Friends: Question: Trying to make closer friends? |
- Question: Trying to make closer friends?
- Question: I might go to jail ??
- Question: Is it okay to shoot someone in the leg and in the arm for seriously disrespecting me ?
- Question: Fake Friend?
- Question: I like my friend at times, but can't stand her at others?
- Question: Does he like me?
- Question: How to avoid and befriend annoying loud guys & girls i'm a shy introverted lady and i hardly have any friends?
- Question: PLEASE HELP?!?
- Question: Is it normal for parents to be this way?
- Question: Can you help me plan this birthday party?
- Question: I hate my friend's girlfriend?
- Question: Friend Problem... What to do??
- Question: MY FRIEND TOLD ME SHES A DRUG DEALER. HELP ME?!!?
- Question: So weird! Why do Italian pizza makers are often call Papa Tony or Papa Louie?
- Question: What to do when friends change and ignore you?
- Question: Can healing stones restore a friendship after a break up?
- Question: Do guys date big girls ?
- Question: How do i spend time with people without becoming attached?
- Question: What makes someone a true friend?
- Question: How to deal with a Clingy Friend?
- Question: How can I make friends?
- Question: My friend said she was bisexual?
- Question: Lonely and in a dark place.?
- Question: I went too overboard!?
- Question: Am I being upset for no reason?
- Question: Did i do the right thing?
- Question: How can I get a good friend who's a girl?
- Question: How do I get my best friend back?
- Question: My Ex Best Friend Wants to Murder Me?
- Question: He is my friend?
- Question: Am I shy, or an introvert?
- Question: I'm going to explode if they don't stop. What should i do?
- Question: MY FRIENDS HATE ME?
- Question: Leaving my best friend forever?
- Question: Am I dong wrong for going to this school trip?
- Question: When a girl does this?
- Question: Are there emo people in schools at New Hampshire?
- Question: My mom is making me go to a bat mitzvah?
- Question: Am I a bad person for making friends based on socioeconomic status? (Read all.)?
- Question: What does it mean when a person says ok? (10 points for best answer)?
- Question: Pie in the face fight?
- Question: Roommate Situation?
- Question: I need friend advice?
- Question: How do you make it look like you re having fun?
- Question: My friend is depressed.I feel so bad for her and I would like to help her but how?
- Question: Let's be online pals?
- Question: Poll: I love and care about my friend deeply, but could she just be using me?
- Question: I don't know what to do anymore?
- Question: Please help and please understand my point of view here before any negative comments? How tip of a university of someone's bad behavior?
- Question: Why do some men like to talk to girls in the middle of the night?
- Question: Should i just give up on our friendship, we're almost related?
- Question: Did I backstab or did I do the right thing?
- Question: I ruin everything?
- Question: How can I find my friend from Mumbai, India?
- Question: Why is my girlfriend so immature ?
- Question: Food keeps dissapearing in my house?
- Question: Sounds so babyish ... but my best friend doesn't really seem to like me anymore, what should I do?
- Question: She wants to move in with me?
- Question: Hi friend?
- Question: Is what my son is doing a normal thing?
| Question: Trying to make closer friends? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:49 PM PDT I really want to have more close friends. I have many regular friends, but only one close friend, and that's my best friend. I don't really want to be really close friends with the people I'm friends with. I want to expand and make more friends(wow did THAT sound bratty). What are the steps to becoming a close friend with someone(I'm in 7th grade if that helps with anything)? |
| Question: I might go to jail ?? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:48 PM PDT Okay so my best friend I have been friends for 7 years. She's 16 and I'm 18. A year and a half diffrence. I like guys. And now we always text so we were sending these memes of naked people and making fun of em and stuff and now her ACOHOLIC MOM who drinks 24:7 non stop who is abusvie wants to tell the cops on me?? What do I do lol ? |
| Question: Is it okay to shoot someone in the leg and in the arm for seriously disrespecting me ? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:47 PM PDT One of my friends, not best friends, but friends robbed my new Xbox one I had just gotten yesterday for my birthday and sold it to a pawn shop, I am extremely pissed off about this as I have no more $ and my parents are not gonna buy me a new one, so I know this guy most likely will kick my ***, or take a knife away from me so I really want to make him feel pain not kill him but just make him feel some pretty bad pain |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:46 PM PDT I've have a crush on this guy in my class and I told my friend who happens to be in that class as well. She's been acting really immature to make me look bad in front of him and it's not in a playful way either. We usually call each other names in a low tone jokingly but she started calling me names really loud in hopes for my crush to hear it. She picked fun of everything I would do and she would make sure everyone heard it. She ended up making herself look like a fool but I'm very annoyed of her. I could easily play the game with her and embarassed her in front of the class but I don't want to act immature in front of my crush. What do you think is her problem? Is she jealous, does she like him also? Ugh I hate it when girls act like this. |
| Question: I like my friend at times, but can't stand her at others? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:42 PM PDT My friend and I have been friends since fourth grade. Since the day we became friends that I wanted to be best friends, but every year she made a new best friend and it killed me on the inside. So then we enter 6th grade, a new school with new people. We both made a lot of new friends, but we still hung out. She made a few close friends, and a new best friend. I didn't care as much that time because I knew from the past that it would happen. We still sat together at lunch and saw each other after school, so it was fine. But then one day I woke up, and I just couldn't stand her! I realized she was trying to be someone she wasn't! But I didn't say anything, I started to act like her a little bit. I realized that every day after school she was hanging out with a new friend, and it annoyed the crap out of me! I know people are allowed to have friends other than me and all, but I felt like she was trying to be popular when she never was before. Today I came to school, and she was wearing makeup! I started to get annoyed again, but I didn't say anything because I knew she'd get mad. I really want to tell her how I feel without sounding like a jerk, though. Again, we are like best friends at times, but I hate her at others. Do other people feel like this? How can I tell her to stop being a faker without sounding mean? People are allowed to change, but sometimes it's enough! I really want to be friends with her and tell her how I feel, but I just don't know how! Any suggestions? