Can someone explain this quote to me, it isn't making sense. I usually understand these type of quotes " when you fall in love with someone you aren't interested in anyone else. If you are, you aren't in love."

Daniel and Michelle

So the guy I have a crush on was very tired and sat on the floor cause there were no chairs. After a while I gave him a hand to help him stand up. What did he do? He grabbed my hand and pushed me down til I tripped on him and on top of him. I am strong but he's a guy, and he's really tall, so I lost my balance. I was red and ashamed and taken by surpise, I got mad and tried to get up as fast as I could but he still had his grip on me and said he wouldnt let me go. Our friends were laughing and making jokes about us but he was serious instead. He didnt want to let my arms although I fought with all my strength. He basically forced me to stay on him like a child with his mom and he stared into my eyes with a quiet expressin without saying a word. After a few seconds he suddendly let me go and I was so upset I couldn't even react or look at him. I just couldn't recognize how a guy who is always so controlled and serious could behave like this. But why did he do that? He apologized the following day when we met, saying he didn't mean to embarass but that he couldn't help but did what he felt like to. So it was not supposed to be a joke, since he didn't even laugh.

I'm an adult now graduated from hs but when I was in 9th grade. I looked old for my age at least 18 was 6' had a deep voice. There were these two older girls I stared talking to one of them then the second one started talking to me. they'd flirt with me and shower me with attention and fuss over me compliment me a lot find any excuse to be around me or talk to me. Like hey you can sit with us walk with us. They'd both laugh at stuff I say smile in a flirtatious way and make eye contact. Both get giggly with me and laugh at stuff I said to each other. One would get red and smile while staring into space. One of them would tease me playfully. I'd do bad stuff and they'd just smile or laugh giggle and say my name in a warm tone or say "you've been so inn appropriate recently". Theyd defend me and I could get away with anything with them and thought the world of me. They had the halo affect with me. They'd take selfies with me. One offered me a ride when it's unnecessary. Well I feel like I'll never forget them and love them and think they're the sweetest girls I've ever met and one day want a wife like them. I think they'll always take a special place in my heart. I just think that any boyfriends they'll have or husbands they marry will be lucky men. I just wish I had them again. They are the best girls I met in my life but they're gone. I had a dream about them and woke up feeling sad. They're the biggest sweethearts I've ever met. They made me so happy gave me butterflies.

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I turned 27 years old in September. I now have come to the terms that I've wasted my 20s. At 20, I resolved to make my 20s the best years of my life because I knew that they're "the defining decade". Unfortunately, that didn't turn out so well. I went to an all boy's high school so I didn't develop the skills with women. I missed out on a study abroad opportunity at 20 because I had no money. I didn't start working out until 21. I wasn't the guy the girls chased after in college because I wasn't dominant or confident enough. I graduated at 21, didn't start working until shortly after 23 due to life circumstances (ill health and inability to find a job). It was at a startup and they didn't appreciate me. That job wasn't that great so I jumped ship to a full-time gig a few months before 24. I worked for 2 years, got laid off at 25, attempted to start my own business. Moved back home with my parents. The business failed and I'm back working for another company at 27. In between, I have been sexually deprived (still a virgin), haven't really traveled anywhere, and I still feel like I'm massively behind my friends. I'm at the stage where I should be thinking about getting married or settling down but I haven't even begun yet. I missed out on a whole stage of my life and I feel like my development is stunted. What can I do these next 3 years to make up for the damage of a lost decade?