This is really stupid. If a woman wants to go for higher studies, she herself should make the efforts to get the fundings in place and NOT rely on her husband to do it for her.

Long story short , I hit on a man who always stated at me at work. he told me he was married . a week later he pulled me aside and basically told me his whole life story. including how his wife had cheated on him several times.. he told me we were just conversing but then proceeded to ask me about me and tell me more personal details about his life ... I told him I wanted to be friends and he said that was a.bit uncomfortable for him. he said he's done with her but doesn't want to get involved with me because he would not treat me how I deserve to be treated being he would be rebounding from a marriage..... what do I do? I felt such a connection when he opened up to me...: do you think he really wants nothing from me after all? and is it ok to tell him I want to be friends and give him my number to call if anything changes ? HELP

my husband has become increasingly emotionally and maybe near to physically abusive since the birth of our child (2). he thinks he's a rock star and spends months at a time touring, but brings in less than min wage. i'm a sahm and the only way we're getting by is that we live in a house owned by and next door to his mother. i'm completely isolated in a strange state where i don't know anyone but his mother, who is horrible to me. if i ever say anything about the way she treats me, he blows up and threatens to divorce me and make sure my child is taken away. it scares me because he has the unlimited bank of mommy next door and i could only afford a pro bono atty. i desperately want to take my son back to my home state where i have family support, but i know i would need permission from a judge, and his brother is an attorney here as well. it's a small town good ol boy network type thing. but i don't have any support at all in this state.

Ok me and my wife have been married For 6 months. We have been together almost 3 years. We both don t have any children and never been married before. We were perfect for each other planning to leave the middle of nowhere and start our lives in a better place. I was a police officer making 13.00 hour. Well our plan was to move to the state to the south that pays police better. Well I got a job before I got married. Just before the wedding she just stopped working because everything got too stressful that s when the problems started. I was driving a hour and a half to and from work daily. My new job as a jailer only pays 16.00 a hour now. Finally find a place to live that I can afford on my own income for the both of us and she does not want to move. She does not like it because it s upstairs apartment and 1 bedroom. I keep telling her she needs to get a job to help whit that so at this point I work 2 jobs and my wife stays at our house 200 miles away. She is unemployed and I have to drive to see her on my days off. I don t know what to do at this point

I am 25. I have 3 amazing kids! I have been with my husband since I was 16 years old. My one and only. We had our first daughter early in life I was 18. He is controlling, manipulating, and worst of all jealous! I feel bad for my kids. They deserve to go out and explore the world and see new things and enjoy what life has to offer. I love him but deep inside I feel I would be fine without him. He doesn t help me with the kids.. He works a lot so thats understandable.. He s tired. I m a stay at home mom haven t worked since I was 16. I have been struggling with depression anxiety and sleep problems. And I m sick of fighting because of the jealousy. He always wants me to be home and I hate it!! I m so not a home body I like to do new things and have a good time. He s so opposite. What do u think I should do??

My girlfriends ex husband and baby's daddy wants to fight me and I would love nothing more than to beat his *** for all the drama he tries to cause but I don't want to put her or her child in the middle of it. How should I handle this?

i feel numb. i feel annoyed by anybody and even my familt's oresence. just being near my family if they talk to me i give an attitude and annoyed and i just usually sit in my room all day. sleepig mostly. nothing seems fun nothing makes me happy playing bideo games is boring i dont even have the desire to go to work or take a shower or get up! im a girl and 17 too, and when i go shopping and buy all the things ive been wanting its like right after im not happy anymore and un satisfied...

Is it uncommon for two people to get married for protection, so to speak, to get through life i.e companionship, friendship, money, to have someone help cook, clean, share responsibilities one would have to do on ones own etc.. ? is it wrong to do so?

