Edit an introverted weight lifter at 32 at the time, 37 now, and never had a girlfriend in my life due to self esteem issues that rises when I was a young kid coming from people in general or parents teasing me. So in that regard I never ever really tried to get a girlfriend and just stayed to myself. Of course many girls I came into contact with who were flirty were just bullying me. Truth. I'm still into girls 18-20 something. I've seen this one girl in the gym when I first switched clubs. She is always training with her friend. They are eye candy for sure. Every guy in the gym would talk to her and she be surrounded by sharks lol. Noticed the one girl very innocently and maybe even got caught. Therefore, I usually keep my distance. One day I was stretching and she all giggly asked me if I left a water bottle by the machine. It was obvious it was hers. I just shook my head and continued to stretch. Moments later I went to get some water at the fountain and she was standing behind me waiting for her turn. I simply walked past her like she wasn't born. The next day I'm walking into the building and she walking to her car. I can feel a strange invisible sense of awkwardness. In the corner of my eye I could tell she looked annoyed. Why? It's been a couple years and I stil see her in there time to time. She was sitting doing arm curls and I walk by to go to a station. In the corner of my eye I could see she made a sharp turn with her head in my direction. Why????? When I saw her a few months ago, I was walking by and she finished a set of curls or something and she was just kinda looked up toward me. I felt like this girl thinks i am creepy so I kept looking at the damm floor lol

so i got a girlfriend but shes really mean to me how to i make her go away i do not like her

I'm 13 and she's 17. Today she told me I was cute and she wanted to sit on my face. What does it mean and what to do? People were laughing but I didnt get the joke.

I have liked him for so long but then I just be like "ehhh". I'm on his Snapchat stories and see how he has been since the last year since he moved out of town. I just feel so lonely but I've noticed my grades have improved. He's seldom on my mind, but I take some time out of the day to wonder and that's because I often worry how he might not be there all the time or some girl will date him. I don't mind that, but I'm going to be without a crush and it happened, I had no crush, still have yet to develop a new one. I just notice my crush in everyone at my high school. It's their features and everything and how they walk/their personality. I don't know if I want to move on. I keep thinking about his school bus number and that bus is on my mind, too, because it's the one of the only things that remind me of him since he went on that bus 2 years ago. Despite me wanting to stalk that bus, I thought of my crush since Idk .. 5 years? I just think about his bus at his new town & wonder which one can take me to where he is. Sounds creepy & weird, I know but I can't seem to stop it. The bus here at my town is only memories and once I tried kissing it and tried resting my hand when it was close enough to me. I'll see it in the summer, I hope, so I can possibly ride it? I might take summer classes for advanced program and I need to see that schoolbus!!! IGNORE MY QUESTION. I'm not seeing my crush! EVER! Never nope, noooo. I meant that WhY IS THERE SOMETHING HOlding me Back Into LiKing Him and WantiNg to see His SchoOl BuS

Someone told me they don't entertain negative issues

A lot of people are having sex and they are saying its fun in high school, but if i have a lot of sex before marriage will i regret it and will i feel guilty?

My friend told me not text my crush my location while her and I hang out cause last time I told him where I was when I was hanging out with her he shown up where we were. I told my crush what restaurant I was going to with my friends and I had NO idea he was going to be there. He surprised me. My friends were talking so much crap about him, made fun of his hair color, made fun of his clothes, threatening to hit him, threatening to beat him up, told me not talk to him, text him anymore, message him on Facebook. I told my friend she or anyone can't tell me who I can or cannot talk/text with and she told me not text my crush my location when her and I hang out. It really made me mad cause I hardly see my crush and seeing my crush really makes me happy. If he's shows up to where I am knowing I would be there I don't care what anyone else thinks, I am going to enjoy seeing him. Cause I hardly ever see him in person. My friends need to accept/respect that. My friend told me my crush seems to put a lot of stress and anxiety in my life which is NOT true. Yes he has done stuff to piss me off and put a little stress on my body but so does my mother but that doesn't mean I shouldn't be around my mother

