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Hey, so I'm 19 years old and about to be a sophomore in college and I have a professor that is hot and I mean HOT and any time I sleep with him he gives me extra credit. Well I recently found out he was married and unfortunately he is currently my teacher for the summer and is going to be my professor next year as well for computer science. I don't want to sleep with a married man... let alone and man at this point but I'm afraid if I stop I'll fail his class. I'm open to any thoughts but please help me.

My husband and I have a great relationship. We've been together 8 years. We still go on dates, we have plenty of sex and a lot of quality time. Outside of parenting, he's always complimenting my intelligence, kindness, physical appearence. Our only time we argue is over raising our son. My husband is ironically the stricter, more helicopter parent. For example, our son asked to dye his hair. I dyed part of his hair blue in a washable dye. My husband got mad. He was like he looks ridiculous, how could you let him do that, what is wrong with you? I tried to explain to him that I'm allowing our son to be a kid, its summer time, it washes right out. It made him happy and it's not hurting anyone. It's not like he'll be able to do something like that when he's older, might as well enjoy it. Husband tells me he doesn't like a lot of my parenting choices. A lot of the time, I win the scuffles. Most of them are solved in the bedroom. But I wish he would let up, I wish we didn't even have them. What do I do?

Ok so about a week ago I found out my beautiful wife has been cheating on me with another man. At first I was angry and mad she did this but after a few days of not talking I finally was curious about the details. I asked where they met, what positions they did it in, how big his penis is. She wouldn't tell me but I pressed her and she said they did it in many different positions and he had a huge penis (I am 4 inch approx). The weirdest thing is I started to actually get turned on and we had sex afterwards. I'm so confused I should be mad as hell? Can anyone give me their thoughts? Or been in this position before?

Me and my husband have been married 5 years we don't have any kids. I just feel like crying half the time for no reason. I'm 22 he's 25 I love him so much. I'm on my period right now I feel more emotional than ever. I cry when we hug or cuddle even when he kisses me. He always asks me what's wrong I tell him I don't know because I really don't. I'm not crying randomly I just have tears coming out of my eyes. I never felt like this before. I just started this the past few months. What's wrong with me ?

Indiana Child Support: My husband currently pays his ex wife around $2500 a month in child support for 2 children. She has a job as a waitress but she's also supporting her live in fiancé who has 3 children of his own and has no job (going on 6 months now). They all live together. The mother has primary physical custody while my husband and I are only allowed 13 days a month with them. How do we know our child support is going to my husbands children and not to supporting her fiancé and his children? If I become a stay at home wife or another dependant for my husband would that effect child support at all?

Me and my husband have been married 5 years. We don't have any kids. We haven't had sex since we've been married. I don't remember what it feels like. It's not that we don't want kids but we're not ready yet. Even though it's been 5 years he's 25 I'm 22 I don't feel like we're ready yet. He said were gonna do it again tonight. I'm kind of scared. Is it bad that we haven't done it in 5 years ? Is it gonna hurt again if I do it ? How can I tell him I'm scared ?

I was seeing this guy for 2 years and we would talk to each other for almost everyday. We clicked and we were friends, lovers all you can think of. His life was shady and I decided to move on with my life and he's always there. He tells me please don't do this to me I have feelings for you and everything gets emotional. After not seeing each other for almost 3 months and clearly warning him about leaving me alone he tells me that he's in love with me that he can't move on and after getting dressed he confessed that he couldn't see me because he's with the mother of kid and I told him to get out of my car. I feel depressed and I'm crying my eyes out he was telling me I'm sorry and he started to cry and he left. I'm 23 and he's in his middle 40's. He knew that I had no money for gas and he was trying to leave me some money and I threw it off the my window. I can't stop crying. He wants to be there for me, he listens, and offered to help me with college but he wouldn't spend time with me. I'm disappointed and shocked.