My husband and I recently got married and I planned to have a beautiful honeymoon in the Maldives with the love of my life. We couldn't go to the Maldives, but we just got a new home so we decided to spend time at home for the first night ever ALONE. That got snatched away from me too because his disgusting brother is lazy and wouldn't leave the home(he lives with us). Finally he left but by that time it was 10pm and our night was ruined! He then came back the very next morning and my husband got so frustrated he decided to go to work that day! So I spent MY honeymoon the next day after, JUST getting married for the very first time, home alone with his nasty brother who doesn't bathe, brush his teeth or do anything! I'm so angry at the fact my dreams got snatched from me but my husband promised he will make it up to me one day and I'm okay with that. I don't need extravagant, I just need the love of my life whatever we do. I'm angry because I have this hatred towards his brother that I've never felt towards anyone before. My husband and I haven't had one night alone without him for 5months(the night since we got married)but even before then he never left. BTW his brother is 27,and has never had a job longer than 1week. But for the last 4years, he hasn't worked once! We even got him numerous jobs which he would never show up to because he was "too tired." TOO TIRED FOR WHAT!!? YOU'VE SLEPT AND ATE ALL DAMN DAY FOR FREE FOR YEARS! I'm at my wits end! HELLPPPPPPPPP!

He has like everything, last gifts I've got him were Kings tickets, new more pricey and fancy wedding band, kings signed Jersey , Disney land tickets I'm just stuck ???? Help

from my experience in dating, it does create an initial connection and it feels very intense, but then without common interests, it just sort of fizzles out. just wondering if any married people have found that this is not that important in long term relationships? can someone define what exactly intellect and intellectual compatibility is?

Firstly I got married very young (19 years old) to an older guy (25 at the time). We've been married for two years and I know it hasn't been long, but so far it's been a great marriage. I just got into nursing school a little while ago. I'm super excited because I've always wanted to be a nurse, but I also know how difficult it is. It can take huge amounts of time. I wanted to ask how can I balance the relationship I have with my husband (very important) with nursing school (also very important). Firstly, I know I'll probably have to shift a lot more attention towards nursing school during this time. My husband knows that too and is supportive of it. However, I don't want to not have a relationship with my husband. My question is how do I best balance the two parts of my life? If it's in question I do currently take birth control. My husband and I decided we don't want to have kids until I've finished my masters's degree. I'm not asking people to comment on the age I was married. I know I was married young, but it's worked out great. My husband and I still have a great relationship 2 years latter. I don't regret it one bit. That's also not what the question is about

Okay so my husband and I were at the store yesterday and I seen a hickey on his neck, which I knew was from me.. so I told him that he had a hickey. Not implying it was from anybody else because I knew I gave it to him, and he flipped out and said "you re lying, I don t believe you. ""It couldn t of came from anyone else but you" I just let it go. I told him it sounded a little strange and he denied he would ever do anything like that.. am I over reacting or does it sound a little strange that he would say "I m lying and I don t believe you" and to top it off he checked his neck to make sure???

I noticed my husband never let s me out the house without him. He was leaving for work today and our toddler was crying to go with him so I thought I ll stand with her at the door to see him out. He said i should just look through the window instead but she was crying so I just went by the door. he was still watching me and said I should get in but I could barely hear what he was saying for her crying so I was still at the door. Then he yelled out GET INSIDE I was actually scared so I got back inside. he does the same when I walk passed the window, it is almost as if he doesn t want anyone to see me? Once I had made a doctors appointment for myself and I had told him that I would get there myself because it was really early in the morning and I didn t want to wake him. The next morning he was awake before me and he was also ready to take me. Is he scared and why does he do this? I ve asked him but he denies it.

He hates not being invited to ANYTHING. He is jealous and plays the guilt card on me. I need to spend time with my daughters alone but am dreading this conversation. I am afraid it will be bad. How should I approach this?

Our wedding anniversary is in November but due to our work we are thinking of celebrating the occasion on the date we met. Has anyone else had to do this ?

Would you marry a hot foreign but who doesnt speak English? How would you communicate together?

My husband is having an affair for the past year. He was not there for me when I had a tumour removed nor at Christmas, instead he was with his mistress. He even laughed down the phone "there are no women with me here. Should I leave him?

I am very unhappy in my current situation. I think about killing myself everyday. I need to get out of here but I have no money. I cannot get a job at the moment as I cannot afford daycare. My husband controls all the money. I don't know what to do or where to start. Help?