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:40 PM PDT There's this boy,he is a really good friend of my bestfriend but we would never hung out by ourselves.We always pick on and insult each other.Sometimes we will talk like normal people.Its not like we are fighting for real,we laugh ..The thing is that i may have started liking him..from out i have tolded you,could he like me back?I can't tell him and i won't tell my bestfriend either |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:34 PM PDT i'm pretty nice and laid back but i can't stand other females who can't keep their voice down and talk crap about other girls and just make you angry enough to attack i'm more friends with males than girls can anyone help i'm 25 and i can't find anyone my own age |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:17 PM PDT So this girl and I used to be best friends. We would talk everyday and text and stuff. Up until a few months back, she started hanging out with this guy who is her friend also. Last semester (in highschool), we had one class together and we talked a lot there. This semester, we don't have any classes together so we don't see each other through out the day, except in the morning. We both get to school 30 minutes early and so we have time to talk... but she has been pushing me away lately. I once texted her after shcool and stuff and I told her to meet up in the llibrary in the morning so we could gossip (yea, we're teenage girls) and she said okay. When the next day came, I came up to her, and she just smiled at me and walked away with her guy friend person. In a few days, we walked past each other in the hall and I stopped her and asked how are you and she said "great just great" and I was hoping to have a reak conversation, but she saw her other friend and walked away from me. So I gave up after that. She stills hangs out with her other friend in the morning and doesn't even talk to me. Today I was walking down the hall to class and she purposely walked in front of me and then looked back at me and I just didn't pay attention. I don't know whether to be mad, or what, because it's like she wants to talk, but at the same time, she's pushing me away. Help? |
| Question: Is it normal for parents to be this way? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:16 PM PDT my friend sometimes ride to their houses with me ( for sleep overs and stuff like that ) and every time at the end of the ride they say that my parents are over protective or that their rules are crazy or that their just completely Insain and then they say things like my mom would never do that she does this or somthing. Does that normally happen to you I honestly agree with them but I don't know a lot about these things can anyone help me? |
| Question: Can you help me plan this birthday party? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:10 PM PDT So my step-dad's birthday is this coming Tuesday. I was thinking of throwing him a Skyrim-themed birthday party since he loves that video game. However, he is getting oral surgery on Tuesday (his birthday) which really stinks, so that limits some of the food he can eat. Then I thought, well I could always push the party to this weekend so he can eat food he won't be able to eat come Tuesday. However, my grandparents are coming to visit this weekend (Saturday-Sunday, leaving 10 am on Sunday) which is good but it stinks when I still have to plan his birthday party. And I'm pretty sure they don't know a thing about Skyrim. So I thought Sunday night. Plus, since it is short notice, I won't be able to invite some of his friends who I think he would like to have over on his birthday. But how can I keep all of this a secret when he stays home from work over the weekend?? So should I make the party Friday, Sunday, or Monday? Friday and Monday I know he works. Tuesday is his birthday too. Although, now that I think about it, I don't want to invite his friends on weekdays since they might have work also. I have all the idea's for making the food, decorations, etc. I just need to plan and schedule a day for it. Thanks for reading all of that. Any advice? The reason why I want to schedule this on a weekday (when he has work) is so I have the opportunity to clean, put up decorations, etc. while he still is at work. That way, when he gets home it will be a surprise. |
| Question: I hate my friend's girlfriend? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 04:08 PM PDT It's actually to the point where I wouldn't mind cutting both of them off. He used to be my best friend but ever since he started dating her almost 2 years ago she's always been a ***** and he's even acting different now. I don't know if she's super insecure or completely full of herself. All she does is talk **** and start drama with people, even her own friends. When her supposed best friend isn't around she calls her a dumb slut. Plus every time I'm around her she runs her mouth about our other friends so she most likely talks about me too. Sometimes she will flat out say rude stuff too someone and she thinks it's funny but when the other person retaliates she's the victim. She constantly makes joke about our one buddy who is 20 years old and balding until one time he got sick of it. Out of nowhere at a party in front of everyone she told him "Josh you should really invest in some rogain and started laughing" Josh said " you should invest in some slimfast and proactive" (because she's big and has bad acne) She wen't psycho and tried to get her boyfriend to fight him. She didn't stop there though she made up some story to all her friends about how he threw beer in her face and called her a fat cow, plus she started harassing him on facebook. I personally think he did nothing wrong. She made a joke about something she knows he's insecure about just to embarrass him to look cool and she couldn't take a joke back. The thing is my buddy is always with her, see update Even when I tell him it's a guys night he brings her anyway. She is real disrespectful and I can't take it anymore. Whats the best way to avoid her without confrontation? Also whenever we go out she always trys to get him to fight other guys. It's like she gets off by it. She will start **** with another guy for no reason just so her boyfriend will fight for her |
