner, bought me new clothes and even got me a brand new cell phone. I used to feel like I always had someone to rely on. About 6 months ago, I was scammed by some people. They threatened me with dire consequences if I did not pay up. I called my uncle and told him to go to the bank and send me some money ASAP. He did not do it and said he was in some meeting. I made it pretty clear that I was in trouble and needed some help. He said it would take 2-3 days for the money to be sent. - Then about 2-3 months ago, I was having some dental issues. My mom told my uncle and aunt that I was in pain but they did not even bother to ask me anything about it. I felt really terrible. I now feel that my uncle and aunt are very selfish and they don't care about me at all. I feel I should send back the cell phone I am using and buy a new one and learn to be independent without relying on anyone. But I also feel that I am forgetting all the good things that they did for me and I am un-grateful for them. I am in a real dilemma here and I am not able to see this clearly. I would appreciate if someone with similar experience gave me some advice. Thank you!

My ethnicity is Native American Indian. This Blonde White woman (my roommate) had guests stayed over 2 weeks, weekends, as well as her boyfriend stay in our house every single day. I am flexible roommate. This week is stressful for me, final week of school, my mom s in ER,my father &uncle got temporary gig I texted the group with all roommates to give a head up that my father and uncle will be in town - stay with me in my bedroom for how long I don t know it was last minute so I will communicate with you all. Other two roommates was very COOL and excited to meet my family. On the other hand, Blonde white woman decided to give me hard time "What happened to ask agreement" I can t deal with hassles with when to shower or cook. I was shocked because normally they would give me headup with guests but other roommate gave head up about guests on the weekend last minute. Blonde girl didn t give her hard time. Why me? other roommate asked us if its ok her parent sleep in her bedroom, blonde girl didn t complain at all. I am struggling to understand why me hard time about my family. After my family slept one night then went to work yesterday, Blonde decided to text the group saying that she is not comfortable, want to walk around and do simple stuff (sugarcoat excuses -my view). I feel she is disrespecting me towards my own family, I feel like she look down to my family especially after she saw them then she decided to say that she is not comfortable on next day.

I am wondering if I should reach out for Mother's Day? I will be with my Dad and paternal grandmother for the weekend but we likely will be home by about 4 or 5 that Sunday afternoon and wondered if I should go by and take my mother some flowers even though she abused me. Or is it not worth it and should I just send the brief "hey, Happy Mother's Day, hope you had a good day" via email which is really all I am interested in doing for her due to the hurt she caused. Which should I do? She says she would still alienate me if she had to do it again so she has no remorse. This was the only area of abuse though so she otherwise was not abusive. I am 26 now.

I'm a 22 year old female and my moms two wishes are that I don't get any tattoos and don't leav home until I'm married. Obviously I still have a job, school, friends etc I've had old boyfriends (26) which I love but they all have their own homes at that point and I can sleepover etc but moving in wouldn't happen. I stuck to her no tattoo thing and will continue but the moving out thing should I leave the nest eventually or wait tell I hear wedding bells?

I just don't like my mother as a person. The other night I told her. We were fighting because she didn't trust me when I said I was going somewhere with both my friend and her parents. I told her I thought she was a terrible person. This is not because she didn't trust me but because a lot of issues. I struggle with this a lot because everytime we fight, she gives me the feeling that I am the bad person. I just hate her. I really do not like her as a person. But is this my fault? Should I feel sorry for this?

He has had symptoms of depression before and has seen a psychiatrist, but he is just so cold and isolating. All he does is sit by himself and either play chess or literally just sit there quietly. He says that he isn't depressed and just would rather be by himself, but I'm afraid he does need to talk to people some day or another. He is extremely smart, but his grades and school attendance are abysmal. Sometimes I'll see him just laying down or sitting there quietly, and he just says he's thinking. He doesn't watch TV, or anything; he just sits in his room and plays Chess all the time. Is this normal behavior for a teenager? When he's around me he doesn't speak all that much and often times gets into fights with me and my mom.

