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- Question: Snapchat: Adding through mutual friends?
- Question: I think I made the wrong friends?
- Question: Should I be mad at my friend?
- Question: Do you feel your friends protect you?
- Question: What top 10 things, really define how strong a friendship is. Perhaps a friendship in high school.?
- Question: Period on class trip?
- Question: What should I do about my 300lb best friend?
- Question: Im going to get jumped by a group of girls tomorow and im scared :( what would you do to avoid it without emberasing yourself?
- Question: Roomate and thermostat?
- Question: Why wont my ex best friend talk to me?
- Question: My sister is hanging out with my best friend?
- Question: I'm really mad at my friend?
- Question: Friendship broken over another friendship?
- Question: I feel bullied, offended and sad...?
- Question: Unwritten language in high school?
- Question: Should I stop being friends with her?
- Question: Secret ex is harassing me and about to be expelled because I told a friend, how do I tell my parents about it.?
- Question: How to help my friend with depression?
- Question: Do you agree that there's no such thing as friends, because people change?
- Question: Do my friends not like me?
- Question: My friend thinks surfing is easy?
- Question: I'm trying to be there for my friend who has "selective depression", but he makes me miserable...what should I do?
- Question: What should I do about this?
- Question: Why is my friend always against me?
- Question: How to say no? Help??
- Question: My friend wont talk to me because she thinks its "too awkward?" HELP?
- Question: I'm tired of people gossiping about me every day?
- Question: Need help with dares, anyone?
- Question: In major need of some advice (again) on a problem that is getting tiring to deal with.?
- Question: Do you find Lesbians more Friendlier then Straight women?
- Question: Dear introverts: is it wrong to not have the desire to be friends with everybody?
- Question: Where can I share my kik without posting it where there are fake people? is there any nice girl who would like to chat with a normal 21 guy?
- Question: No one in my class wants me in their group?
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| Question: Hey. I need help or rather my friend does.What should i do.? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:56 PM PDT I'm 19 years old. and a friend of mine who's a girl and was my classmate was in a relationship with guy who turned to be a very bad person and a liar. This guy cheated on her and is trash-talking my friend and says bad,false stuff and is hurting her dignity. we live in a protective society and her parents are strict. the girl tried to hurt herself and turned to me and says that she can't take it anymore. i know the guy and as she states that she's terrified of the idea of him keeping spreading these awful things until her family hears them and then very very bad things could happen. please help ... and Thanks in advance |
| Question: Snapchat: Adding through mutual friends? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:55 PM PDT I keep getting new friend requests on Snapchat and it says "Added through mutual friends"... How do you do this? |
| Question: I think I made the wrong friends? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:54 PM PDT I started at a new school this year, and the people I usually hang out with always make fun of me and treat me like I'm stupid. Ex: I found out that got into this physics summer course (I was not planning on telling them, they just looked over my shoulder at the letter) and they were laughing at me saying things like "I bet you don't know what physics is" and "How did you even get in" It just really pisses me off because they are not at all concerned with academics. They are in the lowest math class, and they make bad grades, yet they make fun of me for actually caring about my grades and stem extracurricular activities. I would have just found friends in my physics or math class, but they're all seniors and I'm only a sophomore. This school also doesn't have a math team or anything, so I have to do that kind of stuff on my own at home. So I basically rushed to make friends at the beginning of the year, and now I'm basically stuck with them because if I just stop talking to them then they will probably make my life miserable. |
| Question: Should I be mad at my friend? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:47 PM PDT A friend of mine & I are on spring break (I'm 18 & she's 17) & we decided to go on a road trip. I don't wanna say exactly where, but it's about a 5 hour drive. It started out good, but I made the mistake of assuming that it was just going to be the 2 of us, but she ended up inviting her boyfriend of like 2 weeks (WHO IS ONLY 15), & his older brother, who is 19. I don't mean to sound snobby, but these 2 guys were scumbags. The entire time I was driving they were smoking weed.. I usually don't have a problem with weed, but not while I'm driving & not with a 15 yr old! They would also make these sexual comments & talk about drugs & how their dad is in prison, & it was just very uncomfortable. Anyways, halfway to our destination I found out that the 2 guys only had $10 between the 2 of them & where we were going, they could not survive off of that much, & I sure as hell wasn't paying for them. So we ended up getting a hotel so we could turn around in the morning. Well, when she thought everyone was sleeping, my friend had sex with her boyfriend. Maybe it's not a big deal, but it annoys me because I told her that if they fooled around it would make me uncomfortable, & I also don't want to be in a room while a 15 year old is having sex! So we went back home the next day, & just now I looked at my snapchat story & my friend is on her way to the place we were going to with another friend, minus her creepy boyfriend & his brother, & it pisses off. Am I overreacting? |