| Question: Friend Problem... What to do?? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:58 PM PDT So during Lit we had to do this one thing where we went around the class and everyone said something liked and didn't like about each person. I got really nervous about doing that. My hands started shaking I was so anxious and nervous. Eventually it was my turn. The first person who went was one of my best friends named Lexi. The negative thing she said was that I can be clumsy. I didn't really think that was bad at all because I figured my friends thought I was clumsy. My friend asked me if I was nervous because my leg started shaking too. That is when I began to cry. I couldn't take it anymore, everyone was just staring and I couldn't take the pressure, I was also really nervous and anxious about the fact I was to say everything i hated and liked about each one of my classmates... That freaked me out for some reason. Lexi repeatedly told me to stop crying because she thought I was crying because of what she said, but that wasn't the case. She then started crying. Later I was talking to my other best friend, Ash, she told me that Lexi was really mad at herself for saying what she said. Do you think I should tell Lexi why I really began crying? Because Ash also told me she was mad at herself but it was over now. Do you think I should forget everything or tell her??? |
| Question: MY FRIEND TOLD ME SHES A DRUG DEALER. HELP ME?!!? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:53 PM PDT We are both high school students, just trying to get through school. My friends brother is a MAJOR druggie and I just found out from her that she is selling!! She s always been a great friend to me and I don t want her to get in trouble for anything at all. When she mentioned it I thought she was joking but then she got serious and told me she s been selling for the past 4 almost 5 months. I know this is not something to mess around with and I m very worried. She has promised me that she isn t doing drugs and never will. Any advice? Also can you guys help me figure out what these things are and what they do? Also costs? I ve always thought that she got all her money from her parents, but I guess not. I don t want to believe that she is so I want to see if the money adds up. (Not sure if these are spelled correctly. I don't know what they are😬) -Hydrocodone -oxycodone -adder all PLEASE HELP!!! |
| Question: So weird! Why do Italian pizza makers are often call Papa Tony or Papa Louie? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:41 PM PDT Okay, my friend from another school's friend's name is Tony. Then, my friends started joking around with his name. "When you meet Tony, say 'Hey Papa Tony, can I have some pizza from you pizza shop?' with some accent. Then you pick up some paper and pretend to throw it in the air like pizza." We were laughing so hard. And I was like "Then you smash the paper pizza in his face and say 'Mama Mia! Your pizza! But I'm sure you will make better pizza.'" My friend from the other school was like "He doesn't own a pizza shop." Then I told her "Those Italian pizza dudes always go like 'my name is Papa Tony' or 'my name is Papa Louie." My other friend chirped in "It's like they changed their names just because they work for a pizza shop." I nodded and my friend from the other school sighed. Is it because of that? By the way, I am a girl |
| Question: What to do when friends change and ignore you? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:32 PM PDT There s this friend I became close to but suddenly she is really distant. It s clearly bugging me. I always open up the conversation but if she has the option to talk with other friends, she ll walk away and start chatting with the other friends as if I m invisible. I don t recall ever saying or doing anything bad to her. She will look away to her best friends and start chatting when theyre sitting on the far side. Shes sensitive to what I say or do but if someone else says it s she ll laugh it off as a joke. Maybe I m too boring to her and others are more interesting. Maybe I m being oversensitive but I can help it that I m hurt by her sudden behaviour like I did something wrong. I m prepared to avoid her or lose her as a friend if it persists but is it the best way? |
| Question: Can healing stones restore a friendship after a break up? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:26 PM PDT I had a friend who decided for us not to be friends anymore and we couldn't contact each other for a while. so can healing stones restore our friendship even after something bad happened that caused it? if so, then which stones are the best at restoring friendships? |
| Question: Do guys date big girls ? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:20 PM PDT I'm quite big and was wondering if I would get a boyfriend still |
| Question: How do i spend time with people without becoming attached? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:19 PM PDT i feel like i might secretly have a big heart (even though i hide it), and when i make friendships and spend time with people i actually love being with them. i dont have many friends, and the friends i do have i actually care about. However as i get older im starting to notice not everyone is that way. And now I just dont know what to do, b/c i am already guarded but now i feel like i should become even more guarded b/c people are so fake and fickle and i just dont want to be fooled again. |
| Question: What makes someone a true friend? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:16 PM PDT |
| Question: How to deal with a Clingy Friend? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 03:02 PM PDT I feel like a terrible person for wanting time away, as I believe my circumstance is very unique. I met my friend - I'll call her Jane - two years ago when I was in my last year of middle school. I saw her everyday at lunch, though we never had a friendship that extended out of school. A year ago, however, Jane stopped attending school as much. She eventually told us that she has an illness that is potentially life threatening. This illness stopped her from playing sports, instruments, or even sitting up for a long period of time. She ended not coming to school entirely and began to be homeschooled. Before Jane left she gave me one thing: her email address if I wanted to chat. I forgot about the email and hadn't talked to Jane at all until four months ago, when I discovered it in my bag. I then shot her a quick email and she responded back within minutes. We quickly traded numbers and began to talk daily. That's when the clinginess began. Since she can't leave the house, she just stays on her computer all day. While I didn't talk with her, she got super obsessed with one show. This show has become her life. Every time we begin to talk, we'll end up talking over text for at least two hours. All she will talk about is one show. I tried to watch this show out of courtesy, but ended up not liking it. When ever I have to leave (or make up excuses to leave), she always drags on the conversation longer. This version is very shortened (word limit). How do I deal with her? |