Don t get me wrong, I love the dog. He s "high-energy," but loves to cuddle so much that he immediately calms down and snuggles in with my husband and I when we sit or lay down to watch tv or a movie. And when we go to bed. Every. Night. And not at the foot of the bed, but right up against my husband (I can t sleep with the dog laying on me). If the dog had his way, he d be right in the middle of us all the time, and my husband would be totally fine with that. He finds it adorable. I m miserable. Our sex wasn t all that frequent before we got the dog, but it is completely absent from our relationship now. The few times we ve had the opportunity to, it wasn t fun and spontaneous, it was me having to instruct him to put the dog in the other room and close the door... Where he proceeds to whine and destroy the carpet until we let him out. I joke with him that it s "his dog" and that I don t even like him. I do like the dog, I love the dog, but honestly I resent the damn thing. I constantly allude to the fact that I don t want the dog to sleep with us ("the blankets smell like dog" "stop letting him on the sheets" "get him OFF my pillow, I put my face there" "I can t sleep with him laying on me" "the two of you take up most of the bed") but my husband shrugs it off like I m being high-maintenance or something. I feel like demanding that the dog be closed in the other room will make my husband resent me, but I m at my wits end. Ideas?

I have generally learnt to not discuss personal issues whether regarding work,friends and emotions. Yes this sounds bad but reason being is he shuts down. I will look to him for advice I mean I've already told him I've been told this is not adequate. So I'm generally voicing my anger at ones who have said it..... I'm not a lazy person I've been through a lot in past year lost our baby then 2 months later my mum. Ended up on antidepressants. My question is am I being unreasonable in asking him to support me especially when I've already said I feel emotional unsupported why. I don't like to share my thoughts with him because his response always to me a dig.... is it wrong to ask yer you can think it...... but by saying yer I agree with etc answer saying it am I being unreasonable to ask him to just know me and reassure me instead of having a go

My husband and I do not share the same money views. I am in my Masters degree program and graduate in November. I plan to become a cpa and make at least 70k. I have lots of student loan debt and other debt, but with my experience and degree, plan to make more money. Husband has no formal education except high school, works in construction, makes 40k and basically that is his salary for life. He doesn't plan to go back to school. We split bills, he makes sure he pays all his debt down, never carries balances on anything, whereas I am in debt up to my eyeballs. I don't worry about it as much because I think once out of school I can get a decent paying job. He on the other hand, worries about my debt as if it were his. He frowns when I want to purchase anything for myself. He makes me feel awful for using my credit cards but because I am school, I am working right now for peanuts. I feel like my situation will eventually change but he can't see past his nose. I was offered high paying gig recently but turned it down because there would have been significant overtime and husband likes for me to be home when he gets home. I know having debt is bad, but I also know this isn't forever. How do I get him to lighten up some? He doesn't even want to take a weekend vacation because he doesn't want to spend the money.

I work at an oncology hospital on a medical surgical floor. The vast majority of my patients are older and dying. I love my job but my husbands hates that it can involve naked men, I put in catheters, inspect penises, change ostomies......etc. He has even gone so far as to compare my job to men at bachelor parties, as if they are the same. How do I get him to see that my job is totally not sexual in nature. Does anyone else with a nurse or doctor as a spouse feel this way. I feel disrespected and hurt....

I lied to my boyfriend so what do i do? Weve been together 6 years and have a 4 year old. My boyfriend went to the moose the other night with his friends. I am friends with his friends too. I do have a habit on snooping, looking up his mysprint account to see who he calls. So he called this girls # while at the moose i found out by the call history. It made me worry, so i lied and told him a friend of ours, crystal, who was at the moose that night told me that girl was there and that he was flirting with her. He totally denied it and said it was an old friend he ran into, jessica, and the reason he called her was because one of his guy friends got into a fight with his wife and jessica left with the wife. The guy friend kept calling them and no answer so he wanted my man to call from his phone. My bf did call my friend crystals husband to ask him y crystal was telling me lies about him flirting with jessica. His friend told him he didnt know anything about it but hed ask her. So its been a few days and i havent heard from crystal. I expected her to text me right away if she heard about all this. I just didnt wanna admit i had looked up his phone records so i lied. Please help, i just pray this all blows over and lesson learned, no snooping.