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- Question: Does my friend care?
- Question: So what do you do when your friend is acting different but you don't want her to know because i know that i might screw up our friendship?
- Question: Did I really screw up at my buddies home?
- Question: What should I expect or do now?
- Question: Was it fair for me to get detention for this?
- Question: How to get a guy at school to leave you alone?
- Question: A lot of people at school hate me because I'm loud?
- Question: How do I support the person without supporting the actions?
- Question: Was I raped by my boyfriend and/or friend? What should I do?
- Question: Am I asking too much of my friend?
- Question: Life just sucks?
- Question: Hey guys can you please give me advice on a real situation so long story short my cousin is 16 years old she used to be my bff now she is .?
- Question: Will a guy think this creepy?
- Question: Guy said this please help?
- Question: I lied to stay out of trouble, am I a bad kid?
- Question: My sister is a loser. How can I help her?
- Question: Was I raped by my boyfriend and/or friend? What should I do?
- Question: Help! Annoying friend!?
- Question: How would i get my bestfriend to read homestuck?
- Question: Timothy R. Nass, Dubuque,IA locate?
- Question: Does my friend not like me anymore?
- Question: How to deal with a bitchy " picture perfect " girl?
- Question: What do you think about Maddie Ziegler?
- Question: What are some incredible true stories.?
- Question: Random Story Plots?
- Question: Am I weird? What going on with me?
- Question: How to stop talking to my friend who I don't like anymore?
- Question: People make fun of me and it s starting to hurt..?
- Question: Making friends at university?
- Question: WAS SHE RUDE?
- Question: Why do all of my old friends hate me?
- Question: How would you define a friend? What's the difference between friend and an acquaintance to you?
- Question: Why are people so torn between whether it's okay to have friends of the opposite sex once married? Is either really wrong?
- Question: Can friendship be quantified?
- Question: This girl at school bullies me and I sent her text messages and made her cry?
- Question: Do Trump supporters have black friends?
- Question: How to get into a friends house?
- Question: Is searching a couch crasher's internet history morally okay?
- Question: Do I tell the truth or lie?
- Question: UPDATE: I stole something in the past (5 years ago) and I feel really guilty, How do I give it all back now?
- Question: How can I stop from being so jealous of other people?
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- Question: There's this really annoying girl thats secretly mean to a girl at our table and she started sitting at our table and inivited herelf, HELP?
- Question: My best friend stole from me and lied about it, should I forgive her?
- Question: Should I say sorry?
- Question: My best friend always takes my aux cord?
- Question: My friends keep leaving me out?
- Question: Am i a coward?
- Question: How do I survive without my friend for quite some time?
- Question: Hey! Have a wonderful day! <3?
- Question: Is this guy shy only towards me?
- Question: I've only been to one Sweet 16.. am I a loser?
- Question: My best friend's step father is very overprotective about her?
- Question: Why was this weird?
- Question: My parents force me to do something I don t want to do?
- Question: My best friend told me that I'm not allowed to hug her anymore...?
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- Question: Did we offend this person?
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| Question: Does my friend care? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 04:46 PM PDT |
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| Question: Did I really screw up at my buddies home? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 04:42 PM PDT I was failing high school math and my buddy John invited me to have his non married mom who is an engineer tutor me for free. I gladly accepted his offer. At his house he introduced his mom. WOW. She was gorgeous. I think she was the best looking woman I had ever seen in my life. She had a figure to die for. 36 G I guess. She was showing a lot and I mean A LOT of cleavage. After a few minutes of tutoring I suddenly had a problem. I got a b0ner the size of Texas. Lucky of me I was seated at a table and she could not see it. After it went down, I told her I had do leave. She said "So soon. Did something come up"? OH MY GOD. Did it ever but I didn't think she knew about it. How did she know? Could she tell it on my face OR was it just an innocent remark? I know I can NEVER go back to John's house and see his mother. I would get a b0ner immediately and I would be totally embarrassed. I wish I knew how to tell him the real reason I can't come back. Would a guy be offended if I told him his mom is the most beautiful, hot, and sexy woman on earth? |
| Question: What should I expect or do now? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 04:12 PM PDT Today, me and two other friends we drove out for lunch during school day. Both of my friends decided to go to cvs and I thought they were going to buy something. But things didn't turn out that away. Both of my friends stole two sodas from the fridge and walked out of the back door. I didn't what to do but just watching them walking out. I DIDNT STEAL ANYTHING. I told them to not do that and go back to pay for them but they refused and told me not to worry. I feel really guilty and bad now. I seriously didn't know they were trying to steal. I am sort of scared now. I am 17 now and I am applying to colleges soon. Will I get caught? What kind of trouble am I going to get into? What should I do now? What should I expect? I need some help guys! Come on!!! |
| Question: Was it fair for me to get detention for this? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 04:11 PM PDT One time i accidentally slammed a door on a girls finger, but the girl had told the dean that i had been mean to her before, but the door slamming had nothing to do with that. However the dean thought the two were connected and punished me anyway. Gave me a lunch detention, was this fair? |
