Marriage & Divorce: Question: My husband thinks I'm overreacting...? |
- Question: My husband thinks I'm overreacting...?
- Question: Best way to break up?
- Question: Do married couples ever make out?
- Question: Ok serious question . I want to have sex with as many women as I can for one more year before I get married.?
- Question: Am i going to be lonely in the future?
- Question: Lack of sex after baby?
- Question: Do you know someone who married the same person twice?
- Question: My husband just found out he has a 5 year old daughter. No he didn't cheat. It happened a month before we started dating.?
- Question: Is it okay to film while your having sex with your spouse?
- Question: Does anyone agree with me on gay marriage ?
- Question: I have the same problem but i have two children?
- Question: Can you have a happy marriage with a workaholic?
- Question: Impulsively spending momma's boy?
- Question: How is my endurance?
- Question: Why would a guy propose if he doesn't want to get married?
- Question: My husband just agreed to give me a peaceful divorce.?
- Question: I need help. My 15 year old stepdaughter is trying to break me and my husband up.?
- Question: I am very clean person got married he has Saint Bernard doesn't understand why I can't get over the mess am I wrong to b upset?
- Question: Starting to hear from LDR every 2 weeks.?
- Question: What's worst? We're both terrible...?
- Question: My wife is often nice, but she has a habit of nagging, ordering me, and complaining when I don't do what she says. How do I get her to stop?
- Question: What is the point of marriage...?
- Question: Just found out my husband has a match.com account. We just came back from family vacations, had a great time. How should I confront him ?
- Question: My husband just told me that he only married me because I was his first.. Ever.. How can I save my marriage? Hes willing to try.?
- Question: Don't know what to do Frustrated?
- Question: I feel so sad and depressed all the time?
- Question: If you can, help me understand…why my married, ex-husband does feel the need to call me names.?
- Question: My husband thinks I cheated.?
- Question: I made a big mistake in my life.I feel like not living?
- Question: Should this throuple be allowed to legally marry?
- Question: I had a baby and my husband pushed sex on me a few days after I had the baby. It hurt a lot. What to do when he keeps pushing for sex?
- Question: Is it common to have a fear of marriage so strong that you never want to get married?
- Question: Should I go back to my husband?
- Question: Paper Marriage: Do we tell our parents?
- Question: What would you do if you found out your husband tried to get back with his ex 3 months prior our marriage?
- Question: What is your opinion about forced marriage?
- Question: How to limit visitations as much as possible.?
- Question: Is it possible to marry a married man?
- Question: How to encourage healthy habits onto my wife when she is so rigidly adamant to be unhealthy?
- Question: Am I over reacting?
- Question: My husband's grandfather just died and my husband's ex girlfriend sent a card to our house?
- Question: I'm torn, and I think my marriage is over?
- Question: Is our love life gone forever?
- Question: What kind of husband runs away from his new wife, job and new home?
- Question: What is the purpose of marriage? If anyone can marry anyone else, then what is the purpose?
- Question: I dont know what to do, someone please help me not hurt everyone?
- Question: Please help me understand whether its ok to feel upset about uncertainty in dates of my own wedding ?
- Question: What will you do if I were you?
- Question: Marriage going down hill?
- Question: My husband wants a baby and I don't?
- Question: My husband thinks it's ok to eat dinner shirtless & it's NOT a good look, has a big gut & boobs! GROSS! Is it white-trash or not?
- Question: My husband holds grudges against Me?
- Question: What should I tell my husband?
- Question: Private Facebook?
- Question: What about experiencing sex before marriage. is it bad or not ? will it help for a first time guy after marriage ?
- Question: Husband and 27 year daughter argues he got mad at me because I said I wasnt in it?
- Question: Why can t I get on with my life after an 18 year marriage.?