| Question: Do you feel your friends protect you? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:38 PM PDT |
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| Question: Period on class trip? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:32 PM PDT So every year the 8th grade goes to DC. I know my period should come during the 3 day span we'll be there. We are taking a plane. Our day starts at 5:45 and ends around 9:00. Our teacher doesn't tell us who we are rooming with until we get there. I'm nervous about having it there because my bathroom habits get lets just say messed up. Plus we'll be walking about 15 miles each day!! And I don't really like to talk about those things with my friends. How should I get through this??? I'm also nervous because I don't want my friends to know! |
| Question: What should I do about my 300lb best friend? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:24 PM PDT I have a bestie that I love dearly. However, she weighs at least 300 pounds. She cannot sit in the passenger seat without a seat belt, or else my car will start making beeping sounds. So since it's illegal to ride w/o a seat belt, she is forced to sit in the back seat. Also, when she visited me at my apartment, she sort of dented my couch a little when she sat on it, used up almost 3 rolls of toilet tissue when she used the bathroom, and it takes her a long time to get ready to do things. I try to encourage and sometimes push her to exercise, but she is always reluctant and backs out. She always wants to hang out. What should I do? |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:15 PM PDT So they called me on phone today after school, and thretened to beat me up. I cant fight i never fought and im really scared :/ i cant get my mind off of this...i know that when ill see them my heart will jump out of my mouth and i will start shaking and they will see that im scared and will beat me up more :( What should i do? Please dont say that i should act not scared...i cant :/ |
| Question: Roomate and thermostat? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:14 PM PDT I freeze constantly and my room is hot all the time so we always have the air on I told her setting on 69 I can deal with but she moves it a lot lower and says she wakes up with hot sweats every morning. But she sleeps with her bedroom window open so that's why her room won't get cold. I feel like I shouldn't have to pay for her wanting to keep it so ridiculously cold in here and for her just leaving the window open. What do you think? |
| Question: Why wont my ex best friend talk to me? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:08 PM PDT Last summer she came down here to Texas for two weeks in the summer. She was born here but she moved to California in our fourth grade year. So anyways last summer (July 2015) we hung out a couple of times after I got back from camp. Then I ditched her and lied to her to hang out with my new friends from camp. Then she found out that she lied when she went to my house to give me a get well card (I faked being sick) and she confronted me for lying to her and my new best friends insulted her and was mean to her and I insulted her too and she was shocked that I told her a harsh cruel comment and she got mad at me and said, "Thanks for being a lousy friend!" tore up the card and stormed off. Then three days later I called her on the video chat and surprising she answered. She was very upset and I explained to her that I didn't wanna lose my new friends so I had to keep my image. She told me she was going to give me a charm braclet for being a great best friend. I apologized to her and I was really sorry. Then she said, "You don't have the brightest idea what you've done." She sounded pissed and then she said, "I actually thought we would be best friends forever. I hate you and I never wanna talk or see you again!" Then she hung up the phone on me. I tried calling her back but she didn't answer. My mom said it's my own fault for lying and ditching my ex bestie and I lost her unless we can work things out. We've been best friends since we were four. I want my friend back. |
| Question: My sister is hanging out with my best friend? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 04:04 PM PDT Me and my sister share best friends. The problem is, is the fact that she's with my best friend and I'm not. I don't get to see my friend often and she's staying in a big city for a dance show. My sister, dances there also so she's going to have a sleepover with her and my best friends'dance friends. I'm really pissed rn, what do I do? I'm not ok with this. |
| Question: I'm really mad at my friend? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 03:50 PM PDT How do I show my friend I'm mad at her, or what do I do? So, my sister and me share a best friend. My sister does dance everyday and my friends are in the city she dances in. Not me, I'm at home. They (my sister and my BFF and my best friends' dance friends) are all hanging out together and having a sleepover. I feel really empty and left out. The reason I couldn't go is because my sister goes on a train and stuff and it wouldn't be easier for me to get there. But still, it upsets me because I'm missing a day with my BEST FRIEND, that I can't see any other time of year. I haven't seen her for a year, and my sister gets a sleepover. While I get 2 half days barely nothing with her. What do I do? I'm really upset and I'm pissed that this is happening. |