| Question: How to get a guy at school to leave you alone? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 04:10 PM PDT There's this guy in my class who is CONSTANTLY bugging me. And at first I thought it was just because he liked me and it still might be but I'm not at all interested because 1. I'm a teen and dating isn't my thing and 2. He's immature as s***. But he's not leaving me alone and he insults me thinking it's funny but after a while it got too much and last week he boob punched me and it hurt so bad that I almost cried and I never cry. I left school early today because he was already bothering me and today is a day I can't deal with anyone's BS. But I know I'll have to face him tomorrow. He just doesn't see how much he's affecting me. And just please don't say "talk to your parents about it." Because that's a whole other long story... |
| Question: A lot of people at school hate me because I'm loud? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 04:01 PM PDT Recently a lot of people seem angry at me when I talk to them. They say I'm loud. But it's hard not to be loud for me. I just get too damn excited. So what do I do? |
| Question: How do I support the person without supporting the actions? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:49 PM PDT My former neighbor has landed herself and her three children in an unfortunate situation. Her 11 year old twins and my 10 year old twins were best friends. lived right across the street and two of them were in the same class for two years. My neighbor and I talked. I guess she considered us friends. I say this because of the way she reacted when she wasn't getting enough support from me. I never considered us friends. I only saw us as neighbors. She tells me about how she takes care of her kids. How she does her dirt. About getting high. About her sugar daddies. I also get to hear about how her husband left her and moved to Colorado and pays the mortgage so she can stay in the house with the kids. One day out of the blue there is a 24 hour notice to vacate and she is moving out. She post all kind of stuff on Facebook asking for help. I stayed out of it because I don't want to get involved like that. But sure enough she is over telling me how her husband sold the house back to the bank. I know better. That's called Foreclosure. That or he got tired of paying for a whore house. So a single mom of three with a dog and a boyfriend lets a single mom of three with a dog and no boyfriend move into her house. I see trouble waiting to happen. I didn't go visit her much after she moved down the street but one day on my way down the street my kids tell me they don't live there anymore. When I asked what happened they said that she threatened to burn down this woman's house. I want to reach out to her and her kids so bad. I worry about her and the kids. Both her girls are gifted and got in bachelorette programs. But now that aren't even in school now that she got kicked out. I see posts all the time on Facebook about fake friends and all kinds of nonsense. I really can't stand the kind of person she is but I also can't see myself just standing by and doing nothing. The last time I saw them I let my kids bag up care packages for all three of her kids. |
| Question: Was I raped by my boyfriend and/or friend? What should I do? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:36 PM PDT I apologize in advance for the length.. Javier: (ex?) boyfriend. Dono: mutual friend, Javi's best friend. We're all 'underage' by the way: So the other day I was at my boyfriend's house and we'd had sex before his best friend Dono came over (walked in on us, laughed it off), and later were all chilling and watching a movie. Javier started kissing me, then getting really intimate. It's not abnormal for him but he began putting his hands up my shirt, etc. Dono came over and began to 'film' it, which I thought was a joke. - I still don't know if he really was or not. But, needless to say, I felt very uncomfortable at this point and trying to just tell them to ease up. They both began telling me to just go with it, it's fine, etc,. I REALLY didn't want to, and was uncomfortable. I DID say and Javi just wouldn't stop. I don't know if this was planned between them, but Dono continued 'recording' and pressuring me. He pulled off my shirt, and I was very reluctant the whole time, but could've been more forceful in physically getting him off but was scared...so (descriptive, sorry) Dono pulled of my shorts, moved my panties aside and fingered me. Once he was doing it, I was much less physically reluctant, but did NOT want a part of this and made it clear. At the same time, Javier was grabbing me and kissing me, and asking me to touch him, do stuff. I didn't, and ended up having a panic attack shortly after Dono actually went inside me. This was nothing like them, especially Javi. I'm just confused on what to do..I really don't want to lose Javier, or Dono for that matter. Javier usually a really caring, protective, faithful guy. This hurts like hell literally and metaphorically. I feel like if I take the step of reporting this as rape, it'll be easier for me to accept and leave both of them. I just feel really vulnerable I guess, even after what they did I feel like I'D be the bad guy for reporting them. I feel like I could've tried harder physically, but was scared. |
