Family: Question: My mom won't let me go outside?

Question: My mom won't let me go outside?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:39 PM PST

I twisted my ankle on a scooter yesterday. It swelled up this morning were homeschooled only on Mondays we have co op I didn't go cause my class is 2 flights up. It's once a week. Now because my foot doesn't hurt she thinks I'm faking and I can't go outside. She said if you were in public school and didn't go you wouldn't go outside? How can I convince her to let me?

Question: When can I decide to stop visiting my father over the weekends?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:37 PM PST

My parents divorced a Iong time ago and I live with my mom and visit my dad on the weekends but I don't want to see him anymore I've always hated going over there honestly it's a waste of time going when I have things to do I'm 16 now can I decide to stop going over there now? My mom says that we probably have to go to court or something

Question: Taking off at 18 years old with my own family. Does it consider running away?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 11:55 AM PST

I am 18 and have a 5 month old daughter. I love my family but it is never happy. (When I was 17) I understand they were disappointed in me when I had told them I was pregnant, this is how the arguments happened. We always have arguments, and a few times it became physical while I was pregnant. Thankfully my baby was born unharmed. I had to live with my boyfriend (My baby's biological father) for a couple of months. Till my family called the cops. My boyfriend and I have been planning this for 2 years, ever since then we've been saving up a lot of money and his family didn't agree with our decisions but offered money. We want to live isolated from our families. He is 21, high school graduate, in college to get a college degree and associates degree, he is an oil field worker, and is working his way to become a police officer. I graduated, I just quit my other job and work at Chevrolet as a car salesman. I am in college and also getting an associates degree in criminal justice. Both make pretty good money but want to go higher. The point is everyone is leaving to go to Phoenix on Wednesday this week, that's when we're leaving/moving out. Along with my daughter.

Question: How to break free of past pain and cut off family?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 11:49 AM PST

24 (female) Been in an emotional abusive situation since day 1. My father and mom has 4 children including me. However, during the time my mom got pregnant with me my dad was remarrying... But he was cheating on his new wife with his ex wife which was my mom. When I was born, I was ignored, and he told everyone I wasn't his child... So He went on and came and got my other 3 siblings every weekend and he had 3 children with his wife. One being the same age as me.when I turned 9. My dad felt guilty and started to bring me around his wife and kids. I was treated like **** by my 3 whole siblings and my 3 half siblings. My siblings used to tell me that they came first, they told me that my dad only brought me around because of guilt, and my dad tried his best to love me and be nice... But most of the time he ignored me and avoided showing love to me because he knew it gutted his wife to see that. I always thought I was supposed to come last to him. My mom try to lie and say I'm lying and that my dad loves me but Its me with the problem. We are all adults now and my siblings still rub it in my face and tell me stories on things my dad said about me and how he regret me. My father passed but there's nothing I can do to change it. I have low self esteem and get broken down everyday. If I defend myself ... Everyone attack me and make me the bad one. How do I let go?

Question: Is a mother wrong for not letting her kids have an opinion about the food they eat?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 11:36 AM PST

Is a mother wrong for not allowing her children to have an opinion about the food they eat. For example if they go to a restaurant the mother orders for them what she would order and makes them have that instead of something they would like to try?

Question: My crops haven't grown in 174 years, please help!!!?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 11:14 AM PST

We believe it is a family curse. According to my now passed father, this has been going on since the time of my great, great, grand-pappy. My wife and three children are starved. Their ribs are showing through the absence of flesh on their bodies. The amount of our chickens are slowly declining and the eggs are coming out rotten. Even our family pet dog is feeling the affects of this unfortunate occurrence. He only has three legs because my children were so hungry. We ran out of firewood and had to stay warm through the winter, so we burned most of the furniture in the house. We have left nothing to sell at the market, including our clothes, and we're on the verge of dying. I've already tried making a gofundme and its been up for 7 years but nobody has donated.

Question: Birthday issue with my family?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 11:13 AM PST

I dont want my aunt and my cousin to wish me happy birthday on phone or otherwise to buy me a small cake,i hate them coz they hated my grandfather... What shall I tell them to convince them to shut up with this phariseism?? I rather accept happy birthday wishes from total strangers than these so called close relatives. I feel disgusted to hear wishes from those who harmed me directly and indirectly..isnt it common sense?