I'm 19 and female and have been in one relationship before which lasted almost a year. I was the one who ended it as the guy wasn't right for me however soon after he kept on begging me back but then eventually he got the message and stopped. I've been on several dates with people I met online however I seem to entice all these men and they are eager to kiss me or ask for a second date but I never want to pursue it further as for me the chemistry is never usually there. I feel kinda guilty being the one who has to turn down their offers however I'd rather be with someone I'm actually into but yet to find that person. This doesn't make me a bad person right?

I was sitting down and this girl was walking by to where I was, her friend or whatever was by her but she stopped, turned around and lifting the back of her shirt, in my opinion it was obvious she was trying to show her butt or something, because if you really going to itch your back you can scratch through the shirt😂😂 she bent over to pick up a weight as well. It'd be different if she just didn't turn around where her butt was facing me, and if she was more than 5 feet away but she was within 2 1/2 away. Why do you girls do that? Serious question I mean cmon.

So one of them asked out the other. The other guy stood there for a solid minute, mouth opsn in surprise. The first guy got scared and literally bolted. Everytime theyre in the same hallway I can feel the anxiety. Neither will approch the other because both are too nervous. And here I am, with both of them crying to me at night. How can i help them out???

correction : men and women

I was having coffee with a friend at school and I mentioned about a newly opened restaurant near our school campus and she seemed to be curious and excited for. So I suggested "Let's go when you're not busy" and she said "Okay but seem busier than me, so when you're not busy" Is her response negative? We've hung out before several times. I treated her out before, she treated me out before too but we're not in the same classes anymore so she feels out of reach and I'm afraid to ask.

I've been together with my boyfriend for 4 and half years. I've been with him since he was 17 and now he's almost 22. So as you can imagine I've been with him as he's been growing up so he's made a lot of mistakes. To sum it up, he's made me very insecure, have trust issues, make my anxiety horrible, make me scared to talk about my feelings, cried myself to sleep more times than I can count, lied to me so many times, and he has cheated on me a couple of times. He has literally broken me as a person has truly broken my heart about 4 times but he always comes back to me. This past summer I thought we were done for good and it's made me realize a lot and I just don't rely on him so much like I did. I'm not as attached to him. For whatever reason I decided to give him another chance and he really has changed. And I can see a huge difference how he is now vs how he's been our entire relationship. But there's some days I'll question it and I feel like he's done too much damage to me for me to really do this relationship again. I'll bring up stuff from that past that he has done to me to talk about it and he just gets upset at me and says I'm making him feel bad for his own actions. And yeah idk if I can try again and save this relationship but I don't want to hurt him and leave. Advice?

I'm a high school sophomore, theres this girl that I really like and we've talked a few times but we don't really have any classes together. I started feeling this strongly about her during special Olympics (we both volunteered and were put in the same group,) don't as me why I feel this way because I don't know but I'm a painfully shy person, but people seem to like me once we manage to get passed the akward stage. I'm not sure what to do but any help would be really appreciated, Thanks.

Basically it's not texting you ex for about 30 days. What does it do to guys? I wonder if this will work on my ex because he broke up with me because I wasn't overly jealous but he still thinks i'm pretty and everything. We also text like everyday but he's doesn't really engage in the convo. When i don't text him for about a day he texts "How are you?"or "What's wrong?" Will the no contact rule work? And what does this do for a guy.

