I have been married to a man for 2 years and the marriage has been on a constant decline and the cherry on top is that the sex declined so far even my OBGYN laughed when I stated how often we have sex. And recently I stepped out on the marriage just to enjoy having an actual date and conversational time with another gentleman. After the date and talking back and forth we both learned we had a lot of sexual tension built up and wanted to act on it. I hadn't had an orgasm in 3 years before him and he was so dominating and in control, which we had discussed how we want our partners to be in the sheets. And he listened to everything. How can a man I just met fulfill my needs while a man I've been with for 3 years cannot even attempt it no matter how many times I make suggestions and tell him what I like! I know sex should not be the main objective of a relationship however it plays a big role for me because it is quite a good stress reliever and lets me step out of my comfort zone in the moment. With my husband I have to be in his comfort zone and its just three little steps to his zone: 1. Put the penis in. 2.Ejaculate. 3.Go to sleep. I am in a sexless marriage ultimately, what should I do?

My girl friend is a very open person with a bisexual attraction. We've been together for almost two years and we have a very loving and wonderful relationship with each other. I'm wondering though if it's normal for my girlfriend to be ok with the work I do for a living. For my profession I do modeling and I model for sensual nude art. I model for professional European artists who do paintings and sculptors. The art work I model in is very sensual within it's nature and the purpose of the art is to capture the beauty and essence of sexuality between a man and a woman and also between two women. I normally pose with a female model for an art session and other art sessions I'll pose with two or three female models. Now I don't mean to get too explicit, though I wanted to mention that the artists believe that in order to make the art look as real as possible, to bring the art to life, and to bring to the art it's true meaning and message, I have to actually penetrate... though we don't continue on with the act. So essentially the artists believe that penetration is very necessary for artistic purposes. In case if you're wondering... yes, it does take a tremendous amount of patience and self control to keep the work professional. As I've already said, my girlfriend is very much ok with the work I do for a living. She even likes to visit the art studio at times to watch me model in art sessions. I asked her if she gets jealous watching me model in sensual nude passionate poses with other women. She tells me it doesn't bother her at all, but instead it turns her on a lot to watch me model in the type of art I work in. I'm just very surprised that a girl can be like that. I'm just VERY surprised about this and not sure what to make out of it. What's going on here? lol I'm just wanting to know how a girl can be like this, that's all. I'm just trying to understand the mind of a woman. Is it even possible to understand the mind of a woman?

a) is unaffected by divorce b) is supplemented by child support c) increases d) decreases What about women's income on average? After searching, I seem to be getting a two-toned answer of "decreases at first then increases". What do you say?

My son is engaged to a woman who has a seven year old child. They had been dating for over a year. She's born again and saving herself for marriage. I think this is absurd. A month or two but years? Any thoughts?

Keep in mind I can't afford anything extravagent, but I can take her out or get her something special. Give me some ideas!

So long story short, whenever we get into a fight and turns out he's wrong, he takes 2-3 hours sulking in a corner.... LIKE A PUNISHED CHILD! It's upsetting to me when he does this because it's like, what kind of a scary witch am I if my husband needs to depressingly sulk about the fact that I'm mad at him?! I've tried talking to him about it a million times and he always comes back with I don't know why I did it and I'll stop- which clearly never happens. 2-3 hours after his little alone time, he'll come and apologize... Anyone else have this problem?? Is this maybe normal for some men?? Keep in mind he's 27. I'm starting to get annoyed by the fact that one fight can mean the end of a whole day's worth of plans.... Couldn't he say sorry a little faster so we can move on with our lives?

Why do women play games, play dumb? What is the purpose of this?

Are commitments worthless?

Me and my husband have been married almost 6 years,1 year dating,7 months apart,in 2 weeks got married and after the wedding,2 years of him being on deployment.Things been rocky, i got stressed and i felt like i was the only one in the marriage to the point i forgot myself as a human being and i have cried and begged.We recently moved to Japan ,and things were the same.Sex is as it was once a month or every other month.One day i got tired and started doing things for me for a change,but at the same time i showed respect to him.I sit down with him in good terms and talk to him of things that he might feel or i might feel ,and he listens or yawns .My problem is that from a kid he shuts down ,''No Communication''i have asked him if there is someone else or something going on we can sit down and talk about it and resolve it together.His magic word and always has been''I don't know,no,or the blank stare like we are in a staring contest''just recently we talked and i asked him ,why don't you pursue me anymore or is there anything about me that you would want me to change ''attitude ,approach'' and as usual ''nope ,i wouldn't change anything about u''Is there anything and i mean anything on your mind ''nope''5 years and i can't get any answers ..He says he loves me but i don't feel like his in love with me.Our daily life is a kiss off to work,a hug ,how was your day ,joking and picking ,teasing sensually sometimes ,but everything else that makes marriage is not there.What do i do? My calculation of my marriage is off we been married 5 years and 6 months and dated 2 years ,lol i had to ask my husband shhhh!!!

