So I have this friend who is kind of full of herself and always puts me down in the relationship. Although before I could realize we didn't work well together I ended up exchanging numbers and it's in the school system that we are sharing a locker next year... How do I get away from her because she makes me feel awful?

I recently asked one of my friends what she wants for her birthday, (which is Monday) she said "you don't have to get me anything" and gave me absolutely no ideas. She just moved here from a different state in March, so I don't know her very well. I would get her something that I like but we like different things. I have more of a girlier personality than her. She acts more like a tomboy. I don't know what a tomboy would like. Help?!

Im an atheist. I recently told my friend that I dont believe in god. Half of them dont want to talk to me anymore. Now my best friend cant talk to me. We've know each other for almost 5 years now. I dont know what to do. Can somebody help me?

A few weeks ago, I confessed my feelings that I had for my female best friend. She told me "I think you're really cute and you have a great personality. You're like the perfect guy, but you're just too short". I was mad because we're both the same height and that got in the way of having a girlfriend, but I still continued to talk to her. Anyways, she told me today that she was getting back with her ex boyfriend. According to what she told me about him; he's a high school dropout, he cheated on her, he has a son (he's only 16), he's a liar, and he's a loser. She rejected me because I was too short but she went back to her ex who is a scumbag. I was so upset when she told me that I didn't speak to her for the rest of the day. Should I still talk to her? What should I do?

She wants me to go to a mall that's 3 hours away and then drive 3 hours back home the same day. I get terrible car sick and I don't want to drive 3 hours to go to a mall. There is a mall is like 5-10 minutes away from our house and it's basically the same thing. Anyways, I refused to go yet she won't respect my desision. She's calling me a bad friend and insulting me and she's just throwing a fit over it. Do you think it's really that wrong to not want to go to a mall that's 3 hours away? Especially with my car sickness We live about 10 minutes away and I feel the only reason she wants me to go is because her grandma is making her go and she doesn't wanna be bored

Okay, so my friend has been lying to my friends and I for over a year, ( my friends and I have known her for a year), about being friends with celebrities. We finally confronted her and she avoided me until I asked her to say sorry, her sorry wasn't sincere and she didn't care what she had done to me personally and my friends. She sent us pics of the celebrities she was hanging out with but all of the pictures were fake, or photoshopped and she also promised autographs, again fake. She kept making up theses stories that were believable but when I found out what she had been doing I was furious! It's not like my friends and I have ever been mean to her, or anything like that, we hardly ever get in fights, and we never lie to each other, and never take a lie this far. She admitted to my one friend that most of her life was a lie from what she had been telling us. That shocked me, I did not understand why someone would lie about all of this?! She also said that she wanted to feel "lucky," but if she just said it was a lie in the first place it wouldn't be that serious and I would understand. When she finally texted me back she didn't even care about what she did, after all the nice things my friends and I have done for her. Why would she lie about this? Why would she lie to my friends and I about her life?

So me and my best friend have known each other for over 5 years and now 5months ago we started hanging out with this group. A guy and his cousin and some others. This guy has a tendency to play people and see how they react. Its frustrating and sometimes angers me .so one time he dis something and be crossed the limit of my temper so I just stopped talking to him and the others. My so called best friend keeps on talking to him no matter how much he does that **** to her over and over. We we're going somewhere and didn't go with me but with him. I'm really pissed and I'm keeping my distance from her too.

So when i was younger around in 8th grade, there was this family friend of my moms and brothers that she knew from the Phillipines. My mom decided to help her out and have her and her 7 year old son move in with us in our small apartment. Dont get me wrong she was nice and her kid was cool and then after they moved out and lived with my brother. Sooner or later she meets this rich carpenter bachelor type of guy and they get married and move out with her son. Kind of like a gold digger you would say since everything was handed to her and her son. Now her son grew up in a nice town with a nice house and gets to play football and bring his friends over and get everything he wants. Now i heard he's starting to date a girl! Its just tough seeing that little kid grow up and get everything that i couldnt have when i was a freshman in highschool and its hard to not feel a little jealous.. i never had a girlfriend yet and im 20... And now theyre inviting us for a cookout this summer. When in reality to me its just the girl showing off her big house with her new family and "look at how much better our lives are then yours" type of stuff. Like i dont talk to them.. Its only my mom and my brothers family friend from the phillipines before i was born. Its not really fair, it honestly makes me feel like a piece of sh*t and reminds me more ot how much my life sucks and makes me hate it. Why cant they just live they're own lives and not show off. I dont even know what to do with mine?