Just a little backstory, my friend, who is a girl, has been dating her boyfriend for a little over a year and they've basically both cheated on each other with other people. As of lately, I've been becoming better friends with her boyfriend since he used to not like me as much, probably because he thought I liked his girlfriend/my friend. It wasn't until these past couple of weeks that he's been flirting with me a bit (I'm gay by the way, but I'm not sure if he knows fully). So I decided to take my chance, because he is HOT, and I snapped him a couple of nudes from a different Snapchat that isn't mine. And of course, he liked the booty pics and sent back a pic (which was beyond HOTTT). However, he didn't even know it was a guy snapping him until I told him (But I kind of made it known I was a guy). After this, he was sending mixed signals about whether or not he would do something with a guy. Eventually, I revealed my identity and it kind of got awkward because I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm gonna tell his girlfriend, which I would never do and don't want him to do. I mean I'm still interested in hooking up but don't know how to drop that hint. So how should I hint at it? Also what should I do if he acts weird around me at school? Ignore it? Any other tips on this whole mess?

He gets mad if I say I can't so sometimes I am forced to hang out with him when i rather be at home and just chill.. We hang out every weekend and we even hang out everyday.. I want a break and hang out with my other friends but he will always ask ahead or tell me to cancel so i can hang out with him.. so i dont know.. I told him we can hang out this weekend but i dont want to.. if i say i cant he will get mad again and will probably never hang out with me again.. i still want to be friends but i dont want to hang out so often.. i tried to tell him i have to do hw, i am tired, i dont feel good, im busy but he gets so salty about my excuses and gets so mad and doesnt talk to me and then suddenly he asks to hang out.. it is so weird.. it kinda stresses me out.. i try to ignore his texts when he does get mad but he keeps texting again and again to show his frustration and create an arguement and he thinks it is funny to make people mad.. and yeah i can stop being his friend but we are in all the same classes.. i see him everyday.. we already know so much about each other and it is really awkward to just avoid and ignore after all the memories we created so i think the best way is to just somehow let him know but he wont listen to what i say and only talks and thinks about himself.. when im sick, he does not care, he just tells me im a bi"ch for not being able to hang out and that i have to hang out with him the next day.. sometimes i say i cant or dont want to go and he will ask again the next day.. and again and again and again.. im starting to think there is something wrong with him? but he seems normal and he has a lot of friends.. maybe he is using me? i really do not like making people mad.. but.. do i just go ahead and make him mad and say what i think instead of just ignoring and avoiding this problem? it is not like i cancel our plans.. he tells me "lets go here at 5pm" and then it is like im forced to go.. i tell him where i want to go but we dont because he doesnt want to.. i feel like his dog that follow him around so he is not alone.. sometimes he makes me pay for food, uber.. and does not pay back until i request him or he pays less.. he sometimes makes last minute plans and i do not like that also.. he is 22.. im 19.. why can't he be a little bit more caring as someone who is few years older and not act like a 10 year old who gets mad about this? and the problem is, im a very nice? sensitive? person.. i dont want to hurt anyone's feelings and i dont want to hurt our friendship..

My friend told me not text my crush my location while her and I hang out cause last time I told him where I was when I was hanging out with her he shown up where we were. I told my crush what restaurant I was going to with my friends and I had NO idea he was going to be there. He surprised me. My friends were talking so much crap about him, made fun of his hair color, made fun of his clothes, threatening to hit him, threatening to beat him up, told me not talk to him, text him anymore, message him on Facebook. I told my friend she or anyone can't tell me who I can or cannot talk/text with and she told me not text my crush my location when her and I hang out. It really made me mad cause I hardly see my crush and seeing my crush really makes me happy. If he's shows up to where I am knowing I would be there I don't care what anyone else thinks, I am going to enjoy seeing him. Cause I hardly ever see him in person. My friends need to accept/respect that. My friend told me my crush seems to put a lot of stress and anxiety in my life which is NOT true. Yes he has done stuff to piss me off and put a little stress on my body but so does my mother but that doesn't mean I shouldn't be around my mother

Hi there.. So I ve had sex with both men and woman in the pass.. No matter how ugly a man is, I can still able to get an erection.. However, for woman.... She has to be attractive to get me turned on.. I personally don t find men attractive maybe only the older types with silver fox hair.. For women, she has to be a dime piece for me to stay hard..

