Marriage & Divorce: Question: My husband is abusive? |
- Question: My husband is abusive?
- Question: What's wrong with my wife ?
- Question: Have I lost my best friend?
- Question: Women: What do you think of men who won't marry women who want too keep their last maiden name?
- Question: I have a child I haven't seen in since she was born. The mother has never been cooperative and has always been jealous of my now wife.?
- Question: What do you call those men who devote their entire life to getting good with women?
- Question: Should I find out why my parents got divorced?
- Question: 3. How do you feel about your son/daughter marrying someone from another racial group?
- Question: Polygamy is illegal, but cheating on a spouse isn't?
- Question: Is it wrong to do this ?
- Question: Why don't I want to get married? Everyone is hassling me to get married I really don't see the need or desire?
- Question: Am I too young and is it too early?
- Question: Help! There is little support at my workplace..However there is an opportunity for promotion. I'm worried the lack of support will continue?
- Question: Are we doomed?
- Question: Would you stay or would you go?
- Question: The little things, there nothing bigger?
- Question: Husbands ex girlfriend trying to take his daughter out of state?
- Question: Are these sayings my mother taught me when I was a teenager accurate?
- Question: Divorce advice?
- Question: Does marriage license and wedding location have to be in the same state?
- Question: Why the Internet is FILLED by articles pertaining to "American women make the worst wives"?
- Question: If a man buys a luxury watch will his wife be mad?
- Question: Why is it that, while modern women don't want to adhere to traditional female gender roles, they still want to marry a traditional husband?
- Question: I am sick and tired with my wife commitment towards my household in which she doesn t contribute anything. What can i do about it?
- Question: How do I move forward? DIVORCE, CHEATING, ABANDONMENT.?
- Question: What is love arranged between a guy and girl?
- Question: How did your relationship change after having kids?
- Question: My in laws and their right as grandparents is this messed up or am I being overly sensitive?
- Question: How do won the same page?
- Question: Is my husband asexual?
- Question: My husband says he loves me and he hopes God will show him how to reveal his love to me, but, he doesn't show me through lovemaking.?
- Question: Can a girl 18 and is a senior in HS get married without her parents signature?
- Question: Should I leave my wife?
- Question: Frigid husband?
- Question: Any good marriage advice?
- Question: Serial Marriages?
- Question: Got any good marriage advice?
- Question: After kids is the romance lost? My wife and I have been married for 3 years and have two young kids. I feel like it's just not the same.?
- Question: Do my ex husband misses me?
- Question: What would you do if spouse put you in a collar and leash?
- Question: Are divorce/separation rates higher in interracial couples?
- Question: Pregnant wife won't sleep with me anymore?
- Question: My hubby has a very high sex drive and he hurts me physically and has been on dating sites?!? What is my marriage?
- Question: My husband had a son 5 years ago we haven t seen in 4 years. The mother was married last year and new husband was known as dad.?
- Question: Is it normal if husband gives his number to other girls and say call me?
- Question: Someone help me? (TMI)?
- Question: Husband always yells and calls my names...?
- Question: Advice about husband lying to me?
- Question: Relationship help?
- Question: Before you were married, did you ever fear being alone forever?
- Question: Married man who s ran his wife off by being mean to her is going after a married women who s he is abscesses over leaves her husband?
- Question: What to do with sexual aversions?
- Question: Husband always gives me a hard time and criticizes me?
- Question: Hi I am 38 married I watch porn I can t avoid it I would like more socialize with others in positive attitude. Please help me?
- Question: Wife goes out late.?
- Question: Wife goes out late...?
- Question: Is it possible for a man to have close female friends but still have a hard time trusting women romantically?
- Question: I want a man to help with my bbw wife?
- Question: I don t know what to do,my husband cheated on me and lied to me about it for 6 years. Help.?