| Question: Friendship broken over another friendship? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 03:27 PM PDT So last year I was a really shy kid and when I got into a group with this really spunky and popular girl got me to actually talk we became sorta friends like a casual exchange of a few words every once in a while (she was actually my crush for a long time after that) and this year her best friend and her broke up and her best friend joined our squad and I actually like them both equally and when I tried to play around with the girl from last year she said stop in a really serious voice. What do I do in this situation? I love having her friend in my squad but now she doesn t like me. |
| Question: I feel bullied, offended and sad...? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 03:12 PM PDT I feel everyday of my life that my confidence is shattered into pieces by some immature annoying younger friends i had a couple of years ago and by many other girls that attended at their school too. Nowadays we dont hang out with each other because i had left them and removed them from facebook 2 years ago. Anyway!! about 2 years ago and further back, i used to hang out with 4 friends who would always joke about other people, including me, they always said stuff like, "you literally suck and we are so much better than you" or "i know most girls would find us way more attractive compared to you if we were to ask 50 different girls" and their way of always comparing themselves with me. They were typical sporty, gymming and out in the beach boys that would also say women discriminating jokes all the time too. They were people that had made my confidence go away and nowadays i feel angry, hateful, sad, scared and i really need tips and help from people!!!! please help |
| Question: Unwritten language in high school? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 02:57 PM PDT Ok so I have noticed that in high school no matter what friends you have any friend group, if you have a lot of followers on twitter, lots of likes , lots if followerson twitter everyone treats you the same. I have 55 followers on twitter why some of my friends have 500 or 600. It's because I used to be shy and awkward and I do NOT follow a lot of people. I only follow people I'm friends with or want to be friends with. I get at most so far 18 likes on instagram. (I have 42 followers and follow 39 people all my fiends like my photos and even people who I don't know as well be are friends with my friends who I still know. Everyone in my classes doesn't treat me the same as they would treat my friends. If I try to talk to them they give shorter replies where as with all the people who get tons of likes and followers they smile and have conversations (EVEN IF THEY DON'T KNOW THEM) they don't even give me a chance to get to know me. Two of my close friends are very popular and my guy friend is really popular but not many people know I'm friends with him (why do they need to know /: and the thing is it's not like I'm shy or anything I'm super nice, confident and tons of people have told my I'm very pretty. I hardly wear any makeup and I feel confident not wearing even mascara sometimes because I know it looks good. I wear normal clothes even some expensive brands. My friends always say I'm the nicest person they have met and am fun to be around but others don't see it. |
| Question: Should I stop being friends with her? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 02:45 PM PDT 1. She orders me and her only other friend around. 2. everyone else has given up on her except me and her other friend. 3. she is always starting **** EX: today when I was walking she jumped on my back and fell then accused me of hurting her ankle and told the teache on me. ( thankfully the teacher thought that she shouldn't of been on my back anyways) the principal also thinks shes a jerk |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2016 02:29 PM PDT Parents don t know, he will most likely be expelled if I don t do anything, his friends are telling me the past is in the past and I should just let it go. They re also telling me I shouldn t make it the schools job |
| Question: How to help my friend with depression? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 02:26 PM PDT My bestfriend has been depressed for a while now and it's starting to get worse.... She's cutting herself she's watching depressing videos... Crying... And she doesn't know why.. I'm trying my best to comfort her and make her laugh and everything but nothing is working😕 What do I do? |
| Question: Do you agree that there's no such thing as friends, because people change? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:54 PM PDT Every "best friend" that I've had had some how turned out to be fake. I'll find out that they are talking behind my back or they just aren't good friends. I've been bullied by 2 of my previous best friends and back stabbed by other 2, the last one really hurt because I thought I finally found a real friend but I didn't, I've cried so many times because I feel alone and I feel like there's something wrong with me. I feel like I can't trust anyone or be myself with anyone anymore. I think it's true that friends don't exist because everyone always changes. |
| Question: Do my friends not like me? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:47 PM PDT My friends have acted kind of mean to me within the past year. My friends circle is three people, including me. For example, they'll like call me a loser, and even though it's in a joking way, they tell me mean stuff like that all the time. And recently they'll do this thing where they both start to walk really fast away from me and start untying my shoes and bullying me basically, and they'll laugh and I know they're joking around, but again, they do it constantly, and they only target me, not anyone else in our circle. What's bothersome to me is that earlier 2016 I was in the ER for suicidal stuff, and they know that. They also know that I've been dealing with anxiety and depression so I don't get why they'd be insensitive. I don't have any other friends that I can be around for the time being so I'm not sure what to do. I've almost cried several times today because of this. I feel like if I let them know how much it hurts me, they'll take it as sarcasm, as I'm a sarcastic person. |