Question: Scared to quit my nanny job, but I m miserable.?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 11:02 AM PST

I have been with this family for almost 3 years, and the job was great at first. But since the beginning of the school year things have become unbareable and I am ready to leave. The mother has become very disrespectful and selfish. I went from a regular schedule of 9-4 to basically on call from 8am-7pm with a day s notice. The parents come home whenever they feel like it now and never let me know what time I m needed until. I m never allowed to go over my promised hours, so if I accumulate a lot of time Mon-Thurs, I am actually expected to work for only an hour or two on Friday. The mother is extememly manipulative and uses my love for the kids against me. I don t have sick days, vacation time, or paid holidays. And if they go on vacation or don t need me on a certain day I don t get paid. I want to quit, but the mom thinks of me as a friend and I m worried that she ll be angry if I tell her I am leaving. I actually wasn t supposed to stay for this school year, but cause of changes to her work schedule she still needed me and I argeed to stay. And now I m getting the impression that she thinks I m staying through the next school year, but there s no way that I can. Sticking it out through the summer is going to kill me. I cannot continue to sacrifice my own happiness for this unappreciative mom. But I don t know how to break the news to her without making her angry.

Question: Would you have sex with your mom and marry your mom I would it doesn't matter if she your mom as you and your mom love each other?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 10:42 AM PST

Question: Is there any easy way to hack fb account ?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 10:34 AM PST

I really need this coz I have some privacy problem. I need to delete the messages we sent to each other. It very important. That person has been blackmailing me.The cyber law (or the police thing) doesn't work in this country and i am only 14.I really need help .I don't want my family to be disspointed on methank you find r reading.I have been trying those free hacking websites but they don' t work.

Question: Are my parents rich?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 10:27 AM PST

Hey guys. I have always wondered if I was. In my family it's my mom, dad, my brother and I. My dad makes about 50,000 a year and my mom 20,000. I know with just this salary alone this makes my family middle class. But my dad inherited about 2.2 million from my grandparents and bought 5 rental properties with it and has tenants. On the rental properties, my dad is making about 35,000 a year. I'm not sure if this makes my family rich or still middle class? And does it make our family well off?Thanks for the help!!

Question: My daughter has issues in my opinion?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 10:07 AM PST

Is my daughter weird she has been this way since she was 8 years old now she is 17 she would do her homework eat shower and stare at the wall I'm not complaining she has 6.0 gpa she is in a dual enrollment program. However we offered to buy her video games she says no she doesn't hangout with anybody she does her homework and that's the last we see her until it repeats the cycle. We ask her what's wrong she says nothing is wrong. We taken her to several shrinks all say she doesn't want to be distracted from her priorities. She doesn't call anybody we gave her a cellphone she doesn't use it our phone bill is super low because of that. She doesn't have a crush or a boyfriend. She has a diary and she wrote she doesn't want to be part of a social group because she wants to do her homework and then go to Harvard to study to become a doctor that would cure cancer. However she doesn't want tv or video games or friends. She also writes in her diary that when she is older she will live in her house alone not married and not dating she wants to be alone. What is wrong with her? I'm the dad

Question: Kids already fighting over Will?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 10:05 AM PST

I have three kids. Two of them are pretty well off. One is a nurse, other is an engineer, both have married someone in similar fields so they have enough to make ends meet. My youngest works as a waitress and constantly has money problems. She lives at home with us still. I try to help as much as I can. Anyways, she snooped around my office and found an (old) copy of our Will. We pretty explicitly state that the wealth of the liquidated estate will be split equally between the three.. There are some other items that are going to each kid (her getting most of our furniture and whatnot). She was really upset to see that things are split equally and seems to think that since she is the "least well off" that she should get a larger portion. How can I talk to her about this without her getting super upset over it? I tried to tell her that they are equal in our eyes but she keeps throwing a fit saying the last thing her siblings need is "more money"..

Question: I need a reliable trustworthy 24/7 day care in Orlando zip32822 The hours I work vary so I need 24/7 Someone I can trust to not hurt my baby?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:42 AM PST

Question: If a parent is engaging in sexual behavior (i'm not going into detail) in front of a child who then re-enacts the behavior on another child?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:37 AM PST

will visitation be limited or at least supervised? The same parent is also poisoning the child against the mother along with other member's of the father's family...What should the mother do? There is a visitation order that the parents have to abide by...I don't know what to tell her to help her. If she stops bringing the kid she could get in trouble with the court....