so i texted the guy i like that i like him more than a friend and that its probably not going to be mutual and that i was probably going to regret saying this. and than he texted me back "i think you're really cool to though and i like talking to you you make me laugh all the time" what does this meannnn. like i wasn't rejected but he didn't fully say he liked me back im so confused

If my "date" doesn't like me receiving texts from other guys and makes a big deal about it, is he trying to control who I talk to/associate with (potentially even family/friends later on?) or is he right feel that way because he sees other men as a challenge/competition? He's not my BF yet. Will this trait/attribute/behavior gets worse if we become a couple? Does that mean he is insecure, dependent, manipulative and selfish, who wants to own me and for me to become his whole world?

Hello I'm a freshman in college, and I need help gaining confidence. I have a crush on this hot girl, but I do not have any confidence when talking to girls in general. I also don't know how to start a conversation with this girl. I still have never talked to her, but she is my crush is that weird?

I have been hanging out with an older woman I've known her since I was a kid she's 47 and Invited me to her place on the weekend I'm 33 and really want to be her boyfriend or am I already her boyfriend because we kissed twice only a peck on the lips just that a part of me wants her not just for sex but to love her and have her comfort me she loves stroking my hair and cuddling me plus all my other relationships have failed and we both have kids from our previous relationships just hope I can be right.

She's 21, I'm 25, we use to work together. We mostly kept in touch online since she found a different job. I have a crush on her but she just got out of a long term relationship of two years. I texted her asking if she would go with me to see this movie she wanted to see, and she said shed love to! She said she very excited can't wait to Catch up. I'm paying for tickets, she's paying snacks. The past months we've talked about personal things with each other. We're both lonely and she said if I ever want to hang out or grab dinner let her know. I'm excited for this movie thing but is it a date? Do you have to specify it's a date or does it become one? I've never had a girlfriend, she's had boyfriends. I texted her this morning wishing her a good first day back to work (she was sick) and she said I was the best and so sweet

I just wish I was shorter

Where do people place their gum when making out? Ive made out with a girl and she was great. The next day i asked her she places it and she said you ll have to find out next time we get hot and heavy. Im just curious do you guys place the gum under the toung? On the side of the cheek? I wanna try it

My friend told me not text my crush my location while her and I hang out cause last time I told him where I was when I was hanging out with her he shown up where we were.

High school date ideas

I'm really, really self-conscious about my height. I'm taller than most of the boys at my school. Does this make me less attractive or look weird? Do you know how I can become shorter?

So I love her but she is so obsessed with animals! I love animals I have a dog and 2 cats! But her entire life is her damn dog or her horse! She talks nonstop ho she loves her animals more then any human including me! Her entire life revolves around them if I'm with her she will talk about her animals nonstop and the only time she stops is when she's talking about her job or when we are having sex! Also she told me she wanted 6 dogs , 4 horses and 5 cats one day and I told her no and she said it's fine! But she says stuff too make me feel guilty about it! Like she will say to people " I almost adopted this dog bu my boyfriend would have been mad at me" so then I'm th bad guy! Tbh I'm really thinking of ending the relationship or I'm close to giving up because I have been avoiding her because if she comes to my house all I will here about are her damn animals and if I go to her house I will have them shoved in my face non stop! Like damn I know they are cute I get it! I love her dog but sometimes I would like to go a minute without him being my main focus

HELP recently a guy broke into my house and he was trying to rape me he hit me and forced me down then he saw my face and called me a ugly fat useless fn cxunt and left I feel so bad even a rapist doesn't think I'm attractive

Like before I do it's quite, they are sleeping, but as soon as I am getting ready or in action someone always starts something.

Okay I was wondering i'm 19 and I invited this guy i've been snapchatting for some time to come to my place and watch a movie or something. It's been a long time since i've met someone but the last 2 times i invited someone to come over to chill and get to know them they kissed me and took it further and i was afraid to say no if they would get mad. I live in a country where there is nothing to do so when people meet they usually just chill at someones place because its always so cold. But when i meet him i will NOT have sex with him but im afraid that he will be like okay bye this was a waste of time?