| Question: Am I asking too much of my friend? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:35 PM PDT My University graduation is coming up in early May and I've invited my best friend. It's really important to me that she comes because she's like a sister to me. Here's the predicament: My best friend lives in my hometown 6 hours away. She doesn't have a car but my parents offered to drive. In order to drive with my parents, she will have to miss one day of classes and 2-3 days of work. My friend seems really hesitant about having to miss school/ work and found a someone else who would roadtrip wtih her so she could still go to her classes and miss less work. The thing is, I want her there for the WHOLE weekend, not just part of it. I understand I'm asking a lot , and I know her finances are really tight. But, I feel like it's okay for me to be selfish-- it's my graduation! What do you guys think? Am I being unreasonable or should my best friend come to my graduation? |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:27 PM PDT I feel like nobody cares about me. I feel lonely, yes I play games and I like to have fun, but people always seem to get to me. My family is the only good hope I have left. I feel that I am my only friend. I don't know how to control a diet and how to maintain my time, and I want to learn how to change. I would really appreciate some kind words right now. :( |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:24 PM PDT my cousin used to be the sweetest most innocent girls im now 26 shes 16 im moved on with my life but she now has alot of problems she has mental problems shes diagnosed bipolar manic with paranoia along with anger anxiety and depression and she might even be pregnant is her life SPIRALING OUT OF CONTROL what she going to do she does NOT GET ALONT WITH HER FAMILY SO I KNOW THEY WILL NOT BE THERE FOR HER emotionally or financially shes also being raised by a single parent how can i help? |
| Question: Will a guy think this creepy? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:22 PM PDT There's a guy in my class who I find cute. He always stares at me when he thinks I'm not looking. We've only said hi to each other once. I know his first name and I found his last name online. So basically I'm worried he'll think it's odd that I know his last name. Is it creepy to add him on Instagram? |
| Question: Guy said this please help? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:19 PM PDT A guy told me he would make me his gf then he said he already has someone and "do not message anymore" i told him im in a relationship earlier. Whats up with him lol? |
| Question: I lied to stay out of trouble, am I a bad kid? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:18 PM PDT This girl and I today got in a fight and I didnt want her to think I was a pervert so i made up a huge lie of how I am pretending to be something Im not, just because I DIDNT WANT TO LOSE HER AS A FRIEND! |
| Question: My sister is a loser. How can I help her? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:16 PM PDT She's addicted to drugs (marijuana) and has 1 friend, when she isn't hanging out with that 1 friend and smoking pot with him she hangs out with her cat all day. She has no job and from what I've heard it sounds like she doesn't want to get one. It's really sad and I can't pick and choose my family members so how can i change her? Please help me 💙 |
| Question: Was I raped by my boyfriend and/or friend? What should I do? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 03:05 PM PDT I apologize in advance for the length.. Javier: (ex?) boyfriend. Dono: mutual friend, Javi's best friend. We're all 'underage' by the way: So the other day I was at my boyfriend's house and we'd had sex before his best friend Dono came over (walked in on us, laughed it off), and later were all chilling and watching a movie. Javier started kissing me, then getting really intimate. It's not abnormal for him but he began putting his hands up my shirt, etc. Dono came over and began to 'film' it, which I thought was a joke. - I still don't know if he really was or not. But, needless to say, I felt very uncomfortable at this point and trying to just tell them to ease up. They both began telling me to just go with it, it's fine, etc,. I REALLY didn't want to, and was uncomfortable. I DID say and Javi just wouldn't stop. I don't know if this was planned between them, but Dono continued 'recording' and pressuring me. He pulled off my shirt, and I was very reluctant the whole time, but could've been more forceful in physically getting him off but was scared...so (descriptive, sorry) Dono pulled of my shorts, moved my panties aside and fingered me. Once he was doing it, I was much less physically reluctant, but did NOT want a part of this and made it clear. At the same time, Javier was grabbing me and kissing me, and asking me to touch him, do stuff. I didn't, and ended up having a panic attack shortly after Dono actually went inside me. This was nothing like them, especially Javi. I'm just confused on what to do..I really don't want to lose Javier, or Dono for that matter. Javier usually a really caring, protective, faithful guy. This hurts like hell literally and metaphorically. I feel like if I take the step of reporting this as rape, it'll be easier for me to accept and leave both of them. I just feel really vulnerable I guess, even after what they did I feel like I'D be the bad guy for reporting them. I feel like I could've tried harder physically, but was scared. |
| Question: Help! Annoying friend!? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:58 PM PDT Four months ago I began working at a new job where I met a young lady who also worked there and held the same position as me.(we no longer work together) We clicked instantly and became friends to the point where we now hang out and talk to one another via phone. Ever since we became friends she has let me in on her relationship with a very disrespectful guy. Now EVERYDAY she will constantly call and text me about something disrespectful he has done or said to her. Every conversation we have consists of her crying & or mad and me telling her she has to remove herself from him. I am not sure if she calls me just to vent or for me to actually be a friend and give her advice bc clearly she does not take it! It's repetitive & draining. Also, if I'm sharing something about myself she always has something negative to say or becomes a naysayer. For example I told her I went out with other friends on a double date and ended up meeting a really great guy that I'm really interested in. She had nothing good to say & tried to make me feel bad about talking to him. So what is the prob. W/ her? How should I go about being friends with her? Should I continue or not even waste my time w/ this "friendship"? |