My wife recent went in from a pap smear last week. She said the doctor tole her she had a small yeast infection she wasnt aware of. The doctor gave her a cream to use at night i see her putting it in. she started using it the first day she got it after that we had intercourse about 4 days later and she started saying my fluids burn her which have never happened before she started the cream. now shes scared to have intercourse and i feel bad i dont know what to do. she going to finish the cream and see the doctor before but its weird. is she allergic to the cream? it shoulndt make her burn

Our kids were outside playing and our son picked up his old cigarette and put it to his lips (mimicking my husbands behavior). My husband usually never smokes around the kids but clearly he saw my husband do this, where else would he get this from? When he saw our baby do this he ran to him and gave him a pop on the hands and told him to never do it again. I was so furious with my husband for popping him because he only did it because of what he has seen. We started arguing and he said "you let the kids run all over you anyway so save your opinion, i will discipline my son when i feel the need to". When my son was crying he ran to me and my husband became irate, saying "hes a puerto rican man and they believe in discipline, im the reason for their behavior, as long as im their mother they are going to walk around feeling invincible, he wishes he would have wore a condome during sex( which hurt my feeling the worst) ". Instead, of him talking it out with me he was attacking me because i think he felt as if i was attacking him, which i wasnt.I am so frustrated with my husband because he so quick to dicipline instead of taking a look at where their behavior derives from, which is him. I dont have anything to say to him because i felt he was completely wrong for poping him and basically calling me an unfit mother. Do you agree with me? Or am i wrong? Also, my husband is a very stubborn man, its hard to dicuss how i feel because he gets so mad

I'm 13, & my boobs are way too big for my body. Is there anything I can do to reduce their size or make them look smaller?

how it all started is he (this guy who I'm seeing) was on the dock cleaning up and he said you ever hear the expression if someone sweeps ur feet you wont get married so i said no and he did it and said your mine forever i dont know what to make of this lol or what he said

Ive been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4. It just seems as though we have so many issues. One week we are fine. One week are arguing. We cannot afford counseling and to be honest, his schedule would not even allow it; he works 6 days a week; 2 jobs, 16 hours a day...which to me, is the issue: NO TIME BEING SPENT. His money usually goes on his own hobbies or into the house, but we split everything 50/50. I just don't know what to do. Sometimes I feel like the stress is just too much. I do not want to spend the rest of my life always upset or arguing. We argue about money, about Facebook, about anything and everything. Any divorced people: how has life been being divorced? There are 3 kids involved, which greatly affects my decision....How to fix this if we cannot communicate and cannot afford counseling...

My daughter is away at college for her freshman year. She comes home on May 7th. That's the day we're picking her up. I called several months ago and reserved a U-Haul trailer to pick her up with. Several weeks ago my daughter called me saying that her mom wanted to follow us down in her van and instead of renting a U-Haul she would just put some things in her van. Knowing her mom she's going to be late or she'll bring a bunch of people and then that'll be less room in her van. I've got an SUV with a trailer hook so reserving a trailer to pull is no problem for me. Well, last night my daughter called me and I asked her if her mom was still driving down with us. After hanging up the phone my wife turns to me and says, "oh, is her mom going too?" I said yes, she wants to help pack her up. She then says, "oh, well, I don't need to go then." My wife is not too keen on my daughter's mom due to some drama that happened years ago. They've since managed to act civil around each other but that's no reason for my wife not to travel with me to help my daughter pack up her room. She went with us and her mom when we took her last fall so why now does she not want to go? My wife tends to like to make things about her. Case in point, last week I posted a question about my upcoming graduation where I'm receiving my master's degree and we have a very tight schedule to get to the hotel and check in then drive another hour to the college. My wife wants to take a shower once we get to the hotel to freshen up after only a 3 hour car ride. I told her we're not going to have time for that. Once we get to the hotel we're only going to really have time to get our keys, drop off our luggage and head back out to the campus for several events they are having for the graduates. My wife showers every morning without fail once she wakes up so why would she need to shower again after a 3 hour car ride? Of course she made the day about her and her inconvenience.

