Ian: One day he'd seen an old school friend (Melissa) of his at a grocery store and he wanted to catch up with her, unfortunately Melissa told Ian she was in a hurry and didn't have time to catch up, she was also being a bit snobby towards him as well. Unfortunately Ian took Melissa shunning him the wrong way to where he calls up his closest friend Thomas (who has a learning disability) and yells and screams a bunch of obscenities at him, Ian also tells Thomas he should be a multi millionaire just for even tolerating him and being nice to him which caused Thomas's feelings to be hurt and he started crying because Ian was the only close friend Thomas ever had, Ian also imitates what a total retard Thomas is and again Thomas's feelings was hurt. Then later that night Ian apologizes to Melissa for what happened at the grocery store, he also asks Melissa if there was something he can do to be a better friend for her and for others in hopes of getting people to stop treating him like a lesser person, he also tells Melissa that he would like to treat her and her closest friend Alexis out for dinner as an apology for not being up to the high standards of their other friends, unfortunately they both rejected his offer. The next day Ian apologizes to Thomas for going off on him, he later admits he was upset with Melissa for shunning him and was hurt over the fact that Melissa appears to be treating him like a lesser person, Ian also tells Thomas that he's an amazing friend to have. Thomas told Ian he was hurt with the way he treated him but he does accept his apology because Thomas sees Ian as a wonderful person who means well, Thomas also told Ian that he thinks that Melissa & Alexis are a bunch of good for nothing snobs who are only popular because of their wealth and status.

My name is Adrian, and ive known this girl from work for a frw months now. We have the same shift only Mondays and Tuesdays, we always talk when we see each other. Sometimes at work she looks upset by i always make her laugh and smile. But I doo notice she is always staring at me, We make eye contact alot throught the day. sometimes i have to go to a different room to look for documents, but she always goes into that room that the same time and she pretends she's looking for papers but she just stares at me. (She tries not to make it obvious) shes 35 years old married, and im only 23. Why does she act this way with me if shes married????????

I was just curious about this concept. My ex bf and I broke up because arguing and tough situations with his family and health situations where we argued and broke up and he was hurt that I left and took me back a couple times and wouldn't later because I hurt him by leaving him during tough times. So but when we see eachother at church he's a deacon there on stage he constantly stares at me, fidgets, leaves through my exit on purpose and says hi. I tried saying let's meet after I hadn't seen him for a while at church he said "it won't work today and that he had to take his dad to alteration etc" I didn't ask for another day and he didn't offer, could it be that he wants to as well but didn't say so because he's hurt? Does he sound interested? Is it possible for him to still have feelings since he's acting the way he is but not make a move?

I feel like most of my friends have betrayed my trust and that they are only there because they want something or I am some secondary choice of a friend. I feel like I am a thing and not a person. I feel no one cares about me including my family. I feel like the only solution is to not bother with having any friends at all. I have trouble making friends and notice that so many people hate me for no apparent reason. I feel so left out and lonely but I feel like the only way to cope is to become callous to my own feelings. I will just settle for being alone and having at this point since I am an introvert. I honestly don't know what else to do?

I have a very small friendship group consisting of three friends in school and 2 out of school (one of those two lives halfway across the country) but this past weekend one of my two outside of school friends got mad at me and declared we were no longer friends and the other went back home to the midwest so i was already upset but then my three friends from school are having a NYE party and I was not invited and this really hurt my feelings. I feel terrible for being so sad about it but I can t tell if it is ok that I am sad or am I just being jealous and rude?

No one in my family wants anything to do with me, nor does anyone outside of my family. No one messages me, no one would miss me if I died, I'm better off not being alive, new year, same sh*t.

My friend is having a New Year s Eve sleepover tonight. I m really nervous because 1. I haven t been to a sleepover in at least 2 years and 2. There are going to be people that I don t know there, and I have really bad social anxiety. I ve been really nervous about this since yesterday, and I just wanna stop panicing and have fun. How can I get rid of this anxiety I m having?

i have a really strict mom and she never lets me do anything fun. this is the first year i got invited to a party for new years. i told my mom i was going to help my friend babysit but i'm actually going to stay with my boyfriend at his friends house and we're going to a party. when i asked her if i could go babysit her first reaction was "are u sure you're going to babysit and there's not a party going on?" i said no and she said she trusts me but that still put me on edge. my only concern is that my mom will try to call me or facetime me and i won't be with kids or the friend i said i would be with. what should i do if she calls me? i'm just super paranoid i will get caught. i've never lied like this before. i'm always a person that follows the rules. does anyone have any advice?

