I want to have 18 year old girlfriends when I'm in my 50's. Besides continuing going to the gym and saving money what should I do to accomplish this (I'm 19 right now)

I've been dating this girl for about a year and when we first met on match, she told me that the father of her child is not around. He's actually three states away and moved away when my GF was pregnant, but my girlfriend became best friends with his sister. My girlfriend then became the God Mother of his sister's child even after they split up and I think there's a lot of involvement. They split, because he had another woman pregnant when my girlfriend told him she was pregnant. However, it confuses me as to why she'd accept to be the mother in law of the sister of the man she "hates." I don't like this situation, because I have to be around the child's family more than I need to be. I have to attend birthday parties of family members that I have no ties to. My girlfriend is amazing to me and I love her, but I don't want to be involved with a third family. Should I make her choose between her friendship with her baby dad's sister and me? Even though he's not around, I don't feel like I need to be around his family.

Why are you leaving me hanging like this? :'-(

I'm 22 and this is my firsy relationship. First of all I have to say that I'm a difficult type of girl, I need a lot of affection and attentions, I cant stand fake things, or non genuine feelings. I love with my whole heart. I fell really bad for a 25 years old guy, he's everything I have ever dreamed. At first our relationship was magical, we would live and keep on with stares, grazes of hands, we tried to keep it as a secret cause my dad is a bit old fashioned and never accepted anyone, let alone him. For me it was a bit late falling in love for the first time, but I am really in love. Maybe at first I was infatuated with his looks and his reserved personality, but now something has changed. We got by with walks, stares, even holding hands was too much for me, such an emotion. now we are engaged and we want to marry and everything has changed since we had sex. He wants to do it everyday. I was a virgin so all that for me it's new and complicated. I live with him and he goes to work everyday. When he comes back he always wants to do it. At firat he wasnt like this,he was shy and naive. He has the habit to pin me down and kiss my breasts. Sometimes I feel a bit ashamed because when he does it because I feel inferior because I'm a girl and he's better cause he's a boy. He kisses me and touches me and he's never rough, he never hurt me or made vulgar things he was always sweet, but it's the whole intimacy thing is makig me feel like I'm a b**** although I love him.

Of those types of men who say "I have a beautiful daughter, a weapon and an alibi" are not admired by most women, why do not most women value men like that?

It is incredibly offensive, everyday I have to drive by it and look at it. It is really triggering and I have to cry as I drive after because he takes his cis gender white men privelage like nothing.

Hes married. We are together for nearly 2 years. I asked him if he loves her for first time and that was his response. Then he says I've told u this many times that I'm in this coz of kyle for how much longer I don't know,. if I leave I have nower to go and until I can figure out how and what I'm doing I need to bear with it, life isn't always just fun and games. We share everything together, he says he loves me, but I see that his family is his priority and it hurts me coz I will never have that with him. Can any men please share their thoughts on being married to the mother of is child but being in a relationship with someone else. Have you ever loved the other woman? It's so hard to walk away from this coz he is my world but I feel she is his. He says she isnt and has to do stuff for their son if she asks. I need some sort if understanding. Has anyone else been in this situation?

So he lived with his aunt and I with my parents. He is 3 years older than me and he always took care of me, he would came to pick me up from school, made lunch, help me with the homework and was by my side when my mom had depression and couldn't take care of me. He would take me to the park, teach me to play football and tell me to hold on because life was beautiful. Since then not much has changed: he still helps me and when I hit rock bottom I run to him and he always comforts me. Once we stayed together on his bed and I hugged him. He hugged me too but he sighed, and I bet it was because he knows it's not fair since we're not engaged and friends arent supposed to hug each othet. I want to ask him to be together , I never loved or had thoughts for any other guy in this world except for him. This love has never ended since I first saw him when we were children. But I'm afraid he'll reject me and say he did all that just because he loved me as a sister, not like a girlfriend.

He has this sad, resigned look on his face when he tells me he loves me after an argument, for ex "I wouldn't have done all these things If I never loved you, why dont you understand?". He makes the same face when he kisses me or holds me in his arms, or when he's worried about me, he comes and and touches my hear while looking at me with this longing look. I like it soo much but I never understood why, do all boys have this face or just he because hes the most perfect person in this world? I meant "for example"