| Question: How can I make friends? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:47 PM PDT I moved to a new school about 5 years ago and I've yet to make friends. I don't understand why, I'm really nice to everyone. Is it because I'm a video game enthusiast whose outgoing? |
| Question: My friend said she was bisexual? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:44 PM PDT Okie dokie, well I have this friend(lets call her Phoebe) and Phoebe is like one of the first friends I made at my school, but we didn't talk much. I have her homeroom so I talk to her as much as possible but we have no classes together so it can get difficult to be her friend. The other day I was messing with my friend about who he liked and we added her and she replied with "Are we talking about two other girls?? Cause I'm hotter." and I was just laughing at the joke and then she just blurted "Yea I'm bi." I honestly don't think she's referring to anything else and right now she has a boyfriend. I've been discovering myself for a while but I feel I want to try and be more of her friend(not particularly just to pursue her since she has a boyfriend, but they've been having rough times) and I'm finding it hard to hang with her because she usually goes to a different classroom with friends for lunch. I'm not saying I'm fully sure I want to be in a relationship with her, but I guess I kinda want to be a close friend to the point where if we ever got THAT close and I still had the feelings I'd tell her. |
| Question: Lonely and in a dark place.? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:43 PM PDT Hey.....I'm very lonely. I broke up with my girlfriend. We broke up due to lack of communication. It was a pretty nasty breakup. Some nasty things were said and there could have been a physical fight but that never happened. I don't have friends either,. I'm awkward and I am not outgoing.I use to be outgoing but life has changed my outlook on people and things. I had a best friend but I stopped talking to her due to differences and our lives were different. My life sounds like an 18 year old but I am 24 and miserable. I'm graduating college soon and I have nothing to do with my life. I haven't found a job and I don't know if graduate school is for me. I also live at home with my mom. She's supportive sometimes but it becoming a nuisance living with my mother. Everyone is living own their own....well not really they have roommates but I want to have my own. But it is difficult for me. Anyone has any advice for me.....or opinion.....or to share your story of how you got through hard times. Sincerly, Mid-20's sufferer of mid=ife crisis |
| Question: I went too overboard!? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:32 PM PDT I was given a warning because my social worker at school told me if I kept messaging my friend on email, texting,etc. there would be consequences. they also said that we shouldn't contact to each other and not be friends for a while. as my mom got home, she was extremely upset at me for harassing him. she hit me, and took away my electronics away. I never felt so guilty I should've listened sooner. I didn't mean to harass him. I got carried away from caring about him too much. I asked my social worker if there was a way for us to be friends again. and she said "it will happen soon but you gotta stop contacting him and give him space." can anyone help me to find a way for us to be friends again? |
| Question: Am I being upset for no reason? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:31 PM PDT I m not the type to leave my bad around friends, because I don t like people going through my stuff. I recently leave my stuff for the first time in class and when I came back I found out that they went inside my book bag and were laughing at this keychain I had (Naruto) and keep saying "believe it!" Also, they rip my study guide which made me really upset. I never went to any of there personal stuff and it made me mad that they did it to me. I didn t talk to anyone for the whole day, because of that. Am I being selfish about it? |
| Question: Did i do the right thing? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:27 PM PDT I have had 2 best friends since we were 13-14 years old. One friend and i have had multiple falling outs over stupid things. the last time we fought and made up and everything but it felt completely different to me, like our friendship wasn't real anymore. All 3 of us have hung out a lot but after i got my boyfriend a year ago they kind of drifted away. They assumed i would rather hang with him instead of them. I kept denying hanging out with them because they would only ask after they knew i was already doing something and they were already hanging out together. They say they couldn't talk much because they are busy with work and all that but yet they are always hanging out together and with their other friends but they only talked to me once a month or so. I cut them out of my life and still not sure if what i did was the right thing, they make it seem like I'm the bad friend in all this. what do you think? |
| Question: How can I get a good friend who's a girl? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:13 PM PDT I'm a sophomore in high school. So I've come to realize that I want a good friend I can talk to about a large number of personal problems I have. I've always been WAY more comfortable around girls than guys too. I also have no friends at all, haven't since elementary school No I'm not expecting to get some perfect best friend immediately, maybe in a couple months, what are some ways I can try to get a girl friend who'll actually like me? So far almost all girls just seem disgusted and hate me |
| Question: How do I get my best friend back? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:07 PM PDT So this is kind of a long story that I ll try to make short. My best friend and I were inseparable from the day we met, and we stuck together all the way through Jr. High and high school. In my junior year, I lapsed mentally and was hospitalized and diagnosed with depression and anxiety. My best friend and my boyfriend were the only people who knew. She stuck around. Senior year was really difficult, not the work, but my motivation. I couldn t bring myself to see her outside of school anymore, and I quit our softball team, which we d been on together for 6 years. We still small talked in school, but the depression brought me down and I couldn t see her anymore. We were great students and in all of the college and ap courses together, and that stayed our common ground. We planned on going to colleges near each other. Then I hit rock bottom. Along with pressure from my family, I decided not to go to college. Our common ground was gone. Once we graduated high school I was so ashamed of myself for letting all the hard work slide that I kind of phased everybody out. I just stopped talking to my best friend, and to this day, two years later, we have not seen each other besides bumping into each other at the store. Every few months she will randomly message me but ive never responded. I always feel the guilt and regret. She still tries. And I want to try to regain our friendship, but I don t know how. It s been so long and we are in such different places in life now. |