My ex husband is behind $3700 in back child support. he hasnt paid anything in over 15 months and he never calls our daughter or visits her. He hasnt worked in over a year and lives with his roommate who like to be controlling. His room mate texted me today and said he was going to tell my ex to have the child support payment lowered to my ex only paying $100 a month. My ex works under the table for this guy and makes money but I have no way to prove it. I am remarried and live in another state with my husband and my daughter. The child support people are going after my ex husband but his room mate is trying to step in and tell my ex to get his child support payments lowered to $100 a month. You cant raise a child on that much money, My question is can he legally lower it to $100 a month if I dont agree to it? Hes not even trying to look for a job

It hasn't always been this way but lately he's been working 12 plus hours and sometimes I only see him in the morning since I'm in bed when he gets home. I want him to not work as much so he can be at home with me. It's like I'm not even married anymore since I rarely see him. I've tried having the same conversation with him before but he got upset with me and we fought but how do I tell him nicely not to work so much?

Who else thinks its inapropirate for my wife to remain friends with a girl that turned me into dss for completely false allegations on sexually abusing my daughter of course all charges were dropped and this woman also sits there and talks **** to my wife about me and trys to talk her into divorceing me but yet my wife swares she loves me

how hard is it to get over a 12 year marriage. My husband and i are going trough a separation but it's so hard to give up everyday I try and make it work and I see no progress. We live together still and he always goes out and does whatever he wants and yet all I'm allowed to do is take it in and deal with it. I told him to leave the home of he does not want any drama he says everyday he's leaving but does not. I love my husband very much still trough it all I am still in love with him and will do anything in my power to make it work I just hate that there's so many of his family member involved and encouraging him to leave the home instead of telling him to try and make it work in so sad and hurt of how things are turning out how long does it take to get him out of my heart

My husband swears he did not cheat! I would rather know the truth then to be thinking I'm crazy. 1. I Found texts from his girlfriend pretty much indicating they once had a great relationship - she also put me down in those same texts 2. Found receipt to high end restaurants 3. Found X rated movies in his office where she works also 4.Found receipts to women's clothing shops 5. her grandchild calls my husband grand pa 6. His ring tone on one of his phones had something to do with a country girl shaking it 7. He tells her everything that is going on in our family and he knows everything that is going on in hers. 8. Tells her how to handle "her" daughter 9. Used to spend a lot of time with her 10. She started getting upset that he was spending time with me 11. He would fix up her house 12. talk business with her after 10pm 13. has Pet names for her 14. I found a text indicating they may have been hanging out in a hotel together 15. Christmas Eve, I heard them on the phone shopping together I guess I could go on with more if I wanted. He says he owes her nothing because he never did anything with her. Why won't he admit it??!! Swears to the Lord that he didn't!! He has a excuse for all the above. This insane!! I guess my question is, could I be wrong?

My husband left last year. He met someone shortly after and moved about 40 minutes away to be closer to her. We have 2 kids aged 3 and 6 together so he'd have them every- every other weekend. He was fairly absent for 6 months because he was so inthralled in his girlfriend. I started hanging out with a a coworker a few months after her left and we started dating about 4 months later. My ex has tried to find a reason to dis like him for months because he tried to come home but I said no. We had a horrible marriage and I wasn't about to jump back in because he realized the grass isn't greener. I am very happy with my new love, I have a great new job, nice new apartment. My ex was susposed to have the kids last Friday but asked that I keep them because he has a date. I got mad as this isn't the only time he's pulled this. He got all mad at me for calling him on his **** and said fine I'm coming to get my kids. I said, come and I'll call the cops. In this bickering mess my boyfriend hung up my phone and said next time he calls, I'll talk to him. My 6 year old told his dad and his dad went crazy, said my boyfriend is bad mouthing him( hanging up and saying he will talk to him is hardly bad mouthing) said he's stepped over the line, is gonna kill him, put him in the hospital, get him fired from his job. "The guys ruined, you settled and you will not be with him". My ex is a manipulator, spoiled only child who's been told his whole life he's a king. Should I consult a lawyer?

So if a man takes a woman's last name when they get married and his wife dies, then can he keep his last name the same without changing it back?

