So my husband and I are currently renting a room in our in laws house , I am truly grateful they let us have a place to stay because they could've chose not to let us stay there but it's been a lot of drama lately , my husband and I are usually not home because he works all day and I spend everyday at my parents house with my daughter since I'm pregnant I like spending time with my mom & dad , we get home late at night so we usually eat out or I cook small meals and pack his lunch , my mother in law has been arguing about us not cleaning only problem is she cooks meals regularly for my father in law and leaves her dishes to pile up in the sink I'll wash them once in a while even though it isn't my mess because I feel bad but lately I've been getting annoyed because she does this everyday and expects me to clean her mess after she cooks for him , I cook there sometimes and clean my mess right after because I know if I left the dishes piled up she would bite my head off so I try to clean my mess right after I cook , she also doesn't let us shower at her house because the shower is located in her room and she gets annoyed when we want to use the bathroom and kicks us out after 5 mins , I don't know if I'm making it a bigger deal than it is but I'm really starting to get irritated I don't want to go home every night and be stressed out by her ...

My son's Mom is driving me insane. I am around my son and do as much as I can for him but leave it up to her, nothing I do, buy, time I spend is NEVER ENOUGH. We broke up years ago. It was a hard break up and I was a mess, ungroomed, no clothes, was left with nothing not even a place to live. But since then I have moved On, cleaned myself back up, and have been rebuilding my life. We agreed that we will rotate weekends. Which I have been doing. I even call him twice a week to check in on him. We go to the movies, amusements parks, out to eat we have lots of fun together i get him sneakers and spend as much money as I can on him and it all results into NOTHING. As in what I do for him means nothing to her. "Compared" to what she does. It just dampers my time with my kid. I know he's having a blast and he loves me but deep down I'm not enjoying myself fully bc I know that behind everything I do for him doesn't mean anything. It makes me feel like if your aren't a "GREAT" FATHER who can get there kids everything they need than your not a great father, because your only doing what your "able" to do. My son is 4, and is always happy around me. But I've been bashed so much to the point I sometimes feel what I'm doing is pointless so what's the point of even being there for him at all?

I'm currently 14. My dad lost all parental rights to me a few years ago for physical and psychological abuse to both me and my mom, and I'm so thankful he did. I don't miss the abuse. But, my dad was extremely funny and nice at times and that's the part I miss. I miss having a father figure (or just another parental figure) in my life. Hopefully someone understands what I'm saying. Anyone know anyway to cope with this?

My mom canceled plans with me today which I was excited for but whatever. But she was like "You always cancel plans on me and apparently it's okay for you." But I don't It's only been twice because I had the flu. She gets on my nerves and upsets me and apparently she's aloud to be mad and not respect me and mock me but I can't be upset and I have to respect her. She said I needed to stop being a b*tch and get off my b*tch horse and told me that nobody wants to spend time with me and that I'm horrible. I'm a teen and every year she's breaking me legit piece by piece almost everyday I lose more trust in her to where I'm starting to hate her. I don't know what to do anymore she never respects me, always says she can be mad at me but I can't be mad a her, apparently I can't protect myself of it's apparently "Talking back." She's never satisfied with me .

I can't find where I have put my mother's bracelet that she gave to me. She went through my jewellery box and bags while I was out and was angry with me when I got back from work as she couldn't find it. I said where I thought it was but cannot find it. I could throw up with the fear of telling my mum. My mother's temper is a fearful thing and she gets angry at the slightest little thing. What do I do? I don't want to face her though I know it's my fault and deserve everything that's coming to me.

My friends and family have been telling pretty much anyone who will listen that I have suicidal tendencies. My sister told my girlfriend. My dad told his co workers, my mom told my neighbors, my grandfather told my teachers. And this has been going on for years, every time we move, or I change schools they feel the need to tell every one. My last attempt was way back in April and they are still telling everyone. At my new school they pretty much have me labelled high risk and I have to check in with the school counselor all the time and as if that wasnt bad enough, my classmates and even random people who I dont even know have taken up picking on me about it calling me "Suicide Boy" and mocking me asking if Im on my meds. My GF acts overly sensitive and thinks Im gonna kill myself a the drop of a pin over any little thing and that me being in a bad mood or upset about something means she has to run and tell someone I need to be watched and shouldnt be left alone. I get an appreciate that they are (for the most part) doing it because they care, aside from my mom who seems more like she's bragging than anything. I know they love me and what not but I can hardly breathe with everyone acting the way they are. this is a new school and town and its already this bad. I can wait until I turn 18, I feel like I suffocating all the time and even tho I told them all of this the last time. They say "Well that the price you pay when you try to kill yourself" as if they're punishing me

I never got to know my grandmother but, my mom has always talked about how bad of a mother my grandmother was. Last night she took 4 hours to bash my grandmother, and told me new awful things about my grandmother. How my grandmother tried giving them away, how my grandmother tried to abandoned my uncle when he was born. That my grandmother slept around, and how she hated all of them. I personally don t think I needed to know more awful things about my grandmother who I never knew. She already sees someone to talk. I was wondering why she s telling me more bad things about my grandmother? How can she get over it when my grandmother s been dead for 36 years?