| Question: My Ex Best Friend Wants to Murder Me? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 02:04 PM PDT Hi, so I recently got in back in touch with an old friend of mine, soon after we got in a fight and I realized she wasn't a very good person to be around. So I blocked her on all social media websites I had her on. The next day I get a message from one of my friends who said "___ said that she wanted to gouge out your eyeballs and decorate your room with your organs" Being the paranoid person I am I completely thought of the worst things that could happen and what if she did. She doesn't know where I live so that's good. She also said she wanted me dead to other people who I talk too. We're about 14 so I don't know if she would get in trouble with the police. Please send me some advice. I should probably mention she doesn't live with her parents, I don't know who she's currently living with. |
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| Question: Am I shy, or an introvert? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:50 PM PDT Hi. I'm 15 and I'm a girl. I can't decide if whether I'm just shy or an introvert. I love hanging out with my friends and I feel sad that I don't have a larger group of friends, because my group of friends resumes to 3-4 people, sometimes more sometimes less. I'm opened to the idea of hanging out with a larger group of friends, but not so opened if I don't know at least a couple of people from that group. There are situations in my life where I ask myself, am I too shy? I live two steps away from my cousin. He's a year older than me, and when we were little we used to get one extremely well. So a thought crossed my mind, and that is "i should check up on him, see what he's doing, and maybe we could hang out a bit.' because it's been a long time since we've had a proper conversation. Plus my other cousin who's 2 years younger than me was there too and I thought I'd go there too. But then I got all shy and denied the idea. I didn't know how to tell him 'hey...I'm bored. So I thought we could hang out.' I would've sounded so stupid. Plus they're playing video games, and I'd probably just stay there and look at them (AND, THE MOST IMPORTANT DETAIL, I HACE CHICKENPOX..) But if I wasn't shy maybe I wouldn't think like this. I would go to them and say 'hey I'm bored let's hang out' without thinking I'd sound stupid. It's like we grew up and we don't have nothing in common anymore. Do you think I'm shy or introverted? Also how can I stop being shy? |
| Question: I'm going to explode if they don't stop. What should i do? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:48 PM PDT These group of girls in middle school are making fun of the way me and my other friends look. They are always insulting us and we insult them back and it just causes a big fight. They told me my eyebrows aren't raised up right that i look like really ugly. They'll literally make fun of every guy but they wont make fun of any girls. Its getting annoying what should i do? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:48 PM PDT I'm simply having a terrible life. I don't know how to start, or explain, I bet y'all won't understand, because this is off your hands, but I want your advice on how to make them like me... Here we go.... Here is why they hate me, even if they don't say it directly, I know they do. - When I got my phone, they all started bullying and teasing me "I bet the only contact you have on there is your mom you loner!" and that isn't even the worst - This girl got mad with me, we used to be Best Friends when we were little, I've wrote letters, and apologized for a whole year, but the thing she says she'll forgive me with is this: Tickets, 1ST ROW for a Justin Bieber Concert - My friends have never invited me to their hang outs... (dinners, parties, etc) - They have never invited me to their own homes, in fact, they barely talk to me. - My friends don't talk to me, and when they do, it's to say the simplest thing, they think that I'm immature, because I have a higher voice, because I'm shorter, and because I'm not good at sports, they think that because of my physical, I'm different, and I know deep down inside, they don't want to be my friends. - They have called me ugly, and when I say that, I really mean that. - They call me the opposite gender, or say that I'm confusable. - When I open my locker, they close it and say its a "game / joke" - They have attempted to use me before... - They have made me do things for them - I always give them all my food and I get nothing in return -etc |
| Question: Leaving my best friend forever? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:38 PM PDT I am about to graduate and I have been accepted in to my first choice college I have told all my friends and family but I haven't told my best friend. I don't know why it's just every time I am about to text her to tell her my news or go over to her place and break it to her, all the amazing memories we have created comes to mind and it almost brings me to tears I love her to bits and I really don't want to leave her but she isn't going to college and we will be in different countries so it is certain that we will grow apart and that kills me to even think about that however graduation is near and we are going back to her place to drink and party and I have decided that is the time I will tell her but I don't know how..... Please help??? |
| Question: Am I dong wrong for going to this school trip? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:22 PM PDT Hi! So we are going on a school trip nex thursday and we will be staying there til sunday. I wasnt going first because i dont really have friends in this class, but today i decided to go and paid the trip. The reasons why i didnt want to go were that first i dont have best friends in this class so i was scared that i will be alone but my head techer said that i wasnt plus some girls said that too, second we will have 3 parties, im not as confident to wear dresses bc i think m too skinny and also heels, besides i dont walk good on them bc i rarely wore them and plus they are not as high as other girls. However in this trip aregonna come girls with hijab so i thought why should i have these complexes if those girls dont? ugh also i have a fear that the school bus gonna fall or sth. But I decided to be brave and just go, bc i might regret if I didnt. If I do, im used to making mistakes so I will survive these 4 days. So what do u guys think?:? |