- Question: What happens when husband wants to separate but the wife disagrees?
| Question: My husband is abusive? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 09:19 PM PDT I know this is long, but please take time to read it. I need help... He wasn't abusive before we got married, and he hit me for the first time when I was pregnant with my 1st child. He was mentally abusive, but I didn't get it at the time. We have three children together - 3, 5 and 8 years old, and I am 27 years old (I know, I got married young). First of all, he is mentally abusive. I work as a nurse in the local hospital and he demands all my money. If I don't give him the money, he calls me names and if I still resist, he uses the physical force. I don't even resist anymore. He's very rich and successful, and he didn't let me work for a long time - but I convinced him somehow. I really don't have many friends, though people at my work are really nice and I like them and they like me, but I can't tell them anything. He won't let me get out for a coffee with a friend, or bring them to his (our) house. He goes out every weekend, and usually comes home drunk. He raped me a few times when I didn't want to have sex with him. He doesn't hit really hard, but does it in a humiliating way, like I'm some kind of a dog. He hits me almost every day. I threatened to leave once, and he said 'Feel free to' and threw me out on the street. I was pregnant with my 3rd and had nowhere to go, and outside was freezing. I practically begged him to take me back. A few nights ago, he caught me crying and called me a 'Freaky mental idiot' and beat the hell out of me. -I'll add in Update section- |
| Question: What's wrong with my wife ? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 09:16 PM PDT Me and my wife have been married for 2 months. We love each other very much. We're in bed right now I'm trying to go to sleep but I can't I'm worried about her she's been crying. I asked her if she was ok she said she's happy and she's fine. I don't get how she can be sad when she's happy. Im really worried about her. We've been best friends forever when we were younger I promised her I would marry her even though she's 5 years older than me. I don't think I ever seen her this upset. She's also pregnant. Why is she so sad if she said she's happy ? Should I worry about her ? |
| Question: Have I lost my best friend? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 09:01 PM PDT I recently shared my marital problems with my bff which up a guy. He recently went through a divorce & thought he could lend some support & he did. The problem is we've been friends since age 6, he's like a brother to me & I've never been attracted to him, so naturally when he asked me out (I'm still married btw), I laughed, thought he was joking. After spending wks avoiding me (bc hurt his feelings) , he pops up again to tell me he's dating a good friend of mine. I was happy 4 them both & thought they might have a chance. Now I only hear from him when he's bragging about how great their relationship is & she never calls, txt, or visits anymore. I feel like I've lost my bff to another great friend, just bc I'm confused about my marriage & refuse to have an extra marital affair. |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:48 PM PDT Like, if he says that a woman MUST ADD HIS LAST NAME to her maiden name, otherwise, he won't marry her, what does it say about his character? |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:42 PM PDT I pay child support but have never had visitation. I'm going to be filing for visitation but curious if they will make us do supervised since she doesn't know me? Can I ask for a middle person to do visits with if Thats the case. I want the least amount of contact with the mother as possible. Don't be negative you don't know the situation just hoping someone has been through this as well out there. |
| Question: What do you call those men who devote their entire life to getting good with women? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:39 PM PDT Surely there is more to life than love romance and relationships... |
| Question: Should I find out why my parents got divorced? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:33 PM PDT I think my parents got divorced when I was around 2 years old. Im now in high school. When I was cleaning around the house I found a tape recording and on it was written "____ and _____'s arguments" (my parents' arguments). Id like to know why my parents divorced but i'm scared that if I listen to it, ill end up in tears or ill start having different opinions about one of them. I dont want that to happen. Ive never asked my parents why they divorced because I dont think they'd want to talk about it. What would you do? Would you listen to the recording or would you throw it out? |
| Question: 3. How do you feel about your son/daughter marrying someone from another racial group? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:32 PM PDT This is one of my questions for my interview research paper for my philosophy class! please answer in details giving some general information about yourself; name/nickname, age, gender... feel free to add more if desired |