I'm 14 years old and i think of myself to be really tough. No one messes with me and i have a great group of friends. We are pretty inappropriate. For example we swear and make sexual jokes and stuff like that. Anyway i have a little 10 year old sister. I am very protective of my little sister. I always thought that she was innocent and would never swear or anything. Anyway she was at school (I'm sick so i stayed home). Now basically i saw her desktop getting texts. Nothing was that bad or inappropriate. But there was a group chat and they were saying stuff like "Shut the **** up you ******* *****" (in a joking way) and stuff. And then apparently my sister has a "boyfriend." She was calling him babe and he was sending that grapefruit Emoji or whatever. I don't want to snitch on her to my parents but idk what i should do. I mean maybe I'm being a little ***** and taking this too seriously and maybe its normal. Idk though so i just wanted to find out.

I text my mom about my homework and then she asked why did I have my phone and if I had permission and I text her back saying that I needed a link for my homework. She then sent me the link and that was suppose to be it.. But then she starts asking if I had permission to be on my phone, I tell her Ive already told dad I was talking to her but she asked again so I told her no and she started yelling at me by texting I then just texted her and said I was texting a parent for school I go to my dad in the mist of whats going on my sister hands me the phone of mom complaining about taking the phone away and me not asking to use it she gets of the phone and I m a bit sad now because all I did was ask her for my homework link... I'm homeschooled and she not divorcing anyone its just that my dad did not tell my mom that I told him I was talking to her.

My mom is 5'4 , dad is 5'7 , im 5'6.6

Hello everyone. I want to know how can I be of the best aid in my brother's development since I have moved out? He and I both have grown up with no father and I sympathize with that, but I at the same time feel inadequate as a role model and father figure to him due to myself still trying to figure out my life goals and dreams.Should I move back in with my mom and him or what should I do? I was initially planning on moving in a house with my cousin and a friend in about three months from now.

She always wears tight Jean shorts and low cut tops and its really starting to get to me. How do I approach her about this and ask her to stop? She's really entertaining all sorts of ideas in my head especially when her mom is gone and its just us at the house. She's 17

I hate my FH sis. whn we arrived at her home to chil we went n her room & said hello chatted 4 a while & wnt dwnstrs & waited 4 her 2 *** dwn & chill with us 20 min pass 1 hour 1 hour 30 min. At this point FH is pissed we *** ovr 2 hang out wth her & she left us dwnstrs watching TV, so HE decided 2 leave. Her BF was dwnstrs the whole time sleep on the couch. I got up 1st & walked to the door with my FH behind me. I stopped at the dor & waited 4 him 2 say bye 2 his sis I said arnt u going 2 say bye he said no shes being rude lets go so I walked on. Next AM his sis cals my FH crying & screaming about how her BF (who was sleep when we left) said that I made him leave her house. FH sis said I have brain washed him turned him against the family caled me out my name she said she will never accept me in2 the family & said she will fight me. I called her with my FH on 3 way & I asked her with no atitude Hey whats wrng whats going on she was mad & hung up. ben 2mon since & my FH still talks 2 her. we have ben at 2 family functions & she will not speak but she will make comnts about my FH needing 2 break up wth me. Im snding invites 4 our weding & Im not invitng her. I feel if she dsnt suport us dsnt respct me & is stil bing petty abt the situation & cant act cordial she shldnt B there. I feel like she will B drama. The only part I feel bad about is that my FH comes frm a family of 13 his sis the only 1 not invited I'm sure her feelings will b hurt. I hate my fiancés sister. His sister is married so all four of us use to hang out at her house and chill. Long story short my fiancés brother and I had a falling out about a family business and he actually disrespected me, and my fiancé and his brother fell out and almost fought each other because of it. His sister was actually there and says to me "Ima fight you because my brothers are about to fight" I ignored this statement. after that argument settled we went over her house and she of course had little comments such as "why aren't yall married by now, he must not want to marry you" So there was I really don't care for you attitude between the 2 of us. 1 night we went over her house to chill. She already had company over there in her room. Long story short his sister was upstairs in her room and when we arrived we went in her room and said hello, chatted for a while and went downstairs and waited for her to come down and chill with us 20 min pass, 30, 1 hour, 1 hour 30 min. And at this point my fiancé is pissed we came over to hang out with her and chill with her and she left us downstairs in her house watching TV, so HE decided to leave. Her best friend was downstairs the whole time asleep on the couch. My fiancé told me "come on and let's go", I got up first and walked to the door with my fiancé right behind me. I stopped at the door and waited for him to say goodbye to his sister. I said aren't you going to say bye but he said "no she's being rude, lets go" so I walked out the door and he followed. So the next morning his sister calls my fiancé crying and screaming about how her best friend (who was sleep when we left) said that I made him leave her house. His sister said I have brain washed him turned him against the family im a ***** a hoe im stuck up coincided he puts up with me and is not even happy in the relationship. I I don't even please him and never give him sex when he wants and needs it; I give it to him when I'm ready. she will never accept me into this family and I am no longer welcome in her house and when she sees me she will fight me. She wanted to come over NOW and talk to her. I call her (with my fiancé on 3 way so he knows I came at her correctly) and I simply asked her with no attitude "Hey what's wrong? what's going on?" she said "she was so mad that she was going to break her phone and she cant talk to me over the phone I have to come over and she hung up" So its been 2months since then and my fiancé still talks to her. But we have been at about 2 family functions and she will not speak to me, but she will make smart comments about my fiancé needing to break up with me (as recent as last week) let her disrespect me in front of everyone. Here I am planning our wedding and I have no intentions of inviting her, nor her husband or kids. I feel if she doesn't support us, doesn't respect me and is still being petty about the situation and cant act cordial she shouldn't be there. I don't plan to invite her to anything. No engagement party, no dress fitting, no bachelorette party, she wont be in the wedding nothing. Im not going to make it known publicly shes not inviting. I will own my decision though. I feel like she will be uncontrolled drama. The only part I feel bad about is that my fiancé comes from a family of 13 and even though me and his brother had our differences we know how to act being in the same room. his sister is the only one I truly have a problem with. For her to be the only one not invited I'm sure her feelings will be hurt. But how much worse can it get? My family won't tolerate any disrespect at my wedding and I come from a family of 9 so they will have my back.