| Question: My friend thinks surfing is easy? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:45 PM PDT My friend (who can hardly swim) likes to talk about how surfing is easy. She's done it before in the past (surfing that is) with a surf camp but it was with big *** foam boards and pretty much just surfed white wash. She would complain about things like "why cant two people be on the wave" or "then she got angry because my board bumped hers" and common surf etiquette and it's so annoying how ignorant she is. She says its easy but she has asked me in the past if 1ft is big for a wave and she doesn't know anything about the differences in boards, the different maneuvers, how the wind and the ocean floor affect it and pretty much she only knows like the basics that a person in the middle of the country would know about surfing. Her ignorance is annoying and she hasn't surfed in years. Whenever i do correct her on something on it there the awkward tension. Do u think I should continue to defend it to get her to shut up about it (which she does after I correct her). Or should I just not say anything when she does comment. (btw she doesn't talk about it that much but just enough to be very irritating. |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:42 PM PDT I have a friend who claims to have depression. I know it sounds awful that I am sceptical, but his depression seems to be selective, and it make me think that he's only depressed when it suits him, such as when he fails an exam etc. He's very passive aggressive, I'm one of his only close female friends and he calls me an ignorant c*nt, b*tch, whatever goes, on a daily basis. He says it's his way of showing that he cares about me, and in the beginning I could deal with it but now I'm not so sure. He's also very intelligent, and tends to bring up controversial topics such as racism, rape etc, as "friendly debate" but really it's only to start an argument. I have been sexually assaulted before, so rape is a tender subject (obviously), and when I retaliate and fight back it usually turns nasty...but this inspires depression in him, and I'm the bad guy, even though I'm the one that takes the full force of his passive aggression. I really don't know how much more I can take. I've always been there for him, and I've lost count of the number of nights I've stayed up talking on the phone when he threatens to commit suicide. I don't want to turn my back on him, and I've tried addressing the issue calmly with him before but it just turns into a fight. What do I do? It's really taking its toll on me. |
| Question: What should I do about this? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:36 PM PDT I have an issue that I'm not sure how to solve. I dance. My studio also has a competition team called Company, but I'm not on it. My best friend (we'll call her Mia) is in Company. Mia told me a long time ago that most of the other Company girls talk badly about me behind my back. They say I'm weird, a bad dancer, etc. I've never even spoken to most of them, so they barely know me. I've never done anything even remotely wrong to any one of them. They can't be jealous of me because they're way better dancers. Mia told me yesterday that they keep talking about me and every time I walk out of the studio, they roll their eyes or make a face like "I'm glad she's gone". Today Mia told me that a girl, (I'll call her Alex) that I thought was my friend, is also talking about me behind my back. I feel really hurt by this. Alex was supposed to be my friend. Mia asked me to not confront any of them about it because they'll be mad at her for telling. So I promised her I wouldn't tell anyone that I knew. I know Mia isn't just making it up because I've actually heard these girls talking about me from behind a door at the studio. These girls, especially Alex, are always nice to me to my face. What should I do? I am going to dance tonight and I'll see them there. If I confront them then Mia will be mad. Should I say something anyway? And if not, how should I act around them? Should I act like I don't know? |
| Question: Why is my friend always against me? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:34 PM PDT So ive known this person for around a good 8-10 years. we both are around 21 yrs old. So the problem is we have been through alot, i used to think he was my best buddy but in the last 3-4 years he has been really weird . He always tries to one up me, he always tried to make me look bad infront of others. He never supports me in anything , infact if i am in a argument with someone, he will always try to go against me . in every small and big thing. He is just always against me. I feel like he is jealous of me. there are some things in which i have been very fortunate. and he is not, i wont discuss what things they are but just in general. i have always thought of him as my brother but now i am coming to a conclusion that i should just end this friendship as it is doing more bad then good. The sad part is i have done alot for him, more than any of his friends. I have been there through his toughest times. when there used to be no one for him, i used to be there for him. any time any where. but still he behaves in a very rude and weird way. i dont know what to think of it. |