| Question: How would i get my bestfriend to read homestuck? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:56 PM PDT i have this bestfriend that i really think would like homestuck i just don't know how to get her to read it and well ya but i really want a friend to talk about it with |
| Question: Timothy R. Nass, Dubuque,IA locate? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:55 PM PDT |
| Question: Does my friend not like me anymore? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:54 PM PDT My friend, who I havent really seen as much in the past year but used to be close with, has been somewhat ignoring me on social media ately. I sent a private message on FB asking how they were which never got answered. My posts on their wall usually go unnoticed but they will comment on other peoples posts. Mind you, we were talking on a regular basis as recent as last fall and their was not a particular incident that could have caused them to not want to talk anymore. Has this happened to anyone else? |
| Question: How to deal with a bitchy " picture perfect " girl? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:51 PM PDT So in my math class, there is a girl who is, well, bitchy. I hate to say it, and I even hate saying bitchy because I dread cuss words. But how else can I describe her besides annoying. Also, she has a lot of her friends ( that are girls ) in that particular class, so obviously she will get a LOT and I mean a LOT of support of what she says. I talk to one of her friends that are guys, and she will just start almost predictably two seconds after I start to talk- literally! I timed the "conversation" in my head. I was like: One Mississippi, Two Mississ-" And then she would cut me off with some crappy way of telling me to shut up, pay attention, etc. That's not the reason of why I'm angry at her. In fact, I admit I'm talkative, I admit that. But it angers me how she's always on her goddamned phone, always gossiping away with her dumbass crap. I'd swear that her friends are bored listening to her sh!t. Anytime I say: ssssssshhhhhhh! That sassafras *** says some crappy sh!t like, " Say something like be quiet please, it's more polite.", that's just an excuse for her to get out of the negative attention she is receiving an I'd really appreciate advice on how to respond to her without teacher or adult contact, because I don't want to make a big deal out of this and I just want to end this situation and move on with my life. Thanks a ton. |
| Question: What do you think about Maddie Ziegler? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:44 PM PDT |
| Question: What are some incredible true stories.? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:43 PM PDT It could be any true story that you have heard of. Doesn't matter when it happened. |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:41 PM PDT It can be something that actually happened to you or just a random story you made up. |
| Question: Am I weird? What going on with me? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:40 PM PDT Im a person who cares about others alot what others think how they feel but I dont care about my self. It just got worse recently I will be so hurted if something bother s you but I will never see something about mine burden. like today I didn't bring my food in school and my friend wanted to give me snacks I refused coz I felt burdened though I dislike when she doesnt accept it from me. Its like that im saying im okey don't be considered about me. |
| Question: How to stop talking to my friend who I don't like anymore? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:35 PM PDT My friend from elementary school has gone to a different middle school than me and we sometimes see each other at family friends events. Now we are going to the same High School. He is really weird and I liked it better when we didn't see each other as often. Now that we are going to go to the same High School he is going to want to be "besties". I haven't liked him for a while and I was trying to be nice, but I don't want to hang out with him in High School how do I show this to him. The reason why I say show is because then it will be this whole big issue. So how do I leave or friendship without saying anything? |
| Question: People make fun of me and it s starting to hurt..? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:31 PM PDT Soo.. I ve been feeling kind of insecure lately. Nobody has ever made fun of me, except a looooong time ago when I was overweight and people would call me fat and stuff, but usually I m called pretty and guys hit on me and all that. I ll be honest, it boosted my confidence up a lot! Not to the point where I m a conceited bish or anything, I ve just become a lot more happy with myself, ya know? Although lately, 3 of my best friends have been calling me ugly and all that, and making fun of me for being single. I don t know. It just really hurts because I can tell they re not really joking... I know when they re joking, and they re not. One of them used to call me pretty all the time but now all they ever do is call me rude names. It hurts so freaking much and I have no idea what to do. I don t wanna lose them as best friends or anything... I just I don t know what to do. It s been really difficult for me to stay as confident as I was when all I ever hear is their mean words everyday. I told my mom about this and she just said they re probably jealous... I don t know though. Basically... what should I do?! How can I stay confident? Should I confront them....? Ughhhhh :( |