| Question: Polygamy is illegal, but cheating on a spouse isn't? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:23 PM PDT i earlier asked, "why gay marriage is acceptable, but polygamy isn't?", it made me think of, although we don't agree with cheating on a spouse, however, marriage to multiple partners makes more sense to me. at least the people will know who is sleeping with who...but cheating is not an illegal act. it's awesome for divorce lawyers though. take a look at swingers, or orgies, what is it about the word "marriage" that drives this country bonkers. pro or con. the same with gay couples, why not let them marry. if a person prefers to sleep with multiple partners, and wants to be with them, why can't they marry? it seems we as a society, are okay with adults being with who they want, as long as they don't get married? really? i'm truly confused on how we decide who should marry who, while giving this illusion that we're progressive and accepting of everyone's sexual orientation. so which is better, cheating on a spouse, risking bringing home STDs, having a spouse who is secretly gay, the down low people... or adults making adult decisions to be with multiple partners, who all agree with it, they know each other, they've figured out a system, and they want to get married. i almost bet that bi-sexuals will be allowed to get married to the man & woman, before they allow a straight man or woman to marry multiple partners...which in this case, is almost the same thing...the problem is, if you're straight, and want to marry multiple partners, then you can forget it. |
| Question: Is it wrong to do this ? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:23 PM PDT Me and my husband have been married for 2 months. We've been having sex every night since we've been married. We've been best friends since we were kids we even promised each other when we were younger that we would get married. I'm 5 years older than him. He's only 17 in 22. Is it wrong to have sex every night ? |
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| Question: Am I too young and is it too early? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:13 PM PDT When I'm with my boyfriend, I have no doubt I want to marry him. When I'm away from my boyfriend for a few days, I start to get doubts and question it. I love him, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I have doubts. All those "what ifs." What if I get married too young and get divorced years later? I hear people saying that "unless you're 30 and have known them for years, you can't know if that someone is right for you." I personally disagree. Not only does that have maturity as a factor, but how much time spent, as well as hardships survived. I don't think there is a set age or time frame to when you should get engaged and married. It depends on the person and maturity level. Both of us are mature for our age, and we both believe in the same things. We have been together for 3 months and are starting to talk about getting engaged and married. We think around the 6 month mark should be good to get engaged, and getting married after we get the money for a nice wedding and honeymoon. I'm 19 and he's 25. I'm going to college and he is in a stable career. I want to take the leap, but I don't want to do it without thinking. I also don't want to overthink it. Am I too young, and is it too early to get engaged/married? I know him very well, we've been though a lot of hardships together in those 3 months. |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 08:05 PM PDT Should I look for work elsewhere our should I try for the promotion? |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 07:25 PM PDT Do you think me and my partner will stand the test of time? We always get into miscommunication and we recover very slowly/poorly from them. I am a highly sensitive person and he hates confrontation. He almost always walks away from a disagreement. We seldom fight but when we do we don't talk to each other for days, those days are unbearable for me. I sometimes feel we walk on eggshells with each other. The love we have for each other is immense. I think we both have sets of parents that were never good marriage models for us. How can we communicate better? How can we make our relationship better? How can we make it last and make it the best. |
| Question: Would you stay or would you go? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 07:14 PM PDT Ok, please go read my other questions. Basically, my husband used to have crazy mantrums. Most We're for the slightest of reasons. Some examples... His iPhone froze so he demolished it! He wanted to go to the water park on a cloudy day when we got close to it it started pouring rain so he started punching car windows and driving crazy. He used my brand new laptop and it was too slow for him so he punched it. He was trying to put up the sun visor up in my car and the suction cup wouldn't stick so he punched the windshield. One day he even grabbed me and left a bruise because I was driving and my car started messing up and supposedly he was scared for his life while going 35 mph. Ok so by now u get my drift. I did leave twice because I couldn't deal with it. That was 2 years ago and he finally agreed to go to counseling. So for the past year and a half or so he hasn't punched anything. But recently he's been screaming that he wants to punch this or he wants to throw his phone or slam this or that against the wall... I can't talk to him about his behavior. I tried to do that already and it just goes into this huge argument about me trying to control him. I'm scared that he's fixing to go back to doing what he used to do. To be honest, I'm tired of living my life wondering if or when he will do it again. Please help. If you have been in a similar situation please tell me what u did. I'm trying to make this marriage work but I'm at the end of my rope. Thanks! |