I appreciate your existence and hope you find happiness.

So this guy told me he didn't think I was interested cause I would never text him first to make plans to hang out. Yesterday I messaged him Me: hey what's up Him: have a friend over you? Me: I'm at a friends house. Could we hang out later Him:we are just having supper if you wanna come over after sure. Me: with the kids or with out and what time (We are both single parents and have met each other's kids) Him : we are done eating now so whenever you are ready. Me:ok I go to his house and see he has lots of company I text him "are you busy" Him: what do you mean! Me: if you are busy Me : do you still want to hang out? No response since

I was having coffee with a friend at school and I mentioned about a newly opened restaurant near our school campus and she seemed to be curious and excited for. So I suggested "Let's go when you're not busy" and she said "Okay but seem busier than me, so when you're not busy" Is her response negative? We've hung out before several times. I treated her out before, she treated me out before too but we're not in the same classes anymore so she feels out of reach and I'm afraid to ask.

so theres this meme page i follow on instagram and he has like 20k followers and he's pretty cute. like in a ugly cute kind of way idk. but he seems chill but the thing is that a bunch of girls thinks he's cute and sometimes talks about how he wants a gf on story. i sometimes comment on his posts should i even bother dming to him?

We had plans to spend the weekend together. He usually comes over Saturday night when he gets off work. Saturday for late so I called him. He was home and said he was tired so "he won't make it" I told him he could have called when he decided that and let me know. He was silent. I planned all day for him to come and we had plans for the weekend. We got off the phone. Yesterday I called once- he didn't answer. I haven't heard from him today either. We've been dating 8 months and things are usually great: we see each other a lot too. Although he has done this weekend disappearing act, 3 times now. What should I do or think?

The whole table was empty while i was on my break.

My crush sends me alot of signals of liking me by looking at me alot from a far cuz she lives up my street, walking past my house with her friends, taking about me and laughing,my friend told me that she wanted to talk to me badly but when we talked she was quiet and kinda rude she would whisper in her friends ear right in front of me and in middle of convo she kinda just walked away taking to her friend I waved back and said see ya! She did too but looked frustrated for some reason, then her friend told me that she was sorry for being antisocial after I talked with her, after this I haven't seen her and I wanna talk but don't know how if she isn't there, Any Tips?

I'm 21 and I recently got my first boyfriend. I feel comfortable around him and trust him a lot. He's a great guy and seems to really care about me. Recently we talked about sex and I told him when I'm ready we can do it. He agreed and said whenever I feel ready we can. The thing is how do I know if I'm ready? Should I give up my virginity to him? Once if I do and then things end up not working out? Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated!

My girlfriend and I are both 19. We "make love" sometimes but more often than not she wants me to make her gag, choke her, pull her hair, restrain her, hold her down. Sometimes she's really wet/relaxed but other times she's extremely tight and says that she likes it when I hurt her and how it feels like she's being "stabbed". That's usually when she moans the loudest. Her Cousin molested her as a kid and she was fingered against her will. Additionally she told me she went on a first date with a guy when she was 15. He raped her and she said she cried the whole time. She definitely had some problems after this. She was afraid of sex for a while then became hyper sexual and kind of just had sex with whoever would give her a moderate amount of attention. I don't think her requests are all that kinky and I enjoy it but it does confuse me on why she'd Like this. Thoughts?

I was having coffee with a friend at school and I mentioned about a newly opened restaurant near our school campus and she seemed to be curious and excited for. So I suggested "Let's go when you're not busy" and she said "Okay but seem busier than me, so when you're not busy" Is her response negative? We've hung out before several times. I treated her out before, she treated me out before too but we're not in the same classes anymore so she feels out of reach and I'm afraid to ask.