- Question: EX boyfriend in heart instead of me?
| Question: My husband thinks I'm overreacting...? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:52 PM PDT My husband and I just attended his brother's wedding, which he was a part of. The bridesmaid that my husband was paired with was the bride's sister. She smiled in his face the entire walk down the aisle and gave me dirty looks from the altar (she knew we were together). She then proceeded to hit on my husband while they were out of earshot of the guests and said some inappropriate comments about our relationship. My husband didn't see this as a big deal and did not put her in her place and now that I plan to say something to my new sister about it, he thinks I'm overreacting and should leave it alone. But I feel like now that she is more or less part of the family, we will be seeing her again and this will keep happening. Am I wrong or overreacting to say something about her inappropriate behavior? |
| Question: Best way to break up? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:35 PM PDT I haven't felt there's a best way to do this and haven't been able to sleep, so I need advise. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years and I thought I was in love with her. I met this girl a while back and something just happened. We started talking and hanging out and I'm starting to feel things for her I've never felt before. It's come to the point that she's all I think about. I didn't mean for any of this to happen but I know that this isn't something that's going to pass. I want to try to end our relationship right before anything else happens, so how can I do this? |
| Question: Do married couples ever make out? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:23 PM PDT |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:17 PM PDT I want to bang Asians. Maybe a sexy old granny. I will by a midget couple Mexican Ho's and a native a couple fat bitches. I love my lady. K just left be straight sex. ITS NOT MY FAULT. I WAS JUST born THIS WAY. LIKE GAYS. |
| Question: Am i going to be lonely in the future? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:16 PM PDT i want to get married and travel to many places and live life but then get married but i really dont want kids but at the same time i do cause then i dont want to get bored with my husband but at the same time i dont want to go with all that process with getting pregnantband having so much pain and having to loose all that fat after that and get at my normal shape and im really not good at being patient at all or even taking care of a kid but when i get older i wont be able to take care of my self and be all granny sometimes i think of adopting but i dont want to tell them that im not their real mom cause what if they get mad at me at some time and yell at me that im not theit mom and if i dont tell them , then that would be a hurtfull lie that they wont forgive me but i really dont want kids but husbands always want to have a family and all that so i really dont know im not mother material im sometimes imature i still like to watch childish cartoons and like to be pushed in a shopping cart by my best friend hah i dont know |
| Question: Lack of sex after baby? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:14 PM PDT My wife and i have been married for 4 years almost 5, and she just gave birth to our first child 2-3 months ago. I thought this was going to be a good thing, i love kids, and have been playing, cuddling kissing both my wife and my child, but i feel like intimacy between my wife and i is missing. we haven't had sex since her second trimester of pregnancy. I started masturbating as a substitute but i dont know how long thats going to last. I voiced my concerns but she is really tired and grumpy when i bring it up so i drop it. I help around the house, and with the kid, even give her foot massages and make her a bath but its still no good. is this going to be a permanent thing? im already feeling resentment towards her, im afraid its going to build up and lead me to either saying something next time im really mad or having an affair (im not the type to cheat but i still dont trust myself). how should i go about this? |
| Question: Do you know someone who married the same person twice? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:54 PM PDT Just wondering because I still love my ex-wife and I'm still hopeful we can get back together :( |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:46 PM PDT I know the mother and can say without a doubt she is going to cause a lot of problems. I have faith in my marriage but one can only handle so much. I'm struggling with this because I'm happy and sad. Sad because we were planning our second child and this puts that on a stand still but happy because we have another child to love. My husband is fighting his own feelings because he doesn't know if he wants to step up or stay away. How can I help him come to a decision? How can I get over this feeling I am fighting without letting him see my fears. |
| Question: Is it okay to film while your having sex with your spouse? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:45 PM PDT |
| Question: Does anyone agree with me on gay marriage ? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:40 PM PDT .. I am a gay marriage supporter, but I am very unhappy with the way it passed America. As someone who has been fighting for about 7 years now trying to get people to accept it, I feel like for it to just be passed overnight via 5 judges is not a victory at all. |
| Question: I have the same problem but i have two children? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:14 PM PDT Ok I have the same problem except my husband and I pay all the bills and we have two children... his mother is always in our business and tell us how to live our lives.. i always tell him I want to leave and move out on our own but he always says he won't leave them stranded.. can anybody help me and everytime I try to leave he always says he's gonna take my children from me but I love him I just can't do it anymore |