I am about to graduate high school, but I don't want a job, and it sounds stupid, but all I want to do is play piano. That's all I do with my free time, is play the piano. I've played since I was 5, I've been teaching myself, it's my one true passion. My mom is furious, because she's strict and has been keeping me on straight a's (or I get grounded) and she wants me to go to college and make a lot of money (because she cares about me). All I want to do is play piano, but what's jobs are there for that? I'd rather die than go to some boring office job my whole life. Am I being a brat?

24 (female) no friends or anything. Moving to Philly in the morning... starting a new job and will be starting college in the fall. I have worked my butt off for the last 2 years working a job I hated. I saved up a lot of money and has been the scapegoat of my family my whole life. To my family, I don't deserve anything. It's just always been like that. My siblings were granted so much stuff and I never was. I'm the youngest by the way. They have held me back from self improvement and told me that no one will ever love me. I grew up with so much low self esteem. I feel guilty for being happy, anytime I have something new or something I work hard for, they feel entitled and take it from me. And my parents pretty much programmed me to feel that way. I am very fearful of them. They already spread rumors about me and gossip really bad about my personal problems. Anyhow, I'm scared that If I let go, become successful that they will come and take it from me?

My mom doesn't really like tattoos but my step dad, her husband has 3. I know he wouldn't care if I got one but she probably would for at least. Week or two then get over it. Anyway, I'm 19 I don't need consent but I still live with them, should I mention it to my mom before I do it or just get it done and show her after?

It's NOT my godam fault I have borderline personality disorder and I am a drug addict? I don't want her dead but she's a phucking C UN T!

when my Dad was still alive, she used to be the easy one and my Dad was the hard one. She has changed and she is not the same, why?

The daughter cooked dinner for herself and her mom, and promised that she would wash the dishes afterwards. But she has these pink latex/rubber gloves that she puts on her hands while washing dishes because she doesn't like getting her hands dirty. - she also paid for them with her own money. Her mom, without asking her, used her gloves to clean a gas spill in her car and ruined; she (her mom) threw them away. The daughter was going to wash the dishes like she said she would, but she couldn't find her pink latex/rubber gloves, so she asked her mom what happened to them and her mom said, "I used them and threw them away." So the daughter got mad at her mom because she knows that she absolutely hates getting her hands dirty and that's why she bought the latex/rubber gloves. I know this is petty, but who was wrong?