A girl I just started work with invited me over to her friends house this evening to watch movies. I'm not that close with my coworker and I don't even know her friend. Should I go? Or bail? This is probably a really dumb question but I've always been kinda sheltered lol.

usually I wear a padded push up bra but I can't hide as well in a bikini. while I'm not completely flat chested or anything, I have no cleavage and my boobs are embarrassingly small, especially compared to my friends my chest doesn't fill the tops either so usually you can see right down them even if they're the smallest size any advice?

They have not talked to me at all while in high school. I also had a bad relationship with them because I messaged them randomly. I just can't stand them taking over my news feed.

My nephew is EXTREMELY annoying. Is it weird that i hate his guts. I don't know what i did to get on his bad side. It all started when i was 10, he threw gogurt all over my new bike. So i punched him in the arm, and he cried to my mom and said that I punched him. I got in trouble, and ever since then my nephew has some sort of grudge. Every day it's devins a fat kid over and over. (devins is my name) He runs around screaming yelling, anything that could annoy me. Could somebody help me restore our friendship?

So I was talking to a friend and invited him to hangout...I told my friend( girl) that all 3 of us should hangout and o started feeling dirty and wanting to take it back.... Like saying ugh never mined I ****** up. and wanting to take a shower...it's not that I regret it bcz I do want is to hang out I just feel dirty.

I used to be friends with this girl and she was really nice to me at first. Over a period of time she started to just talk to me less and less, and overall she starts really hating me and it really stresses me out. I know I havent done anything to her because i try to be kind , but she tells me im "fake" . So many people tell me just to ignore her and tell a parent but i already have and it doesnt work. I love to draw and she tries drawing just so she can prove she can do another thing better than me. ( shes a bad drawer everyone knows it ) She still tries to make me jealous and tries so hard to be better than me and im just here being calm. Its really hard because shes that type of girl that spreads rumors and tells lies about people just to make them look bad even though they did nothing wrong. So many people hate me and all my friends are on her side. I know this is long and tiring but it really stresses me out seeing her being all "popular" and acting all pretty and thinking she is so good. I dont know who to ask anymore . Help.

just curious what the answers will be when I say "friends" I mean people you feel like you could call and hang out with one on one, and it wouldn't be weird for me, I'd say I have two best friends, eight close friends, ten casual friends, and the rest are just people I socialize

I took marching band for 3 years in high school. The teacher picked favorites, and the favorites he picked dictated the band. People talked poorly of others behind their backs and caused drama whenever they could. It was supposed to be like a family, but I never made close friends with anyone and actually made enemies because I stood up for myself against the favorites. I never had any say in anything and was always left out. I ended up going along with it and pretending to be happy so that I wouldnt get bullied. I ended up quitting because I hated it and the people in it so much. Marching band made my life hell. My mom actually wrote a letter to the school board, specifically the ****** of a teacher, because it got so bad, and I wasn't the only one affected. Many others faced the same problem against the favorites. Did I just get the short end of the stick? Should I do marching band in college? Are a lot of marching bands like this? I want to be a part of a team and be treated as an EQUAL, not someone lower than I am because the teachers pet "says so". I want to make friends and have fun and not have to deal with being bullied. Please share your personal experiences. Good ones and bad ones. Should I give it another go? In college I will have a new teacher, new drum majors, and an entire pool of new people that I've never met before. A clean slate. But will it turn out like my high school hell story? Please help!

I did marching band for 4 years in high school and it was great at first but then we got a new teacher that picked favorites and the favorites he picked basically dictated everything, not in a good way. I was also excluded from a lot of groups, some by choice, because they caused drama and talked poorly of others behind their backs. I didnt want to be a part of that. Another reason I was excluded was because I wasn t a favorite of the teacher and therefore always came in second or third when I shouldn t have and had zero say in anything that went on in the band. People were mean to me because I was quiet and didn t go along with the drama, drama erupted frequently, I never fit in with anyone and didn t make friends like I was supposed to in this supposed "tight knit" family. I ended up quitting, and once I did, things got worse as nobody from the band talked to me much after that. I was pushed out of the social cirlce. It was high school hell. Now, my question: should I give it another go in college? Please let me know your opinion and personal experiences. Are a lot of marching bands similar to the one I experienced or did I just get the short stick??? Is college band different? Is it more time consuming? I want to be part of a TEAM, not a slave to an evil dictator.