| Question: Can you have a happy marriage with a workaholic? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:59 PM PDT My husband is workaholic. He works 60 hours a week as a project manager and then he works another 35 - 40 hours a week at his parents business. His parents having paid him in over a year and a half so he isn't doing it for the money. He simply loves to work and if he isn't working he is miserable. The kids will often go all week without laying eyes on him even though he lives in the same house. He isn't there for anything for me or the kids. He misses all their games, programs, parties, etc, and he rarely helps with anything at home. I know it's causing some emotional issues for our kids because they feel abandoned because work always comes first. I've asked him to cut back his hours but he only seems to be adding hours. When he is around or when I talk to him he is agitated and angry, like a black hole sucking all happiness away. I've expressed to him that since he wasn't giving any attention to our relationship I ended up having to cut myself off emotionally because it was hurting so much and I am no longer in love with him. He doesn't want a divorce but he also doesn't want to change anything and I can't do this anymore. We've tried some counseling but it didn't do any good. If I have to do everything myself I'd rather be single so I might have a chance at finding a great guy who actually wants to be around. What should I do? |
| Question: Impulsively spending momma's boy? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:51 PM PDT WE are married, in our mid thirties, both have college degrees. I am a SAH mom, we agreed on this. He works full time. He hates his job. He insists on running most errands. He spend impulsively, buys himself gifts. When we are broke blames me for not working & calls mom for money. She gives that & expensive gifts & then tries to tell us how to live our lives. He also calls her when we argue & tells her terrible things about me. I asked him to stop & stop with accepting the gifts & he says he feels entitled, since she was horrible to him growing up. She is verbally & emotionally abusive. He often is gone spending hours running errands, stays up late on the computer & always complains he's tired. I do 99% of the household chores & childcare. I explained due to childcare costs, I would hardly break even working. His mother thinks I should be working regardless.Today he proposed moving from Ca to Arkansas since the laws there are different (i.e. not in a woman's favor). I cook at home, try & find ways to cut costs. He buys himself gifts, often things he barely uses. I look for an eveing job but not in my area much or field. Plus, he can barely handle working full time let alone watching baby part time. I'm pretty much at my wit's end with his mother is our affairs and his spending and denial about it. Any advice? |
| Question: How is my endurance? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:46 PM PDT So usually when my wife and I make love, I last approximately 5:30 mins in intercourse. And that brings me to my question, is that bad or not? If you could answer this question of mine, I would be very much appreciative. |
| Question: Why would a guy propose if he doesn't want to get married? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:26 PM PDT My now on-off boyfriend proposed two years ago. I was upfront with him in our relationship to say I wanted marriage, but I didn't nag him. He picked out the ring/did the proposal on his own. We never fought until after the engagement, and only much later when he refused to set the date. I was happy with a courthouse wedding, no bridezilla stuff going on. But he keeps refusing or making excuses. I asked him flat out if he still loved me, because I just don't understand why he would propose and then do this. He says he loves me, and is committed to me, but is scared of the idea of responsibility. I feel rejected and terrible, not because he won't marry me but because of all the excuses. I love him enough to forgo marriage if he really is scared, but his disregard for my hurt over this leaves me with a bitter taste. Why would he propose just to act like this? |
| Question: My husband just agreed to give me a peaceful divorce.? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 05:27 PM PDT will this do any good at all when he begins to fight it in court .He will try to lie about finances I know , can his admission help me in anyway? we are in California , a 50/50 state but have lots of everything , and have been married over 25 years. |
| Question: I need help. My 15 year old stepdaughter is trying to break me and my husband up.? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 05:18 PM PDT |
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| Question: Starting to hear from LDR every 2 weeks.? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 04:44 PM PDT My LDR boyfriend now contacts me every two weeks as he is working in the Amazon. I know he has very limited phone service, but there are public phones he can access to call his family. He has called them often without sending a message to me through them. He even missed my birthday. His family is wonderful and they all sent greetings, nothing from him. He always says he will only be in the jungle for a week but he ends up staying 2-3 weeks at a time, during which we have no contact. We are fairly close, claim to be madly in love and plan to marry, but I'm having some doubts. Also, twice he said he was sending something from the nearest city by where he is...that was two months ago, nothing. He even had a chance to send something back for me as some family had flown down there recently, they live in my home town and he sent nothing. Doesn't this seem kinda strange? Am I over reacting? He says I am the love of his life, he can't wait to make me his wife, he's working on his VISA, etc...but I don't feel comfortable with this sudden change in communication. Even when I expressed to him before that I understand his job out there but to maybe just send word on occasion through family that he is alright... |