I wanted to get a job but my dad told me no one would hire me yet. My brother was already doing field work at my age. Why won't farmers hire girls too??

I m a teenage girl and my family had no idea about what I do when I m alone..until now. I had headphones in, so I didn t hear my Grandma knocking at my bedroom door. She barged in and saw me. We made eye contact for about a second, then she grabbed some things from my room, and right before she left she said, "Oh and...well, I ll talk to you about that later." Is she going to mention what I was doing to any family members? And if she does, what would they think? I know masturbating is normal and most people do it/have done it, but I ve never felt more embarrassed. I know about sex, I know about masturbation, I know about my body, I really don t want to get a lecture on this topic.

What too do. She never listions to me at all. Even When I need help at homework she say's "NO I WONT HELP YOU DUMB KID! All I do is trying my best and nope she threatens me to call my parents Even my parents hate her too. It make me feel like killing my self because of her. My other teacher's help me with school since their the nicest one's

Will the family understand if my grandfather dies and I am unable to make it because his funeral is that day? I am so scared that this will be the case and I will never be asked to a family wedding again because there is a great-uncle the family used to ask to stuff and he often said no. As a result we didn't have him when my brother got married or when my grandmother turned 90 because we assumed he wouldn't care about coming. So my question is will the family blow me off next time if I have to miss due to my grandfather's funeral? My mother will not be generous and schedule his funeral at a different time because she is insensitive to this.

I'm a guy and every time I workout my dad literally stared at my legs the ENTIRE time. I just started noticing it the past week and when I look at him he just looks away fast. I could understand if it was my mom doing this but it would still be gross and wouldn't bother me as much. But for a guy to star at another guys body parts!!?? It's just gross. I'm too embarrassed to say anything. I can't wear long pants because I'm working out and don't have a choice but to workout with him.

I do everything around the house from moping to vacuuming to wiping off counters in every room in my house daily plus laundry as needed. Yet they complain that I never take out the trash when I do everything else. I posted a similar question earlier on Yahoo Answer yesterday and everybody was calling me immature and that I should do as my parents asked of me. I shouldn't confront them because it's their house. Last night I got into a very heated argument with my father over his spilled coffee that he never cleans up and he does this daily. Am I really out of line to ask my own father to clean up his own mess that he makes? Every time I call him out on something that he does wrong he gets defense and starts bringing up what I do wrong, walks off, or gets angry and yells to scare me which I just walk away from because really doesn't work. On top of that he also expects to get half of whatever I have, If my grandmother gives me 20 dollars he wants half for gas, if I grow out of a pair of shoes he wears them and I've even caught him wearing my shirts in the past. Yesterday I made some lemonade in two glasses and he got mad that I didn't share any with him like he automatically thinks whats mine is his. Keep in mind I told him they was nothing to drink in the house and he shrugged it off but wants some of my lemonade. I'm not a little kid, but a responsible, mature teenager so before you bombard me with insults please re-read this and consider it from your perspective. Thank you.

I plan to start my PhD soon, and I turn 24 this year. Would it be really weird if I lived with my parents for 5 years until I finished it? Assuming it doesn't matter to them either way. The school I've applied to doesn't have assistantships and stuff like that, so if I move out I would just have to find some normal full-time job.. Would classes and full-time work be too much? I never worked during my undergrad classes, so I don't know what it's like. I'm not trying to say I have special rights. I just want to know whether a full-time job & PhD classes at the same time is manageable or not. I know there's some people who do it, but I don't know what it's like.

I need help because my "dad" hates me and I want to be out of this house my mom couldn't stand to take a break from him and he wouldn't leave. Ever. How do I tell them that I'm moving out (I'm 13) or how do I run away and not get caught. I can't pit myself in a situation where I'm unhappy because then I get suicidal and depressed and I can't be in that place again its a dark and scary place that's sucking me back in for round 2. How can I tell my mom get rid of him or get rid of me????

