I have started a roots marathon and as a white man with a black wife and mixed children it leaves me speechless.

I would like to get married in a year or so, my fiance is Mexican, i am a u.s citizen, we would like to live together in the u.s. I have researched online and apparently there's different types of visas. Which one does he have to apply for? how do we process it? what do we have to do? how long will it take? how much will it cost? if someone could please explain it simple it be great.

My husband's father is living with us now but he and my son don't like it and wants him to move out. My husband's father, my husband, and my son don't like each other and seem to argue all the time. I've tried stopping them plenty of times but I no longer want to deal with it.

my husband and i were out of lube so we used motor oil instead, we had no other oils or lotions or anything, just motor oil. we had a good time while we were at it, and i feel fine, but my husband is complaining of an intense burning sensation in his posterior area? he has large welts or sores there too. how can i treat them? are they caused by the motor oil?

and how would u rate her looks from 1-10? will choose best answer that is honest

without knowing the slightest thing about his or her history or personal life? why would you make such an assumption?

Me and my wife have been married 12 years. She was 13 when we got married I was 33. Me and her have a son together he's 8 9 next week. I have two boys from a previous relationship who are older than her. Is that wrong ?

Hi, I got married 3 year ago and did not know that my "wife" and her mom from my home country have been conniving and lying about her health to extort money from me. After 3 "major hospital visits", and lots of pressure by my "wife" to save her mom...lots of stress and pressure. I launched an inquiry and discovered that it was a lie, one of the hospitals does not even have a record of her in their system. Now she has conditional residence that will become permanent very soon, she got angry and defensive when I confronted her and did not even say any word about all the money that I have spent thinking I was helping her mom. she's more angry that I went to find out. I am considering criminal/legal action, divorce, etc. Her response indicated that she does not care about all my suffering, that when she graduates (which I'm putting her through school), that she will continue to fund her mom's lifestyle...(she bough cars and living luxuriously, and i did not know about the cars despite her saying that I'm the only one they have that can help financially). How do I go about this, it would have been a waste of my 3 years, my money, my heart, and I do not think she deserves the permanent residence. I was looking for insight before talking to a lawyer and to know what kind to talk to.

My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and we have a one year old. He's made comments for years about proposing/getting married etc. but he also claims he'll never marry again (he was married for 8 years before we got together with 2 kids from that relationship). Lately he's been making a lot of extra comments about marriage & hinting at a proposal. Today he asked me to get a number off his phone & when I unlocked it there was a jeweler site open with engagement rings in the search bar. I closed it like I didn't see it. I have a terrible feeling he's planning to propose on Christmas and I'm honestly not sure what to do or say. Our relationship has never been "perfect" he's always blamed it on his "commitment issues" which is total b.s. But this past year things have been tough. He sleeps on the couch every night because "he dosent like the baby waking him up". When he is home he's always upset and yelling. I feel so much anger and resentment whenever he's around and I don't know how to change it. I can count on 1 hand how many times he's fed,changed or bathed our little guy. He makes no effort to do things with my friends/family when invited. Im at the point where I dread him coming home because I know he's just going to be yelling or bi****** about something. I try my hardest to bite my tounge for the sake of my son but I don't know what to do anymore and I really don't think a proposal will make anything better.

I don't confront him for this but I'm just wondering. Is it because I'm not enough? He tells me he love me but when a pretty girl walks by, he stare at them. Why? I don't stare at other guys.. even when I'm crushing on them, I still act normal and try not to look. He's so unfaithful to me.

He told me he does when we don't do it ? We do it like once a week , that is enough for me since we have a baby and he works a lot I just don't know if it's ok ? He "says" he doesn't look st pictures but idk

So my husband works full time as a substitute custodian all over our local school district. He told me this week hes just been feeling blah at work on wednesday, and then on thursday he says he hurt his hand vaccuming all day at work. Mind you, hes using his hand perfectly at home. So he filed workmans comp, to which the made him go to the doctor to get a note. The doctor said he just strained it from working muscles that are never used. And now he's playing the whole I cannot do this or that, because of my wrist, and he cant go to work, because the doctor told him not to lift anything too heavy, which they told him to just not come in if he has restrictions like that. So the past two days of him at home have consisted of him sleeping, waking an hour, and then sleeping again for a few hours. Over and over. We are in the process of moving, as I am also doing my school finals. but he will not help me with the move, as he prefers to sleep all day. I kid you not, today consisted of we wake up, and he sleeps in another hour, making us late. And then immediately after church, an hour later, we get home and he went to sleep and is still sleeping now, 4 hours later...He does this every weekend and when he gets home from work in the week too. My husband and I do barely anything together now, because of this. HELP ME! What do I do?

less cute, slightly older, but owns a bar, has a hgh IQ, and could move to a beach town and retire right now if he wanted to, or open a bar there. Which should I choose as my soul mate? the cuter, younger, dumber and poorer one, or the older, smarter, and more succeful one, and why?

Meaning if you liked a girl it wouldn't turn you off if she was a full virgin or has slept with many men? Do you have a preference?

Would it hurt your feelings if everyone was included including your daughter and not you ? Or just brush it off ?

We had a drunken fight after his company Christmas party because I accused him of cheating on me with his co-worker. All of the doors are messed up in our apartment because of him. I hit him and he threw my on the bed. In the middle of the fight he told me I had a shitty mom because she allowed me to get raped as a child. I wanted to leave and a part of me still does. This is probably the worst fight we've had. What am I supposed to do?

My mother is dating my father in law and he has told both me and my husband that he plans to propose to her on Christmas day. I stayed out of their relationship, I had my opinions but I kept them to myself. My mom has extremely poor boundaries and she absolutely fails to see how my husband and I might view their relationship. We're all adults, I'd never interfere but am I wrong with feeling not quite okay with this situation?

We've been together 7 yrs and he hangs out with friends a lot and I get jealous because I have no friends. He said there is more to life than work and him. He said the only hobby I have is the gym. When you are married what is the point of having friends? They are all drama

Well ' she wants to appear in front of everyone as if she was miss universe. I love my husband but even if her friends saw me they tell me that i look fade and not beautiful as her but my hisband accepts me as i am . should i change my style for people . when i am in the mood ' no one will be prettier than me . i love simpilicity as no need to wear make up in the morning ..etc she becomes the happiest when people tell her aww you and your son look like two engaged couples and no one cares for my feelings should i leave him .... im not comfortable she doesnt feel her real age . help me plz ... how should i behave and when i be in mood or change my style ....she tells me that im imitating her . she wabts only herself and her son never believes that she wants me ugly heeeeeeelp me

My wife is scared of needles every time she sees them she starts freaking out. She had heart surgery last week they had to do blood work on her the first time she didn't feel nothing second time they did it she was crying and freaking out. She's been afraid of them since she was sick in the hospital 6 years ago she was sleeping over night some doctor came in the middle of the night poked her finger she woke up screaming in terror since then she's been terrified of them also been afraid of staying in the hospital over night. They didn't get everything done so she has to go back in next month so they can finish it she's kind of scared and nervous again also this is the first surgery she's had in at least 18 years. How can I help her get over this fear ?

I divorced my wife and broke up with her. They were both ugly break ups