| Question: How to say no? Help?? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:34 PM PDT Before I begin,, please excuse my grammar. I'm a 15 y.o girl from another country. Alright, so, I have a really bad background I don't want to describe, but I basically used to say yes all the time till it became too much and then started saying no to everyone, making up stupid excuses. Now i've got some new friends i absolutely love, but i cannot say no even if my life depended on it. I'd do so much for them and NEVER expect/ask for something in return. Ex: I just recently said no to a friend because he wanted to borrow something dear of mine, and I haven't been able to sleep all night because i feel so damn guilty. I kept apologizing yet he looked so disappointed in me. Sometimes i just want to cry because I feel like i've let them down. (Yes, i'm seeing a therapist.) Everyone says i'm too nice, which is probably true, I just can't help it. I have so much sympathy it hurts. How do I get over this?? I know that if i start saying no i'll probably end up isolating myself again. Help, please. |
| Question: My friend wont talk to me because she thinks its "too awkward?" HELP? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:34 PM PDT My friend won't talk to me, she's been my friend for a while, pretty much my best friend, I love her, and I care about her. Tuesday she lied to me and I got mad with her, but then I said I was sorry, and asked her to forgive me, But ever since tuesday, she just won't talk to me, I've sent her lots of messages (well spaced out, but still) and she will read, but won't reply, she told my friend she wont talk to me because it's "too awkward". Please help |
| Question: I'm tired of people gossiping about me every day? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:20 PM PDT This girl that's my own friend was gossiping about me to my friend, and my friend told me so I told the girl to stop gossiping. Next thing that girl blocks me on Instagram and so does her friend too. I DONT EVEN KNOW HER FRIEND THOUGH. Today she was talking sh** about me again and showed her friend my Instagram and told her OTHER friend to block me as well. This friend of hers that she told to block me talks to me once in awhile. Why are people so fake? I'm told that I should be a model and stuff so it hurts that people treat me like I'm some kind of weird creature. I have about only 2 friends because of this. People always gossip about me when I'm just a shy normal girl. I have nowhere else to go to find advice. |
| Question: Need help with dares, anyone? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 01:08 PM PDT My friend lost a bet and now I need ideas to dare him. Can really be anything. Will post results with reddit link. |
| Question: In major need of some advice (again) on a problem that is getting tiring to deal with.? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 12:55 PM PDT A while ago I posted about how I had a friend come to visit and things went bad. Long story short: she said rude things about my personal life, got mad at my mom for not driving us places, and acted like she did nothing wrong. Now she has taken to almost all social media to put us on blast. I know I bring it upon myself to look, but, I am curious. I know she has been calling me bitches and saying **** you to me. When I always did things for her-buy her gifts and etc. and now she is probably lying about what truly went down at my house. She has taken to youtube to vlog about my wrong doing and saying mean things. I can't take this any longer, especially knowing that I did not do this girl wrong...EVER. I kept no secrets or anything (like she says) and from a mutual friend, she told her that I did keep secrets when I didn't. I am just fed up with being called out for being the one whose family got disrespected in their own home and of course I did misinterpret the whole transportation thing, which was wrong on my part. But why can I not be friends with who I want to? according to her, the timing was crappy to befriend someone who was not even a bad person to begin with. I just do not know. |
| Question: Do you find Lesbians more Friendlier then Straight women? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 12:44 PM PDT |
| Question: Dear introverts: is it wrong to not have the desire to be friends with everybody? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 12:35 PM PDT I'm a junior in highschool, and I simply dont have the desire to make friends with everyone around me, of course I'm polite, but outside of one close friend I seldom communicate beyond head nods, shrugs, and smiles. I'm just very content with my one friend. |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2016 12:27 PM PDT I'm a nice guy (not a a pervert) and I am looking for new female friends who are at least 18. You could leave your kik Thanks |
| Question: No one in my class wants me in their group? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 12:14 PM PDT I have a very big project coming up for advanced literature and absolutely no one wants me to be in their group. I ways try to be nice to everyone, I always share and my classmates call me their "friend" but I feel so alone in my class, no one ever talks to me unless they want something from me and if I ever do say one word to someone they tell me to shut up or tell me I'm annoying. People only like to be grouped with me in classes I'm very good at, like math, English, biology, etc. I have to humiliate myself and listen to music while holding back my tears during these classes, I'm going to get a zero on the project and I have no choice about it. I always see people with their friends, while I'm always alone. |