Okay let me explain. This one girl that was one of my best friends told me a little while ago that she didn't want to be friends anymore. I was and still am very upset. Today she and her group of new friends asked if they could use what we called our group for their group. I said that I didn't care, so they did. When the people in my group found out, they flipped out on me bc I let them use our name. Now the first group hates me and my group bc my group got upset, and my group hates me bc I let them use our name. I have no friends and I'm crying right now. And advice? :(

Two groups of boys told the whole school to avoid me and then they would give them whatever they want. My best friend {her name with be T} T started avoiding me and calling me names. When we get into groups no one will team with me and I am stuck in the back all alone. Everyone with slip notes into my locker saying, 'emo', and, 'b•••h'. The teachers are the only ones who talk to me. HELP!

hello! Okay so I just moved away from my friends, it's about a two to three hour drive, and my mom is letting me have two friends over. I was going to invite my friend anna over, but she's seeing our old friend elise! so now they're both coming. theyre both super fun since the last time i saw them, the only problem is i haven't seen her in like three years and im super excited to see her!! but I've been recently thinking, what if she doesn't like me anymore? Because we were like best friends but im afraid she might think I'm annoying and mean or something :c do you think I'm right? And also, how should I greet her? On a scale of saying "hey!" To hugging her and screaming, what should I do ? :D also say anymore tips on anything I could do with them.

I'm 12 and every year we go to a small town in Nantucket. I play tennis and golf with these girls/boys but they don't talk to me or pay attention to me. I'm popular at my school in California, but for some reason I feel really shy around these kids and never speak. How can I seem cooler/make friends with them?? I have known them since i was little too but I never really hung out with them

I m really disappointed. Only one of my friends can come to my birthday party. I can t reschedule it because it would have to be in late August. I am so sad. Almost all of them are busy. I dont know what to do because I want all of them to come. I only invited 6 people. I know I can t do anything to get them to come but maybe an idea for the one friend that can come.

we broke up almost a week ago and before we broke up he said we can still be friends but we haven't talked since the breakup. I miss him a lot and I've been crying myself to sleep every night

Ok so I guess I'm looking at this girl way to much at class because now she told her friends that I look at her alot . & her friends look at me & when I look at her the next she's not at class.

she said rats *** for no reason and she said her mom was watching everything. And why was her mom watching, to judge me and see what I would do in that situation, she was being so secretive and hidden. She could've just said I don't care anymore. She was being so secretive like she had some hidden agenda and was trying to manipulate me. Why was her mom watching our conversation, why did she swear in the first place, I'm 11 and a skeptical person. I don't take crap from people because they always have a reason for doing something. Just be honest already!

A close family friends daughter was suppose to go to a 5SOS concert with me and my sister and my mom. Let's call her Sam. Well a couple months ago we found out Sam has been stealing things from us and we decided we didn't want her to go and she didn't deserve to go bc we do EVERYTHING for her family. And we don't know how to tell her. And we told her at Christmas - when we got the tickets- she could go. But we really don't want her to. How do I tell her?

Hi i'm a boy, 15 years old and as of lately i've been hanging out alot with my friends, and suddenly my mom says: "You can't be with those friends anymore" because they are "bad" company.. Then my parents have a 2 hour long talk with me about how i needed to find new friends.. But the problem is, these guys are the only ones i've been talking to in almost 3 years.. And all the girls are a part of this group, so that just makes it even worse.. The only thing that has happened is that we have started to drink once a week or so, but it's not out of control and i know how to handle myself.. Oh, and then there is this one friend, that might be a little bit bad company, but he's not doing stupid **** when he's with me, because he knows that my parents are aware of it. So what should i do? They are literally saying that I AM NOT ALLOWED TO TALK TO MY FRIENDS.. Please help, i'm really depressed and sad..

