She wants him to come to their house, I have never met her and think it's way to soon for our child to be meeting someone he's only been knowing for 5 months! Am I over reacting? This has been a tradition of ours for years and now she comes and wants to change things up and he's going with it. Has anyone been thru this?

We had our daughter the first year of marriage. We used to sleep in the same bedroom. Everything changed after a year of marriage. We don't appreciate each other anymore. My wife only does her duty as a housewife cause I support her. I sleep on the master bedroom and she sleeps in our daughter room with my daughter. We our not closed like we used to. Every day now it's a routine. We have talk about our situation. I discover that at the same time she doesn't want to end our marriage and I don't want to ended it either. We occasionally say I love you to each other. I guess what keeps together its our daughter. But my marriage is more like living with a roommate. We used to question each other whenever we go out and how long we were going to stay out. Now I don't even ask her where is she going to go or what time she will be back and she does the same as well, she doesn't ask me anything at all. I don't know what to do. But at the same time I feel like I cannot end our marriage, she told me the same thing as well. But our happiness is not the same. Its been a while since we were together sexually. The year is about to end and we only done it like 3 times in the whole year. We get mad mostly about anything and we end up ignoring each other for hours and sometimes till the following day. Any who has experienced anything like and made their marriage afterwards wonderful, can you provide me with some worthy advices to make my marriage a little bit better?

She wants to bring our 1 year old we have together as well even though she has hurt him in the past and has hurt herself. She cant take care of her self let alone our kid and threatins to take him any time I try to talk with her about it. She has not threatined to hurt him but acts in ways that could hurt him and curses and screams at him. I feel hostage and want to start healing.

What should a marriage feel like? within 5 years... within 10 years.... withing 20 years.... and what should i expect? I'm 32, and my parents don't have the best marriage, so I was never really taught what a good and happy marriage should look like ...=(

My wife and I have been married for six years and have two children. We have a good marriage for the most part, but my wife and I fight about her family a lot lately. She is one of four children. I have no siblings. I feel outnumbered and have never felt comfortable around her family. They always seem to be trying to involve themselves in our lives under the guise of being helpful. I resent that and my wife resents me. Is our marriage over or can it be saved?

What would you do if you read this letter, or had knowledge of the letter?

Not seen father for ten years, he was a crank back then, now it seems he's an old crank, just plain annoying, turns up when he wants outside agreed times, forgets everything I tell him, takes us to outdoor malls when it's sideways rain and freezing cold, just a fool. Mother is insane, ran off everyone who ever lived with her, including me soon to be, constant problems, always doing dumb things, Wont listen, ignores what I say, can t remember anything I tell her, always embarrassing me in front of others, ten years of problems, i hate her. Brother, selfish user who only cares about himself and worships money, Extended family not heard from in years.

I work in an office building and a female co-worker recently started dating a new guy. She's introduced him to several of the girls in our office and now she wants me to meet him. She suggested we get together for dinner. Her and her new beau, me and my husband. I mentioned it to my husband and he didn't say no but he didn't actually say yes either. Yesterday we were texting and he started asking me more questions about this get-together. I took that to mean he was on board so I told my co-worker we could meet. This morning while we were getting dressed I asked my husband what he though about us going to this really nice seafood restaurant we know and he pretty much said, "I haven't said yes yet." I told him that he was asking questions about it yesterday so I already to the girl we would meet. He got a little angry saying asking more questions is not a yes. That's just asking questions. He then said that it's not like this is a friend that I hang out with after work often so he doesn't understand the importance of him meeting her new boyfriend. He's probably only met my co-worker once or twice in the past year or 2. My co-worked, when she joined our company, was going through a bad divorce and now she's excited about her new boyfriend. She told me he lives in Boston, MA. We live in NC. My husband again was like, "why do we need to meet someone who doesn't even live here?" He also feels that I shouldn't be picking the restaurant. My husband also feels that if she wants us to meet her new boyfriend then she should pick the restaurant. I just made the suggestion about the seafood place. He feels that this is a co-worker that I've hung out with maybe 2 or 3 times after work in the past year or so. It's not that big of a deal to him to meet her boyfriend who won't even be here possibly after this weekend. Why can't he just say yes sometimes without all the questions. I feel like he's interrogating me.

met this man last year and we became very close friends. I am 35 and he is 47, both married. At first he used to express that he likes the way I look and dress, then we discovered we had a lot in common and became really good friends (only!!). We meet often and discuss and enjoy each other's company, we text back and forth most of the time. Soon after we became friends, he told me he regretted marrying the wrong person but that divorce wasn't an option for him because there's too much at stake. I didn't think much of it back then and considered this as the kind of confession you make to a close friend. Last month, I told him I was divorcing. I needed some good advice and someone to listen, and being the good friend that he is, he did just that. But something has been bothering me and I need your input; shortly after I told him about my divorce, he said that he has always had a double life, always having an affair on the side, and just last week, told me the name of his actual girlfriend, who happens to be a divorced woman. I was shocked he made this confession without any sort of shame or guilt, I mean this is not sth to be proud of, and the very least is to keep it to yourself. I can't help but think this is an "indirect message" to me? An indecent invitation to have some fun on the side? Am I being paranoid or am I reading correctly between the lines?? Knowing that he never misses an opportunity to say how great I look or how smart I am. Any thoughts?? Thank u!

A buddy of mine was going camping with his wife. He said she fell asleep on his lap and then he added "she started in my lap and moaned loudly. Then she rested easy". Is 'started' another way of saying startled or jumped?