| Question: I hate my best friend? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 12:11 PM PDT I've been friends with this girl for almost a year, we don't really click in any way. We're into some of the same things but it's not fun to be around her. I rarely laugh and there's lots of awkward silences. The only reason i stay her friend is because she's my only friend. If i leave her i will have no one to hang out with. I don't know how to hang out with new people because it's the end of the school year and no one is looking for new friends right now. She also starts to get on my nerves very frequently and i start to like to see her fail. I know this is bad but what do i do? |
| Question: Parents found alcohol but I didn t buy it? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:43 AM PDT I turn 18 in a week (I live in Ireland) and I had my party a little early because I am busy for the next few months. My friend got me three small bottles of vodka for my 18th as a joke because I never drink. I laughed it off and I gave one to my friend to have some, she gave me back the bag and I put it with my other gifts. My parents found it today and are really, really mad. They re not overly strict but they are absolutely raging over this. They don t believe what I am saying, which is really annoying me. They tell me to just tell the truth but I am? Should I lie and say it was me, to make them less angry? What should I do? |
| Question: How to make friends? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:42 AM PDT Ever since I began high school I have had trouble building up friendships. I am being told to be myself in order to make friends. But the thing is that every time I am myself, people usually lose interest in me because I don't "fit in" and i am not cool. I am also very introverted which makes it harder. I am not good at keeping a conversation going. I never get invited to partys and so on. I try to be kind and nice but it still doesn't work. I dont know what to do. |
| Question: How to make my parents understand that its ok to have older friends of opposite gender? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:40 AM PDT So I'm friend with a hot 18 year old girl, I am 13 myself. She is super cool and allways nice, a few days ago she even bought me the new Starfox game! We are very good friends and I like her a lot, and have even been in her appartment twice. And she had invited me to a party to meet other friends of hers but somehow my parents found out about her and now dad goes "I forbidd you to see her!" And a lot about how he thinks she is bad influence blah blah blah -.- How to I make my parents understand she is a very good person? C'mon, no bad person would buy me Starfox, and she is very attractive too! |
| Question: Should I tell my mom about this? Moms and others, would she want to know? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:40 AM PDT My high school only had classes for a half day so my good friend Ann invited me to join her and her dad for lunch. I said yes. I though we might go to Mc Donalds or maybe Sizzler. Was I surprised when we went to Ruth Chris. That is the most expensive restaurant I had ever been in. That was not my only surprise. Ann's dad was a great and I mean a GREAT looking guy. Her dad said I look familiar to him and he ask me if we had met. I told him no. I would sure remember if I had ever met him. He said perhaps it is your mother I have met. What is her name? When I told him, he said he don't know anyone by that name. What was her maiden name? When I told him he had a big smile on his face. He said "I went to high school with your mom". She was the most beautiful girl in high school. Tell her Joe Jones (not his real name) says hello. What is she doing now? Thinking it might be fun to tell mom I had a dinner date with an old boyfriend of hers, I asked him if he ever dated my mom in high school. He smiled and said no, I asked her for a date a few times and she turned me down every time. My first thought was to tell mom about this lunch when I got home. After giving it more thought, I am not sure she would want to hear about it. Moms, please give me some advice on what I should do. Would you want to hear about my lunch date? |
| Question: Am I doing something wrong here? YOUR OPINION PLEASE? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:36 AM PDT I go to high school 4 blocks from where my mom works. Sometimes after school I walk to where she works, find an empty desk and do my home work and then ride home with her. Several of her male co workers introduced themselves to me and told me if I needed help with my homework, to ask them. Sometimes I did just that. They were ALWAYS helpful and nice and I become friends with many of them. Even mom's boss told me if I needed help with my homework, he was available to help me. One of the female workers told me the guys did not really want to help me. She said the only reason they talked to me was because it was a boost to their ego to have a beautiful teenage girl talk to them. None of them EVER hit on me or suggested ANYTHING like that. Some of the guys had children my age. I have NO ROMANTIC INTEREST in any of them and I don't think they have any interest in me. They NEVER flirted with me. I though they were just nice friendly people. Am I doing something wrong letting these guys help me with my homework? Should I stop doing that? |
| Question: Does this occur in the workplace? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:34 AM PDT A new employee, Joan was transferred into my department. To say that she was beautiful is an understatement. She is gorgeous. Being a single guy I know what single guys were going to do so I had a meeting of all employees and told them that I had a moral and legal obligation to prevent any sexual harassment in the work place. Anyone that created a hostile work place for Joan would be history. I told them she was here to do a job and not to be hit on. They knew I meant it. Joan told me she did not want to cause anyone any trouble. She just wanted to do her job. I told her that was exactly what I wanted her to do and if she felt any harassment in the work place to report it to me. She has worked here for several months and has been an excellent employee. She told me this is the first place she has ever worked and no one hit on her and she really appreciated it. Gals, is a employees hitting on you something that happens often? |