Let's say I am your best male friend. Your spouse/gf and I like to giggle and clown around whenever we're drunk. Let's say we get wasted at 2AM. You become tired and sleepy, but me and your spouse are still having fun. Would you immediately head to bed, and trust us alone? If you were in this situation, what would you do?

My husband's former mother-in-law passed away and he decided to come to pay respect. I didn't know her well but decided to accompany him. While there, I saw his ex was distraught, so my husband put his hand on her back and caressed it gently for a few minutes, & she kinda hugged him and cried on his shoulder. I know I shouldn't be jealous, but often I feel insecure. They divorced bc they married too young (early 20s, while we were 30 when we got married 2 years ago); she decided to pursue her career in Germany, & they divorced amicably. I often asked if he still has feelings for her & he said no, but they have good chemistry w/ each other. Is it normal that I'm jealous? She has 2 brothers around at that moment, but went straight to my husband for comfort. Ps I told my dad and he said that must be my hormones as I'm pregnant. Idk. Wouldn't you be jealous?

My husband and I are taking a trip at the end of the summer and already have our plane tickets booked. Mine is under my maiden name. If I change my name now, will it mess something up when I use my ID to try to get on the plane? We got married almost a year ago and I keep postponing the name change (since I have to use pto to go to the social security office).

I was dating a girl who had 3 month old, we was together for 3 years and I adopted her. We where have long distant relationship because of work and things didn't work out with us. We end up splinting up and I have no clue what had happen to her in those 10 years, just about 4 months ago she found me on Facebook. About 1 month ago her daughter started wanting to talk to me more and I told my wife about what had happen, now she's mad that I didn't say anything in the beginning of our relationship.

about 4 to 5 Months ago found me on Facebook in about 1 ago her daughter started to want to get to know me, I told my wife about it. But she's more upset that I didn't say anything to in the beginning of our relationship. about 1 month ago No I adopted my ex child

Or did she just believe your words? words, words, words. Can you guys be more concrete? Any example of something outstanding you did?

Or is that completely unacceptable behavior that would cause a major marriage problem? The word "allow" means that consent was given in advance. Do people not understand the question?

I had the perfect relationship with hubby ( sex, dates , gifts , care , flirting lots , quality time ) That's why we got married now after wedding ceremony, no sex , no gift , less dates ( once every 3 months ) less time together ( he got a full time job now ) and when we go time for each other we watch tv together that's it! No date , no walk , no bikes nothing but tv . We been living with his parents for years now and I want to move but I'm uncomfortable moving out with hubby because how bad our relationship is . Will he change if his parents aren't around to take care of him ?

I needed a walk to calm down my anger but then hubby came home , after a 7 hour shift, and was tired . He expected dinner to be ready but it wasn't because I was sad all day about my life and wasn't ready to cook . It was 7pm at the time . I needed to walk before it got dark in 30 minutes and go out for dinner instead. I asked hubby to go out with me and I'll pay but he want to stay home and relax. Hubby also just want to cook dinner watch tv. That's it. He cared too much about me . Or if he cared about he , he would let me do what I need right ? Not care about me to get his way right or wrong ? Hubby siad he worried about me going alone and getting lost . I went for a walk alone tons of times!!!! Everyday actually. I'm 25. Hubby 26. My hubby got his way because it got dark and was too late :( . I was very sad all night so I had to bag up my anger and pretend to be happy . We watch a old movie . I was sad all day and I just needed some fresh air and excitement such as going out for dinner. .

I m 21 years old I ve been married for 2 years my husband just up and abandoned me and my son smh i never thought I would see the day where he really went to his lowest point with me just recently I paid for an apartment for me and my husband and my 4 year old boy we we re staying in a hotel until the apartment was ready two days before my husband up and leaves and never returns to get us he moves into the apartment and wouldn t allow me and my son to come also my name isn t on the least do to judgment so I allowed my husband to just put it in his name I m still homeless and my sons grandmother has him I had no job because he brung me from nc saying that I would be ok and we would get a place I beg him everyday to let us come home and be a family and continues to deny me when he knows the situation I have no family down here just my pops and he can t even help me somebody please give me advice on what to do without bashing me

So my and my baby momma went to court for child custody and child support and all that good stuff a while back , so now we have a court order for the amount of child support that I have to give her and how much custody I have , and a year later we finally decided to work things out and give our lil family a chance again so my question is how does the whole child support and all that work? I don't want her making things up in the future if things don't work out between uss saying we were never together and I never gave her child support you know how women are...