I have a friend named Angelina. She recently became friends with a girl named Caroline, and Caroline is super rude. To list some example of things she said... Told Angelina that her dad is too hard on us for softball practices even though he is very lax on us compared to previous coaches I've had, she constantly badmouth's Angelina's family right in front of her and once told me 'Not to sound like a dying squirrel' at my drums lesson. She also tells us rudely to shut up and is always complaining about everything. A ton of people have noticed it too, my entire family of four, some of the other people in our softball leauge, some of my friends, Angelina's sister, and Angelina. Angelina wants to say something tonight at our softball game to Caroline about it, but she wants me to say it first. I think this is a bad idea and so does my mom. Caroline hates me, she always glares at me and usually the snarky comments are directed at me when just the three of us are together. My mom thinks so too, and I have no idea what to do!! Please answer soon, I have a softball game in 3-4 hours. Thank you!!!

I have a lot of online friends and we are a YouTubers. I met a lot of them during the second half of last year (they didn't know each other at the time) and I've become very close to them. One of them in particular, I will call them Toby, claims to be my friend but ignores me all the time. He always says things like"I consider us to be close friends" and "we need to skype soon" or stuff like that. But when I try to iniate a conversation with him, he keeps it extremely short... One thing that I mentiond before that along with Toby I met a lot of other friends. And slowly but surely he is becoming friends with all of them while continuing to push me out of the picture. I don't believe in the stealing friends thing, but what I don't understand is why he is becoming friends with people that I am really close to but ignoring me. I really did like him but that is really starting to bother me. How could he consider us friends when we don't even talk? And one more thing. He started youtube well before me and my channel had less subscribers than his for a while then mine skyrocketed surpassed his, and that's around the time I noticed this change. I'm supportive of everyone and I never acknowledged that because I don't care about numbers. But he acknowledged that I passed him. Anytime he reaches a milestone on YT I congralate him, when I reach one he ignores it. When one of my (now our) friends reaches one he personally and publically congadulates them. I'm just confused.

My friends and I used to be really close last year. Then, one started a stupid fight then told everyone else that I was being mean even though she was literally screaming at me for not liking chicken nuggets. She shared the story at her church and her pastor even said to apologize, so she wrtte a fake apology. She had no idea what she did so she apologized abut really little things she didn't really do. I had idea what to say to that, because I didn't even see the apology for a few days, so then when I was finally going to respond, she just said that she regret apologizing. She was always rude to other people, she overreacts a lot, but she always blames it on me. She always points out little flaws, and assumes everything. One time I asked her that she wasn't always right about the way I feel, then she says "are you saying I'm never right?" I wasn't saying that, and she always used to say "well that is your opinion." I got sick of her saying this stuff to me, so I decided to see how she would like it. I just said "that's your opinion"" then she started being defensive, then she started saying that what I said wasn't having anything to do with it. So, this other friend is her sister, and she just hasn't talked to me at all, and always get mad at me over things I say. They are twins, so I just twins once, and they both screamed at me. I was texting two others, and they started ignoring me. We are going into high school. What should I do?

I want to do something small with my boyfriend and my best friend. They're really good friends so that shouldn't be a problem. We can do something overnight with my boyfriend there, so I'm not worried about that. My mom's friend lives on a lake and said we could go there for the weekend but I think we would get bored and it would be awkward with her kids. I don't want to do anything to expensive, but I have no ideas. I like outdoorsy things and girly things, but I'd like to keep it a little less girly so my boyfriend can enjoy himself as well. Also, I do not want to go camping so please don't suggest that. Thanks!!

Ok so friend 1 has changed over the past few weeks and I has had 7 boyfriends over the past 3 weeks we are only 13 Friend 1 pushed friend 2's other friend into a metal pole yesterday and has really hurt her hip but friend 1 just laughed What should I do because I don't want to loose any of them??

Does that mean, that I just expected too much?

When I was little I was literally obsessed with dance, from recitals to competitions! It was my life. And it continued on another 8 years. But, I was friends with a girl who always tried to one up me on everything not only in dance but academic wise like getting a high grade or getting more friends than I had etc. obviously everything I did, she did so she auditioned for my same studio and group and got in. She got center, became favorite and took privates secretly. I once got to dance early to find that she was in the room with our teacher rehursing her solo that no one new about. The funny part was the teacher called me in to help her fix the music player and she was extremely embarrassed. But I was sick of always having to come home in tears because she would be the star and I would just be in the back just clapping my hands while she did tricks and turns. She was the star. So I quit. I've gained so much weight from stopping knowing that that was the only physical thing I really only did. Now I want to go back but she is so far with her national team and 7 solos. What do I do. I don't want to do any sport or such.

