I was home alone and had a few drinks. I wasn't thinking obviously and decided to take some pics of myself naked with a huge erection. I text them to my wife at work, thinking no one else will see them. Boy was I wrong. SMH... My wife had her phone laying on a table in her office and had it turned on yet. Since we had been texting for a bit. And to make it worse. When the pics popped up, her female co-worker was standing right next to her and saw the nude pics of my erect penis. My wife said she asked" Was that a picture of a penis? Who would send you that right now" Wife said" yeah it was and that would be my husband. That was a pic of his big normal penis" Her co-worker" that was def a pic of a big normal penis. And a really nice looking one at that" My wife said they both then laughed about it and went back to work. By the conversation, do you think her co-worker was mad about seeing naked pics of my penis? And do you think she told other co-workers about it? I hope not, I've seen her co-worker since then and she gives me a big knowing smile. Like yeah, I know whats down there. 😫 Should I apologise to her co-worker for what Happened or just let it go?

We were together for 3 years, I loved him with everything I had in me, we planned a future, to get married, the whole things. he began to drink more and more and got nasty when he was drinking. We ended in a fight that should have been resolved. but we both stuck to our guns and never reached back out to each other, I deleted my social media and cut all communication with mutual people. Its been 6 months, I still love him, yet his drinking was all day and ended in a violate way, on both sides. I found out at 4 and 1/2 months pregnant that we are expecting a son. I don't even know how to tell him, call him or even what to say. I don't even know if he will answer me. I did try to call once and I was blocked. I can't go to his house, he has moved, he travels for work, I also care enough not to want to ruin his life, or have our child being raised by a drunk, who is violate, but is a great man sober. Suggestions?

He only showers and brush his teeth in the morning and when he comes home he's dirty and smells horrible. We have not had sex in a month and he gets mad at me when i tell him to shower. He's extremely controlling and very stubborn. When we do have sex which is not often is when I'm sleeping and he wakes me up at like 3:00 in the morning and I'm dead in my sleep. He always yells at me and is just a very mean man. I have no money and 3 little kids. Divorce is not an option right now. Help what to do

They are married for decades, no kids but this guy has been flirting with many beautiful gals and if he can find one gal who is in the same connection with him, he would bed her. Sometimes text her and ask her to send sexy video so that he can masturbate over the phone. Why is he doing all these if he has a Wife?

he is trying to go over the supervised visits and say he cant afford them. He hasn't seen my 8 year old in 2 years! He has to complete the supervised visits first then the judge will think about any type of custody in the future,. Pls be aware he lost his 50/50 custody. The courts realized my child was not safe and he was an unfit parent. He continues to modify the orders and keeps saying he cant afford to set up the visits even though i was ordered to pay half. He is trying to change court houses so he can get a new judge and try to talk his way out of doing what he is supposed to as usual. Has anyone ever had to deal with this craziness???? i didn't get to explain the reason why he was ordered supervised visits did I. Do you have kids? How would you like to know your child is surrounded by tweeker meth addicts, your kid bathes in the Denny's bathroom, sleeps in the car in the dead of winter, sneaks in and climbs into peoples windows at 2 am to be able to sleep in a bed that her dad is not welcome in. How about witnessing extreme physical abuse between the father and his girlfriend. Would you like your child to have to beg for food at a fast food place because her father doesn't have money to feed her? The reason why he has to pay to see his child (not to mention i was order to pay half of) is because he is to be monitored by a licensed professional due to to him taking the child and not returning her for months at a time. What best for the child is for him to be completely out of the picture. Dont you think????

Let's push the fact that he liked to me about a marriage to the side for now. I'll deal with that later. What I need is help deciding on contacting his child. I have found records of a marriage and birth of a child. She's now in her early 20's and just had a baby. So not only is he a Father but a Grandfather too! I've known of this for a couple of months and it's killing me not to say something to him or her. Help.

My husband and I are separated but still currently living together with our 3 year old. He wants us to get back together or to essentially cut me off by the beginning of the new year and it's kind of terrifying (and I could never get back together with him he is super manipulative and angry man). I don't have the money for a lawyer and he likes to bring up court dates and I know he wants to try to get 50/50 custody of our son -even though I have been his primary caregiver his entire life and my son doesn't even feel comfortable around him most of the time and cries when he is near (bc when he was a baby his dad had hit me but I unfortunately didn't report it). I've been trying to just survive being around his dad even though I've been diagnosed with ptsd from things that have happened with him; but for my sons sake I've been trying to just deal with it so that I can protect and watch over him. And a year ago we tried doing it where his dad had him for the weekend but my son would cry super hard just seeing his car and it wasn't all just so horrible, he has no really connection or security with his dad and his dad tends to be pretty careless and irresponsible. But now I guess the rubber is meeting the road and I just have no idea what to do. If anyone has any advice that could help me I would just be so incredibly grateful for any help. -Also I live in California (I know things can vary state to state legally)