Just what actions should be taken, and what should happen to this party?

My friend I've known since high school is now 20. He met this girl about 2 months ago. At first I didn't mind giving him a ride but then he started taking my kindness for weakness and everyday hitting me up for rides and I knew That's what it was before I even read the text. Well I stopped giving him as many rides because I told him he needs to get a job so he can buy a car himself. And with that he found some jobs and got the interviews. Ask me to take him which I would because it's a job but then he would sit at her apartment instead of going to training. And at this point I thinks he just stopped all together. I told him if he doesn't have a way to support himself he shouldn't date her I say that because she's in school and has an apartment on campus while he needs rides to go over there. Then a ride to go home to try to ask his mom for money and that little she gives him he spends on weed. Now she's just found out she's pregnant Christmas and he still in my opinion bumming. Like he doesn't understand what's about to take place. He can't afford to even get a decent ride somewhere let alone whose taking her to appointments and stuff. I don't think I should support him anymore because he needs to learn but is it the wrong thing to do? Or should I continue to support him and just turn a blind eye to his laziness? We've been friends 6-7 years so I'm not just gonna abandon him but I can't watch his kid have a bum father like my dad and grandfather

I've been a loner now for 2 years. I still go out to bars and see live music and a game on tv. I still try to do social things but I just don't have many friends anymore. I was a really social guy when I was younger. I've seen so many of my old friends do some bad things to eachother. It wasn't only me. I've seen friends sleep with there girlfriend behind there back. They have been friends for years and they do that. Or friends just gossip on eachother. I now keep to myself and I enjoy it. I still try to get out there and date some women and I would be cool with there friends. I just find it hard to make friends when you get older. I'm in my 30's and all I do is work, go to the gym, go out to bars and have a good time. I know you won't make friends at a bar but I still need to get out.

We're all 20 and we made plans to spend the night out since one of us want to spend New Years home. Someone said they had to celebrate at home so now the other 3 people seem that we can't go at all, reason being "it wouldn't be the same". We were super excited and spent hours last night coming up with plans, and now they don't want to go because one person is out. The person who cancelled insists that we still go out, but no one wants to now. Is this some unspoken rule between friends that it's either all or none? One person said that tonight's a bust, but it's really only a bust if let all our planning go to waste. I don't know how long all of us will remain friends, so tonight was important for me that we went.

When I was 16-18 years I smoked marijuana which brought about a nihilist way of thinking.Only to find out now at 23 that the 'friends' I hung out with were logging onto my facebook making people think I was gay,this includes family,friends and some random people. Now most places I go people make fun of me.This includes school and work. What to do?

So hey, There's this party I've been invited to by my boyfriend. A lot of his friends will be coming but there won't be anyone I know except for him and 2 of his classmates (but we aren't really friends). Im not even certain if there will be any girls at the party. Anyways, I haven't really drink before and I'm not really a party animal but I'm pretty chill and easy to talk to. Problem is, his circle of friends is really different than mine and I'm pretty sure they're all going to get wasted. I also want to have fun but don't want to do anything that I'd regret later. I'm also kinda nervous about meeting his friends and I'm not entirely sure what I'm supposed to do so it won't get awkward. Any tips? (On mostly drinking ans getting along.) Would help a lot.

Hello everybody! I am an Italian girl and I want to make new friends from all over the world! I am a medical student and my interests are art, drawing, music... everything a typical girl would like. I can speak Italian (of course), English and a bit Spanish and French. I could learn other languages, so feel free to contact me in your mother tongue, we'll find a way to communicate. You can find me on Facebook (so we can chat using messenger), just type Sertana Spakle, or you can send an email to Sertanasparkle@yahoo.com. I hope I will improve my language skills through chatting, I think it will be useful, won't it?

Look you know we're friends and we are cool at the end of the day. what that mean 'we are cool at the end of the day'

I've been done wrong by so many people throughout my life, cold hearts are the majority. Right now I'm constantly around people and they don't treat me kindly. They put me down, exclude me; make me unhappy. In order to feel happy, I gotta go to my happy place and only take with me what makes me happy. I want friends and someone to love now, but maybe after some time away from people I'll grow to not want those things anymore.