| Question: The little things, there nothing bigger? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 07:05 PM PDT Over my 13 year relationship with my husband I enjoy taking care of him, his family, our children and his friends with the utmost care. I genuinely love to make people feel loved and taken care of. Is it selfish of me for just once, to have my husband want to take a trip with me and only me, not for a sporting event, which I have happily been to dozens. Why can t he just once look across the room and think, she deserves a night out, a nice dinner she doesn t have to cook, a smile and an unwarranted compliment. Maybe just a note on the counter that says "I love you", in the morning before I go to work. Just because he thinks, ya know what? She s just as great as she tells me i am every day. Little things...there s nothing bigger.. |
| Question: Husbands ex girlfriend trying to take his daughter out of state? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 07:04 PM PDT So my husband and his ex have a daughter together, she said she wants to move to another state because she will have a better paying job. My husband gets his daughter every weekend and is scared she will be able to move. They have a parenting plan already in place. I know we would have to get a lawyer, but she said if he does not agree (which he already said no matter what plan she comes up with he is not agreeing) then she will get a lawyer and go to court. what chance do you think she has of moving? |
| Question: Are these sayings my mother taught me when I was a teenager accurate? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 06:56 PM PDT She told me that once a man falls in love it's hard to undo it and if he loves the wrong woman and marries her his life is screwed and over She told me this saying "Don't ever marry a $lut or bring one home because if she's a $lut one day she'll stab you in the gut If she's smokes one day she'll make you broke If she swears one day she'll make you lose your hair If she drinks she'll make you throw your life and money down the sink Then my father told me Son if you want to have a good and happy life with loving beautiful wife Just remember 3 sayings No cherry no marry No hymen no diamond No V card no wedding cards |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 06:50 PM PDT My husband has serious anger issues and has no self control when he's upset... I need to get out but we have a 6 month old son & he's given me everything. He pays all the bills except 2 that are in my name and he bought me a car. I'm unhappy. We're visiting his family and he's trying so hard to pretend we're the perfect happy couple.. we had an argument a wk prior & he got more physical than he's ever gotten before and I can't forgive or forget like he wants me to. I love him so much and I can see our son absolutely adores his father that I can't seem to leave. Besides I don't know where I would go... no one has any idea what's going on between us and I know it would break my husbands parents heart to know our marriage didn't last a year and that they won't see their grandson as often. I love his parents but I can't find it in my heart to leave my husband because of what his family will say of our short lived marriage. I love my husband but I doubt he'll change and he's given me everything, I wanted to be with him forever and have only his children but I'm depressed to know my fairytale won't end happily. How do I get out? Or is there another way to make this work? I've thought about talking to my husbands dad to get him to talk some sense into his son but I'm not sure how he'll react to me coming to him with this type of problem or if he'll do/say anything at all. |
| Question: Does marriage license and wedding location have to be in the same state? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 06:47 PM PDT We live in West Virginia but we are planning to get married in California. Can we apply for a marriage license in WV then use it in CA or do I need to get a marriage license from CA? |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 06:38 PM PDT Just do a Google search yourself. There are TONS of articles on why American women are the worst, and why men should highly avoid them. It is scary as hell. |
| Question: If a man buys a luxury watch will his wife be mad? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 06:14 PM PDT |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 05:44 PM PDT In other words, they want to give up traditional female gender roles and pass them on to the husband, but they still expect the husband to adhere to traditional male gender roles. And they also want the male to be traditional when it comes to courtship etc. |
