I'm not dumb I just don't go around thinking everyone is full of bad things in store. Thinking like that is sad. Today has been a very bad day. And I'm tired of it all. He thinks I look innocent when it's opportune for him but that I'm dumb as hell. And I just think it's funny, because I don't think that way about myself. Maybe he should go for someone closer to his age with a hardened mind if he doesn't want to listen to a flowery soft mind. I'll continue to live in my world.

So, my dog has ringworm, and my dog got into the trash a few days ago, and my brother, and his gf were telling me that a dog can get ringworm from trash. I talked to my vet, and she said no, a dog can not get a ringworm from trash, and that its passed from animal to animal, and in rare cases, from soil. I secretly know they are ignorant, but have never called them out on it. It just makes me mad when people make stuff up just to appear like they know what they are talking about. Should I call them out or just keep my mouth shut. I know they will try in argue with me about it.

I have a friend she told me she was abused by her parents she is 20 she told me she told me she moved to Another state to start a new life and she needed help financially i helped paid for her apartment and food many times but she keeps asking and asking like i do want to help but i cant pay for her my whole life she does have a job but she says it doesn't pay enough i told her she can get help from the government i even showed her financial help for low income people and runaways she said they were all the same and would not help but they weren't all the same i would think if she really needed help she would look more into this government aid help i even suggested maybe try working a side job to help bring in more money she got mad at me and told me nobody understands her situation i was just trying to help her better herself so do i keep giving her money?

We were talking and he asked if I had previous relationships. I blushed and said no, looking down because I was so embarassed of his question and he had these strange eyes, said 'what? Really?' Took my face in his hands and kissed my face. Not lips but everywhere on the face. He was so passionated he almost pushed me down. Then he said sorry, touched my cheek and told me he wanted to marry me and called me his future wife'.

He was texting me all the time over xmas and before xmas we went on a date every weekend since we got back together a month ago. Today I talked to him and he said "Got the hump again?". I said I didn't understand him, as we have been talking every day throughout the day & he doesn't want to meet me. We live over an hour away & see each other weekends. He finally said he has no money to do anything & he's no fun right now. He doesn't get paid for Christmas & he just paid the rent. He said it's embarrassing. That's why he can't see me. He also has no family around & spent xmas day alone, which I felt awful about. He went out drinking once to see his friend he hadn't seen in ages. So now I feel bad, but I said we didn't have to go out. I'm also not rolling in money anyway. Also, he is going to work on Tuesday & not getting paid til the 18th.

I'm 24 years old, male, and currently with another man. I'm a virgin and I've never had sex, and frankly...just never want to. My boyfriend says he doesn't care about this, but at the same time I keep getting told by OTHERS that if this is going to last, then sex is a big part of it. So with that being said, is this relationship going to last or not And why?

I offered to buy a brand new car for my sister since her current car is 10 years old. If she sold the car she may get may be $2000. I asked her to give her old car to our niece who is 21 years old student and she does not have a car now I would buy the new car to her. She yelled at me saying our niece does not need a car, she should be doing this and that blah blah blah... She accused me of "using her." At the end she said she does not want a new car which I believe she said out of anger. She could certainly use a new car. I felt she just does not want to give her old car to our niece but she probably wants the new car. (I am actually sure that she wants the new car.) Now should I insist to buy or not to mention it again. She will never ask me to buy her a car on her own.

I'm a very sensitive person. When I think that I've made someone unhappy I'll be unhappy for ages afterwards. I got my eyebrows done today and I mentioned to the girl doing them that the other salon I go too always does my eyebrows in like 30 seconds, I added that I didn't think the other salon put much effort into it as a result. However, I don't think she heard the last part and only heard when I said that it only took the other salon 30 seconds, so she must've thought that I was criticising her and she sort of looked away. Feels bad.

I dont know what is going on. I woke up at 8am and facetimed him. Everything was good. He was going to do a favor for me to return something to the store. I told him to call me when he got to the store. Its been over an hour no phone call. Tired calling him myself amd i get this message "the person you calling cannot accept calls at this time. Sorry for any inconvenience this may cause" Well its a big inconvenience because i need to know where to meet him and he has the tickets for our date. Help?!! what should i do because this is making me worried

When I lie on his chest, his heart beats faster when he feels my body. He even said it himself a while ago. When he performs sexual acts on me, he doesn't get hard, but he loves it and could do it for hours. He never wants to stop. When it's time to have sex I have to make him hard. Sometimes he doesn't come from oral even though his face shows he likes it and wants me to do it all the time. I spoke up about it last time and he said it isn't me. He said something about being too tall and bed too low. It's really getting to me that every time we go to have sex he isn't ready. Sometimes he puts a condom on and we start having sex and he loses his hard on. He gets upset that I am upset. He smokes and sometimes watches porn, although he says he doesn't much anymore. He has just turned 35. It is not a recent thing that he can't get erections easily. He cuddles me all night and doesn't let go. He compliments me. I'm so confused.