Question: My family makes me stay quiet about my dad abusing me. Help me?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:36 AM PST

It's my fault if my family splits up and my little brothers never find out who their family is. That's what she said but i told her that its not my fault and she said don't ever talk back to her again. She told me to THINK and not act on my anger but I've been thinking for the past 8 years and Ive never called police because of my brothers. Now i am 17 and I think they will be happier where no one beats and yells at them. Even if that means adoption. I don't know if i want them to go to live in another place because of the anger i have held in for all the years or because i want whats best for them. I didn't tell my aunt that he used to make me massage his private part and would punch the side of my head if i didnt i just told her that he beats me. She told my mom to talk to me because I already called the police but i told them i wanted to run away so they just talked to me. Shes worried that if i call the police one more time I will tell them the reason i wanted to run away and she along with my dad and mom will go to jail. My mom is telling me DONT EVEN THINK about calling the police. They are telling me to not talk to my uncle (who i will be staying over at spring break) about my dad abusing me because they may call the police. Please tell me who i can call that will help me deal with this without reporting it to the police? My aunt loves me but she loves my dad too since hes her little brother. Can i call or email one of you on here to talk to you??

Question: Got my sisters grounded?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:31 AM PST

My older sisters know how to get under my skin. I'm 15, they're 17 and 19. I recently started dating this girl and they take any chance they can get to tease me about it. If I come home at night, when I go upstairs I'm immediately asked, " Aww was tonight date night?? How sweet.They'll ask "Do you hold hands at school?" I've asked them to stop, but they didn't. I asked my parents to finally step in and my mom ended up grounding them both because when she asked why I was being teased, my older sister's response was, " It's hilarious" so now they are both grounded for 2 weeks. I didn't want them to get grounded, just lectured

Question: My mother looks for any opportunity to catch a sign of possible dirt on her brothers ans she acts, even if their innocent, how can I.......?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:31 AM PST

How can I make sure her brothers don't feel uncomfortable around me because of this or think exclude me from extended family events because they don't want to deal with my mother's bitterness? My mother is a good person but plain old fashion bitter where if a friend or worker does something wrong she forgives and same with when my sisters or I mess up, but when her siblings mess up she never-ever forgives unless a lengthy apology is made.

Question: My mother is overly protective of me, her 26 year old son, read below for my question?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:25 AM PST

This weekend I am going with her to something in her family that normally just I would be going to. If someone says something like "don't post this photo on Facebook okay" my mother will get furious at the person who asks me (like her sister or my cousin). I am an adult and yet my mother does this sometimes. How do I get her to stop if she is with me this weekend? Usually she doesn't go see her siblings because my mother has a grudge about old issues, but this weekend she is coming because it is her aunt's 90th birthday. My Dad is out of town for a funeral so he won't be there to tell my mother to relax and remind her I am 26 and live on my own. What do I do if she does this about me or my sister who will be with us? I was special needs in school with LD-ADHD so she has always been too protective of me.

Question: Is My Mom Depressed or Just Tired of Trying?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:06 AM PST

My mom has been acting very weird lately, I am so worried. First of all, she s illegal, she has a nursing degree from Jamaicia, and she moved to the USA to give us a better life. After that she basically spent 21 years sewing pillows off the books to provide for us. She tried writing a book once, but honestly, no one buys it, even though she worked so hard, her boss was abusive. We went to file for her citizenship, but there were so many rules, it s almost impossible for her to become a citizen. A few months ago, she quit her job, my brother and I are still in college with 2-3 more years left. I m so worried, she sits on the couch all day long and just watches youtube, that s it. I ve never seen her like this before. Sometimes I ll get up at 3 am and she s still sitting there watching something on the tablet. I talk to her about trying to find citizenship some other way, but, she keeps on saying "Its Over for me, its over for me" My brother also realizes she s gaining a lot of weight. We dont know what to do. Ive never seen my mom cry,, ever and she s never truly shared her feelings with us. I ve ever only know her as strong, now I just feel as if she s given up or something. Help please!!!!

Question: My name is Robert?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:01 AM PST

Question: Have You Ever Been in a Situation were You was Compared to Another Family Member?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:52 AM PST

I understand that we all Need to be Grateful of what we have but i went threw a bad experience were i was Compared constantly with another relative of mine who i didn't know her that we because she's a first cousin of my mother but It does make me feel lousy that she married a computer engineering guy and he had bought her a House she never needs to worry about anything But i would never ask about her because i didn't care about her business and her life style But it would constantly be thrown at my face when i didn't wanna know but i had to give up seeing my saw call step Grandmother for this reason she would be spiteful by comparing her marriage with mine's have you ever been threw this same issues before??