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| Question: How do I move forward? DIVORCE, CHEATING, ABANDONMENT.? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 05:33 PM PDT I think I've accepted that my husband abandoned our son and I. While I can't say I believe he's never going to reach out for his son, I can't say I believe he will. I wonder every single second of every single day. I work full-time, go to college part-time(I had to lessen it when I became a single mother overnight - 5 to from first marriage, 9 month old from second). I love my sons and we are okay. I am a good mother. Not perfect, but I make sure my boys have everything they need - with zero financial help from their fathers. I decided to meet with someone last night and he was cute. Nice. Tall. Has a job and car. I found myself fighting not to burst into tears while talking to him, missing my husband and knowing my heart wants only him. He moved hours away and in with some girl. I have no way to contact him and am divorcing myself, given he won't acknowledge our existence. How do I get over him? Not to be with someone else, but to be happy alone and find myself. People keep saying I have to find myself to heal and have a healthy relationship in the future. How do I do that?! Also - feel free to give your opinion on this question: will he ever reach our for the son he was a stay at home father to for 8 months? Or do men really just erase their babies. =( DO RUDENESS PLEASE. I hurt enough already. |
| Question: What is love arranged between a guy and girl? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 05:25 PM PDT What is love arranged marraige |
| Question: How did your relationship change after having kids? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 04:54 PM PDT I've thought about how it would be like to have a family with my fiancee since we first met. We picked out our wedding date for November and while I'm really excited , I've had a lot of questions running through my mind. Right now our relationship is what I've always wanted, we go out every weekend (dates), we travel, have sex often, pretty much live care free. My fiancee has told me that she wants to wait a year before trying to start having a baby, so the time frame isn't that far away. So have kids changed your relationship? |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 04:46 PM PDT So my wife parents have always been controlling and rude. Treated her horrible growing up I am not going to go into a lot of detail about it cause it would take a book. But anyway they never acknowledged our marriage and we finally got pregnant now her mom is being super friendly and trying to push me out of the picture and my wife won't let her so just because we don't let them run our lives she told us she is getting a lawyer to make sure she has rights to our child I mean is it just me or if this way messed up cause we have told them we don't want to and are not trying to cut then out just that it is our child our life. |
| Question: How do won the same page? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 04:36 PM PDT I used to not care but now that our children are older things are different. My husband and I just think and do things differently. he turns the AC off when he gets up in the morning around 5am because the house is cold. Then leaves for work around 6. I get home from work around 9am and go to bed but find myself sweating in my sleep about an hour later. He says that he is giving the AV a rest. I prefer to leave the AC on auto set at one temp and it will kick on and off to keep the house the same temperature. That by the time I turn the AC back on after the house is 80 degrees the AC has to work harder. He goes through the house unplugging things. In my office is a power strip with my cell charger, desk lamp, and laptop plugged in at all times. I also have another outlet with my TV, DVD player, and floor fan plugged in. He is always in my office unplugging sh*t claiming that leaving things plugged in makes the electric bill high. I tell him to just trip the switch on the box. Not only that, when he wants to run an extension cord out the house into the front yard he unplugs stuff in my office to give him an outlet. But there is an outside outlet behind the house. But in the bedroom on his side of the bed he has four outlets AND a power strip for his night stand light, cell charger, IPAD charger, beats charger, laptop charger, and the AC is on his side of the bed. Never once does he unplug his sh*t to give the power a break. Now he is all b*tchy about our TV and Roku being on. The Roku goes dormant when not in use and when I turn the TV off the light on the Roku is still on and he says that it is making the electric bill high so now he is unplugging sh*t again. Our daughter left the PlayStation on all day and I told her that if she didn't turn it off that I would take it out of her room. He then asked "Does that mean that next time you leave the Roku on I can take it out of your room" |
| Question: Is my husband asexual? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 03:54 PM PDT My husband seems to be content with having sex once a month. And when we do have sex, I have to do all the work.... literally! He says he loves me, but, there is no passion. Is he asexual or just not into me? I believe sex is aan important part of bonding and since we rarely have sex, there is no bond. He says I am his best friend. |