This makes no sense to me and I am trying to ignore any rising paranoia that it's something else. We're young, married only a few years, no children yet, I take good care of myself. We used to have a very active sex life, numerous times a week. Now he claims that we can only have sex at night (as morning/day sex would leave him tired and prone to under-performance in workouts). ???? After looking up stuff about testosterone and athletes and whatnot I found nothing to back up athletes and sex. If anything it said exercise would raise their sex drive. Can anyone explain this to me? The only reason I'm being given again is training for this event.

So my wife and I have been married for 12 years. I lover her with all my heart, however after child #2 we devolped kind of a dry spell in our sex life. We had sex regularly once to twice a week at that time then it started to go once a week after that. Anyways I have always had a high sex drive and I started looking at porn to fill the gap of our dry spell. Fast forward to today. My wife and I have three kids now and we have sex maybe once every other week, sometimes longer. when my third child was born my wife found out i was visiting Craigslist personal adds and I swear it was only for the pictures and their stories on there that turned me on. We also lived in another country so there was no chance I would be able to have an affair from looking at pics and such on CL in our home town. She again found me on dating websites and I don't know why I even visit them. I never would cheat on my wife and I'm being honest. This was after we moved back to our hometown. I was also taking to a girl from my hometown that lived about 40 minutes away now and telling her I wanted to sleep with her. Now I know what you are thinking (slime ball, jerk) I know right. I still swear if she would have said yes I wouldn't have done anything. We had a huge fight and she talked about leaving me. She forgave me yet again and now I work where she does. I recently have been talking with a lesbian at work and was telling her that my wife and I have 3 sums which isn't the truth. What is wrong with me?

I'm skeptical about this because if she finds out I'm making over 100 k or even half a million a year etc or so If the number is high they may slack off and quit their jobs start splurging on spending And hire maids services and stuff trying to live luxuriously off husbands money That does happen a lot The last thing I need is for the wife to start maxing out the credit card on shopping spree and hiring unneeded services cause she thinks her husband is rich and so she can afford it They might slack off

I'm not trying to be funny, I just want to know what I have to look forward to.

Met her on Facebook. Dated long-distance for 5 years before we got married few months ago but the person I was expecting - she is someone else. She is a doctor (27), I am an Accountant (27). It was happy marriage and our families got on well with each other. Now I am finding it difficult to bear this marriage. I am in the verge of snapping badly due to the financial ruins after the marriage. Spent all my savings and exhausted all the credit cards. She isn't employed yet. My priorities are meeting the necessaries (bills, rents and food and recovering from the debts) and her priorities are luxuries i.e bigger house, shopping and now talking about children. I am not miser but logical and she wouldn't accept/understand any of my financial worries. I am always stressed and working longer hours - that means tired in bed, resulting less sex and of course she isn't happy about that. Our sense of humour also don't match either. Our views are different. We are not cheating with each other. She is lovely and many things I cannot just tell on her face because she will get upset and our both families will get upset too. Divorce is not a straightforward solution, although I want it badly; a. I am so broke that I don't have enough money for the settlement cost. b. my parents likes she, she is good with them too. They will also be worried for both of us. c. Her parents will also be hurt. I would really appreciate you put yourself in my shoes first before your try to advise me.

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and he is still technically married to another woman. He has been legally separated from her for 5 years now. I have been asking for him to get the divorce finalized so we can make our commitment legal. He had lied to me and told me he can t do that until he pays the ex half of his pension that she is entitled to...ummm?? Payments? Right? It s a large pension so I understand, he does not want to pay her anymore money, she got a really nice chunk of alimony. However I feel it s unfair to me and our kids to not move forward. My boyfriend is 50 years old now and I fear that she will make all the decisions regarding his health and assets if ever he would be unable to make those decisions. I m building my life with this man, putting in money to reach our goals as a couple, I don t want his ex to be entitled to what we have worked for.. Does common law protect me at all in this matter?

We had been living together and after I moved out of the unit I took off my rings as I thought the marriage was over.