Question: My sister keeps stealing my stuff?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:46 AM PST

She steals just about everything I have. I m 18 and she s 11 and we share a room. I buy all this stuff for me and she takes it to school or takes my stuff when I m not home. There s no sitting down and talking to her. She thinks that I don t notice my stuff just suddenly goes missing. She s stolen my mom and grandmas stuff too but they won t do anything about it and I don t know what to do. I m trying so hard to save up money to move because I feel like that s the only option at the moment but as of now I don t know what to do.

Question: I'm a sophomore in college and my mom just "grounded" me. what the heck?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:37 AM PST

I'm 19, a sophomore on full academic scholarship to college, and commute from home because of money. I work a part time job with a catering company and am mostly very responsible. My mom's been on me because sometimes, when I can't easily get a ride after work events, I walk to where my car is parked alone (sometimes up to a mile away) rather than calling a cab. After a bunch of conversations my mom basically told me i "couldn't" do it again. I did anyway, and when she asked I lied about it (rare for me, I almost never lie.....and honesty was always my mom's biggest things). She caught me in it and was mad both about the safety (woman walking alone at night) and even moreseo the lying. She grounded me. When I protested she said her house, her rules.....and that while I have VERY few rules these days because of my age, as long as I live here she has the right to enforce the rules she does have. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do? Is she being unreasonable? In fairness, to be clear, the grounding was less for the walking and more for the lying

Question: World youngest father & mother?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:25 AM PST

Question: MOTHER PROBLEMS !?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:17 AM PST

I'm the only child and my mom is a single one so basically we are only two in the family. I've shared the same room and bed since then and until now. It's really tiring like you both are together all the time. So yesterday I had a really bad day-- I got low marks on a test I studied the whole week for. I didn't show her because God knows she'll just tell me I didn't study and If I try to explain she wouldn't believe me, she'd always make my phone the reason why I couldn't study properly even though she's always in the kitchen skyping with someone while I was in the living room, so obviously she doesn't see my study. So I kinda became rude today since I was pissed off and I /kinda/ (didn't really) talked back to her before I went to school. When I she came home from work she showed me this news article which I already saw the previous day, so I told her "I've seen that" she looked pissed and went to the kitchen. After a couple of minutes I went to the kitchen and apologised, she started hitting me and told me that I was always rude even though it barely happens. She told me to get out and I told her I wanted to drink water them she started slapping me, I asked her why she said that this moring I talked rudely to her and when she showed the news I could've discussed it with her even though we NEVER did that. ALSO, I've always wanted/needed privacy for so so long. We are planning to move houses and I always beg her to get a 2 bedroom one but she keeps insisting. WHAT SHOULD I DO

Question: I cant grief what is wrong?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:17 AM PST

In 2012 my mom got really sick, we were always at the hospitals for at least 5 days a week every week I practically lived there, i quit my job, school, my social life to be with her im only 25 now. A month ago i had to take her in i really thought it was going to be like always spend 2 weeks and then home, but i was so WRONG. They put her in icu for a about 2 weeks they tried to stop the internal bleeding but couldn t do anything about it, it was out of control, she had already multiple organs failure she was living artificial they did not gave me any hopes they told me i had to make a decision she was dying and suffering so i had to decide letting her suffer or disconect her.. After 4 days thinking crying i took the decision of disconecting her they told me she was going to pass away fast BUT she didnt it took her ONE hour i was by her side all the way to the end i cried i hugged her i talked to her i ask her forgiveness i felt guilty when i signed those papers. After one hour her heart rate started to drop i went into shock i stared to cry, to scream, to tell her how much i love her when she died i couldn t breathe i was crying and crying, i spend more than 10 minutes screaming next to her i couldn t believe i lost my mother. After that i havent been able to cry again and if i do is only one or two tears no more than that i do think about her everyday i miss her like crazy, but i dont feel like crying is there something wrong with me?