I'm not bad looking but I'm bulking on more calories still going to the gym though

So after watching a few mockumentarys and tv shows where I know the actor is a good person and then he just acts like a complete jerk, I have found out that I am turned on by guys being douchebags/jerks to me (only if I know they are actually a nice person pretending to be a jerk) Is this normal? Ie (supernatural mockumentary, king of cons, earth 2 Ronnie Raymond, humanityless vampires TVd, Kai Parker, all of the dctv crossovers)

I broke up with him because he was acting jealous and passive aggressive, anyway fast forward 4 months He always comes to the gym at same time I am and he always comes to yoga when he stopped coming when we were dating and he'd workout instead while i did yoga. Now he always comes to yoga and he'll text me here an there. The other day after yoga he texted me saying "why'd you look so mad today, I was going to say hi but you didn't look very welcoming" and stuff like this, and yesterday we were at the gym and they don't give out free towel but selling them instead. He said he was going to buy a towel and if I wanted one i said no but he came back with 2 and gave me one too. And he'd say things like you'll see what God has blessed me with just like He has blessed you. I said what he said i can't tell you that now. I said you can never tell me anything. He said i tell you everything but somethings you need patience to see. BUT he didn't wish me merry xmas so i was confused the following day i was confused and I text him " hope it's clear why I broke up with you" he said "what" repsonding right away i said "exactly what i said" he said i don't know what you're talking about explain yourself. I've always been good to you and always treated you with respect so i don't know why you would send a statement like that. I said you don't know why i broke up with you? he said nope, explain it to me. I said you really don't know? He said i'm not playing this game if you don't want to explain that's fine. I said "lol if you were genuine you would've asked then not now" he said just "ok

I mean, are guys or male in general (I'm referring especially to the range 16/30 years old) capable of feeling a love that is pure, unconditional toward the girl they love? I mean, if she is sick, feeling ill and hopeless, are they able to love with whole their heart? I dont mean the love that ig and social media show these days (tan couples at the beach, perfect poses, blonde girl and guy with abs), but a purer form of love, where the guy swears to take care of her, dry her tears and comfort her, and hugs her to feel her body and aroma and sex is a way of expressing this love, feeling her, losing himself in her, instead of just feeling pleasure? A guy that looks a girl from afar and thinks: my love, hoe I wish I would take away all the bad things in the world supposed to be on you and take them on myself, so you won't have to suffer.

I'm tired of my fiance's brother, he's almost 30 with no job, lives with us and never cleans after himself. Its honestly like having a teenager here.. he can do things he's not limited he is just lazy asf. I have to get my fiance to motivate him just to clean his own mess. My fiance id his enabler he doesn't care that his bro is filthy or doesn't work he just wants him near. Yes i see the point to keep him around but I'm on my last straw before I yell at him in anger (which i haven't yet). Having his bro around is giving me 2nd thoughts about getting married, we already love together... Maybe there is no moving forward..he wants his bro there then I'll just leave. I do love my fiance with all my heart ..we were planning on having children in a few years . I don't want to raise my children up where their uncle is treated as their brother or they feel some type of way. I don't want him there at all. I want me and my fiance to own our own house where We both can do things freely without the worries of fb his brother How can I speak to his brother about this? Should i be the one to tell him he has to go or should my fiance do it?

Sometimes my boyfriend does it (but without leading to sex). I'm virgin and everytime he does that he apologizes afterwards and says he cant help but does it cause he loves me very much. Actually his hand never went down there, maximum on my chest. He huggs me and puts his hands on my pj and then kisses my neck and hugs me really really tight. But he doesn't try anything more. When we wake up I see that he's kinda embarassed and doesn't talk about what happens in bed. Once he told me to lay with my head on his chest, and he said he felt the happiest person ever. We laid like that for almost an hour and he caressed my hair and said that he found all he ever wanted and now he's afraid to lose me. I wanted to ask if your boyfriend doing this is romantic, normal or totally fake and aimed at having sex (like most girls say). I find him so sweet and tender, he never grabs me too tight, but I don't know maybe I'm a naive inexperienced girl who doesn't understand anything about guys.

So I work in a restaurant and there's a guy who has a crush on me, a few years older, maybe 7 or 10, and since the very first time has a crush on me. He is the one who makes lunch or dinner for me and always asks with want I want sandwiches, pitas etc... He always wants to help me, takes the chairs so I wont get tired, asks me if what he prepared was good or not, he is always so kind to me but I am terrible. At first I was so afraid of his kindness cause I thought he was planning something. I didn't want to get in trouble. All in all he's just genuinely kind. He tells everyone I'm a good girl and when someone shouts at me he says I am a good girl and winks at me and tells me not to mind them. At the begininng he used to stare at me in a creepy way but now he gave up doing it. Now he seems cooler. I was just wondering if this is real love. I know I don't love him, but hey, he makes lunch for me, asks me with what I want it and asks me if I liked it or not. How many guys are like this? They just sit the whole day not doing anything and olay hard to get. This one apparently likes me cause I'm shy