Newly engaged. I have a tattoo of my former girlfriends name on my shoulder blade. She passed away and I got it in her honour. My new fiancée has asked if I would consider getting it covered so it's a tribute piece rather than a woman's name. I've explained to her people can judge all they want, it doesn't make me a bad guy to have another woman's name on my skin. It's something we kind of just stopped talking about. But her brother made a remark to me last week at a cookout about what kind of married man has another woman's name tattooed on him and I don't know what I should do now. Part of me thinks ignore them, what if something happened that made me resent my fiancée once we're married for making me cover my tattoo? Not sure what to do

Me and my husband of 8 years have a teo month old together were both firsf time parents when he was at work I was home alone with baby she started crying to the point that she couldnt breathe do I freaked out and texted him "call ambulance now" after I ran and looked for a phone because my phone is off so I ise an app called textplus neighbors called ambulance for ne babg was ok it s normal they said. My husband kept texting but I viukdbt reply without internet connection after I called him and asked him go pick me up from hospital it s a 30 minute drive I was expecting him to be all over me and his child kidding is happy we re ok instead he was yelling saying I nedded a reliable phone and kicked me out the car I went upstairs with the keys and he called his mom saying I locked him out but I was giving baby a bath now he ignores me and haven t touched the baby NOTHING it s strange because he loves her when he s happy but he hasn t touched her so I went to my mom and I needed wipes he said he would bring it to my moms before he went to work but he hasn t I kept texting him saying "I hope you re having fun flirting with those hos at your job"

I was married although be it awfully whilst I met my husband now. He had just got divorced and I had not had any kind of relationship with my ex for 5 years. My husband now when we met was lush, he treated me and spoke to me like a princess so I left my husband, and married my new husband after 2 years. moved into a gorgeous house in the country. My husband works 4 days a week from home strictly 9 til 5 and no more travels around the south on meetings for one day. We have no children together and all my children and grown up My two younger boys live at home for Uni which is local. My problem is that my husband has started speaking to me over the past year like a dog. snaps, shouts and sulks pretty much all the time but I get annoyed when I hear him speak to others like a pure gent. have asked if he wants to separate and he said Im his world and would die without me. His work is not stressful believe me, he smean he does nothing, he really does nothing. I have to take care of all the household duties, waste management, garden and even my own care I maintain all by myself. I have got to the point that I am afraid to ask for anything and have started to resent him. I cry often remembering the early days. When I am at home with him and hes being nasty I am not allowed to talk to him all day until his break time) I imagine looking on dating sites and finding someone who would love someone like me I dont know what to do anymore I had a stroke two years ago Im 51 hes 45. I find it hard sometimes to stay awake let alone run around after him. I ask him at home to reach me something. I still am waiting two days later. Im not an argumentative person i dont bite unless really pushed and he knows I wont argue with boys in the house r so he does all his point scoring when they are home. He has been divorced before we met. I have read his papers and my life is almost identical to what his previous wife' was like.

I like the show at the massage parlor but I won't let them touch me or I won't touch her so is that cheating

Say your husband was taking nude photos of you with a hidden camera during sex. Say your husband also took photos of you when you showered or where changing your clothes. Also, you are not sure if the photos ended up on the internet. Would you wonder what else he is doing. Say he was taking photos of women in public, fully clothed, but they didn't know. I know there are laws against taking nude photos without someone's consent. Would you press charges against your husband? How far would you take this with your husband? http://withoutmyconsent.org/ http://www.cagoldberglaw.com/aboutcontact/ I wouldn't call it foolishness to get involved with someone if you trusted them with your heart. Some people are just very good or clever at hiding their behaviors or addictions. Flipping the coin, there are husbands that are photographing their wives nude without them being unaware and they are uploading their nude photos to sites like hot wives and hot girlfriends and swapping files with men to see the other men's wives nude. The majority of the wives do not know the extent to what their husbands are capable of. The wives remain in the dark unless they come across the photos or the sites their husbands uploaded to. It's a sickness. meant to say "without them being aware" I do agree that it is coercive paraphilia or as they call it voyeurism on the level of being a peeping tom. What they need is counseling with a sex therapist to help them. Although I think the line is all ready crossed secretly taking nude photos, but to post them online for the world to see would be a deal breaker. That being said, who knows if down the road the photos accidentally get discovered by family members or kids. How embarrassing is that. If they do get posted online, they are out there "forever" to be copied and recopied to sites. I don't understand why a guy/boy (I don't call them men) would risk that in a relationship. It could bust up their marriage and damage the kids. My conclusion is that it is a sickness or addiction to take that kind of risk.