Question: How to deal with depressed 14 year old, disobediant and won t go to school?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:15 AM PST

My sister has been diagnosed with depression, last Sept. 4 months after her decision to stop eating meat. She is 210 lbs and she only eats snacks and maybe 1 real meal a day. She has medication for depression and sleep insomnia. My mom doesnt want to chastise my sister in any way, because she feels that if my sister hurts herself, it will be her fault. My sister has said maybe 5 times that she wants to kill herself, but never took action. The ONLY time my sister has an episode of depression is when she doesnt get her way. She tells us all the time that she hates us and she disowns me. My sister talks so nasty to us, I m just so tired of not being able to say anything. She tells my aunt to go to hell, tells my mom to shut up and hits her. Whenever my mom tries to talk to her, she laughs at her and ignores her. Counseling doesnt help. She doesnt want to go to school & because my sister is an adolescent, if she miss too many days, my mom will have to go to court. My sister went through DSS to file a child abuse case against my mom. (My sister is the one that hits my mom.) My mom asked her "what was the purpose of filing for child abuse" and my sister replied "No reason, I just want you to admit that you re wrong". This is the 3rd time my sister called someone on my mom. My sister only cares about her friends and her phone. Any suggestions? Comments? Good advice? Any forums I could read about depressed adolescents and how their parents helped them?

Question: I'm almost at the end of the road in school, but my mom seems to want me to not be successful?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:03 AM PST

I am in nursing school. I have one semester left. I got overnight clinical this semester on ICU. So I'm basically working Fri-Sat-Sun from 7PM-7AM. When I get home I'm dead tired (I live an hour away from the clinical hospital).. So I get home around 8-8:30, get in bed as soon as I get out of the shower, and have a solid 7-8 hours to sleep before I need to start getting ready. My mom continually comes in and wakes me up to talk to me, or have me help her do stuff as soon as I fall asleep.. I understand she's helping me by letting me stay with her but I can't go on like this.. Then to add onto it! I am moving states, so in a job interview over skype, my first interview, I'm talking to a panel of nurses. I told her that I'd need 2 hours of no interruption to do this interview.. 15 minutes into the interview, she barges into the room, and starts picking up clothes and asks me how it's going.. then she proceeds to walk up to the computer and tell the interviewers "Good luck with this one! I've been trying to get her to pick up after herself her whole life!" Needless to say I don't think I'm getting this job :( I can't financially afford to move out right now because I'm working fulltime for free right now and the other parts of my time are in school (and we even signed a waiver thing at the beginning saying we wouldn't work while in nursing school).. am I just doomed?

Question: Getting a serious illness so I can eat as much as I want?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:58 AM PST

I see that people who have AIDS or cancer are skinny and I have a greedy mouth and I eat a ton and I am super fat, I've been thinking about getting AIDS or cancer so that I can eat as much as I want and stay skinny, does it sound like a good idea?

Question: Are my parents rich?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:27 AM PST

Hey guys. I have always wondered if I was. In my family it's my mom, dad, my brother and I. My dad makes about 50,000 a year and my mom 20,000. I know with just this salary alone this makes my family middle class. But my dad inherited about 2.2 million from my grandparents and bought 5 rental properties with it and has tenants. I'm not sure if this makes my family rich or still middle class? And does it make our family well off?Thanks for the help!!

Question: What Should I Do ? ( Social Anxiety )?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:18 AM PST

Okay So Schools Almost Out And I Wanna Get Back On Track So That I Can Pass My Moms Wakes Me Up Every Morning But While I'm Getting Ready I Just Think About Having To Wait At The Bus Stop And Get On The Bus With People Starring . I Get Nervous Every time I See A Car Go By . But When I Stay Home My Family Members Say Very Hurtful Things To Me " When They Kick Your *** Out Of School What Are You Gonna Do Then , You're Just So Stupid Your Gonna Be On The Streets Somewhere , Idk Where Your Gonna Go But You Cant Live With Me Anymore I'm Tired Of Dealing With This **** " But I Told My Mom I Have Social Anxiety She Just Brushes It Off Or When I Try Telling Her It's The Reason I Dont Wanna Go She Just Still Yells At Me Or Punishes Me By Taking My Phone Or Hitting Me With A Belt For Discipline But She Don't Understand That It's Not Like I Don't Wanna Finish School Because I Do And She Doesn't Have To Deal With Anything Everyday I Do . I'm Tired Of Being Nervous And Trembling Or Scared To Ask To Go To The Bathroom . I Came On My Period And I Was Cramping & Because I Stay Home So Much My Mom Didn't Wanna Let Me Stay Home But As A Mom I Feel Like Instead Of Yelling She Should Try Talking To Me & Try Figuring Things Out Well Both Of Us Figuring Things Out About What She Can Help Me Do To Try & Make Things Better . Like Everyday She Yells Saying Wake Up and I Don't Wanna Wake Up That Way . I Want Her To Be Calm . I'm 17 Btw

