And that for women who can't have vaginal orgasms, penis size doesn't matter that much?

My wife cried after sex how can I comfort her ?

My husband was always defending me whenever she was being disrespectful to me. he always let her know she had boundaries. At some point she got upset at him because me and him did not agree with her when we had a political discussion. Ever since that day she left for a year and never came back. When she did come back our second baby was just born. She created nothing but problems and drama between us. To the point that my husband is treating me today like his enemy. I just cannot understand him anymore. He takes his time disrespecting me, making fun of me, hurting my feelings and going back to act as if nothing happened each time. whenever I hear that she is coming my mood changes but I try to keep appearances as much as I can. then she changes her mind and doesn't come. But one thing I know everytime she shows up we end up in huge arguments. and we grow further away from each other each time. Even when we get back to talking things are not the same. what should I do. I'm going to counseling but I can't help but be depressed knowing all that is happening right now

Mine is that I like to wreck homes and make uglier women cry.

Ok so me and my child father been thought a lot and we been together for 11 years I told him I'm getting to old and want to get married he was down said to call the court where we apply for are marriage license so I did we have appointment coming up on Monday Christmas Eve at 1130 so I put $80 up cause that's how much it cost so I been talking to him about where we going get married at he act like he really don't want to do **** so I set down and talk to him he say he feel like we just doing it just to do it like he put me thr a lot and im still holding him down like why even say you want to get married and ask me to call if you feel that way then I ask him to set down so we can pick are wedding band together like must people do remember after your marriage license they give you 30 days to get married so why not get things done now why wait for the last moment then he take money out that I had put up like I'm so over it can y'all tell me what y'all think do y'all think I'm over reacting like I don't think I am y'all

Do people actually think the woman they are with is actually different or special?

Looking back I never realized how negative I have become. My husband pointed it out to me. I am always whining, picking, and nagging. Everything is negative. When he told me this last week I finally seen it. We were arguing (mainly me arguing) he told me that he doesn't need all the negativity around him because obviously he must not be making happy and maybe I should find someone that will. That really hit me hard, but stupid me was back to my shitty attitude antics once again. I don't know what to do. It's like I can't control myself. I'm always crying or angry. I can't lose my husband. He is my shining light at the end of the tunnel. When I think of the thought of him leaving I can't breathe. I love him so much. How do I fix myself? Help please

I am a pretty good cook . He always goes out and gets fast food ? I just figure , more for me ? Idk I make stuff he likes , how would you feel ?

Mu husband and I are both 41. We've been married since 2004. We don't have kids. A few years ago, my husband and I started having marital problems. It wasn't because of abuse or infidelity We began to have problems communicating. We began arguing a lot. And we found ourselves on diverging paths. Then my job transferred me to Washington, DC. It was supposed to be temporarily and I was "volun-told" to go. My husband didn't want to go, but my career is important to me. So I went and a 3-month assignment turned into a year. Our communication started dwindling to zero and I began building a life in Washington. But after awhile we began talking again. I came back to visit last summer (but stayed with a friend) and began talking face-to-face with my husband. I moved back in with him in September and it's been slow, but we're going through marriage counseling. We're working through some stuff and we're beginning to be a couple again. As I said, reconciliation is slow. Have you ever been through it? What are your thoughts and experiences with reconciliation?

Suppose you inherited a land from your uncle and your soon to be ex wife wants to split it with you even though it's a family property and she has no claim over it.

She now wants to work the relationship problems out . I got married young I'm only 26, I could lose my house, cars everything . What should I do ? She told me she hated it and didn't enjoy the sex and just wished she hadn't did it the entire time . But when I walked in she was moaning loader than she ever does with me and it sounded like she was being pounded threw the floor so idk