So my dad left me and my mom when I was 2 and my mom found someone else at the beginning he was nice and loving but now he treats me like **** I cry almost everyday because of him... he yells at me and can never have a normal conversation with me everyone tells me how great full I should be but I can t be great full for someone that hates me he only said I love you to me when my mom said that I might kill myself which I almost did. I repeat the same mistakes because when ever I get into trouble he over reacts like today I came down stairs late so I got to the bus stop late I still caught the bus but he flipped out on me and said that I keep repeating myself because he s too nice but it s the opposite I want to run away or go live with someone else but I don t know how to tell them I m moving out or where to go if I run away I need help!! How do I tell them I m moving out and how can I ask someone to let me move in with them. I m tired of crying over someone who hates me I want to be gone or dead.

So my parents have been arguing. So I decided to google what happens in divorce and I found out since my mom doesn't work, she'll get alimony and child support from my dad and he'll be broke. I read how lots of guys are homeless because of those payments. What can I do about this? My mom knows legal stuff (she was a paralegal before) so she'll win...women usually win anyway. I can't have a homeless dad. I want to die almost.

My parents have been suspicious for awhile that I've been smoking cigarettes. I'm 16 and started smoking about 6 months ago. I've recently been smoking in my bathroom by turning on the fan and putting a towel by the bottom of the door. I've been doing this for about 4 months and have never been caught until this morning. My dad was getting ready for work and came upstairs into my bathroom and smelt the remaining cigarette smell from hours earlier. He busted into my room at 5am screaming in my face about smoking in the house and backstabbing him for betraying his trust. Both my parents smoke and my older sister. But in short they're extremely pissed and took my phone away. I can't stay home alone for awhile because of it so I have to go to work with my mom every single morning and night, because I'm online schooled. I'm just wondering if there's anything I can do to make the grounding shorter, or to get my phone back. Please no rude answers, obviously I have to force myself to quit now and obviously shouldn't have started in the first place.

idk how to start this. what i wrote will be scattered but i really hope u could understand me. lately, my parents hv been acting cold towards each other. usually it would be okay after a day or two. somehow right now i felt like they wont make up. both of them have high egos. my bro's bday is coming this end of april and if they keep acting like this, how would my bro feel? just now, i was crying SILENTLY in the bathroom. i also just realized how serious my trust issue was seeing that i couldnt even try to confess this to my bestfriend and my parents too. u must be wondering why i use yahoo answers to confess this, right? thats just because it felt way more comfortable.just like the whisper app hahaha i'm seriously the most cheerful person if you know me but somehow today all of that isnt true. my heart just broke when i saw my dad held his tears while eating the food my mom made (they're still fighting at the moment) and then he snapped at me.and yeah i just took it nonchalantly because im used to it. my dad NEVER cries im telling you. he is the most scariest person ive ever met but i love him and my mom too. then my heart broke again when i saw my mom in my room with puffy eyes. hmm long story short, i feel like im having the darkest time of my life atm

My daughter moved back to the house to save money, problem is she acts just like my wife, she even wears the same clothes and perfume. I don't know if you will believe this but last weekend my daughter crawled into my bed late night, she whispered in my ear how strong and sexy I was, she reached around to play with my semi hard member, a few strokes with her hand and I climaxed. She got up and went back to her room, the next morning neither of us said anything, I would like her to visit me again so how do I go about asking her?

Okay I'm 37 my son is 16. He never met his father and we are Super close I love him with all hart and he never once complained or even asked about his father and honestly I think it brought us even closer. We do everything together from watching tv together, helping him with homework, making dinner we even sleep together. It started when he was little because he had nightmares but then we both just got use to it and we shared a bed since. so over the years I've had relationships with a few men. But here comes the problem. My son COMPLETELY loses his mind when I get within a 10 feet radius of another man. Seriously. He started chasing away my boyfriends when he was around 4. Whenever I'm not home he calls and asks where I am and when I'm coming home and when I do get home he starts interrogating me about who I was with. And if it was a guy. I thought it was cute how protective he was when he was a kid but now I'm getting worried. I also get phone calls from his guidance counselor over the years who says she's concerned about Zack because he's not interacting with the other kids at all. Now that he's getting older he starts to ask if I'm having sex with the guy I'm with which angers him if he thinks I am. Please help what do I do. Do not tell me to tell my son to get over it and move on he can't do that and it's ruining our relationship which is really important to me.

