He is married and now back with his wife. During a separation he went to Belize with a group of people including a secret lover. I asked about the trip, not the secret lover who I disliked anyway (she was bad). Why would the trip be a secret? I understand the infidelity part being secret.

I'm 26! And, will not listen to him. Does he think I agree

Just curious. Thanks

My wife cries during sex. Why does she do this ? How can I comfort her ?

My wife loves to lay in bed and cuddle all night. Why ?

Me and my wife are on our honeymoon we were watching a Disney movie it made her sad. How can I comfort her ? She's not usually the type to cry at movies

Weight. Suggesting, talking, even offering to exercise together, activities as a family. Nothing works. I came home tonight and she had ordered pizza for supper, fine, no problem but she ordered 2 large meat lover's from pizza hut. There are 4 of us, and two are my Sons 3 and 5. By tomorrow morning there may be 2 pieces left. Could I possibly get custody of my Sons if I divorce her?

Me and my wife like to shower together. Is that normal ?

I'm 28 now. I had m my 10 year old when I was about to turn 19 with my first long term boyfriend. He 23. We'd been dating for about 3 years when I got pregnant and decided it was time to move in earlier than planned. It lasted 3 more years until I realized he wasn't a good guy. I didn't realize until years of therapy that he was a narcissist and continues to use the court system in custody to control me even now after years. I also earned my BA in psychology once I moved back. I look back and I feel like I can now see through others' eyes for the first time. Everyone. And it didn't truly hit me until now how much people must've judged me before for being a young single mother. I'm quiet and am on the PTO board. Sometimes I get the impression that women think I want to steal their husbands And that people may feel so sorry my predicament & think I'm a slut & stupid for allowing that to happen to me. The most recent ex, got married, when I tried to call him out for being flirty and confusing; I couldn't figure it out wearing these rosencolored glasses. At that point he warned me not to contact his fiancée and if I tried he'd call the police. I thought I was losing my mind. I've cried so many nights because of that relationship.But now, it seems he was just after sex. I have financial issues now too. I've been fortunate getting help by my parents. Allowing me not to work as much and better able to focus on my child. Things have just been bad lately. I need any advice please

I went to a restaurant for dinner with 2 female friends. The restaurant told us there was a 45 minute wait to be seated. As we were waiting my ex husband Bill who I am still on friendly terms with walked in to have dinner. He saw me waiting and came over and gave me a hug and said "You look great". "You are just as beautiful as ever". When I told him about the 45 minute wait, he said "why don't all of you join me for dinner where we can be seated immediately?" Never being a person to pass up a free meal I agreed. I thought he would take us to a local family restaurant. Was I surprised that he took us to Ruth Chris. We had a WONDERFUL meal and great conversation. My friends said they never heard of an ex spouse being so friendly. Is it that unusual?

I believe somewhere in the Bible it talks about not Judging and also talks about the Man being the boss and the wife supporting him in what he does. How can several of you women call this activity stupid when I am just talking about occasionally putting on the Silly Clothes you women Love.

It was from the day one of marriage, I live away, not seen him since he married six years ago. He's got a son now, not seen my grandson. I never lived or visited them for one day in there house, to have any reason, she don't know me, she resents me for just being a mother to her husbands. She will not have me around as a family. For All know, I am dead to my son. My tears are dropping.

She's a republican, we are democrat. Political differences is why they ended their marriage ,and why he fell into my life. My husband still kind of loved his ex wife, I could tell, so he told me, asked me if I could ever be with a woman while he watched. I said no way, he said, give it a try, so I did. It was slow going, casually bringing his ex wife over for dinners, movies, and then finally love making, Ive never been with another girl, now I cant think of our lives without her. She makes me feel whole. My husband has never been happier. so why do so many people think republicans are bad, and democrats evil?

For example, this guy has a Wife and he portrayed himself a good man, gentleman and full of manners with the Wife and the surrounding friends and everyone described him as being the good man role model but when the Wife is out of sight and he is alone, he started to masturbate on those porno video and masturbate and text random gals he made online in Instagram and sex texting. He even want to buy them drinks just so those gals will get high and then will blow him but he will never have sex with those gals. So which is the real him! The good guy or the bag guy? I'm Confused.

I was raised to family Values I understand everything their is to being a Husband and a Father. I have never in my life cheated on or hit a woman which is 41 years and yet that one simple wish I make every year never comes true. I have got to the point where I'm starting to feel like I have to be something I'm not just to find a woman and it's tearing me apart that so many women get hurt everyday by someone and yet because of what other men do I'm judged as well I am set to Anonymous because I know trolls always come along to start crap and i try to avoid it rather than edge it on everyone has a right to their own opinion but attacking someone for asking something is wrong

Me and my fiancé had sex for the first time last night I cried. I didn't cry because it hurt but he did so good. Also I love him so much. Is it ok to cry ?