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| Question: Can a girl 18 and is a senior in HS get married without her parents signature? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 02:36 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I leave my wife? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 02:12 PM PDT My wife has just told me she has cheated on me. The feeling I got when she told me was one of the worst feelings I have ever experienced. It is horrible to care for someone so much for them betray you so selfishly. Basically, my wife became pregnant when we were at university (college) which is where we met. Of course, we had little money being students and both came from poor backgrounds with little family. When we left university and my wife gave birth to a little girl, I often spent months away working. I had no choice in the matter but acknowledged it was the only way for me to make money and support my family. I worked three jobs simultaneously and lived rough. I also applied to hundreds of graduate programmes with hundreds of firms; within which time I only finally got a job offer after two years. Anyway, I now have a job with an investment bank and have a comfortable, sustainable income. Enough money for a mortgage, to buy a car, a holiday - all the good stuff. However, my wife has told me she had slept around with many men while I have been away. Admittedly she is very apologetic and seems genuinely sorry. However, my general respect for her has reached a point of non-existence. The only reason I am trying to make this work is for my daughter. I don't want her to be brought in a broken family so feel as though I have an impossible ultimatum! What should I do :( Thanks for listening to my problems, I'd really appreciate some advice. |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 01:52 PM PDT I've been married for 6 month. My husband turned to be frigid. From day 1 he doesn't want to have sex. And when we did it I felt he only did it because hr have to. I tried yo talk to him. Fight. But he always had fake readons and refuse any external help. I don't know what to do? And how to deal with thos situation? |
| Question: Any good marriage advice? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 01:49 PM PDT Been married over a year now and it's hard..he doesn't show any love towards me at all, he expects me to cater to his every need..I work all day then come home to make him dinner, make sure he has clean clothes for work a clean house and when he wants something I go right to the store and get it...he doesn't care about my needs or anything. today I was to tired to wash his car so he called me an *** and left...I'm to the point that I don't care anymore. I have tried all year to explain to him I need love and appreciation in every way I could think of to explain. He just doesn't get it. What do I do?? |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 01:47 PM PDT Do you think people that marry 4 or 5 times actually love their spouses? |
| Question: Got any good marriage advice? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 01:42 PM PDT |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 01:00 PM PDT Not sure if this is normal? We might kiss each other goodnight a night or two a week and have sex once every 4 months. Since we have a newborn I know she is still in pain and tired but I feel like we are more like roommates now. |
| Question: Do my ex husband misses me? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 12:55 PM PDT My husband left me about one ago. Leaving all his belongings behind including his cell phone and car. I lost total contact with him. I only saw him once since he left just to see his two daughters. And i have no idea where he lives or anything about him. And im sure hes with another woman. I begged him so much to come to me but he said he had mixed feelings. And that he neede time. So i stared dating this guy about a week ago.dont judge me. Anyways he found out and ever since then he has been calling me almost everyday but i have not answer any of his calls at all.so he texted me two days ago asking me if he could come pick up his stuff.and i never replied to him.so my mom told me he came looking for me yesterday and i wasnt home but he only said i came to pick up his stuff ..now what is he think..i just wanna know whats going through his head? |
| Question: What would you do if spouse put you in a collar and leash? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 12:35 PM PDT |
| Question: Are divorce/separation rates higher in interracial couples? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 11:26 AM PDT I've heard the divorce rate is significantly higher with asian men and non asian women couples due to racism. Does this sound about accurate? @rick29148 both. |
| Question: Pregnant wife won't sleep with me anymore? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 10:56 AM PDT My wife is only a few weeks pregnant but she's been crazy moody and won't sleep with me anymore. She always sleeps on the couch in the living room and I don't know why. I asked her and she said she just likes to sleep separately now. I don't know if I believe her, though. Does anyone have an idea as to why my wife is acting this way? |
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| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 10:42 AM PDT We paid for lawyers, adoption interview. Guardian at Litem and week before court the husband leaves the mom and kid. We are trying to decide next move. Do we enter the boys life as real dad and step mom when he doesn t know us or about us? We have 4 children together (2 his and 2 ours) that don t know about their brother. Our intention has always been to sit down and tell them together when they got a little older and then try and contact the boy and explain everything. My husband never pursued a relationship with the child because there wasn t a relationship with the mother. It was a one night stand. So family doesn t know about him either. This is tough so I m wondering if anyone has been in same boat no negative comments. We want what s best for the boy but also keeping our relationship healthy at same time. The mom has tried to drive wedges before. Thanks. |