I have a close friend named Tom. Tom's very outgoing and fun, but he's not perfect either. In fact, I've met a few people from his past who dislike him. But our current circle of friends think he can "do no wrong". They think he's POPULAR, when in fact, he's NOT. He moved back home 6 years ago and literally has no social life--cuz he's like us: it's hard to make new friends. My question is: When will our circle WISE UP and see the truth about him? Tom at least had the courage to post on Facebook that he doesn't do much. And when friends visit his hometown, it's clear he has no friends THERE to hang out with. ...Are people so stupid, they can't see this? It annoys me, cuz everyone gives me a hard time--criticizing me if I'm not "Social", and it's like: Uh.. look at Tom, guys.

i'm 14 and i hang around with these two girls and to be blunt they are horrible to me. they always make fun of me (whenever i say something they use the "we were only joking" card) , one of them is mean but everyone finds it funny so everyone loves her, but she is 'funny' at the expense of others (mainly me) and it really really upsets me even though i try to hide it. the other is basically girl #1's servant and does anything to make her laugh and is even more horrible sometimes, especially to me. they guilt trip me all the time and manipulate me, if i dont do what they want i get take the mickey out of me and are horrible. but if i leave them they will be even more horrible and hate me more, there is no way to do it nicely without drama. they were nice at first but now i am seeing there true colours. this has been going for just over 9 months and we have a week left of school but i honestly can't cope that long i'm crying writing this, sorry if this is long/annoying/sad. i seriously cannot wait to leave high school. thanks in advance :)

I haven't been speaking to her for weeks but she said happy birthday to me yesterday and asked how it went because I didn't reply she blocked me on what's app and Facebook .... I just wanna know maybe why

I've known this girl since 5th grade whose a grade higher than me, we're now in college. She's a good friend and she's nice, fun, caring and not a backstabber, but she's also annoying, selfish, lazy, spoiled, impatient, stubborn, bossy, and emotionally draining. I'm not trying to be mean but it's the truth! Like she will throw a hissy fit if she doesn't get things her way like a 12 year old and she's 20. Her mom treats her like a baby and she's a nice lady don't get me wrong but she's kind of a door mat, she spoils her, buys her random gifts, gives her what ever she's wants, does EVERYTHING for her, she can't even tie her own shoes!! What really made me mad was that her mom bought her a WiiU ON FATHERS DAY!! Both of her parents are doctors, so she has money, I don't have money and my mom is single and working as an assistant at a clinic but our bills are outrageous. My friend claims that her life sucks and no one understands her and she blames everything on her aspergers, I have it too, but I don't use it as an excuse for anything. Also she is a major weeaboo, I like anime and Japanese culture but I'm not obsessed and I don't reject my culture like she does. She can't hold a relationship too long with boys and it's like she's scared of dating them, but she can be friends with them without too much of an issue, She only wants to be with her waifu. She has ALWAYS been like this I thought she grow out of it sooner and the list goes on. She has issues with sleep, stomach and head aches and I try to help her but no, she doesn't even try and take my advice, and things get worse for her!! Also she asks me a lot of favors, no problem, but when I ask her to do one simple thing she whines and asks why she has to do it and why I can't do it myself. I honestly can't see her living on her own anytime soon, her brother is way ahead of her, he drives, has a job and a girlfriend and he's three years younger. I some days I don't want to be around her negativity but like I said she is actually a good friend, like cheering me up when I'm sad, standing up to me, making me feel like I'm not alone and shows me cool things and places so I'm having trouble telling her that she can be a little hard to tolerate... Help? Please and thank you! Oops I meant to say "Standing up for me" my bad!! Actually I'm 19 turning 20 next month, I was 11 in 5th grade and she was 12 in 6th grade. Also to be fair we stop being friends in middle school because she moved for two year and came back and we became friends again in high school I was a freshman and she was a sophomore

That happened to me one time in high school. My friend pretended to be mad at me for a whole day. She said she didn't want to talk to me. But she was only joking with me. At first I thought she was serious, but she fooled me.

I started a new high school this year. 9th grade went okay i made a few friends. i sat next to a few popular kids we just had small talk in class. Im going to be starting 10th grade soon so i want to know how to actually become friends wih them? Any advice?