| Question: Making friends at university? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:23 PM PDT I was always a popular person in high school but now as i am in my first year of uni its not the case as much. Everyone is a lot older than me and i just feel nervous of going out there and making friends just because of the fear of being rejected. Bare in mind i am in studying abroad in spain with international students and im originally from manchester. In high school i was so confident, i was the funny one and i would get a long with everyone. Since i have arrived at university i have a few friends but i keep holding to them rather than making lots of friends and meeting loads of new people. Im not the best looking guy i would say im average and that kind of worries me as people will judge. For example i'm worried of asking to hang out with someone incase they say no and this is the period where you want to build friendship groups. Any advice would be highly appreciated;) |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:22 PM PDT At school today my friend, Kate, and I were in history class doing practice for the AP exam. I kept trying to work on the problems with her but she had a nasty attitude and didn't want to do anything. She wasn't responsive when I said things, and I finally snapped and told her she was being rude. Afterwards now, I regret saying that. Her friendship means a lot to me and I don't want to lose her, but at the same time I can't keep taking Kate's attitude. What do I do??? |
| Question: Why do all of my old friends hate me? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:21 PM PDT This will be long, but please read and help me: I'll tell you the full story. I got with this girl, things were great. Her family liked me, her friends liked me, we fell in love, and got married after two years. Two months into our marriage, she cheated on me and left me for him. I see why she left, I don't fault her. I had an addiction to pain pills. But, I was trying to better myself, I quit the pills, and enlisted in the military. I was about to ship out to basic training when I decided to go see my mom. I went to her state, and unfortunately got hit by a truck, thus ending my military aspirations. After months of therapy, I came back home. A lot of the people her and I were friends with took her side. Her and I are on pretty good terms but they still hate me. They talk all sorts of crap and it kinda makes me feel terrible. I know I made mistakes, but I was sick! She was just an a$shole that wanted to f*ck somebody else. And a lot of our old friends know that, and aren't okay with what she's done, her family included. But, my closest friend took her side. It's just amazing how ungrateful he is after all the times I helped him out. I saved him so many times, and he still treats me like dirt, and is still lusting after her and her friend. |
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| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:16 PM PDT Seems very subjective and depends on the person. But why such a difference? |
| Question: Can friendship be quantified? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:07 PM PDT Can friendship be quantified? I have a friend, a very good friend I thought. I need a favor. A favor that I cannot find another more appropriate person to help me (taking care of my cat for several days). I know he did this for one of his other friends. He refused to help me. The circumstance is, because of my cat's personality and physical condition, I cannot send him to a cat hotel. Most of my friends have baby kids, which is not a good idea. So after tried around and looked through all the contacts in my phone, I found he is the only one who should be able to help. I know he does not like animal much. But as I said, he did for another friend. I know I shall never push somebody, no matter a good friend or stranger, to do anything. But after I seriously begged him, I cannot stop myself thinking this question: can friendship be quantified? Does this mean I'm not as important as his friend in his mind. I want to be reasonable, so I think somebody might be able to mentor me on this relationship issue. Thank you in advance. |
| Question: This girl at school bullies me and I sent her text messages and made her cry? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:06 PM PDT I'm in 8th grade and this girl bullies me. My best friend is friends with her and she didn't want the girl to be friends with a boy who called her a bi7ch. I asked for the girls number and pretended to be the boy and I started calling her ***** and all that. She told the head teacher but I was at home sick for a week and then two weeks Easter holiday but the school called my mum shortly after the text messages and wanted to confirm if that was my phone number. Then they said that they are going to have a talk with me after I come back from my sickness but I didn't go. I had enough of teachers acting like they ******* own me. I told headteacher countless times that she bullies me and calls my mum a *****. Now it's the last day of the holidays and I'm freaking out because the headteacher always seen me as a nice hardworking student. I know it's my fault but I really don't care. When mum was on the phone with the school she said that I said that girl called her a ***** and the school said " oh but she sent really nasty texts and now she is really upset and is crying, we are going to have a talk with your daughter when she is back". I'm ******* done. Yet when some other bi7ch sends me "nasty" texts and i show the teachers, they don't do "bullshit" urggh help me what should I don't know if they forgot to talk to me after 3 weeks but I'm deadly scared to stand up for myself against the teachers. |
| Question: Do Trump supporters have black friends? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 02:01 PM PDT I'm pretty sure they don't considering the Trumpster gets the white supremacist vote |
| Question: How to get into a friends house? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:56 PM PDT My bestfriend is hurting herself and i need to go help her right now but i have never been to her house before and it isnt an option that her parents know right now. i need an excuse to show up at her house uninvited and go to her room. help asap |