| Question: What's worst? We're both terrible...? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 04:37 PM PDT i was being stupid and posting double entendre (sp?) and sexy sarcastic comments to some Sarcastic type fb page (think scarymom.com)…I know I shouldn't but I was being dumb…somewhere in there, my wife had sexual affair with another man. She just found out about my comments…she wants a divorce. We have 3 kids…not sure what to do next. |
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| Question: What is the point of marriage...? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 03:53 PM PDT people don't really love each other THAT long unless they're romantics. it seems like a reason for men to have unlimited sex wtih women most of the time. and also a reason to use the woman as a servant but isn't it kind of a pain in the ***? If you want to enjoy your life looking back.. what is the point of marriage for a woman if she just wants to enjoy her life? |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 03:32 PM PDT Im shocked dont know how to approach him with this issue, we have a really good relationship....we just got back from vacations last night, the kids and i had a great time...it seemed like he was having a good time too.... I dont want to fight ... So confused never been in this situation.... Need some advice. |
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| Question: Don't know what to do Frustrated? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 03:06 PM PDT My wife and separated a week supposedly for a week or two just breathe and hopefully clear our heads, however I've been trying to interact with her for some time now, I tried going to see her this past Saturday but she refused and now isn't responding to me. It hurts but I am not the type to humiliate myself by chasing a woman who doesn't want to be bothered however I'm not going to play games and not know what's going on. I've asked her is she happier away, does she want to stay apart but hasn't responded so I am on the verge of just proceeding with my original plans of divorce, shes said before that's not what she wants but her actions now are frustrating and really immature. I mean we're not dating she's my Wife I am her provider the least she can do is communicate back and quit playing games just frustrating. |
| Question: I feel so sad and depressed all the time? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 02:34 PM PDT I don't know what to do anymore. My wife and I started renting a house a few months back. The bad part is, is we're always stressing about it. My wife manages a motel and is never here. So she's literally stressing over and paying for something she cant enjoy. When I'm not at work I'm here, just laying on the couch feeling like I'm about to cry. I miss my wife, I want life to be better. I'm tired of being broke and bored all the time. I want to go on an adventure. I want to feel important and worry about things that people should actually worry about instead of money. It's a constant struggle and I just wanna cry. |
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| Question: My husband thinks I cheated.? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 12:36 PM PDT My husband cheated on me a year ago. We separated for a while, and worked things out. It was great for 6 months or so. Recently he always accuses me of flirting with his friends. He tells me I need to change when I put on shorts or a dress. If I say hi to another guy he assumes I want to jump in bed with them. I did not and have not ever thought about cheating on him. I'm stumped. |
| Question: I made a big mistake in my life.I feel like not living? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 12:16 PM PDT so many things I lost because of that.I had a nice husband.I went for affair wrongly with a boss.He just used me.I was desperate for a job.I lost my marriage,my job and kid plans.Please help me..Do I have a chance again? |
| Question: Should this throuple be allowed to legally marry? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 11:16 AM PDT http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2611020/Meet-worlds-married-lesbian-threesome-baby-make-four-July.html If you so NO, then what's the rational behind it? that should be if you SAY NO for the record this isn't called polygamy, it's called group marriage (a form of polyamory) |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 11:14 AM PDT Hb wants sex every day and I only want it a few times a week. He watches porn and hides it from me. He googles other women in public in front of me even though I've told him this hurts me. He tells me "I'm a prude." I am not. Had several guys before we married and sex was good between us. Is he a sex addict or do you think this is normal for a man? |
| Question: Is it common to have a fear of marriage so strong that you never want to get married? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 11:01 AM PDT I love my boyfriend, but I'm terrified of marrying him... or anyone for that matter. I'm trying so hard to not let my fears get the best of me, but nothing is working. The fears just keep coming back. It it common to feel this way, or is something wrong with me? |