My bestfriend is the only person I can be myself with. We have so much fun together, but she is a whole different person in social situations. She brags and lies all the time. The worst part is that she says I cant talk to people, in case they would like me better than her. When I say things like "I won a football match yesterday", she gets mad at me and says I am the one who brags. She is never happy for me. which makes me sad. She makes my self esteem low and my social anxiety worse! She is still my bff though and I love her! What do I do? Why does she want to be my friend when she doesnt care about me?

So I just finished middle school and I'm not going to the same school with all my friends and my boyfriend which is sad :( ! I have to start all fresh when I'm in high school and I will have no one to hangout with, what should I do I try to convince my mom in putting m in the same school with them but she said no. They are the only friends I have

I am a boy 15 years old from Lebanon im white , I like the way african american speack and their accent is cool , I would like to become a friend with someone but cant find any sites if there is any one who is african american and wamma become my frnd and you have no problem sending your whatsapp number I would like to chat and become friends etc..

So me and my friend live right next to each other and she is moving next month and we are literally sisters so last night I slept over at her house and our sisters are also best friends and they are at a college orientation so it's just us two so we decided to have a sleepover at my house today instead. So I've been with this girl for a little less than 24 hours and I love her, we are never sick of each other but we are so bored and have NOTHING to do. She went home to pack, shower, and eat dinner and is gonna come back after. So does anyone have any ideas on what we could do? It's just me and her and my dad doesn't like us being loud and obnoxious so we can't do much when it gets dark. So any ideas for two high school girls to do? We don't have much at my house. (No good games, no pool, no fire pit nothing) so we have nothing. Keep in mind we are in high school not middle haha. Thanks so much!! The more ideas the better. Xoxo Ally

Things happened between me and my friend and I got beat up for being his friend but I told him idc and my friends really sensitivetold him its ginna suck being friends and now he won't answer any of my messages im just worried about him I don't want him to do anything like sucide or selfharm I just need help please I'm scarred

I know you can't force a friendship but can I attract people so they perhaps want to get to know me better?

I've been friends with my guy friend for about 3 years. Part of me wants to stay friends with him but the other part is tired of being his friend. When we talk- we go deep. We share our feelings, our fears and our dreams. Of course with me always wearing my heart on my sleeve- I fell a little bit for him. However, he's just always depressing. He claims he likes to hear my thoughts because they're "different@ from others around. I always listen to him and I'm always there- but it's so draining. Because I like him I expect more and I'm get dissappointed each time because half of me wants him to say "I like you". I get stressed when he talks to me. What should I do? I don't want to lose him as a friend. I opened myself up to him and told him things I would never imagine telling anyone else.

Ok so I have been friends with her for about a good solid 3 years but now I just feel like ending this friendship. Why? Well first she makes really big assumptions on little things for example: There is this guy that she didn't like at all but then this other girl told him that my friend likes him (making things awkward obviously between them) so now My friend thinks that every time he is near her or moves near her, he is just 'Playing' or 'Mocking' her. It's getting really annoying like she tries to avoid him so hard that it ends up looking obvious or embarrassing. Today she told me a little 'encounter' with him and I exactly told this to her: "I feel like you're getting a bit too paranoid over this now, like it's a little thing, you can't always assume that he is exactly 'playing' around with you". And do you know what she says to me? "See this is why I don't want to tell you anything because you always judge me and d'you know what, forget it"…Like in my head I was thinking WTF?!? I wasn't even judging her and I NEVER have judged her about anything, and i wouldn't. And I know this sounds a bit weird, but I am a sensitive person so I turned around and started crying (without making it obvious of course). She doesn't even care at all, the fact i have turned around, she doesn't even ask if I'm ok or anything, She just continues talking with our other friend (we hang out as a 3) treating me as an invisible. There is also more issues but then i would pass the maximum words. f This is just part 1 of it, there are other reasons too like her being a hypocrite, judgmental to the other mates (friends) that I have and how she doesn't really make me have choice. Also just wanted to mention that she back chats on this girl called 'Sara' (I guess our semi-4th friend) and always says she doesn't want to hang out with her and always telling me she hates her. BUT OH NO GUESS WHAT? She hangs out with her, always talks to her, leaves me out…Like seriously (continued) She even asks her out to the cinema, shopping etc. but not her own best friend? sigh…well I just want to know…Do you think I should confront her with these issues? *Teehabwa please read the comments on your post that I have provided.

