I mean if you are married at least for several years, did you meet your spouse by accident? meaning not introduced by parents or friends or through an online dating website. how did you meet him/her?

I'm pretty positive my boyfriend of 2 years was researching lab-grown diamonds on the internet. I'm in my late 20s, and he's in his mid-30s. Do you think he's considering proposing?

My husband looks forward to it...why do men enjoy that?

My boyfriend and I were using his laptop to book vacation plans. I noticed a browser tab was open on the internet that was a GQ article called "lab-grown diamonds". Later, I researched it on my phone and it was an article about buying lab-grown diamonds and why they are a good idea. I wonder if he's starting to think about engagement?

Background: He's 41, married and he was training at my job's location, to be a General Manager at another location. I'm 28, have a boyfriend. We only worked together for maybe 2 months or a month and a half. During that time, there was a lot of flirtation between us and I could tell he was attracted to me and quite fond of me. He was always finding ways to get close to me or touch me or get my attention. He even made a few comments about my love life, including saying I should be dating men and not boys and acting like my boyfriend taking me to McDonald's for dinner was a bad thing. Anyways, after he left my job, I added him on Facebook and he accepted immediately. We don't really talk on there, but I'll "like" a post here or there and he'll comment on a post here and there. We still see each other sometimes when he drops by to pick something up or drop something off and he's always happy to see me. He just posted a photo of him and his wife from 19 years ago and he looks the EXACT same!!!! If I commented "Wow, you look exactly the same as you did 19 years ago!", would it sound like I'm hitting on him? Charles, please tell me where in that entire thing, do I mention trying to cheat. I was simply asking if it sounded like I'm hitting on the man. I'm not interested in him, I love my boyfriend. charles, it's actually not cheating and your insults make me laugh because they're invalid and make it sound like your brain is a useless organ in your body. :)

So my parents have just told me they're getting divorced. I am worried about how they will share custody of me (I'm 16) as my dad lives in england but would commute home and i live with my mum in northern ireland. But i read something about they have to live less than 100 miles away from you to get shared custody so now i am worried. any help?

I walk around on eggshells all the time, my husband has never hit me, but he does raise his voice which scares me terribly. I'm registered as a republican, but I secretly vote democrat. This is a horrible way to live, He uses me for my sex and great sense of humour, but I use him for his money and status., I'm not the dumb blonde, so don't go there, but could you live with opposites political views?

There's more to life than sex, I can agree to that, but when I want sex after weeks, sometimes even months, of not having it I need sex. My wife on the other hand could live her whole life without sex. She will have sex if I do all the work and basically make her, but she doesn't try to get it without me being forceful. I ask for it and she always says she's too busy, too sick, too tired, or too sad to do it, but she will have sympathy sex when I start to pout. I'm just fed up. Sex used to be fun when we first met but now she's so boring and frumpy. I love her as a person and I enjoy our time together but this sex thing is the absolute worst part of my marriage. I almost want a side chick that can satisfy my libido so that need can be met but she refuses to have an open marriage because of std fears and for religious reasons. But if she can't please me ans refuses to try then what am I supposed to do? She said she would see a sex therapist but only after our son is stable (its been 3 years of instability now, I think it's just an excuse). It's been over 10 years of bad sex, how do I get my needs met?

I feel my baby mother may soon put me on child support because she is petty when she gets to an upset point about something she does not like. I have always been there to support her she lived with me n my mom rent free for almost 2 years I help with our kids 2yrs old to the best of my ability. So I was wondering would it make a difference if I went for joint custody before she try's to put me on child support ?

This guy has been flirting with many gals and even have sex with them occasionally. He texts those gals daily and pampered them with gifts and lovely texts. He doesn't love the Wife anymore or the Wife did not have sex with him? Or he crave more young woman 's love like doting them more? Would a Husband still have sex with other gals when he still loves the Wife?

Me and my wife have been married for a year I have a daughter from a previous relationship she'll be 2 next month. My wife is 26 I'm 29. Should we have our own baby ?

My Mom discusses her hate for my Dad with me constantly as I am home schooled cause of my learning disabilities which is why I have to be to be on here now. She is as of now making me wait until New Years to see him. Can I count this as a Christmas visit with Dad? I feel like New Years is not Christmas and so it doesn't count. My Dad emailed me calling my Mom a ***** and my Mom saw it and wants me to confront him but I am scared to. Now she is mad at me. I am 14 and nervous about Christmas. I wish I was happy at Christmas like when little. How do I handle this and how do I be happy at Christmas when I can't see Dad's family and only will get to see Dad and not till New Years Eve and Day? What do I do? Talking to them has turned into how much they hate the other so that hasn't worked. I am cutting again because of all this and I hadn't since last June when I stopped going to the school where people were mean. I am home schooled now.

I and my wife are going to divorce. It is a lot of headache to fill all documents and get court approval. I can not spent a lot of time for this. Does anybody use any online divorce services? Is it safe?