So let me start off with the two facts that 1.I am a young adult who's close with my mother and who has a kid of my own second off I live with my bf and his family..They constantly get too see me & the baby my mother only get s the weekends with us..Recently I've been starting to get fussed at by S.O about going over there every weekend & being told that everyone gets depressed & misses me and L.O when we're only gone for TWO or THREE days..I love my mom and like I said she only gets to see the two of us during the weekends.I feel like my daughter should see them & also my mother so she'll start remembering and bonding..but lately the bs has been getting on my nerves..I feel like they think I should be on "house arrest"Do I really deserve this treatment?Oh and they are getting the real Christmas this year with me and L.O. I'm having two Christmas's this year

During an argument she called you a name when she knows you are going through a break up and vulnerable. Would you continue to speak with her ?

She already knows how much it makes me nervous. I see now one condom is missing after months. Not sure if used I'm 17 but feel 30. 12 years since my mom had my two younger sisters I been a nanny, maid, care taker, etc, because of this I have no life what so ever! My father works all the time,now has a new job that makes him work more hours he's only off on Sundays, we don't have enough money to have a study babysitter it's just me & my mom. When my mom had my last sister she wasn't plan, my mom kinda thought that was it until she had her, after that my mom got scared & didn't sleep with my dad for almost 5 years. After working on that she promised me she won't have any more kids she doesn't want anymore. My mom feels like her head is spinning sometimes she feels like running away, she has no life gets sad, we also have 3 dogs so it's alot for us, even with my help she gets overwhelmed. Now my parents are open with sex even do it with the door open, condoms are in the closet where all our towels stuff is, now I know it was being used but now for months it hasn't been use at all. My mom isnt on any form of birth control, no pill, no shot, no thing you put inside nothing. Theres also no other signs of protection. My mom is into natural ways of doing things I'm thinking maybe because she's 43 about to be 44 she's doing pullout method when she thinks she isnt ovulationing. She has a belly button hernia, she didn't have sex for almost 5yrs do you think she'll take that risk again?

I can't wait until I turn 22 so that I can move out of my mom's house and not hear her mouth anymore

I never been insecure about my height until now.. My step mom every time I'm over there compares my height to my sister. She always says I stopped growing and that my sister will be taller and always jokes to my cousin that they'll be taller than me next year. It honestly is starting to piss me off.. and she always talks about how my sister doctor said she'll be 6 ft I'm 15 and about 5'3? Or almost there. My mom is 5'0 and dad is 6'2. My sister is 11 and 4'11 and my step mom is 5'2 and my sister and I have the same dad. I don't think I stopped growing?

My mother has no full siblings. Her father had kids with a diff. Woman, her mother had kids with a diff. Dad. She was the only one from her mom and dad, SO how related am i to her half siblings?

I am currently in my first year of college, studying psychology. I haven't had a job since I was 16 at a pizza shop, and I quit that one because it was awful and gave me anxiety. I'm about to be on Christmas break and off school for a month, and my parents are trying to convince me to get a job. They think it's ridiculous that I'm unemployed and not making my own money. They know about my anxiety and depression issues and how hard it is for me. Also, is it really that ridiculous for an 18 year old student to be unemployed? I live at home and commute to my college, so I help out around the house, do lots of errands for my parents, take care of my dogs, and not to mention I'm usually busy with school. I just want a break from school without having to stress about a job..ugh. Is it really that bad to be unemployed at a young age??

Hello Readers, So i have a family that lie alot and also talk behind my back... I dont live with them anymore since i live now with my girlfriend. They really did not accept my girlfriend at first but i pushed through it. I dont know what to do since i really hate that i feel like they backstab me or worse put a tracker on my car or a microphone in my house which they did on my little sister... anyone has been in the same situation?

Laterally my older sister who is 17 drives us all around what can I do to get them to get there mf **** together

I'm 25 y/o still living with my family which I haven't gotten along with ever since my little sister became a teenager in 2012, started becoming disrespectful and much more. My mother, you cant barley talk to her wihout it becoming a big thing and my father is a drunk basically. So yeah should I just leave? I hate the energy in this house esp from my sisters side.

My mother won't tell me who my father is. I know his first name is James, and they met in a town of 2500 people. All I know is his family owned a farm. Does anyone have any ideas? I'm 21 and my father isn't listed.