| Question: Is it normal if husband gives his number to other girls and say call me? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 10:40 AM PDT just found out that he gave his number to a girl saying call me. i asked him about it, he says she doesn't live here, asking me how i found out about this! i am so confused and lost! i would never expect something like this from him!! i don't do that to other guys! i think he's doing things behind my back!! he's on his phone all the time..on Facebook all the time!!i.when i saw his Facebook, so many girls naked!!! uuulglglggg do you think he's cheating? |
| Question: Someone help me? (TMI)? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 10:31 AM PDT I don't know what to think or do right now. I really just need an outsider's point of view and advice. Two nights ago, my husband wanted to fool around. He made jokes about anal, and I told him no. During sex, he starts trying to put it in. I tried to squirm away, but he held me against him (he had his arms around me) and entered anyway. I was upset, but since he already did it, I tried to tolerate it. It started to bother me so I told him to stop. Instead, he went faster so he could finish faster. He claims he didn't hear me and that he would have never continued if he heard me say stop, but now just the thought of being with him intimately make me feel sick to my stomach. How can I get over this? |
| Question: Husband always yells and calls my names...? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 10:26 AM PDT My husband and I just got married 3 months ago. We have a really great relationship but I've noticed that he is always quick to yell at me. He doesn't even have to be angry sometimes he's just a little irritated and he will yell. I ask him if it's necessary to yell. Why can't he just say what he has to say in a kind voice. And he says "because You do stupid things." Or "you don't use your brain. Someone has to help you." In my opinion nothing matters except our marriage. So to me it's more important to speak kindly than to yell even if I do something "stupid". He also often calls me names in anger like idiot, stupid, retard. If I get upset about it than I'm either "throwing a temper tantrum" or acting like a retard, idiot, a child or whatever word he wants to call me. And when I talk to him about he has little remorse. A few times he's said he'll stop but he hasn't. It hurts my self esteem. How can I fix this?? It's really hurting me. |
| Question: Advice about husband lying to me? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 10:19 AM PDT my husband has a really bad habit of lying. It's never anything serious either. He suffers from anxiety and has blamed his lying on that. often times if he feels overwhelmed or thinks he's going to get in trouble he will lie. He does this to me over and over again. I told him how much I hate liars ( I had an ex who lied and cheated on me and it wrecked me).My husband always apologizes and says he's not going to do it again but he does. We just had a baby together and I don't want this habit to continue any longer. I confronted him about it this week and told him that if he doesn't seek help that it's going to ruin our marriage. I have been very cold and distant to him this week, partially because I'm mad and partially because I want him to understand that I am serious. He's been upset that I won't kiss him or hug or cuddle with him on the couch but I just can't do that right now. Am I being too harsh? I need us to fix our marriage, any advice? |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 09:58 AM PDT my husband doesn't wear the ring i got him but he wears another one, he says its to big. But i offered a ring snuggy and it really bothers me. other deets, he doesn't take the ring snuggy and i spent a lot of money on that ring. Do it mean he isn't proud to wear it? Also the ring he got me was to big also but i still wear it with a snuggy. and he wears it on another finger. |
| Question: Before you were married, did you ever fear being alone forever? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 09:33 AM PDT I am 23 and have never really had a relationship or anything. Partially out of choice, I chose to focus on school and be selective about who I date. But a few traditional values and environmental factors (I went to a female majority college and worked in a woman's clothing store) have limited my options of men growing up. I am a nice girl and have been approached and told I'm attractive but so far, nothing special yet has happened. I wasn't too worried, I actually prefer to avoid dating stress while I'm finishing up school and I'm meeting men who are more serious about dating unlike before I was most meeting college guys who weren't interested for anything more than sex. However in the recent year it almost seems like marital pressure skyrocketed. Suddenly everyone around me is moving in together, getting engaged, etc., and all of a sudden I'm dealing with this anxiety and fear I'll never find anyone, especially since I haven't had much luck so far. Is this normal? Does everyone worry they won't find someone? How do I deal with this fear, especially since everyone, including my family constant ask about my love life.. |