Question: What to do when nobody loves you?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:16 AM PST

I live with my mom, my aunt, 2 cousins, and my grandfather. They are all rude to me. I always get ganged up on. Then when they're nice to me I always am rude to them because the act like they have never done anything bad to me. I'm almost 17, so I don't have long until I can hopefully move out. But, I don't know if I can live like this. It's always my fault. Everything. I can never defend myself b/c my mom is emotionally and physically abusive. I just don't know. Is there something I can do to help stop letting it get to me? Thank you for kind words.. I'm not used to people being nice to me anymore. God bless. Have a wonderful day.. :)

Question: If my mother is a princess and my father is a prince. What am I? A Duch?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:09 AM PST

Question: Is she right? Am i being unfair?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:00 AM PST

My girlfreind and i live together, go to work tegether, go home from work together, spend around 2 hours in the evening together as well, if she asks me to go somewhere with her or do something with her, i never say no, i even go shopping with her. But if it happens that there are 2-3 days in a week that i would like to do something with my friends without her, she would complain and say i am being unfair and always want to do something with other people and not include her.Am i being unfair if i want to see my friends and do something without her few times a week?

Question: Is my mom an idiot?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:37 AM PST

Okay, now from my perspective I think she's pretty dumb. Just looking at it from a realistic point of view. Me and my mom fight about pretty silly & stupid things. She sometimes asks me even "Who drugged you?" and stupid stuff like that. I've never touched ANY drugs ever. One of the stupid things we fight about is about how often I shower. She even says stupid stuff about if I don't blow dry my hair I could go insane, she's extremely overprotective. She even says drinking water is bad and that it'll "eat up" my bones. So, what do you think? Do you think she's stupid? And don't give me that "respect your mother" stuff. If your mom/dad was a seriel killer, would you respect them? I don't think so. And if you would, then there must be something wrong with you.

Question: I got an 85 and an 89 on my grades and my mom is gonna kill me.. HELP!!!!?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:29 AM PST

Question: I caught my grandparents in my room dressed up as monsters?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 05:17 AM PST

Last weekend my parents sent me to stay with Ma and Pa. I reluctantly went but was scared in the middle of the night to find Ma and Pa wearing sheets and creeping around my room whispering The next day at breakfast I asked Ma what happened and she said she didn't know what I was talking about

Question: Are my parents rich?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 05:02 AM PST

Hey guys. I have always wondered if I was. In my family it's my mom, dad, my brother and I. My dad makes about 50,000 a year and my mom 20,000. I know with just this salary alone this makes my family middle class. But my dad inherited about 2.2 million from my grandparents and bought 5 rental properties with it and has tenants. I'm not sure if this makes my family rich or still middle class? And does it make our family well off?Thanks for the help!!

Question: Was it wrong for a relative to book a vacation without concurring with me first?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 04:52 AM PST

I had discussed with my sibling, my older brother, that I and my husband, would like to take a cruise with them. We have cruised before and they, my brother and his wife, have not. My brother asked for cruise literature and I had the cruise line send them all the information. Unfortunately, my husband has job constraints and he is unable to travel this year. I called my brother to tell him to go ahead and book their cruise because we are unable to make it and he told me they had all ready booked a cruise with another cruise line and are bringing their two friends along and possibly a couple of other friends. Did we just get our marching orders? Was it rude to not at least tell us what they were planning to do about their cruise when we had indicated a desire to spend time with them on a vacation. It takes coordination to get time off from work for all parties involved before one can book a cruise without another party knowing. They booked the cruise without including us. We are not booked to go with them. They did not tell us their plans at all.

Question: My grandmom called me a loser?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 04:12 AM PST

This part of the story is pretty embarrassing but late night I started to get a little bit of diarrhea. I just kept urniating & going #2 all night. I then woke up at 4:30 am & let's say I had an accident. My grandmom knows about the accident because I woke her up & told her that it happened & that I'm gonna go downstairs & take medicine. She woke me up & told me to get ready for school but my stomach was hurting so I told her that it was & then she screamed at me as soon as I woke saying don't be a loser! I usually never miss school but this year I've missed only 4 days and she isn't too happy about it. I got straight A's last marking period & I work very hard in everything. Is that an excuse for someone to accuse someone of becoming a loser?

