I moved to a new city and found two roommates through the internet. They are nice, normal, my age, they keep the place clean. But we aren't really friends. When I first moved in we all went to dinner together, but we haven't really spent time together since. I'm a total introvert and I often veg out alone in my room after work, and I'm worried that I've given off the impression that I'm anti-social. I've invited them to one or two things, but they turned down and gave excuses. I've been living here for 6 months. Is it weird if I just keep asking if they want to do things? How do I let them know that I want to be friends and do stuff together?

I am a 45 year old woman who has been divorced for 5 years and was at my friends party. There was a large crowd alcohol and diverse age groups. I had arrived late so I sat at the only table at the party which had empty seats. There was one other guy their who was 21. We talked for a while and had deep conversations about life for a couple hours. I was giving him life advice and he saw me as a mentor or counselor. I personally thought he was cute due to his youthful face and boyish frame and demeanor. We are physically very opposite, I am a very tall woman 6'7 weighing 280 pounds. He on the other had is around 5'3 slim around 110-120 pounds. As the party when on we all started drinking more and dancing. I had too much to drink. I saw the handsome young boy and I gave him a tight hug. Since I am much larger than him I picked him easily, danced him around, and forcibly kissed him. I thought he was enjoying it, but I didnt realize he didnt like it until after. I hugged him so tight he couldn't get out, and I was too drunk to notice. Other people saw what happened and he felt humiliated. He left the party feeling down. I want to apologize, I no me being drunk doesn't excuse what I did to him. I genuinely feel bad about what I did, and want to apologize. I talked to my mutual friend, and he doesn't want me near him, and said its best to stay quiet. I have nothing to gain materially, but I feel bad for humiliating him and making him uncomfortable.

My friend is almost 18 and she has moved out for personal circumstances that she woudnt like me to put but she has found that renting a spare room is alot cheaper. Do you have to sign any papers also do you need to be 18?

We've been best friends since 9th grade. We used to do everything together. We're now in university. We both went to two different schools due to differing interests. However, we promised we would keep in touch and visit each other. However, she has been talking to me less and less. She doesn't really respond to my texts or phone calls anymore. She hasn't been wanting to hang out with me. The rare times we have been together, it's not the same. She is changing a bit. It's as if she doesn't really enjoy my company anymore. We're both back home for Winter break, and she has not made an effort to talk to me or spend time with me. I'm losing my best friend, and it's upsetting. I love her like a sister, and I have a lot of great memories with her. She's becoming distant towards me and I don't know why. Any advice?

I feel like raves have been very popular for the past couple of years, and my friends and family are all going (some even their second or third time going), and there's me not having the money nor the rave "family" nor the transportation to go. Is it bad I haven't gone to one? I feel once I do and when I tell my friends and family they would be surprised and yell out, "FINALLY!!!!"..which would make me feel embarrassed. I am not saying I'll be going to any rave anytime soon, but maybe in 2019 or 2020 or maybe 2021 if I ever get a chance with a new group of friends.

Okay, first I'm a junior in highschool, and I dont have a lot of friends(Okay i have only like 1) and I sit by myself in lunch, After lunch i talk to this girl in art class, and we laugh and seem to be friends. She is a freshmen and seems to have a lot of friends, and accidently i said that I only talk to her in art class, and she was like she coulndt believe it. I corrected her and told her i did. I lie. I told her she wasnt my only friends, that i knew more people. The problem is that if she acts like that when i told her i dindt have al= lot of friends, how would she act when she sees me eating by myself? In reality i dont have any friends and I am a little self concious. I tried to avoid people who used to be my so called "friends" to see me by myself, because I feel a little embarassed. How do I get over this, and not be embarassed about how other people see me, and is just because I laugh i feel like i'm having a good time with this "New Friend" does it mean she is a real friend?

I am a 20 year old in college and my roommate hates me because I'm quiet. she's gotten on me the most about my quietness. Me sitting in my room making no noise for hours on end makes her uncomfortable. She needs music playing or to be talking all the time. I don't mind noise, but I also don't mind silence. I think her uncomfortableness with it is funny

My friend and I share a dorm (which has a kitchen) together. One night we decided to order a pizza and she asked me to pay and told me that she'll pay me back (half) the next day. The next day, she went to cash her check, but she didn't pay me. After waiting I asked her if she could give me my half and she said that she forgot. In my opinion, I don't think people "forget" that they owe other people money. Anyway, I bought a salad and I stored it in the fridge, and I was going to eat it after I finished studying. My friend had her friend over and she gave my salad to her friend! I told her that it wasn't ok for her to give away something that's not hers. Her response was, "sorry I didn't realize it was yours. I can buy you dinner if you like?" We have a rule that neither of us will go in the other person's things without permission first, and one day she went through my drawer and used my nail polish remover. She texted me and said that she went into my drawer to use my nail polish remover to get a stain out of her clothes. I appreciate that she told me, but could she not ask for my permission beforehand?