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| Question: What to do with sexual aversions? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 07:05 AM PDT i have never liked sex and i find it disgusting everytime my husband comes close to me i reject him i told him that i dont want to do it anymore and he told me he will prevent things from me if i dont give him sex ( like watching tv or going places or something) how can i fix this? i am 55 years old so i know it can be common around my age i hope someone will help we are very religious and getting lover or someone else is out of the question he also refuses to do so he doesnt want to leave me either and we cant break up we have children |
| Question: Husband always gives me a hard time and criticizes me? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 03:12 AM PDT My husband of two years always gives me a hard time. About everything. Nothing I ever do is good enough. If I say I'm going out to the store, he tries to give me a time limit. He constantly wants to go through my phone to check my texts email and phone calls. He wants to see my bank records. If I refuse, he gives me a very hard time. If I don't give him coffee or food without him asking, he gives me a hard time. I woke up a little late for work and he lectured me like a child. Why is he like this? I cook and clean. I'm in medical school. all I ever do is study, go to work, go to school and take care of my husband and try to be a good wife but I just get bitxched at for everything:( like just now, he had gotten me food and I didn't finish it because I didn't feel well and wrapped it up for later, he gave me a hard time about that. Say that I'm ungrateful blah blah blah blah blah. Is he abusive? |
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| Question: Wife goes out late.? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 01:26 AM PDT So my wife is mexican and attitude...she asks me to go out with her friends I say sure yeah why not (when I'm ****** irritated about it within). She tells me she'll be home around 1 but I wake up at 3 and still no sign of her I text her and says some **** I really don't care about. I really don't like arguing but I'm also really tired of this high school ****...what do I do..? |
| Question: Wife goes out late...? Posted: 05 Jul 2015 01:24 AM PDT |
| Posted: 05 Jul 2015 12:44 AM PDT The man to whom I'm referring has used the words "crazy" and "really mean" to describe his own mother, yet he has quite a few female pals, many of whom he's known for years. I don't get how a man can let women get close to him at all, even as friends, if he has trust issues, but I wonder if it's possible. Many of his female pals are married, and/or have children, but not him. The fact that he has used the above words to describe his mom tells me there could be hurt inside of him. |
| Question: I want a man to help with my bbw wife? Posted: 04 Jul 2015 11:56 PM PDT |
| Posted: 04 Jul 2015 11:55 PM PDT My husband joined the Air Force 6 years ago, he met a married 26 year old he was 21 at the time. They became friends and it quickly escalated to kissing and making out while they were in tech school together. When he came home he told me he didn t love me anymore and wanted a divorce, we had been together for 5 years at this point. He constantly told me he didn t love me, but I thought he was just confused so I stayed with him, he dropped me off at my parents house and I didn t see him again for 2 months. He told me recently out of guilt that he couldn t stand anymore, that he was having an affair, and that he fell out of love with me during this time. I asked him for years if anything happend between them and he would lie to my face and say he would never hurt me like that, that I mean everything to him. Turns out my suspensions were correct, he had sex with her multiple times and he said he didn t care about me anymore but never told me about the affair (the one thing that would make me leave him alone) because he didn t want to look like a scumbag. Now I can t forgive him, and I want a divorce. He had 6 years to tell me the truth, because I always asked if anything had happened between them, I feel like he made me gravel and beg to get him back and all the while he s sleeping with this female and I m a big joke. I feel trapped I have 3 babies under 3, why did he wait till now to tell me the truth? Should I leave? He is the only person I have even kissed. I feel stupid. |
| Question: What happens when husband wants to separate but the wife disagrees? Posted: 04 Jul 2015 11:43 PM PDT We have been in each other's lives for over 40yrs. Dated, lived together, engaged twice, and now, married for 15yrs. In 2008, I became I'll, and was diagnosed with psoriasis. The past 7yrs waiting for a liver transplant, (got it last year!), have been hell. We lost our house, credit, my 401k, my health, and our marriage, and now he wants to separate! I'.m about 75% recovered, but haven't been able to work, so with only my SSA I won't be able to afford to live by myself!? |
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