| Question: Should I go back to my husband? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 10:44 AM PDT I left my husband a week ago after 23 years of marriage. Due to addiction, narcissism, verbal/mental/emotional abuse, financial ruin and possible cheating. I want to make sure I am giving one last effort, after 100s of other chances to change, to my marriage. After 1 years worth of research, many articles say these people can't change and the best thing to do is to leave. He wants me to come home, I know he's hurting deeply, but every once in a while in the past week, the Jeckyl and Hyde pokes it's ugly head out. I had 4 ultimatums that he had to change before I came home, complete rehab, get rid of the secretary, go to mental health evaluation, go to anger management and we complete marriage counseling. I'm willing to go back to the house if he gets rid of the secretary and at least joins rehab. I myself will go to counseling to get over my fears and marriage counseling. I'm scared to go back today and I'm scared to not go back today. I just don't know what to do. Everyone says I need to be away at least 3 months. I'm just scared of the end of my marriage. Yes, definitely get yourself into counseling, to help you learn to love yourself and have the confidence to make good life choices, and not to stay with someone who is completely inappropriate as a partner, simply because you're afraid to be single. - Yes, I plan on doing that let go of the past. He can change so he's a better partner to his next significant other. - I've often thought that I'm just not the one for him. I've often thought we were never meant to be. |
| Question: Paper Marriage: Do we tell our parents? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 10:32 AM PDT My fiance is military and in order to start our lives together we must be married. Thinking of doing a paper marriage beforehand even though our wedding date and plans are already made for the real wedding. We don't want parents feeling lied to. But at the same time, we also want the real wedding day to feel real for everyone. Opinions on this- anyone been in this situation before? |
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| Question: What is your opinion about forced marriage? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 10:30 AM PDT |
| Question: How to limit visitations as much as possible.? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:10 AM PDT Me and my husband are getting divorced for multiple reasons never the less we are having custody issues. We went to court for custody this past april and he got reasonable visitation (he can see the kids as little or as much as he wants with 48 hour notice) his work schedual is tues through saturday so he only sees his kids sometimes sunday to monday. Since court he has not paid the full child support, he refuses saturday night visitations because spends with his friends , He has a two bedrooms and refuses to turn one into a kid room for when they stay it is a man cave. Leaves them at sitters while he runs the street and im at work. he now wants to change my kids days from monday to tuesday where he will pick them up from the sitter afterhe goes to the gym and drop them back off at the sitter at 6 am on his way to work bc his new girl can only stay the nite on sundays. he also declined his fourth of july visit with one kid for fireworks because he was at the lake drinking instead. I want to end all over night visits all together because all he is doing is pushing my kids to the side so whats the point, just looking for you best advice.please dont respond if anyone is going to just be rude. my children are 5 and 4 and the 5 year old already has to see a counselor monthly - dad doesnt come to soccer games or dance recital bc he hurt his foot, but according to the bank statement had no problem being at the bar that same night. |
| Question: Is it possible to marry a married man? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:00 AM PDT if a married man wanted to marry me how would he go through with it without anyone knowing. fyi he is not getting a divorce with his current wife of 52 years |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:56 AM PDT My wife prefers a low energy and low activity life (couch potato). This would be all fine and dandy if she served low calorie and nutritious meals - but she doesn't (and she's unwilling to change this). I've discussed her obsession with calorie dense meals and her incompatible life style and she just doesn't get it. I've tried to take over making dinners but she doesn't take over the work that I'd be foregoing in order for me to have time to cook dinner (most time would be spent chopping up vegetables/fruits to serve). So either my portion of chores gets behind, or we eat calorie dense foods with no intentions to "burn it off"... Something has to give. Lucky for my wife, she has a very high metabolism still. But with our climbing age, it's catching up to her and she now has bigger cheeks (both sets), fatter thighs, and fatter upper arms (she doesn't collect it in her waist for some reason). Meanwhile, I'm not looking that great either. I've tried skipping her meals, or eating half of what she serves but she yells at me for "not eating". And hitting the gym isn't an option because, again, my portion of chores would get behind and she would not pick up the slack. I'm fresh out of ideas. What can I do in this situation? Money's tight so making 2 meals each meal isn't rational. We both work full time and have tweens who aren't quite ready to be on their own yet. Don't assume that I'm just making excuses, working full time and having to be a full time parent is not easy work. And with us both out of the home there's not a full time homemaker to keep up with chores. No tough love please folks, think of ways I can encourage my wife to not be so irresponsible. So the answer to my question is: "You can't do anything for her. Let her be self destructive and worry about you." Got it. All of you on here haven't changed a bit. I'm surprised any of you are even married in the first place. |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:54 AM PDT My husband & I were intimate last night, but then a few hours later I wake up to realize he never came to bed. So I go looking for him & find him in the living room, "handling his business" as