| Question: Is searching a couch crasher's internet history morally okay? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:49 PM PDT The guy I share a condo with invited his friend to sleep on our couch for 2-3 weeks. The guys left to go get food and left his PC unlocked. So I searched the newcomer's internet history. I think I did it to get insight into this person's life in case I should decide to kick him out sooner. But he was completely clean. Nothing creepy or suspicious. So now I feel guilty. |
| Question: Do I tell the truth or lie? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:49 PM PDT I did something really bad and the consequence could get me suspended or even expelled from school. I haven t yet been suspected of doing it but every time I hear people conversating about the situation, my heart skips a beat and I feel sick to my stomach. The thing is, there s no way the problem could be traced back to me, at least I m almost positive. What should I do? I m such a good student and I really don t want to risk my reputation bc everyone will hate me |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:46 PM PDT Original Question: I stole something in the past and I feel really bad now, like I should confess, what should I do? Hi, my name is Lilia, and currently I'm a 9th grader. When I was in 4th grade, I stole from a lot of people's lockers, literally. Pencil boxes, shoes, even clothes. What's strange is I don't even know why I did it! There weren't any cameras then so I didn't get caught, but I feel really bad. My last theft: in 6th grade I took a pencil box from my friend but I felt horrible and gave it back the next day. Strangely I didn't feel anything back then, but now I feel terrible! I knew it was wrong, I just did it. I stopped stealing in 7th grade completely, but I'm still really scared I'll go to jail or something. I really want to keep going to school! Right now, I suddenly feel like I really want to confess to someone, but if I tell my parents they will probably kill me, because I come from a pretty noble family. I know what I did was wrong, and now I still have some of that stuff! What should I do with it? Should I tell anyone? Please help!! I feel really, really terrible and guilty! UPDATE: Hey, it's Lilia. What would happen if I just confessed? I still have all the stuff, I could give it back, but how? I really really want to give everything back without anyone noticing. (I still have most of the things) Please tell me what to do! I really don't want to go to jail. And I feel bad for doing it, I'm never going to steal again. Thanks! |
| Question: How can I stop from being so jealous of other people? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:35 PM PDT So I have a problem where I seem to always get jealous of other people. It really bothers me. For example I have one friend who just bought a new house with her husband. The house is very nice and has a nice new updated kitchen. I am beyond jealous. Another friend of mine has a good paying job that allows her to stay home with her kids and work from home. I am very jealous of that because my job does not allow that. Lastly I have a friend who has lost about 50 pounds by going to the gym and sticking to a strict diet. I am pretty jealous of that because while I do go to the gym as well I can never quite seem to stick to a schedule or lose any weight. I'm not overweight but I would like to tone up and I can't even stick to a diet. Ugh! How can I stop being so jealous of others and appreciate what I have? |
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| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:26 PM PDT So the most annoying girl in the grade asked on day if she could sit down that day at our table and we were like "okay yah sure" and i was like yah why and she said "well u guys seem really cool and chill with eachother and i thought id sit here today" and we were like okay and kinda talked to her. So now she sits at our table EVERY SINGLE DAY eninvited and says our table now and we tried ignoring her because she always butts in and tries to invite her self to the movies and stuff and tries to become part of our group of 6. I know what this might sound like to u "oh shes just trying to make friends, im sure shes benign and wants some more friends" but NO she is so horrible to everyone and people kicked her off her original table because she was so mean and annoying.She now thinks she can just sit with us. We're not strict about friends joining us, we even have 2 new girls (all of them) in our group because they were nice and knew when to say appropriate things.She just says all these weird things and doesnt know when to stop saying embarrasing things about herself. Its embarrasing having her sit at our table because people think we're like her and we just wanna get rid of her.Now ive figured out that shes been doing/saying really mean things to a girl iour group and judging and confronting them about their jokes and their friendship. She even made this girl in our group cry because she thought to invite her guy friend (ex of the other girl) to sit with her. What should we do? |
| Question: My best friend stole from me and lied about it, should I forgive her? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:22 PM PDT My best friend asked if I wanted to put $10 in for a pizza and she'd do the same since she apparently got money from her dad. Later I realized I was missing $10 from my wallet and I began to wonder how my friend suddenly had $10 today but not last night...when she hadn't seen her dad since yesterday morning. I asked her dad if he gave her money and he said no. I confronted her about it. She said she found it on the ground at the party we were at the night before and maybe someone took it from my purse and left it there. I considered this, but then I remembered my wallet was under my other friend's seat in her car and that friend and the one who stole from me were the only two people who had my wallet last night and this morning. She finally admitted to stealing and she's apologized so many times for it. But I just can't trust her anymore. I don't know if I should be her friend. |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:21 PM PDT Hello to everyone who reads this, so I was playing Smite today(April 11, 2016) and I was playing with some online friends and a new character was going to come out tomorrow and I told my friends how to play the new character, and one of my friends kept asking how even though I already explained it twice, so I yelled at him telling him how to do it and he left the Curse voice chat, and he wants a apology from me according to one of my other friends, so when I invited him back to the call I said "I'm not gonna say sorry, just so you know." and then he told me every kid in his class calls him a "retard" and I don't know how it feels to be called a "retard" everyday |