If I text her, it normally takes several days until she gets back to me and sometimes I don't ever hear back. I know this about her and have known it about her for all our friendship. We are both seniors in college. She's my best friend & when we do get together it's like no time has passed. However, the communication thing does upset me, especially recently. We had talked about doing something together for New Years Eve and over the course of half a month I've sent her 4 different texts. Only one was about NYE plans, the others were asking about her and her mom (her mom was in the hospital for a day) or just saying that I hoped she was doing well. I received a response to one and she said she wanted to talk on the phone that evening. I texted her that evening so we could call and never heard back. I finally hear back tonight and she already has New Years plans, but ended up inviting me to come (I've already made other plans at this point). I feel like I'm not allowed to be upset because I know she's just a bad texter. However, I'm honestly hurt that she made plans with her other bff (meaning she was texting with her while ignoring mine) and didn't care to let me know anything until the last minute, especially after saying we could maybe do something together for NYE. Is it worth telling her this upset me/is it on me for being hurt? I just feel like if you care about someone you'd think about them and respect them enough to text them back.

A lot of my friends have been trying to make plans with me and i always make up excuses not to, or they'll text me and i ignore them. Im isolating myself from my friends and i hate myself for it because it's making them unhappy and its making me unhappy too. They are all really good friends but i just dont ever want to talk to them anymore and i dont know why and it just makes me feel really shitty and bad :(

I have this bully and he thinks that he is more good-looking than everyone around him. He also lied about going to travel to Germany and he doesn't show me the flight paper he said flight been cancel because of wild fire when I search online there wasn't wild fire he lied to all of us. He calls all of his "friends" ugly. He also thinks that he is smarter than everyone, meanwhile he is basically failing every class in school and he is 21 years old get disability welfare and he doesn't work and his not in college and he use to skip school in high school he was in a disability mental class..He tries lying about his grades. He also always needs to be in the center of attention, I really dislike him and so do all of his other friends. He judges all my other friends and people about them looking ugly he also Called me ugly and is hurtful since I'm a Asian guy he is like Mexican. He never said any guys handsome he judge people sayin how does that guy get a pretty girlfriend his ugly is not suitable for him to have a gf. He also say that I'm too ugly to be dating girls. He also gets mad very easily and he can't work because he have a high temper issue. He shoplift in the store too and he never get caught and he swear racist name at me all the time.

Each of my 2 siblings are in a relationship & they have each invited their (s.o.) significant other over our house for New Years. Being the only single sibling, this makes me a bit uncomfortable. I don't mind if we all talk & celebrate together but whenever they invite their s.o., it's like no one else exists. My cousins are coming over as well but they are much younger than I am so we play video games sometimes or just hangout. My parents as well as my cousins will certainly point it out more (by seeing my siblings) on why aren't I in a relationship yet in a negative way as they have done before. I want to spend New Years with my family but what's the point if they will point it out & ruin my day anyway, although idc that I'm single. As for my friend, I'm a bit mad at her because of what she did and yeah. She has apologized & has invited me over her place. She lives with a few roommates but I don't think she socializes with them much from what I've seen when I was over. I haven't met them so yeah. Any suggestions are welcomed, thank you. Any remark is unnecessary but even if they don't point it out, you can just feel a bit of judgment I suppose. It just makes that feeling linger for the day. I certainly don't think being single is bad at all.

Everyone knows the mile high club and how you and partner can get jiggy in the sky. Is there a club where you can flip the bills, make it rain on an attendant and she becomes the partner? All things legal above 20000?

I work in an office with 9 other women. We are all either single or divorced. The company installed a new computer system and had an employee, Bob from another department train us to use the new computer system. Bob is about 28, single, and a GREAT looking guy. Doing what we women do naturally, we tried to flirt with Bob. He ignored us all and just did his job of training us. He was friendly but would not talk to us about anything that was not related to work. When we asked him why he would not talk to us about anything personal, he told us that our boss Alan had told him not to. He said Alan had told him "I have a group of beautiful women working for me and it is my moral and legal obligation to them that there be no sexual harassment OF ANY KIND in the office". "I know how hard it is not to talk to them about subjects other than work, but please be careful. Please don't get me in trouble with the women. They are all great people and valuable members of my staff". What is your opinion of why Alan told Bob not to flirt with us? Does I seem fair to you?

My friend and I are both vegan. I was telling her today about how I'm vegan, because she didn't know I was vegan. She told me that I'm not a vegan just because I eat meat. That ***** is so wrong. I can still eat meat and be a vegan. What's stopping me? She's just trying to act like an entitled ***** and act like she's better than me just because she doesn't eat meat so it makes her less cruel to animals or some ****. You can still eat meat and be vegan as long as you drink vegan milkshakes, right???