Is 18 too young to be married? be honest! We've been together for three years, he's my best friend and of course I want to marry him but are we too young? What's your opinion?

My wife's the only child, she is 31, was living with her parents until last year when we got married, prior to marriage we were dating for 2 1/2 years. She is spoiled, wants everything in her ways, if I tried to stop her having things done her ways we end up in big arguments... She gave a birth to our daughter only week ago. She have been advice to rest, eat healthy and drinks lots of water since she don't have enough milk. The birth of our daughter was by c-section. She doesn't rest, not drinking or eat healthy in fact when she is angry she won't eat at all....she did this when she wasnt pregnant, while pregnant and after she gave birth....in the heat of argument she slammed the microwave door, kitchen door told me to f*** off. She have never swore before I was shocked....after two days I told her I am offended with her choice of language....she replied that she looked on Cambridge dictionary f*** off means go away.....I told her f*** you.....now she is mad at me.

You know how in straight marriage ending in divorce, the court always orders the ex-husband to give half of his assets to his ex-wife? How does it work in gay- divorce?

I'm tired of my wife and her mood swings and controlling ways. Everything is always on her terms! When I stand up to her, she gives me the silent treatment and act like I'm the one causing all the problems in our marriage. And every month it's something new that she wants and gets dead set on wanting it! It's crazy as hell to me! She becomes obsessed! This month it's painting the house. Last month it was she needed clothes. The month before that it was our lawn and garden. Before that it was we needed a new car. Before that it was we needed a new house! She becomes obsessed and fixated on one thing! But I can't be any voice or reason because she'll give me The silent treatment on top of her extreme moodiness! She never compliments me, show any affection or anything! We have sex maybe twice a month and she even controls that! It's always when she wants and whatever she wants! This is only 2 years of marriage! I have one child with her and she already had two before we got married. Our son is one. I'm extremely unhappy and talking to her is pointless because she gets mad so easily and say I always make everything about me! I compliment her, work overtime to take care of her and her two kids that she already had and do as much or anything she asks me to do around that house! Why can't I get affection and a few compliments? I didn't even get a freaking card for Father's Day! I buy her kids everything they need! I spend time with my son all afternoon everyday!

Just married after being together 5 years. Found out my husband had referred to an ex as the one that got away, during a casual conversation. They were young (18-20) he is now 37. Should I be concerned? Does he think she was the ideal match and not me? Or does every guy have one and it was just a passive comment?

You find text messages between your wife and her ex boyfriend. The ex is explaining to your wife how badly he wants to give her some head. He also describes how he wants to perform other sexual acts to satisfy her. He asks her if this makes her wet. Your wife replies "alot"." You confront your wife and she says she was just telling the guy what he wants to hear. Does this make any sense at all? Oh and you also find out, via the text messages, that your wife and her ex were having secret meet ups at the park or at his home while actively taking steps to make sure you remain unaware. Confronted about that, she explains they were just hanging out and smoking weed, doing nothing wrong. Does this make sense at all?

I am luckily not in this situation but I'm just curious about the answer.. So basically lets say I met my girlfriend, and then my father met my girlfriend's mother and they decided to get married before us.. Would that make it against the law because she would be considered my sister in law? Or what?

My husband and I are seperating, but he still lives at home. Tomorrow is his birthday 7/8 and I'm not sure if I should celebrate with him and the kids or should we just say happy birthday and go upon our day as always what would you do? Please no negative comments my heart is still with my husband but I don't want to seem so desperate to him. Thank you