Every year I fight this battle with my husband. He grew up in a family that didn't place much stock on birthdays. If someone told you happy birthday then that was enough. Me, I grew up in a family where birthdays were always big deals. I turned 49 yesterday and my husband didn't make a big deal out of it. We live in the south so yesterday we got hit by a winter storm. He got up and began working around the house. He's working on a woodworking project and he was also repairing some drywall in the house. I looked at him and said, "are you going to cook breakfast or me, because it is my birthday." He looked at me and sort of rolled his eyes. He did say I could cook. I don't see why I have to do anything on my birthday. He eventually cooked and then later in the day cooked dinner. Last night he finally went to the store and got me a card and a dozen roses. At that point, the day was over. Why doesn't he make my birthday a priority. He was born on July 4 and every year we go see the city's fireworks display. He said it's not his fault he was born on the 4th of July and it's not like the city is doing the fireworks especially for him. How do I get him to understand that I grew up thinking all birthdays were special whereas he thinks they're just another day?

Married 16 yrs, 4 children, death of our first son, 1 deployment, 1 stroke...and that is skimming the surface of what we have been through together. BUT...I moved out with our 3 boys because of his selfishness. I can forgive most of the things he has done, but 2 I cannot seem to shake. 1. Husband had a stroke in June 2014...I found out I was pregnant with our 4th son 5 days after in the hospital bathroom. He came home needing 24 hr care and a wheel chair which I was the caregiver. After 8.5 months, he was back on his feet and decided he was going to wake up one morning and leave me and his 2 sons and unborn son. I went into labor that morning. He showed up to the hospital and slept on the floor. After our son was born, he was taken straight to the NICU. My husband followed and I didn t see him again until I got out of the hospital. He came to see the baby every day in the nicu, but didn t come down to the mommy baby floor to see me at all...didn t call or anything. #2 He traded our family SUV for a truck behind my back in 2017 and then traded that truck for another truck when I moved out 4 months ago and now has a $500 payment for 3 years . And I m sitting here without a vehicle because he was supposed to fix mine for the past 5 months...I m reluctant to try again...am I overreacting or are these things just unforgivable?

Was in an abusive relationship physically and mentally. Due to my drinking it enraged my husband because i developed a problem(now on the road to sobriety). So i left him and he moved out. He was passive aggressive and left me with no car with kids. So the neighbor next door was my friend then confident and best friend then well you can tell where this goes. It was a choice i made but i thought i justified it. Now with a clear mind and sober thinking i feel awful and cant justify it any longer. He fell for me and we broke it off recently due to my revlation. My soon to be ex and i both got help -me for drinking and him for anger. I was thinking about having another try but how do i move him back in with the knowledge of what awful thing ive done. They arent friends but they are friendly and it kills me him not knowing. We own our house so we cant just move. The neighbor took me to doctor apts for my kids and was amazing to us during the vicious beginnings of seperation(it has now been 6 months seperated). He is not a bad guy. I just know i made a very hurtful lack of judgment decision. No excuses. What do i do? Just advice please . i don't excuse it i just want help from people unbiased to me as a whole. So thank you all.

I really love webcam sex and I am a frequent user on AdultFunCams . com and Chaturbate. I really love to command girls their and do private 1-1 shows and tell them to do things my wife don't like to do for me. I spend some money on them but I see it all as worth it (consider the fact I can tell them what to do, wear and go do naughty things in public etc) but my wife don't know this and I am christian. Is this a sin and do you guys thing it's very wrong?

Why would 50/50 equal shared custody be a good idea? Why would it be a bad idea?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and are looking to be married/engaged in the future. I have told him 1,000 times that I don't want an expensive ring and made it pretty clear (not aggressively though). His reasoning is that I will "look down at it and know how much he loves me". Both of us know that he loves me so why does he think I need some expensive ring to prove it??? He's not wealthy by any means. How can I get him to understand that I love him for him, not for all of the glitz and glamor? I have told him this all and he doesn't understand. He's had to deal with me during some very rough times, but he should know that I know how much he loves me.

My wife is feeling sad right now I asked her what's wrong she said nothing I gave her a hug she's still upset. How else can I comfort her ?

Me and my wife have been married for 12 years we have an almost 9 year old son. She's been talking about wanting another baby we tried a couple years ago but she had a miscarriage she's got an IUD in. I think it's too late now since our son is almost 9 I have 2 other boys from a previous relationship but they're grown up and moved out. Should we have another baby ?