| Question: People that text first but don't text back who else hates this? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:33 AM PDT |
| Question: Why did our classmates react like that? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:29 AM PDT The girls in my class at school had an assignment to bake cookies for the guys. We did and the guys said they really tasted good. We told them there was a secret ingredient in the cookies. They wanted to know what it was. We told them each cookie contained a double dose of Viagra. Much to our surprise after we told them that, half the guys had to be excused from class for "personal reasons". Any guess what those personal reasons could be? The REAL SECRET was there was no Viagra in the cookies. There is no way us girls could get enough Viagra for 24 cookies. So why did the guys react like that? Could it be that teenage guys are horny all the time? |
| Question: Advice? I feel terrible? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 11:04 AM PDT Me ally and susan are good friends. Susan then tells me that susan is fake and continued to say more stuff. I then told ally that susan is talking bad behind her back. Susan finds out and says that I'm an untrusted backstabber and I feel like a terrible person |
| Question: What songs talks about friendship? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 10:59 AM PDT |
| Question: Did I do the wrong thing? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 10:43 AM PDT Me Lori and Anne are friends. Anne then tells me about how lori is a fake and told me her secrets. I say mean things about lori but i told her that said mean things behind her back. I told lori about how I started to not like her because of what Anne told me and in detail of what I have said. Lori forgave me and we are still friends. THIS IS THE MAIN PROBLEM: Anne found out (I told her) about me telling lori everything (which was about how I started to not like her because of what Anne told me and the details of what I said). Anne gets upset because she feels back stabbed because I told lori about anne going behind her back |
| Question: IM JEALOUS OF MY MOMS SEX LIFE? I HAVE NO SEX LIFE AND SHE ALWAYS BRAGGING ABOUT HERS? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 10:40 AM PDT MY MOM ITS 50, IM 25 AND SINCE IVE BECAME A MOM, I HAVE NO SEX LIFE, ALL TH PREGNANCY EITHER, MY BABY ITS 1 YR OLD. SO ITS BEEN ABOUT 2 YRS I THINK. AND I DONT GO OUT, DONT HAVE FRIENDS, ALL I DO ITS WORK AND TAKE CARE OF BABY AND THE HOUSE, ITS REALLY FRUSTRATING, MY MOM ITS HOT FOR HER AGE, I REALLY DONT CARE ABOUT THAT, WHAT BOTHERS ME ITS THAT SHE BRAGS ABOUT IT, KNOWING HOW LONELY I AM. ONCE I TOLD HER ,OMG I HAVENT HAD SEX IN LIKE FOREVER. AND SHE SAID, HAHA I CAN HAVE SEX WITH WHOEVER I WANT AND WHENEVER I WANT. SHE IS MARRIED, BUT HE IS NOT HERE. AND SHE CHEATS ALOT. SHE IS 50 BUT SHE GETS WITH BOYS. 20 SOMETHING, AND WHATEVER ITS HER LIFE BUT OF COURSE SHE BRAGS ABOUT IT. I KNOW THAT I CAN HAVE WHOEVER I WANTED IF I DECIDED TO FLIRT AND TALK TO PEOPLE. BUT I DONT WANT TO JUST GIVE MYSELF LIKE THAT.. WHENEVER IVE FELT LIKE IT, AND TALKED TO MY MOM ABOUT IT, HOW SHE DOES IT AND BLAH BLAH (DESPERATION OF NOT HAVING SEX) SHE SAYS I SHOULDNT BC I MIGHT GET PREGNANT AGAIN. AND SHE WONT LET ME GO OUT WITH PEOPLE IVE JUST MET EITHER, WHENEVER I CANT TAKE IT NOMORE AND WANT A ONE NIGHT STAND, I CANT, SHE SCARES ME SAYING IM GONNA GET PREGNANT, THEY WILL KILL ME, AND BLAH BLAH, SO I JUST DONT DO ANYTHING. AND IT SUCKS, IM SO SEXUALLY STARVED. PLEASE HELP. WHAT SHOULD I DO? AND I DONT WANT MY MOM BRAGGING ABOUT HER ENCOUNTERS WITH ALL THIS MEN ALL THE TIME... |
| Question: What to do at a sleepover? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 10:40 AM PDT I'm sleeping over my best friend, Olivia's, house this Saturday and I want to do something other than use our phones. We usually just play on our phones the whole time but that is sort of boring. And now that I go to a different school, we never see one and other anymore. What are good sleepover games and stuff? :) We are 13 btw. |
| Question: My bestfriend barely comes to school!? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 09:35 AM PDT Shes a senior like me and i know her parents to but she barely goes to school shes not graduation this year and she doesn't seen to care im worried for her.Her dad lets her stay home whenever she wants if she doesn't feel like going i don't know what to do she always wants to get a job but has bad grades. |
| Question: Could I get a guy to do this for my birthday? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 09:13 AM PDT I will be turning 20. All I want is for a guy to do this on my back, like in the video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nit7LsOXgHg |
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| Question: How can I survive in this county? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 09:00 AM PDT I am living in this area and ulterior motives run rampant, and everyone is a friendamie, and if somebody around here thinks it would benefit them or would better them they would do something rotten to their best friend, They don't seem to care about their actions towards other people, Everybody from young to middle age tries to maintain an image of 'coolness' and tries to have a sense of coolness around everybody, Bullying is very common out here, and every girl and guy seems to draw drama. How can I survive? |