| Question: When a girl does this? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:12 PM PDT I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early |
| Question: Are there emo people in schools at New Hampshire? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:10 PM PDT And if there are, id like to know which school! The area I live in is close to salem, and is kind of a boondocks type area, with only one school. There are other schools, but that's the one I have to go to that's closest to me. Pwease answer! :D Oh forgot to mention, the school I go to has like around 350 or 400 people, give or take. Ohhh and one more thing, I am actually moving from florida :L. Ive traveled through NH, but ive never actually been there for a long period of time. A lot of my friends at my school here in florida are like me, as in they are emo/scene as well. Youll be surprised at the amount of people like me in Miami. |
| Question: My mom is making me go to a bat mitzvah? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:07 PM PDT there's this really popular girl in my grade that i'm family friends with, but we never talk. she was forced to invite me to her bat mitzvah, which my mom is making me go to. i tried explaining to my mom about how i barely know this girl & that i won't know anybody at her bat mitzvah. she won't listen to me. how can i get out of going? |
| Question: Am I a bad person for making friends based on socioeconomic status? (Read all.)? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 01:05 PM PDT Hello. I'm a 21 year old female. I've always been taught to value money. I come from a wealthy family. My parents are good people, but especially my mom is extremely money-based. My dad will spend $500 on jewlery, and if she doesn't like it she returns it. She has 4 $1000 bags. If I didn't claim money as a kid, she'd steal it from me. If she knew kids who had more money, she'd put a lot of emphasis on that friendship. She is a good mother. Nice. Negligent though. I told her someone was hurting me when I was 14 and she didn't seem to have much of a reaction. She acted like I didn't tell her anything. When I was 17, I found out that an old friend's grandfather had donated 30 million to a nearby college. I didn't really want to be her friend. I was popular and she was sort of pathetic. Nonetheless, I took her to lunch and I completely reconnected with her & family. I call her grandpa "Papa." Let's just say, they have a very large company, usually reserved for family. After college, I'm getting one of the top management positions there. I'm not a complete *****. I do like her as a friend. I've dated people specifically for money before. I usually date wealthy men in their 40s. I really couldn't have cared less about those men, but they gave me money. I've been engaged twice. Before I meet someone, I research them comprehensively, and look at their financial history. If it isn't impressive, I'll still be pleasant. But if someone is wealthy, I amp up the charm. |
| Question: What does it mean when a person says ok? (10 points for best answer)? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 12:41 PM PDT I told this guy I was coming to see him in July but then I told him that I may not be able to wait that long. So that I'll just let him know when I'm in town and he said ok. Does that mean he's ok with me coming to see him? I'm actually going to try to go see him in June. Does it mean he's ok with me coming to see him? |
| Question: Pie in the face fight? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 12:24 PM PDT I really want to have a pie in the face fight with my guy friend! Why? We are both very similar: goofy, genuine, kind, polite, friendly and we wouldn't mind getting messy. The questions I have are Where should we do it? What kind if pies should we use? How do I suggest this to him? I was thinking maybe I could suprise him with a picnic with about 15 pies on one blanket and then I could sit down with him and slap his back and shove one of the pies in his face! I was thinking if I started the pie fight by shoving one of the pies in his face he would throw one at me and then we would both be pieing eachother from there! Any ideas? Edit |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 12:20 PM PDT So, my friend and I are looking at moving in together and for a long time we've been saying her cousin and the cousin's friend could move in with us. Now, the issue that's arisen is that we've found a really nice, very affordable place that can be split two ways and still be in good standing, but it's a two bed, one bath, and none of us is too keen on sharing space. So my question is, how do we, nicely, say we can't have them move in anymore? Neither of us want's to hurt the other two's feelings but at the same time we're worried about the cousin holding a grudge because they have a propensity towards holding serious grudges... Thank you for the answers! |
| Question: I need friend advice? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 12:13 PM PDT Me lori and anne are great friends. Anne tells me that lori is fake and she said other things and lori's secrets. I did say mean things behind lori's back but I told her and she forgave me and was happy that I had the courage to tell her and we are still friends.THIS IS THE MAIN PROBLEM I then tell anne about me telling lori about how me and anne hating on lori (which is anne telling me) and in detail of what I personally said. Anne then gets very mad and says that I back stabbed her. Advice? ANNE FEELS BACKSTABBED |
| Question: How do you make it look like you re having fun? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 12:10 PM PDT my friends are together with a puppy on a trampoline and my friend and I are sitting here bored out of our minds. naturally we feel the need to one up them and look like we re doing something way cooler on our snapchat stories. we d appreciate any feedback. we re desperate. anything helps. |