Question: Parents, was it the right thing for me to tarnish my reputation like this?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 04:08 AM PST

I have defamed myself online as a person who has assaulted both parents and siblings and being in trouble with the police (that's actually my eldest brother), being sentenced to prison and then being registered as a sex offender for unlawful sexual penetration of a child under the age of 10. I did that as a coping mechanism for missing out when parents took my teen siblings and violent 27-year-old brother to a feminization/metro program without me since I was busy in my office job. I have lost my job as a result. I just wan to be able to attend and be something that would've suited me perfectly.

Question: MY SON IS GOING TO KILL ME! HELP!?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 03:40 AM PST

Okay, my name is Georgia and I'm a single mother aged 38. My 16 year old son, Daniel and I got into a fight and I think he's going to kill me. I got home from work about 2 hours ago and I found out he didn't do his chores which I asked him to do. He did a few, but not all of them. He was complaining about how it was too much work and that he has a lot off assignments to do as well. All he had to do was: Vacuum Sweep the garage Clean and put away the dishes Clean all the bedrooms Wash the dogs Sort out all the laundry Iron all the clothes for tomorrow I come home and find out he's only vacuumed and done the dishes. We got into a huge fight, I called him a lazy **** and he sent to him room, I grabbed his x box and broke it, which caused him to say he hated me. He then started bragging on about how I'M the reason he doesn't have any friends at school because I brung his lunch to school for him a couple months ago because he forgot it, it's his own bloody fault he forgot it, otherwise I wouldn't have brung it to him. Besides, he doesn't need any friends, he just needs his mother, but he hasn't talked to me since we argued and I think he's going to kill me. Please help, what should I do?

Question: What s wrong with my daughter?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 03:36 AM PST

She's been acting really strange since I scolded her for staying up till four am to finish her "thesis." She needs her sleep, she's a growing lady! I don't see why she should be mad when I'm only looking out for her. These days she doesn't speak to me, and when I told her father to talk to her, she stopped speaking to him too. She doesn't smile at home anymore and has recently stopped taking meals in the house, buying food from outside instead or cooking her own meals. She doesn't smile anymore.

Question: I'm 15 sharing room with 24 sister?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 02:23 AM PST

Is anyone sharing room with sibling of opposite gender? If there is no option. Is it worried ? What precaution we should take? What should we do if accidently saw anyone privacy?

Question: How can I deal with my mom?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 01:44 AM PST

My mom and I have been arguing all weekend and she has been getting on my last nerves. And last night she thought I rolled my eyes at her (which I didn't and got all in my face) and she makes me so mad and I can tell there is going to be tension this week how can I deal with her

Question: How can I convince my parents to let me smoke pot as an adult?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:21 AM PST

I m 23 I go to school part time & work part time. I pay my own internet & car. I don t pay rent because I barely make enough money to get by..Recently my parents have been nagging that I go out too much & to be honest I don t go out to party I just go out to hang with some friends & smoke. They don t like that I smoke but obviously I m not gonna do it at home so I go out & do it. I ve already tried convincing them that pot doesn t make you an idiot & I have asked that if they let me smoke in the back of the house I wouldn t have to go out so much. Is that reasonable or should I just suck it up & wait until I move out?

Question: Simple question?

Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:21 AM PST

You met a stranger guy who sells gold. He mentioned he can flip your money quick. He said if you loan him $1000 he will return with $5000. You thought oh what hell why not and handed him the $1000. He said he will return in about two weeks. Here you were sweating bullets/worried af for two weeks wondering if guy was even going to come back. He did come back and he brought you the $5000. You did this over and over a couple more times and never a problem/him being fake or a thief etc. However now he is asking you for $10,000 and said he will bring $20,000 (you make 10k profit). Would you do it? Keep in mind $10,000 is all you have saved up so if things go wrong your pretty much broke but this is an awesome opportunity and he has never done you wrong.

Question: My friend invited me to come and spend saturday with him, but my gf is freaking out...Any advice?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:43 PM PST

She is telling me that weekends are for us and that being away a whole day is unfair towards her and that it's ok if i stay for 4-5 hours but not the whole day. Is she right?

Question: Why might it be that my parents don't want to hear about my anxiety?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:40 PM PST

They used to want to help when I was a kid but now as an adult they say nothing more then "well sorry but nothing we can do" and then they immediately change the subject, especially my father. So why might this be and what can I do about it. I am an adult now at age 31 but feel alone in my anxiety. I get therapy but the therapist is not a loved one.