I regret masturbating thinking of my older sibling so much. This was 2 years ago and i feel horrible about it. You dont understand how disgusted i am with myself cause me and my siblings are really close now. So it makes me sick that i chose to do an action like that. I feel like a disgusting human being. Please help me!

My mother and I have never been close. My dad and I don't talk and I only talk to my mom when it is necessary. So it has basically it has been my sister and me for as long as I can remember. As I said, we have never been close, but we have always respected each other, but recently it hasn't been that way. It is clear she favors my sister over me. I have had mental health issues over the past two and she just tells to get over it. We can not go anywhere without getting into a fight. I was harassed by a 30 year old man the other day and she basically told me it was my fault. I know some people have it worse that me, but I honestly don't think I can put up with her for much longer.

I'm a 17 year old, ever since my step mom moved my step brother makes a HUGE ruckus, putting the volume on the tv so loud at night I could hear it from my room making me feel anxious as it's violent shows, and not letting me sleep. My step mother she yells of the top of her lungs when talking over the phone I could even hear it from outside, and it makes me anxious but ever since my SAT and testing is coming up I got so overwhelmed I shaved off all my hair out of anger my father extremely angry and ignored me for 1 whole week but as soon as I yelled at my brother to shut up he's got angry at me and said I was fine in the house, I responded that he ignored me and he of course responded "well you made me feel like I'm nobody", I got angry as he has always made me feel like I was no body growing up, and even used me to attempt to fix his second failing marriage by sending me to his ex wife forgien country to spend the whole summer month there, even though I begged Him to let me go with my grandparents. Maybe I'm selfish or whatever but I've stopped trying to talk to him about how I feel, as he never wants to listen or makes it about himself. I want to leave but I'm not sure how since he never took me to get my license and lost my car keys, and discourages me from leaving the house once I turn 18.

I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years and his mom and sister came to live with us due to some occurences. They wont move out till maybe march of next year but im just about ready to go off on his 16 year old sister. When i first met her 2 years ago we were friends and got along in the beginning. She stopped talking to me 2 years ago b/c i told her shes not the princess in this house because she left a mess in the kitchen but i was only kidding b/c i thought we had developed a friendship where we could joke around. She apologized 6 months later and She did that again about 3x now in 2 years & now we dont even speak at all. Shes a spoiled bratty teenager who would only talk to her brother if she wants something out of him like a ride somewhere or any other favor. Thats the only way she is nice or talks to her brother She has a huge attitude and always talks back to her brother. She wont clean up her mess when she cooks or does any cleaning unless her mom tells her to do it. This is the 1sttime she and my bf live together since she was a kid so they sometimes get along. Ive talked to her mom and she says she tells her to be more clean but in the end everything is always the same. **CONTINUES ON COMMENTS** since letters are limited.

My sister bought these small toy tables and this kitchen for her homework. My little brother who is 5 wanted to play with them so my sister let him then my mom and dad sees and their like "no, these toys are for girls" then I said "how are they for for girls there's a whole picture of a little boy playing with them in the package the toys came in" then they started yelling at me and scolding me saying "you're giving him a bad idea, what if he turns out gay." I'm honestly so pissed off, my big sister is a lesbian, how are they going to react to that?! How is being gay a bad thing? What if my little brother does turn out to be like that? What are they going to do about it? I'm just so sad and pissed right now... I don't even want to talk to them at all.

Talking to my dad and he was talking about how he was there talking to his mom and dad and how his brother left to go somewhere and if he wasn't back by 11 he was gonna lock him out. Problem is all of these people have passed away. He's 68 years old and has never done this before. He said he was sitting there and had been talking to them for a while and they were sitting there with him. What do I do for him? My friend says that means there calling him home but I'm not to sure about that.

My mother & I just got into a huge fight because I lost my job due to problems that I have been having with my car .. for the past couple of months she has been on my case over just about everything I do .. she has been threatening to throw me out of the house since October .. & now that I lost my job I know she is going too .. she's also threatened to take my car .. or cut my car wires so I will no longer be able to drive it .. now I just lost my job a week & a half ago .. & I already have had an interview last Thursday & I go in for my second interview this Thursday .. so it's not like I'm not trying to get another job .. the car however is in my name & I have been paying for it since I got it .. she is just the co signer .. she has threatened that if I was to leave & take my car she will call the cops & report it stolen .. I also have a dog that she has threatened to take from me .. basically if I leave she's going to make sure my life is a living hell & pull every string she can to make sure I don't achieve any kind of blessing that happens in my life just for the simple fact that I lost my job & she wants me to suffer in the most terrible way possible .. it's not like I intentionally tried to lose my job .. I just been having issues with my car battery a lot which has affected my job & it didn't help I worked at Walmart which they run on a point system for attendance .. I would leave but I'm scared she will follow me cause she stalks everything I do .. to be continued