| Question: How to tell someone they smell bad politely? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 08:50 AM PDT My friend is super sweet but has a serious b.o. problem. She is sensitive and I want to tell her but don't want to hurt her feelings. And I understand that everyone has their bad days but this is like every day and me and the others in our friend group have noticed it. We don't want other people to hurt her feelings. We've tried getting her perfumes or spraying her to "test the scent" but the b.o. is overpowering it. What do we do!?!? |
| Question: I'm experiencing bullying in TAFE. Should I take it seriously? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 08:44 AM PDT While I was continuing my recent course in community services, I was made to do another course combined in general education for adults. In the new course, I always kept to myself because it felt like a safe place to focus my studies and avoid from trouble. During after two weeks, this lady around her 50's kept giving me dirty looks in order to make me feel uncomfortable and a inferior. I felt like it was because I am 17. Again it wouldn't be that reason because she seemed to get along with a 16 year old male. I gotten sick of her giving me nasty looks on purpose especially when my purpose is to study. At times I would left the class if it would get too much. The coordinator and counsellor found out I kept leaving class and I didn't want to tell them the real reason why. I simply kept telling them that I am socially anxious, that people stare at me for no reason and that I feel like I should leave but they told me I cannot leave because of improving my basic needs I had failed at school during grade 10. During my days of coming back to class regularly, I spent my class in the IT for study reasons. If I walked in the room, she would abruptly stop talking including other people in the group. I finally brought that up during a conversation with a friend of mine and I'm starting to think this is not ok what she is doing. What should I do? I dont want to start any trouble |
| Question: Did any particular insult bother you in high school? Was it true? Does it matter? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 08:39 AM PDT At my high school graduation, some kid said I had no heart, that I was a robot and I would never make it anywhere in life. I was real mad about that at the time - not because it was true but because people ate up what he said me. It was probably the 3rd or 4th time he had said something like that. 6 years have passed and I'm driving a Chrysler 300, living in my own place and making good money bricklaying. He hasn't amounted to jackshit. He bounced around 3 colleges and then went nowhere. You hear things from people back in the day about how life is now and where everybody went. |
| Question: I called her my best friend? Help? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 08:23 AM PDT I like her more than a best friend but I call her best friend because I get along with her so much. I decided to put her hair around her ear, touch her hand, play arm wrestle and rub against her legs. I feel like I made a mistake for calling her best friend. I also asked her to hangout. Do you think she gets the message I don't just like her as a friend? I feel like I should tell her. |
| Question: Not sure if this guy is just being friendly or something else? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 08:16 AM PDT there's this guy that i've been talking to a lot recently and i don't like him in that sense mostly because he's about 7 years older than me (i'm 20 and he's 27) and he has a girlfriend that he's been with for almost two years. he's told me i'm cute multiple times and attractive. there was also this one morning where i saw him and he was like "hey pretty girl!" and there was another time where we were talking and i was smiling at him and he was like you're way too cute, and idk why i said that cause i'm sure my girlfriend wouldn't be to happy about that. he's a really nice guy and i don't see him having bad intentions i'm just not sure if he's being friendly or maybe he might like me? |
| Question: How can I make up with my boss or with what gift ?10 point.? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 08:05 AM PDT Well my boss told to participate in two school trip. I participated in only one school trip. I miss the second trip because I got sick. My boss is mad at because I left her down.,how can I make up her. Hint: I am my boss assitent The new one. Please answer this question as soon and fast as possible. |
| Question: Why dose this happen? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 07:58 AM PDT Whenever I think about suicide and the stuff that follows I make a plan then abandon it every other day I think I'm worthless I don't deserve what I got. But anyway I looked up the best way of it to make a ice bath and cut my wrists and bled out the ice so they can donate my organs. I was looking how much a heart would be to sell. But after all this I feel happy or relived I don't know why I feel estactic.why do I feel this way? |
| Question: How should I react to my friend who is becoming girly? Posted: 28 Apr 2016 07:53 AM PDT We used to hang out a lot, but we kinda stopped staying in touch because of our schedules. Then she started getting girly and now hangs out more with the popular girls in our circle of friends. I've heard some of my friends saying how they don't like my friend anymore because of how she changed. I don't how I should react to this. I still want to remain friends, but I find it a little awkward around her. I know I should accept her changes and be happy that she's happy with how things are with her, but I feel like I can't keep up with her pace. |
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