| Question: My best friend always takes my aux cord? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:17 PM PDT It's MY aux cord that I bought with MY money in MY car. Not that I care if she plays music but the problem is how she does it. If we get in the car and I grab the cord, she takes it out of my hands or unplugs it. Then we have a tug of war for the cord for like a minute. When I win she gets mad and says like,"I hate you. I seriously hate you right now." in her car, I don't play music unless she asks me too because it's her car and it's just courteous to let her play it. One time she unplugged my phone mid song, unplugged the cord, and threw them both in the back seat. I would have no problem with it if she asked, and I'd most likely let her. But this **** is getting old how do I make her stop |
| Question: My friends keep leaving me out? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 01:10 PM PDT Whenever we're out together, they only talk to one another. I have to go "Hey, listen to me" to get their attention before saying anything. When we're out eating, they sometimes just leave without telling me. I think they're using the bathroom or getting their food, and wait 20 minutes, only to realize they're gone. No "Hey, we're going shopping. Want to come with us?" or "We're going to visit _____." They just get up and leave. And when we're walking together, I feel like I'm a younger sibling tagging along, instead of their friend. Their idea of the three of us "walking together" is them in front, and me walking behind them. I try to keep up with them, but I somehow always end up in the back. It makes me so mad when I see them giggling and laughing over something while I'm behind them alone. What makes me angriest is the fact that I'm always putting them first and including them in things, but they don't do the same for me. I've told them multiple times that they should stop leaving me out, and their response is always "Okay, we're sorry," but they never stop. They're really nice people otherwise, and I don't think they're doing it on purpose, but they're always saying they'll include me in things but they never do. I'm so sick and tired of how they're treating me. I've cried a lot over it, and I still feel like crying every time I think about it. Any advice on how to deal with this? |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 12:52 PM PDT I was sitting in lunch with my friends nd one of their big brother comes up to me and tells me "hey thats my seat" it didn't bother me even thoe i was sitting there first but he's been sitting there for about 2 weeks but i didnt really care about looking for another chair to me its not a big deal but my friend saw what happened and he said i was a coward and that i should have told him to **** off or something.i am really not the guy to start problems at school especially for a chair but what do u guys think |
| Question: How do I survive without my friend for quite some time? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 12:37 PM PDT I honestly only have one friend and I have an extremely hard time making new ones. My friend lives in another country very far away. She is leaving for about 2-3months to study and other stuff. She will be very busy so I won't be able to chat nor talk to her at all. I miss her so much already and I have been crying so much. How do I survive without her? I don't have any close family members or any other friends at all. I'm 18. Thanks for reading! |
| Question: Hey! Have a wonderful day! <3? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 12:31 PM PDT |
| Question: Is this guy shy only towards me? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 12:20 PM PDT I'm into a guy in my class. He stares when I'm not looking and looks at me then away when I'm looking at the student next to him. As I was going to class I saw him get out of a car and walk ahead of me but didn't look back. I'm sure he knew I was behind him because he held the door when we arrived at class. I said thanks he said welcome. That's the only talking we've done so far. I thought he was shy until he started talking to a talkative, friendly, plain looking Asian lady who's 10+ years older than us. Why won't he talk to me if he talks to her? |
| Question: I've only been to one Sweet 16.. am I a loser? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 11:38 AM PDT My cousin who lives in a different town than me has been to like 8 sweet 16s! And she's still getting invited to more! I've only been to one, and I might get invited to one more but that's it. I'm supposed to be popular or whatever in school but I feel like a loser compared to her. It makes me upset because I try to make the most of each time period in my life and I feel like im missing out or something. what do I do? |
| Question: My best friend's step father is very overprotective about her? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 11:23 AM PDT I need help, my friends step dad is very overprotective about her. He makes her wear a jacket every single day at school because he thinks "all the boys are going to look at her chest", if she or our friends talk to a male classmate, he will take away her phone, tablet, etc. he has also threatened to beat her up. her mom believes he needs to be there so she has enough money to take care of her and her brother. Somehow he has convinced her mother my friend has mental issues. He even drove 3 hours to drive her to a mental hospital. A few months ago, he started to sit with us everyday during school lunch break, and he watches us at recess in his car. my friend doesn't know what to do, please help *This has been going on for about two years now. He has also told a police officer she is suicidal and needs help. |