he calls it to porn. I was so upset, I asked him how could he feel the need to still do that after being with me, I stormed out into the bathroom & he didnt even chased after me, or cared. I should also mention that I can't conceive naturally, we've been struggling to get pregnant for years because of me. My self esteem as a woman is already low, but now I feel that I dont satisfy him. After a while of crying, I come out to find him sitting on the couch watching tv without a care in the word. After he noticed I was crying he couldnt understand what he did wrong. Our marriage has been on thin ice lately, this just pushed me over the edge to the point I want to get a divorce. Am I over reacting? |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:42 AM PDT Now, am I so wrong to be creeped out that his ex girlfriend from college managed to find our address and send a sympathy card? I am normally not a jealous person but if any of my ex boyfriends had a relative die I as a married woman, wouldn't track them down and mail a card |
| Question: I'm torn, and I think my marriage is over? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:42 AM PDT I don't know what to do, this story is a lot longer than most would probably care to read but, I married my wife right out of highschool, we have been together every since. My wife is bisexual, and throughout our marriage we had an arrangement, that she could bring home women for both of us to do things with. and that was fine until about a year ago... she stopped wanting to bring women home, and told me that if i wanted to keep having sex with other people that I could, as long as I always told her about it... About 6 months ago she started drinking really heavily, and then told me it bothered her that I was sleeping around, so I stopped... I didn't sleep with anyone else after that... But she didn't stop drinking, and then 2 days ago she told me that she has been sleeping with my best friend... well the conversation that we had about sleeping with other people, we had agreed that she would not sleep with anyone other than females, and This hit me really hard, I had stopped my pursuit of other women completely half a year ago... she on the other hand has been sleeping with my best friend for the last 6 months... I understand that throughout our marriage we have both been with numerous sexual partners, but I feel that this is a betrayal of trust on her part, and I am unsure of what to do, because I have never lied to my wife, and she has lied to me several times, and she has cheated on me, Idk if I could forgive her... please someone help. of course we both wanted our cake and to eat it too, doesn't everyone, and we were making that work... but the rules were clear, and not only did she break them, but she lied to me about it and that is what upsets me, a marriage can mean and be anything you want it to be as long as you both agree on everything... everyone has different vows, and everyone wants something different out of a marriage... we both knew what we wanted, and when she got upset, I stopped, I didn't sneak around on her. |
| Question: Is our love life gone forever? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:36 AM PDT Me and my wife have been married 7 years and things have been stale for at least 5 sexually. She is ok with sex 2-4 Times a month while I would like more. I am a very sexual person and try to pleasure her at least 4 times longer than what I get. I have many fantasies that I'm not comfortable sharing because she doesn't have any fantasies. Not one! Mine aren't weird either just role play, watching her strip tease or masturbate. The last one will never happen because she never has masturbated in her life. We both came from conservative backgrounds and hadn't had sex before marriage. I'm sure I'll get answers like it's my fault for not knowing before hand but that was the way we were raised in. I have tried to talk with her about what we can do to improve and I even made a list of 101 things she does that I love but nothing changes and she never does anything on the list. I've tried to talk in an open way that is not demanding she change. She will make suggestions like "what if I do this?" And I say "yeah!" But then nothing changes. We've talked a dozen times without change and I'm starting to worry that things will never improve. We want to go to a sex therapist but can't afford it right now. I read books on relationships, love and sex (not to change her) but I feel like it doesn't work. I've lost trying to be romantic because last time I made a candlelight evening she just wanted to go to bed. I get rejected so much I initiate anymore. Help! What can I do? |
| Question: What kind of husband runs away from his new wife, job and new home? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:02 AM PDT My husband and I got married a month and a half ago. I always thought right after getting married that you're all over each orher and full of bliss. But he wasn't. He on the occasion waa physically abusive with me. We argued a lot and he ran out the door with some of his stuff, gave me his keys and took the car. I called the police because he was abusive. They took the case very seriously. He turned up the next day, he took off to a town 14 hours away where he had no connections. His father got a hold of him and he's now residing there, hiding from police as he has a warrant out for his arrest. His boss got a hold of me questioning why my husband just didn't show up for work for two days straight and won't respond to his emails. He told me to tell my husband to meet him at the office in Monday morning. I think he night have lost his job. We just got our first house a year ago and I can't afford it on my own. I'm living in it for now but I'm so agitated because I don't want to leave my house forever. What kind of newly wed husband does this? We were scheduled to go on our honeymoon on Saturday, but that didn't happen as he was staying with family hiding from police |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:00 AM PDT |