went to school with about 6 group of friends since 4 grade I thought it was enough friends to make at the time anyways I moved from New Jersey to Arizona but I go once a year to go back for one month in August I tried to come up to see her and she makes excuses to see me so anyways I had a fight long time go that she got mad at me for adding her old close friend back when we had myspace so we have fought and argument then we made up and told my mom and my sister with a apologize saying she wasnt her self because of her great grandpa so we have some what have fought and fighting again for stuipd reason and then we made it up again and she counted to fight and fight with other stuipd things and now she calling me annoying and few other not nice things and to my friends we went to same school to deleted me so it wont happened to her so 3 year later I found what happened to her and her ex boyfriend from going same school and he told me he smack her in face and I dont know how bad but she keep going to him for him to pay or she keeps lieing and harassment and threats so I tried to help her she counted to be mean to me,How can I stop her and let her hear my side of story where we can be friends again.. I dont know what happend to my other account so you may see this before 20 point!!! And Ill SAY AGAIN I DONT KNOW WHY I CANT GET ON MY OTHER ACCOUNT SO I FOR GOT OTHERS SAY ABOUT IT AND DONT PUT djhfjsabfjs Its Anyoing and SAY IT AGAIN IF HAVE ANSWER BEFORE DONT ANSWER IT AGAIN I WANT OTHERS PEOPLE TO ANSWERS AND PLEASE DONT POST FWFDERSF

My boyfriends best friend was murdered this time of year two years ago and the suspect has not been found. This time of year is very hard for both of us as he is dealing with this everyday but this season hits him hardest. I have been thinking of ways to put something together to cheer him up that involves a memory or picture with his best friend but have been stumped. They loved shooting at the gun range, they love BMWS, please help w some ideas!

I was bullied a lot both physically and verbally at college but I don't remember the physical bullying. I only remember the mean words people said to me. Is it normal? Does anyone else feel this way?

I want to kill my cousin, she has it all, she is popular, stunning, rich, lives with her family in a big house, has a slim figure, symmetric face, is lived completely, the girl everyone wants to be and wants to be with. Me? No friends, no boyfriend, I lost everyone, everyone hates me, no one wants to know me, me dying would make no difference to people's lives, I'm the one with no money, I don't have looks either, nor am I smart, I failed GCSEs, I don't have a future. I'm better off dead but I wish my cousin was instead.

I'm not sure if i should because i don't know what people will think of me🤦🏽‍♀️ I hate all my classes I'm taking right now i have no friends because I've started at a new school(I've been there since August so don't say "well have you tried to make friends?" lmao yes i have. And honestly this isn't just about not having friends i just want to be happy and right now I'm not but I'm not sure if online school is the right way to go .. i want to start the new year out fresh all the years I've been in Highschool I haven't been happy at all!! I just don't want to disappoint ayone even though my family is very supportive of my decision or be like socially awkward or something lol

but instead you ruined a chance encounter with someone trying to solve a real problem with a real solution. I suspect an anger issue is what sets you off in such a way.. any eventually you will see it that way also. Your poor co-workers are now on the wrong side of a fence that was never there. tsk, tsk, tsk.

My mom had a party with her friends and let one of her friends use her phone. I messaged my mom on snapchat bc red marks started appearing on my neck and her friend read my message with the picture of my neck and didn't say anything to my mom. My mom told me she hadn't seen the message bc her friend had the phone. How should I react when my mom tells me since the past that her friends are the best and that i'm too judgemental of them.

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When ever I talk to people i smile while talking to them. Will they think am laughting at them? How can I change? Should I stop smiling?

I feel like my life is running a cycle. Bringing things or people into my life and taking them away. I'm not someone to want to like party or be in big groups. I enjoy more like being really close to people, and having real connections. But in the end it comes back to me. I'm not enough, or I do something wrong, or just am the way that I am, and I push people away. Every close friend or girlfriend I've had are now people I barely talk to. I feel like I'm meant for isolation. This isn't really a question, but I feel like I do everything wrong. I push away or lose the people I love and I never make the right decisions. It hurts so much growing so close to someone, then losing them, and then it's like they don't even really want to talk to you, but I'm never really exactly sure what happened or why. Except that it's me

This is about my childhood best friend, I met him at daycare when I was about 3 and we instantly became best friends my mom said him and I were very close. we stayed friends until elementary school and rarely saw each other unless we ran into each other at Walmart with our parents which felt awkward.. years pass the next time I got to see him was freshman year in high school we had art class together and we interacted once when I dropped my eraser, but I responded poorly and scooted my chair away. Sophomore year we have another class together which is homeroom we never sat next to each other or talked then. The second semester of sophomore year I decided to transfer to online school because of my anxiety. I now am a graduate and he is in college I don't start till next year and coincidentally we chose the same university sadly I won't be there longer than 2 years because I m unable to afford it... really sorry for making this so long but I miss having a childhood friend and I don't know how I can reconnect with him. Any advice?