Question: Help please?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:37 PM PST

my father has been out of my like for over 7 years him and my mother were married years ago ..I plan on getting married but I know I need the consent of both parents ...my father most likely does have custody over me but I can't even find him can I get married with just my mother's consent since he is absent

Question: My child is exposed to guns, what should I do?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:28 PM PST

I have a six year old son that I have custody of. His father lives with his dad, and when I drop my son off for visits he goes to over there. Well recently the father has made threats about hurting me "in a way I can't recover". My ex it's is upset I got married and had another child. Only because I left him because he was very abusive.Now my son's dad tells me he's going to make sure I never have " another kid on him", and shares with me that his dad "has the heat on deck" (has a gun). I'm very afraid to pick my son up but I'm even more afraid if leaving him there. My question is, should I try to get my son out of the house of a man who has ptsd (from deployment). Or should I just hope for the best and do nothing?

Question: Help pleaseee?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:22 PM PST

My father has not been around for over 7 years and has never paid child support and owes a lot of money him and my mother got divorced and my mom got married again 2 years ago to my now step-dad ..does my biological dad still have custody I don't even know where he's at I need to know because I plan on getting married I am only 17 am a minor though wich is a huge problem because in florida you need both parents consent unless one is dead or one has sole custody wich my mom never got beacuse she could not afford it. I dont want to have to go all the way to the state of california to get married I wanted to get married in florida but anyways do I need to now find my father i dont know what to do my mom lied to me and told me (danny) my biological dad had no custody I have been planning this for months and now my plans are ruined am freaking out so bad :( what is the procure for sole custody do I need an attorney how much will this all cost sorry for any misspelled words am just very upset :( is it possible to do this with just my mother's consent somehow?

Question: Is fighting with your parents the same as talking back?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:10 PM PST

Question: What do you call your parents cousin?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:10 PM PST

My dad's cousin is my age 15 and her sister is 14 so what do I call them?

Question: My parents are neglectful. Help?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:09 PM PST

I live with my mom and I know she tries her best but I pretty much take care of myself. We have financial issues so she talks about money ALOT. Must of my cloths and shoes I have to buy with my own money. I'm a relatively good kid, I get good grades A and Bs. I'm only 12 years old and feel like I'm 30. I make my own meals and hardly see my mom. I know she is working to support us but it is still hard.

Question: What can I do to make him enjoy it?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:08 PM PST

Hello, my name is Noel and I am a 21 year old male who was born mute. I am openly gay and currently living with my boyfriend (24), who I have been with for 1 year. Our relationship is otherwise really wonderful until it comes to being intimate with one another. It might sound stupid, but I was signing with my sister about relationships and she had brought up that she had talked to my boyfriend about our relationship when I was at work and apparently he confessed to her that he wasn't happy in the intimacy department because he liked loud sex, and I couldn't physically moan for him. He had told her that he felt like he was having sex with a doll and it wasn't something he enjoyed. He basically had told her that he mainly had sex with me now, just to get off and that he didn't find anything intimate about it because sex wasn't anything like what he had with other boyfriends in the past. I want to be able to make sex enjoyable for him, but I can't physically give him what he wants. I can't scream or moan like he wants. I can't make myself be loud because of how I was born and I feel horrible about it. So how can I make our sex life better and bring intimacy back into it? What can I do to make him enjoy it with me instead of it being something he feels is mandatory? What can I do to get him to like our sex if I cannot be loud in the bedroom like he enjoys? Please help me. I want to make this better for him.

Question: Muslims only: How can I move out of my family home?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 11:03 PM PST

I live in the US. I am 28 and my sister is 24. We both are single and have full time jobs. We both want to move out because our family is really toxic. How do we do it without causing them to be angry and hostile? Last time I tried to move out they broke everything I owned. I got two jobs to pay for my furniture.

Question: How do I am supposed to be happy whenever me is putting me down.?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 10:43 PM PST

I don t get it. I know my parents care about me. they put me I counseling to help me but they still never stand by me if anyone pushes me down. I feel like everyone can pick on me at all times and I m supposed to stand there and take it. but then they tell me to stop being depressed. it s like a game of tug a war. they tell me I m a piece of **** then yell at me to get better.

Question: Is it bad that when ever i'm having a bad day or when i'm sad. i always hold the pain inside me but never cry it out.?

Posted: 06 Mar 2016 10:37 PM PST

i will talk about my problems to people. but i always hold my tear and keep the pain inside me.