| Question: I dont know what to do, someone please help me not hurt everyone? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:31 AM PDT This is a long story, but I am married... I have been married since 2009, and I have been with my wife for 7 1/2 years. I do not know exactly why I did this but, I started seeing another woman, and Then I left my wife... I was gone from april- september last year while I was with her. Things didn't work out, so I went back to my wife, not because I wanted to fix my marriage, but because I didn't want to be alone... things were fine until April of this year, I started dating another girl... again, idk why, but then I fell in love with this girl, and she broke my heart... then when I got over that, I started using this dating website, and one thing lead to another and now I have a wife and 3 girlfriends, and I am in love with 2 of them... I know what I have done is horrible, and I want to try to make things right the best I can, but I can not figure out how to do it without completely crushing everyone, I don't care if I end up alone, because I deserve it, but I don't want to hurt these women, I just don't know how to back out of everything without breaking all of their hearts... any help would be greatly appreciated. and feel free to call me every name you can think of and tell me i am a piece of ****, because i know i am, and I have been, but that is something I have to work on... I should probably add that it was never about sex, my wife is better than almost any other woman I have ever been with, but the relationship part with her is the downside, I can not talk to her, every time I try to compliment her or tell her anything it turns into an argument. I just think we are incompatible. But I can't just leave her, we have 3 kids together, and I do love her. I just... I never meant for it to go this far. |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:30 AM PDT My Fiancé and me were planning to get married as soon as we get a church document , related to his divorce. Even though we are planning to get married in court house, his parents asked us to wait for 45 days , so that the paper will be available within that time period. As per the timelines they said it was supposed to come by June mid. Later they said it may come by July 15th , then it changed to July 30th and now it seems like it can go beyond August. And the marriage license we got will be expiring in August 18th.And I am upset by all these date changes and about the fact of not being able to know about my own wedding date. And these uncertainties is giving me so much tension. Is it okay to feel like this ?Or am I thinking too much about nothing ? |
| Question: What will you do if I were you? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:03 AM PDT Last week, I found out that my boyfriend/live-in partner s Thai ex wife posted several family pictures on facebook including the picture of her and my bf standing so close together while the woman s left arm hanged on my bf s shoulder. In a picture, my bf seems not too happy but the wife was all smiling. After seeing this I was furious and immediately confronted my bf about it.. He told me that he wasn t aware that the picture was taken and this was during his recent visit in Thailand. In the beginning of our relationship he told me that his been divorce since 2010. Though, I have not seen any documents to prove it.. He said his ex and him remain cordial because of the kids but I think it s more than in to it.. After our confrontation he called his ex wife the nxt day and asked her to delete it from her profile, which she never did. Then I recieved a message from her apologizing about what happened and clarified that her and my bf was "not been married for almost five years". She said that she put a front for thier family and friends to see because her culture frowned single mom. Mind you, this woman was already pregnant with the other guy in her country but lost the baby recently yet put up a face online that her and my bf still married. Then two days ago, I recieved a nasty messages and said that my bf and her still married and asking me to stop seeing or talking to him.. After that she sent out numerous nasty emails to my bf threatening him that she ll ruin his life and will take his children away from him as long as I m around.. She also demanded him to pay her bills and plane tickets back to the states. On her last email, she asked him not to call or email her back because his oldest son is mad at him and rather wants to stay with his mom.. I really don t know what to do right now.. I never said anything bad to this woman but I feel like I was the problem.. I m afraid of what if my bf surprise me one day for break up because he doesn t want to loose his children.. Do you think men can do that.. Do you think the ex wife has right to take the children away from him? I believe he is paying at least $2500 child support for two kids.. I need you advice.. |
| Question: Marriage going down hill? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 05:31 AM PDT My husband is in the army we are stationed in hawaii we have been together for 5 years but we have been going out and instead of being around me and our daughter he is around his friends the whole time and when we come home he plays the game all day and at night he says he wants to have sex but then he says his stomach hurts or his head hurts im far away from family and i feel very alone i just want to lock myself away and scream i am going crazy |
| Question: My husband wants a baby and I don't? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 04:54 AM PDT He knew this before we got married. He use to be ok with not having a baby. Now all he talks about is having a baby. I love him and I don't want to lose him but I feel like he tricked me. We have only been married for 6 months and he has just recently started talking about having a baby. I love our life the way it is and we only argue when we talk about having a baby. He said he always wanted kids but he told me he didn't because he loved me. I have no idea what to do. Should we go to counseling? |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 04:29 AM PDT |
