My friend Cathy whom I grew up with insisted on being the maid of honor in my wedding without being asked. I went along with it, since I have very few lady friends. She took over the bridal room to get ready and I bit my tongue. We have had periods of not speaking that last for a few years then we get back to talking. She is getting married in a few mos. She thinks she is the only person on earth to ever get married and it's all she talks about. She will literally harass me to Facetime or talk on the phone and when I try to initiate a call with her, she texts me saying she is busy and can't talk or gets smart. I have told her that its very hurtful that she won't invite me to her wedding and she said her mom doesn't like my mom (my mom was sort of her boss and her mom was a bad employee)- she is always bragging about her best friend Kim being in her wedding, her best friend Julie, Her best friend Erica, etc, etc. I am hurt that my husband and I are not only being snubbed for an invite, but also at not being asked to be a bridesmaid. When I made a comment that was supposed to show her my hurt she said "is that supposed to be some sort of dig at me for not inviting or asking you to be in my wedding?" What should I do?

You should buy me an engagement band and we will then pick our wedding bands together. My engagement band can be as expensive as you want but keep in mind it's jewlery and it should not be obscenely expensive. I WILL WEAR IT ON MY WEDDING FINGER TILL WE MARRY AND THEN AS JEWLERY.

For so many years I had kept an image of a ring that I wanted recreating for when I married. Fast forward a few years, I'm engaged and the jeweller creates that wedding ring I've always wanted, exactly how I wanted!! THEN, my (now ex) fiancé and I break up and I've given the ring back to him. Fast forward a few more years from this and (my now) new boyfriend has proposed to me. It comes to choosing the wedding ring. DILEMMA: I do still love the the ring that I had saved on my phone gallery all those years ago- even having it recreated to be the one that ended up being my ring when I was previously engaged. Would it be wrong/weird/odd to have that ring recreated yet again? (It would be a different jewellers this time round!) I understand some people could see it as being a bad omen or just weird. What are your thoughts?