A while back my mom had pissed me off about something stupid, and of course I naturally went to my friend for help so I could cool off. After explaining to her my problems, she started acting like a total ***** and kept telling me I had no right to be upset and that she couldn't help me. Now before you go thinking I just happen to expect everyone to help me out and bow down to my issues, I don't ever think or feel that way. She told me, ' I can't help you, for ****'s sake see a therapist or something.'. I don't know why, it just really hurt me and I couldn't help telling her off about it. I constantly have trouble helping her with her problems, like when she's suicidal because her parents yell at her, but I still be a ******* logical person and help her out. I don't understand why she had to go and say that. Then she said I know nothing of a hard life, yet I do. I've been through twice the amount of stuff she's been through. Should I just stop telling her about my issues? She also told me to '**** off' after I explained to her that she had no right to curse me out because I was upset

So I'm a 16 year old guy. I have about 4 or 5 friends. Occasionally I go out and have a good time with them on some nights. But most of the time I find myself left out and alone when they are out having fun and doing things. Like I ask them what they are doing tonight and they tell me they will let me know, and then they never reply. It's really sucking right now because I haven't been doing anything with friends for 3 or 4 weeks. I'm feeling lonely and isolated from the world. And to make things worse my girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, so that hurt me pretty bad. I'm just wondering how I can start hanging out and getting involved with my friends more. Thx(:

Ok so me me and this girl have been talking we talk almost every day I mean we talk for hours and hours until 3 in the morning we tell each other we love each other and I really care for her we talk about a future together and everything BUT she has a bf that she has had a year and a half she says he doesn't make her happy and he cheated on her before she says she wants to break up with him but don't know how what do I do?

Yesterday my best friend was over at my home, and my mother started talking to her. While my mother was speaking, my best friend started talking(basically interrupting her) and I think my best friend took it as SHE was interrupted because my mother was speaking at the same time. I've known my best friend for a while so I should know how she reasons. And then while my mom was speaking my best friend gave my mother a really rude glare, and I've noticed that my best friend does this a lot as people speak to her but I was especially hurt since she did this to my mother who was only explaining something really important to her. I regret not telling her straight when this happened, but should I brush it off or confront her about it? My mother noticed that she glared at her because she spoke to me when my best friend had left, and now my mother doesn't really have a good view of my best friend...

I am sad, borderline depressed because my girlfriend makes no effort to take me out. She takes me and our daughter out of state to visit her family. Which l am grateful for but I feel isolated and left out because we have basically no experiences or memories with just us. She doesn't have much finances which I understand but everytime her friends/family call her for an event she is able to drive out of state and attend. My family is almost always available to watch our daughter if she wants to go out. We went to the movies for the first time a few months ago only because we were supposed to go to her best friend's birthday party and my gf realized at the last minute that she didn't have enough money to pay gas and toll out of state. For our anniversary there was a haphazard plan for us to go to the movies again which didn't work out. I was extremely disappointed. I just feel so unappreciated. There is barely any effort being put in and she doesn't go along with my plans either. I've been there supporting all of her friends and family's birthdays, baby showers,weddings etc. She is now making plans this weekend for her friends and family to come to our house and it seems like she has a lot planned because they are coming. I really wanted a chance for us to do something alone for once. I am extremely sad and I am tired of communicating my disappointment because I am made out to be a Debbie Downer and complainer. I am drained as a mother

Okay so I was friends with this girl in junior high. We were best friends, we did everything together. Then I moved to a different school and I was bullied and had no friends. I would call her and try to make plans but she never had time for me. When I would chat to her on the phone she would only talk about her own life and how great it was. She never used to call me, it was always me that made the effort. Than one day I got fed up and just stopped calling/texting. Its like she didn't even notice that I was gone. About 6 months after that I started dating a girl. Three months in my girlfriend committed suicide because she got made fun of for being lesbian. I had a really hard time coping after her death. I had a nervous breakdown and got put on medication for depression. I had a really difficult time and my friend from junior high (who I still considered my best friend) was never there for me. Now, one year later, I'm all better and my life is going really well. The other day I was on Facebook and she posted saying "sometimes I feel like people take advantage of me and I should just be an a**hole". So I commented "but you are an a**hole" and she was like so angry and everyone told me that I'm being mean to her. I thought it was hilarious in all f*cking honesty. She promised to always be there for me and when I needed her most she just disappeared. I know that nobody owes me anything in this life, but It was an a**hole thing to do so I wasn't wrong.