Why would my partner of 43 message his daughter 14 to come into the living room where me and him are sat to "Come and ask me to take you to get some yoghurts drm the shop?" I don't understand. We didn't argue and he goes to the shop a lot I would not stop him.

My neighbours hates my Christmas decorations this year. I decided to do them in the style of a Gingerbread house. There's white lights and icicle lights on the roof and above the window and door on the ground floor. I've also put red and green lights on the front of the house. There are also snowmen decorations outside the house, too. Some of my neighbours love my Christmas lights, but others hate it. Some of them complain that it is too tacky and too bright for their taste, and want me to them all of them down and go minimalist. I only turn them off at 11pm - so why are they complaining? There's 3 or 4 houses in the area that have ever brighter houses that have even more lights than I do, and they don't complain about them. Probably because I'm the closest house to theirs. Should I listen to them and take them down and go minimalist?

I'm 13. I was in my house talking to my mother. Then I heard a boy's voice outside say something. Apparently it was one of my neighbor's friends who came over to their house. And I stopped talking for a while because I didn't want them to hear me. Then the neighbor, a 27 year old man shouted out to his friend laughing, "I told you, when that girl hears men she does get quiet". Then I heard them both cracking up laughing. So I went to my room and shut the door so I couldn't hear them and watched a movie. We were neighbors for 10 years and they were never so mean. Why is he?

would you feel like they were taking over

I think he should duct tape his mouth he snores so loud. Last night he put a tennis ball in his mouth but we need another way so he doesnt snore. What do we do

She's 5'5, petite, Asian, has dark brown wavy hair and brown eyes. He's 6'2, skinny with a little muscle, Latino (light skinned looks white), has dark brown (curly/wavy) hair and brown eyes Her family is Cambodian, his parents are from Latin America. He's 7 years younger than her. She's beautiful, he's average. Both spend ridiculous amounts of money on clothes, both grew up with ugly duckling syndrome but I think she developed better than him.

So ladies i am trying to think of a few things to do for my girlfriend for her birthday. Her birthday present is a necklace that says i love you in 100 languages. I am planning on taking her somewhere fun such as maybe mini golf or lazer tag. And hoping to end the day out with cooking her something but i wanted a few other ideas in case we have the free time. So if anyone can give me some ideas it'd be appreciated i wanna make her day special I am 23 btw and she is turning 22.

I've been talking to someone for 5 months. I believe he's insecure because he has made fun of his weight constantly and some days he's accused me of having a boyfriend. He thinks I'm more attractive. He told me his ex cheated on him. He used to call and facetime me but that's faded. I was in the same city as him and so I spent 3 days with him. We are 2 hours away and this was the first time meeting. He still seems to doubt I like him. I've told him many times. He told me he just needed time to get to know me more even though we were exclusive prior to meeting him. Why the sudden change? We had fun and he didn't even want sex. He poured his heart to me a couple days ago, saying that I was all his and how much he liked me. So I'm confused. He's brought up the future many times too. I always reassure him that he's fine the way he is and that I like him too. However lately he's been pushing me away and ignoring my texts. When I asked him what was wrong and if he didn't want to talk to me, he seemed shocked and said that he was only really sad lately. I told him I understood and he can talk to me whenever he wants to. I've given him space but now I'm confused because why couldn't he just tell me he needed space or that he was going through something instead of just ignoring me. I feel like if he wants me to be a part of his life, he should communicate this because we're so far apart. Is he not interested in me anymore? I'm giving him the space he needs.

I came to find my brother had his mate over, I went upstairs to my room - my brother's room is directly opposite mine. And I heard a noise so I went upstairs quietly, looked through a gap in between my open door and the wall to see my brother friend pleasuring himself over my used underwear! I don't know whether to be pattered or angry? Is it illegal?