(Im Purple)

So my girlfriend passed out high, and I've been really doubting whether she was remaining truthful or not. So I got on her phone and went through some of her messages, low and behold, shes cheating 😒 Anyways, while I was scrolling I accidentally reacted to one of their messages. I quickly removed it, but idk if they can tell that I reacted or not. Its messenger for a samsung. So can they tell that I reacted even though I removed it?

The reason I'm asking is because I've been seeing this guy who I believe may be insecure. He continually asks me if I really like him or miss him. It also seems he doubts Im not in a relationship. After he told me He likes me so much, he got hot and cold and then he stopped texting me and it's been a week. I should cut him off?

I asked the guy I'm seeing where our relationship was going and he said he was still getting to know me, yet he would tell me how I was all his. I was confused. The post I made was me joking to my friend that Her and I are single because we spend our time eating. I'm just so confused why he would be mad that I said I was single. Now he's ignoring me...what have I done wrong? He said I wasn't his girlfriend..

I know they are married, and I KNOW they are not happy at home, so it feels like playing with fire with married men at the office. I know I could get any of them whenever I want to. I see their wives at the company get togethers, most sloppy looking, overweight and no personality like me. why the heck do men stay in marriages?