| Question: My friend is depressed.I feel so bad for her and I would like to help her but how? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 12:10 PM PDT I've known my friend Haley forever.Really I've known her since we were like 4.We're 31. In high school obviously we liked guys. I've changed like 3 guys in high school years. Then in college I've met a guy who I married 2 years ago.Haley instead met in high school a guy named Josh. I had never seen her so much in love before.Truth be told Josh loved her but he wasn't as committed to her as she was to him. He joined the Marines just days after graduating high school and died in Iraq in 2005. After he died Haley just stopped being happy. She tried therapy,she tried dating other guys. I introduced her to some friends of mine through the years but nothing happened. I feel bad for her because if she keeps feeling like this she won't ever have a family. She's depressed,I can tell that. Obviously after 10 years she seems to have recovered but deep down she didn't. a couple of nights ago we were all at a party and someone mentioned Josh and she got tear eyed. I asked her if she wants to come to the gym with me and my husband but she said she's busy. How can I help her? I tried so much but she never recovered after Josh. I feel so bad for her. How could I help her now? |
| Question: Let's be online pals? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 11:49 AM PDT Hi! If anyone wishes to be pals on instagram, I'd be tickled pink, and would follow you too (but online only, not to your home)! username - crossedaline |
| Question: Poll: I love and care about my friend deeply, but could she just be using me? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 11:46 AM PDT How can I know for sure and what should do? |
| Question: I don't know what to do anymore? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 11:44 AM PDT Long story short.. I've been talking to a guy since december who I liked more than I've ever liked anyone else. In the beginning, everything was perfect. We always told eachother how much we like eachother and I had nothing to worry about. Over time we went from talking from goodmorning to goodnight to waiting hours between messages. Till this day, he is still the one initiating contact because I refuse to chase. I have no idea what this is anymore. He's been talking to me through SNAPCHAT text which is very sketchy in my opinion. I have been pulling away because I am fed up with a lot. I miss the way things were and like I said I do not know what this is anymore. He never followed through with anything he said. He was supposed to come visit me at school (he's only 30 mins away) and never did yet he always asks when we're hanging out. He said he was writing me a letter and sending me a package months ago.. never did. I've just put up with so much more than any girl ever would. Last night I didn't respond to him and then at 1am he said "hello" to me. So I can tell he sees a difference in my behavior and maybe realizes he's losing me. I really just don't know what to do. Keep pulling away? Tell him how I feel? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 11:36 AM PDT Well ok I used to have a friend not any longer friends? Well she is still in high school about to graduate. Look I'm usually not mean here but I need help how to tip a university on this persons bad behavior. Well this girl used to be my friend but when she come over to my home for a birthday party she took advantage and disrespected my home. She did the unmentionables with my one of my siblings while they were intoxicated and she was not, So she took advantage of them. And well she skips school a lot, she is full of absences and skips school to sleep around and drink and she is only 19. Well she is going to Texas A&M but she is getting a church to pay for her entire collage. She got this scholarship through lies. She is failing all her classes and doesn't care about school. This girl is laterally the worst person anyone can meet. She is distrustful toward others. She will lie to you saying she has no where to live when she does just so that she can get money of you and so that you can drive her around everywhere. It's sick to think this girl is getting a scholarship when in reality she does not even want to study, and I bet there is more people out there in this world who would love to have an education and just bad that is being wasted on this person. I would really like to contact someone in this school saying they the should revoke that scholarship and not let her go. I know it sounds harsh but if you met this person you would agree. I just hate people that lie.. I hate people that lie to get things in life it's not right. Please help and i'm sorry if I seem harsh but I promise I'm not. So how can I go about telling someone this information? I just truly believe that if she lied to get to this scholarship and really does not care about school she only cares so she can go meet guys. And I believe someone who truly wants an education deserves that scholarship. How would I tell or how can I tell someone from that school please help? |
| Question: Why do some men like to talk to girls in the middle of the night? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 11:36 AM PDT And talk about nothing while they never do it to their guy friends. |
| Question: Should i just give up on our friendship, we're almost related? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 11:07 AM PDT when i moved away for college two years ago after a while my friend stopped initiating contact. so as an experiment i tried to see what would happen if I stopped contacting her and she litteraly never tried to talking to me. After like 5 months, i tried calling her and she was at work and she said she would call me later and never did (she doesnt like confrontation and i think she thought i was angry). We have been liitterally best friend since we were babies. We have baby pictures together! Yeah as we grew up we became different but we still get along and like the same things. Should i try contacting her again? or is that desperate? |
| Question: Did I backstab or did I do the right thing? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 10:40 AM PDT Well me sam and chloe were good friends. Chloe then tells me that sam is a bad person and told me her "secrets". I started not to sam because I believed in what chloe said. However, I still talked to sam even though I said mean things. (For some reason I'll say mean things behind her but when we are together I talk to her and my dislike against her is out the window idk). Chloe then confronts me about how fake I am to sam and how she would tell her everything (even though she hates her). I told Sam everything, about how chloe doesn't like you anymore and leaked her secrets. I also did tell her that I said mean things behind her back and apologized ( I only said on detail of what I said). Sam was happy that i was honest to her. I then told Chloe and she got so mad and called me a backstabber, and a bully. What should I do? I feel terrible |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 10:39 AM PDT Today I realized something. I've always thought that there have been things in my life or other people who ruin the good things that I have. Because there have been so many