| Question: My husband holds grudges against Me? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 03:30 AM PDT my husband is a very proud man and he will never admit to wrong. He refuses to apologise if we have the most smallest disagreement. I feel that I am constantly apologising, even it I am not at fault. I do this just to keep peace in our household. We have a 10 and 12 year old. I feel he is constantly negative and jealous of people close to him. He has a broken relationship with his brother and no longer has close friends.. His only means of communication apart for work is Facebook. I don't know what to do. Any advice. PS he makes it very hard for me to try to talk things out with him...so wish me luck |
| Question: What should I tell my husband? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 02:10 AM PDT My newlywed husband always brings up old arguments or things I've lied about in the past and makes me look bad. He says I'm the reason for everything going wrong in our relationship and he just can't let go of the past. I've lied to him quite a few times, but only about small things like the time I got out of work and times I went to sleep, nothing serious. I've lied about people I've talked to but even with that he sees me as I'm a bad person. We broke up for about six months and during that time he wanted nothing to do with me and to try and get over him, after about 5 months I messed around with someone and started hanging out with an old friend I later found out liked me. Neither of them meant anything to me so I gladly cut them off when he and I got back together. I'm so terrified he'll find out about what I've done I'm considering telling him, but I know if I do he'll hold it against me and say I lied again when he asked me not to. He would always break up with me and want nothing to do with me when I told him something I lied about and now that I have this secret I'm scared he'll leave me for good this time and think he was right for expecting the worst in me. I love this man more than anything but I just can't help but lie sometimes, I know he'll get mad over the silly truth but when he finds out the lie he makes a big deal out of it. I've never cheated on him I just always turned to other guys to get my mind off of him when things go wrong. I don't know what to do. |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 01:47 AM PDT I've recently found out that my husband has a fake fb account to play games, that previously we got into a big fight because of this game because of the nature talking to other people non sexual that I know of, he's had this fb account for two months what do I say or do? |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 12:01 AM PDT |
| Question: Husband and 27 year daughter argues he got mad at me because I said I wasnt in it? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 11:10 PM PDT |
| Question: Why can t I get on with my life after an 18 year marriage.? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 10:02 PM PDT I was married for 18 years, divorced for 4 years, (separated for 6 years) I m over my ex.I had 3 children before I met him that he raised and we have 5 children together our youngest ones are 12 .he isn t in our lives now.he became abusive at our 10 years of marriage .he is with one of the girls that he cheated on me with (which our oldest daughter is the same age of his g.f.)they now have a baby.he s went on with his life and my problem is I can t seem to get on with mine. I don t know what is wrong with me.every time I meet a nice man that wants to be my friend and we seem to hit it off then for some reason I stop talking to them and I don t call them back. Part of me wants a relationship and marriage then part of me just enjoys being single and spending all my time with just my children. I know this may sound strange but I m not interested in a sexual relationship . I m just trying to figure out why I just can t bring myself to get on with my life, I am trying. I loved my ex so deeply that i have forgave him many times for cheating on me and I took it really hard when he left us for the tenth and final time. However what confused me was why he was with her during our separation/divorce he kept coming back and spending the nights with me,I finally stopped that 3 years ago. So I m looking for advice on why I can t seem to go on.I have had plenty of opportunity and I just blow them off.and no I don t love my ex any more, he actually scares me and he s very mean.I m 46 |
| Question: EX boyfriend in heart instead of me? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 09:09 PM PDT MYself and my girl are in a relationship for nearly one and a half year.Her previous relationship with her EX was before 2 years,now her ex boyfriend is married to an another girl and they have a baby(before two months). but still my girlfriend talks with him. recently we had fights and we were not as close as before ,I wanted our relationship to happen so i asked her what is it that bothers her so that we can overcome it together and have a healthy relationship. she started avoiding me completely. I didn't want it to end so kept on pressing a bit finally she confessed to me on my birthday when i confronted my feelings to her, she said that "SOMETIME WHEN I AM CLOSE WITH YOU I DON'T FEEL YOU , I FEEL LIKE STAYING WITH MY EX IN MY HEART " so please leave me and don't torment me.. But guys i actually want our relationship to happen what should i ask my girlfriend to do ? will she ever come back to me ? give honest suggestions please help out guys! |
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