My cousin does drugs in front of her kids. Cps was called but she and the kids lied to them of course. What I want to know is why doesn't my cousin see that if she keeps doing drugs her kids will be addicts in the future? She apparently tells them they should be glad to live with her since she supports them and gives them a place to live. Dysfunctional as hell I know, but she guilt trips them. And she seems to actually believe that! So why can't she see it's irrelevant if she takes care of them when she's damaging them so badly and wrecking their futures? Can she really be that immature? She's 32...

the parents/grandparents threaten to call the cops? You hit me of course I'm gonna hit you back! My mom actually said of course I would hit back because I don't respect authority. WHAT? Physical violence is authority? That's illogical, I never even DID anything. Saying something stupid, even if it was actually mean, does NOT make it ok to HIT ME. When I was in school if that happened and you didn't hit back everyone would make fun of you and laugh at you and call you a pu$$y, and now that sticks with me and has scarred me for life, but I guess it taught me something? If ANYONE hits you (assuming they're not strong enough to kill you with your bare hands) and you don't hit them back you're a spineless pu$$y. Even if you DID do something bad, NO ONE has the right to PHYSICALLY hurt you as "punishment" and you ARE a spineless pu$$y if you don't hurt them back, whether you can take them on yourself or use a weapon. Even the US legal system doesn't use physical harm. Example, the police NEVER (if they do it's not supposed to happen) use physical harm unless they have to, like they only use physical force to restrain someone and stop them from the bad they're doing, but they NEVER punch, kick, or use ANY physical attacks (sorry hard to explain by typing). They restrain people to stop the bad they're doing, but don't punch, kick, or use ANY physical violence like out of desire to hurt you, they just restrain you to arrest you. Those dumba$$ Republicans/Conservatives think it's ok and even what they're SUPPOSED to do to use physical violence as "punishment", most of them are delusional believing that they're serving a magic man in the sky who wants them to these evil acts. They hit you and slap you and say it's ok for them to, but if you hit them back they call the cops saying you assaulted them! WHAT THE F UCK!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? THEY HIT YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO YOU HIT THEM BACK THAT'S SELF DEFENSE AND NOT BEING A PU$$Y AND SERVING JUSTICE TO THEM FOR THEM HITTING YOU! AND THEY CALL THE COPS PLAYING THE VICTIM! Oh boohoo my son/grandson/daughter/granddaughter assaulted me! When they hit them first so it was just self defense and not serving justice and not being a pu$$y! I am anti-religious for reasons like this, but there are MANY more!

Please help me. I have been enduring this for a LONG TIME already. I don't want to be my family's shock absorber anymore. My family is a hopeless case and I feel guilty for saying this about them but this is the truth. I don't know if I'm just pessimistic or it's true that I can recall more negative happenings than good things that happened to our family. We are a middle class family, we eat 3x a day, live in a comfortable home and I am DEEPLY GRATEFUL for all the blessings that we have. However, my mom and dad is in constant fight with each other, in 24 hours/day, they fight 18 hours/day 7x/week and sometimes they drag us in between their fights, they also yell at us. It's a living hell. My brother is such an OC (not diagnosed) and if somebody "accidentally" touches one of his things, he will THROW FITS! he will yell at you and say a lot of bad words! he will get mad at the small things (and I think he got this behavior from our parents). I AM BREAKING APART. I feel guilty for feeling the need to leave them (I am already in my 20's), I "could" leave them but I feel guilty about it. I am much happier with my friends and consider them my real family even though I know that they have their own and I'm sure they are happy with them than me. I feel like I can still find somebody somewhere to make me feel loved and secure or I think I'm better off on my own to create my happiness. Should I follow my happiness or should I stay and live with the toxicity, as long as I am guilt free?