| Posted: 11 Apr 2016 11:18 AM PDT recently we were trying to get rid of some unused baby gear and a friend of mine from high school is expecting a baby in about 2 weeks. we gave him all the stuff that we didn't really need any more and he came to pick it up after work on his way home. it was just me and my daughter in the house. a few days later a friend of my husband's commented that it was odd that my friend came to pick up the baby gear by himself instead of with his wife. he seems to be under the impression that a man and a woman shouldn't be alone together. but my husband and I don't really see the issue. is this something that most people would find weird? he was just coming in to get a baby bouncy seat and a Johnny jumper for crying out loud |
| Question: My parents force me to do something I don t want to do? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 11:12 AM PDT Next week there is an upcoming birthday party and my mom s friend wants me to play the piano at the party. My mom is forcing me to do it or she will cancel my piano lessons and will not have me do lessons anymore. I only want to do the piano for fun and not for other people. How do I convince her to not perform at the birthday party but continue doing piano lessons? |
| Question: My best friend told me that I'm not allowed to hug her anymore...? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 11:06 AM PDT So my best friend for 3 years just told me that I can't hug her anymore, at all, for any reason EVER. She told me that she doesn't like it when I hug her because it makes her uncomfortable, and that she's not really a hugging person. I asked her why and I was like "but we've hugged before, and you didn't have any problem with it..." and she then said that it got annoying and that she didn't wanna say anything because she didn't wanna feel like an asshole. She then told me that she gets annoyed by anyone that hugs her, not just me, and sometimes I didn't believe her because whenever I see her hugging someone else, she never seemed to have a problem with it, I even saw her hugging one of her other guy friends today, and I felt jealous. What should I do? When I meant by "jealous," I think it didn't come out right but you know what I mean. |
| Question: Instagram questions???? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 11:04 AM PDT Ok, so i have instagram and i had been talking to an old friend. well i got grounded and knowing my parents they will go through my phone. i never logged out of my instagram. i am borrowing my friends phone at school i logged into my instagram and deleted my messages to him. (not supposed to talk to him because he was arrested for threatening someone) anyways i deleted them, will that delete them off of my phone too?? |
| Question: Their is a really akward girl who keeps following me and my friends? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 10:59 AM PDT Ok pretty much one day it was just me and a couple of friends walking around and talking and we see this girl with a dog so we ask her if we can pet the dog she says ok then she starts rubbing my back and saying all this weird cringiest pick up lines (after that happened we could tell she was a bit autistic and she liked me) PS: No offense to people who are Autistic. My friends could tell that I didn't like her and I didn't want to be rude to her and tell her to just leave I don't like you that would be rude. So we just kept talking to her expecting that she will leave in a while. But she didnt she even started to touch my chest and pull my shirt. And my friends could tell I didn't like it. So eventually one of my friends told me to pretend like I was calling my girlfriend so she would leave me alone and stop hitting on me. And it worked for the first day but the next day she did the same. How do i politely tell her that i don't like her and we don't want to be friends with her in a polite way. Because if we pretend to be her friend and try to ditch her all the time she will eventually know we don't like her and she will be depressed and will not get over it for even longer. |
| Question: Did we offend this person? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 10:44 AM PDT In the beginning of the year we (we were a group of friends in a new school) and another guy hung out and did a few trips and events together. However, the guy was not invited on our facebook group conversation and was not invited to hang out over time (we never thought of him as a part of our group, just classmate) and he caught us hanging out once (he was out by himself getting groceries) and he said he was sad (he has since started hanging out with new friends) and was kinda angry in his tone. Did we offend this person? Do you think he knows what we did to him? |
| Question: Is this good or bad? Posted: 11 Apr 2016 10:44 AM PDT So after a fall out (that was quite a long time ago now) with female friend in my class. Which was genuine misunderstanding that dragged on with cold shoulder for many weeks. She also unfriended on Facebook and any other social media. She also (at the time) never gave me a chance to explain or replied to text message and let it drag on for so long that it was once again up to me to break the ice. But since then we do now have little chats here and there in a group or one to one. And we do get along really well as class friends like this. But still it will probably always be awkward for both of us. But will she ever re-add me on social media stuff. Its pretty awkward as she is messgeing and interacting with the rest of the class but not me at all other than in person. Ive made peace that this is what it will be (just get along in class/in person until end of the course) Is this good or bad as friendships go? Ask questions if you want and thanks anyways :) |
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