I been with my husband for five years and all this time he has been abusive with me. He has hit me with his hands in many occasions and has left bruses in my body. I left him once and he was better with me. He stopped hitting me but the damage is already done. I resent him for all the times he was abusive to me. He is great father to our two kids but I don't know if I can go on with this marriage. I have so much resentment towards him. So, I ask myself what is worst: a cheating husband or a husband that hits you?

We have been married for 2 months and dated for 3 yrs. I am 5 months pregnant and husband always wants sex and I give it to him each time. In the bedroom he is so rough and puts his hands around my neck at times. He also flips me around like I'm a rag doll and pounds away until he is satisfied. I feel like I'm a sex toy. Should I divorce him? He scares me during sex and gets this crazy animalistic look in his eyes...

Ok so I have been with my partner for 20 years it's been a tough ride as we have had our ups and downs we have a daughter who had special needs and has had many medical issues over the years and I gave up my career in the first 10 years of her life to support her through major surgeries and help to get her where she is today We survived on my partners income and tax credits that were awarded to me and carers allowance also awarded to me. I went back to my career 2 years ago and it's been a struggle as I missed so many earning years to climb the ladder and I still have to be flexible for my daughter and her needs but it's me that attends all the hospital stuff giving my partner all the time to work. I now work full time as well The issue has arrived as my husband has come in to some money and I thought this would be the end of the financial strain as we decided to buy an investment property to rent out and all was well until the day we went to sign for the housr he said he wants me to sign away any rights to it if we split up I feel devastated that he suddenly feels he needs to protect his money from me and I always thought we were a team it had not crossed my mind tyst he didn't want me involved in this and all of a sudden after dedicating the last 20 years of my life and sacrificing years of my career tyst now he has money he wants it all to himself It's made me question my life with him as it would not cross my mind not to do this with him if the boot were on the other

Ok so I have been with my partner for 20 years it's been a tough ride as we have had our ups and downs we have a daughter who had special needs and has had many medical issues over the years and I gave up my career in the first 10 years of her life to support her through major surgeries and help to get her where she is today

Is there anything I should ask about him? Anything I should know? I feel like we covered most aspects but I want to be sure we are in a very well established relationship. Anything I should ask him?

I ve always thought it was normal to talk about or not talk about it. But here lately I m starting to wonder. I m not in a rush to get married but I also don t want to wait till years down the road either. So my situation is that we ve been together 3.5 years and we have said multiple times things that sound like marriage talk like "well maybe if we get married then you can be on my insurance" and he s been to this cool place and texted me what I thought about it if we ever got married. So it s obvious that he has thought about it. But other than talking kind of about it, we don t flat out say anything about it. And I ve had bad experiences where I ask about something and I just end up being really vunerable and just embarrassed. Like I don t want to ask about it and then look like I m trying to get him to ask. I just want to know where we re kind of at. So what do I do and how do I do it?

My ex whom I dated for 4 years recently got married and I saw all their wedding pics on facebook because we have alot of mutual friends in common. Him and I dated for 3 years and he proposed although I felt like I had to push him and gave him an ultimatum to do it. Then he called it off a month prior. A year after this, he had a photo up of her, then about a year after this he put their engagement photo up. So he proposed to her about 1.5 years in and to me at 3 years. I also recently got married myself and feel over him, but why do I feel so bad? I feel like I was not good enough, he obviously is into her in a way he was not with me? I feel like it is he was not into me...he was ready to settle down and get married in general...

I feel like men got away with a lot of abuse, manipulative/toxic behavior back then and the women couldn't leave without their family shaming them

My 22 year old daughter is home from college for winter break and last night she was in our living room laying on the sofa watching Netflix on our big TV. My wife's 22 year old son, who may spend one or two nights a week at our house, was on his way home from his girlfriend's house, who he spends most nights a week with. My wife's other 23 year old son was on his bedroom. Years ago when everyone lived at home we had a set of bunk beds in the boy's room but when the oldest one moved out the youngest one didn't want the bunk beds anymore she he got rid of the top bunk. Well, the oldest is now back home with us. Anyway, whoever gets home first usually gets the bedroom and the other has to sleep on the sofa. My wife knew her son was coming home so she alluded to the fact that my daughter needed to leave the living room and go back to her room so her son could go to sleep. I kindly told her that the living room was not a bedroom if someone was in there watching TV and her son would have to wait. There have been times when I would even be doing something in the living room and she'd ask me to come to the bedroom so her son could have the living room. I told my wife I wasn't going to make my daughter go back to her room simply because her son decided he wanted to come home. She now feels like I put my daughter over her son but isn't that what she was trying to do, put her son over my daughter? It's a living room, not a bedroom. Just because you sleep in there doesn't mean you can run everyone out when you get there. Am I wrong?

He and aunt were living apart but not divorced at the time. They are back together now. This happened in 2015. My mother is still friends with the woman he cheated with. Maxi-- They are believed by my Mom to have had sex though not sure how she knows for sure unless the friend confided that in her. They also were constantly together which I found creepy so I avoided this friend of my Mom's. This all happened three years ago.

A few months ago my wife drove down her friend and her husband who didn t have a home or a car just disability checks. We didn t have a pristine trailer next door for them to live in so we only charged them $100 a month. As far as them not having a car I already knew this was a bad idea. They constantly use my wife as a shuttle service to go to surrounding hospitals to get the pain medication they need for their illnesses. Her friend has lupus and her husband claims to have had to have had multiple surgeries because of a car accident. I think he s full of it tbh. Anyways this is causing a lot of stress in our marriage because she is worn out. They mostly ask to be taken to town after dark. She already has sciatica and her own issues and she s got our problems on top of their problems. She claims that she has talked to them before, but I really don t think they get the message. They keep playing the pity card on her, and she falls for it just about every time. I really think they re addicted to pain medicine. Or at least he is and he s using his wife s condition as an excuse to get them. They go to the ER and demand pain medication right off the bat. I don t know. What would you do if you were in our situation? I really don t feel like we deserve to take care of these people when we got all of our kids and problems of our own. She really doesn t seem like much of a friend to my wife.

Yesterday was my day to cook so I found a recipe that called for chicken breasts in a crock pot. I poured a can of cream of chicken coup over it and cooked it for like 5 hours. Opened a can of creamed corn and made some white rice. My husband sat down to eat and he took a few bits then had this strange look on his face. I asked him what was wrong and he said the mean was bland and lacked any flavor. I told him toe soup had sodium in it so why would it be bland. He constantly tells me that I look for the easiest, simplest meals to cook because I really don't like standing in a kitchen stirring a pot or mixing seasonings. Do you think what I cooked was a bland meal? Or should he have just been the good little husband and ate it without comment? I'm 49 and think I'm a descent cook.