times when my life has been perfect and then something has changed and I'm back on step 1. Yet what I realized was that I'm the one who ruins them. It's not someone else. Or something else. Every time something really good comes into my life I ruin them. And it's not by overthinking, it's just that I destroy them. And I don't know why. I don't really know what to do about it. I have this new best friend, he and I have been great friends for 2 months now. And I've been thinking about dropping contact with him, getting new friends and so forth. In the beginning I thought it was because I kind of hooked up with his absolute best friend for a while, I started having feelings for that guy and then it didn't work out and so forth. It's painful to see my friend now. But I realized today, when I looked at him with the thought of maybe not seeing him in a long time, that I would be fine with that pain. And I realized how much I would hurt my friend and probably myself too. But for some reason I still want to do it. And I realized it's because I do want to ruin this. It's too stable and too good and I don't know why but that makes me want to destroy it. Either I love drama or I just don't trust this. Or maybe I want to ruin it myself before something else does. How do I change this behaviour? |
| Question: How can I find my friend from Mumbai, India? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 10:21 AM PDT Hey, I have a friend from Mumbai, India, but I can't seem to find him anywhere online. I know the name of his closest family members, his birthday and year and that he take (took) karate classes. I would love to have his number/address/email. Thank you :) |
| Question: Why is my girlfriend so immature ? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 10:07 AM PDT first of all, she's 21 and I'm 49. She is just so immature. All she wanna do is go out and party . She's silly like she'll fart or fart to her friends over the phone and still laughs and her dumb friends laugh with her . She still lives at home with her mom. I've been dating her since she was 20 and she's still just as immature. How can I change this |
| Question: Food keeps dissapearing in my house? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 10:01 AM PDT I live with my best friend. We had another roommate but we changed the locks and kicked him out because he was a theif, liar, and a junkie. I also have two dogs and a cat. But I doubt that part has anything to do with this. For the past two weeks we had really fucky **** going on with food. The first time it happened my friend got upset and threw his fast food in a bag in the trash. 10 minutes later we found it on top of the fridge with no signs of it even touching the trashcan. He's too short to reach that high and I never touched it. I'll take out the trash and put a new bag in and all the sudden its filled when I come back into the kitchen 5 minutes later. Food will go from the fridge to some invisible mouth. I left last night to look over my grandmother. I came over the next morning to find my XL pizza mostly eaten and my friend never touched it. My dogs couldn't have possibly eaten food stored in a fridge or move food to high places. Neither could my cat. Weird **** keeps happening. I can tell my friend isn't lying as he is allergic to tomatoes. Could my ex roommate possibly be breaking in to steal food or is it a ghost or what? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2016 09:51 AM PDT I'm cringing just writing this, but I'm in year 9 (14) and I just feel like me an my best friend aren't on the same terms as we usually are. Like, I'm not just saying that she was mean to me once or twice, because I guess it's indirect. So, a while back ,there was a rumour about my sister and I said to my best friend that it wasn't true, even though it was, to protect her because by that time I already felt like I couldn't trust her as much. Then a couple of days ago, she found out it was and she started to get really annoyed with me. I was quite hurt as she never needed to know about that in the first place - but now I'm kinda thinking maybe I should have told her even if I didn't want to?? There's also this girl who I really don't like and she's been mean to me a couple of times and me and my 'bestie' have always been the type to hate who the other hates, but instead, she's been telling me how rude I have been only for saying that I didn't want to sit on the girl I hate's lunch table because I knew she would be mean to me ... She hardly ever talks about things that I can talk about and there's hardly a day without an argument. I just feel I can't be myself around her anymore but I don't want to lose her yet at the same time I don't want to be around her - what should I do? SORRY THAT WAS SO LONG! <3 |
| Question: She wants to move in with me? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 09:47 AM PDT my friends and i have moved into a new apartment block. We have tonnes of fun and i like the freedom of being on my own. Ive been dating this girl for a year and she wants to move in with me. My friends have said dont because she'll kill the vibe and i think its too fast i dont think its a good idea. However i did promise to let my sister's best friend stay while shes in town looking for somewhere else. is 1 year normal to move in? Will she be upset/suspicious im letting my sister friend stay? I dont plan on telling her about the sister best friend problem she is staying for a week only. |
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| Question: Is what my son is doing a normal thing? Posted: 27 Apr 2016 09:09 AM PDT A good friend of mine ask me if her 15 year old daughter Betty could stay at my home while they were on a 4 week cruise. I said yes but I thought I might have a problem with my 18 year old son. I did not want him to have a live in girl friend and I could not be home 24/7 to watch them. I talked to my son and he told me he had a girlfriend and he was not interested in ANY 15 year old girl even if he didn't have a girlfriend. I was a little worried but it turned out I was worried for nothing. When Betty moved in, my son became VERY protective of her just like she was the little sister he never had. He gave her his cell phone and told her to call him anytime day or night that she was in a situation where some guy was pressuring her to have sex or where there was alcohol was being served and he would come and get her. He told her he was available to help her with her homework anytime she needed him. Betty thinks having my son as a good friend is wonderful. She has found someone she can share her innermost thoughts and secrets with. Since I don't have any girls I don't know if this is this normal behavior for an 18 year old boy and a 15 year old girl? Is it? |
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