Anyway my adult son is upset with me. And claims he will now take me to court for the money and he will lie I never let his dad see his sister. That is a lie. My question is can he take me to court for this? He said he will take for breaking my court order of never sending her. How can I send her when he never would call or do anything. My daughter will turn 18 before he father gets out of jail.

Will the judge give him my car as it is in both our names? That would leave me w no transportation and I make all payments but he isn't happy that he has to pay 1000 child support. Would a judge really leave me w no car when he has one but mine is newer.

I am a single father custodial parent of 2 sweet and good teenage boys 10 and 12 that I raise. They went to go visit their mother for the weekend, as the mom visits with them every other weekend. I normally pack their travel suitcase with folded shirts, clothes, etc. Apparently, my ex-wife placed a pair of her Black Panties specifically laying flat under the kids folded shirts and clothing in that travel suitcase when they returned home clearly for me to find. Thank God my children are unaware she did this. My ex wife and I do not talk, as she has a past addiction problem and has been unstable in the past. I am a dedicated father raising my kids. I have been single for 3 years but dating every so often. But very casually. My question is why would you do such a thing and plant her undies under other kids clothing know and I would find them. What kind of response was she expecting from me? But my thought is the best response is definitely no response. Is this for attention? Is she a crazy person. She lives with a bad boy. I'm sure if he knew about this it would not go over well. This is weird.

I´m not taking about people who are separated without getting a final divorce. "talking",sorry for having a problem with typing "l"

Cousin marriage has been acceptable for thousands of years, so why did we suddenly decide it was bad at the same time we started trying to force people to accept gay marriage?

I am very good at lucid dreaming and I want to have a lucid dream where I have a threesome with my wife, and a clone of my wife.

we have been through a lot during our first year of marriage including a car accident that I am still recovering from and my husband cannot drive because of currently. He has never been very good at gift giving, and I always have to remind him of every occasion. He got me a pandora bracelet a few years ago so he could just get me charms for each occasion-he has yet to give me a new charm. We have been together almost 9 years, so I feel I know him pretty well, so I started taking to him about our anniversary months in advance. I made it very clear, or so I thought, that wedding anniversaries mean more to me than any other occasion. He replied by saying he really wanted to do something romantic for me for our anniversary. Well, our anniversary came and I gave him his gift, he turned bright red and said he hasn t gotten me anything, but when he can drive again he has a plan. I am feeling really hurt, there is an abundance of online shopping, he could have easily done that, since he had been actively buying himself items online for weeks using PayPal. I kept seeing transfers of money to PayPal and I thought maybe for once he was actually trying to surprise me. Im just very disappointed and torn on if I need to say something. I didn t express that I was upset at the time. I feel like if I tell him how I m feeling, all it ll do is hurt him more, and that doesn t seem fair, but this happens every occasion and it just hurts. Even a card would have been nice. What should I do?

My husband and I have been together 7 years married over a year. Over the years my best-friend has gotten upset with me for different "childish reasons" as my husband states. I make friends easier and sometimes she can get jealous if I get close to another friend. Anyway he says she is not my friend and he does not want her over to the house. I don't think he is being fair since it is my house as well. I am not asking him to like her or talk to her but why can't she come see me? Am I wrong?

Last night around 10 PM, my wife was on Amazon looking at t-shirts for me. She saw one that she thought I might like, so she showed me the shirt. I didn't really like the shirt and I told her that I did not. She then got angry with me. When I asked her why she was angry, she said that she was frustrated because she is always trying to find out what I like in clothing but that she can never seem to find the answer. I suggested that she buy it for our sons, because that it what I thought she was talking about to begin with. She angrily said "I do not want to buy it for them." I was too tired to realize that at the time and frankly, at that point in the discussion, I thought it pointless to bring that up. The discussion ended at that point, but my thinking about what happened did not. As I write this, I am thinking that she does not want my opinion or want me to have one on my own. Yet, she is always asking me for my opinion. What is going on here?

I'm a step father and my wife called me his name once during an argument and today she was talking to her daughter and called her his name. She also keeps referring back to their relationship. I know it's not that serious but when she says something about the relationship every day it starts to get a little bit tiring. She says he is the past but she keeps bringing him up. I'm confused about it and I don't know what to think.

I just stopped trying as I would always get denied. It's been over 6 months since we have had sex