Okay this is a long story, buckle your seatbelts. I dated this guy for over a year, but eventually broke it off because I felt like I wasn't being respected. My best friend at the time actually encouraged me to make the move and end things, and take control of my life again. Fast forward almost 6 months. I find out that my "best friend" started seeing him 3 days after I ended our relationship. Not only that, but she did lots of other terrible stuff. (Telling people lies about how I treated him when we were together, telling people I'm bad at the clarinet which we both play, outing me as bisexual to people without my knowledge, trying to sabotage my what was a new relationship at the time by telling the guy I wasn't a virgin, which he already knew.) Not only that, but she endangers herself and others by driving while intoxicated (we are 17). I obviously am very hurt by all this, as anyone can probable tell by the nature of this rant. When I found out, I decided to be the bigger person and not walk up to her and start yelling. So I cut her off. I'm in a great relationship now and have been happy for several months, but the betrayal still bugs me. I know I'm above her games, but I still have dreams where I finally hash stuff out with her. I feel like I need a way to let her know that I am aware of what she did (she does not know I know certain details) and let her know how much she hurt me, whilst still maintaining an air of maturity. What should I even do?

I went to school with about 6 group of friends since 4 grade I thought it was enough friends to make at the time anyways I moved from New Jersey to Arizona but I go once a year to go back for one month in August I tried to come up to see her and she makes excuses to see me so anyways I had a fight long time go that she got mad at me for adding her old close friend back when we had myspace so we have fought and argument then we made up and told my mom and my sister with a apologize saying she wasnt her self because of her great grandpa so we have some what have fought and fighting again for stuipd reason and then we made it up again and she counted to fight and fight with other stuipd things and now she calling me annoying and few other not nice things and to my friends we went to same school to deleted me so it wont happened to her so 3 year later I found what happened to her and her ex boyfriend from going same school and he told me he smack her in face and I dont know how bad but she keep going to him for him to pay or she keeps lieing and harassment and threats so I tried to help her she counted to be mean to me,How can I stop her and let her hear my side of story where we can be friends again.. I dont know what happend to my other account so you may see this before 20 point!!! And Ill SAY AGAIN I DONT KNOW WHY I CANT GET ON MY OTHER ACCOUNT SO I FOR GOT OTHERS SAY ABOUT IT AND DONT PUT djhfjsabfjs Its Anyoing and SAY IT AGAIN IF HAVE ANSWER BEFORE DONT ANSWER IT AGAIN I WANT OTHERS PEOPLE TO ANSWERS

Soo.. We have been pretty annoyed with one of friends in my group (about 5 people). We are all 17 and like to go to parties. This year we are pretty split up for new years. One of my friends is hanging out with her boy while the other 2 got invited to this party that they are going to, and the annoying one has no plans what so ever. I got invited to a party but had to turn it down so I don't leave my friend who is annoying alone on new years eve. So it will be just the two of us in my basement and I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO! HELP!

My ex wife called me crying she said she wants me back but I'm gay I have a partner also were getting married next week. I haven't seen or talked to her in 8 years. We were married for a year before we got divorced she called me saying she's pregnant she said she really needs me. What should I say to her ? What should I do about it ?

My friend is wanting me to have sex with her but I'm gay also I have a boyfriend. She keeps forcing me into sex she said she never done it before she's still a Virgin. I promised her I do it but I was kidding I didn't mean it. What should I do about it ?

Hello everyone, well am very confused now, I have two choices now: 1- spending it at home with family like every year, mom is excited and thinking about meals and cake etc however I know that it will be like any other boring new year eve. 2- spending it with friend who planned for a camping and it will be a new experience and a fresh start for my year. it looks like I know the answer, but I have an adventurous part that wanna go for it and try a new thing but the other emotional part is thinking about how my family will feel about it what should I do ..

My friend of one year is my roommate and I've never met a person as oblivious as she is. We're constantly running into problems because she's so oblivious and lacks self awareness. For example, there are 3 of us who share a bathroom, and the bathroom has 2 towel racks and 1 large hook (one for each of us). My roommate kept putting her dirty clothes on top of my towel and when I confronted her about it, she said that she'd stop. Instead, she started putting her dirty clothes on my towel rack (she has her own hook) and I had to talk to her two times and she still didn't get it. So I had to move her stuff off of my rack for her to get it. This is just one of the problems we're having, but talking to her DOES NOT work, because she'll buy me something as an "apology" for her actions, and continue to do what she normally does. However, treating her the way she treats me works, but for me, that's exhausting. In your opinion, why do you think people are like this?

I have this friend who is usually super nice and inclusive. Recently it has felt like my friends don't want to hang out with me, but this one girl has still been nice until now. She took all of my friends except me to the beach right now. I really want to text her and nicely ask why I wasn't invited so I can understand. Is that a bad idea since all of my friends are together right now though?

Hello. So basically I have just a few friends and I thought about moving from the EU to the US then somehow getting that citizenship and joining the navy where I am basically forced to communicate with people and make good friends. It just feels like its the only way im ever gonna be happy with myself. I dont know what to do. Ill be 19 by the end of secondary school..

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I am extremely upset right now because my friend group has suddenly stopped inviting me anywhere and I don't know why. I have one best friend who also had not been invited as much, and another friend who is super nice that I thought I was still fairly close with even though the others don't invite me anymore. However, this "nice" girl just took all my friends to the beach without me, including my best friend that she hangs out with way less than me. I'm just so confused and hurt and don't know what to do. It feels like I have lost everyone. Please advise.